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Conversationmiyagikai91/r/seduction02/07/20 02:54 PM
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miyagikai91/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 10:48 PM
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You want society/other peoples’ approval to be how you wish you were from what you’ve described.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 07:18 PM
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You want to be accepted above all?
/r/ExRedPill11/04/25 01:25 AM
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My heart hurts for you.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 10:47 PM
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There are women who’d sleep with you as you physically are now. ESPECIALLY if you got confidence. I’ve seen women on here thirst over bigger guys.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 08:57 PM
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You don’t want to change.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 08:53 PM
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Tate’s dad was a deadbeat. And he, Tristan, and their sister all suffered greatly for it.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 08:51 PM
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People aren’t their parents.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 08:51 PM
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They’re so focused on not being seen as that great of men that they don’t see that they’re not that good of men.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 08:31 PM
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Even then, that’s probably not necessarily the truth with him.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 08:02 PM
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This is all their problems. Your wife left because she’s miserable. She couldn’t take responsibility for her happiness and she hurt you and you all’s sons in the process. Your friends are toxic and miserable similarly because societal barriers aside, they couldn’t get their lives together and are still bitter over the past. They’re well into middle age if not a little past this and languishing in their own misery. For your sake, be better than them: Face your past, face yourself. And make peace …
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 07:23 PM
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Why not just date/hook up without commitment?
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 07:18 PM
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Women in general are just as capable of staying for the person as men are. And they’ve never been more able to make their own money at any point in history until now. Plus they’re not a monolith and don’t all think the same. If you’re always assuming the worst about women, you’ll never truly be able to connect with them. I was never pilled, but I spent too much of my life assuming the worst of myself and my prospects with women. It’s a huge reason I still haven’t even kissed anyone at 33. It’s n…
/r/ExRedPill10/04/25 07:08 PM
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I can confirm this. I realized years ago I wanted a woman like that and my crush fits this bill.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/24 11:22 PM
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It’s about ego above all else with red pillers.
/r/ExRedPill25/01/24 11:18 PM
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Therapy’s all I have.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 09:09 PM
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Red pill acolytes make like they’re leaders/alphas/whatever, but they really followers who need someone to think for them. Do you really want to be a puppet? Someone who needs others to decide right and wrong for them at every turn?
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 01:02 AM
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This may go beyond just different interests.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 11:59 PM
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Me
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 10:07 PM
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Many of us feel it. It’s not the lust but how you deal with it. (on a side note, wish middle school me would have learned this) Jerk off to legal things and remember that if it’d a real life person, they’re more than just a thing to jerk off to.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/23 09:33 PM
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Yeah. You’re still a kid, but you’re not a sheep and you don’t need a shepherd.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 11:14 PM
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You’re gross.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 01:57 PM
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I’m familiar with where you are. I haven’t always thought I was that great of a person myself. But there are people who think you’re worth it. They may even want to date you.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:34 AM
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What do you think would make you worthy at this point?
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:44 PM
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You can’t and shouldn’t hide behind things to talk to women. It may be you already are good somehow but YOU can’t see it. Do you see yourself as worthy in any sense?
/r/seduction30/07/22 07:50 PM
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He’s an asshole. I knew it. I always kinda knew it.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 12:15 PM
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I’ve never felt too great about him and his material. I can feel his smugness. I also think he’s being weighed down by his baggage from the past.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 12:07 PM
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No. First of all they’re not a hive mind. Second, a woman I sexted recently told me to be careful with it when doing it with a girl. Though I’d heard before it can be TOO big for a woman.
/r/ExRedPill22/07/22 12:30 AM
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They’re assholes. 💜 It’s not your height. Short guys CAN get dates. But you can do better than a guy who laughs at you with his friends. Wishing you well on the next one.
/r/seduction29/06/22 07:51 PM
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Then don’t get one. It’s your life not theirs. It’s a concept steeped in insecurity and pitiful entitlement that I have no personal use for.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/22 11:59 PM
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The Ukrainian people defending their homeland in the battlefield have my respect. Red pillers are bullies and cowards.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/22 12:14 PM
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Happy Cake Day
/r/ExRedPill01/03/22 11:27 AM
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Could mean anything.
/r/seduction09/02/22 08:46 PM
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💜
/r/ExRedPill06/02/22 12:33 AM
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It’s been years. If you see this, how have you been?
