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Cmon you’re being overly pedantic. I’m talking Tinder and iPhones. Not match.com on your AOL dial up connection
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:46 PM
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The virginity study was performed before online dating (2002). It’s been almost been 20 years since then. Would love to see a more updated study. 80/20 rule is brought on by mainly online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:17 PM
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Average Jamal lmaoooo. First time I heard that term used
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/21 05:17 PM
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Why deflect here. Are you currently unemployed?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:37 PM
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What’s your occupation? Seems like you feel men in your workplace don’t do crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:48 PM
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Both pay well. We’ll just leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 12:01 AM
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No one from a B school is getting into Goldman Sachs.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 11:47 PM
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Tech not only makes more but requires fewer hours. New grad positions at Google and Facebook pay ~200k per year. Check levels.fyi if you’re more curious and tech salaries
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 11:28 PM
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Why do you care so much about being seen as upper class tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:52 PM
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Tech makes more than investment banking at this point. If you aren’t born into wealth, tech is the best way to get rich. But the downside is it’s very tough to get that high paying new grad offer from Facebook, Google, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:41 PM
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Yup. There is no concrete mechanism to enforce “good behavior” in a marriage other than threat of divorce. Ppl can lie in discussions and talk the talk. They can even do all the stuff they promise during the honeymoon phase. After that, there’s nothing stopping them from slacking off other than possibility of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/21 12:38 AM
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A lot of ppl can’t even find min wage work right now. It’s sad but that is life in America.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:11 PM
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Looking at their phone during an awkward silence should result in an immediate rejection. So much disrespect with that maneuver.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:38 AM
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I haven’t but it’s not like women take hours to respond to their manager at work. If they did, manager would probably not promote them. So it’s really a matter of priorities. If she doesn’t treat you like a priority, she won’t respond quickly. Pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:36 AM
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Yup. Sounds like OP has never been to a gym before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:48 PM
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3rd wave Feminism focuses on sexual liberation. That’s not rly a problem, but it is detrimental to the growth of one’s career prospects. Anyone who’s really hunkered down to work hard and compete with others to get a high paying job knows that relationships and casual sex takes time away from preparation. It’s rly hard to simply focus if you have relationships and sex on your mind all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 08:19 PM
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Yup. It is mostly women from immigrant families that I see thriving in high paying careers. It can be said that immigrant families care less for feminist ideals as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 08:09 PM
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I know this sub hates talking about race, but I find that most women who have high paying careers are 1st or 2nd gen Americans. Really makes me wonder whether Western values actually leads to better career aspects for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:49 PM
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If you always text first
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:21 PM
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Yup. American “healthy” weight is still considered overweight in Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:36 PM
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That’s why this whole body positive moment is really insidious. I see it as a way for already skinny ppl to improve their status even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:26 PM
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Americans weight standards are so messed up. Y’all’s normal is considered overweight in East Asian countries. It’s pretty obvious to spot by looking at the tricep flab. I’d say even in big cities, most women in 20s have that tricep flab. For ref, I’m 6’1” male at 170 lbs lol. A bit skinny but this is pretty par for the course for non-obese countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 08:19 PM
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A lot of women date bc they’re bored. So do men but women have far more options. If men could be casual daters and fwb, they would. It’s just that they can’t due to their lack of options.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/21 04:04 PM
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Here’s the catch, a guy has to be in a relationship to cheat 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/21 02:51 PM
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Damn that honestly sucks. Other than the lack of sex, I’d agree that being a man is far more advantageous. I can’t even imagine being neurotic lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:55 AM
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Strength doesn’t mean anything in a world where ppl have guns and knives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:53 AM
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Is the neuroticism something that women can’t control?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 12:49 AM
