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-7

Idk there is the rise of praising the "dad bod"
/r/AntiFeminists06/02/23 07:24 PM
0

Lol ok. This doesn't answer anything we've been talking about- why would a parent choose to keep kids out of a safe and loving home? Why, if it only benefits her?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:47 AM
2

Then they can not rape, surely
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:44 AM
3

So aside from finances, women seek out men who are better than them...?? Better than them HOW
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:43 AM
-1

Woop defrigety do, a whole 20%! In full seriousness though, that's great that men are increasingly willing to take responsibility for their offspring! I hope the trend continues until it's 50%
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:42 AM
2

So are men in control of themselves or aren't they?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:31 AM
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You have veered wildly off topic here into personal attacks... Just say you don't have a point or any idea of what youre talking about. Or better yet, just shut the fuck up
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:30 AM
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Idk they might not. Are you banking on your girl to get you through? What if she has life altering complications and can't go back go work at all?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:29 AM
-11

If all you are is a paycheck, you can be a paycheck from far away
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:27 AM
1

Most divorces are initiated by women because their partners aren't stepping up. It's not the fifties. If all you are is a paycheck, you can be a paycheck from far away
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:14 AM
1

Shit are you saying men are naturally rapists? Damn!!! Shouldn't you all be in prison then if you can't control yourselves???
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:13 AM
1

Please. Say to don't have kids without saying you don't have kids. Your average mother would LOVE to hand off her kids to a safe loving home 2 days a week. Kids are a fuck tone of work and you need a break. If the option was even 60% good your average parent would JUMP for it. And yet...
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:11 AM
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Because she's theoretically gonna get pregnant and have a baby? That she's going to have to devote her full attention to for at least 3 months? If not more? So if she has to lose her income.during that time everyone will starve??? I guess If you're not planning to have kids it's not an issue. Get a vasectomy then
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:09 AM
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By nothing I mean he goes to work, comes home, eats dinner his wife cooked for him, plays video games, and then goes to bed without changing a single diaper. There are plenty of these stories on reddit and more in the grand wide world. And somehow these absent dad's are entitled to 50/50 child care? They dobt even know your supposed to cut grapes and blueberries before giving them to the baby I've heard too many stories where women have DOCUMENTED abuse against them, but not against the kid, so …
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:06 AM
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I'm not watching a YouTube video, I have a life. Sum it up for me
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:01 AM
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Once again- context? Why exactly did this happen here?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 03:01 AM
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Ok and? What's the context?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:59 AM
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Lol you're giving me YouTube links? I dont have time to watch that shit. How about- https://www.justgreatlawyers.com/legal-guides/child-custody-statistics
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:58 AM
-1

Then why are females getting raped so often? Either men are just Like That or something in our culture is making them do it
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:55 AM
2

