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| 4 | My boyfriend is a Red Piller and it’s ruining our relationship.This isn’t about him. This is about you. Why did you stay with him after the first time he stated a RP guideline? Why did you think you could change him? If your black friend said she was dating a racist who said racist things to her face, would you tell her to stay or go? Don’t fool yourself into thinking you saw past it to the “real him”. And time and your love would heal him and the real him would come out. When someone shows you who they are…believe them? You need therapy and self help books… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 04:22 AM |
| 1 | How long does it take to detoxThis can help you reach your friend and hopefully help him to see the light https://freedomofmind.com/help-a-family-member-out-of-extreme-belief/ | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Cant use tinder anymore.Talk to 5 women everyday, but they don’t have to be women you are attracted to. You are just practicing how to make small connections without it having “I am talking to THE ONE” pressure. Women (and men) can smell desperation. If your goal is to find a woman to have sex (and babies) with, you will come off desperate and put too much pressure on every interaction. Make your goals ‘have a nice conversation’ or ‘find out something interesting about someone’ or ‘make someone smile’ (not in a forced … | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | I am still insecure that women will not truly find me attractiveYou keep thinking that women only like one or two aspects of a man. Are there men who are smarter than my husband? Richer? Better looking? Have better bodies? Sure, but none of them would have all the qualities that I love about him. So a better looking guy wouldn’t be as funny. Or the rich guy is a jerk. I fell for the exact combination of traits that make up him. Do I see other men more attractive and have a little fantasy? Sure. But fantasy isn’t reality. It’s one aspect. I remember being cra… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/21 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do dating problems and fixing yourself always seem to be centered around men and not women?Women have been conditioned since birth about “how to get that man”. Every teen magazine is about looks, makeup, getting his attention. Women’s magazines are all about how to be incredible in bed to keep your man. Women do not have impossible standards. Most women I know, myself included, have dated ugly or overweight men. But they had something about them that made them attractive. (And none of them had money) Confidence, intelligence, sense of humor, etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/21 12:57 AM |
| 1 | I’m jealous of my roommates. I need helpHow far away is the city? I lived in the suburbs and went into the city all the time. Start volunteering or join recreational sports clubs. Your school has to have clubs you can join. And when you meet new people, take a chance and reach out to them. Don’t try to date right now. They’ll be able to smell the desperation. Just make friends. After an activity, if you were talking to someone, “hey want to get a coffee?” Do that a few times. Then exchange phone numbers and text about an event you’d l… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/21 12:51 AM |
| 3 | I still find it difficult to understand how I ended up being brainwashed by The Red PillDo not feel bad that you were taken in by the Red Pill cult. They are experts in manipulating people, especially those that are vulnerable. Please read/watch/listen to some of Steven Hassan’s books, blog, YouTube videos or podcasts. He breaks down all the techniques that these manipulators use. Some of the most intelligent people get sucked into cults. It’s not about intelligence, or self worth. These predators know how to uses the quirks of the human mind to bend things to their will. Please ta… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/21 12:44 AM |
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