missingmykitties Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	This is so sad and scary. We are not safe anywhere. Not even our own homes 😔. Get one of these-- https://www.lowes.com/pd/Master-Lock-42-in-Adjustable-Door-Security-Bar/3020161 I have one for every outside door. I tested it with a friend and the door cannot be opened from outside. I love it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 01:46 AM
41	This is so sad and scary. We are not safe anywhere. Not even our own homes 😔. Get one of these-- https://www.lowes.com/pd/Master-Lock-42-in-Adjustable-Door-Security-Bar/3020161 I have one for every outside door. I tested it with a friend and the door cannot be opened from outside. I love it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/10/21 01:45 AM
10	On the unequal division of physical trauma when it comes to child bearing; therefore, any baby that I give birth to is getting my last name Your edit reminded me of this--"Women Have Told Everyone to Just F*ck off"--(NSFW)-- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=htGAdlkStv8	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/07/21 04:59 PM
3	Why we should quit the diets/eating habits that make us miserable Ugggh. Double whammy. MTHFR and methylation and the whole SNP universe are so complicated. Luckily (but sadly) there's lots of info out there about MTHFR due to its effects on pregnancy. It's tricky and difficult, and you can feel so much worse before you get better. I used my 23andme data with Genetic Genie and learned a lot, like why I need major vitamin D supplementation daily or I quickly drop to an extremely low level on bloodwork. I haven't used Prometheus yet (got overwhelmed with the GG/…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 04:39 AM
1	If he did not ask you to be his girlfriend YOU’RE SINGLE those marriages happened out of conveniences Sliding, not deciding.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 01:33 AM
6	Why we should quit the diets/eating habits that make us miserable a flawed gene that makes my B vitamins wonky. MTHFR? Going thru this myself right now. Not fun.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/06/21 01:28 AM
49	20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this. There's also been studies that children from married couples end up better in terms of general emotional wellbeing and is the most stable environment for children to grow up in. This, like everything in life, is entirely dependent on the people/ parents involved. As the child of two (married) people who should never have had children, much less with each other, the idea that married couples provide the most stable environment for children to grow up in and produce children with better emotional …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 04:25 AM
12	MEN WANT DEBT FREE VIRGINS!11 Nah, they want anyone they can control. Read something similar 20+ years ago--women of all socioeconomic groups usually are the ones to initiate the divorce and men are many times just blindsided by it, because he thought everything was fine. As in, fine enough for the man to live with, and he mistakenly did not take the wife's concerns and complaints seriously. Until she's tried, again and again, then she's done, and she files. Saw it happen with my own parents, and even the end of a relationship I had (albeit not a marriage/divorce …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 08:48 PM
15	Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either) She's young. The things I did for guys at that age, and how much I wanted it to work... I still cringe about it today. Young, naive, and learning the hard way. It sucks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 08:10 PM
9	Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either) At least some good came from it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 08:07 PM
17	Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either) sonsband Ha! Love it! Never heard that before.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/20 08:05 PM
3	Ladies, let’s talk about money! Whether you're single, dating, or married, all women need to be financially literate. Here are my tips to help protect yourself and to increase your financial security at all stages of your life. "It Takes Money, Honey" by Georgette Mosbacher. It's an older book (published in 1998) but it focuses on women protecting themselves in (and out) of relationships, and not making the mistake of depending on a partner. Ms. Mosbacher got royally screwed by her husband and lost the relationship, her job (working for him, eek!), and a huge sum of money/ marital assets all in a few days. Lots of good advice about protecting your money, setting goals, making sure you get your fair share in a relations…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/10/20 08:38 PM
31	I'm so tired of being alone her fiancé beats her and has been doing so for years. She’s 32 and has admitted that she’s only with him because she fears she’s too old to find someone else in time to have kids. This is so sad. Abusive men don't get better when you add children to the mix, they get worse. She'd be a million times better off (and safer) having a baby by herself than with him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/20 10:53 PM
9	This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually. So sad. Not using condoms means she's risking an STD as well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 04:02 PM
2	I can't read relationship subreddits anymore... Yes. And in addition to him being scum because he hurts an animal, it's also a sign that he's likely to be jealous of his own children one day, or more accurately, the attention the mom gives to her children. edit: spelling mistake	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 08:10 PM
1	I can't read relationship subreddits anymore... Sliding, not deciding.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 06:40 PM
1	I can't read relationship subreddits anymore... Or a cat or dog that he is abusing, trying to make 'accidentally' get lost outside, or outright trying to kill. Seen that too many times.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 06:38 PM
7	Ageing married scrote with kids looking to cheat on wife seeks woman that must be younger than him and states 'his pleasure must be the most important.' Reading this post headline made me laugh because it's just so pathetic. Reading the losers' r4r just made me sad.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 02:41 AM
2	Why couples counseling doesn't work with an abuser Lundy Bancroft (author of "Why Does He Do That?") says the same thing. It's counterproductive and harmful.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 10:27 PM
14	"Male Bowerbirds make art to attract females. These structures don’t act as nests at all and are purely aesthetic." - The men of our species need to take notes (neckbeard nests don't count) The world needs beautiful biology diagrams, too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/20 05:18 AM
42	"Male Bowerbirds make art to attract females. These structures don’t act as nests at all and are purely aesthetic." - The men of our species need to take notes (neckbeard nests don't count) Wait 'til you see the dance the males perform to entice the female. Some pretty fancy moves! The males will also tear up the other males' stick structures to harm the other birds' chances. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XkPeN3AWIE	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/20 03:05 AM
2	Ladies, you don’t miss him, you’re craving dopamine There are probiotics that help the gut to manufacture more dopamine and serotonin for the brain.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 11:44 PM
22	Give Less I literaly woke up this morning thinking about how I gave waaay too much in an early relationship. It was years ago and apparently I'm still pissed off enough about it that my brain mulls it over while I try to sleep! I gave so much and got almost nothing back. He just became more and more complacent as time went by. The last straw was my birthday--I got nothing but a verbal "Happy Birthday!" Dumped him soon after, and he was shocked! He thought everything was just fine! I learned my lesson. He …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/09/20 10:23 PM
1	Men are 7x more likely to leave their sick wives/girlfriends than women are to leave their sick boyfriends/husbands - confirmed by multiple studies I've shared this statistic before (with links to the studies for proof) in /r/relationship_advice and had men try to tear it down. It's a damn proven fact and they were defensive and offended that I dared mention this reality for women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 02:29 AM