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| 1 | Getting CloseLet me add a few things. She works a very, very demanding job and is pretty masculine to begin with. I frequently have to ask her to leave that attitude at work. She rarely slips into her feminine and never has except when we go out on dates. Except she always doesn't want to spend money so we rarely go on dates. It's a catch 22. She 100% does rely on me to be her rock. People die in her line of work all the time. And when she needs consolation, she runs to me. She's very affectionate when she's… | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Getting CloseI should note her parents don't agree with how she treats me and tell her she is mean to me and pushing me away all the time. She still doesn't adjust. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Getting CloseDefinitely great advice, thank you. I know that's the situation I am in just not sure how I got here. I did very well with women over the 20 years I was single. I will say I think the situation with my first wife and 2nd wife are separate as I was struggling professionally with my first wife which made her feel unstable. I am a pretty masculine guy. I go to the range regularly, have a carry license, have a bunch of male friends, drive a Denali, used to race my M5 and currently race giant slalom … | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/01/26 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Getting CloseThat again sounds more like my first marriage. The divorce ruined my life. She destroyed all my relationships with my family and friends. I was a shell of myself after even if it didn't cost me monetarily. When things are good with my wife, they are good. And we don't fight about big things. We actually see eye to eye on all the big stuff. All we fight about are tiny issues she creates out of thin air. My first marriage lasted 10 months the abuse was so bad. This hasn't reached that point and I'… | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Getting CloseMy ex-wife was borderline and did fully abuse me. It was a lot worse than this. I recognize this borders on abuse and I'm hoping she calms down after we settle into our new house and I set some healthy boundaries. But thank you for validating how I feel. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 11:21 PM |
| 1 | A male moderator of a mens fashion subreddit insulted my style after I had already walked away from an argument we hadI have a Breguet and an Omega too. You’d be surprised how many compliments I get on the Ultra with the Hermes strap. It’s unique and no one expects it. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 08:58 PM |
| 1 | A male moderator of a mens fashion subreddit insulted my style after I had already walked away from an argument we hadhttps://imgur.com/a/WvA5SOy | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | A male moderator of a mens fashion subreddit insulted my style after I had already walked away from an argument we hadI actually already know I have a great fashion sense (I get compliments all the time from both men and women). And if you see the deleted thread above, I was getting lots of compliments. I'm more annoyed the mod insulted me after I had walked away from the argument. That's literally stabbing a guy in the back unnecessarily. Totally uncalled for. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 07:55 PM |
| 1 | A male moderator of a mens fashion subreddit insulted my style after I had already walked away from an argument we hadIndeed. Lots of gatekeeping. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 07:40 PM |
| 1 | A male moderator of a mens fashion subreddit insulted my style after I had already walked away from an argument we hadI'm not sure I can say due to anti-brigading rules. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | A male moderator of a mens fashion subreddit insulted my style after I had already walked away from an argument we hadExactly. That was the argument we had. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 07:26 PM |
| 1 | A male moderator of a mens fashion subreddit insulted my style after I had already walked away from an argument we hadBackstory: There are many male fashion subreddits, but all of they gatekeeper and don't just let you post a pic of you in an outfit and ask what people think. As a recently divorced guy, I was hoping to get some thoughts on what I was wearing before a date but they wouldn't even let me post. They all have very strict rules. This was one of those times and I got into a debate with this mod about it since women have around a dozen subreddits for posting pics of them in outfits and everyone is supe… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Men need to support men. A male reddit moderator of a male fashion subreddit insulted my sense of style when he wouldn't let me post a picture of myself and the reddit where I could was dominated by women.Backstory: There are many male fashion subreddits, but all of they gatekeeper and don't just let you post a pic of you in an outfit and ask what people think. They all have very strict rules. This was one of those times and I got into a debate with this mod about it. So he pointed me towards a more general sub where both men and women can post. Except it's 90% women posting (and the men are generally gay/trans/non-binary). I posted and pointed out to him it was mostly women. He said go make my o… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | I gotta say it drives me nuts that the "body positivity" movement only applies to women. For men? Expectations are higher than ever. And you see it everywhere.A few factors. Women keep setting me up with ugly women I'd never consider or suggesting I date women I'd never consider and when I tell them that they tell me I need to lower my standards. And second, the number of attractive women on dating apps has absolutely plummeted. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | I gotta say it drives me nuts that the "body positivity" movement only applies to women. For men? Expectations are higher than ever. And you see it everywhere.Men are pressured to lower our standards for dating constantly. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | I gotta say it drives me nuts that the "body positivity" movement only applies to women. For men? Expectations are higher than ever. And you see it everywhere.I think it's more people don't let men advocate for themselves though or call us horrible things when we do. | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Men are leaving the blue collar workforce but they get the reasons all wrong. It's because unless you have a college degree and a high paying job, you have no hope of dating and marrying. So why work? (More in comments)So, I'm gonna talk about something controversial that the news won't touch but us men talk about in private. Yes, men are leaving the workforce. Notice all of the jobs they cannot fill in the attached video are low pay blue collar jobs that generally do not require a college degree. Now, let's change gears for a second. The marriage rate in the US is in severe decline. This is well studied and significantly attributed to, as this report puts it "the lack of 'economically attractive' men". https:… | /r/MensRights | 05/03/23 04:01 PM |
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