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| 185 | FDS Art Therapy - I drew my ex from a 5 year situationship | ROAST-A-SCROTE | misty-muse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:11 PM |
| 167 | I finally cut the cord. [long] | LEVEL UP | misty-muse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 12:34 PM |
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| 24 | “Men told you that being more sexually attractive to them empowered you, and you believed them”I am inclined to agree. This reminds me of a post I replied to almost a month ago which basically said the opposite thing. The post got 760 upvotes but it has been deleted. This was the title: “Remember: In nature, the greatest accomplishment that a male animal can ever hope to achieve is mating with a female. It’s time we human women recognize our power over men, and start acting accordingly. “ Can these concepts realistically be reconciled while men exist in society? I take pride in my appeara… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:58 AM |
| 1 | For the man who thinks that wiping their own poopy butt is “gay”Like a sink sprayer for your butt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:44 AM |
| 4 | For the man who thinks that wiping their own poopy butt is “gay”Mine is called RinseWorks, it’s a handheld sprayer made of stainless steel. I got it off amazon for I think $40 almost 5 years ago. Recommend to spray front to back, then front again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 5 | For the man who thinks that wiping their own poopy butt is “gay”1000% agree. Bidet attachments for the toilet are inexpensive and easy to install. I’ve had one for years and would never go back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:52 PM |
| 56 | Petition for a new term for men that marry women solely based on looks... booty chaser? shallow swimmer? scrubby squib? Suggestions welcome. We need to start holding them in the same regard that they hold usBeauty Baiters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:51 PM |
| 18 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?I, for one, am relieved. I am rather tired of being of use to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:57 AM |
| 32 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?You point out horrible things men do, and they come at you with “How dare you say ALL men x y and z ?!!!?” Even if you say “some men,” they will do this. You must chant the mantra or perish. They attempt to derail and delegitimize you by putting words in your mouth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 74 | Let's Not. (Comments on a video about a ring made out of a coin and a broken glass)JFC. It’s heartbreaking how many women have been brainwashed into fighting over scraps. We are reaching the tipping point. Many women are starting to realize it’s not worth desperately pining over a pretend ring made of trash, and they would be happier without a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:51 PM |
| 6 | Lets leave situationships in 2020!I keep struggling with the urge to unblock my LVX. I have less than zero romantic interest. What I actually miss is having a familiar person to chitchat about whatever with. He doesn’t deserve my attention, and I don’t like him at all, so I think I will stay strong even though I realistically don’t expect to make friends any time soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:30 PM |
| 14 | "I didn't mean to" doesn't cut it the 2nd, 3rd, 4th time...If I’ve heard it once, I’ve heard it a thousand times. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 05:53 PM |
| 9 | Even men recognize when another man is playing a woman.According to my principles, that is not a good reason. It’s wrong to leave people in the dark. It’s weighing on this man enough to make a post about it. I would want to know if I were in her place, so I have always believed in telling the person. What she does with the information is her business. Refusing to do so for fear of them killing the messenger is cowardice. Although this post is about a man, women especially should adhere to a Sis Code and support one another. Someone who knows your sp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:45 AM |
| 27 | I turn 18 this week and after reading this article, I feel sick and scaredChild labor laws should not make exceptions for actors and models. It’s purely selfish exploitation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 11:59 AM |
| 109 | Even men recognize when another man is playing a woman.[voice of Dr. Jane Goodall] Recognizing he is weak and unwilling to expend the emotional effort to stand up for her, the helpless r/ niceguy idly watches his friend waste her life loving in vain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 03:42 PM |
| 11 | Boundaries are not just about peopleDiaphragms have about a 12% failure rate per year. And she didn’t know how much it was going to hurt before having it done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 09:14 AM |
| 37 | Sexism in MedicineThanks in part to FDS, I am so glad I have learned to not tolerate anyone, even my doctor, talking to me this way. If this happened to me, I would immediately walk out. I’ll never see a male doctor again if I can avoid it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:54 PM |
