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I’m 40 so not really versed with the current dating scene for 20 somethings. Having said that the idea of dating multiple people is about the most deranged thing I can think of. Especially for kids being so young, you really don’t want to fuck around with promiscuity so open like that, someone’s bound to get hurt. If you want to hook up with lots of people then that’s fine, being open about it and upfront was always the rule. But dating is for mate selection, does it really have to be spelled ou…
/r/seduction28/07/26 08:10 AM
1

You misinterpret; for my statement to be wrong and yours to be right there’s a logical error (not the statements themselves).
/r/seduction21/07/26 06:45 AM
-1

Your fourth sentence and my statement are a contradiction of basic logic.
/r/seduction20/07/26 05:56 AM
-6

If you can’t see the connection and responsibility of sex vs a long term relationship then you’re not really a man.
/r/seduction20/07/26 02:28 AM
1

This whole dominant bullshit it what drives toxic masculinity and is fundamentally wrong. Weak women may fall for it, shit even blokes get confident from it, but only temporarily. When I was growing up we didn’t have buzz words like holding frame or whatever the fuck the kids call it. Just be competent and stand up when needed. In fact if you try to do those two things (you can’t) it will take you a life of learning to get good at them. We cower and hide in more ways than ordering food for a wom…
/r/seduction03/07/26 01:45 AM
60

Likely scenario. She’s taken and let a boundary slip for a bit.
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:13 AM
1

Sounds like the perfect wingman. Shorty got game.
/r/seduction22/06/26 02:59 AM
-1

Yeah but that small minority of warranted criticism is still valid. Date your age is a simple argument, people age mentally as well as physically. Being fit doesn’t mean you can bang 19 year olds as an old man, it’s just creepy. Theres probably less fat jealous women complaining about dudes dating younger than there are groomers looking for excuses on the internet.
/r/seduction19/05/26 01:02 PM
3

Do women think like this? I don’t know I’m a dude. If I’m honest with myself most attractive women I meet I know straight away I would sleep with. But that’s theoretical, having to go through the awkward courtship routine, then latter finding out she’s bitchy/boring, sometimes the real world attraction to go through with it just isn’t there.
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:09 AM
2

Yes highly dependent on the woman, some are dtf just like dudes.
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:06 AM
4

Hot dudes with good social circles get laid in an hour or less. I’m not sure what op is asking here, if he should be closing sooner or what the max potential is when using game. Either way it’s not helpful, a better question would be how to escalate quicker. I’m haven’t been there in a long time but inner confidence and turning your own sexual desires outward will both go along way.
/r/seduction07/05/26 07:04 AM
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Sounds like you would benefit from OPs prompt
/r/seduction04/05/26 01:29 PM
3

you're not practicing right
/r/seduction18/04/26 03:12 PM
1

on the oce, in a hot tub?
/r/seduction13/04/26 10:45 AM
1

You can usually tell whos a scammer and who isnt. They usually dont start hooking up with you till after you 'pay'. Also I know the girls who you are talking about, similar to a lot of balkan states. Just very boring and not very friendly people to be honest. I met a lot of people in these countries and in russia who arent angry all the time.
/r/seduction12/04/26 03:42 AM
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I’m overtly nice and smile a lot when out. Being a tall white guy they will approach you. Sure you don’t have to artificially placate, that’s a form of dishonesty anyway. Just be yourself (authentic) and have fun. Oh and being overtly nice or friendly can definitely be a defence mechanism. It’s when you don’t feel confident and try to win people over by being nice. Quintessential nice guy stuff. I guess women want manly men cos it’s a form of comfort, but also because being nice in the above way…
/r/seduction11/04/26 11:04 AM
1

I don’t think it’s healthy to pursue things that are a detriment to others. That’s a slippery slope to becoming orange man.
/r/seduction21/02/26 09:18 AM
3

I imagine pretty women are also super vigilant and understand exactly what men want in this sito. It’s no secret men are dtf way before women, and because women smell it from a mile away you need to demonstrate some pretty good benefits / bring your a game in order to close early. Every time I’ve picked up quickly with someone I thought to be amazing, I’ve questioned the girls motive after. Sometimes the harder they are it does seem kinda worth it.
/r/seduction18/12/25 08:53 AM
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Depends. You can cut a date short if it’s not going as planned, not just ghost her. You can also escalate before a fucking sit down romantic get together. Sheesh.
/r/seduction18/12/25 08:47 AM
0

