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| 194 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter."The additional funds be company would be nice." 🤮 WTF. However this is likely how the majority see their live-in gfs. Come when I want you to, leave when I want you to (so I can bring other fuN giRlS home) but help me pay rent and support me emotionally on my terms.... (Not you're because you're boRinGgg). I just can't anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 10:17 PM |
| 20 | Reminder: Men will keep you around for however long is convenient for them - even if they’re not that into you. Break up at the first sign of his disinterest because he will NOT do it for you. 3rd slide is a commenter.A lot of words to say " I want her to be my emotional support satient fleshlight but when I get tired of her I want it to be okay for me to tell her to kick rocks - after all my needs are the only ones that matter!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 09:58 PM |
| 127 | I lost track of how many red flags I heard.FINESSE? Five dollars?! I'm wheezing.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 47 | Spotted one in the wild.This is perfection hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:04 PM |
| 20 | How to prevent hornyness related pickmeness on datesThis is a hard one. I feel you sis. Masturbate before the date if you're comfortable doing so? (I've just begun taking Zoloft so for now I have a hard time getting fully horny. But normally I have a very high drive. It's been difficult for me in the past. But I have dog waiting for me at home so that's always my priority. But I have been there. Dude (ex, good guy, crummy timing) looks like Chris Evans. The sheer restraint was exhausting but necessary haha) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 12:36 AM |
| 89 | How can you tell if "My ex was controlling, abusive, crazy..." etc is the truth from a guy?This is such good insight! Thanks for such a great comment and lending us all a bit of your wisdom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 05:59 PM |
| 7 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidRan to the comments to say something similar. He's a damn Petrie dish with a messed up sex addiction... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 02:25 PM |
| 15 | Every year on International Women’s Day, Google searches for International Men’s Day spike…They're so pathetic & self absorbed. Honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 07:01 PM |
| 6 | Man wants to have a kid with his wife's younger sister....the traditional way. This poor woman is actually confused about it. WHAT.My exact thought too! It's probably not her. Who wants to bet mister sister fucker pervert has 37 year old unhealthy, zero value, chromosomally damaged swimmers, matching his zero value existence. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/22 06:52 PM |
| 70 | If This Is a War, the First Campaign Should Be . . .Co-signed so hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 08:19 PM |
| 14 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 45 - Lundy Bancroft Takes The Queens Inside The Minds of Angry & Controlling Men (Part 1)This was SO GOOD! Thank you ladies for having Lundy on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 07:00 PM |
| 218 | First real date post-breakup and FDS helped SO MUCH. THANK YOU!!!"I pay for drinks, you pay for food. It's only fair." You: Oh no, I'm so sorry you're going through a rough patch. Do you think it's a good time for you to date?? (Doe eyes of faux concern) 🙃 I once has a guy attempt to tell me what I'm paying for. "well now it's "none"". I got up and left. In all seriousness though, this guy sounds exhausting. Ugh he really thinks he's something. 🤮 Good for you to sticking to your guns. It's good practice but implore you to leave a bit earlier, next time, for y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Men Double TextingI had a guy find me on Facebook to message me "what the hell???". And I said excuse me, wtf was that? And he's like "oh I thought you ghosted* and I'm like "it's midnight and I had fallen asleep??" Nutjob. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 09:25 PM |
| 159 | This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see.It was probably an overcooked fried egg with shell in it and burnt, dry toast. I dID mY bEsT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 10:18 PM |
| 183 | How quickly widowers move on from their wives shows that they don't see women as people, just bangmaidsFormer hospice volunteer. Yup. What they don't get is that you really should not date when greiving. But men don't care, they're happy to unload onto an unsuspecting woman and use her as a free therapist. I lost my sister tragically (well, all death and grief is tragic, and valid) and I'm not ready to date. I am still raw, triggered easily, I cry at the drop of a hat or a whiff of patchouli (her signature smell. She was an adorable quasi hippie). (I know better than to not date. Why? I'm vulnera… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 11:30 PM |
| 13 | Red Flag: Men with feminine voices.Is this the guy who was dragging that beautiful southern lady when she was just saying to please not hit on her when she's just trying to get gas? He even made fun of her lovely accent.... Meanwhile he's shreiking like a deranged, rabid peacock. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 08:31 PM |
| 9 | No one seems to be asking where he got this STD?? And she gets frequent UTIs because of him 🤢🤮Hpv and herpes aren't the same. I hope she has her hpv vaccine as well, but let's not forget that men can get it too. They just don't, because they don't care if they give us cancer causing hpv. I dated a guy who has herpes and tried to have sex with me during an outbreak... I got pretty upset. Of course he said I was jUdGinG him...of course I am, non disclosure of a chronic incurable illness is aggravated sexual assault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 04:11 PM |
| 203 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a littlePoor baby. That faulty old ass dusty sperm isn't going to create a healthy child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 02:13 AM |
| 13 | behaviors that connote power, control, dominance: what to avoidI love when we suggest books to one another here especially when they are written by women. A lot of people suggest the body keeps score and have no idea that the author was fired for being a bully and belittling his employees at his trauma centre.... I am very wary of male authors in general but especially when it's anything relating to psychology or trauma. I think Lindy Bancroft is the only make author I haven't thought was full of shit/a creep/ weaponizing his knowledge for evil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:17 PM |
