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TRIGGER WARNINGmisskansast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:48 PM
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RANTmisskansast/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:03 AM
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A guy friend who I have no interest in tried to invite himself over and give me a massage. I hate being touched by strangers let alone by someone I barely know. I had to slightly tell him to bugger off for him to get the hint. I don’t understand why men just think if they tell the woman what they are doing to do - that I’ll just agree to it. Nope, full stop. I will invite you over if I want people over - if not - sit down or more like go away!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:53 PM
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I’m in medical so I was extended to my 10 year mark in April due to deployments and needing the manning at the hospital - sorry I didn’t finish my thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:21 PM
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I posted this on all my social media. I am in the military. If I knew what I would go through back then - I would have never done it. I joined because I wanted to serve those with PTSD - I didn’t ask for it in exchange. Nor to be objectified. But I heard these lines from every “leader”. I asked today if we were going to have an open discussion about the Vanessa Guillen case and the Sexual Assault problem and response in the military - I was referred to Facebook where not a single leader from my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:55 PM
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I was thinking this same thing a few weeks ago. They complain we hit a wall after 30 and can’t get a man to commit or have kids (so the woman does it alone) yet - we are too picky or we run them off or we all are whores and ride the dick carousel too long. What if the man leaves and is just a POS or stuck to his moms ovaries? Some men need to keep other men accountable- not all women are after sucking you dry for life and not all women are super picky. But don’t act like men are the greatest thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:21 PM
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Oh I love this question because a few people have randomly asked me this week. But you’re in for a doozy. So this was over 10 years ago when I lived in Utah and was very very naive and innocent- I also thought I should be Mormon - that also did not work out. But was on the LDS site and met a guy - I couldn’t tell you what he looked like today or his name really but we chatted and he asked to drive from my small college town to the armpit of Utah. About 30 mins or so. I didn’t meet at his house b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:06 AM
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Funny enough, this is why I got a divorce. He claimed up and down he was just friends with this girl even though she called him babe, sweetie, blah blah on Facebook. Wouldn’t even tell her he had a girlfriend at home let alone that he decided to marry me. Fast forward to us getting married and within in a month he’s Skyping her saying he’s in a make or break it relationship, he wasn’t sure if he was ever in love with me and wanted to travel around Europe together. All while telling me how much h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 04:10 PM
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So I’ve made comments to multiple guys without bed frames when dating. This was just a personal preference and a turn off and the date ended quickly after. They all thought it was weird I mentioned it. I’m so glad I’m not the only one to think they are fucktwats for a lack of a better word, if they don’t have a bed frame or they are at least a lazy adult. I recently gave a friend my old bedroom set - like dresser, mirror, nightstand and comfy ass queen bed. He’s 33 and said that’s the first time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 04:24 PM
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You are absolutely right. I did waste my own time. Didn’t think it would turn out the way it did. Granted, he never said any of this in person. But I already knew it was a waste when he questioned why I had a sunshade on my passenger window - because I damn well feel like it. I won’t be doing it again, hell, I got unpacking to do and maybe lives to save tomorrow at the hospital.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:20 PM
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You know the way he sounded so happy on the phone - you’d think he was high or something. But maybe he did. I don’t know. I told him - I don’t take sloppy seconds and good luck finding a decent woman who wants to be with a man like him. He still kept trying to get some kind of rise out of me and said I was being childish and unreasonable. But I wasn’t - I gave him what he wanted and he hates it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:14 PM
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After finding FDS, I question everything. I usually try and google someone and when there is no answers - it’s a red flag to me. I don’t mess with OLD much (only bc I get bored with it). But I have blocked him, he doesn’t know where I live, and I don’t frequent many places out here currently. And I am on the female level up. I’ve been focusing on me and moving forward in my life and will continue. I’ve also learned to not be nice when someone wants “their needs met”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:12 PM
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I’m doing okay, he doesn’t know where I live (just moved) or any other contact information.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:09 PM
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You know guys ask this question and as a female - you say “just seeing what’s out there and letting things happen” - you’re written off - but god forbid that we do it because they do it too. I’ve just learned to give the first letter of my name, a text app number and if I ever make time to meet them because I googled them and the like - I’ll go out with them. Then I’ll google them so more - bc men lie. Most don’t get a second date or even a kiss on the cheek. Some also don’t realize that women c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:40 PM
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Oh my goodess! You want to be best friends?! This is the same thing I complained about online dating. “Hey, let’s meet up and only talk on the app - bc I’m going to just lead you on and then bail” 🙄 Get real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:18 PM
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Well he kept referring to just sleeping in my bed. Except - my dogs sleep on their special doggy blankets with me and keep me warm (bc San Diego lol) but also, he takes a sleeping med and is a rock - what the hell does it matter? Also, I don’t do overnights if I have to work in the morning - that’s just awful for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:36 AM
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So I attempted this. I stopped speaking to the guy for other reasons. But I did tell him I wasn’t comfortable sleeping with him until we are exclusive. Well bc we are “older” he already thought we were exclusive. But every date that I didn’t invite him to sleep over or jump his bones- he’d pout and say how confused he is bc he wants a physical relationship. Obviously, if you want to wait. Wait. But it’s about setting that boundary and him respecting it. If you want to kiss and light touch- do th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:20 AM
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I don’t want a guppie...I don’t do the dead fish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 06:52 AM
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My ex husband still loves to think he got me off 7 times before at one time- but wouldn’t go down on me. No, you were a virgin and did nothing for me but I was in love with you and stroked the ego. I felt bad for the girls after me. Pretty sure the day of our divorce I said - I faked it every time, asshole. (I was also petty) He came back on what would have been 9 years trying to be friends. No bro, I have no desire to see you after I left you at the airport in 2011. But I also gave up a stable …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:11 AM
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Oh it’s stupid. I went on a matching spree and asked for a dad joke - the number of guys who couldn’t even do that and were being aggressive about “calling me” was weird. Like unmatch all y’all!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:39 PM
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I feel ya. I’m 30 but I was on OLD yesterday, connected with a guy and thought he was great. Asked for number - text me and went to bed. I obviously googled everything. His number was google voice, the dog was from a blog, the truck was just a pic when it was for sale. No answer or anything today...assuming a troll or catfish. And I was just having a conversation about life. No craziness. 🙄 I deleted my other profiles. I may delete this one too only after a day Bc I’m just irritated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 04:12 AM
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I’m in! Tired of waiting around and playing the game!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 02:19 AM
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Yeah! Dogs are much more loyal and don’t try to impregnate their neighbor (given that their fixed so we help the overpopulation)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/19 03:32 PM
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I would love to meet a man who’s 21-26 who can clean up after himself - bc living in San Diego - I’ve met more man-child(ren) then I care to deal with ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/19 03:31 PM
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