Why does one go on dates to ‘only’ fuck the night of? That just seems super transactional and misleading to me (and I’m still not the best when it comes to reading womens wants and needs) If you’re dtf then it’s best to stick with nights out or dating apps imo.
/r/seduction18/12/25 08:45 AM
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i'm more concerned with what his wife looks like? is he as attractive in return (female preferred traits).
/r/seduction03/12/25 06:21 AM
2

this sounds so gay when you spell it out. i'm not disagreeing with you, its basically social hierachy you're describing. i'd go about it a bit differently, however. if you work towards something like building your dreams (corny brand name but it's relevant), then not only do you achieve enjoyment and fufilment, you also show resourcefulness, ability to generate resources, and likeability / social aptitude. don't worry about breaking the 4th wall.
/r/seduction03/12/25 06:18 AM
2

Any group activity happening before 9pm. Or when you’re at the shops.
/r/seduction03/12/25 05:41 AM
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Spot on. The only thing I’m questioning is if there are that many areas of your life, that really need to be pushed so hard on? The gym sure, but most of life isn’t meant to be effort. Delayed gratification and conscientious behaviours should be implemented when an aspect of your life is causing issues, but only if (after the fact I guess). It’s hard to know when you are lazy or too comfortable, but if you check up on your inner voice (question motives every now and then) perhaps that is an area…
/r/seduction24/11/25 06:23 AM
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Sounds like an American thing. I’ve heard you can pay stupid money at clubs, bottle service ect, and it’s usually pay to win scenario. In Australia as long as you’re going to a decent spot with good mates, it’s fairly high chance you end up finding dates.
/r/seduction02/11/25 04:08 AM
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Nice guys pretend that people are playing fairly and because of that they give them the benefit of the doubt if they’re fucked over. The issue is that others mistake this for a weakness when it’s misguided altruism which ironically would be perfectly fine if the cunt didn’t abuse it.
/r/seduction30/10/25 11:55 AM
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this is a long winded resonse that basically says you are what you think. plenty of camps in the school of thought go over this. think and grow rich is a book about money and even that talks about these typpes of unrealistic thoughts.
/r/seduction20/10/25 11:54 AM
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Have you read the story about the boat captain and the sun ruining his breakfast? Oh man that’s a classic.
/r/seduction05/08/25 12:39 AM
1

As a guy who always finds it hard to root and scoot, it’s difficult not being genuinely interested or emotionally supportive. Perhaps it’s best to be detached and boring, is that the general vibe we should hit!?
/r/seduction23/07/25 09:25 AM
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no, the most simplest way to put it is how bigrjake wrote the first comment, verbaitm. when to be nice, and when you shouldn't be. i really like that saying because it's actually not simple at all, it's really really hard.
/r/seduction17/07/25 08:35 AM
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There’s also the social status. When you’re funny and with a good group of people, other people want to join in.
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:36 AM
4

I’m the opposite, when I don’t try to hold back my want for someone I’m pursuing, usually it goes really well. Kinda like you need to have her physically but can restrain yourself if they want to take it slower.
/r/seduction09/07/25 12:34 AM
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youre kinda trying a bit too hard or over analysing things in those responses. you can say 'im lucky right' its not submissive youre giving a compliment. its just not advised if the person is being disrespectful, if i felt at all like the bro was being rude and shutting me out i'd call them out on it. if they are just teasing then sure you can banter back, but its your date and attraction should be around you. tell them they can hit on her after / wait your turn, or interject and ask them if i l…
/r/seduction24/06/25 10:36 AM
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do you piss in the corner also? i've never experienced this kind of behaviour unless late at night at clubs and its always between chicks you should just walk away from (attracting the wrong attention). whenever someone hits on my misses i start chatting them up also. it works fairly frequently.
/r/seduction24/06/25 10:27 AM
1

Any half decent girl working on a pipeline would be getting plenty of ‘pipe’.
/r/seduction22/06/25 03:48 AM
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I had a conversation with some girl that went so deep so quickly I still think about that brief encounter 15 years on.
/r/seduction17/06/25 01:05 PM
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He said she was crazy about him. He’s rating women on a number scale. He also said she was a 5 or 6. Lol Don’t feed the penguins at the zoo. Even if you both get a kick out of it
/r/seduction05/06/25 03:07 PM
1

What’s the longest time someones played the long game, just to get their willy wet?
/r/seduction05/06/25 05:14 AM
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No right answer to what the fuck are you for real?
/r/seduction05/06/25 05:11 AM
1

whatever you feel like bro. if youre taking a girl out to dinner to win here approval, it wont work. if you're doing a cheap coffee date cos you're playing the numebrs game, she'll also sniff it out. this isnt an either or thing, do whatever you want.
/r/seduction27/05/25 10:40 AM
1

