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| 2 | Lil Miss Cheetah catches a Cheater red-handed 🥴😂I saw this on ig and… I just have to share this story. So in Dec my cousin and his wife (who have a very dysfunctional relationship irl but look perf on ig cause she’s an influencer and soo desperate to keep up the image) went to Miami and their ig stories the whole time we’re just….. So basically she chronicled their amazing, cute romantic trip on her end while he posted lots of mirror selfies of himself, a few pics of them together here and there but then one night he posted this in his story … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 03:07 AM |
| 8 | girl whatYou have a very similar upbringing to mine. Some time in my early 20s I realized that my lifestyle is apparently “taboo” and looked down on by society - like the traveling and living lavishly with the money my parents provided. And I honestly became very isolated. Most of cousins live similar lives but we’re spread out in the world and lucky for me, the ones close by, are super westernized so they also look down on me a bit. Anyways, something I’ve learned in dating that has always worked for me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 160 | girl whatMen are 100% the gold diggers. My mom always says “men want by benefit” with her basic English skills lol. In my culture, it’s very common for women to be taken care of and supported by their families for their whole life basically and men (in my culture) specifically hunt for women from well-off families because they know they’ll be set for life. When I’m dating, I actually prefer if a guy is put off by the fact that my parents provide me with financial support because then I know he’s not a go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 09:02 AM |
| 202 | girl whatI don’t know how old they are but I would assume mid to late 30’s or early 40’s. So a younger woman for him is what? A 25 year old? A 20 year old?? That age range has such a different mentality on dating/relationships. First of all, most of them are super ambitious and focused on their goals and the last thing on their mind is settling down and making babies young, especially with some weirdo older loser. Secondly, guys in their own generation are literally gorgeous AND they are much much nicer … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 08:53 AM |
| 24 | Guy murders his separated wife... Horrible men in the comment section are defending his actionsFormer = narcissist Latter = BPD I have always dealt with the avoidant narcissist type (….thankfully I guess 🥴). Like at least I don’t have to deal with the harassment/danger of the crazies but like what will eventually happen, when will I find a normal one 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 09:35 AM |
| 32 | So he’s too “busy” to date, but not too busy to use you for sex? 🤔But don’t blame yourself for not being his “dream girl” either, he is very likely to half ass with every girl he meets. Omg this used to KILL me (and still sometimes does). I’m very confident in myself as a woman. I know my worth. I know I’m pretty, stylish, smart, ambitious, funny, come from a very good family - I truly feel confident enough to say I am close to having it all. And my ego would get SO damaged if someone turned me down or rejected me because it just felt so personal and then I wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 09:10 PM |
| 43 | LVM lining up for cheap, tacky, overpriced jewellery two days before Christmas. The comments are defending them. “bE gRaTeFuL” for the bare minimum? Nah.If a man bought me a single piece of jewelry from pandora, I’d vomit from feeling so offended. I bought myself a Cartier watch at 24. Pandoraaaaa 😂😂😂🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 8 | For the men who complain about dead bedrooms, how does it feel to be the architect of you own misery?My issue is that this applies to guys across the entire spectrum. For example, the guys who are objectively on my level of attractiveness want someone much much more attractive so it’s very discouraging for me to date because I know the guys that I want, want someone who’s WAY out of their league and the guys who view me as their equal are like wayyy below my standards. This is the real dilemma in the dating world imo. It’s true that everyone is beautiful in their own way and I agree with this b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:34 AM |
| 20 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?The future is trending single for everyone anyways and the former fuckbous will have their chickens come home to roost. I've seen it happen a LOT lately. I know 5 men off the top of my head who have no options now. Is it me or does it feel like most “f-boys” are millennials and the ones with the avoidant attachment style? I feel like the generations before millennials for sure had their issues too. Like gen-x men, in my opinion, tend to be the most abusive - both emotionally and physically. Like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 23 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?they're conscious enough of their LV behavior to know that it will have consequences if they take it into an intimate relationship but not motivated to do the self-work required to change it. Wow. I always read stories on here about the different types of awful, abusive men whether they are narcissists, players, two-timers, “the nice guy”, etc etc and I’m ngl I’ve never really related to those stories because I’ve never dated guys like that (luckily) but I’ve still had a very sh***y dating histo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 08:08 PM |
