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Field Reportmixmate/r/seduction14/10/12 12:16 PM
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No. I lose respect for her if she artificially delays sex although it's obvious that she wants to.
/r/seduction15/12/12 06:38 PM
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Very motivational, thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction15/12/12 09:32 AM
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Loved that FR, congrats. I think you can be proud of yourself.
/r/seduction01/12/12 09:28 AM
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Wow, that is spot on. I have never thought about it that way but now that I read your post, I totally can relate to it. More than once, I actually passed on a chance to chat with a girl who gave me very clear IOIs, prefering to go home with the good feeling that "I could have had her". I never managed to find out why I can act like this, but fear of success might be an explanation. Even though I don't really understand why I would have that fear.
/r/seduction11/11/12 12:06 PM
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From my understanding, the difference is that introverts recharge batteries while being alone, whereas extroverts do it when with others. So you can totally be an introvert and be very social, but after a while, you might want to look for some alone-time to be able to get new energy. It's a pure assumption but I doubt that you fully can switch sides. My guess is that whether you are an introvert or an extrovert is hardwired in your DNA. In your case the question is if you maybe always have been …
/r/seduction15/10/12 11:12 AM
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But I agree: I should have tried a k-close, just to decrease the likelihood of a flake.
/r/seduction14/10/12 05:25 PM
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Possible. I was simply a bit too lazy for proceeding that way. Also,at 4 am, pretty drunk, I did't feel the chances for a real quality fuck were that big. I prefer to meet again full of energy, sober, and then have a good first lay with a girl.
/r/seduction14/10/12 04:53 PM
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Same here!
/r/seduction08/10/12 08:41 PM
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Pretty good book on body language. I read it and it kinda changed the way i look at people (and at my own body language). Better don't judge it by the cover though. http://www.amazon.com/The-Definitive-Book-Body-Language/dp/0553804723/
/r/seduction02/10/12 04:57 PM
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Awesome story. That never happens me when at SXF ;)
/r/seduction27/09/12 09:09 AM
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Same "problem" here. Although maybe it's not even a problem. Sometimed I pitty the guys who have to fuck everything as long as it has a pair of boobs. Then other times I wish I could lower my standards a bit in order to have an easier time finding girls I'm willing to actually engage with for more than small talk.
/r/seduction23/09/12 09:02 PM
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I agree. I know that sometimes logistics can be tricky, but my preferred choice is to tell the girl when I have time - and I try to give her to options, like "I can on Wednesday after 8 pm or Sunday after 3 pm". From here, three things can happen: She agrees to one of the two options. #win She says she can't but suggests a third option. That's still a sign that she wants to meet you, but of course it also means she wants you to follow her schedule and rearrange yours. Depends on the situation I'…
/r/seduction21/09/12 11:10 AM
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He's good, although he doesn't seem to think too much about his own body language. Maybe it didn't matter in these specific situations but he had his arms crossed a couple of times. That shows a defensive attitude which doesn't seem to be in line with his progressive way of talking with the girls. Girls might notice that and come to the conclusion that he is pretending to be someone he's not.
/r/seduction03/09/12 10:47 AM
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Many Scandinavians hanging around here ;) From my experience in Sweden i totally can see the situation you described happening lots of times. Funny thing is: People mind their own business, look away and try to avoid showing emotions, but as soon as you start to speak to somebody - a girl, an old woman or a guy - they start to smile (while answering). It's totally weird how quickly their expression changes. And from what I think the smiles are actually for real. Scandinavians (not only those, bu…
/r/seduction31/08/12 12:36 PM
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It's a huge uncaptured market. Although I'm just starting with day game I already prefer it over club game, which i personally hate. Club game is fake, everybody is drunk, girls go for guys that they regret having slept with the day after, and I'm not really willing to sacrifice one second of my time for that kind of "competition". Instead, I'm gonna focus hard on the street. And I think the fact that it isn't the norm to talk to strangers on the street just makes it even more rewarding.
/r/seduction31/08/12 09:46 AM
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You kicked ass :) Awesome! Although I disagree with the conclusion "AND ALL I HAD TO DO WAS ASK???" ... because you didn't ask, you just did it. Your question was only rethorical in order to prepare her for what as going to happen.
/r/seduction31/08/12 09:41 AM
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Nice one. But why did you text her to tell her your friend went home but then declined her offer to join her?
/r/seduction31/08/12 09:36 AM
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I'd say focus on getting in a good physical shape. N037 is right, it won't take you years. Never ever if you really go to the gym 3-4 times a week. With every pound you lose and every muscle you gain, you'll feel better mentally. That's of course just the beginning, but it will help you develop a positive attitude, which is needed for a good inner game. See the next 12 month as the phase where you'll do the biggest improvements to your life ever.
/r/seduction30/08/12 01:59 PM
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