Ok but better than them HOW? There are plenty of cases of my women who leave better earning partners because they weren't pulling their weight with childcare and housework
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:54 AM
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This is the real question
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:52 AM
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You're making some good points. Feminists have made a lot of progress and in a lot of ways, "legally" we are equal. What's left is the social aspect. You say you're forty. So I assume you have lots of female friends, aquaintences, and family members. Ask them- have you been raped or been sexually assaulted or abused? do you worry about being raped/assaulted? what do you do to prevent yourself from being raped/assaulted? Every SINGLE woman has an answer. "I don't park in the dark part of the park…
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:51 AM
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You actually have some good points here. Late stage feminism is a bastardised capitalistic version of feminism that does more to serve the men friendly status quo than anything else. Porn is not feminist. But it's great for profit! Hook up culture is not feminist, but it's great for selling hookup aps and alcohol! Fat acceptance is not feminist, and is actively harming women's health, but it's great for junk food companies and diet companies! That said, this doesn't mean women don't have legitim…
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:40 AM
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Uhhhh lol because 90% of custody cases are settled out of court! Because 90% of father's don't want that responsibility. It's sad, I agree, but you don't have to lie about easily Googleable shit to try to make a fake point
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:33 AM
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Exactly, you marry someone with the assumption that you will both maintain your roles. At what point do you choose to leave?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:31 AM
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If you married a woman and she suddenly decided she wouldn't do any housework any more (no cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc) would it be ok to divorce her?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:30 AM
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Why do women want it that way?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:27 AM
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How many times have you been sexually abused? Harrassed? Raped or almost raped? I'm in the "first world" and I've narrowly escaped being raped at least twice. How about you?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:25 AM
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Men dont get treated like shit in family law, in fact they're favored in most instances. Most states favor 50/50 custody even if the man had done NOTHING to care for his children and doesn't know how. Even if the man has been violent towards the woman, it's not an impediment to his ability to get custody
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:22 AM
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I'm sorry but... Do you have any proof of any of these claims? Why would feminists fight against any of these things? Other than "equal parenting" (which men use against women) I don't see why any woman would care to fight against a male rape shelter.
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:20 AM
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So, the theory of male disposability is interesting actually. It comes from the idea that one man can create a LOT of sperm, but one woman can at best produce one child a year. Therefore women are the "bottleneck" when it comes to human reproduction. And therefore why women are more "valuable" while men are more "disposable" in other words if the goal is to perpetuate the human race, it's more valuable to have 20 women and 1 man vs the opposite. I have a feeling though that when you talk about m…
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:16 AM
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So... You're not going to answer my question?
/r/AntiFeminists13/01/23 02:09 AM
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Act more like them in what way?
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 12:29 PM
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I'm seeing the opposite actually, women are dropping out of the dating market. That's why there's a rise of articles about lonely single depressed men
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 12:28 PM
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When the bullets come flying, a man is the most dangerous element to a woman, even if she has a man to protect her. The bottom line is that women are assets. If they "belong" to a man, then they are an asset to that man. But women can also be assets to themselves. We've reached a point in society where women have freedom about what men they choose. So now MEN are the ones who have to prove themselves so they can be chosen. And the vast majority of men are so deficient that they will never be cho…
/r/AntiFeminists11/01/23 02:03 AM
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Feminism is, in some sense, against men. For women to have more rights, men must have less. If a woman has the right to not be raped by her husband, then men no longer have the right to rape their wives. If women have the right to open their own bank accounts without a husband's permission, men no longer have the right to total financial control of the household. And so on. The choosy-choice "feminism is good for men" feminism is a totally deranged modern version that all you guys should be for.…
/r/AntiFeminists17/11/22 07:50 PM
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"Taking advantage of men by selling yourself " How exactly does that work lol? Is onlyfans holding a gun to men's heads forcing them to subscribe?
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 05:57 PM
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It would die off, which would be fantastic
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 05:56 PM
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Idk, you seem like an interesting guy, just not sure why you’re so personally offended 😬
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 03:23 PM
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Why? You’re the one that got your panties in a twist over something that’s actually true.
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 03:09 PM
1

Why so salty dude?
/r/AntiFeminists16/11/22 12:38 PM
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Terrible advice lol, but thanks for trying
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 10:41 PM
-1

Good for you, educate your fellow man haha
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 09:49 PM
-2

Lol the average millennial guy doesn’t know how to fix shit
/r/AntiFeminists15/11/22 06:46 PM
1

Thanks for providing a link, I'll take a look
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 05:57 PM
3

You'll be glad to know 99% of abducted children get returned home safely, then
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 03:29 PM
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You're making it sound like it's a lot, darling.
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 03:19 PM
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In the past 55 years 140 babies have been abducted from Healthcare facilities. Even assuming all the perpetrators were women, I'd say you're full of shit
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 03:13 PM
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What studies? I've only seen the opposite. Not only are single childless women are happier than married women, their life expectancy is higher https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/202102/why-many-single-women-without-children-are-so-happy?amp
/r/AntiFeminists28/10/22 03:07 PM
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You could do all those things if you wanted 🤷‍♀️
/r/MensRights06/10/22 01:21 PM
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As long as you don’t mind your wife having a dick
/r/AntiFeminists02/08/22 04:49 PM
1