| 41 | Remember: in nature, the greatest accomplishment that a male animal can ever hope to achieve is mating with a female. It's time we human women recognize our power over men, and start acting accordingly.Sounds good. On the other hand, that has a lot to do with why they treat us like sports balls and shiny cars. To achieve their greatest accomplishment, some men are willing to fake an entire personality for years only to turn on a woman when she is most vulnerable. So, how do we circumvent objectification and harness our power over men? Asking in a general social context, not just romantic relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 10:01 PM |
| 26 | Avoid: personal trainersIf you are buying a car, ask for a saleswoman. Do you want that sleazeball who greeted you at the door to get the commission? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | I’m so sick of men interrupting me while I am running to give me advice or try to chat me up - I am WORKING OUT. I do not WANT your attention.My opinion (I am not a lawyer): Pepper spray first, ask questions later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:29 PM |
| 5 | FDS Art Therapy - I drew my ex from a 5 year situationshipWell, it got to a point that I had to tell him to brush his teeth. 😷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 08:49 PM |
| 13 | This is super motivating and empowering. I love her showing taking herself on an awesome day, alone, and loving it!When I’m not at work, pretty much every day is like this. Took me a while to fully appreciate it because I’d always been told it’s sad to be alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:32 PM |
| 3 | FDS Art Therapy - I drew my ex from a 5 year situationshipYes it is! It was relieving making this one, and I have got another one in the works. Give it a try. I drew him in an unflattering light, but it’s also true that I’ve never been in a relationship with anyone near my looksmatch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 7 | FDS Art Therapy - I drew my ex from a 5 year situationshipLOL, yeah my ex was good enough at manipulation that he never asked that question outright, but I wish he did so I would have left sooner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 11 | FDS Art Therapy - I drew my ex from a 5 year situationshipDo eet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:49 PM |
| 8 | Man argues with me over if PA is real or not. Newbie sorry if this is a stupid post. It just infuriates me to my core. The ignorance.“showing ankle isnt too provocative rock music isnt the devil i am dismissing you as a prude because my argument hinges on manipulation” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:33 PM |
| 5 | FDS Art Therapy - I drew my ex from a 5 year situationshipinspired by u/nobodybutiliketypeo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:14 PM |
| 14 | Narcissist mommy (inlaw) humiliates bride at alter, and LVM groom doesn't say or do a damn thing to defend her. SPINELESSWHITE shorts, might I add. That wasn’t an accident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:19 AM |
| 61 | UnReAliStIc mALe bEaUtY sTanDardS!!!Beauty standards are insane in S. Korea. I believe it is the plastic surgery and eating disorder capital of the world. I thought men had more beauty (or at least grooming) standards there compared the US, but they get off scot-free for being ugly and disgusting in Korea too? Color me surprised... :( 6 packs are much more attainable for men than women. On average, healthy women have about 10% more body fat than healthy men in order to sustain pregnancy and breastfeeding. Women need to have close … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:44 PM |
| 25 | Derrick is such a male FDS supporter! 🙌 #realitycheck #straightfactsSeems like he might read FDS based on the way he talks about HVM. I’ve seen a few of his videos posted here, and they’re always so refreshing. Hope more men get with the program. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 3 | Reddit's misogyny is showing. This man obviously isn't over his ex. His new fiancee picked up on that yet the comments call her a crazy bitch 🙄He talks about the new fiancée as though she is an appliance. The way he talks about her, she is clearly a placeholder for the deceased woman he loved (or, at least, appears to love in hindsight). I can’t wrap my mind around how a male blindly pursues a woman he doesn’t care for or know anything about. How he stumbles into an engagement. We are not the same Why doesn’t he marry his mommy instead if he takes her side over the replacement fiancée’s in an argument? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Reddit's misogyny is showing. This man obviously isn't over his ex. His new fiancee picked up on that yet the comments call her a crazy bitch 🙄Maybe it’s not that weird. I noticed he didn’t propose to his deceased forever gf. I think he proposed to the new lady out of misplaced regret. LVMs gonna LVM. But yes, you are correct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:47 PM |
| 11 | My abusive ex who stalked and harassed me for years after dumping him posted this. He never dated anyone else after me because he really let himself go and only goes after attractive women who are out of his league. So glad I dodged this bullet 😂‘Women are the worst. Here’s a random screencap from New Girl to prove it.’ Scrotes can’t meme. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 01:27 AM |
