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| 8 | Do you believe that only a small percentage of men are having the majority of sexual encounters with women? Does this signal polygamy incoming? | Discussion | mixedmartialstoner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 04:51 PM |
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| -3 | How would you feel about a "reverse orgasm gap*?Yes, because you didn't find him arousing in the end despite his enthusiasm. A genuine vibe killer without even realising it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/26 12:45 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?no reproduction | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:58 PM |
| -1 | If men were to focus more on women's personalities and character than looks, women would have alot less options.I think personality refers more to aspects where girls will have more male traits, be less agreeable, be more assertive etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 08:57 AM |
| – | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?Shut up cuck, you speak when your bitch says only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 08:35 AM |
| – | Why do most guys say their ideal woman is a "good girl" (sweet, loyal, low body count, not super party-oriented)? Is it genuine or just what sounds good?"A woman will get far more attention posting a bikini pic or an onlyfans link than of her reading a book in a sweater." LMAO massive blue pilled simp cuck over here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with?HR managers are literally the ones sleeping with the smg lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women say their low sex drive in marriage was due to lack of emotional attunement & burden of household chores, yet immediately start enjoying CASUAL SEX after divorce with men they share no emotional connection or household chores with?But women love banging the men who they are picking up after ie EAs/secretaries and their bosses at work . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 10:23 PM |
| 2 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.I think the larger point is being missed by everyone being distracted about sentencing and female privilege. What set her off was she was dating a simp and this other guy was mocking her and telling her she should stay in the kitchen instead of drinking with the boys. She's so used to getting her own way and walking all over her boyfriend, she just imploded with rage. I read her sobbing remarks at her sentencing - what was very concerning is how women are allowed to reframe the narrative of stil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many attractive women on dating apps when they pretty much have unlimited options in real life already?Pt 3- Pt5 summed up: Easier for women to window shop and find the best deal they can get their for their SMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/25 02:54 AM |
| -4 | Many men losing interest in womenWomen's job should always be to filter for the best male as they are inundated with access to sex on the front end but not always commitment on the back end. You just reveal your own bop history by implying you used to be into shorter flings when you were younger (and ironically when you were most compatible for a long term relationship/marriage). A man's job is by default to attract as many females as possible and work hard to secure access to sex, and then filter for who they give commitment t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 04:11 PM |
| -8 | Women that say it’s controlling if a man doesn’t like their girl showing a lot of skin online or where other dudes can see: do you actually want us to agree that you do it for yourself not for men?From birth, yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:30 PM |
| -3 | Women that say it’s controlling if a man doesn’t like their girl showing a lot of skin online or where other dudes can see: do you actually want us to agree that you do it for yourself not for men?It means he has no options and is too insecure to state what he wants as boundaries. He will do and say what he can to make sure you stick around. You'll get bored of him soon don't worry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:30 PM |
| 0 | Women that say it’s controlling if a man doesn’t like their girl showing a lot of skin online or where other dudes can see: do you actually want us to agree that you do it for yourself not for men?Women get into relationships hoping they can change a man or he will eventually change to her liking. Men get into relationships hoping she stays as she is and never changes from who he fell for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:29 PM |
| -5 | Women that say it’s controlling if a man doesn’t like their girl showing a lot of skin online or where other dudes can see: do you actually want us to agree that you do it for yourself not for men?All women are attention starved. They just go about getting attention in different ways - online, in person, at work, social groups, hobbies that are male dominated, guy friends, being extra clingy or jealous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:27 PM |
| 0 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyYes they already use it en masse, and when women say men are trash we tend to often agree. Men hold other men accountable and we are hierarchical in nature, so men already know the uncomfortable truths and what's needed to self improve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 09:20 PM |
| 1 | When You’re On a Date with a Woman, She Usually Has 3 Other Guys AlreadyThat's not true, you can pretty much work out female nature after about 20-30 women. It all boils down to some core traits that are not specific to any race, religion, upbringing, education level, age, looks or even sexual past. Once you go above 50 and into triple digits, you then have actual "game" and it takes effort actually ghosting or pushing away girls to make room for the hotter ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/25 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Why are Men's Troubles with Dating Invalidated by Women?It's been shown that girls are the ones that have intense arousals around a handmaids tale scenario, and other perverted scenarios like being confined/restrained and CNC/rough play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 11:45 PM |
