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I don't dislike it because I'm jealous of its popularity/marketability. I dislike it because while the purpose of the campaign is to raise awareness about women's health and a life-threatening disease, it uses language that (a) sexualizes and (b) fragments women. This would be irritating in many situations but in the context of raising awareness about a disease that kills it is so inappropriate as to be offensive. A woman is a person, not simply a life-support system for tatas. And this would ho…
/r/MensRights09/11/12 05:46 PM
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My dad had prostate cancer (He was in his early 50s, which is apparently pretty young for that nonsense). He's fine now, but it was a terrifying time for my family. He's very stoic and he hates going to the doctor/being thought of as sick and he really did try to flex the cancer out, so to speak. He was born in 1955 and I guess he was just raised to think that sickness = weakness and men aren't weak, therefore men can never get sick, or if they do get sick, they're not men? I don't know. Anyway,…
/r/MensRights09/11/12 02:19 PM
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You just reminded me of that "Save the Ta-tas" campaign. It's disgusting. How about save the people? My dad had prostate cancer a few years ago. He's fine now, but it was an awful experience for him and everyone involved. I'm just glad that my mom is hyper-vigilant about health and had him getting regular screenings. Not everyone is so lucky.
/r/MensRights09/11/12 02:11 PM
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It's because Susan G Komen has a kickass PR program. Too bad they've used that power for evil. Now it's all about peddling pink garbage, not actually helping people. I agree with you: if they really wanted to do some good, they'd partner with mental health awareness. Suicide now kills more Americans than car crashes. It's ridiculous that mental health isn't given more attention.
/r/MensRights09/11/12 02:07 PM
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There was a teacher at my high school who wouldn't let his daughter watch The Little Mermaid because he said it was about a girl who essentially is rewarded to disobeying her father and messing up everyone's lives. But that never really occurred to me until he explained it that way. Growing up, The Little Mermaid was my favorite movie because the message seemed to be: "No matter how bad you screw up, your dad will always love you." I mean, yeah, Ariel was selfish, impulsive and naive, but so are…
/r/MensRights29/09/12 02:38 PM
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Hahaha! A high five and an upvote to you!
/r/MensRights25/08/12 04:05 PM
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Oh, I didn't figure. I was just picking a topical example. But yeah! Working together! :D
/r/MensRights25/08/12 03:36 PM
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This works. My current boyfriend and I went to this ridiculously cheap little Italian place for our first date--we even met online. I think the total bill was like $15. After that, we just walked around a bookstore. We've been together for a year and a half.
/r/MensRights25/08/12 03:21 PM
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Feminist here. I say cunt all the time. It's even part of one of the nicknames I have for my baby sister.
/r/MensRights25/08/12 03:05 PM
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As a feminist (and, I feel, an MRA) I agree. Both groups share so many issues. I was posting the other day on another thread here about a guy being shamed for fucking 200 women--he was automatically a monster for the same reason all women who enjoy sex are automatically sluts: the fallacious belief that all men are always looking for sex, even if they have to trick women to get it and the equally fallacious belief that women don't enjoy sex at all and only participate in hopes of finding true lo…
/r/MensRights25/08/12 02:23 PM
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But you wouldn't advocate denying women bodily autonomy, would you? Yeah, it's your kid-to-be, but it's her uterus and she has to carry it and deal with the physical, social and emotional aspects of pregnancy every minute of every day for nine months. This is unfair, but the unfairness comes from biology and shouldn't be adjusted by litigation. (Although as I've mentioned in the past, I do think that there should be an opt-out option for men who have no interest in dealing with offspring.)
