| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 113 | Putting down fellow women for male validation | NAH, SIS | miss_throwaway2341 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 28 | These are the men that say we should lower our standards!!! | #JustLVMThings | miss_throwaway2341 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 05:58 PM |
| 18 | LVM WILL RUIN EVERYTHING | FDS MEMES | miss_throwaway2341 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:06 PM |
| 8 | Am I right to ghost a guy for breaking quarantine? | SEEKING ADVICE | miss_throwaway2341 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 09:45 AM |
| 5 | Did I lose a HVM? | SEEKING ADVICE | miss_throwaway2341 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Can a guy be a HVM if he smokes weed? | SEEKING ADVICE | miss_throwaway2341 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:19 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.and our own pleasure and believe it or not, many of us do the “discarding.” We don’t obsess over what someone else is getting or no If you have respect for yourself getting this resentful after 2 men have ghosted you is honestly pickmeisha behavior. At the age of 32 you should know that they probably weren't good for you and you didn't need them in your life. You should know the value you add to someones life and if they simply don't want you. So be it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.I think it is a good strategy to secure a man who has a low sex drive, which is good for you if you are on the same page. I just know I couldn't be with a guy who could go a year without even remotely trying to have sex after a point. Its a fair thing to want but from my experience the point in which you have sex and the quality of relationship has never really correlated. Its really more about how you two are compatible as human beings and when you are super compatible you will also experience … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Best friend is in a toxic relationship.you need to speak with her family about this. Everyone needs to know. The way we got one of my friends out of an abusive relationship is by having an intervention and telling her why he was bad for her. Reminding her that there is actual happiness to be had in a meaningful relationship with someone who will treat her right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Jealousy is a low-value traitthis!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 11 | Would moving in together be a bad idea?I think it can be very detrimental when you move in after 6 months. I would not do it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 09:10 PM |
| 19 | Stop Defending Cardi B and Megan Thee StallionI don't quite agree with everything in this rant. This will encourage pickme behaviour if it is misunderstood. But I think we need to break it down further. As I have understood it a pickmesha is a someone who does something she isnt comfortable with just for male attention. If anything I think this song is far from that mindset as you can get. I see it as a what can you do for me type situation. In some ways I do believe that it does the opposite than perpetuate patriarchy. As it shows that fem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 08:59 PM |
| 18 | ‘Eleven-year-old Amy (..) enthusiastically embrace an increasingly sensual dance routine’- Jeffrey would be so happy... 🤮it is actually disgusting and disapointing that netflix put money into this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Elite vibes 👸this is me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:29 PM |
| 14 | NVM explains how his wife manipulated him into becoming a father, blames in-laws for not raising his child for him and is now ranting about how they ruined his lifeI am going to have to call OP OUT on this one. It has nothing to do with FDS. Its just someone complaining about there life situation. How will this improve my life? Also I am not saying he is not a NVM(we dont know based on post) but the type of NVM I have known would never even consider spending that type of money on their kid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:07 AM |
| 18 | This pickme is traveling across the country for a man and wants to dress so she can get laid. Shes wanted him "forever" and seems like they only met once before. Do NOT chase a man and do not rush into sex! She is lowering the bar for him!the saddest part is that her man is in the military | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:55 AM |
| 44 | They want women with low self-esteem so they can be manipulated easierexaaactly my ex was like this and I was so dumb to hop right into his trap hoping to be the cool girl. He didn't post me on social media. We werent even in a relationship on FB. Anytime I tagged him in something on fb I realised he removed the tag after a week or so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:51 AM |
| 31 | This pickme is traveling across the country for a man and wants to dress so she can get laid. Shes wanted him "forever" and seems like they only met once before. Do NOT chase a man and do not rush into sex! She is lowering the bar for him!I honestly don't like this side of fds. I like the tips and leveling up part but shaming fellow women for their decisions seems very high school mean girl, low self esteem and lv to me. I definetly think you should maybe talk to her about fds though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:49 AM |
| 98 | Do I look like Mary Poppins? Teaching random boys how to do it lmao **not me.**hahah he is going to be looking for a while | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:45 AM |
| 13 | Should I drop him for making this comment on a first date?I actually don't know cause on one end I guess he is just telling you his preference which could be harmless. However there are some men who purposefully will go for women that dont look like that because they seem like better targets for narcissistic abuse. It is really hard to judge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 11:56 PM |
| 41 | My guy friend sent me this, he calls her wifey....just slight pickme energy to get the day started :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 10:12 PM |
| -1 | You like to laugh and eat? What are the odds?! At 40 🤡He seems a bit generic but honestly I usually fall for engineer types. Maybe thats just me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 08:54 AM |
| 10 | Review my strategy?No because you have convinced yourself to let yourself be used by men and their ideas of sex. you have been tricked into thinking this way by society and media. Once you actually start going deep withing yourself and finding out that we as women are meant to protect our bodies from stds, rape, pornsick lvms and save it for the person who is going to treat us as queens. You dont need sex to be happy. You will actually start to be happier within yourself and not end up feeling emotionally drained … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Do HVM actually want different things than LVM?From my experience every guy that I have been with seems to want something different in a woman sexually. For the most part the best sex has actually come from a strong mental connection. Ass and titties have not been part of that equation. You should definitely not want to be with a man who doesn't find you attractive sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 03:13 PM |
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