mitchopatamus Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	There is no "The One". Or: how oneitis can be traced back to the relationship between a man and his mother I disagree. In my opinion, the fear of inadequacy/rejection is the root cause. This can seep into other aspects of life, and prevent personal and professional growth, which leads into a lack of pride/self-esteem/sense of self. A strong sense of self is the solution, not the root cause of these problems. How do you overcome a fear of inadequacy/rejection? You set goals for yourself, slowly achieve those goals over time to build your self-esteem and take pride in who you are as a person. The more …	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/20 04:59 AM
55	There is no "The One". Or: how oneitis can be traced back to the relationship between a man and his mother I somewhat disagree here. My personal opinion is that oneitis is manifested from a deep fear of inadequacy/rejection. The more time and energy you invest into a woman, the more “need” you have to feel accepted by her. You’re driven by the fear that losing her means you weren’t good enough, and can shatter the ego, so as an ego protection measure you envision this ideal life with this ideal woman. As we know, this is also based in a scarcity mindset, in which you believe that you may not find som…	/r/TheRedPill	06/08/20 04:02 PM
2	Career How are you going about teaching yourself full stack web development? Any particular books or websites you recommend?	/r/askTRP	13/07/20 05:31 AM
2	"Does fucking girls from your gym count as shitting where you eat?" Yes, it does. Even had the audacity to call him out in the post and then proceed to prove exactly why EC was right. Fucking classic.	/r/TheRedPill	06/05/20 05:03 AM
2	The Red Pill Finance Thread - redux As someone in the industry, this post is fucking fantastic. I would argue the numbers presented about the percentages of Americans with savings, as often times those studies include checking/savings and don’t include investment accounts, but that point remains valid. With that being said, I don’t think I could have written a better post, so thank you for this.	/r/TheRedPill	23/01/20 07:43 PM
2	Finally got my first sexual activity at 23 Please consider seeking professional help. Your self-loathing is extreme, you’re just kicking yourself while you’re down and perpetuating the cycle	/r/seduction	13/01/20 08:17 PM
1	I was insulted badly out of the blue, and can't get over it This. This right here. I used to be like you and pretty much figured I’d let the others babble on about useless shit, and I’d only add my opinion if necessary. I got to an area where no one was speaking their mind, so I took over. It didn’t take long for people to start looking to me to hear my opinions, as they started to value them. You can say shit that you think is basic, or something completely off the wall. There is no such thing as saying something stupid/embarrassing yourself in those si…	/r/askTRP	28/12/19 09:45 PM
2	Work Christmas Party - Drunk Co-worker This isn’t verbal abuse. This is exactly what frame is. He needs to continue living in his frame and he needs to be confident that his performance review and conversations with management are an accurate representation of reality. Letting her shake up his reality, despite everything pointing to the contrary, is breaking frame and showing weakness. If he feels somewhat worried, then at most he should sit down with his manager and have a 1 on 1 in which he talks about his future aspirations and ho…	/r/askTRP	19/12/19 07:58 PM
1	This sudden urge to fuck the world and be unstoppable - Thanks to TRP and MYSELF! Being wealthy is by no means proof that you know your stuff. Your broad assumption is correct, but there are so many other factors. Does he even need that large of a loan given what he’s going to use it for? Does his level of profitability substantiate such a large loan? Does digital marketing realistically have high costs of expansion, as this loan suggests? Just because a loan is offered at a certain dollar value and rates are low doesn’t mean it’s automatically a good idea. There are a lot of…	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/19 05:21 AM
2	This sudden urge to fuck the world and be unstoppable - Thanks to TRP and MYSELF! I’m with you, which is why I hope he seeks advice. I don’t see how digital marketing could have a substantial overhead cost, and lead generation doesn’t seem to be so costly either. Definitely not my area of expertise though	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/19 05:15 AM
5	This sudden urge to fuck the world and be unstoppable - Thanks to TRP and MYSELF! Neither of you are in the position to give him a recommendation, especially considering you have no idea what the financials are or what the purpose of the loan is. OP do whatever the fuck you want, but consider seeking expert advice	/r/TheRedPill	27/08/19 03:39 AM
