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Here is the brutal truth, men are visual creatures. So basically become a gym rat, put yourself in front of men so they see the opportunity.
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:07 PM
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You clearly haven't watched enough Todd V, lets go through this point by point. you guys who are focusing only on learning all sorts of skills while neglecting other areas of your life. Todd V has never said not to focus on your other ares of life, nor has he ever implied you should bombard yourself with advanced concepts as if that is the only thing that matters. I think what you are alluding to is Todd's critique of natural game, which is wholly different. The critique of natural game is not t…
/r/seduction16/02/20 06:22 PM
1

Maybe consider moving to somewhere where you won't get killed for hitting up a dudes girl unknowingly, or just be mindful of your back and go at it as carefully as possible.
/r/seduction29/01/20 04:59 AM
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A good tip would be to use the phone to get her out, instead of trying to get to know her on the phone, you can also look up todd v 4 types of texts.
/r/seduction15/01/20 03:58 AM
1

choose a date near your place, escalate toward your place if there is a venue near it you can use (lobby bar/padio/swimming pool etc.) I don't think you should framing it as 'going home' just a continuation of the date to a better venue.
/r/seduction12/01/20 05:04 AM
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avoid mentioning "my place", use euphemisms if you can
/r/seduction05/01/20 05:17 AM
3

Adopt the frame that you're gonna fuck these hoes with your small dick because your a boss, be proud of the fact that your dick is small as fuck yet you don't let it keep you from your goals. Or idk, go do DMT in the jungles of the amazon to reunite your spirit with your small ass lil dude.
/r/seduction05/01/20 05:14 AM
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She is interested IF. IF you can make your relationship man to woman, otherwise you will be in the friendzone, its that simple
/r/seduction05/01/20 05:04 AM
1

Aka make sure to let her know you are going out separate from her preferably with friends, but she could be a bonus to your already cool time
/r/seduction21/12/19 07:57 AM
1

Make it seem non commital and not a big deal, and you have nothing to lose
/r/seduction21/12/19 07:55 AM
1

look up todd v desensitization
/r/seduction10/12/19 03:41 AM
1

yeah honesty is the best way to live, but there are bad ways and good ways to portray the same way that both have truth to them
/r/seduction06/12/19 03:39 AM
1

I think women are attracted to certain personality traits, and monks certainly have some traits that would fall into that spectrum. I think if you learned fundamentals of game and applied that over the personality of a monk that would work well.
/r/seduction06/12/19 03:37 AM
2

this is dog shit advice, no reason you can't work on your career and your game at the same time. it is a lie that women care about your career, they care about your persona.
/r/seduction06/12/19 03:00 AM
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Basically your opener puts her on the spot to decide whether she likes u or not right away, so watch some tod v and try to get your opening into conversation where you get her to invest, then close. she will be more likely to text back if she feels invested in the conversation. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UY7PE_qFdY0
/r/seduction06/12/19 02:49 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1eWtPq1QgAQ this is all that needs to be said about this in my opinion. natural game is like saying, im gonna be good at soccer by just playing and not analyzing what I am doing! you'll get ok, but you will plateau, and most likely, you will not break through it.
/r/seduction05/12/19 10:41 PM
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Speaking in general
/r/seduction29/11/19 07:26 PM
1

get good at being normal first, then try to add that shit in, in the most funny subtle way you can
/r/seduction29/11/19 05:58 AM
1

less attractive, potentially not someone you would want to date if they were bald because of a life threatening illness. but not completely off the table if she was otherwise attractive and i got to know her over a period of time
/r/seduction29/11/19 05:50 AM
1

Take action ask her out, if a club is stopping you from chasing your consensual dreams then fuck that club anyways
/r/seduction28/11/19 04:51 AM
1

You need to establish a man to woman premise with the girls that are your friends, you have to take the risk to be loved or hated.
/r/seduction20/10/19 11:50 PM
1

Get the other elements of your game so good that the fact that you overcame it, shows what a cool guy you are.
/r/seduction20/10/19 11:48 PM
7

