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This is insensitive and rude.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/19 01:17 PM
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I’m sorry for that :(
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 10:54 PM
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Thank you so much! I will start journaling as well. I really appreciate your advice!
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 10:50 PM
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Thank you! Honestly, it’s good to know there’s someone who is in a similar situation. Makes me feel that I’m not alone. Honestly, reading Blair Waldorf quotes have helped me 😅 it might sound funny but they give me so much self confidence.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 10:49 PM
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You’re so sweet, thank you so much. I loved your advice and will 100% follow it. <3
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 10:46 PM
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Thank you everyone! I vented with my girls, realized that I wasn’t at fault in this relationship and it is his loss. Helped a lot! Now I’m feeling better and even happy, ready for the next stage in my life :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/19 04:44 PM
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My bf and I live together, we just moved in 5 months ago and have been together 2 and a half years. Our moving it together is basically to test if we can live together and should we take things next step. Because he makes more than I do he pays more for apartment and the bills, we split food and items that we buy for the apartment. When it comes to food with split only things that we both eat, I come from another culture and am more used to my food but he doesn’t like it so if I want to buy some…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 09:59 PM
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I’m not cutting my long hair 🙈 but I hear you, I think that I have lost that “mystery” part of me. It’s so easy to get into routine and get comfortable in a relationship. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 04:12 PM
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Love this! 😂
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 04:09 PM
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This sounds pretty similar to mine too, we also work in the same field, and we do a lot of the things together including going to the gym, cooking, cleaning, we hug each other when both of us come home from work, and there are weeks when we used to have lots of sex and those when we don't (however recently we haven't had much). I was always more attracted to older men and this is my first relationship and it's with a guy my age, we pay bills together, and save for travel together, however, what …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 03:54 PM
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This is very interesting because it's my first serious relationship with my bf and I'm his first gf, before that each of us dated but we haven't had a serious partner and I'm learning all these new things and questioning. I even googled if it is normal to develop crushes while in a relationship and found an article that yes it is normal to develop a crush on someone while you have a partner and it's a very human part of us, the difference is either we act on it or we go back to our partner. In m…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 03:46 PM
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True, new guy probably wouldn't at all.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 03:43 PM
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Thank you! I liked your advice the most :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 03:43 PM
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Thanks! I'm going to bring it up to him, we kind of haven't done anything exciting yet but we're going a trip soon and there I hope things will get back to normal :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 03:41 PM
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🤣 haha
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 07:51 PM
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This was a very helpful advice and I really like how you picked up on the “butterflies”, they have somewhat worn off and I noticed it and it started to bother me. I’m going to work on my part of sustaining them and thank you for the clothes advice! I will try to use some dark colors that he likes and some light colors that I like :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 05:38 PM
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Yup! He did :))
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 05:28 PM
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I just did! I got “dramatic classic ingenue” type haha actually very close to what I like when it comes fo clothes. Some classic plus an edge just not in dark colors. Thank you! I’m reading about it now, so interesting!
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 03:31 PM
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Noted on the perfume! I always used clothes as an extension of myself, for me an outfit is more like an art than just throwing things on so I take time with choosing clothes, feeling material, getting ready in the morning. For me it’s almost meditative. I don’t have a doubt that my bf has feelings for me, it just when it comes to clothes his preferences are different from mine. But I had a conversation with him and said that from now on if we go shopping for my clothes together I don’t want anyt…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 01:51 PM
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I really like Aritzia that’s where most of my clothes are from, occasionally Jcrew, Banana Republic. Occasionally I check out club monao, french connection, and reiss if I like something in sale for work I will buy it. I also like to check out small stores for something unique :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 11:51 AM
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Thank you :) that’s what he says too. I spoke with my mom about it and she advices to dress according to how he likes it when we go out and to how I like when I go to work and do things with my own friends. Seems like a good compromise for me. I think my true issue was that I kind of gave in too quickly to try to please his tastes and in the process lost that part that makes me “me” and now I’m trying to get a hold of it again.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 03:11 AM
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He really likes dstld.com , it’s a Californian brand and he loves their style for men and they also make women’s clothes. He probably would’ve loved if I dressed in their style but is it all black and white, they have some nice leather skirts that I would’ve bought but that would be all.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/18 03:06 AM
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What are the readings Secrets of FW and SW? Could you provide links? I would love to read them.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/18 02:42 PM
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Happy to have helped! :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 08:43 PM
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Next time this conversation happens politely and very calmly turn to her and loudly (but not too loudly like you’re not screaming) so your husband and maybe hers can hear it too, tell her “Does us wanting to have a family give you sleepless nights?”. This will end it, the most she can say “I worry and want to give a good advice”. On which you could just say that your and your husband are a married couple and you two will decide when to have a family without other people’s opinions. And to your h…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/18 08:36 PM
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I would suggest that you should stop paying for him, it seems like he just got comfortable. Usually we women think “if I do everything for him he will realize how great I am and will to the same to me”. Men think “she does everything for me, pays for me, flies to see me, it means I don’t have to try hard on my part since she will do it herself.” And so they become comfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/18 08:53 PM
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I went off hormonal birth control too and am getting copper IUD instead. Really excited!
