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| 1 | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.Yeah I am glad humanity probably won't last the next century. Current system is not sustainable in any way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:45 AM |
| – | Men who are trying to "woo" a woman (by working out, getting hobbies, dressing better, being charismatic/funny, getting rich, etc.) need to ask themselves if a girl would ever do that to get him.Are you equating consensual mutual romantic relationships with winning the lottery? It is similar tbh. Most of the factors that determine your success are determined at berth. You have to win the genetic lottery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 02:40 AM |
| 2 | It's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They do. But.. many generations have been made to believe that they can compensate for lack of sexual attraction... and that is a huge misinformationIt's not that personality and sincerity of feelings don't matter. They don't. It just comes down to three things - looks, status and money. Everything else is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Damn bro that's like 1 in a million shot. You should probably play some lottery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 06:32 AM |
| 7 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Yeah, there's always someone she's 'seeing' or interested just not serious enough. You have to be better than these options for her to monkey branch to you until eventually it happens to you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Being friends is a great way to become romantically involved Yeah no, once you get assigned the friend label there's no switching. She can't see you as anything more. Isn't there a common saying that attraction is non-negotiable and it cannot grow? IF anything actually happens then attraction was already present and being friends had little to no effect. All you had to do was meet her and your physical attraction did the rest. This advice doesn't work unless you are already decently attractive a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Women's high standards are mostly talkThere are even studies that show that while men largely agree on what makes a woman attractive, women don’t uniformly agree on what makes men attractive. It's the exact opposite lol. Only a very specific type of guy is successful while all kinds of women have no problems getting dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.That's a great way to make friends, nothing beyond that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.They help Not really. Complete absence of them could be a negative but everyone has something they like, so it doesn't do much. Having zero hobbies or friends doesn't attract women either In extreme cases it might 'repel' them but that's it, having them makes women neutral towards you nothing more. But YES, you should have friends and social life cos it makes you seem 'normal'. Now if you have a shit attitude - no hobby in the world will make you attractive. But that's not the hobby's fault. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.They help Not really. Complete absence of them could be a negative but everyone has something they like, so it doesn't do much. Having zero hobbies or friends doesn't attract women either In extreme cases it might 'repel' them but that's it, having them makes women neutral towards you nothing more. But YES, you should have friends and social life cos it makes you seem 'normal'. Now if you have a shit attitude - no hobby in the world will make you attractive. But that's not the hobby's fault. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Eh personality only matters if you are on the extreme ends of the scale - either a weirdo outcast with zero social life or you are an effortlessly charming extrovert. In these cases it will either screw up or add to your attractiveness but in most cases it doesn't do much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Yep, if you are in the top 20 - 30% in looks then you don't need to put this kind of effort lol. Just find someone else. And if you are the bottom 70%, nothing will change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 04:09 AM |
| 55 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Lmao dude, absolutely brutal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Eh, I am not that lonely. I have friends and family who I visit pretty often. But there's simply no replacement for lack of intimacy/relationship. I am not looking for women to save me from some shitty existence or depression. The thing that fucks me up is that I will miss out on one of the fundamental aspects of being human simply cos I missed out on a genetic lottery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Yeah that's what kinda happened to me too. There's no solution for this that doesn't involve somehow improving your looks, status or money tbh. Having 'goals' might make you seem less desperate and make your life bearable fulfilling. But they won't actually solve anything. They are a cope but a pretty good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 07:13 PM |
| 0 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Yeah I agree, neediness and desperation is one of the biggest turn offs but hobbies won't help you with that. Finding happiness while ignoring your need for intimacy is coping. But I don't think it's entirely bad as long as do it in the right way. Like you said, having goals or purpose in life is one of them. It didn't completely work for me though until I gave myself a backup plan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.She will stay with you if she is attracted to you, simple as that. Pretty sure lot of woman say that having stuff in common is not a requirement, it's just a small bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Exactly this. If you like it then keep doing it but you won't become attractive just cos you are more interesting or passionate lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.You are overestimating the number of women who give a shit about your hobbies. When you have all the important stuff - height, face and decent amount of money all you need is just 'not being a fucking weirdo'. That's it, no bs about hobbies, passion or whatever. She might listen to you talk about something you like but that's cos she is already attracted to you, not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Then we should call it for what it is - a form of coping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:14 PM |
| 4 | Getting hobbies is useless advice for dating.Hobbies don't attract women lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with being a cuck?Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 11:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women have it harder in datinglol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 06:04 PM |
| 39 | Men put WAY too much stock on trying to get women.They do that cos a man's worth is almost entirely dependent on the quality/quantity of women who desire him. That's why virgin, incel and "No bitches?" are the worst things you can say to a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 05:43 PM |
| – | How much prevelant is the belief system in rp that "women are not built to love men they can only love children, they only test men". Do you all personally believe it?Women can only love you for what you have - looks, financial/social status or what you can provide - money/the kind of lifestyle she wants etc. Their love is conditional. Believing in anything else is cope. You have to be really lucky to find someone who isn't like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 06:27 AM |
| – | As a attractive Man, you will always be beat by the higher Status male, and i can vouch for that. Looks isn't that much of a Godmode as you Guys believe.Bet they still think about you and would probably sleep with you if given the opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:17 AM |
| 3 | Pursuit of muscle and money is futile for attracting womanIf you don't have a fucked up base then cutting bf to ~12% can change your face a lot. But yeah big muscles don't really do much, what you want is lean physique with just enough muscle to enhance your frame. There's always hard lookmaxxing and tbh more guys should consider it. It won't work for everyone but even some minor surgeries can make a difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 08:41 AM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsWell, the way things are going humanity won't make it to the next century. Rise of AI and unchecked capitalism, climate change, inflation and isolation. Eat healthy and exercise, if you can keep a decent job then you can just watch the world go to shit from the sidelines. The more I have grown cynical I have realized that I don't care what happens. Why should I fight for a future I have no investment in? If I was married and had kids then yeah I would want my children to have even better life th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 03:16 AM |
| 1 | The solution is not women lowering lower their standards - it's males stepping their game upIs this satire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:54 PM |
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