Having to care about what you do on a date is simp.
/r/seduction27/05/25 07:53 AM
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if you want to take a pretty girl out to dinner just fucking take her. this shit isnt hard, stop being a puss-boy and have fun.
/r/seduction25/05/25 01:44 AM
1

Sexual preference is still fairly unknown but I have heard of studies where women prefer lean vs. bodybuilder types. I think one thing where both men and women agree on is that both physical and emotional attraction need to be present for great sex, otherwise you’re just mashing into a pleasing piece of furniture (not kink shaming if that’s you’re thing). What OP might be conflating is how women (girls mainly) seem to be attracted to disagreeable edge lords that seem tough but mostly aren’t. Tha…
/r/seduction22/05/25 12:32 PM
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Power stance, hands on shoulders, foot on the step, unnecessary disagreeableness, slap around the misses.
/r/seduction03/05/25 09:21 AM
0

jesus christ this is absolute drivvl, no wonder women are becoming more entitled and men just can't be fucked anymore. there are free things I get all the time too, but I don't complain if someone offers me what I already have. it's probably because I had to work for it, so I appreciate the husstle. some women never hav had to lift a finger in their life, but think its beneath them to offer the smallest amount of recourse around rejection. here's another analogy for you: genuinly rich people ver…
/r/seduction20/04/25 08:17 AM
1

Not sure if this relates but I’ve had it multiple times where i am in the middle of talking to girl/friend then low an behold another girl starts talking to me at the same time. It’s quite difficult juggling conversation but sometimes I will say hi but finish off the conversation to the first person, as it’s the right thing to do, but then the other girl I might be really keen on she kinda gets put off. It’s my fault for being to hesitant or not seeing signs, taking to long, if someone else want…
/r/seduction17/04/25 09:47 AM
1

the first sentence is in contradiction to the second.
/r/seduction12/04/25 02:01 AM
1

BPD is like any other mental health disorder, you can recover but there aren't many cures. When I was in a ward, multiple people were going through relationship issues and every time I heard from the professionals was put that stuff on hold, you don't have reationships when acute mental sickness is involved.
/r/seduction12/04/25 02:00 AM
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it doesnt make it excusable but why on earth would you cheat on someone with heavy mental issues then throw it in their face? that's just asking for trouble.
/r/seduction12/04/25 01:55 AM
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It’s a great post as he summarised the whole bag. Even put the tl dr in bold. Lol
/r/seduction07/02/25 11:45 PM
2

There will be a huge divide in culture and relationships going forward. Some people will engage with social media heavily i.e have relationships or friends with similar interests shown online, cool hobbies and travel reels ect. Others will simply switch off and social media won’t be a thing, you’ll have to find out compatibility the old fashion way.
/r/seduction15/01/25 11:32 AM
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any lady who youre hooking up with in that kind of setting is going to want sex, you just reciprocate the feelings (words and actions). ive had some that withhold it because they're playing hard to get, dont want to on the first night ect. evey time ive been denied I probably wanted it too much and let it show.
/r/seduction11/01/25 11:33 PM
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Reading the comments here is really sad. If you tell a girl you like her a lot then maybe if she’s a total head case with psychological issues then she will not reciprocate. But if she’s content and you both want a long term relationship then of course go for it. Playing hard to get is short term manipulation and won’t last. As long as you’re not needy and display your own vulnerable side in a congruent manner then that sort of display of overtly love is fine.
/r/seduction04/01/25 03:35 AM
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the goggins approach is one way to remove your self imposed limitations. it makes sense also, general exposure therapy requires a certain number of instances per week. but its not 10 a day. you're far better off working on yourself (inner judgment) and having fun with friends, then pushing yourself to be more social as a side hussle.
/r/seduction30/12/24 01:47 AM
2

An easy way to find out what they like is to think about what you like them do it to them. You dial the sweetness up by 10 also. Lots of flattering remarks, gentle physical and verbal encouragement, work your way up. Pretend she is the most amazing creature on the planet and you can’t believe how (blank) her (blank) is. How it makes you feel ect. Be truthful but if you’re too vulgar you can reframe the exact words.
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:52 AM
0

Make sure you compare the other side of the exchange; women can have very few children and have a much higher risk to reward ratio when it comes to childbirth. It’s still a zero sum game so at the end of the day people will match with the person who is compatible.
/r/seduction14/10/24 08:39 AM
1

