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| 58 | That’s what I thoughtThey’re so hypocritical. Atleast men in the 50s had something to offer. Men now just want us to take care of everything while they have 0 to offer except drain us of our energy and labour. This really hits close to home. A really good example (IMO) of how a hvm would handle it is My best friend and her bf. They’ve been together for 3 years and growing up she was better off financially and used to a certain lifestyle yet her bf came from a poorer background. He wanted to get married but she made … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 11:55 PM |
| 6 | Equality with head/oralI completely agree. Blowjobs is not the equal of giving a woman oral. It’s not the same. He’s gonna organs anyways from PiV while there’s a good chance a woman won’t so doing it during foreplay only makes sense and you’re right it is the bare minimum. As another astute commenter said on this post: “Blowjobs are a privilege” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 02:25 PM |
| 18 | Equality with head/oralI’m so happy you found the strength to leave him and you deserve so much better ❤️ That’s the thing: almost every woman’s mag has tips on how to please a man, we’re bombarded the it everywhere, which only encourages tyre narrative that sex is something we do to make them feel good not us. Women generally are already “prepped” for male pleasure/needs due to how society socializes us and teaches us that’s normal. But when last did you hear a man who reads up on how to please a woman? Or if they ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 06:27 PM |
| 37 | Equality with head/oralEXACTLY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:47 PM |
| 9 | On a thread about facefucking... the last response is especially horrifyingSame thing with blowjobs with men. Straight men can’t stand the idea of a dick in their mouth or sucking one and yet constantly desire women too. The term “suck a dick” is constantly weaponised and made into a insult, why? If blowjobs were such an “intimate” act that was “enjoyable” for the ones sucking the dick then why would it be used as insult? They know it’s uncomfortable, that it’s degrading, to be on your knees, using your mouth (where you talk and have your voice) as just another whole t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 01:10 AM |
| 3 | Scrote only has sex if it means his wife is pegging him while watching the kind of porn he likes. She does so begrudgingly. And he refuses to clean up the poop afterward.What’s scary to me (besides the obvious horror of this situation) is what the concept of being “feminised” means in sex and kink. It means being the one dominated, the one getting face fucked, the one getting stuff done to or doing stuff for someone else’s pleasure, that’s what the idea of being a “woman” or “feminine” in sex means and it’s terrifying. Not once has the idea of being “feminine” in sex been associated with receiving pleasure which is why so many men don’t enjoy pegging or have tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 08:00 PM |
| 34 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisCumming on a woman’s face or chest. Swap the cum with pee and it’s gross and degrading right? So how is it any different when it’s cum? How do libfems act like that’s empowering??? If you look at most of these “sex acts” or “kinks” outside the context of sex, no one would willingly want to be subjected to most of the shit but “it’s perfectly fine” when you add sex? Huh? Sex is supposed to be an intimate act of making love. Not a opportunity to make your porn Fantasies into reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 08:35 PM |
| 6 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisYou’re right. God I hate those subs. Before I even joined FDS, just reading the stories about those relationships had put me off relationships and men. God forbid you try and give them some proper advice then you get attacked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:56 PM |
| 21 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisA blowjob is a man ultimate fantasy: a woman on her knees using her mouth (a part that is used to let her speak and a symbol of someone’s voice) as a hole, having a woman use that sort of her to suck on and ‘choke’ on the ultimate symbol of manhood : their cock. How is it not degrading?? “Suck a dick” “cocksucker”, it’s constantly weaponised but it’s meant to be deemed as “just a part of sex”, but kissing another set of lips (the vagina) apparently is too emasculating?? If we look at the normali… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 52 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisA separate category??? Shouldn’t be it expected in regular porn as a given?? And we wonder why straight women don’t enjoy sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:09 PM |
| 38 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisExactly!!! I’m sick and tired of porn only having do stuff to women, that’s literally the base of men, men DOING stuff to us not WITH us which is why so many men think sex is something they DO to us instead of WITH us. And yes porn has normalized a lot of shit like blowjobs to be a “requirement” making a lot of male centred acts to be seen as the “basics” of sex when it’s not. Female pleasure acts are seen as “unnecessary” or just get done to get it over with so they can focus on their own pleas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 17 | The "perfect" relationship 🤮The saddest part about this video is that the relationship he is describing is the reality for many many people to the point where it can be considered that this is what most relationships generally are. What’s even more infuriating is the way men will literally go out of their way to sneak in a bj and dress it up to brainwash young women, this is why so many women still do acts and stuff they don’t like or what to do because it’s constantly being told to them that good gfs and partners give bjs… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 01:21 PM |