| 17 | Leveling up physically for 2021!I cut my hair the day before yesterday. It was extremely long, which I liked, but the ends had been dyed and were thin. I cut off about a foot of hair, though it is still long. Now it doesn’t get in the way when it’s in a ponytail. I don’t have to wear it in a bun all the time. I’m happy to leave the old hair behind and step into 2021 feeling fresh. My biggest health goal for 2021 is to stop binging on sweets. It’s a terrible habit since childhood, and it could cause serious health problems. I k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 166 | Wife gets cancer and husband abandons her at the hospitalShe’s dying and he’s treating her even more like shit because of it, so no wonder she’s acting that way, which he is exaggerating. It’s all about him. I’ve been through my dad in a worse state with a list of diagnoses including early onset dementia and pancreatic cancer. He eventually had to go to a nursing home, but it was planned in advance. We never just abandoned him at the hospital. Even when he was violent and incontinent. Absolutely no excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:20 PM |
| 35 | Ex-Husband Contacted Me to "Catch Up" After 6 Years of SilenceHow can he have nothing better to do than stay mad about an egg slicer for 4 years? He could probably replace it for under $10. He really showed his ass! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 11 | If you ever think about going back, draw him and write what you hate about him.LOL, that’s awesome! Great idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 10:49 AM |
| 13 | I don't know what to say other than...tragedyThis is very sad. She is a victim who was groomed. Her mother failed to protect her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 07:50 AM |
| 11 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally asked to fly/drive across the country to meet a man. Do some pickmes actually do this? Is this a real thing that happens?When I was 17, I was talking to a guy in his 20s who lived in a different state. After a few months, he convinced me to fly to him. No, he did not pay for my ticket. 🤡The trip was weird and not fun, but thankfully nothing horrible happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:34 AM |
| 35 | Leave the FIRST time someone shows you low effortYou’re absolutely right. Gifts say a lot about what the giver thinks of you. Your ex sound just like mine. For my birthday last year, I asked my long distance situationship/bf for lingerie and sex toys. I really emphasized that I wanted lingerie because I thought it would be a fun way to keep things spicy long distance. I got 2 crappy toys from amazon (nothing phallic) and an accessory that is useless without a partner. Only after I get pissed off and complain, he finally bought the lingerie 3 m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 7 | TLDR; lazy scrote does fuck-all for his wife, steals the title to her car, gives her a shitty "allowance" which doesn't cover anything, goes out of his way for everyone BUT his wife, most likely creating.How do you not divorce a man who steals your car when you go to the bathroom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:43 PM |
| 4 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.Good therapists are few and far between. I’ve had several, most of whom were women. Despite speaking with them openly, only one was marginally helpful. A bad therapist can cause further psychological damage. One might go so far as to say it could be considered a scam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:13 PM |
| 8 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.Can we tell therapists this? I know people here love therapy, but my experience is that if you tell a therapist you are angry, they will treat your feelings as the problem at hand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 54 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂Yeah, I’ve never heard the phrase “birthday woman” before LOL. Funny how language matters to them until it doesn’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:33 AM |
| 16 | If a man says they are ______. They aren't.‘I’m not a man-slut.’ - Some shithead I went to college with. He was in my Spanish class, he helped me pour the yerba mate for everyone when I did a project on Argentine cuisine, and began incessantly lovebombing me. Then he started to neg me and act like an asshole, but I naïvely already thought he liked me and was just joking. He got me drunk on my birthday and we hooked up. After that one time he totally ignored me unless he saw me on campus in public where he would make a big show of saying … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:25 PM |
| 36 | Repost from another sub, good reminder for ex-religious ladies. I know it’s hard to move past all of the ingrained sexism and misogyny sometimes but I’m here to tell you; You’re not wrong, THEY are.I was raised Southern Baptist. I vividly remember a sermon from when I was about 10 years old that was all about how women need to sit down and shut up (yes, those exact words). Every time the pastor said “Women, shut up,” all the creepy dinosaur men loudly echoed, “AMEN!” I was shocked. My mom seemed to enjoy the sermon, though... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 09:04 AM |