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:45 AM
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At the end of the day, you have to WANT to leave. We can’t do that for you. Why do you believe those things, look within yourself. Also, if I were attracted to men I know I wouldn’t go for you. Rep Pill’s awful and miserable.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/22 02:38 AM
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I’d still wouldn’t like it that much. It’s not all that much the sex withholding (a red pill tactic), but how controlling and infantilizing he is.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/22 01:34 AM
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You’ve internalized his Rep Pill misogyny. You’ve been abused so much you think he’s right and you deserve every bad thing that’s happened to you. It’s NOT true, but that’s more or less where your mind is. You might be looking to us to decide right and wrong for you, but that won’t fix this. How do you feel about therapy?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/22 10:46 PM
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No. Redpillers still believe there’s hope for themselves as fucked up as their own ways are. Incels have like NO hope. Though NEITHER can forgive the people they believe looked down on them.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/22 10:56 AM
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Yes. You should see why he feels that way.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/22 04:57 AM
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He’s quite a fuckboy. I don’t need a puppet master, but as a black man, he has NOTHING to offer me.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/22 08:44 PM
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Glad you rejected the dark side. What exactly happened if you want to share?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 09:21 PM
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Yeah. Has anyone here seen the Morty card one?
/r/seduction05/09/20 10:05 PM
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:)
/r/seduction02/09/20 06:59 AM
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Don’t be the dog. Don’t come on so strong and accept when things go nowhere. Focus on seeing yourself as worthy.
/r/seduction30/08/20 10:02 PM
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Agreed. A big one for me is age. I’m open to sex from legal age to whenever around the older spectrum I want to stop, but relationships, it’s 3 years younger to 3 years older. I want to be with someone I can grow with.
/r/seduction29/08/20 06:57 AM
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Congratulations. We’re the same age and I haven’t had my first yet.
/r/seduction24/08/20 08:37 PM
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No. Maybe your subconsciously seeking out (more) broken women. I have a friend who in a more self aware way did this with guys when we were teenagers. But not all women are like you think. Try going for women who’ll appreciate your preferred way. It’s not worthless.
/r/seduction22/08/20 07:49 AM
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Stop bullying yourself. I’m a kiss less virgin with baggage who’s never had a relationship too, and I’m 28. It’s not the end of the world at EITHER of our ages. You are the one person who needs to be in your corner for things to matter. Your old bullies don’t need to be right about you. They have their own problems anyway for being bullies. Those 21 and under successful with women, you don’t know their story. And even if you did, as nice as kisses and sex and dating are, they don’t need to be th…
/r/seduction15/08/20 11:22 PM
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This came at an oddly convenient time for me. I was just thinking about my issues with rejection and how misguided the lessons I learned from it early in life are. You’re right. Being perfect/flawless is overrated and (thankfully in a way) unattainable.
/r/seduction14/08/20 10:30 PM
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I’m 28M and still haven’t had my first time. But it only bothers me sometimes when I’m horny nowadays. I do know they’re not all like the one in your story. Don’t think you know everything or that you can.
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:23 AM
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Definitely not if she’s busy. If you must, I’d say establish yourself as unthreatening first.
/r/seduction12/08/20 04:03 AM
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She could be.
/r/seduction10/08/20 01:00 AM
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Don’t agree with all of this, but what I do, spot on. I’m itching for the scourge to be over so I can finally get much needed practice.
/r/seduction09/08/20 10:05 PM
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That’s awful. I’ve known nothing but rejection, but I’ve always backed away.
/r/seduction09/08/20 07:40 AM
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You’re not into them, but the idea that they can fill a void in your heart/soul. You need to take care of your own needs. It’s okay to pursue chicks, but they’ll never be responsible for making you a better person. That’s always on you.
/r/seduction06/08/20 07:19 PM
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Rip the bandaid off. Situations like these are inconvenient beyond repair. She doesn’t control what you do. Just what she does next.
/r/seduction03/08/20 10:07 PM
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Agreed unless you feel comfortable with also telling her your intentions if you haven’t already.
/r/seduction30/07/20 09:25 PM
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💜
/r/seduction29/07/20 12:29 AM
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Too manipulative and shady. I’d rather get better without tricks.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:49 PM
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Saw it. Thanks. I know of both of them.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:36 PM
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I have no interest in PUA.
/r/seduction27/07/20 04:35 PM
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Myself mainly. I’m not that great socially, don’t do well with keeping up friendships, been rejected every single time I asked someone out, often fall for taken girls, been afraid of pissing people off, was afraid of my parents reacting a certain way, shy, awkward, clueless, probably not worth it to them, valued looks too much, didn’t have the sense to talk to them like human beings, felt inadequate, boring and ugly compared to others, weird, emotionally crippled with each rejection, afraid of l…
/r/seduction27/07/20 09:26 AM
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I’m a super late bloomer then. I’m 28.