| 14 | When they show their true colors first time, block y’all. Don’t be like her. It’s not fine.What is with men and their obsession to smack their dick in our faces all the time? Metaphorically and literally speaking??? I’m convinced it’s all stems from their deep seated desire to degrade us especially sexually, things like cumming on a woman face, kneeling for them to do sexual acts etc these all belong and have roots in porn and it’s terrifying to think these things are becoming normalized in sex to the point where today’s “kinks” will be tomorrow’s “vanilla” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 10:50 PM |
| 20 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.Girl those three points are exactly how I want my sex life to be!! Especially the second point!! I don’t see the purpose of just doing acts that focus on him at my expense especially when there’s tons of things to do that could easily pleasure both of us. Man I thought it would be near impossible to find a man that would be okay with that but here you are so I’m guessing there is hope? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 12:28 PM |
| 68 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.Then expect us to suck it after 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 156 | More women need to hold men accountable for their hygiene. Men are always so quick to judge our bodies and hygiene and expect us to be freshly waxed, freshly this but will marinate in their own filth and expect us to be okay with it.Vaginas are taught to be gross and stinky as you said which men constantly use as an excuse not to go down, yet men and their hygiene are notorious for being shit and we’re supposed to put it inside us or our mouths? How did women become so cuckholded? And just be okay with? I see so many posts and comments about women not wanting to “hurt their mans feelings” by telling him he stinks and I’m like ???? You think men would waste their breath in telling us we stink? Lol no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 01:28 AM |
| 26 | She’s right, you can’t teach someone to love you or make you a priority. When someone genuinely cares for you, they’ll want to make you a priority and act like itHow cute was that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 04:54 PM |
| 33 | This is why I’ll never put a dick in my mouth. Men have absolutely no respect for us.Girl the fact that some women will still put it in their mouth 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 10:51 PM |
| 66 | To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process....Genuine question; what tips or advice would you (or anyone reading this) give to help stop projecting our empathy on to men or just other people in general. I have a bad history of toxic bffs and I don’t want want to make same mistakes especially not with men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:03 PM |
| 184 | This has to be a joke, can’t believe this is real 😂😂😂Update: I checked out her account and it’s a joke thank god, still makes for a good laugh 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 64 | This has to be a joke, can’t believe this is real 😂😂😂Ah okay that makes more sense, still kills me 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???Exactly! Things like handjobs or blowjobs outside of sex(where there is opportunity for reciprocation) are unnecessary and just create unrealistic expectations in relationships and partner dynamics. I don’t get why so many women just do it?? Like I’ve seen so many posts of women in relationships saying “he likes it so I do it for him” and yet the same partners won’t do the bare minimum for them. Imagine how outraged men would be if eating pussy was a thing outside of sex and how they’d cry about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 9 | How much time do you guys give to see if he can make you orgasm?That’s so infuriating. Honestly we as women have to start making oral sex for us mandatory they way men make bjs for them. Oral sex and fingering for us (or whatever works for you) needs to be mandatory as handjobs or blowjobs, men don’t even need foreplay, they’re gonna cum from piv sex as it is, it’s US who need the most attention down there and that’s just for a decent orgasm. No wonder sex always makes women feel used, it’s because men have dictated all sex acts according to what makes THEM … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:08 PM |
| 9 | How much time do you guys give to see if he can make you orgasm?They didn’t think oral for you was necessary for sex but I bet they thought blowjobs were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???Omg for real???? If you’re bored get a damn hobby. Find an interest. Not suck a dick. Sometimes it’s this kind of behaviour that actually makes men think having female friends means they might get to smash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 19 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???That’s absolutely disgusting. What’s even worse is that free use practice of sucking off men casually while they game eat etc is becoming normalized very quickly. From fetish it’s becoming the standard. The amount of men who think that they’re entitled to it and that it’s okay to have “needs like that” makes me sickkkkkkkkk. I don’t understand how the women/pick mes don’t see how damaging this is??? Outside of the concept of sex just giving bjs like it’s nothing?? But the same man won’t even go … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:10 PM |