| 38 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?These types of guys always made (and still sometimes do) me feel like I wasn’t good enough and like ‘didn’t make the cut’. And then I would sit there for days/weeks/sometimes even months wondering why why why, why not me? What’s wrong with me? I don’t think there’s anything wrong with dating around and seeing what’s out there but a guy who’s stringing you along for a long time obviously has many issues/complexes. Men don’t really need to be sleeping around with multiple women, they for sure have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:52 PM |
| 17 | Do not let men of color triangulate you against women of colorMen who hate themselves really hate the women of their same ethnicity. My Indian ex had this problem. And people from my own race (I’m Persian) also have this complex. My family is from the north of Iran so we look more Turkish/Mediterranean, I’m only mentioning this because I think it’s what specifically drew my ex to me, like if I was one of the more olive-skinned, black haired Iranians, my ex probably wouldn’t like me. My personal dating preference is a Persian guy but it seems that they all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 02:39 AM |
| 6 | In case you're tempted to dip your toe back into OLD...Where are you swiping?? 😳 I’m not advocating for OLD but I swipe in OC/LA and the guys are so hot and so accomplished (doesn’t necessarily mean they’re quality) but I rarely see guys like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:35 AM |
| 6 | Finally Someone is Exposing Leonardo Dicaprio's Creepy Dating HistoryHe pays for xxx. I’m not saying he’s doing that with his current gf but he has in the (recent) past. I have confirmation of this. Don’t ask me how 👀 but it’s from a 100% legit source. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:18 AM |
| 63 | Today in 'having a kid together won't fix your relationship'I know this stuff happens in all cultures/races. But being a middle eastern Muslim, I am (sadly) not surprised AT ALLLLL by his behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.“they even got married two years ago” 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 02:41 AM |
| 268 | The level of mental gymnastics hereSeriously this makes me depressed 😔 This is literally the type of women most men WANT to be with/married to. I know there’s always jokes and stuff here about gross, low life men and all but honestly the average man is this. Someone who may not necessarily be super gross and abusive or a cheater but like overall is useless but he believes he is gods gift to you because he doesn’t cheat or abuse you so therefore you should worship, cherish and apparently smell their dirty pants. This stuff for sur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 04:20 AM |
| 4 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?1) I am so so sorry for what you’ve been through with these Persian guys. Although, sadly, I am not surprised. Your encounters/experiences are very very representative of Persian/middle eastern men. I always read about the absurdity in the confidence level of “scrotes” on here, and I am aware that that is a collective term for all scrotes from all races and background, but idk…. Persian/Middle Eastern men are a different breed…. Not that it’s a competition, but I’ve dealt with and have heard sto… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 10:03 PM |
| 42 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?Me when I see middle Eastern guys going after sweet naive white girls who just see him as “dark” and “handsome” (barely) without knowing their true motives. I omitted ‘tall’ because.lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:20 AM |
| 20 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?I'm sorry I don't want to roll over and see Gollum. Not when I can get me a idris elba. This 😂😂 but for me it’s Timothee Chalamet. I know I wrote in my other response that I prefer Middle Eastern men and, logistically, I do… which honestly makes me feel like something is wrong with me if I’m approaching dating and relationships this way and thinking of “logistics”… but if I were to describe my dream guy, it’s not some average-looking Middle Eastern guy who looks 47 at 30. It’s Timmy 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 02:16 AM |
| 28 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?when they cannot obtain one after stringing black women along for years they will marry one but too like your culture treat her like s*it. Yup! They act as though they did you a favor and you need to kiss their feet for the rest of your lives. Which is INSANE, like you should respect all women for one, yes, but like women from your own culture you need to absolutely 100% adore and cherish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 11:25 PM |
| 82 | Why do men always bring up women's height preference when factually speaking we know men have a race, weight, look, and physical feature preference?The race thing is prevalent in Middle Eastern and South Asian culture too. Let me just say that I’m talking about guys living here in the West, not back home lol. Middle Eastern men mostly all have a preference for blonde European women and explicitly state not being interested in middle eastern girls then I always notice that South Asian men have a preference for Middle Eastern women. As a Middle Eastern, I prefer a Middle Eastern man. And this has nothing to do with their race at allllll. It’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 08:34 PM |