Same, something about the phrasing screams man larping
/r/AntiFeminists02/08/22 04:45 PM
1

My only point is- don’t have a baby with a woman you don’t trust, you can only get hurt that way
/r/AntiFeminists25/07/22 08:37 PM
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If you distrust your partner so much, why have a baby with her??
/r/AntiFeminists25/07/22 01:28 AM
85

Good for them tbh. If I was in their shoes I'd do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/22 12:25 AM
6

The awareness of risk affects attraction
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 12:23 PM
3

Firstly more women ARE more attractive than men because women go out of their way to appear attractive- makeup hair clothes general grooming etc. If men had equal grooming routines I imagine more men would be more physically attractive. Also, women have more risks when it comes to sex in general, never mind casual sex. Imagine every sexual experience included a woman pegging you as the main sexual act. There's a high risk it would be uncomfortable or even painful, and your chance of sexual pleas…
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 11:38 AM
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I am curious about the sister convo though... Maybe it was completely unrelated and the guy is just being paranoid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:58 AM
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Idk it sounded like she had the binder ready already
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 12:39 AM
93

Idk, those rooms are monitored so I don't see a huge issue... But they are more fun for larger groups. In all, an odd first date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:15 PM
85

"Communication" I don't know what to do! She says I'm too rough how can I fix it!! Lol how about... Listen to her???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:19 AM
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Whenever a man claims to do half the childcare my main reaction is a raised eyebrow lol. Like do these types of men exist? Sure. But they're not on AITA proclaiming how fairly they split childcare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 01:05 PM
3

Desperate people do dumb things
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 12:21 PM
3

What's the point of asking people's "bare minimum" if you're going to then try to argue them into lowering standards even further? Youre right that everyone has different standards, but you can't convince someone into having different standards.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 10:55 AM
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You make relationships sound really transactional. There are a lot of things that people can bring to the table, it's not as simple as "she wants you to have a car so she'd better have a car or else her standards are too high"
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 10:53 AM
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I think this is an odd way of looking at it. I'm not going to want someone who can provide "the bare minimum" - I want someone who is a compatible life partner. That's not possible to quantify by figuring out what "the bare minimum" is
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 10:51 AM
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Is it? I've heard that advice a lot- aka meet asap and actually see if there's in person chemistry instead of getting bogged down in a text conversation that goes nowhere and then fizzled out. It seems like good advice imo. Why is that a red pill tactic?
/r/ExRedPill22/09/21 01:10 PM
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Everyone is constantly vetting each other in a relationship, FDS just puts a name to it. The whole point of dating is to get to know a person and decide if they're a good fit for long term partnership. If/when you find out something about them that makes them a bad fit, you end the relationship and move on. I don't see what's so wrong with that.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 07:06 PM
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That's like saying "can a woman possibly be desirable if she has small nipples??" Hopefully you're but basing your relationship on such stupid criteria
/r/ExRedPill19/09/21 03:10 AM
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People in their 20s often have roommates. That's way better for sex/dating than living with parents
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 10:37 PM
1

Pretty much only make up. Everything else- diet, exercise, skin care, nice clothes, nice hair, even cosmetic surgery and manicures/pedicures, etc is available for men and many just don't do it.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 10:11 PM
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Women in general go to more effort to look good
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 11:22 PM
1

You seem to know a lot of things on the basis of your own feelings. I figured you'd "know" this too
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 05:59 PM
2

And how much sex do you think they're having lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:29 PM
1

Someone not being sexist is bare minimum. That's like saying you have to find it attractive that someone wipes their ass after taking a shit. Does that turn you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:44 PM
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Once again, you're just making statements based on how YOU think women think, not how women actually think. Sex with a mysoginist is pretty much guaranteed to be bad. That is not attractive, no matter how physically appealing he is. Some mysoginistic men "slay pussy" (ew bro, are you twelve?) because they manage to hide their true selves in the begining. Once they show their true colors the attraction fades
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 03:12 PM
1