| – | All long-term relationships require the man to do whatever the woman wantsThis happens more often with boys who were raised with a single mother, or witnessed their mom being the victim of violence, leading to always cater to her emotions no matter how irrational or abusive. Will Smith comes to mind. I disagree that the majority don't experience this. Modern day times has now put the female POV on a pedestal, requiring constant tone policing and feminising men to an extreme extent. There is a still a minority that live life appropriately though. Happy King, Happy King… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Are you okay with your gf/wife watching porn?I would disagree with both these so called men and stay firm on my boundaries. I'm not afraid to walk away from my relationship either and knowing where I stand makes my wife more attracted and attached to me instead of in porn brain land watching shows on Netflix like Sex/Life and fantasising about DPs. But hey, that's just me. An actual man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/25 02:44 AM |
| 0 | Men who say they don't careGetting married to UMC college educated women will drastically increase the odds of your marriage ending in divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Men who say they don't careThese pairings are also what's leading to the population disparity across most westernised countries including South Korea, Japan, Norway and Sweden. Idiocracy is happening in real time. Elitist people pairing off with elitist people are having less kids, especially in the middle class to upper middle class. The dumb fucks are reproducing en masse. There is no need for commonality of interests or "college experience" to be shared in order to have good relationship outcomes. Most people make frie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 06:47 AM |
| -5 | Men who say they don't careNo these are definitely not the facts haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:41 PM |
| 0 | Men who say they don't careSounds like massive amounts of cope. You should really learn the difference between ad hominem attacks and descriptors instead of just using words that sound cool, eminem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 11:40 PM |
| -4 | Men who say they don't careNo they absolutely don't. I am only surrounded by well educated men and we do not care at all. Even if she has a degree or career, it plays second fiddle to her beauty, her family values and ability to nurture and raise a family. Not have a theological debate or tell me how much overtime she worked submitting to her boss last week. Only feminine men who are weak willed and desire a female led relationship or a 50/50 care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 10:55 PM |
| -2 | Men who say they don't careI'm sorry but ALL men will lie to get in your pants and get you to take them seriously. The difference is the actually virtuous and capable men will tell you upfront and move on (you may not deal with this calibre of men it seems). The weaker and more desperate men will just keep quiet as they lack optionality. The really awful ones will live off his girls earnings and be an all round incompetent loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates?The purple is getting to your brain, your starting to strawman everything around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates?Good for you bro, but that really doesn't prove or disprove anything. Irrelevant. But it is telling of your friend circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 10:47 AM |
| 21 | Why do you think women initiate divorce more, and lesbian divorce rates are higher compared to gay divorce rates?Interesting. The double standard can also be seen in other situations like break ups where the two were just dating and not even married. A woman who breaks up with a guy is always celebrated for knowing her worth and walking away and it's all "no hard feelings babe". A guy who breaks up with a girl is always looked at as the bad guy and someone who "led" her on, even if she did awful things or didn't not meet his standards over time. Also I want to know more about how a RP woman lives a BP life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageGreat strawman, but that's not even what I said lol Your basic comprehension skills are clearly getting interrupted by your mystical psychic abilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageFantastic argument lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:17 AM |
| 1 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageI understand female nature and female biology better than most women. That's the problem, women don't need to know anything about men to get them into bed. We have to know everything about females, through repeated experiences and trial & error. Most women don't even know how to squirt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 01:16 AM |
| 0 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageDesire underpins everything - it literally causes libido to spike spontaneously as you described. I'm sorry if you need to cope otherwise. The feminist mind virus has poisoned you mind all through your life, education and entertainment. It's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/24 10:07 AM |
| 0 | Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent?Being kind is different to being "nice" Virtuous leaders are kind because they don't have to be, they want to be. Nice people who don't want to talk about uncomfortable truths because of optics or because it hurts peoples feelings (see: division) are repulsive because we can all sense their ulterior motives and true beliefs beyond the fake virtue signalling for good boy points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 10:15 PM |
| 1 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageSo men like to fuck women, but then will have the ick for a woman who does the same? Yes. The same way women will wear makeup and heels, but will have the ick for a man who does the same. But yet a woman whos been touched by no one wants a man who's touched many women? Absolutely. Now you're starting to understand. Well done. I'm willing to bet good money, that you're probably in the 18-24 age range. Wrong. Notice in the real world it's the promiscuous women, who are getting the most attention I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 10:11 PM |