| 32 | When you see it..I feel you on this 100% No one has ever gone out of their way to contact me, stalk me, snoop, nothing! And it has nothing to do with, “the more you ignore them, the more they’re willing to come back”. Nope! I never went back to any of my exes and that did not make them want to contact me. They all just moved on, a few of them eventually met someone and settled down. It’s like when the relationship ends, that’s it! Which, honestly, is great but yeah when you have friends sharing their experiences… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 09:54 PM |
| 93 | When you see it..So many things I have to say about this. So despite being told my whole life that I’m very very attractive and just all around great and how any guy would be so lucky to have me, I have never ever been the type of girl that any of my exes or guys I briefly talked to or dated or just men in general would like “come back to”. Like I’ve never been the type of girl that has all these guys in her dm’s all day and like this guy wants me and that guy this and that and blah blah blah. But I have always … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:23 PM |
| 16 | Another reversalThe color also changes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 08:06 AM |
| 118 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.I work at a legal aid and 50% of our eviction cases are tenant-at-will cases of women in these situations and there’s always some form of domestic violence and SADLY the law is almost always on the landlord’s side. One of my clients ended up getting a criminal charge when her ex (a dude very similar to this one) locked her out and she tried to retrieve her belongings. The guy totally lied too but the sheriff still believed him. He used a dismissed eviction case to prevent her from entering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:47 AM |
| 95 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.And then he will post the whole thing on Reddit and go on and on about how women are so CRAZYYY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 06:41 AM |
| 79 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesI was in a relationship with this guy from 20-22. He was a little over two years older than me and had a sister my age. He was toxic in every way possible but I didn’t know it then, I thought he was my true love. Anyways, I’m a brunette, like just plain brown hair but decided to dye my hair black one winter. This guy I was dating was so checked out and careless toward me that he never even noticed the change in my hair. Anyways, by spring/summer my hair had faded back to my natural brown hair. H… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Bumble wants to make 🍆📸illegalI thankfully haven’t dealt with much harassment on dating apps. I can honestly say I haven’t gotten any inappropriate pics or anything. BUT I’ve dealt with insane arrogance. I love what Whitney stands for and all but she really has no idea the type of f-boys that are on her app. Bumble has the most attractive guys but they are so so so ridiculously arrogant and rude. The fact that us women have to message them first hasn’t been very useful for me. Cause, yes, although I’m not getting inappropria… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 54 | "You earned my respect by not sleeping with me, actually", said the man who tried to relationship-fake me into banging himThis has happened to me. I went on a date with a guy who didn’t even live here. He was American but was living abroad in Berlin for some tech program - he actually had a legitimate job and was Ivy League educated so he checked off all those boxes for me. Anyways he was here visiting family, we matched online and the only reason why I went on a date with him is because we’re from the same culture and I live in an area that is very densely populated with people from our culture and I have cousins … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Vetting Men by their job positionHas anyone mentioned doctors? Biggest players on earth with multiple gfs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 02:24 AM |
| 2 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matchesI’ve done this too. I have a cousin who literally told me one time that he wants a much younger girl because he wants to “mold” her. He said this to me when he was like 28/29. His ideal age was a 21-year-old. Let me tell you that his fantasy never came to fruition and he’s 31 now still single with a balding/graying scalp but this is how I responded to that comment he made. I was like yeah I agree I also want a younger guy, sex is just so much better with younger men. He lost it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:12 PM |
| 2 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matchesMy experience too. I’ve been using online dating since I was 28, I’m 30 now. And I get a lot of interest from guys in their late 30s wanting the same thing - like a serious relationship that will lead to marriage. And I think it’s so embarrassing that a guy in his late 30s (some even in their 40s honestly) is like OK I’m finally ready to settle down. Like you should have a teenager by now lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:08 PM |
| 3 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matchesI’m crying 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:05 PM |