Cut him off, stop hanging out with him
/r/seduction20/10/19 11:46 PM
1

Anywhere where there is a girl you can walk up and talk to
/r/seduction18/10/19 06:23 AM
3

well i think you are coming from the wrong frame of mind. if you've never touched a girl before, you are going to need to work your way up to humping
/r/seduction17/10/19 12:20 AM
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go to gym, copy fashion from guys who get lots of girls and have your body type, get a better haircut, better body language etc. If the girl says that to you then maybe you need to go hardcore gamy moves of pushing her away and spiking attraction just to get her to stay and then work from there because at least she didn't leave. those are all variables you can work on, but also you can't give a fuck whether she likes you a lot, only care you did your best to succeed
/r/seduction17/10/19 12:08 AM
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Well you just have to get creative in your solutions to your problem. Problem is you don't have a place to pull her, so either find a way where you can take her to your parents place without them getting upset or go to her place. Find ways to make more money so you can get a car etc. just need to problem solve but there is no secret trick to it as far as I can tell. That being said, there is a lot of infield on the internet of guys getting back to a girls place when they have bad logistics, so y…
/r/seduction17/10/19 12:04 AM
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If you want to get close and dance with a girl the dancefloor at a club is your best bet, otherwise learn cold approach but you are going to have to learn a lot of other skills before you start humping the girl
/r/seduction17/10/19 12:00 AM
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You said your problem is "coping with living without satisfaction from a woman". It also seems like your poor self image and continued sexual frustration are leading you down a downward spiral where having that dissatisfaction, creates a worse social life and worse response from women, which in turn makes you more hopeless. There are two solutions two this. Both solutions require taking on a radically different paradigm of the world. The first paradigm is that this downward spiral is so horrible…
/r/seduction15/10/19 05:50 PM
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its possible, might need to make an excuse you are going the same way as her, or use the bathroom excuse to get to her place. but definitely possible, just need to be entitled
/r/seduction12/10/19 12:39 AM
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Natural game by definition is taking the behaviors you know and accentuating them. Fundamentally this will only take you so far because you are not the perfect 10 if your starting out in game. Therefore you should bite the bullet and become a “natural” at technical game, because you wouldn’t go into a chess match saying, I am enough, just do whatever I feel. But Ronaldo doesn’t have to think as much about his kicking as you do, because he has subconsciously mastered what to you is “difficult” te…
/r/seduction10/10/19 12:48 AM
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Start approaching more girls
/r/seduction09/10/19 07:17 PM
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I run into this mindset in life in general, a lot of it's not perfect, so fuck it start all over. It can work if you're seriously committed to fixing the underlying problem that caused that situation in the first place, but otherwise its better to not put all your eggs in one basket.
/r/seduction07/10/19 02:25 AM
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If you want to pick up a working chick you have to break out of the customer frame.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:31 AM
1

Cool man, all i'm saying is that thinking you did nothing technically wrong in those sets is the mindset that will hold you at a certain level in any skill set. That is directly tied into the fundamental assumption that the reason you didn't succeed was because of your looks.
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:22 PM
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I'm not claiming to be able to pick them up, just saying that "physical attraction" is a bullshit excuse. There is plenty of evidence online of ugly motherfuckers using technically sound game to ignite conversations where the girl is not attracted to them at first.
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:16 PM
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I just find that hard to believe because women are more attracted to personality and social feedback on a evolutionary biology level. I would recommend checking out Todd v, maybe he could open your eyes to where you could improve your game.
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:14 PM
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There is an philosophical axiom of game it goes like this: If you are not actively making moves toward a man to woman relationship, then you are actively putting yourself in the friend zone. So yeah, you need to establish a man to woman premise and you might get rejected if you do it poorly or even if you do it well. But you have to fundamentally make the decision that the only thing worse than rejection is being stuck in the friend zone, then you can stop giving a fuck.
/r/seduction25/09/19 05:05 PM
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I think you have the wrong idea of "im not her physical type" I guarantee you there are some ugly motherfuckers who would have been able to make those sets work statistically speaking, so great attitude, but focus on what you could have done better game wise.
/r/seduction25/09/19 04:39 PM
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Here is what you do, you save up your money and you go on a bootcamp with todd valentine or another person who is legit who can coach well. Or you can buy his product the system or some other legit product but its the best imo. Then what you do is you schedule a time in your day and you approach balls to the wall. You become a fucking approach machine. You completely hustle your ass off and you expect nothing in return.
/r/seduction25/09/19 04:40 AM
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Your never gonna get the effect if you don't put out a cause. It's a inefficient shitty mindset to wait around for some IOIs.
/r/seduction25/09/19 04:03 AM
1

