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mob_barley/r/seduction09/03/12 10:57 PM
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man, relax more. In fact, just assume that you're already going to blow it. In fact, go out and get another girl's number.
/r/seduction14/04/12 06:31 PM
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Damn, that's crazy man. I would say just play it cool and let it happen, don't push for it or you'll definitely scare them off. If they're willing to get drunk with just the three of you, there's a pretty decent chance the thought has at least crossed their minds, but given the extra taboo of them being related it's extra important that it happens by "accident."
/r/seduction14/04/12 05:33 PM
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I don't have much experience, I'm just parroting a couple pieces of advice I heard that sounded good. First of all, it's slightly different whether it's a place you go often or whether you happen to be in that store one time randomly and have an opportunity. If it's say, a girl who works at the place you go for coffee every single morning, first off you don't want to come in too strong and risk making her feel awkward. It's highly unlikely that would happen but I'm just saying, absolute worst ca…
/r/seduction03/04/12 05:42 PM
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Engineers make some of the highest starting salaries relative to other Bachelor's degrees. There is no such thing as a girl who's turned off by money. But if you think of it as a turn off, then it will be.
/r/seduction01/04/12 10:41 PM
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Stop thinking and just do it. I mean I always was the nice, sometimes weird, guy. What, are you afraid of losing that reputation? You've gotta change your attitude to where other people exist for your entertainment, not the other way around. If you compliment her, it's because you felt like saying it and she should be damn grateful.
/r/seduction29/03/12 05:20 PM
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That's all dead on, the one other thing to remember I think is authenticity. It doesn't matter if you steal someone else's lines as long as you make them your own. If you're forcing yourself to say something because you heard it worked for another guy, it will come off as being forced and you'll look weird. But it all just comes down to confidence I guess.
/r/seduction29/03/12 04:08 PM
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Look, that's a valid concern. That voice that's telling you not to do it because she's too cool for you, that's called "social intuition," and while it often does little more then hold you back, it is there for a reason. Here's what you do. Go up and talk to her really casually, so she knows your name but not too much more than that. Then get her to be your date for a dance or party or something, preferably one her friends will be at too. That's the hard part, right? Do whatever you have to do, …
/r/seduction29/03/12 04:01 PM
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...and therefore not the best man. Works out kind of nicely. I mean, there are three options. Either A) Best man wins, B) One man steps aside, and C) They both agree not to go after her. The problem with option C is that there's going to be some hurt feelings if one guy ends up with her anyways, and with option B, it really isn't doing much of a favor to the guy who's doing the asking. Option A, only one guy is gonna get the chick but hopefully both guys come out a little older and wiser than th…
/r/seduction27/03/12 09:19 PM
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Well it's not like he snagged her out from under you. It's not his fault he likes her and you can't blame him for acting on it. I think the response should have been "may the best man win" as long as you agree it won't ruin your friendship.
/r/seduction27/03/12 04:52 AM
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Hey man, I think I may be going through a lot of the same stuff you are. I'm 22, recently transferred to a new college, and I'm having a pretty rough time myself. It's odd because I have a really tight knit group of friends left over from high school, I always had a girlfriend back then, loved going out to parties etc. I'm not sure what it is about me that's changed but it's gotten to the point where sometimes it's hard just to leave my bedroom and face my roommates; going to campus and to class…
/r/seduction26/03/12 07:31 PM
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...if all the members are still in high school
/r/seduction25/03/12 06:00 PM
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Well uh better luck next time there man
/r/seduction24/03/12 08:39 AM
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No, I say "I think" because I realize that I'm as prone to error as anyone else, and furthermore because it's impossible to truly "know" anything in the philosophical sense.
/r/seduction24/03/12 04:16 AM
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I think OP is referring to outcomes that depend on other people. Speaking to ten girls in one night is completely up to you. The outcome dependency OP is referring to would be to feel discouraged if you don't end up getting anywhere with any of them.
/r/seduction23/03/12 10:01 PM
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Fyi, a "caveat" is a warning.
/r/seduction23/03/12 06:16 AM
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Funny you should mention that. I'm actually a physics student. I have always considered economics too vague and baffling to even try to understand.
/r/seduction16/03/12 07:53 PM
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I think I didn't do a very good job of articulating myself, because a number of people have interpreted this as me saying to go around being nice to everyone and that is not what I meant at all. See my response here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/qpjp3/how_to_form_relationships/c41re31
/r/seduction16/03/12 07:51 PM
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I think that is certainly true. What I am saying is that often times you first have to give them a reason to want to qualify themselves.
/r/seduction16/03/12 07:48 PM
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Well, I'm saying give people what they want, right? And nobody wants a nice guy who tries to buy friendships etc. by offering flattery, etc.. People might think they want those things, but what everyone really craves is stimulation, drama, entertainment. It's like, every once in a while there's a post here or elsewhere on reddit about some guy who had a major breakthrough where he stopped being nice to girls and told one she had a stupid face, and got laid that same night or something like that.…
/r/seduction16/03/12 07:45 PM
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Yeah, I was afraid someone would misunderstand me that way. There's a key difference in being a doormat, and what I am talking about. If you run around doing favors for women but you're really only trying to get them to like you, this is really indicative of the first mindset I was talking about, where you're trying to get something specific out of them and so you're being extra nice in hopes they give it to you. If this comes across even a little bit, the girl will realize she has something you…
/r/seduction10/03/12 02:24 AM
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The idea is to find a happy place where you're doing nice things for other people, not because you want them to like you, but because it makes you feel good I couldn't agree more. What I am saying, I think, is that doing things for other people will usually end up making you feel good even when you don't expect it to. Example: You have the opportunity to strike up a conversation with a stranger; if you create a pleasant conversation for them, you will end up having one yourself, and who knows, m…
/r/seduction10/03/12 02:13 AM
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If you don't think you're going to get what you want, don't put in the effort for them. See, this is my point, I think that is the wrong attitude. What you want to do is adopt the mindset where providing gratification to others, is in itself personally gratifying. If you do this, you can give gratification to anyone and be elevated by it regardless of how it is reciprocated. With that mindset, you would never have any reason to fear rejection, for example. They won't give you what they have: "Wh…
/r/seduction10/03/12 02:06 AM
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That's certainly a good point. I suppose they are two sides to the same coin. If you are living your life to the fullest other people will want to be a part because it will be a thrilling experience for them. I'm not really talking about being selfish vs. selfless, I'm just saying you will get what you want out of people by showing them you have something they want, and furthermore that giving value to people who apparently have nothing to offer you may yield unexpected returns.
/r/seduction10/03/12 01:55 AM
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I wasn't implying that it is, just that, among other things, wanting to get laid is probably a fairly common sentiment among people who read and post here.
/r/seduction10/03/12 01:49 AM
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