misslaceylove2 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	Wife with questions		misslaceylove2	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 01:53 PM

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1	Wife with questions I needed to hear this. Being without a mission makes sense and it's how I feel watching him. He's lost; but I don't know how to help him. What I have tried has made the situation worse. When I asked him last night if there was anything I could do to make him happier, he snapped "stop treating me like a faggot." He NEVER spoke like that before. For Christmas I bought him golf lessons. I thought he would enjoy this and it would give him time to be with other men. He said he's not interested and pa…	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 05:34 PM
1	Wife with questions My husband is (was?) the type of man with private segregated parts of his life. I'm close to team wives, but I'm in no position to talk directly to his teammates like that. My husband would consider that a complete betrayal. I've considered reaching out to one teammate but I know if my husband found out I talked about our home life or his issues with anyone, he would be enraged. I think I could trust this person not to tell my husband, but if I'm wrong it may cause more problems.	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 04:46 PM
1	Wife with questions How to I suggest cross fit or these other activities in a non controlling seat? Thank you for the advice. We moved right after he retired and it was a sudden change in life and his connections	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 04:40 PM
1	Wife with questions Thank you	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 04:38 PM
1	Wife with questions That is not me. But I don't expect you to believe that.	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 04:38 PM
1	Wife with questions We moved back to his hometown a few years ago. He sees a few teammates regularly who live within an hour drive. But there's no one he talks to regularly. And I certainly wouldn't reach out to them about this.	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 03:57 PM
1	Wife with questions I guess I think of behavior and personality different. What I'm seeing is he's a completely different person. I still expected his core to be the same on meds. Maybe I was naive.	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 03:29 PM
0	Wife with questions Still don't understand.	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 02:59 PM
1	Wife with questions He was in real combat. I'm not sure if it's all connected and that's why his whole personality has shut down. I know I can't make him change. I've tried applying principles I've read in RPW, but it's not happening. He's not leading. And if I don't do, it doesn't get done. I've watched my nagging and I basically just orbit around him in our daily life letting him be. But I'm running out of ideas	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 02:58 PM
1	Wife with questions I have no idea what your talking about. Our sex life didn't start sucking two years into our marriage and he's never raped me and I've never given duty sex.	/r/askMRP	05/01/17 02:55 PM