| 55 | I literally don’t even have wordsThat’s exactly what he did, no almost about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 08:55 AM |
| 56 | FDS ladies are not dumb AND didn’t text their exes Merry Christmas ✨Channeling this energy!🤩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 05:25 PM |
| 27 | AhahahahahahahaThey hate us cause they ain’t us. 💁🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 3 | Prior to this, he simply said “would you be interested in a sunset/dinner date?” I replied “for sure!” After that, I asked him where he lived. That’s where THIS convo stems from. He went from “lol” to getting mad at me for asking for clarification regarding the date.Good call, in the past I would have dismissed that exclamation mark as a typo, but it does seem like a red flag in disguise. Who wants to be “convenient” for some loser anyway? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:06 PM |
| 9 | Have you ever been too embarrassed to accept your man is an LVM? Share your experienceSome “friends” you had, making the situation worse by ridiculing you for being treated poorly instead of trying to help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:00 AM |
| 7 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterHahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:17 AM |
| 86 | Fucking men, these women deserve so much betterHe’s absolutely right. She does have negative energy following her around. It’s unusual that he would refer to himself as such. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:30 PM |
| 43 | Found this on twitter, see how scrotes view is?People who have pet chickens don’t slaughter them when they get hungry, unless the situation is desperate. Only people who keep chickens as livestock would do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 11:43 AM |
| 59 | THIS VIDEO IS A SIGN.Based | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 10:55 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020Listening to Baroness’s Red album and just wanted to give a quick shout out to the scrote who once negged me for preferring the Purple album. Because having similar obscure music taste apparently doesn’t make you any more of a person to them. Also he spent the whole coffee/walk “date” checking out other women. This was a few years ago and I never saw him again after that. So yeah, merry fucking christmas and happy new beer. ETA: How messed up is it that I felt I couldn’t call him out on checking… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:02 PM |
| 30 | Actress Margaret Qualley caught conspicuously making out with Shia LaDouche after he was sued for abusing FKA Twigs and giving her an STD. Pick Mes Need Psychological Help.In the span of 15 years he went from looking like a little boy to a haggard middle-aged man. That’s a ROUGH 34. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:17 AM |
| 53 | When you date an LVM and your "friends" are all pickme's and you want to know how to cope. Sis, leave.“i instantly felt uneasy. ... I do trust him...” No sis, your heart wants to trust him, but your gut knows the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:04 PM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020That’s painful news, but try to focus on the reasons you broke up and why he isn’t right for you. Think about the reasons he would rush into a new relationship and the reasons it would be harmful for you to do the same. Then, hopefully, it will be easier to let it go and move on. If possible, remove from your life any source of updates about your ex. I kind of know how you feel. I ghosted my LV ex a month ago. He wasn’t big into social media. I looked up his facebook recently and found that he h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:46 PM |
| 288 | The Modern Man's Hatred of WomenWith the rise of neoliberalism since the 1980s, offshoring of jobs, hyper globalization and dismantling of workers rights, traditional manhood isn’t economically feasible anymore. Thank you for pointing out that it wasn’t women’s entry into the labor force that made it nigh-impossible for a family to prosper on a single income! That red pill was bitter and hard to swallow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 11:50 AM |
| 9 | One of the creepiest posts ever submitted on 2XC. My response in second. No, we don’t like it when a male stranger compliments our body in line at the grocery store. ffs.Here you go ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 118 | One of the creepiest posts ever submitted on 2XC. My response in second. No, we don’t like it when a male stranger compliments our body in line at the grocery store. ffs.I never thought I’d read a fanfic worse than My Immortal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 06:23 PM |
| 3 | I heard recently, and I loved how it deals with the emotions of loss without romanticizing the obviously toxic relationship. It’s fairly popular, but I figured I’d recommend for anyone who hasn’t heard it! Any other songs that remind you of FDS?Black and Silver by Xandria Video with lyrics | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:26 PM |