/r/MensRights25/08/12 02:04 PM
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It's this men are from mars, women are from venus bullcrap. Because we have different parts, we have to be different in every possible way and those differences have to be as exaggerated as possible. Misogyny and misandry stemming from the same fallacious assumptions. :/
/r/MensRights24/08/12 09:48 PM
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I think you'll find that the same groups calling the woman a slut are calling the man a monster. Both opinions stem from the same belief that women don't like sex and men can't get enough of it. --Therefore he must have hurt them by taking sex from them giving nothing in return --Therefore there is something wrong and unfeminine about her because she actually enjoys and seeks out sex.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 09:46 PM
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Yup. Because apparently the idea of women just enjoying sex isn't even remotely possible. They must have been hurt by it because women never actually like sex, therefore the dude having sex with them must be a monster.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 09:42 PM
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I went to an all girls school and head this all the time: "I want a tall man so he can protect me!" Height and strength aren't necessarily related. Also, take some fucking ju-jitsu and date a legit guy. It shouldn't matter if he can see over your head at concerts. I honestly don't get the whole wanting someone super tall thing. I mean, it's pretty irritating to have to stand on your tiptoes and grab his head and pull it down to your face to kiss him.
/r/MensRights10/07/12 04:52 AM
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Which is absolutely ridiculous.
/r/MensRights10/07/12 04:47 AM
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That, or they assume that women prefer costumes and makeup while men prefer heavy lifting/moving sets/curtains/prop management. Either way it's discriminatory and ridiculous. I'm a woman and I'd much rather be at the sound board than applying makeup. I think, if anything, they should have moms in the girls dressing room and dads in the boys'. Or a mix, if the kids are young enough to not be embarrassed by dressing in front of opposite sex adults.
/r/MensRights10/07/12 04:11 AM
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Oh, shit. Did I refer to the fetus as a person? That's my bad (no sarcasm). Abortion involves no babies.
/r/MensRights10/07/12 03:52 AM
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If a woman decides to carry a pregnancy to term, knowing that she'll get no help from the father, she should know that that means she is taking full responsibility for it. And yeah, I'm comfortable with that costing a few more tax dollars, if it means we're closer to gender equality.
/r/MensRights10/07/12 03:47 AM
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All I'm saying is, a woman can choose to have an abortion. A man cannot make that choice. He gets no say over whether or not the fetus is carried to term, regardless of how careful he was. Remember, if a woman gets pregnant from consensual sex, it is her fault as much as it his if she gets pregnant. Both partners are responsible for birth control. If she agrees to have sex with a man who isn't wearing a condom, or when she's not on the pill, or whatever, she's being just as irresponsible as he i…
/r/MensRights10/07/12 03:45 AM
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Correct. If he doesn't want to be a father, he should be able to opt out. Since he can't force the woman to have an abortion (something I would never advocate), he should have the option to not be a part of the child's life, so long as this decision is made before it's too late for her to have an abortion and he agrees to pay half of the abortion cost.
/r/MensRights09/07/12 08:15 PM
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I assume for your last point you mean, if the mother decides to carry it to term and also decides that she doesn't want responsibility for the child after it is born. In which case I agree with you 100%. Parenthood (either actual parenthood or financial support) should be opt-in/opt-out. I think it's ridiculous that men are forced to pay for spawn they did not want. If a woman gets pregnant and the man doesn't want to be in the child's life, he shouldn't have to pay a penny more than half the ab…
/r/MensRights09/07/12 04:44 PM
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I'm a feminist and I also support many MRA issues that I see on this subreddit. I feel that the genders are unequal--sometimes men have it worse, but other times it's women who are at a disadvantage. I believe in gender equality. So not just for women to have it better, but to eliminate the limitations placed on all people because of their genders. I honestly believe that if MRAs and feminists would stop sticking their tongues out at each other and fighting over who has more privilege, we could …
/r/MensRights03/07/12 03:14 AM
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Jesus is a hell of a drug.
/r/MensRights17/06/12 06:33 PM
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It's not just you. My first thought after reading it: "So why is there a picture of a lady?"
