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You get free super likes and can message without matching so skill issue.
/r/seduction25/07/26 08:54 AM
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“I have zero luck on dating apps and don't get any likes.” Try one month of platinum on Tinder. Not gold, platinum. It’s pay to play. They just hide your profile. And make you feel like shit but really, it’s the algorithm.
/r/seduction24/07/26 11:28 PM
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“She can just keep her mouth slut. Sorry, I meant "shut", and problem solved.” This is how you know this text wasn’t written by AI. :p
/r/seduction15/07/26 01:18 PM
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Maybe an app like Talkville? It’s for iOS.
/r/seduction17/06/26 11:43 AM
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“Hey, it’s been a while. How are you?” Don’t overthink it.
/r/seduction14/05/26 04:44 PM
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Are you Dutch?
/r/seduction04/12/25 05:29 PM
1

What do you tell them about feminism?
/r/seduction14/11/25 11:04 PM
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Yeah, so like I said a human can tell, but only when it’s obvious like this. There is no reliable software who can detect AI content.
/r/seduction14/11/25 04:03 PM
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She sounds high iq and high agency and that’s the kind of men she’s attracted to.
/r/seduction12/11/25 04:52 PM
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AI detectors are a scam, there's no way to detect it. Some of those 'detectors' say the Bible is AI-written so yeah. Only humans can tell when it's super obvious and otherwise we're all just guessing.
/r/seduction11/11/25 10:01 PM
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Check the videos on this channel: https://youtu.be/3KsQHf-3xyw?si=mJLO5uip-QOOfJhl
/r/seduction20/10/25 12:35 AM
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I mean… you can just ask him.
/r/seduction18/10/25 11:26 PM
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Like… some people just have that calm, grounded vibe that pulls people in without trying too hard. Meanwhile the loud “I’m so confident” types sometimes come off as fake or overcompensating. Yes, that’s real confidence…
/r/seduction13/10/25 05:23 PM
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Aaah sorry, I read this after I was on Tinder. :p
/r/seduction04/10/25 08:34 PM
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It’s hard when the pictures are just selfies, the bio is empty and there’s not really anything to talk about related to them.
/r/seduction04/10/25 08:22 PM
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A lot of girls tell me I give off vibes like 'dad vibes', 'someone who has strong morals', 'very mature', 'more affectionate than flirty', 'hot and nice' 'sweet' 'always positive' 'real and genuine' . These are all really good things. Why on earth would you want to be perceived differently? I don't know your age but one of the most important things in life is finding a decent life partner. Not sleeping around. And you're basically doing everything right, don't change. Edit: Ah, I misunderstood y…
/r/seduction30/09/25 01:08 PM
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Yes, that’s what generation means :p
/r/seduction21/09/25 07:30 PM
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This is very generation dependent.
/r/seduction21/09/25 07:25 PM
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No, Tinder hides your profile when you're over 30 and wants you to pay. It's that simple. And you need the Platinum subscription, Gold doesn't work.
/r/seduction18/09/25 11:54 AM
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Lol no. This is ridiculous. There is no power dynamic or trust or whatever when it’s a simple language course. It means nothing. There also aren’t any legal angles here. Flirting is still legal…
/r/seduction28/07/25 01:26 PM
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I only paid for Tinder so can't comment on the other two. Here's another tip: Open Tinder on your computer. Click on the "Likes You" menu. Either 'Inspect' the page or click F12. Click on "Console" at the top of the inspect element and paste this code: async function unblur() { try { const teasers = await fetch("https://api.gotinder.com/v2/fast-match/teasers", { headers: { "X-Auth-Token": localStorage.getItem("TinderWeb/APIToken"), platform: "android", }, }) .then((res) => res.json()) .then((res…
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:00 PM
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Just try it for one month, if you wanna keep using the apps. It's cheaper if you pay on the web. You also get 5 super likes per day and 3 messages per 2 weeks (or something). Those help a lot too. My profile is probably crap and I went from on average two matches a month to at least one every day. Just by paying, nothing else changed. It's a scam but what are you gonna do about it.
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:52 PM
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It’s pay to play. Tinder only works for me if I get the most expensive subscription. Gold doesn’t work but platinum does. They just don’t show your profile much otherwise.
/r/seduction26/07/25 06:49 PM
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You probably masturbate in a specific way, holding it very tight?, conditioning yourself to only come when you jerk off. It’s called a death grip.
/r/seduction26/07/25 11:00 AM
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Tinder only works if you pay for platinum. They just don't show your profile otherwise.
/r/seduction11/06/25 04:25 PM
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That’s a limiting belief. The idea that it is somehow embarrassing or weird to go to a hostel close to your home. Truth is that it doesn’t matter what you say. Tell them whatever you want. It would be perfectly ok to just be honest and say ‘I’m here to meet new people.’ It really doesn’t matter. Maybe try it before you completely change your life?
/r/seduction28/04/25 01:01 PM
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You don’t need to quit your job, you can go on weekend city trips.
/r/seduction27/04/25 01:16 PM
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Platinum gives you 5 super likes per day. In the past you could send a message with each one but they made that a separate perk, you only get one free message per month now. Kinda sucks.
/r/seduction18/01/25 01:54 PM
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I only seem to get matches with Platinum (Never tried gold). I think my profile is hidden with the free version. Pro-tip: Use tinder.com to buy it. It’s cheaper because they don’t have to pay the app store fee.
/r/seduction18/01/25 01:48 PM
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You need to sit next to her.
/r/seduction30/12/24 05:45 PM
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Silicon Valley is filled with autistic men with successful companies / careers and a nice wife. So no. The evidence refutes your post.
/r/seduction28/11/24 09:38 PM
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It took 6 months before I developed feelings for my friend. There was zero intention of deceit. I believe this is what happens with most men in the friendzone. They get to know someone and over time they fall for them.
/r/seduction12/10/24 06:00 PM
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A deep connection with someone is worth so much more than random sex. But it takes time and work.
/r/seduction23/09/24 08:25 PM
0