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For my first breakup, I didn’t even have option 2 available and I’m glad that was the case tbh. After my 2nd breakup where I initiated, I also decided to just stop dating bc I felt it was a waste of time. Definitely the right choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 05:53 PM
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I think the ppl who agree with you grew up in a household where the parents clearly didn’t like each other vs ppl who grew up in an ideal household. The former is much more common than the latter imo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:53 PM
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As a man, I’d rather be lonely. I’ve seen too many times how surplus of attention leads to negative effects on ones career prospects later in life. It’s so easy to get addicted to attention. It’s rly not that uncommon to see college or high school women spend 12 hours a day on their phone. Constant attention, good and bad, is a curse. Men, use your spare time to train for a marathon, build a business, learn a new language, make YouTube videos. You have so much freedom to do so!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:12 AM
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Damn it took you 23 partners to realize you hate men 😭😭😭 “fool me once, shame on you. Fool me 23 times, shame on you”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:07 AM
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Yes these are all nice but it seems like the woman is just giving and not getting anything in return in this situation. Any man would take this situation but its simply not reality for those who have not reached peak success yet. Obviously no one is forcing me to have a relationship so I'm not complaining. I'm just saying we wouldn't see as many men complaining about female behavior if they had a purpose in life other than finding an SO.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 11:54 PM
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Yeah I conceded in another comment that it’s not about legacy but about the feeling of building something that benefits multitudes of ppl. It’s that feeling of importance/power/attention that drives me to continue working. But I’d like to know your thoughts on what a meaningful and fruitful relationship entails? Frankly, I don’t need the support of an SO to pursue my goals as I am already pursuing them without an SO. If we’re talking about support in terms of cooking, etc that’s the job of a mai…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 11:04 PM
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Because they wanted to have kids. Elon Musk isn't married and he's doing fine. I can also list plenty of high status men who aren't married, namely athletes and celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 10:01 PM
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Here's my logic: Most men want a relationship and not just sex because they truly desire the intimacy rather than the physical sensation; Men are not robots. They desire intimacy because their life is boring and need something to fill that boredom. Video games and other hobbies can fill that boredom, but nothing is as addicting as intimacy, power, attention. Power and sustained attention for men requires immense amount of work and time investment. As a result, intimacy is a far more low-hanging …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:22 PM
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Ideally, the woman emotionally supports you and gives you sex while you do more productive things. Women generally suck at giving emotional support to men, so it's usually just sex, but the reliable sex is still valuable. No reasonable woman will sign up for this unless you're a celebrity. If you don't have the right genetics, getting casual sex is an even bigger time sink. So without a girlfriend, you either become celibate or put in even more effort to get casual sex. Agreed. Men must come to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 09:05 PM
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Most of them will say that the money this business offers them gives them access to a lot of pussy I have never ever heard a business owner say this. And even if this was true, you inherently agree with me that people with a purpose only care about the sex and don't give a rats ass about a relationship. Unless the guy is super high status, like he's the owner of a fortune 500 company, no regular woman cares that you own a business. They would expect that man to spend time with them just like any…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 07:19 PM
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Talk to any person who is single and owns a growing business. Most will say that they don't have time for a relationship and enjoy spending hours on end growing their business. The feeling of working on something that hundreds, thousands, or even millions of people use/benefit from is a feeling like none other. Men SHOULD aspire for this rather than moan and complain about female tendencies and not finding a relationship or not even getting sex. This is precisely what being high-value entails. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:50 PM
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Right. The only reason for a relationship is to have kids. That I can agree with but is also common sense. I'm talking about dudes pining for a LTR in their 20s with no intention on vetting for wife material and instead looking for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:34 PM
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Because I want to make a difference in the world and leave my legacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:22 PM
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I think that just points to how bored/dissatisfied they are with their career/life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:19 PM
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Too lazy to make a post about this but men who desire a LTR are simply bored with their life. I rarely, if ever, have seen a relationship that leads to improved productivity on the man's side. LTRs are such a huge time sink and that time could be spent doing something more productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/21 06:11 PM
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Yes that’s my point. They are contradicting themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:45 AM
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They say that RP has reached its peak yet also say more and more men will only entertain a “Netflix and chill” nowadays. The writing on the wall is clear. Men who can get laid are trying less hard while men who can’t are seeking outlets like RP channels. The amount of growth I’ve seen from RP personas on YouTube in the past year is frankly astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:43 AM