Jiu jitsu. And a change in mindset. The way to fix your problems is not problem--> Identity. It's problem --> solution. As long as your iq is over 80 and you are not a 4th degree burn victim, it is physically and mentally possible to get good with girls. As long as you don't give a fuck about what the girl thinks about you and you treat it like the trial and error process that it truly is in actuality.
/r/seduction25/09/19 04:00 AM
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You're not their asserting your presence in her life because you are not around her, so she is just going to slowly lose interest in you and gain interest in the guys around her. Realize there are millions of girls out there that if you had great game would please you just as well as she does.
/r/seduction19/09/19 11:43 PM
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Sure, but better to do that with something that is solid fundamentally
/r/seduction18/09/19 12:16 AM
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This is objectively bad, you are falling into her frame, and insulting yourself at the same time
/r/seduction17/09/19 08:59 PM
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You weren’t putting her first? Well certainly don’t ever put a girl before yourself, your own shit you got going on should take priority and don’t let her shame that out of you. obviously you have to make time for her, and be emotionally avialable, and cover your bases. but putting her on a pedestal and putting her “first” is not the way to go in my opinion
/r/seduction17/09/19 08:43 PM
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Isolate one and pull her to your room when nobodies there, get your friend to isolate one and pull her to their room. play it high value and make her chase a lot.
/r/seduction30/08/19 07:05 PM
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It's a systematic approach to game, the best way to learn something as complicated as this in my opinion. The formula to getting good is approach ---> then think about what you could have done better in that approach ---> approach again with improvement = getting better. Where the system comes in is in between approaches you can utilize the knowledge it gives you to make the best improvements that are tried and true for your game, instead of trying to figure it out yourself from the bottom.
/r/seduction30/08/19 05:32 PM
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If anything talk to her after class but don't make it this big approach, just talk to her and be cool, next day, talk to her and start teasing her, make a man to woman premise if she responds well to that.
/r/seduction30/08/19 05:29 PM
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If she is just sending you memes try to get it from that to a casual convo, that to a flirty convo
/r/seduction30/08/19 05:27 PM
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You acted butt hurt so you fucked up. escalate on text by flirting/ teasing her a little bit, she will respond well because she clearly likes you if she is texting you under the previous context. then ask her out on the date, the day before check to make sure in a non needy way, couple hours before do the same thing, keep casual non needy communication to get her out on the date.
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:56 AM
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see a therapist/ psychologist first, but if all else fails attract a girl to the point where you are dating but have not had sex, tell her about your problem and ask her to come onto you. if that still doesn't work do what I just said but on mushrooms.
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:52 AM
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Instead of kinda flirt back start flirting back harder, if she responds well just ask for her number
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:49 AM
2

Todd v the system
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:44 AM
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should be avoided, gives you no excuse to pull her because she would be going the opposite way from where she stays
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:41 AM
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I would say if she is in your class try to talk to her in class casually, start slowly escalating by teasing and testing the waters. If you approach her do it indirect, and then try to add some premise, because after all you should utilize the fact you will see her often and not treat it like a one and done.
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:37 AM
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Look up Todd V text 101, if you think you fucked up, just send value to her (post cool stories and if she doesn't see them text her pictures of you doing cool shit with no neediness or questions attached to them.
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:30 AM
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Don't try to be cute by falling into the frame but twisting it in a clever way, instead of trying to find a clever way out of the frame, sidestep it. You can do this 2 ways, agree and exaggerate, and misinterpret. Example of agree and exaggerate: I spoke to 500 girls this morning, even my grandma, that was kind of awkward. Not saying to use this in a social context but on a textual level it meets the criteria. Misinterpret: Wow so you think i'm like smooth and confident, thanks. Also socially un…
/r/seduction30/08/19 02:23 AM
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Get heavy into activities you enjoy and work on yourself, focus on just saying hi to girls first
/r/seduction27/08/19 11:48 PM
2

Look up todd v how to game at college, then apply that to highschool, that is the shit right there
/r/seduction26/08/19 12:20 AM
2

Here is what you get him to do, and let him know that how important this is to you the way you described it to us. Have him see a doctor about ED, workout, eat clean non processed foods, cut out all porn and masterbation from his life.
/r/seduction26/06/19 03:51 PM
1

You have to realize she was borderline raped and probably has some real insecurities, so she is taking them out on you. You have 2 options: take the shit in stride and use it as an opportunity to get used to passing shit tests and making a girl open up to you (but realize you are sticking your dick in crazy and will have to live with the consequences, and be prepared for her to blow up on you if you don't date her which you shouldn't). Or just move on, work on your game 1% every day and get a no…
/r/seduction24/06/19 02:58 PM
3

Exactly, there are other guys who have fucked her on the first night, those are lovers. You are the provider (giving her your attention and validation) instead of the other way around, where you get her to chase you. If your fine with that, cool. But just know the reason she is not fucking you is because you are cool with that. And if you can't give a girl playful shit, keeping it 100, then your pussy whipped. Edit: Of course I'm not in your shoes, there is always the chance I am missing informa…
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:43 AM
1