/r/seduction27/07/20 06:28 AM
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:). I’m 28 and haven’t made close to as far as you. Hope it lasts with her.
/r/seduction27/07/20 06:26 AM
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Have a good day.
/r/seduction26/07/20 05:31 AM
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Hope it works out.
/r/seduction25/07/20 06:56 PM
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It’s okay to be hurt by it. It’s also okay to let it go and move forward.
/r/seduction21/07/20 08:26 PM
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:)
/r/seduction21/07/20 06:34 PM
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Any dates with guys?
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:23 PM
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My friend was like that for a while (the latter).
/r/seduction16/07/20 11:06 PM
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Who do you want to be? Focus on this and the right people will come.
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:56 AM
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Take the pressure off of yourself. They’re people like you and me too, not the ethereal solution to your inner turmoil. I’m 28 and gave felt like this too in the past, but I’ve never been in a date. And U saw a thread with a 42 year old guy who’s never dated anyone. There’s hope for you. For now, focus on talking to chicks and going for the ones you feel a connection to. Even if it ends up being platonic. If it doesn’t work out, you briefly met with someone interesting.
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:34 AM
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Forgive yourself
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:26 AM
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The more I think about it, the more I could probably do this IRL once the scourge is dealt with. I had a good chat with this cute girl online at a GIS conference this week. Out of everyone I talked to, she was the only one I initiated the topic of my current job with. It could work out if a big, but not all that much out of the realm of possibility shift happened (she has family close to my area even though she lives on the other side of our country). She gave me her e-mail of her own volition. …
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:09 AM
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I meant before there’s a baby to be (possibly) had. But true.
/r/seduction15/07/20 06:15 PM
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That should be talked about before it’s that deep in. Of course that’s not always the way it goes, but if your dreams meant that much to you, you would seriously factor in how she affects things before even thinking about marrying her.
/r/seduction15/07/20 01:45 PM
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You could always put off the baby. Or just not have it.
/r/seduction15/07/20 11:04 AM
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You have no faith in yourself. She may not be all that put together herself, but she clearly didn’t feel it with you. You have major insecurity problems you need to overcome. I’m in my late 20s myself, but I’ve somewhat let go of the notion that guys our age were supposed to get all of this experience years ago. I recommend Dr. Nerdlove.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:48 PM
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25-31. From 3 years younger than me to 3 years older than me. If it’s sex I’m more flexible, but this is how I roll romantically.
/r/seduction14/07/20 01:35 AM
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You’ve earned your success. Not an incel, but I’m 28 and have NO sexual or romantic experience due to a life not conducive to these things partly of my own doing. If I had the experience you did pre transformation, I’d like to think I would have handled it better than you, but who knows? I already do 1,2 and 4. 3 I probably wouldn’t do since I have mixed feelings on online dating, and 5 sounds good even though I’d employ a different system. I endorse backpocketing and do this non romantically. B…
/r/seduction13/07/20 02:54 AM
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Glad it was a good day :)
/r/seduction12/07/20 06:44 AM
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To them it was. But not all. Be a good person in your own way, and you’ll find ones that don’t care about how tall you are.
/r/seduction11/07/20 09:57 PM
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Eye contact’s something I’ve needed to work on for the longest. It intimidates me. Has since childhood. I hate seeing people unhappy with me or just unhappy in general. It hurts, and I still haven’t overcome it. And it’s a byproduct of how sensitive I’ve been to rejection and a major albatross towards me making connections at all let alone meaningful ones. I need to learn self forgiveness. This churns my stomach a bit to write.
/r/seduction10/07/20 04:13 AM
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This exact scenario has never happened to me. But if it did, I’ve been the type to lose hope. To think that she never really cared like that. To lose faith in myself. I want to be the guy that has faith in himself and that all is well no matter what. That I still have a chance no matter who else is interested. No matter what she ultimately chooses. And if I lose, then that’s okay. I can just carry on as I see fit. If you’re really interested in her, keep trying. You may get her, but if not, then…
/r/seduction08/07/20 11:34 PM
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We all start somewhere. Even more experienced people were where you were one. If she’s really right for you, she won’t care about either. On a side note, I’m 28M and STILL haven’t had either. But that’s a long story.