What is National Security Agency?
/r/seduction09/08/24 09:21 PM
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What is NSA?
/r/seduction09/08/24 10:40 AM
4

Once you find the person you wanna spend your life with, missing out on casual sex when you were younger won't matter at all.
/r/seduction08/08/24 02:07 PM
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Improvisation. Toast Masters is learning to give speeches, speeches you write in advance. Improv is learning how to come up with witty, funny things to say in the moment. It's learning how to turn off your filter. Much more useful for dating. Like that old show on youtube; Whose line is it anyway.
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:19 AM
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Improv is better.
/r/seduction03/07/24 12:13 AM
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I think it’s an American cultural preference.
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:36 AM
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It's the same guy with a million accounts.
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:29 PM
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If she's the love of your life why are you so passive about it?
/r/seduction18/08/22 07:10 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FxGBoEhK_bI
/r/seduction09/08/22 10:21 PM
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Were you flirting with these friends from the start or was there a period of platonic friendship before you decided to change things?
/r/seduction09/08/22 07:53 PM
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Are you okay speaking with strangers though? Can you have a 5 minute chat with someone you don't know? If not, you should focus on that first.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:43 PM
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You don't need medication. Like some other guy said, you need exposure therapy. You lack social skills. Emphasis on the 'skills' part of social skills. It's something you can learn. But talking to girls when you have social anxiety is like wanting to deadlift 150 kg when you can't even lift one dumbbell. You need to make this a project. Give yourself a year and start at the bottom. Forget about girls for now. You need to develop basic social skills first. So exposure therapy. A therapist can you…
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:38 PM
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You shouldn't say "sorry late reply because [reason]" or stuff like that. Just continue talking. Take some improv classes, it will help you become more casual in what to say.
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:51 PM
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Exactly. You're right, don't listen to him. I think it's lovely (said with a smirk) I'm trying to think of something for the other two. :p
/r/seduction27/07/22 07:47 PM
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Generic advice, stock footage and an AI voiceover lol
/r/seduction27/07/22 01:48 AM
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Don’t drive when you’re drunk.
/r/seduction24/07/22 01:11 PM
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Lol, you're making quite some leaps of logic here. I only said men are attracted to younger women because it's hardwired in us. That's it. That's what I said. I never said women should give me or anyone the time of day. Or that they are just baby machines, or that every woman needs to have children. Or whatever crazy stuff you just said lol. o_O
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:33 PM
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And i mean i don’t think it’s intentional of men to be attracted to this since it’s what they’ve been taught to view as the most attractive Men are attracted to younger woman because of biology. That's not something we learn, it comes from deep within. I don't think the things you mention matter as much as younger = more fertile. We can't escape our programming.
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:11 PM
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Does it matter for hookups? You’re right when a relationship is the goal.
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:12 AM
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Can you elaborate? What kind of effort do you expect?
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:56 PM
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Probably this one https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/
/r/seduction19/07/22 02:23 PM
2