| 2 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageI said that desire underpins everything. If you are not an attractive man who has been with hundreds of women, I can see how you would be confused. Women without porn brain are far more realistic and do not have to desensitise their pussy with various vibrating objects and vigorous masturbation. They are what we term "sexually healthy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 10:06 PM |
| 2 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageI was talking about males assessing females for relationships. Guys will stick their dick in anything to get off, that is not some earth shattering concept that you revealed through your personal anecdote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 10:03 PM |
| -1 | Do you think a younger woman is entitled to leave an older man she's been dating after he's spent?Not true - game theory dictates that eventually the good natured idiot will eventually get bested by someone else's human nature and be used as a doormat. Nice people who just white knight and assume goodness is everyone are repulsive and give most others the ick. This is why the opinionated arsehole (male or female) tends to attract more people who follow their lead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 09:57 PM |
| 12 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageAlmost inevitably, women invest in men via sex upfront and when things don't go to plan, they often cope their way out of it by saying they felt empowered but they know they gave their body to someone they later regret. Hedonism is closely linked to the feminist sexual revolution as a way of convincing people they are liberated, the same way McDonalds normalised obesity and fast food is celebrated and something to be enjoyed without any consequences (spoiler alert- there always is. Just depends … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 09:47 AM |
| 6 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageNot true. There is a natural repulsion and ick when a man, no matter how experienced or inexperienced he is, hears that a girl has been very promiscuous and easy to bed. Most women, even well-to-do virgin/religious women, prefer to date a man whos more experienced and knows what he's doing versus a man who shows he has not been able to attract any or many woman at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 08:58 AM |
| 5 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageNo, the more sex they have had in the past and ran through men they later regret or don't want to "'count" the more they disassociate sex from the pair bonding neurotransmitters her brain naturally released, creating a trauma response that deregulates her dopamine uptake. See Lana Rhoades/Amara for exhibit A. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 08:55 AM |
| 1 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageYes you definitely can. Sex is not some complicated maths algorithm. Love and sexual chemistry is all just underpinned by desire. You just need to know how to frame yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 08:50 AM |
| 18 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageProjecting makes you look salty as hell, forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 01:11 AM |
| 8 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageOr you know, do life better. Find a good woman to marry after dating hundreds of women, get a great degree and start a prestigious career, pursue any hobby you like, travel the world, put effort into nurturing great family and friends...and then perhaps after all that, when everyone decides to drink liquor, maybe indulge in some green. Maybe don't be a teenage stoner and just marry anyone who will sleep with you? Then again, I'm Me and you're you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 01:10 AM |
| 37 | A woman with a promiscuous past or present who treats you like a king is 100x better than a rigid, traditional prude who treats you like you're averageHaha exactly my thoughts. Sounds like massive cope. I will take a low body count and less promiscuous girl over any others, a real man can coach her on all things interpersonal and in the bedroom. Only inexperienced simps and coomers lust after the highly sexual girls who display their promiscuity outwards, because those boys just sit there staring like she's on a 2D screen while she does all the work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More OptionsNow you're not only being illogical as I pointed out last time, but now you're extrapolating across genders and shifting the goal posts. WOMEN crave attention from every angle, at all times. 24/7. Attractive guys, ugly guys, incels, inanimate objects. They wake up, and think, how can I get attention. As a general rule of thumb, of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/24 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More OptionsThat's terribly flawed logic. If a woman enjoys X, an absence of X, no matter how significant or insignificant, will still cause a certain level of discomfort or "thirst" for their attention/approval. Of course, this is magnified for those girls who are used to always having the ground they walk on literally worshipped. Hate them or love them, but an attention w***es worst nightmare is APATHY. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 09:30 PM |
| 0 | Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More OptionsThat's not true, they like attention even from ugly simps. Attention is attention, just like likes on a screen from anonymous strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 12:43 PM |
| -1 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Yes - we call these people unstable and deranged. TDS is a real condition. Hopefully they don't all get put into the crystals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 10:57 PM |
