misternthn Archive

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2	I have a validation hungry mindset and a chip on my shoulder due to missing out which is destroying me but I can't get over it, what do I do? Being very honest here: you would continue to be miserable, even if you got all those things. And you almost certainly won't get it because you totally sinked in this scarcity mentality. How can you develop any confidence if you currently view yourself as a piece of shit? If you look at your past in anger? No matter what you fix, you will always be thinking there is more to fix, and so on and on. This is how obsessions works. It's a trap. You MUST work on this, either going to a therapist or by …	/r/seduction	02/11/16 03:43 AM
1	Getting First dates, but no Second dates: Help please Not being sure is not a problem. The problem is that you probably have ideas of what to during the date but at the same time you get afraid of her reaction, of being rejected. You could watch videos of "how to escalate", or "how to flirt", but from my experience i think it will be much better (especially to develop yourself in the long-term) if you just stop filtering yourself and stop being afraid of her reaction. See, if you go on your interactions with the intention of entertain yourself, you…	/r/seduction	02/11/16 03:06 AM