4	TheReason We All Ended Up Here Blue Pill - beta bitch who lives in fantasy land and assumes by being a nice guy they deserve everything they want in life Red Pill - being awakened to the reality of the sexual marketplace and accepting it for what it is Read the sidebar	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/19 04:45 PM
5	Confidence tips for under-endowed men Not getting laid can absolutely be changed. The reason you aren’t getting laid is not your dick. Sure, that might hurt your chances at plating a chick, but if you improve in other areas, then getting a ons shouldn’t be a problem. You’re going to have to start from the beginning and read the sidebar over and over until you fully grasp trp. Lift like your life depends on it, stop giving a fuck, develop inner and outer game, improve your appearance and hygiene in any way you can. We’re just scratch…	/r/askTRP	03/07/19 04:36 AM
4	Confidence tips for under-endowed men I get that, and it’s not going to be easy. You have to realize a few things: There is no benefit to worrying about what women are going to think. They’re either going to be okay with it, or they’re not. I can guarantee they’re more likely to be okay with it if you’re comfortable with it (easier said than done) The worst case scenario with your situation would be that women won’t want to hook up with you continuously. How is giving up going to be a better situation than getting some ons? It’s lik…	/r/askTRP	03/07/19 04:19 AM
8	Confidence tips for under-endowed men You’re on the right track with trying to see what you can do to improve, but the number one thing you can not do is succumb to a victim mentality. You have to own your shit and do whatever you can to feel good about sex. There’s no benefit to thinking that any woman you meet is going to be shallow in that regard. Even if you’re right, what good does it do? Just do you what you can to improve your situation, especially mentally. You need to become comfortable with yourself	/r/askTRP	03/07/19 04:03 AM
24	Confidence tips for under-endowed men There is at least a little you can do about this situation. First, I recommend checking out “thundersplace” because you absolutely can improve the size. Don’t expect anything magical, but you can make some improvements there. Next, you need to shred every bit of belly fat you can to make the appearance larger. Beyond that, you need to change the way you approach sex. Whether you like it or not, foreplay is going to have to become your specialty, with actual sex being more like dessert. If you ca…	/r/askTRP	03/07/19 03:47 AM
1	why does everyone here try to talk like a drill Sgt? I always assume the ones that talk like that are in the early stages of the red pill. I remember for myself in the beginning I realized I was a people pleasing beta bitch, and so I did a complete 180. I feel like it’s almost a knee jerk reaction to overcorrect before you settle on being comfortable just being yourself	/r/askTRP	02/07/19 06:32 AM
3	LTR with ex-CC rider Fair enough, but if he doesn’t want to/can’t put in the time or effort to spin plates, then this situation doesn’t seem so bad to me unless he gets attached	/r/askTRP	30/06/19 11:09 PM
4	LTR with ex-CC rider I don’t know why everyone is so anti-CC riders. They only become an issue if you get oneitis. I say enjoy it while it lasts, just understand that you’re going to get burned one way or another in the end. If you enjoy it and get some fun out of it while remaining detached, then it’s worth it	/r/askTRP	30/06/19 11:05 PM
26	Why You Should Never Get Married “Look at the old men out there without families and it’s not hard to see most have emptiness inside.” You must be looking at the men who didn’t choose this life. The men who are BP as fuck and weren’t able to tie shit down. You’re going to have a very hard time convincing me that Leonardo DiCaprio has emptiness inside	/r/TheRedPill	24/05/19 03:41 AM
3	LTR's dirty little secret Alpha/Beta is a spectrum, and you’re absolutely right, many times being 100% alpha is going to be counterproductive to your end goals. However, I do think it’s necessary to flip the switch, and go from beta to alpha extreme, before finding a comfortable middle ground	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/18 08:09 PM
1	7 Science-Backed Ways To Increase Testosterone Great post, I also just want to stress how important it is to watch what goes into your body. Sugar tanks testosterone, soy and legumes are highly estrogenic, and processed crap in general will also lower T. Sugar: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/22804876/ Phytoestrogens(legumes and soy): https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/m/pubmed/21353476/	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/18 05:48 PM