| -1 | Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More OptionsThat's not true. Most men are better than women, so these men just need to reframe how they see themselves and how they can give more value to society beyond their looks. The game is much harder for women who's looks go away and they are left with no skills, just attention seeking traits and pseudo intellectual talking points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 10:56 PM |
| -1 | Being Indifferent to Women Will Get You Many More OptionsEven if you're ugly, the fact you are not giving her any attention WILL drive her insane and make her question "does this guy fawk??? He clearly must get bitches" This is when you get the classic attention seeking behaviour of women who will walk past you several times for no reason, or adjust their top so it's more revealing or just do something to make you turn and stare at them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 10:54 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?That feels very high schooler mean girls esque. Adults just go their separate ways and maybe laugh at them over a beer or wine. Not defaming and trying to gossip in an effort to ruin their social standing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 10:33 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?What's this getting them ostracized part? I don't like how your trying to add that in nonchalantly. If you don't like someone, just go your separate ways like we used to. You are barking up a slippery slope and when the precedent is set, don't be upset when the cancel culture swings the other way for Madonnas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate meYep just to reiterate, most definitely not your bud and would never be one of your "male friends" lol Your whole argument is illogical as based on the probabilities, your feelings of being scared are driven by emotion rather than likelihood of it occuring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Are women more intimidated by the husband material guy vs. the fuckboyThousands of women. Hypergamy and female nature doesn't discriminate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you actually care about not being able to go out with your tits out?Saggy tits surrounded by cellulite, stretch marks and a fat tummy don't count dear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 12:39 AM |
| 28 | Would you date a broke woman?This is the only correct answer on this entire thread. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/24 07:20 AM |
| 4 | Are women more intimidated by the husband material guy vs. the fuckboyYes precisely my point. You will be able to discern and filter for what you are looking for in a LT partner. It's not always looks based at all for females. When I say attractive, I'm referring to all the aspects of the opposite sex you find appealing including their morals, intelligence and how they carry themselves when they are with you and with others in any given room. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 08:25 AM |
| 3 | Are women more intimidated by the husband material guy vs. the fuckboyThis is the biggest lie women sell and I'm glad you're honest here. It's almost always because you see LT potential. There are no distinct categories of husband material guys vs guys just looking to hook up. There's just guys she finds DESIREABLE (looks, status, resources, competency) and then guys she might tolerate or put up with depending upon her specific situation/setbacks (friendzoning and situationships). It's just what she wants at any given time - whether or not it turns into something … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/24 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you actually care about not being able to go out with your tits out?Weird flex but okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/24 04:00 AM |
| 2 | I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate meJust because you "feel" scared of the dark doesn't mean it maps onto reality. You're whole argument is highly emotional and illogical. I'm also most definitely not your bud lol. Speaking of movies, it feels like you know no men except for Netflix serial killer docos. Get out and be social. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/24 03:15 AM |
| 4 | I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate meNo, I am just expanding the logical basis in your hypothetical to test whether you world view stands. You assert the danger of bears to men as equivalent so I am simply applying that to a larger sample size to see if your logic holds true and you stay consistent (which you do not by your own admission). It is clear the fear you attach to men, as distinct from bears, is driven by an emotional fear rather than a logical fear. As most men that MOST humans know, work with, interact with IRL and see … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 06:01 AM |
| 7 | I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate meActually women are responsible for about 55% of all violent assaults in the United States, so in fact they are not just as likely to, they are MORE likely to. DV stats reveal that the highest amount of violence is between same sex lesbian couples and on the opposite end, its lowest among same sex male couples. Women are also most often responsible for anti natal assaults on children (even adjusting per capita for the fact there are more single mother households than single father households). Si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 03:16 AM |
| 4 | I choose the bear. As a man myself I know what men are capable of. Debate meYour whole post has no logical basis. Women are just as likely to commit violent crimes and do all of what you stayed - rape, coerce, manipulate, blackmail, kidnap, conceive of malevolent traps etc. But if you're a man, another man is not going to be anywhere near threatening enough compared to a territorial and ravenous bear (bears don't have leptin to control their hunger, so they're always ravenous). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Modern Women Are Incapable of AccountabilityIt's not just about being overweight tbh. I date girls of all sizes and in threesomes I actually prefer the thicker girls over skinnier girls. Yes looks matter, but women can make up with it with more feminine energy and ACTUALLY showing desire for a guy like basic eye contact and shoulder brushing (notce I didn't say submissive as the female brain automatically jumps to "slave"). The problem is women are not only rebelling with their looks and how they take care of their mental state, but they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Modern Women Are Incapable of AccountabilityRelationships are always an entailment of dating, but you can also form a relationship without dating. So if he struggles with dating, this would include any phase from approach through to connection and so on as it organically flows, right up until having carnal knowledge and thereafter too. He may be attractive to women initially, but may be awkward or lack confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 03:45 AM |