/r/seduction08/07/20 01:51 PM
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Enthusiastically enough. Maybe seductively too. But I’m fine with just being asked ultimately. Unless it’s like with that one chick...
/r/seduction07/07/20 01:21 AM
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I know it was just fun. And yeah the 1st did choose that. Society’s so damned stupid about womens’ sexuality >_>. I accept that women are sexual beings through and through. My problem’s mainly just been relating to them in a nutshell. Not making connections with them or even other guys (platonically) like you did. But I’m getting more interested in making this one of the things I do differently once the “event” is over. I’m no flirting expert, but I think that tattoo bit goes beyond subtle. Even…
/r/seduction06/07/20 11:25 AM
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Glad you had fun. :) I’m 28 and been like you used to be. Maybe I too could get over my own hang ups and have fun like this (But probably not knowingly hit on taken chicks. Not my thing regardless.) If that second chick were to leave her husband, do you see yourself getting with her? And I wonder if the first one has issues with her BF drinking.
/r/seduction06/07/20 06:34 AM
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You’re a better man than me. I’m 28, and while I’ve more or less been on my own self improvement journey for the past 9 years, and while I’m not the same clueless fool I used to be, it’s only taken me until recently to see that I wasn’t humanizing women in my interactions with them. And I have never been an incel or neckbeard. I just saw them as physically stunning beings to fill a void within myself when I didn’t think I was worth it after years of childhood rebuke and rejection. This even exte…
/r/seduction02/07/20 06:02 AM
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Yet another post of advice I’ve needed for years. That’s another problem with me, my cold approaches have been tone deaf and awkward. I didn’t approach wanting a human connection in general, I approached as a needy guy lower key thirsty for sex and validation. I don’t think I could count the number of girls I’ve put off like this. Maybe like a lot of them actually would have given me a chance if I hadn’t been subtly creepy. A big problem in general with me is my inability to just establish a rea…
/r/seduction26/06/20 03:54 AM
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I’ve needed this advice. More than I’ve known. I can be enough. I can be enough as I am. Thank you.
/r/seduction23/06/20 12:35 AM
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I haven’t done it like that, but I too know what it’s like to hold onto an illusion to avoid (painful) development.
/r/seduction17/06/20 01:23 AM
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I did this in 6th grade. Thought the guy who told me was kidding, and I didn’t feel that way about her anyway. Found out 3 years later it was true. If you want to go out with her, work on seeing yourself as worthy. I’m having my own issues with this. And just not knowing myself much as a romantic and sexual being.
/r/seduction14/06/20 07:52 AM
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Stop seeing yourself as a nuisance. I’ve had problems with this too but have started to recover. Guys like us have this problem because we have a problem seeing ourselves as worth it. Cut yourself more slack, hang around women more, and listen to what they’re communicating. Getting inside your head and making false occurrences won’t get you forward.
/r/seduction13/06/20 06:30 AM
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It’s funny, I was thinking that while it’d be nice to have like a harem of sorts, I don’t want to be a guy that lives and acts ONLY for sex. I want to have a life I’m glad I lived, especially after how my earlier youth generally went.
/r/seduction12/06/20 01:33 AM
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Why do you think it bothers you?
/r/seduction22/05/20 11:07 PM
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You’re not him. Don’t try to be him. But a better you.
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:25 PM
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Do your best and make it interesting. Even get tastefully sexual. Try not to think too much and psyche yourself out. It’s supposed to be fun.
/r/seduction08/05/20 01:45 PM
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That too.
/r/seduction05/05/20 03:30 AM
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Playing games with women is bad.
/r/seduction04/05/20 09:49 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction01/05/20 07:21 PM
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The thing is, when we over complicate, it’s usually tied to mental baggage accumulated over years. If we think we’re not enough for them, it’s because we don’t feel good enough that much if at all. In other words, there’s a lot to unpack before we get better.
/r/seduction01/05/20 04:24 PM
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Never thought of it that way. It DOES take the pressure off.
/r/seduction27/04/20 07:59 AM
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If need be which was in your case. Glad things are better for you.
/r/seduction15/04/20 08:19 PM
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If they’re still together, something had to work anyway.
/r/seduction13/04/20 05:01 PM
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I could if I felt I needed to.
/r/seduction08/04/20 03:28 AM
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If it means enough to you, than it’s fine.
/r/seduction26/03/20 02:34 PM
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To your new chapter 🥂
/r/seduction20/03/20 01:40 AM
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