| 3 | When my 30 y.o. male friends put 18-22 age preference on Tinder and complain about zero matchesI’m crying 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 04:04 PM |
| 5 | Almost allowed others to convince me to approach him but I found FDSCompletely agree with all that you said. They come across as SUPER “masculine” and “alpha” at first but very true that deep down they are total babies and for the most part are incapable of doing anything really, except being abusive. Being a man doesn’t just mean you have to be “macho”. Middle Eastern men use their money, materials, status and powert (whatever of it they think they have lol) to exude masculinity, falsely. It’s very toxic. But deep down they’re helpless and honestly dumb. I know… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 07:56 PM |
| 97 | Almost allowed others to convince me to approach him but I found FDSCan I just say that him not making the first move isn’t personal. I used to struggle with the why’s SO much. Like why not me? What’s wrong with me? Like I took everything so personally and thought oh it must be me, he just doesn’t want ME. He would do this with/for someone else but is just choosing not to do it with me. But I eventually learned that men like that behave the same way toward every woman. He for sure DOES want someone sucking up to him and treating him like a king while he does the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 08:52 PM |
| 78 | Message to Male LurkersKeyword “harassing” cause no 20 something year old is ACTUALLY interested in dating them 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 16 | Scrote's GF can't meet the same standards as his anime sex dollI couldn’t read this without laughing. Like I guess I kind of knew there were some weirdos out there but I never knew it would be THIS INSANE!! Like does he actually penetrate the doll?!? How? Why? He has a gf!! I’m so confused. Is he buying the doll accessories?? I see FDS posts about these types of guys here and there and I don’t personally relate to them and I’ve fortunately never met or known men like this. My problem is with the “rich, hot, successful doctor type of guy” who is arrogant af … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:16 AM |
| 33 | Be as “ELITIST” as You Want in Choosing a HusbandOne of my cousin’s broke up with a girl because she was a receptionist at a dental office - among her MANY other “flaws”. She was completing a masters degree while working there and on her way to dental school. She had her interview at a very good school 6 months after they broke up hahaha. Now a little about him, he started working for his dad’s small business right out of college 10 years ago. His dad’s business develops slot machine games (a dying industry IMO lol). And my cousin’s not even o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 9 | The half your age plus 7 rule benefits creepy men looking to justify their ephebophilia and legally simulate their fantasies of pedophilia.It’s a lot of backwards bs in my culture too. Like it’s totally normal in our culture to date and marry someone much older even in today’s age and even if you live in the west. I refuse to do it and thankfully my parents are progressive and don’t push those things onto me either but it’s totally normal and acceptable, even preferred in my culture for your husband to be much older. It’s about power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 08:01 AM |
| 10 | The half your age plus 7 rule benefits creepy men looking to justify their ephebophilia and legally simulate their fantasies of pedophilia.I matched with this guy on hinge once and as I got to know him, I learned that although he was also middle eastern, we had different religions and I’m not superrr religious, but I just knew right away that we’d never end up married. But I didn’t mind the conversation with him, at first I should say, so we chatted for a bit and he started giving me relationship advice and he straight up tells me this and I really don’t think he was being a prick, I think he was giving me “genuine advice” in his o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:52 AM |
| 16 | The half your age plus 7 rule benefits creepy men looking to justify their ephebophilia and legally simulate their fantasies of pedophilia.This happened to me. I wasn’t ready to date seriously until 28. I came out of a two year relationship that wasn’t bad but he just wasn’t the one and we cordially ended it. I was finally like ok I think I’m ready to date seriously and meet my person. I took some time and when I was ready I went back out there soo optimistic thinking I’d be in a new relationship within months and I was literally hit with a bus. I could not believe how I was being treated. I would be on dates with guys in their ear… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:20 AM |
| 25 | The half your age plus 7 rule benefits creepy men looking to justify their ephebophilia and legally simulate their fantasies of pedophilia.This mentality is getting me so down about dating. I’m about to be 30 and I want to be dating 30-35 freaking year olds but I feel like those guys all wanna date 21 year olds and the only guys that want to date me are 40+ and that’s just so gross to me considering they’d only be 15 something years younger than my parents, basically more like a sibling than a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:13 AM |
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