| – | Modern Women Are Incapable of AccountabilityNope you are just being fallacious and confusing the argument that OP is making. He has also clarified that he struggles with dating in subsequent replies yet you're playing a silly game of "but you said this first". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 03:18 AM |
| – | Modern Women Are Incapable of AccountabilityIt's because also women have the privilege to never take accountability. Jump off one ship into a sea full of waiting ferries, yachts and submarines. I think the Upvote to Comment ratio is laughable and is definitive proof that this subreddit is clearly skewed to one particular demographic and their views. Looking forward to Musk restructuring entrenched power in some of these social medias. Heard he's buying Reddit next. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 03:16 AM |
| – | Modern Women Are Incapable of AccountabilityThat's not true, your logic is inconsistent and does not follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 03:13 AM |
| -2 | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenI'm sorry for your loss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 07:04 AM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenBoth extremes on either side are always off putting. I also think it's ridiculously stupid to think that "things in common" is something that is required for a relationship, or to build a meaningful connection. One can have completely different tastes, it has almost no bearing on the success of quality of a marriage in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:43 PM |
| – | The conversation has been hijacked by undesirable men, the REAL issue is that actual DESIRABLE men are being viewed as beneath average-below average womenBe careful bro, they will come with pitchforks to call you a fuckboy and misogynistic because you women view as options. The horror. Game is actually quite easy to learn even if you're not a natural. But negative self talk and limiting beliefs keep people where they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | If women is above 30 and a virgin is she still expired?The truth. Just stings but unfortunately it's reality. Only way to counter female hypergamy is through unfettered pair bonding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 04:16 AM |
| -5 | If women is above 30 and a virgin is she still expired?Strong disagree on this one, champ. I believe the highest form of sexual intimacy is when the woman has peak desire for her man. When a woman loses her virginity to a guy, that guy is forever imprinted in her emotional brain. Of course, future trauma and other Chads may also come and go in her life if she has a bad run of guys, and this just leads to a more jaded and more masculine, disagreeable and promiscuous woman who will proclaim that "body count doesn't matter" and your preferences are jud… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:00 PM |
| -2 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.Perhaps I can give you a key distinguishing feature by way of an example you can understand through. In one of your comments above, you state in brackets "I know what that feels like. For what it's worth, I've tried to bring your internet points score up". A man from TRP would NEVER say something like this. It is clear virtue signalling and an attempt to disarm and manipulate a women from thinking you're an asshole and that you're a "genuine good guy." It screams feminine energy. This is fundame… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:20 AM |
| 7 | Hot Guys I’ve Been Friends Want To Use WomenYou're missing the point. We are all opportunistic to some degree. Some men just have more inherent appeal whether it's looks or raw sexual vibes, which comes with more freedoms and optionality. Basic supply and demand. I think the comment above is pointing out your logical inconsistency - if given the chance, you'd do the same. You are not anymore or any less virtuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 10:12 AM |
| 1 | For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past?I mean by default he stayed in the friendzone giving you relationship benefits whilst showing you he can't do better or get another girl to sleep with him. Definitionally he is a less attractive male hahahaha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past?So do you think you like guys who are more assertive/ambitious about what they want and GO FOR IT or a dude that walks on egg shells, nervous and stuttering, people pleasing and worried about offending you all the time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past?No, as a young man I ate this "nice guy" shit up and almost led to me being an incel. Now I know what kindness truly is and how to trigger biological hardwiring in females to arouse them. To pretend the whole trope of bad boys get the bitches is wrong is insane and self serving to keep the top % of guys getting laid quite small. Thank god I unplugged so now I can bust nuts every day of the week. Colombian, Asian, Scottish, Sri Lankan, Honduras, Filipina. Man's not complaining now lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/24 12:18 AM |
| -3 | For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past?Great observations. Sometimes they shift attention away and most people miss it. I feel sorry for her man if this is how she talks about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 02:52 AM |
| – | For women with a promiscuous past. Is your settle down partner a Ned Flanders compared against the guys you pulled in the past?I.e. cope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 02:49 AM |
| – | CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individualsYou just calling my points bullshit is not a counter argument. Nice try, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 09:32 AM |
| – | CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individualsYou are argue like a female. Lots of prattle and the appearance of refutation, but just emotional retorts and arguing to argue. You tried to obfuscate away the root cause of this bad behaviour by doing the usual 'there's many shades of grey and average people exist' dance. That's why I said you are making a false appeal to complexity, as if it cannot be reduced to its core components. For eg. we can explain why foster kids are more likely to be X independent of Y without becoming incredulous and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 03:13 AM |
| -5 | CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individualsYour using a logical fallacy that because something appears nuanced or complex, it cannot be routinely identified and explained by reference to it's core aspects. I've said it before. There is a reason why Eve was the symbol of bad decisions and poor judgement in Adam and Eve. Left to their own devices without a strong Masculine figure in their life, female human nature devolves into Malifecent, Cruella De Ville and basically any girl that does any evil in this world - they all "snapped" there's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | CMV: women aren't empathetic caring individualsI've said it before. There is a reason why Eve was the symbol of bad decisions and poor judgement in Adam and Eve. Left to their own devices without a strong Masculine figure in their life, female human nature devolves into Malifecent, Cruella De Ville and basically any girl that does any evil in this world - they all "snapped" there's never any accountability, it was always they were pushed and they are actually in fact the victim. Instead of getting mad at this, understand that this is true fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.Okay I gave you some time to settle down so you can listen to me. It's binary. I believe in Masculinity (Red Pill mindset) and Feminity (Blue pill mindset). Everything else is bordering on the Queer lunatic ideology. Black, Purple, Brown, Yellow, Green, White. That's before you thrown in "dark" variations and "sky" variations. People are not rainbows. Human nature is binary and fixed. Our biology can only be poisoned by the recent wave of degeneracy, not "awakened". Even trans ideology reaffirms… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 01:27 AM |
| 0 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.I think you need to pause and take a deep breath. I was referring to your never ending references to coloured pills, like a pharmacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.It's because there isn't such a take. Men view female standards and their nature like a puzzle we have to solve for. We understand and adopt logically. The fem boys complain. Women's sex drive/attraction is like a volume dial - requiring a slow escalation and smooth with no icks shown, not too fast, not too slow. Men's sex drive is like a light switch - ON/OFF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 11:18 PM |
| -1 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.Men's standards are always criticised and immediately labelled as controlling, insecure or mysognistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Many TRPers in here have a high external locus of control, and are hypocritical about it.It's because this isn't a fucking Pfizer commercial. It's just human nature. True female nature. True male nature. And then all the degeneracy that's been promoted and adopted since the 1980s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 11:13 PM |
| 2 | CMV: the gas lighting needs to stopIt's He/Him/Hers, not Himmler. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 12:08 PM |
| – | CMV: the gas lighting needs to stopFamily jewels most definitely are hereditary. It's about the only thing that is, aside from latent comorbidities that will track in similar age categories. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 05:13 AM |
| -2 | CMV: the gas lighting needs to stopI'll answer for you. No it's not a high standard - but a basic requirement - to NOT have a small penis. All women should have this standard. If a woman had a similarly inconvenient and unpleasant sexual organ, she would still get more sex than the guy with a small penis and rightly so. He should not reproduce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loserWrong. A guy that can attract a younger woman definitely has women his own age that he has disqualified already because she is aging relative to younger, hotter, more fertile and more innocent (insert 'less trauma/baggage/headaches') girls. A guy who can't get younger girls often will not get girls at all, or lacks Daddy energy. Which will eventually turn off girls his age as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:23 AM |
| 12 | Society and women definitely equate being unable to attract a woman with being a loserMen and women are not the same. It's easy for women to attract and sleep with a guy= No value as a Woman with no standards is a Turn off. It takes skill and income, assets for a man to have value and purpose to attract and retain a girl= Highly Valued and sought after by Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Women lose attraction to their husbands more than the reverse, and that's why women divorce much more oftenI'm confused. Are you saying you do have urges to get head daily or you don't at all? DM either way for further advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 08:39 AM |
| 1 | Women lose attraction to their husbands more than the reverse, and that's why women divorce much more oftenWrong. Men and women are not the same. Loyalty in provisioning (Loyal Men) is not the same as sexual fidelity (Loyal Women). Promiscuity in females has always and will always be shamed and punished by any society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 11:27 PM |