Here's the thing, if a girl doesn't want to fuck you after a week of dating then you are doing something wrong imo, unless it is for religious reasons or some conservative value. But if it is because of the "relationship", that means the relationship you have in the first place is not one were she views you as a lover, but as a provider. Therefore when you go to have sex that takes you out of the provider frame in her mind, and she wants to keep you there. Of course I am only conjecturing from t…
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:36 AM
2

Idk about that man, sounds like you are the provider male and she is not really into you
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:26 AM
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That's your problem, if she is not willing to get teased by you then she is not gonna fuck you. gotta become the guy she is willing to get teased by.
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:23 AM
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Sounds like she does not view you as high value, so start teasing her, giving her some playful shit and build your value.
/r/seduction23/06/19 04:06 AM
1

I guess this is more of a think of having good game to get a girl attracted to you, just in this case its your own girl
/r/seduction23/06/19 03:34 AM
1

Bullshit, you either have good game or you don’t, rest doesn’t matter
/r/seduction21/06/19 01:22 PM
1

Learn game and don’t get in the friend zone in the first place
/r/seduction21/06/19 01:09 PM
1

You can take transportation to downtown, daygame, leave. You don’t have to move. Of course I know nothing about Houston to know if that is possible
/r/seduction21/06/19 12:48 PM
1

check out todd valentine on youtube
/r/seduction20/06/19 09:39 PM
1

Mall bar, downtown area, ANY area where there are women is a viable place to game. hard part is getting over approach anxiety and i can't help you with that part lol edit: and online game too, even though people talk bad about it, it is very viable if you know how to create the right profile and manage text game.
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:37 AM
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lmao dude you gotta rethink your mindset, start just saying hi to all the girls even the ones your not attracted to, start from there. Ask chubby cheeks in person and not over email lmao
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:35 AM
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gotta realize how what you said could be interpreted as pretentious even if it isnt meant that way, just the way shit is and you gotta deal with it.
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:30 AM
1

Should hang out normally without homework, try to move the interaction subtley to more of a man to woman conversation. you wanna take risks but take them in a way that doesn't put the ball in her court
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:16 AM
1

learn text game to get her out, get her back to your place but start disqualifying the sex and telling her its not gonna happen, when you kiss be the first one to back off until she is the one trying to escalate on you.
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:04 AM
1

disqualify
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:00 AM
1

You should learn really good game through day and night game (you can learn good game and get her to wanna fuck you but then not do it). To develop and give yourself that skill set will allow you to wife up the 10/10 girl your looking for when she comes along.
/r/seduction19/06/19 04:57 AM
1

What does it mean to be alpha? We don't live in a tribal environment anymore. There is only an assured assertive person who goes after what he wants and isnt afraid to say no.
/r/seduction18/06/19 04:48 AM
1

start jiu jitsu, clean up your lifestyle, find intrinsic motivation in the things you love, save up money and do a bootcamp with toddvalentine
/r/seduction17/06/19 03:36 AM
2

just get the conversation flowing and ask for her number
/r/seduction17/06/19 03:33 AM
1

My best guess: she told you she was looking to hookup, you proceeded to show the provider male trait of making too much small talk, she got turned off because she wanted a lover and not a boyfriend. Im not the best at this but if a girl makes it explicit she wants to hook up... just set up the date (you can only go downhill on buying temperature from there).
/r/seduction17/06/19 03:09 AM
8

You aint dating this hoe bruh she dating you
/r/seduction23/05/19 08:00 PM
1

I don't necessarily disagree with all of the rsd inner game but, really I find most of it to be a parsed new age rendition of eastern philosophy better learned from the source.
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:53 PM
1

Just be normal and don't stress it, you don't need to force anything to happen
/r/seduction23/05/19 07:50 PM
1

"she does believe, but she knows she shouldn't". doesn't sound like she DOES believe, but just that one part of her is trapped by her cultural pull towards that belief. First off you don't need to bring up her rules, or her religion, the less she thinks about that the more in the moment she will be. Your goal should be to very slowly escalate without setting off any of her defense mechanisms. One good way would be to escalate the topic of conversation to something more sexual, escalate physicall…
/r/seduction23/05/19 03:56 AM
1