| 269 | Point the judgment in the right direction please....Men shame women for being raped more than they shame other men for committing rape. It’s a feature, not a bug. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:33 AM |
| 13 | Men already bypassing Visa, and Mastercard ban..This will make it easier for men to hide their porn use and the money they spend on it from their wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:10 AM |
| 8 | Guy continually pees in bathtub or shower instead of toilet, tries to blame adhd, gets angry at his girlfriend for calling him out, and doesn't even say sorry for it. Just things scrotes do.Oh noo! I am so sorry he tried that nasty porn act on you without your consent. edit: not that consent makes that kind of degradation okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 9 | Guy continually pees in bathtub or shower instead of toilet, tries to blame adhd, gets angry at his girlfriend for calling him out, and doesn't even say sorry for it. Just things scrotes do.A man once told me I was lying when I said I don’t pee in the shower. (likely a common opinion among reddit basement dwellers) I mentioned one of many gross things about it, that the steam from the shower amplifies smells, and the guy acted like I need to go to the doctor if my urine is so smelly. Like there is something wrong with me for being potty trained. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 101 | Men who are “jealous” of abusers give me the creepsThey don’t care if we suffer as long as they get what they want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:34 PM |
| 6 | How did we get here (song stuck in my head), the existential questions....My mom told me she had children so that we would wait on her hand and foot, and she was not even a little bit joking. Looking back, somehow my brother (who is now in his late thirties) was exempt from this standard and I had to clean after him too. She told me that my name means “hard-working flower”. 😞 Long story short, I keep minimal contact and lately I’ve been more and more tempted to cut them off completely. I know that when my mom dies, my brother will try to mooch off me. Not going to hap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 10:04 AM |
| 67 | How did we get here (song stuck in my head), the existential questions....Oh look it’s my mom and incel brother. I’d actually be welcome to move back in and be their maid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:39 PM |
| 9 | Subtle red flags to watch out forI dated a guy who thought zucchini is a cooked cucumber... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:42 PM |
| 5 | I cringed so hard throughout this video.I love her other content but I hope proposing to men doesn't become a trend.Sad that she fell for the women-make-the-first-move propaganda so hard. It doesn’t take FDS to know that proposing to a man is pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:23 PM |
| 9 | I finally cut the cord. [long]That’s encouraging to hear, and congrats! I kind of figured that if it didn’t work out with him, I might stay single for the rest of my life. I have no interest in wading through the muck of the dating world. I’m much better prepared to thoroughly vet in the unlikely event the right person comes along one day. You’re right, I’m mainly mourning wasted potential, not anything of substance anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 06:58 PM |
| 37 | I post a lot of stuff from FDS on my Instagram story, and a male friend responded this. I sometimes forget how radical FDS seems to the real world (because it feels so right to me).Maybe not all men, but most definitely this fucking guy. Don’t let them make you feel like you have to justify yourself. They want to wear you down and out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:30 PM |
| 10 | Yeah, sureBecause he dared you. What, you chicken? 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:00 AM |
| 11 | Thoughts on AbortionI voted against a bill that would ban late-term abortions. I honestly think abortion after a certain stage is horrible, so I had to carefully consider the issue. I thought about who the women getting late abortions might be and why they would do it. I read a story about a woman whose fetus had a birth defect that resulted in no kidneys and would not be compatible with life. The defect was discovered late in the pregnancy. It would be cruel and dangerous to force her to carry that pregnancy to te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:27 PM |
| 23 | When they say the quiet part out loudActive in r/ bootyshake 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:34 PM |
| 5 | Tale of a scroteSadly, Chris Brown is still very popular and relevant. He’s had some recent hit songs. I don’t see him going away for a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 09:13 AM |
| 43 | The “”friend zone””We should take a leaf from men’s book and start redefining words to our advantage like they did with “friendship” and “date”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:57 AM |
| 3 | About Women in TechThey used to be kind of my type because I felt like I had a lot in common and could have nerdy conversations with them. I’ve certainly met more than my fair share of “nice guys”, but I’d quickly next anyone who underestimated me or mansplained since it instantly makes me hate a person. This guy, though...Once I took him for a run, and he got so winded that he SAT ON THE GROUND. How embarrassing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:04 AM |