And anyone who says no price is enough is either wildly insecure or secretly gay and not wanting to out themselves. This makes no sense lol.
/r/seduction15/07/22 01:57 PM
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I just hear that a lot of women don’t want to be approached. According to them, if you’re not already a part of their social circle, you’re not allowed to approach a woman. Approaching a woman is not creepy! Repeat this in your head until you internalize it. You should do an experiment. Set a goal to approach 100 women. Keep a record of how many thought you were creepy and how many actually engaged with you. You’ll soon realize what you’ve heard is wrong.
/r/seduction15/07/22 12:26 PM
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The main problem is that I don’t want to come off as the creepy guy they talk to about their friends. And I’m not in college anymore. So that really limits my options. So the only thing holding you back is a made up problem. Who cares what someone who rejected you thinks. Talk to women. Also, you can go to bars and just order a coke or whatever.
/r/seduction15/07/22 11:28 AM
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If you're gonna meet, only do it in a public place. Don't go to her hotel room or something like that. Think with your big head not the other one. :p
/r/seduction11/07/22 12:24 AM
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Ignore all the dumb texting rules. Just text her like you do now. When you feel like it… Why do so many guys overcomplicate things. ¯\(ツ)/¯
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:30 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/seduction27/06/22 11:27 PM
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Unless you were having a conversation that led to exchanging numbers, saying "hey want to go for a hike" completely oversteps getting to know even basic interests and screams "I am only interested in being around you for your looks and to hopefully fuck you." Wtf. I think you're the only person who links this to sex. There's nothing wrong with being direct and asking for a date, like a hike. You know what dates are for right? To get to know the other person...
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:11 PM
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Crabs don’t let other crabs escape. They pull them down. One crab in a bucket, it will escape. Two crabs or more? Nope. Crabs are stuck forever.
/r/seduction29/05/22 01:17 AM
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It’s not worth it to wait. Don’t waste your best years. You’ll regret it.
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:56 AM
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So many dumb texting rules. I just text like I do with friends. No silly mind games. Works for me. A quick reply isn’t an investment in someone lol.
/r/seduction12/05/22 12:04 PM
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Yeah but apps give them easy access to the 1 % of men. Used to be they only had access to guys who where local.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:17 PM
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Maybe it has something to do with the abundance of guys on apps. Someone better might just be around the corner. Some sort of dating fomo.
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:14 PM
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A couple. Not enough for clueless guys to get it. We need 100 examples. :p
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:21 PM
1

Please update when you've run into her again. I wanna know how this ends.
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:43 AM
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🙄🙄🙄 Don't blame me for biology. It is what it is.
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:41 PM
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I want children though. Early 40s is possible, sure, but the chance of having to use fertility treatments is significantly higher.
/r/seduction01/04/22 01:38 PM
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Yeah, this. I'm in the same boat. Woman at that age are in a rush to have babies, understandably, it complicates things.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:12 PM
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Your spam for that guide is really annoying. How many accounts do you even have?
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:25 AM
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"New York City's population is 53% female and 47% male. This is a widely cited statistic that often supports an argument that the gender imbalance makes it more difficult for some women to find a partner."
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:05 PM
1

