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| 1 | Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinityI'm in favor of maintaining the strengths of traditional masculinity in modern society. But it's really not hard to be more empathic and reduce those toxic qualities that directly stifle the growth and comfort of other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 12:44 AM |
| 3 | The whole “Chad” thing is extremely overblown, women consistently get with men less attractive than themThose same regular guys can become 'Chad' too when they're high on the right substance, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Women aren’t shamed for their “shallow” preferences like men areWomen aren't usually shamed for their physical preferences because on average they respond to character first and they can often overlook appearances if they really like you. Most men can't even give people a chance to show character unless the minimum looks requirements are met. And they make a bigger deal out of it way more when it comes to attraction/dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:00 AM |
| 2 | You get who you can get. Not who you deserve or are entitled to. Who you can get IS your "smv"The problem with modern dating is how selfishly parasitic each person is. This upward-downward rating thing is sociopathic af and how casual people are about that explains why so many of you are having a hard time in your relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 08:54 AM |
| 18 | Q4All: At a certain age is it true that people stop trying to improve/become attractive to the opposite sex?Eventually people "rise above" the mating dance once a lot of those experiences are out of their system. They simply move on to more meaningful things beyond sex/dating. Some people just get depressed / nihilistic and feel like nothing matters - even if they're hot, rich, etc they'll never feel fulfilled. And some just give up because of too many failures or it's gotten exhausting trying to find validation all the time. The average age people give up varies since it depends how fast they lived l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?Be extroverted, socially conscious and highly intuitive. Know how to navigate conversations to a win-win situation where you both feel good at the end of the night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Women are never really "alone" the way men areBecause all you did was take care of YOUrself. Relationships need you to care the other person too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Q4All, what makes some people say women being promiscuous is a catalyst for societal collapse?Trollbait. Most people are average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 2 | As multiple studies suggest, High n count is a red flag for both genders. Impulse control is a preferable quality for marital stability and has nothing to do with gender.Lol right? These people don't understand how having relationship/sexual experience can actually make you better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 02:53 AM |
| 1 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderHaving your shit together is mainly for your own well-being, but it's an important prerequisite for any adult that wants to build meaningful relationships. It only makes up a portion of what builds attraction and trust. There's still a lot of work to be done on top of that, and it has more to do with being other-centered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 02:48 AM |
| 1 | With access to easy sex, it is up to women to control their n countsI think it only matters depending on HOW their experiences have shaped them. Some people become better human beings, but many get "ruined", regretful and become jaded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 02:40 AM |
| -1 | Q4All, what makes some people say women being promiscuous is a catalyst for societal collapse?Prostitution is a temporary "fix" and doesn't get to the heart of the problem. Both men and women have a lot of negative experiences from those "80% of men" because 80% of men have terrible levels of emotional intelligence, tact, class, empathy, attractiveness, reliability, trustworthiness, etc. Both men and women have experienced some form of trauma caused by 80% of men who display the worst kinds of human behaviour - most of them act like unevolved, sub-humans indeed. Whether these men are ric… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/22 02:17 AM |
| 1 | To game or not to game?Any person that was only attracted to me when I was "performative", not my real self, and doing the drama shit made me feel depressed in the end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 12:41 AM |
| 1 | For the women who say "a person's past shouldn't matter with regards to who they had sex with", would you be fine dating/marrying a man who slept with dozens of prostitutes before he met you, provided he got tested and was fully clean? Why or why not?If the guy was a slut in the past but STILL is not good with women by the time he's with me, then I'd have a serious problem, lol. The point of getting that experience is to know what you're doing (develop emotional intelligence and be actually good at sex), get that urge / desire for validation out of your system and finally rise above to become a well-balanced man. If he's gone through the trenches and hasn't come out a better person, then no thanks. I'd only think he's some old pervert who ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Looks are by FAR the biggest factor in attracting a girl.I also learned that the hotter a person is, the more degeneracy they can attract - especially if they're in the entertainment / beauty / fashion / adult industry in some way. Unless they're strong-minded, they'll more likely to get pulled into more shady or toxic relationships. So the baggage part I definitely get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 10:19 PM |
| 28 | [Q4ALL] What do you consider to be the biggest issues with “modern dating” and what is the solution?This. Majority of people nowadays have no resilience and people's emotional intelligence have gotten progressively worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women for initial intimacy(touching and kissing). Is this practiced in reality?Can't a man and a woman have conversations before meeting in-person to establish explicit consent and confirm their desire for each other? And have this built up overtime, instead of doing it too spontaneously so they can gauge each other's consistency. I think that just texting / talking / video calling about possible scenarios beforehand helps in managing those grey areas by the time they meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 06:22 AM |
| 36 | The women aged 24-32 who are not content with the current state of dating: Why are you not content with it? What can both genders do about it?Most people give up on each other too easily and put half-hearted effort into their relationships, yet expect everything to just be handed to them. Basic values of loyalty and respect are ditched in favor for romanticized toxicity. So many also have their heads in the clouds and can't separate their fantasy ideals (influenced by entertainment, art, fashion, social media, celebs/influencers, porn, bad role models, family or friend brainwashing and trauma, etc) from reality. This causes men and wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 12:21 AM |
| 0 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?We can go in circles about this same old topic or the leaders of society should just do what's needed to improve it. Debating is pointless if no good comes out of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 02:25 AM |
| 4 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?Except this conversation about oppression didn't originally come from organized media brainwashing, it's just women from all over sharing their universal experience. Only recently it developed into a "movement". Either way this only created a minor improvement for the women's side, but not society as a whole. Since men are both the primary builders and destroyers of society it's also on them to adjust to the modern climate or just keep repeating the bad side of history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Consequences of limited male sexual access on Western Civilization?Women wouldn't have to be feminist if men's mentality were compatible enough with their values. Yet here we are, with the gender divide growing bigger in every generation and every culture globally. Imo that's the reality though, today's men aren't as emotionally/mentally strong and stable as they were, paired with women that no longer want to accept the unfair conditions and sacrifices of family life... Nature doesn't give a shit about our feelings though. The only way to go forward IS to get b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | At age 30, these are my gems of knowledge, along with tips for guys my age trying to re-enter the dating world during the Post-Millenial EraThis is actually good advice! | /r/seduction | 17/04/19 01:43 PM |
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