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missdopamine/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 07:43 PM
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Pour some wine & don’t look back ;) congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:28 AM
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I also hate the whole “happy wife, happy life” saying. It makes it sound as though they’re taking care of some rabid animal, and as soon as it becomes unhappy it will wreck havoc. Why must it even be said? Like yea don’t be an asshole and treat her with respect. But the saying makes it sound like husbands must always be all “yesss honey, of course, anything you say.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:02 PM
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That hurt to read. What an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:39 AM
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It’s maddening! They’re talking to an expert and instead of trying to learn more and deepen their understanding by asking the expert questions, they have the NERVE to try and school the expert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:28 PM
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Yep. I had an ex who loved to school me about random biology factoids he’d learned from his casual perusing of Scientific American. I got annoyed one day and pointed to my PhD diploma on my shelf. I told him, “See that? I have a PhD in this subject, I’m not sure why you’re talking to me like I don’t know anything about this.” The idiot still continued.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:19 PM
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Yea sure I can agree to that, he does inspire men to motivate and take action and improve their lives, sure. His sexism is what drives me crazy. He called FROZEN, a children's movie, "feminist propaganda" WTF? I also hate that he uses his academic position to kind of back up all of him claims as being true. I'm an academic in psychology as well, and I would feel extremely uncomfortable using my platform to propagate messages that "I believe" are true, and expecting people to believe them "becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:12 PM
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Can’t stand him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 07:25 AM
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Yes spot on! I was on vacation with a guy and we wanted to find a cute breakfast spot. I was busy getting ready and we were both starving so I asked him to search for one while I got ready. I found him a few minutes later cluelessly starting at his phone, and told me he didn’t know how. Wtf? I assumed maybe he was just bad at google maps. Nope, a week later, he was hungry and he knew exactly how to find a Burger King and bike to it without any help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:08 AM
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I don’t know why but it annoys me to no end when people say “the wife.” It’s like she’s an object you bought at the store. I feel like husbands who call their wives “the wife” are married to women who call themselves “wifey” on social media. “My wife” just sounds so much better and normal. Edit: for example would people say “the daughter” or “the son”? No that sounds weird as fuck. It’s MY daughter or MY son. UGH. A wife is not an object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:37 AM
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Yep. Once I dated a guy who was into photography and I got excited and told him I was too. My photography is just a hobby but I know I’m good at it. I like to share my photos and I have assembled a nice collection on my instagram over the last 7 years. I asked him if he wanted to see it, and his reply was just a simple, “no.” He never asked me to see my photos. He had fancy cameras, and equipment and big printouts of his photos. Just because I didn’t have the big boy toys, he didn’t even pretend…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:53 AM
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can’t find it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:22 PM
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Yes that’s true. I think her album Red is 100% written by her, no other writers at all. On her most recent album Lover was written only be her, but she has writing credits on all other songs, and their contributions were mostly help with production. If you look up Ed Sheeren’s songs, even HE has a ton of co-writers on his songs! He might arguably have more co-writers than Taylor Swift. Yet no one thinks twice about the fact that Ed Sheeren plays guitar and writes his own music. Sexism is so deep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:59 PM
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It’s sad. If a woman is considered “sexy” the thought of her also being talented in some way is almost seen as offensive. For example, I remember getting into a fight with male self-proclaimed feminists who were bashing Taylor Swift and Iggy Azalea for “not writing their own music”. They both wrote many of their own songs. When do people question male artists? Megan Fox was done dirty, for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 04:43 PM
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Oh my god I just ventured into that subreddit and it’s some of the most depressing stuff I’ve ever read...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:21 PM
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Recent guy I dated claimed he couldn’t figure out where a florist was so he bought me fake plastic flowers....He’s over 30.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 01:46 PM
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Oh yea, I had an ex like this. He wanted to get married and settle down together but I always felt like it was just because he wanted to get married, not necessarily to me, I was just there and fit his mold. He rarely made me feel special or appreciated. He even admitted to not being "in love" with me. Anyway, he got the boot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:19 PM