| 31 | About Women in TechYou have my sympathy. My LVM ex is in tech, and his workplace culture is to act like rowdy frat boys playing humiliating pranks on each other. I asked him if any women even work there and there is one but at least she has her own office. I don’t want to know how much “locker room talk” goes on. I’m in a STEM/medical field, and I thank my lucky stars on a regular basis that my boss, her boss, and my boss’s boss’s boss are all women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:18 PM |
| 60 | all of the comments were criticizing the bf and she STILL defends himHe’s totally not cheating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 01:19 PM |
| 9 | Setting you up to prove yourselfUgh, I’ve fallen hook, line, and sinker for the “are you real” question before. I replied with a candid selfie, feeling uncomfortable and put on the spot. I’m guessing that was the goal? 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Found on iFunnyScroll down on the page past where it says “true” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Found on iFunnyHe really said the first two sentences. The rest of the quote is purportedly from Erick Gray, a more recent author of romance novels. https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/william-golding-on-women/ https://africacheck.org/fbcheck/golding-quote-mixed-up-with-words-by-21st-century-writer/ Let’s fact check and keep our posts high quality please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:00 AM |
| 27 | I haven’t used OLD in forever, and this was literally my first experience. “I’m an empath so I feel things more than you” is a massive red flag. What I hear is “I can be as insensitive to you as I please, but don’t you DARE have feelings around me because only my feefees are important”.Guys who say LOL after every other sentence are always fuckboys, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 05:46 AM |
| 34 | New meme format [OC]Drake doesn’t belong in FDS memes. This is better! There was a woman in Taiwan who married herself. I didn’t get it when I was more of a pickmeisha, but now I’m inclined to do the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:03 AM |
| 6 | Everyone ages like wine, but sometimes, wine becomes vinegar.I had similar thoughts today when I read the “men age like wine” post, but not as well fleshed out as yours. The vast majority of wine doesn’t age well. Both wine and people have to be high quality to begin with and maintained in the right conditions to age gracefully. Thanks for posting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:54 AM |
| 14 | I never get a good vibe from the “brutal honesty” guys.Yup. Growing up I was always told brutal honesty is a good thing. But most men only pay attention to the “brutal” part, just like how they only hear the “with benefits” part of FWB. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:46 AM |
| 23 | MGTOW on Tinder lolJeez, the little emoji guy jacking off is so cringe! WTF?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 19 | I don’t know why this just rubs me the wrong wayAside from it being all about him, I sense something else going on here. It made my skin crawl when he said he’s grateful that she used her sexual assault to empower herself. Yes it’s true that all life experiences, good or bad, make people who they are. But rape and abuse often get reduced to just “part of a woman’s journey”, implying it’s not so bad because the victim gained insight after all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:21 AM |
| 6 | This was censored in r/Australia. Searchable database of Domestic Violence Records in Australia. Stay woke ladies 💫What was r/ Australia’s excuse for deleting it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:44 AM |
| 34 | Male in r/ sex admits to looking for actual rape videos to jerk off to and EVERY SINGLE COMMENT tells him that it's normal.First of all he didn’t turn it off after 5 seconds. He maybe felt a little bit guilty after he came but he would 100% do it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Hi, I’ve got a question about flairs. I’m tagged as a throwaway account for some reason. I don’t consider this a throwaway, it’s just an account I made primarily for posting on this sub. Is there a chance of graduating to FDS Newbie, or is a throwaway forever a throwaway? Didn’t want to bother the mods so if anyone knows, please give a heads up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:22 AM |
| 24 | Aussie scrote loses his job after sending vile & abusive messages to Tinder matchesI’m amazed that one scrote finally got real-world consequences for harassing women on dating sites. Seems more common for assholes like this to send “incriminating” info/nudes to a woman’s employer and getting her fired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:21 AM |
| 19 | Can We Tell The Truth About Plastic Surgery?It’s overpriced snake oil anyway. Collagen is a protein, and when you eat it your body breaks it down into amino acids which can then be reassembled into proteins of various types. Collagen supplements haven’t been shown to improve skin elasticity or similar claims. If people want more collagen in their diet, it is much more economical to eat meat with the skin, bone broth, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:38 AM |