I’m my experience girls go for the all round package. And we haven’t had to be physically large since about 500bc when things like social status and monetary security became a thing. Luckily the last two are easier to change than your height…
/r/seduction11/10/24 12:22 AM
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I think you may be over reacting bro. Sure women do discriminate more based on height or income than they like to let on, but 1” in height is fuck nothing. I’m the scheme of dating you need to add everything in total and where I’m from overall security is far more important than gaining an extra 1.5% in physical height.
/r/seduction10/10/24 03:40 PM
1

If you look at the bigger picture maybe this kind of entrapment is breaking down barriers? Lie about your height and sneak into the pants of these superficial women so you can change their minds, and their minge. Short dudes unite!!
/r/seduction10/10/24 03:36 PM
1

Congratulations you learned about lying. The guy at our school who was always known to tell pork pies found that out when he was 12.
/r/seduction10/10/24 03:26 PM
1

There are guys who do that, OP could be a club promoter. It’s a sleezy way to be around a bunch of sloots but I’m a middle aged engineer so I’d probably do the same.
/r/seduction20/09/24 03:27 AM
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There are two huge survivorship bias going on here that will do absolute numbers on any bros head. The first is that you’re looking for long term partners in cold approach, when most of those sloots will bang you anyway. That’s why your worldview is distorted. And the second issue is trying to confirm your bias with all these sad chauvinistic takes on dating like it’s poisonous and corrupted. I think the issue here is that seduction and gaming is full of toxic and incongruent behaviour that mani…
/r/seduction11/09/24 05:26 AM
2

I think this guy is playing a different game. He’s not after a deep connection or long term partner, he’s looking to push pull emotional immature women to punch above his league. Very few people can do this and stay congruent.
/r/seduction11/09/24 05:18 AM
0

this is painful and unnecessary. ever thought long term relationships work both ways? if you lead a happy and interesting life just enjoy each others company and hang on for the ride.
/r/seduction07/08/24 10:32 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction03/07/24 07:23 AM
0

Put on some lipstick and a dress then go around treating everyone with kindness and respect. You’ll learn a lot about what a man/women isn’t, and hopefully learn some important information about yourself and how you fit in this world.
/r/seduction02/05/24 02:08 PM
1

Frame drops when you think she’s too good for you then you start saying things or moving your body in a way that isn’t natural. The trick is to treat everyone equal. Stay humble but have a vibe. Present in the moment.
/r/seduction19/04/24 06:31 AM
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Most of the playing hard to get stuff is for younger emotionally immature people. I’m not saying that scarcity doesn’t work in attraction, but like any artificial tactic, it will rot you from the inside. Very few women will take a vulnerable man even after learning about them. You have to have your shit together if you want to be needy around a women otherwise they will leave. Some men don’t display this side to their spouse ever, with risk of leaving them.
/r/seduction13/04/24 10:42 AM
1

What these whores are doing is a bit different, like a bait and switch where you’ve already invested time and effort. It’s smart on their behalf if they are struggling for clients but sounds pretty time consumptive. Long term arrangements like this are more common.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:37 PM
1

It does sound dodgy but usually if someone is going to rob you they won’t bother with petty business beforehand.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:29 PM
1

If he’s even partly well off then the monetary side of things is well taken care for. I’m not sure of this situation anyway as usually prostitution doesn’t require small talk and physical escalation.
/r/seduction08/04/24 03:27 PM
2

Grow the friendship while taking things slow. Don’t push for anything physical till you’re no longer a student. Enjoy your time and uni and worse case scenario you will learn a lot and gain a new friend.
/r/seduction22/03/24 12:19 AM
4

She’s probably really reserved, either that or just avoiding physical escalation because she’s going away soon. If you’re hanging out by yourselves, watching movies or whatever, just go for it. You can’t turn a no into a yes, but if you’re attractive enough she’ll be down.
/r/seduction04/03/24 06:29 AM
2

No self respecting woman would. But a man? A self respecting man would want their fella to poop.
/r/seduction31/01/24 08:15 AM
3

Yeah this isn’t exactly true. Lots of people start working at new jobs before they’ve quit their old one. Just selfish nothing more.
/r/seduction18/11/23 03:32 AM
1

p o n z i
/r/RedPillBooks02/07/23 11:46 AM
2

A big watch
/r/seduction18/04/22 12:09 PM
0

Why would you want to go out with a girl like this? She didn’t make any money her parents did. Unfortunately there is still a class system in the western world, but hierarchies vary greatly between each other. Hopefully if someone is successful in one domain, they can see the value in another. Or you can just suckle at the teat of capitalism for your whole life and end up dying a resentful and boring prune.
/r/seduction15/04/22 02:33 PM
2

