mode7plz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Successful upper hand strategy. While I have some compassion for the people represented on that blog, at the end of the day it is a litany of people refusing to take responsibility for their circumstances and their own actions. It seems like you are on of their ilk.	/r/MensRights	20/07/14 01:33 PM
1	Successful upper hand strategy. A marriage is not a sexual contract or a work contract. Do you live Saudi Arabia?	/r/MensRights	20/07/14 01:28 PM
1	Successful upper hand strategy. You sure are reading into this a lot more than is warranted. There isn't anything in here to justify your assumptions about their relationship. Could it be that you have an inherent bias against women, and believe that all marriages are parasitic relationships? She would also need to dread losing her privileged position in case she didnt satisfy her husband. Hahaha Jesus Fucking Christ, you sure know turns women on! Nothing better than fear of being abandoned physically and emotionally to get th…	/r/MensRights	20/07/14 01:26 PM
2	Successful upper hand strategy. I think this post is over the line enough to justify me tagging you as 'misogynistic fool' Women aren't cows Some men love sex Some women love sex Some men love giving women pleasure Some women love giving men pleasure http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5aAWlwKyavU	/r/MensRights	20/07/14 01:21 PM
1	Successful upper hand strategy. A marriage is not a sexual contract. Please pay attention to the language we have all agreed on. Sexual contracts don't exist anymore except possibly somewhere in the middle east, where acute misogyny still thrives in a systemic way. husbands are committed to working their asses off for their spouse and children 'Husbands' is a group made up of many people. Some are lazy assholes, some are hard working genuine people, some are infanticidal maniacs, some are pop stars, some are judges, and some a…	/r/MensRights	20/07/14 01:17 PM
1	Successful upper hand strategy. There are many kinds of relationships out there. I'm not commenting on your personally preferred type of relationship, so your offense isn't warranted. The kind I am talking about is a relationship built on things like love, trust, connection, compassion, physical and emotional support. In this kind of relationship, there is a place for honest communication about each other's sexual and emotional needs, and how they can work together to have their needs met.	/r/MensRights	20/07/14 01:09 PM
1	Successful upper hand strategy. I can't tell if that is sarcasm or not, but to be clear, someone withholding sex as a power-play is a person treating their partner like a child, and is in a childish relationship. On the other hand, someone who is just genuinely not feeling like sex, even for a month and a half, is someone who exists in the world and is subject to it's chaos and it's ability to disrupt one's plans despite one's best efforts. Sometimes you just don't feel attractive or safe. Sometimes it is physical, psychologic…	/r/MensRights	20/07/14 01:04 PM
1	Successful upper hand strategy. What are you basing this interpretation on ? On the text contained in OP's image. It did not mention a period of friction or attempted communication, and in fact she used the phrase 'out of left field' as I noted before. Obviously whatever happened in real life is more complex than a simple screenshot of a reddit post can capture, and any person who writes said post is only telling the story from their subjective viewpoint, but this entire discussion is based on the data provided in OP's post. S…	/r/MensRights	20/07/14 12:50 PM
2	Successful upper hand strategy. If it had been going on for much longer, then that definitely sucks for him, but I still think that keeping track like this while skipping over a heart-to-heart says a lot about the guy. Or maybe not, I know that lack of sex can be frustrating as fuck, and makes you do stupid-ass things. I don't think I ever stooped to excel, but I definitely went down the 'keeping a mental list' road, not with sex but with other relationship issues. Once you start keeping score, or collecting evidence like you'…	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 07:43 PM
2	Successful upper hand strategy. I think there might be another term a bit short of emotional violence that best fits that kind of decision, but certainly it isn't a recipe for a good partnership, and to just decide something like that with certainty and no communication probably says you don't respect your partner very much, or hold their experience at a similar level of importance as your own. That being said, the woman in question hasn't made a non-negotiable, secret, conscious decision to drastically downsize their sex life…	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 07:14 PM
3	Things you can only do with boys. (X-post from /r/childfree) Pusy? What is pusy? Pyou-see? OH you mean pussy. Well the cartoon wouldn't work if it said pussy instead of vagina. Unless it replaced wee-wee with a sexualized slang word like cock or dick, and then the joke breaks down for an entirely different reason. You see, humor is a fickle thing.	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 03:21 PM
1	New music video tells us that we should pretend that ugly women are beautiful 1 minute in and I haven't seen a person I find unattractive yet. Your frame of reference is skewed, maybe you watch too much TV or porn. This is what real people look like. Except, not really, I think these people might be like a standard deviation above the average person. If you picked the same number of people off the street randomly, I don't think they would be this attractive. But that is my personal sense of what is attractive and everyone has their own. Wow, there are a couple people that…	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 03:15 PM
1	New music video tells us that we should pretend that ugly women are beautiful '2/10 Would Not Bang' meme goes here.	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 03:12 PM
1	Successful upper hand strategy. I pity da fool who has such a 2-dimensional idea of what a relationship is. Sex happens when 2 people want to have sex, not because they happen to be married, or for any other reason. And if the only sex that someone has ever had is because their partner thinks they owe it to them, as some sort of bronze-age contact or for any other reason, then they are missing the fuck out. That's 1 step away from Louis C K masturbating with his dead wife's hand. EDIT: word	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 02:43 PM
2	Successful upper hand strategy. I think it was posted here because OP is confused about the nature of the Men's Rights movement. Mistakes happen.	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 02:39 PM
2	Successful upper hand strategy. Certainly, there is a place to talk about getting your needs met in a relationship, and what that means in terms of keeping a partner in your life or changing directions. But people are not cows, and many men, myself included, are not in a relationship simply to have their dick's milked.	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 02:38 PM
2	Successful upper hand strategy. Did she post an extended version of the history that proceeded this? If so, could you paste it. My arguments look like they do because I'm only acting on the information contained in the image you posted. At face value, it seems that he did not initiate honest conversation. We only know that he attempted to initiate sex, and we don't even know how that was done, we just have his account that it did happen. Attempting to initiate sex is not the same as attempting to initiate honest communication.…	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 02:33 PM
2	Successful upper hand strategy. withholding another kind of affection This is something that a sociopath does, or at least someone with extreme interpersonal dysfunction. Having honest conversation is what adults do. Trying to entrap someone you claim to love by recording their actions to throw back at them, is something children do. The cherry on top is that he cut off communication with her afterwards, like he wanted her to stew in it, to think about how she had wronged him, like that would help the relationship at all. We a…	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 02:15 PM
3	Successful upper hand strategy. I think you are looking for /r/TheRedPill or maybe some sort of sub for a Christian Conservative offshoot. marriage is a sexual contract How about 'ugh' for that? Grow up and start treating other people like people.	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 07:23 AM
3	Successful upper hand strategy. Why is this in /r/MensRights ? This has nothing to do with Men's Rights IMO. I've been in this same position and it sucks, but this guy sounds like a passive-aggressive douche canoe. A fucking spreadsheet? It's called learning to communicate. Try caring about your partner and what they might be going through. Maybe talk to them about your concerns, ask if anything is going on with them, talk about your sexual wants and needs in the relationship, and work together. After all that has been tried, …	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 07:21 AM
3	Successful upper hand strategy. I think you're in the wrong sub.	/r/MensRights	19/07/14 07:00 AM