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/18 05:39 PM
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I like a blog by Mila Levchuk on Instagram, she writes about men, relationships and such. She also wrote a book called Woman Plus but it is in Russian, however, she has an english accout @milalevchuk_eng that I think you can check out, she has very interesting articles on this subject.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 08:41 PM
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To get out of the toxic situations you will need to break up with your boyfriend otherwise you will be just like your mom working herself into her 40s but in your situation you will be supporting yourself AND your man. I’m not sure if you’re in school or not but I would suggest to enroll into a college or university to get a higher education this will help you a lot. Not only will you have a degree and hopefully a good job but it will also help shape what circle of people are around you and this…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 04:53 PM
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I don’t even know, I wish there was a meetup for it or something. I live in a big city too and most of my friends who share RPW view will be friends from Europe. Most of my American friends are more liberals so I avoid certain topics with them.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 04:44 PM
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Well congrats! :D I would check out stores like Reiss, Club Monaco, and White House Black Market. These three are my favourite for a good quality and fashionable clothes for formal events. Also if you struggle with style check out how Kate Middleton or Meghan Markle dress for the formal events, it is usually a dress ghat hits either above or below the knee, sheer panty hose if they will look good with the dress and shoes on a heel :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/18 03:38 PM
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His conditions doesn’t seem healthy for creating a family together. If you go ahead and do as he says, have kid through surrogacy and raise a child according to his own discipline, at some point you will feel like it’s not even your own kid. Have you asked yourself a question, how would YOU want to raise YOUR child? Do your beliefs about discipline align with his? Where will he have a final word and where do you step in? About pregnancy and carrying a child, now I never had children yet but down…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/18 12:00 AM
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Modern feminism looks down on traditional feminine traits as “weak” and encourages women to adopt masculine traits while fighting against patriarchy. I’m not sure what kind of society they want to create. Basically girls grow up with a lack of femininity yet they’re mot men either so they end up somewhere in between, neither a woman nor a man. I was born a girl and I love being a girl, I work in a corporate environment and in no way do I want to be a corporate shark, I’m encouraging myself to in…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/18 04:28 AM
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Your mistakes from your first relationship: 1. He told you to call only 2 times a day and you went with it. 2. He went to other girls houses, you were not okay with it but you still went with it. 3. Your parents paid for the vacation you and that boy went to, he didn’t contribute anything. It seems to be that you fall head over heels for a boy and would do anything to make him happy in the expense of your own happiness. You don’t have boundaries set of how a boy is NOT allowed to act with you. R…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/18 11:08 PM
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Check out @milalevchuk_eng on instagram, she has great articles on being a wife and relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/18 03:46 PM
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Olaolex #3 works on molecular lever to seek out broken bond in the hair that are cased by chemical, thermal, and mechanical change. On their website they say its a bond builder. I don’t dye my hair but I do like to style it and because I use thermal heat on it, I apply Olaplex once a week to rebuild that structure of my hair. I don’t know but jt works and my hair feels really nice.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/18 08:05 PM
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I'm unfamiliar with male red pill but I've been reading the RPW for a while now. I agree with what @ragnarockette said, this channel is about having a healthy, mutually nourishing relationship with her boyfriend or a husband. Taking care of your appearance inside out should be done for you first, it shouldn't be done with a goal to get guys attention because there're just as many standards of beauty as people in the world. Beautiful for one guy will be unattractive for another, the goal is for Y…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/18 03:00 PM
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I’m 5’8-5’9 somewhere in between, growing up I was always self conscious of my height because I come from a country where majority of people are very short including men. And I was always towering over everyone and felt self conscious wearing heels because people would tell me I’m already tall and why do I need them. Even moving to US made my somewhat self conscious because I was at the age when I want to date and have a bf and I had a guy friend who would ask me not to wear heel because he didn…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/18 02:20 PM
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What do you mean when you say you dress more masculine? Do you wear mostly t-shirts, jeans, sneakers? Do you wear makeup? What about your nails? Do you shape them? Do you have calluses on your feet? How about your hair? Even short hair can be very feminine if it suits your face and is cut well. Now every ones body type is different the secret is in knowing how to make the best features of your body to stand out and hide the ones that you think are not very flattering. Everyone has those, every c…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/18 01:57 AM
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I love to talk about beauty and skincare haha so here's what I do and I'm a 27F. Morning: After yoga I jump into shower and wash my body with Dove Soap . For face I use - CeraVe Hydrating cleanser- Theyers unscented and alcohol free toner - CeraVe eye cream, and - CeraVe AM moisturizer. Make up - Tarte BB cream in color Light, I use it to even out my skin tone - elf mascara, I don't buy expensive mascara's because mascara is only good for 3 months so I save on it and elf has really good ones. - …
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 06:13 PM
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You should never feel guilty, there’s nothing wrong with being feminine and treating yourself. By taking care of yourself inside and out you show love for yourself and I think it is very important. We often hear people say “I don’t care about myself” and it shows in their appearance, very rarely and almost never a person says “I love myself and that’s why I care about what I put into my body, I put care into my appearances, and I choose who surrounds me”. A lot of people might think its vain bec…
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/18 03:40 PM
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I’m happy I helped! :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/18 07:12 PM
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Yes, I love her posts!
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/18 08:09 PM
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You’re welcome! :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/18 08:08 PM
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Feminism has changed its meaning a lot through out the years, if in the very beginning it was simply for women to be able to vote, receive education, and be able to support themselves independently, now it is more about masculinizing girls and feminizing boys. So go figure. I listen to relationship advice from a woman named Mila Levchuk, she categories women into three types: Woman Minus, Woman Zero, and Woman Plus. You can have qualities of a woman from more than one category, I advice you to m…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/18 01:45 PM
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You can have a city hall wedding and then invite guests to your new house.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/18 07:26 PM
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Tell those women to read this blog I really enjoy, she classifies women into “Woman Zero”, “Woman Minus” and a “Woman Plus”. From your words it would seem to me that you’re a woman + . Her advices have helped me a lot in my relationship. https://instagram.com/milalevchuk_eng?utm_source=ig_profile_share&igshid=2tlrekh9ergu
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/18 11:24 PM
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This is a really beautiful response and it’s very sad to see how angry society is. I’m glad I found this subreddit with such positive community.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/18 01:51 AM
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