/r/MensRights16/06/12 06:45 PM
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Yes, but isn't it better to discourage violence than just accept it as inevitable? If we hold each other to higher standards with regard to self control, maybe there will be less violence overall. All I'm saying is, perhaps it's better if boys get beat up less than if girls get beat up more.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 04:59 PM
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And then (after holding these women accountable, because what a shitty thing to do), imagine a world in which you can sign a waiver and give up all parental rights over a fetus you helped create, thus laying the full financial burden of raising the little monster on the only person who wants it. Or, alternatively, half the cost of an abortion.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 02:49 PM
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To be fair, pregnancy can really fuck your shit up. And depending on your ethics system, it can mean nine months of grueling bullshit all for a screaming little monster you never wanted in the first place. And even if you don't consider a fetus a person, abortions are expensive.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 02:46 PM
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Or, we could go the other direction and raise the next generation to not beat the shit out of one another.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 02:26 PM
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So really, it's as if they interviewed the 7th graders' parents.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 02:15 PM
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It's true. I mean, some people trust their partners such that they feel that a test is unnecessary. I'm not saying that testing is a bad idea, just that requiring a potentially expensive test that neither party necessarily wants seems like the wrong way to go. I do think that paternity tests should be standard, though, with an opt-out option. Of course, I think parenthood altogether should have an opt-out option.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 09:07 AM
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Isn't paternity testing expensive? I think every father should have the right to a paternity test without fear of punishment or stigma, but if he doesn't want it, it seems like a waste of a lot of money. Just a thought.
/r/MensRights06/06/12 08:08 PM
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Well, it's illegal to park in a handicapped space if no one riding in the car is handicapped, right? I think these are just courtesy spaces with no laws regarding their use. Mall security has a greater responsibility (in the eyes of the law) to watch the handicapped spaces. Although I do agree, parking in one of these when you're not pregnant is kind of a dick move.
/r/MensRights27/05/12 02:45 PM
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Do you think the man should have to pay for half the abortion cost? Edit: If he changes his mind, too?
/r/MensRights23/05/12 05:21 PM
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Oh, sorry. Voting, control of my own body, freedom from discrimination in the workplace, sexual assault, domestic violence...feminism is wrong want to work on that stuff first. You've made it clear that you're not interested in what I'm saying, so I'm done talking to you. Feminism is the reason I can go to college, get a good job (not just a secretary or schoolteacher), help decide the president, be something more than a walking baby factory, but clearly this is terrible. Men have so much to fea…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 05:13 PM
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Haha, thanks. :)
/r/MensRights23/05/12 03:26 PM
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Oh, wow. And you can't really set a rib. :(
/r/MensRights23/05/12 03:25 PM
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I have trouble talking about depression without feeling some personal stings--I had major depressive disorder for many years and attempted suicide at one point. At the time, I didn't tell many people--I can count them on one hand--because I thought, as many depressed people think--that I was broken and worthless. I had planned suicide many times and in many different ways, some more violent than others (Two that I almost attempted were jumping off a bridge and jumping out my 10th story window). …
/r/MensRights23/05/12 02:24 PM
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I think they were focused on getting society to a place where a qualified woman could get a job, had the same access as men to overtime and was paid the same for the same work. It was a movement started by women, with the goal of women being treated no differently than men. I think, considering the circumstances, that it makes a lot of sense for them to start with women's issues because yeah, there were a lot of things women weren't getting that men were, and for no reason other than sex. But yo…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 02:06 PM
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As someone who has broken an arm and toes, I would say that when it happens, the toe hurts more.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 01:25 PM
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I was doing a show once and my character was barefoot and I stubbed my toe on an unfinished set piece during a dance number and when I looked down later, There was blood all over my foot (none on the set, though). I had removed part of my toenail.