look up toddv on youtube. IMO he is the best intellectual thinker out there in terms of game and has the most effective mindset and approach. The real secret though is to use the scientific method, trial and error, and massive action. watching youtube videos should only be 10% of your learning.
/r/seduction23/05/19 03:41 AM
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Honestly I think the only effective way for you to learn is to get coaching, check out toddvdating.com and save up for an immersion program, because I think that is the only effective way for you or anyone in a really tough situation to learn. best of luck!
/r/seduction23/05/19 03:39 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=og1DZLKpJSY Get her isolated 1 on 1 and then slowly escalate the conversational topics, there are other ways to escalate but this might be the best suited for you.
/r/seduction23/05/19 03:36 AM
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First step is to actually do anything, extrapolate what you could have done better, learn and progress from there. Just like you learn anything else, trial and error and the scientific method. Since it sounds like you didn't talk to anyone your first step is to approach.
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:49 AM
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you said you tried to make plans but she ignored them, that was your mistake, if you let her ignore that it makes you look weak. Most likely the reason she is doing this is because she realizes sex is probably going to happen, or she's just lost interest. I would say wait a few days to look non needy, then maybe tease her a little to build some value back, and push for the date because you have nothing to lose, try to make the date very low risk for her, casual coffee, no big deal etc. and see i…
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:42 AM
2

get todd v the system, seems to me like the most practical actionable system to facilitate your improvement.
/r/seduction19/05/19 12:15 AM
1

You're either trying too hard or not trying hard enough
/r/seduction19/05/19 12:06 AM
1

would recommend doing day/night game separate from college if possible to learn the ins in outs through trial and error
/r/seduction16/05/19 10:06 PM
1

Just bang her on the last day of work haha, but fuck it if she is a 5 you gotta have some standards otherwise I would go for it.
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:32 AM
1

High school is usually a tight nit social circle and if you have sex with a girl there is a good chance she will talk about it and word would spread out, so don't think it won't. You know what to do but you just have to make a decision if the pussy is worth it.
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:29 AM
2

She wanted you to drink with them, when you gave her a cold answer she was disappointed, that's how I read it from a purely verbal level.
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:18 AM
1

just have fun and make fun of her for it
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:13 AM
1

You got some serious problems if you trying to get girls kicked out for laughing towards you. Of course I can't tell you for sure but if they are smiling then that is never a bad sign.
/r/seduction03/05/19 01:11 AM
1

ok well maybe there is a larger problem going on that is causing them to flake. I would recommend you get some coaching from Todd V if you can since you seem to be making money.
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:59 PM
2

Flirt back with her and see how she reacts, then ask for her snapchat or number
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:32 PM
1

You said you flirt with girls, how about when you're flirting with a girl after you establish that connection you ask for her number?
/r/seduction02/05/19 08:28 PM
1

you don't want to even fall into the frame of "lets restart the conversation", just start it over again the same way you started it in the beginning without being weird about it
/r/seduction01/05/19 02:59 AM
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Becaue that was a pointless convo, you should be either trying to build value, or get a date, everything should be leading to asking her somewhere. she doesn't want to text you random shit. Shoot her a text asking if she wants to get coffee sometime.
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:47 PM
1

Here's the thing, what do you have to lose? did you fuck up? yes. should that stop you from trying to redeem it? no. You can start off with pinging value into the void and just showing you are having a fun time with some fun picture. Basically just get the conversation going again, then ask her to hang out somewhere, proceed as if she likes you but you need to build value up again.
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:44 PM
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lol what is this pussy mentality, just focus purely on gaming the best you can and play to win, whatever happens happens. just because a dude is tall and jacked doesn't mean he can out personality you, probably the opposite
/r/seduction30/04/19 08:33 PM
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Don’t try to be her friend in the first place, be man to woman from the beginning but do it in a slow way
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:21 AM
2

Yeah you shouldn’t text a girl out of the blue that you want to tell her “something”. You should be outgoing but if your gonna ask her out do it in person after establishing some report
/r/seduction30/04/19 02:20 AM
1

You should just treat it as if she never slept with you and try to game her fresh casually, but this time if shit goes down you just make it clear its fwb
/r/seduction29/04/19 10:12 PM
2

even just a small coffee shop and you find an excuse to get her to go up to your room, or you can ask her to hang out and watch a movie with you in your room, but just avoid using the words 'room' or 'my place'.
/r/seduction29/04/19 10:08 PM
1

how about you ask her out to a place really close to where you live and you can pull her back up
/r/seduction29/04/19 10:02 PM
2

Look and a friendly attitude, smiling with eye contact are things that would get me to approach a woman, other than that would be you actually talking and making comments to a person.
/r/seduction29/04/19 03:20 AM
1

Nothing wrong with that, for me I've gotten that because I felt depressed about how much of a bitch I was not to approach her. I think that feeling is the regret of lost opportunity.
/r/seduction28/04/19 09:38 PM
3

Yeah just as a stepping stone to realize your supposed to have fun with this
/r/seduction28/04/19 09:29 PM
2

better then what he is doing right now, master the vibes first and build from there
/r/seduction28/04/19 09:14 PM
4