| 0 | I no longer believe in redpill.I'm also going to venture some sort of lingering childhood trauma or daddy issues manifesting here. Balding is not inherently a trait to demonstrate healthy offspring or survivability (let alone sun protection on your noggin lol) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 0 | I no longer believe in redpill.Exactly. Being in the top 20% is very easy these days. On top of that - being in the top 1% is easier when you realise it's all about context. If you're a cosplay nerd, show her your skills and competency at a Cosplay convention. But the rule is the same. Be the best YOU. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 01:02 AM |
| 0 | I no longer believe in redpill.Redpill has never been about getting Women to lower their standards or stay single. It's about reminding them to stay in their feminine state and shifting the onus on all the fem boys. Men - LIFT YOUR GAME, you bunch of pussies. Men are not hypergamous. We don't monkeybranch like Women do. We fuck around and find out with variety. Puerto Rican Pussy on Friday, a desi queen on Saturday, a blonde bimbo snowbunny on Sunday. My main chick has the majority of my attention and emotional investment thr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 12:57 AM |
| -1 | Do women sexually harass men more often?Yes. By far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Women lose attraction to their husbands more than the reverse, and that's why women divorce much more oftenYes precisely. And men only get more in love with their woman the more she demonstrates said purity and loyalty. It's deeply feminine. Whereas when the guy does the equivalent, he is likely to become a lot less attractive as he becomes a "whipped" male always looking to please her and walk on egg shells. The most virtuous men are those that have options, they are alot less likely to be the emotionally toxic fem boys which often escalates into DV territory. They simply move on to other girls if t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 01:34 PM |
| – | Why do women's empathy disappear when it comes to male children?You're a moron. Don't attack others because they have the ability to write a well reasoned and logical post. Avoid the ad hominems, you feminem Eminems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that only a small percentage of men are having the majority of sexual encounters with women? Does this signal polygamy incoming?Nah you're wrong. Small population case study: https://nypost.com/2021/11/02/men-with-golden-penis-syndrome-ruining-romance-for-women/ TL;dr - Women can't handle it when the supply/demand economics doesn't work out in their favour, despite pushing for 130% more female college enrollments. More women, more choice for men to fuck around and harem it up baby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/21 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe that only a small percentage of men are having the majority of sexual encounters with women? Does this signal polygamy incoming?This a good take - I forgot to see that side of the equation. Do you think, in general terms and all other things equal, in society it is easier for a woman to get laid over a guy, say on a random holiday or night out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:20 PM |
| 0 | Do you believe that only a small percentage of men are having the majority of sexual encounters with women? Does this signal polygamy incoming?That has not been my overwhelming experience nor is it borne out in most of popular culture, but I still value your opinion. Every guy can get laid realistically, it's just about whether he can have her be exclusive to him only | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that only a small percentage of men are having the majority of sexual encounters with women? Does this signal polygamy incoming?Thanks, I wasn't trying to be confrontational, just clarifying to help you understand where I'm coming from. Thanks for your data though, I do agree right now men are outnumbering women but this number has been declining year on year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Do you believe that only a small percentage of men are having the majority of sexual encounters with women? Does this signal polygamy incoming?Maybe I phrased it wrong. There's no empirical data, just from what I've observed. I believe most population data since 2010 is inaccurate. Putting it another way, I think the number of sexually active males is less than the number of sexually active females. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:06 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe that only a small percentage of men are having the majority of sexual encounters with women? Does this signal polygamy incoming?Do you think this reflects the majority of men or do you just keep company where the males are more dominant/looking to have sex more often? I know an eclectic mix - most at some stage have slept around but are not doing so on a consistent basis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe that only a small percentage of men are having the majority of sexual encounters with women? Does this signal polygamy incoming?I agree - the women do tend to demonstrate some form of commitment. "Official" labels or otherwise. Both monogamous and polygamous societies, the woman’s appeal rests partly on offering exclusive access. The only difference is whether the man reciprocates the exclusivity, in principle at least. If anything, in polygamous society the importance of sex appeal likely declines relative to exclusivity, because she does not have to convince the man that she is the best sex partner he can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:01 PM |
| 20 | Can’t attract the men I wantThat last statement really sums it up. Your values are all placed on looks, so you view yourself as low value and automatically filter through potential compatible partners by having a high value bias towards only "extremely" good looking men- that way, rejection is not as hard because you expected to be rejected. Start to change your values around what you view as "successful relationships". You metion all these girls as being with loving partners but really your key criteria is that they are "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/20 01:09 AM |
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