/r/MensRights23/05/12 01:23 PM
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If I may: the patriarchy doesn't refer to all men, but the men who are in charge--the guys who run the show, especially in the media. They define what is normal or appropriate for everyone, especially gender roles. And this hurts women and men. Women are told that to be a real woman they have to be pretty, find a man, clean his house, birth and raise his children; not talk much, focus on silly things like flowers and glitter and decorating and cupcakes. And they tell men that to be a real man, t…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 01:07 PM
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I don't know--I've been hearing that from parents, family members, teachers, counselors and internet strangers since I was born. And I'm only 22. And slut shaming is one of the newer versions of this. A lady doesn't enjoy sex or her body and she never lets a man put her in a compromising situation. So "be more lady-like" has morphed into "don't be a slut." Both are insulting and inappropriate. I think we can all agree that a person's sexuality and sex life is his/hers alone and no one else's dam…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 12:54 PM
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Behind every person, there is a set of biological and environmental influences that made that person the way he or she is.
/r/MensRights21/05/12 03:21 AM
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It's true. I wasn't trying to imply that marketing targeted at men was any different, simply that women are treated the same way. The only ads I've noticed that try to make women feel good about themselves are the ones targeted at mothers (I'm sure there's a few more, but I honestly don't watch much television) that glorify motherhood because mothers tend to have most of the day-to-day spending power in families. They do this by talking up laundry and wiping noses in order to inflate her sense o…
/r/MensRights20/05/12 09:14 PM
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From first and secondhand experience, 6"-7" is ideal.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 08:55 AM
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Some girls just dig big guys.
/r/MensRights20/05/12 08:51 AM
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As a woman, I feel like the opposite is true--it makes women feel inferior, so they buy products in order to make those bad feelings go away. The gist of most cosmetics commercials is something like "BUY THIS PRODUCT TO COVER UP HOW HIDEOUS YOU ARE AND MAYBE YOU'LL BE AS HAPPY AS THIS MODEL." Food commercials: "JESUS CHRIST YOU'RE FAT! BETTER BUY THIS YOGURT AND EAT NOTHING ELSE FOR TWO WEEKS!" Phone/laptop/whatever commercials: "YOU ARE MISERABLE. YOUR LIFE IS SHIT. BUT IF YOU BUY THIS USELESS …
/r/MensRights20/05/12 08:30 AM
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List of countries by suicide rate. The list also shows the rates for each gender. But while men are more likely to commit suicide, women are more likely to suffer from depression. A common explanation for this is women may feel more comfortable seeking help for their depression than men (and in seeking help, gaining a diagnosis), given the stoic expectations for men. And while women attempt suicide more often than men, women tend to choose more "peaceful" methods--slitting wrists, overdose, etc,…
/r/MensRights20/05/12 08:16 AM
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Absolutely not. There's nothing wrong with casual sex, so long as everyone involved is clear that that's all it is. The problem here isn't the relationship, it's these puritanical values being shoved on us. Politicians and preachers call for madonnas while media and frat boys call for whores, when really, we're all just people--men and women.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 08:20 AM
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As a fellow woman, I feel the same way.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 08:09 AM
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There's a difference between having no sexual prospects and having no long-term prospects. I agree with you that tits and a vag will win you one free cock for the night, (almost) regardless. But in my experience, dudes have standards for women if they're going to fuck on the regular.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 08:07 AM
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As a quiet woman who lacks confidence, I've had the same problem.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 08:00 AM
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Is that really a problem, then? Doesn't a more equal distribution of attention mean that not conforming to society's standards of beauty isn't a huge handicap?
/r/MensRights17/05/12 07:52 AM
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Yup. I'm a feminist and I would never hit anyone, man or woman. And if I did hit a man, he would be well within his rights to hit me back and defend himself. Everyone should have the right to not get slapped around. Having a penis doesn't make you impervious to physical pain. I get so sick of seeing this kind of thing in media--I can't stand most sitcoms anymore because 90% of them have some long-suffering wife constantly making jokes at her husband's expense. That's not a healthy marriage and t…
/r/MensRights17/05/12 07:39 AM
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