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What is that app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 09:32 AM
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Yes, Lirael's depression and Sam's anxiety over not being a good abhorsen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 04:14 PM
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Yes, I love those books- although the suicidal depression of the characters in the last book hit a bit close to home. I will check out the Bitterbynde books, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:30 AM
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Good point. I recently re-read some and was shocked but it slipped my mind when trying desperately to think of female writers. It sounds like we might have similar tastes, do you have any recommendations?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 01:07 PM
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I worry he is setting up Lyra to fall in love with the guy who looked after her when he was 11. The entire first book was him changing her nappies, then in the aecond book he is sniffing her hair and being disturbed by her when she's 15. And there's all this stuff about she needs someone who can be comfortable in any company, whose daemon has been detached, etc. And I worry he is setting them up to be together in the third book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:44 PM
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Have you read the book of dust and its sequel? I am majorly disqppointed in these but don't want to spoiler you if you haven't read them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:36 AM
8

Terry Pratchett, Anne Mcaffrey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 09:35 AM
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Thank you! Can't believe I've been downvoted to oblivion just for stating facts (which are on my mind at the moment because I just started relactating after stopping breastfeeding. I was very clear that she shouldn't have to in any way shape or form. But the reason she shouldn't isn't because it's biologically impossible, it's because it's her choice if she breastfeeds or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 10:00 PM
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I am currently breastfeeding a child after stopping and I'm not pumping. The problem is not that she physically couldn't restart breastfeeding- the problem is she shouldn't have to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:57 PM
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Er....I am literally relactating right now to feed my child, hence why I have been studying it recently. Please read up on it. Suckling (ie demand) leads to the woman's body producing those hormones. Our bodies are amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 09:55 PM
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You can restart breastfeeding at any time if you've ever done it, you don't even need to have given birth. You just need the demand, ie. a child suckling. But obviously she shouldn't have to- and her buying formula is not the issue here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 07:29 AM
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The govt has now advised us to flag down a bus if we are dubious about a lone police officer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:35 AM
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When my grandpa was in Suez at the time of the canal crisis he put his wife and kids on the last plane out, there was no room for him. He ended up imprisoned for 6 months but he would never have done anything differently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:24 PM
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And he didn't want to take her for coffee because he had $30 in his account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:12 PM
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Okay so when I eventually realised that the reason my ex smelled strange was because he didn't wear deodorant, he actually argued with me that people didn't really smell so it wasn't an issue. 'I work in an office and I never smell other people' and was aghast when I pointed out that every single woman in that office would be WEARING DEODORANT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:35 AM
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Would love to know more about the Wild movement!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 05:13 PM
11

I had an ex tell me 'my mum says I should be able to do whatever I want...and she's right!' Ooooookay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 11:58 AM
1