Your best bet is to be really into school activities and have girls see you being good naturally at sports etc. Then just be a confident fun guy, just say hi to girls without expecting to game them or fuck them, eventually there will be a girl that is into you and you can make the conversation man to woman in a calibrated way, light teasing, making the conversation about something more sexual in nature (past experiences, something someone said, drugs, etc.)
/r/seduction28/04/19 08:28 PM
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Step 1: Go to somewhere social where there are women, ie: park, bar, shopping center. Step 2: desensytze yourself to talking to women, just go up to them and ask them what time it is Once you get over that you can go up and tell them they are cute, and gradually build up your confidence and skills, preferably in a city where there is 0% chances you could ever see that person again.
/r/seduction28/04/19 08:23 PM
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Well you can't mind control a dude to hit on you and try to fuck you, if he doesn't already plan on doing it from his own accord you're gonna have to show him signals you are interested, that would really be the only thing you could do other than looking hotter. The thing is though that eventually you will be an old lady no one wants to fuck, so you have to find internal happiness and other activities that you get pleasure from that are not sex related. And if your husband pleases you that littl…
/r/seduction28/04/19 08:14 PM
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The thing is there are really two ways, the way I just mentioned, and then just telling him you want to fuck straight out. Really you're never gonna find the validation that you wan't from the "guy you can't get", you gotta find that within yourself and stop trying to ruin someone else's marriage for your own pleasure.
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:55 PM
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Try going out and having fun, being a tease to girls and having no agenda, see how that goes.
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:10 PM
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Dude why are you even asking this, obviously she wants your attention
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:08 PM
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simple, just dress really hot and be sexy and flirty, we are not talking about gaming women here lmao
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:06 PM
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fun funny charismatic conversation with her and make it slightly man to woman, if she reacts well you slowly turn the man to woman nob up in a calibrated way
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:02 PM
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you say you want to "invite men to talk to me, to give me some sexual attention, at a casual in-personal conversation". The thing is the fact that there would be sexual attention involved makes it not a casual conversation to some degree. I think you need to be more specific about what you wan't, if you just want dudes to look at you and get attracted but not make a move on you, you could dress more sexual. But the thing is at the end of the day you have a husband and if you're wanting sexual at…
/r/seduction28/04/19 06:49 PM
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If you approach the same girl twice with 2 mindsets you will get a different answer. first if you approach her from the lover frame, have a good time and be open about liking sex and doing crazy shit, she will open up to you about all her 3somes. Approach the same girl and ask her how many dudes she's fucked when your in the provider male frame and she will tell you straight to your face an untrue number. So your gonna get the answer your looking for but its not gonna be the truth
/r/seduction28/04/19 03:48 AM
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Just be a cool confident and fun dude, and don't have oneitis, you can try having a fun conversation and making it slightly man to woman and see how she reacts.
/r/seduction28/04/19 03:34 AM
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Just talk to her and don't be weird, have a fun time joke around and teaser her, be positive but assertive. Then if she's responding well you can make it man to woman. What I mean by that is make the conversation more sexual in a calibrated way, there are plenty of videos about how to do that. However, if your not lying and she really told you that she has no boyfriend and shes touching your arm like that... you could just tell her she's cute.
/r/seduction28/04/19 03:31 AM
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She wants to fuck, up to you wether you play it smooth or not
/r/seduction28/04/19 12:14 AM
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You should talk to her and VERY SLOWLY make the conversation a little man to woman and she how she reacts
/r/seduction26/04/19 07:41 PM
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Ask him what? If he is dating her? It's seems pretty clear he is dating her and you just have to move on bro, I think your problem arises in the first place that you even got in the friend zone. Next time don't put yourself in the friend zone in the first place.
/r/seduction26/04/19 07:39 PM
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Here's what you do: you start acting like she's your girlfriend, ask her to get coffee the next morning after you've slept with her the night before, slowly start introducing her to your friends and spending more intimate time with her that is not related directly to sex, if she objects it was never gonna happen anyway, but you just act like its the case.
/r/seduction25/04/19 11:09 PM
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bruh
/r/seduction20/04/19 04:05 AM
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Honestly start doing a full contact martial art and gain some real confidence
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:59 AM
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Maybe you were born with a lesser sex drive, if that's the case then maybe that is a positive thing. Take 90 days off porn, Instagram models, and jerking off and then ask yourself if you don't want a girl.
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:52 AM
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This is more of a what is pickup? question, rather than a college game question. So really, your problem is you need to acquire the skill set of pickup witch is not entirely easy https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpmAWcMtBFw That is a good video to start, but the #1 advice you can be given is to not go down the rabithole of youtube videos and take massive action trial and error testing ideas and adjusting what works and what doesn't, (hopefully based off of a general idea you can get from his vide…
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:50 AM
