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| 5 | When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational? | Fundamentals | mjhudson12241224 | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 11:05 PM |
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| 9 | Hinge chatResponse: “Yes you may. Shall we schedule your first appointment for tonight?” | /r/seduction | 16/10/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle girls fishing for drinks?I would take that as a crap or shit test and politely decline. Why can't she buy her own drinks? | /r/seduction | 28/09/24 07:55 PM |
| 18 | How to answer the "what are we question"?I usually respond by flipping the question back on them because that’s what it’s really about. “What do you wanna be?” “What do you think we are?” “Well I’m single and not exclusive. You tell me what you are?” Bottom line: women are always going to eventually want a relationship or commitment at some point if they’re consistently having sex with a man over a period of time. Less than 10% of women are actually cool with just being long term fuck buddies. I just had a girl block me for the same re… | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 05:17 PM |
| 29 | Why do women have high physical standards when looking for a hookup but not so much when looking for a relationship?Generally speaking they do have high standards for both. It’s just a LOT harder to get a good looking man to settle down in a long term relationship than have casual sex or a hookup. So that’s why you see women hookup with guys who are attractive or high status when they’re younger then get married to someone medium or low status when they’re older—they’re settling. It doesn’t mean their standard or desired went away though. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational?Thanks man. I really appreciate this 💯💯 | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 03:22 PM |
| 1 | When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational?Word that’s real. I think also something that bothers me is that I’m a perfectionist. I want every shot I take to go in, 100% from the field. But I know that’s realistic and impossible. So I’m struggling to learn how to let go of that irrational and impractical need for perfectionism, while simultaneously not dropping the standards I have for myself and quality of person I want to deliver to the women if that makes sense. Preciate your feedback | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 01:02 PM |
| 3 | When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational?I like the analogy, and it makes total sense. Thanks for the input | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 01:00 PM |
| 1 | When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational?So a mix of genuineness and naturalness, while still being cerebral to read body language and process responses. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 12:37 AM |
| 5 | When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational?Noted. Thanks for the suggestions 👍🏿 | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 12:36 AM |
| 1 | When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational?Got it. Thanks for the feedback 👍🏿 | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 12:35 AM |
| 3 | When approaching women, is it more cerebral or improvisational?Noted. I keep some notes of cool lines and responses I gave just as a backup reference. But yeah, I’ve noticed on nights I really was bold and didn’t hold back I got farther than I ever thought. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 11:31 PM |
| 5 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??Lol ok got you. My bad for asking 😂 | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:36 AM |
| 11 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??I have a question. One of my dating beliefs is that a woman knows beforehand whether or not she wants to get laid when she goes out. Therefore, as men, we don’t really convince you to have sex with us as much as we present ourselves as the best option for you to pick as the guy you should have sex with or not. Is this true? Or does this make sense what I’m saying? | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:25 AM |
| 14 | What would be a good response when someone says that you are good looking?Say thank you, give them a compliment in return, and then continue the conversation from there. | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 01:21 PM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Settling could be an example, but I don’t think that’s OP’s issue here. He either might be lacking some confidence or have a hit in his self image somewhere. In another comment, OP mentioned how he’s observed women being more loose and open with other men, yet with him they act like nuns. If he’s trying to behave like those men, it’s not gonna work because it’s not authentic to who he is. That doesn’t help with his charisma or influence. I think though his social skills just needs a tweak and he… | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 12:46 PM |
| 10 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Good news: you’re attractive enough to get initial leads and openings Bad news: there’s something you’re doing wrong after the first meetup that’s turning women off. If you can, try going out with a wingman or someone who can give you insight or intel on how you’re coming across to women. They’ll tell you what you need to change or improve. | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?That’s a decent funnel. How exactly are you fumbling them? Are you not able to get a number? Or are you being ghosted after a couple dates, or a hookup or two? How far do you get along with these women before things fall apart? | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 10:14 PM |
| 5 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?Got it. First, that’s decent but not solid enough of a filtering process to find quality. Because remotely cute and in shape is a lot of women who fit that criteria. It seems like you’re willing to take anyone, which can be a sign of desperation and that’s a turn off for some women. Where are you meeting these women? Is it mostly online or are you cold approaching when you’re at a bar? The best bet is to meet women through mutual friends or hobbies where it’s already a warm introduction and rapp… | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 10:06 PM |
| 11 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?It’s not your looks. You seem tall and relatively handsome. The issue might be your social skills. You have deeper psychological imbalances and insecurities that manifest in your pursuits of women. Also, what kinds of women are you normally going for? | /r/seduction | 28/07/24 09:56 PM |
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