Not just some guy
/r/seduction13/04/22 07:30 PM
2

No it is not true
/r/seduction13/04/22 05:23 PM
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the guy arguing with you is incorrect. unfortunatly you've come accross a special case that puts a different frame of reference on the whole situation. alcohol and drunk sex is pretty common, in normal circumstances it's a non issue. unfortunatly there are some crazies out there, so even if she gives consent, they come up with weird ideas. sounds like this chick was perfectly fine with it in the moment, but decided she didnt want to have sex afterwards. it doesnt work liek that. she should have …
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:47 AM
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not the same sentence, but i am baffled why OP had to pay for the fee's himself. if it gets thrown out then you would think the accuser has some financial responsibility. at the very least....
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:38 AM
1

<3
/r/seduction24/09/20 03:33 AM
4

It's okay to be overtly nice. Having the ability to care about other people, and your own needs or desires, at the same time, is a super power.
/r/seduction23/09/20 10:20 AM
2

That's 5 things. The only one true thing that kills attraction... Math skills.
/r/seduction18/09/20 02:06 PM
1

It's so hard to forgive and we often hold grudges for things way smaller than murder, but that is what it is going to take for violence to stop. Consider the Muslim issue at the moment. Those separate factions are going to fight forever unless someone on one side decides they have had enough and simply stops retaliating. It's unclear how far back some of the conflict goes, its almost impossible to remember who did what, or which relative was killed, or who pulled the trigger, where the line was …
/r/PussyPass13/09/20 08:51 AM
0

hes talking about punishment vs. rehabilitation. irregardless of sex.
/r/PussyPass11/09/20 10:51 AM
0

Lol that has absolutely nothing to do with the comment you're replying to. If you want to say something different start a new comment.
/r/PussyPass11/09/20 10:27 AM
3

Be careful with that eye for and eye thing. There are better standards for morality. But hey at least you have one it's more than most
/r/PussyPass11/09/20 10:25 AM
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Wow what a story! I reccomend you read The wikipedia article as it is 10 times better than this bullshit post. First of all, all 4 kids were tried as adults, which is a bullshit notion as it is. Also it seems as if they all copped lengthy sentences. I feel for the fourth chick who sounds like a bystander and got shafted. The only person who sounds like they actually had preferential treatment was Lawrence. And that was not because of her sex, but her upbringing. If you read about it it's actuall…
/r/PussyPass11/09/20 10:22 AM
1

well done, you've managed to summarize the meaning of magnanimity (and its importance in men) in 3000 words.
/r/seduction05/07/20 09:15 AM
2

The power of saying no huge. I struggle when communicating with those that don't understand how to take it. Sometimes I feel like filling that awkward silence or some how patching things up. It's hard to truly stand on your own because there literally is no one else there. If you don't have anyone to care for or do something for to love you in return then it's just you and you alone. Forever. It's friggen scary not just for losing all your physical wealth and posetions, but from an emotional and…
/r/seduction28/05/20 06:20 AM
8

Build a time machine so I can go back and unread the shit you just vomited up for all to see
/r/RedPillBooks18/01/20 12:24 PM
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Sorry my comment was kinda toung and cheek :) That's the exact reason why red pill / masculin males should read it. If you need any more persuasion, the research Brown did on Vulnerability is where Mark Manson (Models, Subtle Art of NGAF) got much of his work from.
/r/RedPillBooks25/12/19 06:57 AM
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Don't forget The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown
/r/RedPillBooks24/12/19 03:16 PM
1

White male Anglo-Saxons will always get less "favouritism" than any other class. I agree with this concept. Black, Muslim, disabled, whomever, who are at an "unfair" advantage in this "race" we call life, should get a leg up. If you don't agree that some groups are less fortunate than others, to the point of actually needing help from others, then I can't help you sorry.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 09:45 AM
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"No one is comming" - The perfect concept for everyone But did you stop and think that maybe... Minorities deserve more because they're... minorities?
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 12:14 PM
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While I understand that this article may be compelling and insightful for many people, I fear it could do a lot more harm than people realize. Even though a lot of this is very useful towards enhancing ones life paradigm, a correct picture of our world and the people within it. Without a decent background in human psychology, one could come up with all sorts of ideas about women after reading this. Yes it is true that women are irrational, sometimes feel entitled to a superior mate and can't res…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 12:55 PM
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