| 50 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersOr when they say "it's not 1950 anymore!!1!" Okay so then why I am still reminding you of your mom's birthday, doing all the housework, doing all the child and pet care... except now I pay 50% of the rent/mortgage, my own vehicle payments/maintenance, etc. Just a bunch of cherry picking low value bums. I've dated one hvm... One. I pushed him away and I regret it daily. However- I was not his "hell yes" and I liked him more than he liked me in my opinion so it was for the better. He never flinche… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 06:54 PM |
| 27 | Compared to what women bring to the table, sadly money is really one of the very few things men have to offer 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️I love this comment! the grand scheme of things, a wife is cheaper than a whore- for all the added labor, status and children- This is an awesome point. This is why so many guys are on OLD just looking for a hookup. Pickmes will be taken on a walk date and then asked to "come over" to "watch a movie" (provide FREE sex work). Sex workers are just too expensive so men use OLD, often, to get their bent, dysfunctional d's wet. Oh and they've never had a std test in their life so you're totally gong … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 03:47 PM |
| 67 | Wonder why he stuck around for 3 dates... Just when you think men can't get any worsePretty easy to be funnier than most men when all their jokes are about assaulting or killing us or just making fun of stuff we genuinely enjoy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 05:47 PM |
| 9 | We all want to feel wanted but there's a huge difference between being CHERISHED and being DESIRED. The first develops and lasts a lifetime, the second burns fast and leaves you empty, even feeling discarded. Doctor Ramani gives us a very important lesson!Desire ≠ valued. Learned this the hard way in my 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:53 PM |
| 54 | My friend’s husband brags about not having a job and her paying the billsExactly. The post states he cooks and cleans. Why do I feel like this really means "pops in a frozen pizza and wiped up the red bull spill from a knocked over can when he chucked his controller in a fit of rage". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 12:02 PM |
| 5 | Beware of men who engage in avoidance, intimidation, infantilisation, or emotionally abusive manipulations when you bring up a concern. The very moment he displays any of the following (& more), DROP him! Do not let men damage your health.Imagine being such a maladjusted rabid incel that you think discussion = argument and that it's remotely normal to pull this shit. This level of infanatalization is deeply unsettling - if you want to date a child just say that (so we can remove you from the earth). The only thing you can pick up is your gaming control you sick pathetic loser. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:41 PM |
| 109 | OP is ignored by her boyfriend at a friend's birthday party because he was busy speaking to another woman all day. Comments told her to just talk to him. Proceeds to make a bunch of excuses for him as well.And you just know if the roles were reversed that she'd get dragged for not "helping him meet new people" or "not including him in conversation" and probably "abandoning him" What the hell happened to two people being a team in a relationship? You know. Supportive, loving, etc. These people sound downright miserable. They just don't like us and our approval, comfort, happiness isn't important to hetero men. It's probably mostly dudes in the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 04:17 PM |
| 122 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!"and only with his mouth open and he doesn't brush his teeth because he has ADHD but I'm here to support him!💛💛💛" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 04:43 PM |
| 56 | Which one of you is this aboutFunny how you get banned but in the comments they're allowed to brigade the ever loving out of us. But ok. In the rules for that sub they say no references to sex negative communities like the one where they encourage non-use of p0rn. This sub thinks p0rn (oppression and abusive of women, minor, WOC) is sex pozzy. Ooookay. What a bunch of deluded freaks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 06:07 PM |
| 71 | Which one of you is this aboutNot making your bf cum "Delayed gratification" it's actually super healthy 😈 (I had a guy I very briefly saw tell me this in my shame filled pickme days) ....but he only did it to me, but he was allowed to orgasm 🤡 And right??? I thought Reddit was all about "kinks". Oh wait sorry I for got to add... The silent word in there "for men" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 05:53 PM |
| 12 | Men aren’t asking you on coffee dates because they care about your safety or convenience.Coffee is similar to an errands. I'll grab one while doing my running around, before I go to the nail salon, while I wait for an appointment...it's not a date. I've done coffee with my girlfriends when we were say, waiting for our movie to start or something. Same as walking - I have a dog. I walk twice a day and go to the gym - I only have so much energy 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:24 PM |
| 76 | Ladies, please do not sleep with a man early on. This is what will happen.That's deplorable. I'm sure he's no prize himself and admits to using a woman as a satient fleshlight. Disgusted, but not surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 01:13 AM |
| 56 | Do NOT procreate with bum ass men!I very recently had a falling out with my eldest sister. We were trying to connect again after the death of our other sister. The sister I has the falling out with (mostly because of her husband who doesn't want us being friends 🚩🚩🚩) has been like "oh god he wouldn't know what to do if I died hahahah he'd be so screwed bahahahah" and I'm like girl, that's not funny. That's scary. I'm sure he'd find a 15 year young pickme to be his live in free nanny who has to get cash back at the grocery store … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 11:50 PM |
| 10 | Reject a man if you meet him in the wild and your gut screams NO but your people-pleaser wants to give him your numberTried to shorten my name when putting in his phone Trying to manufacture intimacy 🚩 I have a very unique name, which is annoying because I sometimes have to lie and say it's something much more common to avoid being doxxed irl. Say my name is Jessica, and I guy is like "hey Jess" or sometimes they'll just use the first letter of my name (wtf???) "Hey J" and I'm like "you forgot the rest of it 🙂". This is disrespectful imho and good for you for recognizing it as such. Or they make a joke about my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:25 PM |
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