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mistaken4alpha/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/15 08:35 PM
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We burned through the first one quickly. The second has been pretty useful. My main event was our marriage councillor agreeing with me that a separation was the right thing for my and my kids mental health. She flat out said I was correct and enthusiasticly suggested we come up with a trial separation plan to discuss next week. My wife was devastated that the up till that point very impartial marriage therapist agreed with me. The lying, blaming everyone but herself, screaming at me and the kids…
/r/askMRP17/09/16 12:22 AM
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Nuke: The answer is no and we wil never mention the D word in this house again. Understood? Doesn't taking divorce as an option off the table take away some of the dread? My wife used to threaten me with divorce frequently... until two of her friends started going through divorces. Then it stopped pretty damn quick. I'd never threatened in all our relationship. Separation had always been off the table in my own head. Looking back, our 'main event' was when I started apartment hunting in preparat…
/r/askMRP25/03/16 05:00 PM
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While I was not sick I very clearly set out the expectation that she will deal with everything and leave me the fuck alone while I'm really sick from now on. I've installed an exterior door lock on the spare bedroom. I bingewatch Prime shows in there and make her to take care of things till I'm better. The only two times in our marriage that my wife has been extremely abusive (once sexually, once mentally) were when I was seriously sick. She very clearly understands that a third strike in the ma…
/r/askMRP03/11/15 07:58 PM
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why do we still stay with our wives For me it is about loss avoidance. I'm trying to avoid losing: Half the time with my kids $1M+ in assets, child support, and alimony (half now, and half spread over the next 25 years). That means a middle class retirement at 66 instead of an upper middle class retirement at 57 for me. I don't want to lose those years of my life to working. Upper middle class standard of living for my kids Friendship with someone that has shared a lot of life experiences with m…
/r/askMRP27/10/15 05:25 PM
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If someone is hypogonadol, then no lifestyle change will fix this (meaning either their pituitary gland isn't working right or their balls aren't working right). I found TRP when my wife became extra abusive when my Thyroid and then Testosterone levels crashed. Synthetic T4 fixes the Thyroid issue. A low dose of clomiphene citrate (aka Clomid a fertility drug to make women ovulate ) to tricks my pituitary into thinking I don't have enough estrogen. Male estrogen is made from converting it from t…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 03:30 PM
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It cannot be fixed. It often CAN usually be (mostly) fixed with dialectical behavior therapy IF she acknowledges the problem and WANTS to get help. At that point (the mostly accomplished) she'll end up a normal crazy wife, instead of an extra crazy wife.
/r/askMRP14/09/15 04:59 PM
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Hah! I found MRP because I got a ton of mental abuse from my wife when my thyroid and testosterone levels crashed and was trying to find an explanation for her abusing me at a time of weakness. Once I started applying MRP principles she suddenly wanted it a half dozen times a week again after more than a decade of sex 3-5 times a year. But with the hormones messed up I often couldn't get it up and/or would have really dissatisfying premature ejaculation. Ohhh the frustration of all those wasted …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/15 08:39 PM
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Have you had your hormones (thyroid, testosterone), blood sugar (A1C), and liver numbers checked recently?
/r/askMRP28/08/15 08:08 AM
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I will try, but easier said than done. I found other women come onto me when I go out with the kid(s) without mom around. It's by far the best pick-up scenario I have. I once told my wife of a woman throwing herself at me when I took our son to the playground one day. Flirting with unsupervised dads seems to happen a lot, but this interaction was really over the top. So much, that I found it creepy. I told my wife this as a funny story. It turns out my wife overlapped social circles with the wom…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 05:12 PM
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Each one of these responses that I address just morphs into the next response or she changes the subject to something else to worry about. I made the mistake of addressing the issues with my wife for many years. Try ignoring her, agreeing and amplifying, and go out of your way to make fun of her concerns. It works FAR better.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 09:33 PM
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I've read that once you start getting a treatment, your body shuts down its own T making capabilities It depends on the kind of treatment. That is mostly true for shots/gel. You can usually restart your testes with Clomid in the same way steroid users do. Clomid blocks estrogen receptors in your brain so releases more hormones that tell your balls to get back to work. I'm currently on Clomid to get my T levels back up after they plummeted from thyroid issues. They were in the 200s at the start o…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 04:47 PM
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Our male therapist was useless. We both agreed on that. The female therapist seems to be working on my wife, BUT that may be because the therapy was in my frame even before I found MRP. I demanded marriage counseling to either fix our marriage or work towards ending it gracefully for the kids sake - she knows I really hate therapy and I've never threatened divorce so this was serious. I calmly told her I had finally come to accept divorce as a solution - she had dramatically threatened many time…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 03:02 PM
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...third, for another woman with professional credentials behind her to get your wife to realize she has a great guy that she is driving away with her bad behaviors. (Not ALL marriage therapists are feminists.)
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 02:07 PM
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I stand by my assertion that "working on the relationship" puts you firmly in her frame. The message I delivered was: "I've had enough. If we don't find a new way to relate to each other, I'm not going to be around for our next anniversary. I've calculated the child support and I can afford it. Your lifestyle will take a much bigger hit than mine. We're going to marriage counseling." She has threatened me with divorce dozens of times during arguments and even as a bluepiller I dared her to do it…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 02:34 PM
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1) Tell your wife it is unacceptable to treat your children that way. 2) Let your kids know they should do their best not to aggravate their parents, but they are not ultimately responsible for their parents emotions. A lot of that thinking in childhood leads to messed up adults. Perhaps something like http://www.amazon.com/An-Umbrella-Alex-Rachel-Rashkin-Shoot/dp/1427602980 would make a good bedtime book.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 02:05 PM
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we believe that relationships can be fixed by fixing yourself. Can be fixed certainly, but the right (practical not feminist) professional might make things a lot easier. I'm about four months into MRP. I found MRP because for the second time in our 20 years together my wife was very abusive to me when I had health issues and was weak. I'd had enough. I am the one who demanded seeing a marriage counselor before I found MRP. Sex dread happened when I had two different women that give my kids art …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 02:54 PM
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A good AF song is "Hey Mama" Yes I do the cooking. Yes I do the cleaning. Yes I keep the nana real sweet for your eating. Yes you be the boss yes I be respecting. Whatever that you tell me 'cause it's game you be spitting. and Whole crew got the juice. Your dick game the truth. My screams is the proof. Them other dudes get the deuce. I might speed in the coupe. Leaving this interview. It ain't nothin' new, I been fuckin' with you. None of them bitches ain't taking you. Just tell them to make a U…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 04:05 PM
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The goal of an argument is never to win. It is to come to a solution. If your goal is to win, it does nothing but hurt your relationship. This is excellent advice for anyone!
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 08:37 PM
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Sometimes it is not. Often it is. Hypothyroidism + low testosterone certainly gave me a really dark depression. There is plenty of evidence that hormone imbalances cause depression. At the time I knew there was no logical reason I felt so hopeless, but I still felt that way. A few days taking synthetic thyroid hormone pills made it all go away.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 09:22 PM
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My wife has a rage meltdown even if I have a fucking head cold. I just started to think of how I used to take care of myself when I was a bachelor, and just accept that I will always have to take care of myself, and I can't count on her support. I can totally accept needing to take care of myself. I had big problems dealing with the rage meltdown part at the same time...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/15 10:07 PM
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New to MRP and I appreciate the thought. I have a dumbphone for a variety of reasons, so none of the apps work for me. I just signed up for text message reminders from http://monthlyinfo.com. They can also send emails you compose at offsets you pick from ovulation or period start days.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/02/15 05:16 PM
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