Share show wisdom?
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:13 PM
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It’s faster to check the time than taking a phone out of my pocket.
/r/seduction20/01/22 03:34 AM
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Watch improv / standup shows. Write down the lines you find funny, try to come up with your own spin on those. Even better, join a improv group. Being witty is about making quick associations in your mind, it takes practice to become a 'natural'. Stealing from another reddit thread: What I always recommend though is to watch the late-night guys -- Craig Ferguson and Conan are by far the best at improvisation (Ferguson's show is mostly unscripted), but Letterman, Leno, and Fallon aren't terrible …
/r/seduction14/01/22 03:44 PM
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It's not helpful when someone ask "how do I learn skill X" and people answer "be yourself". How can I become more witty? - Be yourself. How do I drive a car? - Be yourself. Both are skills that can be learned.
/r/seduction14/01/22 03:39 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about.
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:23 PM
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I’ve read it. Nothing special in it. Nothing you haven’t seen in this sub a 1000 times before. Probably the author astroturfing with alt accounts.
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:37 AM
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You shouldn't change your texting style, just be yourself. I use ":p" a lot , I'm not gonna stop doing that because it might be weird, otherwise I will have to keep cramping my style until the relationship ends, fuck that.
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:39 PM
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LOL. I just use whatever emoji I feel like using. Don’t overthink it.
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:52 PM
1

These are boring questions. Every guy uses these. You have to stand out. Be random and fun. Banter with them. Ask how much free ice cream you would get if she owned an ice cream factory. What song she would sing if she was a mermaid. Ask her favorite Disney movie and tell her when she’s wrong, because it’s obviously The Lion King. … Just random, fun and weird questions. Let her know you’re a fun guy to be around. Keep the what do you do, where are you from questions for a date.
/r/seduction06/12/21 05:59 PM
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Why?
/r/seduction30/10/21 04:48 PM
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Definitely report back. Are you going to make eye contact while flashing?
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:10 AM
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It felt uneasy for me too at first. But it’s a matter of practice. Just try some stuff on girls you don’t care about the outcome.
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:59 AM
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Lol. No one is asking to write an actual story. It’s just a fun way to flirt and have an interesting convo.
/r/seduction15/09/21 11:39 PM
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Hey man, you should stop focussing on girls for a moment and work on getting a nice group of friends. It will be a lot easier that way. https://www.succeedsocially.com/articlesmakingfriends
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:28 AM
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To me it sounds like someone with an analytical mind wrote this. Probably a FAANG engineer.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:29 PM
1

This is the weirdest thing about American dating. Dating multiple people at the same time. Having the talk to be "exclusive". It's just weird.
/r/seduction06/06/21 01:15 PM
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Aah, I misunderstood what you said. Yes, I believe you're right. Although I think it's more about safety than social rules.
/r/seduction06/06/21 12:58 PM
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In a classic social psychological experiment from the 1980s, Clark and Hatfield (1989) put the idea of sex differences in consenting to sex with strangers to a real-life test. They had experimental confederates approach college students across various campuses and ask, "I've been noticing you around campus. I find you to be very attractive. Would you go to bed with me tonight?" Around 75 percent of men agreed to have sex with a complete stranger, whereas no women (0 percent) agreed. In terms of …
/r/seduction06/06/21 12:45 PM
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I have a weird idea. Maybe you can hook up a lavalier microphone connected to small portable speakers to amplify your voice. Maybe even use software to make it sound more normal. A small mic and speaker wouldn't be that hard to hide. https://www.amazon.com/Shure-MVL-Omnidirectional-Microphone-Windscreen/dp/B010W6WESM/ https://www.amazon.com/Worlds-Smallest-Portable-Bluetooth-Speaker/dp/B0723HQLMN/
/r/seduction22/08/20 12:36 AM
5

Why are you two calling Brad Pitt "dude" like he's some unknown person
/r/seduction08/12/19 01:58 PM
3

24 isn't that much older than 21...
/r/seduction21/09/18 06:23 PM
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Why has no one mentioned the term sexual repression? Knowing this will make it easier to search for help. Sexual repression seems to be really common with very (ex-)religious people. I also think therapy is your best bet, there are therapists specialized in this kind of thing. If you don't want therapy, there are plenty of books dealing with this issue that may help you. I can't give you any recommendations because I don't know enough about this but I'm sure they are mentioned somewhere on reddi…
/r/seduction30/11/17 12:43 AM
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