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Here is my system that has gotten me limited success but better than nothing. Witty statement about her/her profile (preferably that conveys to her that you are attracted to her without making it too obvious) Then try to respond improvisational comedic way to her in a way that conveys you are interested in her, again with out being too straightforward. Then get her to qualify herself ie: idk about you what else do you have going on other than that smile? Then number close her: whats your number,…
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:42 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mIhP8NKhHXg Copy that link and watch that, but just replace ex girlfriend with the girl your talking about. IMO, instead of thinking about how to get her back, use this as a learning opportunity to motivate yourself to never be the dude that loses a girl in the first place.
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:29 AM
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Idk if she is or isn't I can't tell from just a post on reddit. However, your best chance to get her is to show you have a dick and show her some premise in your texts. Look up todd V text game on youtube for further research, onward
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:26 AM
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So basically you wan't to learn how to game dudes, I would recommend you actually treat yourself as the pickup artist and develop a skillet around that. However, men aren't turned on like a dimmer light like women, we either think a girl is hot or she's not, so the actual best advice I would give to you is start a work out routine to get an Instagram model type ass.
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:16 AM
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I would say you look like you're trying way too hard, if anything talk about the women you don't want and not what you want to be more high value
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:07 AM
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Forget about the girl and become successful with women in general and acquire the skillet of being attractive to women, the vague advice of "delivering" for her could easily put you in a provider frame if you go about it a chody way
/r/seduction20/04/19 03:03 AM
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I think you need coaching, if you have that much money all you really need to do is higher a coach and take it one step at a time.
/r/seduction20/04/19 02:44 AM
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First off all I’m as inexperienced as you are, but in my opinion you should just come from the frame that your a cool guy and not trying to pick her up in a cheesy way. Your mindset should be that you as a potential sexual partner is implied through how you carry yourself. If you start from there you always have the option to be more man to woman at any point, but you can’t redeem yourself as easy from a cheesy approach. Now how exactly to convey that man to woman premise in a casual way is some…
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:22 AM
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Don’t be fooled into thinking you need to be a metrosexual looking dude, looking a little rough around the edges while still being mostly well kept is better than looking like you give two fucks
/r/seduction17/04/19 02:15 AM
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My problem with this though is that if you are about to fuck her how do you frame it in a way where she ends up coming back and doesn't just think that you rejected her.
/r/seduction01/04/19 02:07 AM
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This has to be a Socratic dialogue, but I agree wholeheartedly with your methods lmao
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:55 AM
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I would, you basically have nothing to lose, either she says no and you were gonna get cock blocked anyway or she will introduce you.
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:46 AM
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Watch Todd Valentine on youtube. If you became a god at cold approach you can have a lot of success as an introvert.
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:41 AM
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Only if you're not good enough friends with the girl and she thinks you are a loser. Otherwise that is the best case scenario to have her introduce you.
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:32 AM
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HAHAHAHA that's actually hilarious sorry. But you have two options: complain and be stuck with ugly girls. Or learn enough game/ present yourself in the right way that the hot girl wouldn't have rejected you in the first place.
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:28 AM
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Well props to you because when I was in your shoes I just bitched out and said I will wait a few more years to naturally come out of my shell. But if you don't have any friend groups in HS that you could potentially fuck up, might as well start talking to girl's in your class or in the hallway in a non-needy way, don't even be too gamey with them but find a excuse to talk to them.
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:23 AM
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If a guy is staring at you he is in to you, if you are too nervous to walk up to the guy yourself than you could at least make eye contact with him.
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:19 AM
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You're over thinking it, as long as the girl likes you it doesn't matter if you missed one social event. But if her parents invite you then it's not BAD to go. You could 100% see her the day after and that is not gonna make her hate you, but at the same time is not required either
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:14 AM
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At least you have self reflection, but if you got the loser guy in the group to tell you to fuck off, then you did something majorly wrong. At that point if a guy is telling you to fuck off and you're actually the one in the wrong, your not gonna go well with the girls
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:08 AM
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how can sex be real if our eyes aren't real?
/r/seduction01/04/19 01:02 AM
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It is about the FRAME you set in the girls mind. If you convey to her through the way you talk (already have with that question) and your personality is that of a high value guy who has options, I think she would assume you are seeing other girls. As long as she doesn't think that you're her boyfriend then you don't have to act like you are. If you do decide to cuff one girl better to cut the other off because that could get messy quick.
