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| 0 | What kind of music do you like to get down to? | mjgrrrrr | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 01:37 AM |
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| 2 | How do I get guys like you to approach me?If the guys any good all you have to do is pretend to get caught staring at him and smile. So that's how you get guys like us. If you want guys that aren't like us, and need a lil poke in the right direction try putting a hand on his shoulder, getting up in his ear, and something along the lines of "hi.. my friends are being pussies, wanna take this shot with me?"... Afterwards, if he doesn't progress past the initial intro, just wink at him, walk away, and glance back when you get to your frien… | /r/seduction | 20/09/11 09:37 PM |
| 6 | What's your favorite and funniest toast to say when buying shots?I read it as Ron Swanson | /r/seduction | 02/08/11 10:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] #closed a HB8 while working, sent her the first text but no text back? Analysis welcome!You have one chance to salvage this. Wait until you and some friends are going out for drinks. Send her a text along the lines of, "Drinks tonight? xyz bar @ 9pm.." simple and to the point. If she doesn't respond to this than it's a lost cause. I usually do this 2-3 times if I get a flake or no response, but in your case, since you've already messaged her once and the whole "wanna be friends" thing, I'd try it once. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 04:35 PM |
| -2 | Gym approach for cute girl I see there occasionally.I think you need to test the waters before writing her off as "not wanting to be talked to". Ask her to spot you. She'll oblige, and afterwards say something funny like, "I could tell you'd be able to spot me since you're f'n cock diesel." If she laughs then shes open. If she shrugs it off and goes back to her workout, you'll have to figure out how to talk to her outside of the gym. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Where am I messing up? Frustrated..Never ever.. Save that exact conversation you're going to have with her over the phone for when you actually hang out. You can build attraction much easier face to face then over the phone. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 04:15 PM |
| 1 | What kind of music do you like to get down to?The xx is great as well.. Bon Iver is more rainy day rolling around in bed. Not sure why I left out the xx. That's been my go to album for a couple years now. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 04:13 PM |
| 1 | What kind of music do you like to get down to?I'm no spring chicken at 28... Wait that's exactly what I am :) | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 05:13 AM |
| 1 | What kind of music do you like to get down to?seriously? sounds like video game music. edit: depeche mode is alright though :) | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 01:55 AM |
| 1 | What kind of music do you like to get down to?I love metal, but not for laying down to. I try to keep rhythm with the music. Making out would be super fast and awkward. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 01:55 AM |
| 3 | Best way to initiate FWB situation?I've recently been in this situation. The advice to just hook up with her and not talk about it is solid, but eventually SHE will probably bring it up, and you will need an answer. What worked for me. went something like this. girl: so what are we, like, doing here? me: you mean like our relationship? girl: yeah me: do you like what we're doing? girl: yeah me: then that's what we're doing. I don't know what it is, but I like it too. It came from a natural place, and it was completely honest and … | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Where am I messing up? Frustrated..The only texts I send to girls anymore are invitations or requests.. No texting asking them how they're doing or what they're up to. This has dramatically increased the quality and timeliness of texts I send out. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 01:44 AM |
| 3 | I need help with approaching girls in public.It also works because it should make her laugh, and present a challenge for her. If she doesn't laugh, and/or bite at the challenge of entertaining you, she probably doesn't have the kind of personality you really wanna chase after. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Kino anxietyMy advice. Stop thinking of the word kino when you're trying to touch a girl.. Kino is the stupidest sounding piece of jargon I've ever heard. But seriously, stop thinking about touching them and just act naturally. You'll end up touching her a lot more if it comes from a natural place. | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 01:33 AM |
| 10 | I need help with approaching girls in public.Thats actually a great opener.. "Hi.. I was bored and I chose you to entertain me.." | /r/seduction | 31/07/11 01:17 AM |
| 3 | New to Seddit, approached on weekend, got her number, texts back and forth, now what?She's not comfortable with being alone with you.. Toss it back at her with something along the lines of what RayZR said or, "I'm not accustomed to having a chaperone :)"... Smiley face is key. Older ladies DO NOT get sarcasm through text messages. It's completely lost on them. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 03:36 PM |
| 1 | When does your age start to matter?Forgive my ignorance, but what's the dagger? | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 02:35 PM |
| 4 | When does your age start to matter?The point is, it doesn't matter how old you are. If you got swagger you got swagger :) | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 05:23 PM |
| 1 | What does your room look like?My dream room is similar. Something like this. Location unspecified right now. This home is featured on the cover of the film Visual Acoustics. It's on demand right now I believe. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Best way to take advantage of bottle service?You don't mention it ever.. You engage just like you would any other girl, and if you feel like hanging out with them, you ask them to join you and your friends. She will be more impressed by you not giving a shit about bottle service then the actual bottle service. edit: You want to make a girl interested in you, not what you have to offer them. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 05:06 PM |
| 6 | When does your age start to matter?Clooney.. Nuff said. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 05:04 PM |
| 1 | What does your room look like?Another great thing about Toledo is I picked up most of my furniture accessories off craiglist for next to nothing. People just don't know what things are worth. I bought both of those Wasilly chairs for $100. They're worth around $400 a piece. The chesterfield was a similar situation. In my living space I have a replica Eames lounge chair that I bought for $100, took it apart, refinished it, and put it back together. It's like new. I'm a big fan of not only Toledo, but especially the old west e… | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 04:52 PM |
| 1 | What does your room look like?I live in the largest neighborhood of Victorian homes in the entire country. It's called the old west end and it's in Toledo, Oh of all places. Just got lucky and found the place on craigslist. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Flaked, but still interested?My advice. Wait a day or two so the "I don't wanna look anxious" wears off. Then, Casually invite her to social things you're already going to do anyways. For example, "Drinks tomorrow night? [insert place] @ 9".. Give her all of the details in a short and succinct manner. This resolves any kind of confusion about where and when, and it makes you sound like a boss because you're able to take control and make decisions. If she's busy, just reply with something along the lines of "no worries" or d… | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 09:21 AM |
| 2 | What does your room look like?I live in the ballroom, on the 3rd floor, of an old victorian mansion. The entire ballroom is one big L shape. My sleep area is 1/3 of the ballroom located in the bottom line of the L. It's segregated from the vertical line of the L by "see-thru" bookshelves full of records. On top of the bookcases are large elephant ear style plants. My bed is in what was once a billiards room at the end of the bottom line of the L. It's this bed almost exactly. The foot of the bed faces away from the rest of t… | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 09:10 AM |
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