| 2 | All good until the last one... Why is it so difficult for women to realize that porn and sex work is not liberating and exists solely for male pleasure?Maybe that’s difficult for women to realize because we’re so often treated as free prostitutes that getting paid for the degradation seems like an upgrade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 10:49 PM |
| 35 | It bothers me so much that most men see sex as something humiliating and degrading done to women and that they see woman as an submissive sex object, just body parts to use. And this is why i hate porn so much... It basically traumatized me and ruined sex for me forever.Damn and I always heard that women use sex as a weapon because many of us don’t put out when we’re unhappy with our partners. I’ve had many realizations like this from reading here. It’s a relief to do away with all these insidious lies we’ve been told. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 6 | What low value men post on their social media.So true. I met my most recent and most serious ex when he was 25 and I was close to his age. Almost 5 years later and he’s gained 30 pounds, has a receding hairline and gets infected sores on his face. I lost almost all attraction to him and that’s not even why I ended the situationship, just symptoms of the real problem. Meanwhile I look about the same except my glorious hair got even longer. Why did I think I wanted to marry him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Was I too harsh to block him so quickly? He didn’t even ask me how I was and couldn’t fathom why I couldn’t instantly see him... also telling me how “fit” I am 3 times in our 2 minute conversation just comes across as desperate and creepy...I think he was acting so “guttered” to manipulate you into asking him out. Either that or he really is so braindead he has no concept of more than a week into the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:48 PM |
| 40 | Right. To each their own I guess, but for me it's basic grooming?Odds this is a guy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Per my last post: This is the guy the Pickmeishas are defending, y'all. I can't.Jesus, whoever dates this dude will probably get murdered. What violent fringe group is he vice president of ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 2 | What an asshole. ITS NOT EVEN YOUR HOUSE GTFO. YOU DONT EVEN PAY MY BILLSOmg me too... I sang at church and he told me everyone was laughing at me, even my mom. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:05 AM |
| 7 | OMG a 58 year old with money who doesn’t want baggage?? Yes please <3 (His name’s Wayne Linekar and he’s famous)Not to mention “must have body definition as I” totally, definitely, 100% “will have soon” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 10:53 AM |
| 11 | Older men (late 30s+) claiming they "never met the right one"He probably met the right one, but he used her for sex instead of getting to know her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:59 PM |
| 3 | Lectured for not returning a guy’s call (who I am not even friends with!!) Why do men feel entitled to my time? See comments for backstory..Who really sucks at the phone? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Men are likeFine print: *Testing not included | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 41 | Bare minimum King 👑He didn’t even roll up his damn sleeves. He’s obviously just posing for a photo and would never touch a dirty dish otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:52 PM |
| 15 | Red Flags GaloreYour instincts and reactions are spot on, queen! A guy mentioning incels is a huge red flag. I believe it means he browses those forums and agrees with them. Same with bringing up male suicide rates—I’ve often seen MRAs and the like use this as ‘evidence’ that men are ‘oppressed’ victims in society. Besides, he’s wrong if he said the US is the #1 country for male suicides. I checked wikipedia and the stats for 2016 say that Russia is #1 and USA is #34 for males. Another website says that for 202… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:14 AM |
| 59 | Wife finds a strangers hairs on shower wall multiple times, husband pretends he doesn't know where they came from. Predictably, half the comments side with the husband, saying that the hairs are obviously from the air vents/street/a stranger secretly living in their attic. Full post in comments.It’s a concerted effort to further lower the bar, collectively gaslighting and manipulating women to accept or turn a blind eye to shitty male behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Clothing tips to look sexy without showing skinI dress more modest than sexy, but I really like wearing maxi skirts made of jersey or the type of material yoga pants are made from. Super comfortable, flattering, feminine and elegant silhouette, can be dressed up or down, and I don’t have to worry about flashing anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Men have no idea how our anatomy worksThis guy obviously loves “gaping” porn. 🤢 Why don’t boys know the difference between TV and real life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 07:54 AM |
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