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Nothing wrong with an heirloom ring. I think it’s sweet. Hey, Kate Middleton wears one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 02:46 PM
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Wow. Yes, fuck that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:53 AM
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I just made a similar collage by spending 10 minutes on the website rubylane.com. They sell antique & vintage jewelry. All these rings are between $600-$1000. No excuse. https://i.imgur.com/P9NUfap_d.jpg?maxwidth=640&shape=thumb&fidelity=medium
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:36 AM
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I’m honestly just shocked that pandora rings can ever be considered engagement rings. No hate on pandora, I wear one of their silver rings on my index finger almost everyday. But as an ENGAGEMENT ring? Um, no. Sometimes my weekly grocery bill is more expensive than one of their rings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 11:18 AM
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Yea, no. I made the mistake of dating a guy because he did the above things. But he was also a broke unemployed pothead. He lovebombed me, but did he genuinely love me or just desperately want a gf? I think the latter. Did he do things to improve my life? No, he just sat around, smoked. complaining about his life, not taking any accountability. I was supposed to be his therapist, and go to work etc. and I was supposed to put up with it because he “listened to me”. Not enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 06:42 PM
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Yes exactly. I regret letting him stay with me but at least I learned a valuable lesson. Nice is not enough. I want someone who I will want to impress and I’ll feel proud to share accomplishments with. Whenever I complained about work stress or whatever he was always supportive and like “I believe in you” and I feel bad saying it but it meant nothing. Like ok this unemployed pothead with zero discipline “believes” in me. Means nothing. What did he add to my life? Nothing. And he wanted me as a t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:50 PM
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I made him pay for his share of groceries when I bought food, but yea he definitely didn’t pay for everything he ate and I did end up buying dinner once cause I wanted a fancy meal (and of he course couldn’t afford it). Huge mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:38 PM
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I screamed when I read Bath & Bodyworks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:44 AM
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yea it sounds like it’s not worth the grief. I totally get where you’re at, it’s hard to give up on something when you’re 7 months in and you saw potential. To get a better gauge on your true feelings, try scoring how he made you feel, at the end of every day on 1-10. After 10 days if the average is anything under 6, boy belongs in the trash. You don’t need a man who is consistently bringing down your mood and making you feel needy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:14 PM
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Ahh...yea I was dating a guy who was like this. Very communicative at first and then did the bare minimum and didn’t change behavior once I said I wasn’t ok with it. I also felt like half the time I saw him, he seemed annoyed. Anyway I thought of breaking up with him and I should have, but he ended up breaking up with me. He said his feelings were gone. I was depressed for like 3-4 days but then it was like such a weight was lifted off my shoulders. I was HAPPY again. I wasn’t agonizing 24/7 abo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:44 PM
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Omg, I’m so glad you can relate and understanding how maddening that was!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:32 PM
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Yup, both big clues he was a manchild
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:48 AM
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Ugh YES. I just ended it with a guy like this. I felt exactly that way, he was just so desperate for a romantic love he projected it all on me and it was suffocating. I would even act purposefully annoying and bratty to try and turn him off and it did nothing. One of my biggest peeves is he ALWAYS would say “let’s watch this movie, I know you’re gonna like it.” ??? You hardly know me, how do you know which movies I will like? Especially some obscure drama? Even my best friends can’t predict whic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:37 PM
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Exactly. I fell for it cause he was actually nice, compared to other jock assholes I dated. But in the end, he was a complete chronically unemployed “everything is everyone else’s fault” fuckboy who expected me to take care of him. He didn’t buy groceries or buy me dinner even once while he stayed with me, but bought $100s of dollars of souvenirs. Unreal. At least the assholes were hot! 🥵
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:56 PM
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Honestly who the hell knows. I think he did. He was an extreme picky eater (which also drove me crazy) and pretty much only ate chicken nuggets, pizza, milk & Coke. So that could explain it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 01:42 PM
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I made the big mistake of having a LVM visit me recently (I live in another city), so he was living with me for a bit. He used 1 entire roll of toilet paper everyday. I would leave for work and there would be a whole roll left, and when I came back it was gone. It made me CRAZY. Needless to say he never went to the store to replace it unless I told him (and once he came back with paper towels instead). Anyhow, needless to say I dropped him like a hot potato.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:09 AM
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Saint Jolene 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 09:22 AM
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