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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How early is too early?I think it’s too early as well - we were thinking around a year and a half. We have had some disagreements and he’s been with me while I’ve experienced hardship. He knows how to cook, is exceptionally clean (much cleaner than me), earns 6 figures and is progressing rapidly with his career. He also has impressive savings and neither of us party / go out much, he’s super responsible and has helped me a lot with my lifestyle as I used to be relatively unhealthy prior to us meeting, I am doing great… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How early is too early?I was wary of the same thing, but I believe him when he says that he hasn’t felt like this in previous relationships, as I haven’t either. He doesn’t give that indication to me at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 03:40 AM |
| 24 | How early is too early?Thank you for your input! I have consulted my family and they are thrilled at the idea. My partner has mentioned it to his and they are wary that we’re moving ‘too quickly’ even though they do like me. I’m very shy and have trouble opening up to them so I understand why they would be cautious so I guess that’s why I’m asking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:44 AM |
| 34 | How early is too early?Thank you so much! This makes me feel more settled. We are confident that we would like to marry but I am just a bit worried about other people’s perceptions of marrying too quickly. I will definitely look into legal implications, I hadn’t thought of that at all. Thank you! I am so grateful to have met him & as I previously mentioned I credit FDS for teaching me how to love myself which would eventually lead to me meeting him. I’m so happy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:42 AM |
| 36 | How early is too early?We are both very keen to actually get married and I envision that our engagement won’t be very long. Thank you for your advice, I think after our one year it will happen shortly after because there’s no rush but I wanted to hear other’s opinions. I definitely agree with men proposing to ‘prove’ they’re serious! He is dead serious though, he has expressed a desire to marry & have children within the coming years (as I had expressed my desire for previously). He is the most genuine man I’ve ever m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:39 AM |
| 5 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!We aren’t here to flip houses, sell, then have someone else move in anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:51 AM |
| 3 | This is Why It’s Important to Have an Abundance MindsetI really needed to read / hear this tonight, thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 01:07 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.I’ve only just seen this comment sorry, I am so glad this post helped you out, even if just a little! You deserve the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | I found one! HVM stays with and cares for girlfriend of 4 months after her spinal cord injury.Why would you think that? Just because she is in a wheelchair doesn’t mean anyone who loves her has an ulterior motive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 07:57 AM |
| 2 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.I’m really sorry that happened to you. Honestly you should take some time to focus on yourself instead of dating, that’s how I’m in such a good mental place & my ex isn’t. He jumped straight into something else but hadn’t processed the break up properly. Try talking to other guys and stuff but just focus on being healthy & happy and you’ll be a lot better off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 03:27 AM |
| 8 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.I’ve blocked him on all socials, only thing I hadn’t blocked was his number but that’s blocked now too :) no more manipulation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 02:31 PM |
| 28 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.I’m so sorry that happened to you, you absolutely don’t deserve that kind of treatment. God he sounds like a dick, the meat thing is a deal breaker for starters. Don’t mess with someone like that. Secondly, I am so sorry he raped you. That is truly awful & he deserves to rot in jail for that. How dare he? I’m disgusted at his behaviour. You deserve so so much better & I hope you never meet someone like him again. You’re precious & you deserve the absolute best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:48 AM |
| 20 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.I don’t know if I should or not, I think I should just let the whole thing go & have nothing to do with him. But also, if a guy I was seeing was calling his ex telling her he still only cared about her & a part of him was missing since she left, I would definitely want to know. What would other girls think? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:39 AM |
| 13 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.Thanks so much! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:32 AM |
| 8 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.Thanks so much! I feel 100 times better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:30 AM |
| 64 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.One thing I that has stuck with me from this sub was a comment saying ‘stop doing wife shit when you’re just a girlfriend’ and it’s 100% where I went wrong. I did everything and I will literally never do that half of that stuff again without a ring on my ringer. He definitely didn’t appreciate me until I was gone & it’s too late now. Thanks so much, I’ll definitely look into those suggestions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:29 AM |
| 22 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.Far out me too, absolutely would have married him had he asked. We dodged massive bullets & we didn’t even know! I hope you’re healed from your experience & whoever you choose to open your heart to next treats with with the upmost respect & cherishes you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 07:56 AM |
| 45 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.I absolutely believe that even thought it was horrible I’m 100% a better person from the whole thing. I’ve also lost nearly 15kg which is something I probably wouldn’t have done if we were still together. I didn’t lose weight because of him, I’m just a lot healthier and respect my body a lot more now :) I know, I feel bad for her. Sis doesn’t know what she’s getting into. Thanks for your support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 07:54 AM |
| 64 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.I think there’s a very good chance that if either of us had done it, they would have dumped us after it anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 07:51 AM |
| 48 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.Gosh, probably. No way is he ever touching this body again though lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 07:00 AM |
| 13 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.Absolutely. It’s been painful but I am much better for it. Thank you for your support! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:58 AM |
| 94 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.I know right. I remember being so upset but looking back, I should have dumped him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:57 AM |
| 29 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.Nah he actually didn’t. I was foolishly still friends with him post dumping (I am not now) and he matched with her on a dating app and met her for the first time after us breaking up. I can see how it would look like that but he genuinely didn’t know her prior to us breaking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:57 AM |
| 228 | I thought I was the best girlfriend.We dated for four years, it was okay but I didn’t exactly get the best treatment as his girlfriend. He dumped me about two/ three months ago when I wouldn’t have a threesome with him. he met his new girlfriend around 1-2 weeks after me moving out. He has since been calling me and telling me he only cares about me ect and I’ve told him to tell it to his new girlfriend. Thanks so much, it really did take me getting dumped to realise that I do deserve a lot better, we all do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 05:48 AM |
| 2 | Where is a good place to meet a potential HVM?I know it sounds weird but I think you’ll be so much stronger & your future will be much better because of what you went through (not crediting that piece of shit ex tho). It’s so easy to ignore the red flags but we can all learn from our mistakes. Gosh I wish I left my ex sooner lmao but I was truly blindfolded throughout that relationship and didn’t realise what I deserve - which is the world and you deserve it too! Never settle! I’m so sorry you got hurt, don’t think about him anymore though,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Where is a good place to meet a potential HVM?Jeez that’s awful of him. I’m sorry that happened to you! Sounds like you are much better off without him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Where is a good place to meet a potential HVM?Do you think that men on dating apps are mostly looking for a one night thing / casual relationship though? I’m weary because of that. I’m not too worried about them but I’m a couple of months out of a break up and feeling ready to get out there again and meet new people :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Where is a good place to meet a potential HVM?I actually was on a mixed gender netball team but that’s gone down the drain since corona! Yeah definitely, might take up a new sport that’s a great idea, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Where is a good place to meet a potential HVM?Yeah I mean I wouldn’t purposely go out of my way to do things I don’t like, I just don’t get out of the house much besides going to clubs / bars and I haven’t met the nicest of guys there lol I’ll try getting involved in community things. Thank you! Yoga is a really good suggestion! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Where is a good place to meet a potential HVM?I live in a smallish city in Australia :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 03:43 PM |
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