/r/seduction01/04/19 12:48 AM
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Telling you her that she's the only one for you, that she is your one and only, basically implying that you are her boyfriend. But those wouldn't even be necessarily bad if you frame your relationship with the girl the right way. If you frame it as, I'm a successful guy who also sees other women but when we are together it is special, it might work out. Or the girls might get jealous, idk.
/r/seduction31/03/19 01:54 AM
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Yeah im not gonna argue with you bro, Im just letting you know that dating is not hard and that there is a middle ground in between manipulator and chode which is skill. If you don't wanna learn for whatever bs reason thats up to you.
/r/seduction30/03/19 10:01 PM
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Listen man obviously you're on here for advice so out of the kindness of my heart I will tell you that you are full of shit, if your not getting women in a non-try hard way then you are doing something wrong. The irony of the situation is literally that the REASON women shit test is to weed out complaining low value guys such as yourself.
/r/seduction30/03/19 08:33 PM
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I think the most import thing to know is that if you developed the right skills achieving your goals could actually be easy, it's just developing the skills that is the hard part.
/r/seduction30/03/19 06:55 PM
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Honestly I have no experience in this but my 2 cents: As long as you make it clear to the girl that you are seeing other women I don't think anything is horribly wrong as long as you don't get too overboard with the BF shit.
/r/seduction30/03/19 06:52 PM
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Not to be a dick but your mentality is totally set up for failure, if you want something you have to get it. And to convey to the girl you are a sexual prospect you have to pass a shit test. The difference between our point of view is to me a shit test is actually a good sign. The girl views you as a sexual entity and she is giving to shit to test that you are not a weak boy but a man. So a shit test is actually an opportunity to show the girl you are a sexual prospect. And no you don't have to …
/r/seduction30/03/19 06:49 PM
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You need to get her friends to like you, maybe defuse the situation and let them know she is safe with you and nothing will happen. Otherwise sometimes logistics are logistics and if her friends cockblock you, you just need to get her number since the only power you have over her friends is a) getting her to like you so much that she ditches them (unlikely because she will look like a slut) or b) befriend her friends and have them give you their blessing so to speak.
/r/seduction30/03/19 06:43 PM
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At a basic level you have to show the girl that your interested in her, a more advanced way would be to show the girl that you COULD be interested in her and get her to qualify herself to you. this video explains it better than I can
/r/seduction30/03/19 06:22 PM
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You can pass a shit test while still maintaining to the girl you are a high value guy and not a cheesy pickup artist, it's just in the way you present yourself
/r/seduction30/03/19 06:16 PM
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The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting results. Test, fail, and examine your failures for how to improve, thats all you can really do.
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:31 AM
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That's gold right there, the most effect way to get results in anything is to focus on the process and the variables you can control, and accept whatever the result is because you put your best foot forward.
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:24 AM
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My honest advice to you as corny as it sounds is to look up Todd valentine on you tube because he explains many key concepts of talking to women in a no bullshit way. But my own advice to you is that you have an extremely bad mindset and you need to change it. If you want to get good at anything worthwhile, you have to learn from your failures and adjust from them. For example, if a girl is not interested in you when you talk about boring subjects such as school, maybe you are not establishing a…
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:19 AM
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Whats the point of doing anything of worth if you might fail? It's a silly question, if you want to close on a number through hard work you could develop the skills to.
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:11 AM
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For sure, both personality and looks are important tools. I don't want this guy to get the wrong idea though and not realize that personality is the more effective tool.
/r/seduction30/03/19 04:09 AM
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I think you have to make a distinction between cheesy PUA artist, and developing a real skill with women and understanding female psychology. When you mention shit test defusals I'm not sure exactly what you mean, but if you don't want to be just friends with a girl your going to have to pass her shit test no matter what so you might as well go with the approach that gets you the best result. I think the distinction to make is that you can learn skills to attract women but not come off as "gamey…
/r/seduction30/03/19 03:54 AM
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check out todd valentine on youtube. I think this is one of those cases were you need to have some skill in attracting women
/r/seduction30/03/19 03:50 AM
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It's more about how you actually present yourself in conversation and the way you carry yourself, rather than pure aesthetics. obviously aesthetics plus game is the best, but being chubby really should never stop you from getting a girl.
/r/seduction30/03/19 03:45 AM
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Dude, 100% that you are being nice to them therefore they think of you as a friend, if you don't create any sexual tension with a girl she is not gonna be into you. Not saying to be an asshole but you have to at least be more man to woman in your interaction with them.
/r/seduction30/03/19 03:44 AM
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Your mistake is that you want the girl to have a conversation back with you, you need to carry the conversation in the beginning, watch rsd Todd videos on how to do that
/r/seduction28/03/19 10:48 PM
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