Why are you so sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:49 PM
1

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:28 PM
1

Why not "neither" when that's a realistic answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:24 AM
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I don't think men are actually that concerned about it. It only ever comes up when a woman comes out about being assaulted- it's a tactic to silence victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 11:17 AM
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Theyd need high flexibility and giant cocks, but instead they have giant guts and tiny peens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 10:27 AM
1

So, like I said- it's not representative. In my experience (this is anecdotal but I think still valuable) the people I know who are in successful relationships met through organic ways (school/work/hobbies/etc) Men generally don’t groom themselves as well as women, and aren’t as practiced at taking photos, so their dating profiles look worse than they should. Finally, I’ve seen way too many stories about women and their lives that make me think women’s standards are TOO LOW. Women whose husbands…
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 10:23 PM
1

Interesting, can't say I'm super surprised. I would imagine that "people who use dating apps" is not a representative sample of the overall population
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 04:53 PM
1

Ok. Link?
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 02:12 PM
1

What studies?
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 01:01 PM
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The entire red pill is based on feelings
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 12:54 PM
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Men commit around 70% of crime overall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 04:52 PM
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You haven't even watched it??? Ok, time to step back from social media
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:50 PM
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Take a look at the last paragraph you wrote, take a breath, and get a grip. It's literally one show that makes you feel this way, as opposed to the ton I bricks that gets dropped on women daily. Turn off the show and walk away dude
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:49 PM
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They're too busy defending pedophiles to do anything but continue to tank men's reputations. I'm sure I'm not the only one who's had some bro-y "Devils advocate" launch into a lecture about the difference between pedophiles and ephebophiles like it actually matters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:53 PM
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No need to examine anything other than that age gap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:54 AM
1

The only reason women are desirable "by default" is because men want to stick their dicks into our bodies.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 05:55 PM
1

The only people who will love you "for you" are your parents, literally everyone else expects something in return. That's true for everyone, not just men
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 05:53 PM
0

As opposed to women, who everyone loves for no reason right lol
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 05:52 PM
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BC is kind of a big deal with potentially huge side effects. Men need to take responsibility for their ejaculations and wear a damn condom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:50 PM
8

Oof I haven't heard of but implants but I'm not surprised. Are they like breast implants in that they have to be replaced every 5-10 years? Sounds like it would be the sort of surgery that's particularly hard to recover from (can't sit/walk/ lie down on your back/etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:01 PM
1

If you started as a one and improved to a three you're still probably not going to get dates. These things are not absolute and we're missing a lot of context here.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/21 02:39 AM
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There is no wall. Just do your best to take care of yourself and try not to stress out about it
/r/ExRedPill17/04/21 11:15 AM
1

Intersectionality was initially about talking about how black women are affected by being both black and women. Intersectionality is not a way to shoehorn men's issues into feminism. Honestly, if men are behind feminism then something's wrong. Feminism is about taking power away from men. Only a few will ever be supportive of that, certainly not men as a class That said, men DO need a movement to free themselves from oppressive male gender roles. Women can't do that for them, because women can n…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 06:52 PM
0

🙄 Are all the other liberation movements "for everyone" too? Should BLM be just as concerned about how racism hurts white people? Or is it just women who are supposed to be worried about "everyone"
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 02:57 PM
1