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She belong to the streets is another example. I have a feeling that those who believe RP isn’t growing are mostly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:35 AM
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Being whipped usually referred to someone already in a relationship. The term simp took it to a whole new level. Furthermore, with the rise of onlyfans, there is an even more increasing divide between those the RP and BP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 12:33 AM
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I think it’s worth the time and money. Plenty of men do too. Biggest benefit of prenup is actually just to see opposing person’s reaction to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 06:03 AM
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Yeah past a certain income it doesn’t rly matter. I’d say around 100k. That’s enough signal for me to know that you’re a hard worker and have your head on straight. After that it’s attractiveness and feeling in control of the relationship. Will admit that having a wife with higher income does hurt the male ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 03:28 AM
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A good job is a result of someone spending their time in a worthwhile way. Like I don’t care that you read nietzche in your free time, anybody can do that. High income and high savings are the best indicator of work ethic and self discipline
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 03:19 AM
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But you’re not single anymore so...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 03:17 AM
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Exactly. Being sweet and feminine can easily be faked just to get the marriage. You can’t fake a good job and good income (or at least it’s much harder to fake lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 10:17 PM
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Agree with Aldabruzzo here. Your “intellect” or “habits” don’t mean anything if you can’t get a good job or nice benefits out of it. I know plenty of educated college women who are by definition “smart”, but have nothing to show for it. I want to see my partner walk the talk and not just talk the talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 10:11 PM
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I mean you get the main point. For some men it’s gaming. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 08:23 PM
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What’s the difference between taking care of 10 animals vs gaming. Could easily replace one with the other. Your life just seems overly hectic ngl. It’s nice to have a partner where you can lay back and spend time on things that aren’t so serious like moving, career, etc. Also most relationships do get boring after the honeymoon phase and ppl find ways to fill that time with whatever endeavors they plan. Easiest way to fill that time is having kids. Just seems that you hate gaming for whatever r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:44 PM
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How much planning do you do??? If we take kids out of the equation, ain’t no need to plan everyday. I make money, I pay rent, I invest. What else is there to discuss? If you have kids that’s a different story but we’re talking about LTRs, not baby-making. Some guys just want to enjoy life and want a partner who will enjoy it with them. I see nothing wrong with that. But I can see the divide where women’s ultimate goal is marriage and kids and dudes in their 20s are definitely not thinking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:31 PM
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I want my partner to share my hobbies. If we don’t have the same hobbies, what are we supposed to do in our free time? Just talk? We wouldn’t even have things to talk about without similar hobbies 😂😂 Seems odd to me that many women like talking about complementary traits. We make friends based on similarities rather than differences so why should that be different for choosing a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:14 PM
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If a guy has gaming as a hobby, what’s wrong with sharing that hobby with a gf? I find that ask fairly reasonable. Also most guys literally do want a bro with a coochie.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 07:04 PM
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Easy. She has to be attractive in my eyes and work just as hard as me. All these ppl giving long checklists for personality type when I find work ethic to be the best indication of someone’s character. To this end, i heavily disagree when RP rhetoric that men only care about appearance and that a rich guy would marry a barista as long as she’s attractive and doesn’t have red flags. I believe that partners should inspire each other to work hard and achieve more. Someone who is attractive but does…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 06:39 PM
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I just think men and women don’t have a lot of overlapping hobbies or senses of humor. Sports and lifting are two of the most popular male hobbies and it’s tough to find a woman who is not only equally as interested, but on the same level of athleticism as well. Anyone who does sports knows that fun is bred from the competitiveness. Of course there are athletic women, and it’s getting more common which is great, but generally speaking it’s hard to find a woman to play a pickup game of bball, soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 10:09 PM
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It is egotistical and there’s nothing wrong with that. I love myself and if I don’t, I strive to improve myself so that I can.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:36 PM
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You see this is why it’s a great question! I would definitely date myself because I find myself interesting, thoughtful, fun, and horny :) I’d like to see the difference between sexes for this question. I’d venture and say that most men would date themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 08:28 PM