Could I have a code please? Also a refugee from GC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:32 PM
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Could I get a code please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 12:17 PM
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Preach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:01 AM
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Living like a queen with an amazing husband! No thanks to my mum who basically trained me for abuse though. But i got out of it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:46 PM
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While I was in the hospital being induced, my mum was worried that my husband might be bored. 'Oh no, is the hospital bed comfortable enough for him?' Mum I am 38 weeks pregnant and people are trying to force my body to go into labour. He is fine. We stayed in three days as they tried increasingly sore methods to induce me and she was concerned it was too boring FOR HIM and said I should let him go home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:01 PM
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She's not continually getting arrested- she was given a curfew for her own good because groups of men kept picking her up and she'd go with them. There are screenshots of her convo with one threatening her to go out, she says she can't, he threatens her. She went with them and got arrested for breaking her curfew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:33 AM
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Okay you obviously don't know anything about this. Read up on Rotherham and Muslim rape gangs in England if you actually want to be informed. The police chief came out and admitted that the police had NOT addressed these gangs because of fear of being called racist (and also class predjudice against the girl victims). It's commonly acknowledged by the police and social services involves. There's been a huge number of court cases and now inquests into what the fuck happened. So fuck you calling m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:17 AM
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One of the alleged abusers boasted on Facebook that he had the police and the press in his pocket, so...yeah. I think your guess is probably right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:08 PM
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Well these types of abuse cases have been seriously ignored by the British police because they were worried about being called racist- this is just a fact that has emerged from recent cases. Googled the Rotherham scandal. So people obviously are looking for an explanation as to why the police aren't taking her claims seriously, and they assume it's the same reason that has hampered other similar investigations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:06 PM
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Look for the justiceforellie Facebook group. For what it's worth this is happening near me and I can confirm the article, screenshots of conversations with her abusers where they threaten her, pictures of her wounds. Also other girls have posted with similar stories. The news media say they can't comment as it would predjudice the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:04 PM
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Local people are massively upset with the police, and the paper (north west evening mail) one of whose reporters was friends with one of the alleged abusers. He even boasted publically about his link with her, saying he has the police and the press in his pocket.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:03 PM
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I live near the area, there is a huge attempt to get people to pay attention to this. Locals have made posters and actually I saw two huge 'justice for ellie' signs while outside today. People are contacting media personalities to publicise it but the news media says that they can't report on it because it would predjudice her trial. To make things more complicated, Tommy Robinson has turned up to two local protests held for her and so now her cause is becoming tarred by association.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:00 PM
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She's in prison as we speak!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:58 PM
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My ex did this to me, he knew I was scared of bad driving and one day he drove like a madman. When we arrived at the place he turned to me and said 'did that scare you?' and I realised he did it on purpose to scare me. He also told me he had a moped and used to drive faster so his ex would hold on to him right when she was scared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 05:52 PM
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That was Henry VIII, his son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 04:41 PM
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They also cite history and claim that girls were routinely having kids in their early teens- in truth most people waited till their early twenties and it was only nobles who married young, and it was seen as something not desirable but essential for dynastic reasons. Henry VII's mother had him at thirteen and it was considered scandalous she'd been married that young. And it was a really hard birth and she never conceived again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:53 AM
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Refusing to come see me for my 21st birthday because it was mid-week, and so he'd have to miss his local football team playing (never mind the fact he missed 99/100 games because he lived somewhere else, and somehow coped). Not getting me anything for valentine's Day because he'd lost £100 at the casino weeks earlier, so was refusing to buy anything for weeks to 'even it out.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:43 AM
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When we'd been dating a year and he said he didn't want to organise to see each other, we should just see each other if we happened to bump into each other. We lived on different sides of the city and uni classes had ended. I didn't take that as 'lets break up' because he wouldnt come out and say he wanted to break up- just that organising to see each other made things less fun. I continued dating him for a year after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 08:38 AM
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I got sexually harassed while waiting for a bus once and was so terrified, other people at the bus stop left and they were saying things like 'oh we're gonna rape you later!' and my ex was like, are you going to be sad all through dinner? Dont let those guys ruin our date!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 02:43 PM
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I watch Coro and I think this storyline is great for bringing much-needed awareness and attention to the issue.
/r/MensRights29/01/13 03:39 PM
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Yes, that's exactly what I was saying. Well done for the intelligent discussion.
/r/seduction05/11/10 05:20 PM
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Oh what the hell. Yelling rape because a guy you are flirting with gently pushes you up against a wall? That is hot, not assault. Stop giving women a bad name.
/r/seduction05/11/10 03:05 PM
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This is so true. When my boyfriend told me he was a black belt I was so impressed and also secretly thinking 'right, I'm safer now.'
/r/seduction24/09/10 07:18 PM
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All of the issues used to justify leniency for women can be applied to individual cases without reference to gender. The situation the individual is in should be the determining factor, not the nature of the individual's genitalia. Absolutely.
/r/MensRights11/09/10 07:30 PM
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No but when I was a nine year old girl I wasn't taught that I had to be surrounded only by females in order to be comfortable. You compared it to teaching kids to swim in a pool before throwing them into the ocean. That analogy would hold true if the reason you put them in the pool was because they couldn't swim with fish around. It does them no good when they eventually get in the sea and are surrounded by fish. You didn't teach them to cope in society, you taught them they had to be segregated…
/r/MensRights22/08/10 07:17 PM
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But you're not teaching them how to deal with being in a class with boys. You're teaching them that they can only flourish around females. If I had that attitude in my profession (academia) then I and every other women would never get anywhere. "I can't talk or give my opinion...there's a man in the room."
/r/MensRights22/08/10 06:36 PM
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Yes, wouldn't it be a better idea to try and teach the girls to hold their own in mixed company? Segregating them seems ridiculous to me, it teaches them nothing about how to cope in the world.
/r/MensRights22/08/10 05:31 PM
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I think this is great news, but coming from the UK the idea that anyone gets circumcised is still strange to me. I would never have it done to my sons.
/r/MensRights17/08/10 10:33 PM
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It has the consistency of water. Well you seem to be taking advantage of that to make up your own radical definition of feminism. I would consider feminism to be the same as being anti-racist or anti-homophobic. I think that people deserve to be treated equally regardless of differences of birth- that's not saying that everyone is the same, but no one group deserves to hold power over another because of something like skin colour or genitalia.
/r/MensRights21/06/10 05:02 PM
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Thanks for clarifying. I think it's important in this context because this woman doesn't seem to be acknowledging how lucky she is to grow up in the particular time, place and culture that she did.
/r/MensRights21/06/10 04:59 PM
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I agree with her that women have it the same or better off than men in most areas of modern life, but I do think there was a problem when women couldn't vote. I agree with the rest of what you said, but when you talk about 'modern life' are you only referring to the Western world? I think in the rest of the world there is definitely a lot of inequality, in most if not all areas.
/r/MensRights21/06/10 04:24 PM
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Wow, that's shocking. I can't believe they have that up as a definition, let alone the first one. I'll also leave them a comment on their feedback page.
/r/MensRights07/06/10 02:12 PM
1

Thanks! And men that know that big spoons are good for spanking are always welcome with me too.
/r/seduction05/06/10 12:20 AM
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If she starts to get bossy about it, and push you away from the pot or pan or something, it's the best, because you can then say, "Don't backtalk me in my kitchen, woman! Cooking is man-work." and smack her on the ass with a huge smile and a laugh. Big spoons are also good for spanking. I know you don't like hearing from women in here because of the whole 'women can't give men advice on getting them because they don't know themselves' but I just wanted to say, I would love to be around someone l…
/r/seduction04/06/10 11:21 PM
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