It's nice that you had a nice experience but the idea that femininity is the problem is absurd. If that were the case, then women could just start acting masculine and that would solve all their problems. Effectively your ideology means that women are just inviting abuse because they insist on being feminine. Ridiculous
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 01:38 PM
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When exactly was feminism "for everyone"? Feminism has always been a political movement for the liberation of women
/r/ExRedPill06/04/21 01:50 AM
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I guess when you're not the one who has to clean it up you can afford to find it "funny"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:51 PM
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Out of curiosity, what is her husband/baby daddy like? I wonder if they get that bad behavior from him? I refuse to believe boys are somehow naturally mean and disgusting. Surely they have some bad role models somewhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:53 AM
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Even 50s housewives who had these modern devices were largely depressed alcoholics and overprescribed meth to cope, commited to asylums when they weren’t happy enough for husbands, etc. there has never been a “good time” to be subservient to men :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:10 PM
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Omg now that you mention it, how about all the "vaginal trends" starting from relatively (but not entirely) harmless trends about pubes or lack thereof and ending with labiaplasty and other types of "vaginal rejuvenation" surgeries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:21 AM
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Most mass shooters have a history of violence against women, and then they go on their rampage and everyone acts like it's out of the blue. Treating violence against women seriously will save so many lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:40 PM
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People treat male killers like they're some sort of geniuses all the time and it's just not true. Often times these men aren't caught NOT because they're "so smart" but because the police are total morons and don't bother to investigate things. It feels like every story about a serial killer who got away with it for ages is also a story about a completely lazy and bumbling police department
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:38 PM
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How many police officers are abusers themselves? There was a study that said between 24-40% and I'm betting there is a lot more going on that isn't reported. Because let's be real, if you're being abused by a cop, are you going to call the cops, his buddies, on him? So what, there's like a 40% chance that when you call the cops on your abuser you'll get another abuser showing up to your house? Not to mention they don't get any training on these issues and often just make the situation worse. "ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:34 PM
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It makes perfect sense- oxytocyn is what "powers" labor and adrenaline slows it down. If you're scared/stressed then your system is flooded with adrenaline and your labor can take longer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:35 PM
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if I had the confidence of a mediocre man, I could really go places lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:34 AM
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Why would you buy a vehicle to fix up if you literally don't know the first thing about vehicle repair/maintenance?? Like, what did he think was going to happen???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:31 PM
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They don't have to build/fix shit... So long as they can afford to hire a professional to do it lol. The main "male role" is to be the provider... So provide!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:30 PM
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I was listening to the "let me ruin your life" podcast and the host said in that situation she laughs and says "oh, this is so embarrassing- I thought this was a DATE" and pays and leaves XD I thought that was a power move haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:51 PM
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I wonder how much of this is projection. So many guys only care about how hot a woman is and what she's going to do for them, instead of actually being interested in who she is as a person. So of course they think women are the same- all women want is a "hot" guy (which in this case boils down to height as if height is the only thing that matters? It's so stupid. Maybe they're fixating on height because it's the only thing they can't change, so it's an easy out from actually working on their app…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:18 PM
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Pretty interesting post! It does seem like the guys at the top (aka the coaches and various leader figures) are profiting from the red pill through their followers/seminars/etc
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 03:41 PM
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Ehhh I don't know if I would call it a cult per se, I think we throw that word around a little too lightly these days. It's definitely a bit of a secret club though, and some people definitely get sucked in way deeper than others
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 03:24 PM
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Yes lol. Spinning plates, balancing plates, etc. For some reason they think that's cooler terminology than just saying "dating around"? If you're going to make an insular club I guess you need special lingo
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 03:10 PM
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Red pill dudes don't want "something special" they want to "spin plates" They want to sleep around but when women do the same they're sluts and whores.
/r/ExRedPill10/02/21 02:28 PM
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I saw a post a while back about a guy realizing as an adult that his parents had a master/slave dynamic. He was pretty disturbed and pissed off, which makes perfect sense :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:45 AM
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Excellent point. Men are the first people to point out that men are dangerous if they have a woman or girl in their lives they want to protect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:58 PM
2

You're missing the point - the 50% divorce rate is outdated stats- the actual number is much lower. There are tons of studies that show marriage benefits men. Married men are happier, healthier, and live longer than unmarried mrnt
/r/ExRedPill06/02/21 01:38 PM
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