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There's no reason to marry unless you want children. Agreed. As for prenups, what you said is why I think just the proposition of a prenup serves most of its purpose. If she isn’t comfortable with a prenup, that’s immediately zero chance of a marriage. Maybe women will catch on this bluff in the future, but for now most are ignorant about prenups because most dudes are BPed and wouldn’t even think of getting a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:18 PM
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Yeah lots of things to consider. Practically speaking, what men can do to protect themselves is to get a prenup and ensure separation of bank accounts. Sometimes, the mere reaction to both of these propositions from the woman can reveal a whole lot in the relationship. Those that do not do this are entrusting their fate to blind trust. Sometimes that strategy works out but I myself am too risk averse for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:03 PM
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There definitely needs to be a differentiation between men who have or don’t have something to lose from divorce. I feel that many women claim marriage is worse for the woman because the husband was never really high status to begin with. I think there’s a statistic where high earning households end up far less in divorce than low earning ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:33 PM
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I’m experiencing a lot of cognitive dissonance right now. Most independent men with a purpose in life don’t place huge importance on marriage unless their goal is to raise a family. Also in many threads in ppd, many women advocate for marriage (usually for DINK lifestyle). So it’s like I’m seeing women on the whole want marriage more but women benefit less? I think what’s going on is that women are marrying these men who are desperate for marriage and are regretting it afterwards. Because once t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 04:04 PM
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I’d like to see the statistics on unmarried men differentiated between those that wanted to marry and those that didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 03:58 PM
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Perhaps another question you can consider adding is, “Would you date and be in a LTR with someone like yourself? Yes or no”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 06:46 AM
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I appreciate OP for replying to most comments! My perspective is that women don’t need to have casual sex. In some Asian countries, casual sex is not really a thing despite men being horny all the time. I once asked a friend about this. I said “Why do no women here like to hookup? Aren’t they horny?”. My friend responded, “They are horny for relationships”. So I think it’s worth noting that women, for the most part, are the gatekeepers for sex and relationships. If you don’t like casual sex, don…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/21 05:55 AM
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Again this is common sense... I don’t think anyone sane advocates for going against your gut feeling when meeting a stranger. I think there would be more interesting discussion if you had tangible requirements that you vet on.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:11 AM
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Can you be more specific? The information you have provided is simply common sense so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:04 AM
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Can you provide more information on the type of vetting you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 04:00 AM
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Any reason why height and weight are omitted?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/21 03:58 AM
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What’s stopping you from doing the first two things without getting married?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:34 PM
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This dude gotta have options. I ain’t never met a dude who would not make a move when the girl is in his room and giving the go-ahead green light 🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:17 PM
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Hate to break it to you but this guy probably isn’t attracted to you. Dunno what caused such a sudden turn of events but OP you should just move on. Don’t know wtf is happening in this guy’s head lol. Or perhaps this guy really is disciplined and kudos to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 09:08 PM
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Wow that’s genius. This really sums it up well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:59 PM
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I’m surprised OP hasn’t responded to this comment yet. These are fairly strong counter arguments. You don’t need a marriage for any material thing you desire... unless you can’t afford them yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 08:53 PM
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Absolutely. The RP has actually made me appreciate some of my male friends more based on how they drive me to be a better person. Men should have higher standards for their partners as well and chasing sex is a huge time waste imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 04:27 AM
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I agree 100%. That is why men controlling their horniness is the most empowering thing they can do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 11:18 PM
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Wouldn’t having a high salary confer status more effectively? Like if a college or high school dropout was making more than me, I wouldn’t believe myself to be more superior simply because I graduated with a degree. In fact I’d feel a little ashamed of myself for not being as successful despite having better opportunities with a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 03:34 AM
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I’d say most Asian American men end up being disillusioned one way or another. Those who are naive to the SMP get hit hard when they enter it and find dating attractive women near impossible (at least in their 20s).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:23 AM
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I never understood the emphasis on degrees in dating. In the job market, your degree only really matters for the first job, which is applicable between ages 22-26. If recruiters don’t even care about my degree, why is it important for dating???
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 02:04 AM
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