| 42 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???14 and sucking dick???? Jesus Christ that makes me wanna cry. She’s a child for fucks sake. This reminds me a of a post i saw on one of the subs where a mom walked in on her 14 year old daughter butt naked with a 14 year old boy in her daughters room and her daughter was in the process of giving him a blowjob. Maybe this is an unpopular opinion but I don’t think teenagers should be so sexually active at such a young age. It does more damage than anything, we live in a society where people are st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:51 PM |
| 54 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???Are you serious?? I thought girls my age and older were bad and you’re telling me it gets worse? God it’s like a new breed of stepford mentality. Pure brainwashing. Also I’m proud of you for getting out of that mindset and please don’t be pressured by your friends, having standards is something to be proud of, you deserve the best. As someone who grew up with friends constantly shutting on my standards trust me they ended up regretting their words and basically have to now deal with shitty men i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 54 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???That’s very heartbreaking and disturbing that society has created a culture where young girls are so focused male pleasure when the males themselves are only focused on their own pleasure. No wonder sex is imbalanced. Besides that, it is upsetting to see how young teenage girls are becoming so hyper sexualised and focused on sex at such a young age thinking they’re being “empowered”. Being curious and horny at a young age is fine but these girls are literally being groomed so young to think this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Pick Me’s out here enabling men to exploit sexual favours from women. Thanks to this pick me now her bf “can’t live without Bjs everyday”, god help the next women he dates.I will never understand how more women aren’t aware of how male centric sex is and always has been? And yet willingly partake with no reciprocation? They just accept the culture of sex for what it is and don’t see how unfair it is??Men know the game is rigged but will never admit it. Sex favours men 90% of the time and the more I realize it the more it puts me off. Think of the young teenage girls growing up who were taught that sex was just hand jobs, blowjobs and PiV all of which DONT hold any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:14 PM |
| 4 | Pick me advertising - I don’t understand the point of defining yourself by these things?? “Look at me I’m the best gf material out there pick me pick me!” Why are so many women still acting like being a gf/wife is the only thing they have to offer??I agree! I’m saying the post is bullshit and she’s a pick me who thinks by saying “how good she is” at all these things makes her “someone”. It’s pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 136 | I was disgusted when I saw this, not gonna lie 🤢WHY OH WHY DO WOMEN DO ALL OF THIS SHIT FOR MEN???? Explain please. I’m so sick of the whole “give him everything” or “i wanna give you my all” and “boyfriend asks boyfriend receives” BS. That’s the thing. Men know women love hard. They know no matter how they act there will always be a woman going out of her way for them. Men take advantage and take us for granted using this knowledge. While I hate blaming women Sometimes I think Women or rather pick men’s make themselves to accessible to men t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:07 PM |
| 51 | More proof men just see us as warm flesh lights. He expects her to warm herself up, give herself her own orgasm and be satisfied with just pleasing him??? I’m disgustedThe “I don’t know you’re just there” honestly made me sick. He barely registers her presence during sex, he truly does not see her any different than a flesh light, she is merely a tool of his masturbation. How do you even get to that stage with a partner that you decide to still procreate with them?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 14 | Don't worry, he's very attentive, buys her gifts and is not all abusive. The woman is risking her health, going through all the pain, but "oh no, what about my dick? :(("“He’s not abusive just sexually aggressive” facepalms into oblivion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 66 | I only have one question: WHYNot sleeping with a man when we’re angry is mean? 😂😂 well men abusing us on the daily is pretty mean I’d say not that they care what they do to us. A lot of women I’ve noticed don’t even question the imbalance in the give and take in sex, they’ve just always seen it as being the norm? Everything about sex and sex acts literally revolves around the dick with the exception of eating out and fingering. It’s handjobs this and blowjobs that, they’ve become the “fast food” of sex and has become so nor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:30 PM |
| 160 | I only have one question: WHYI don’t get the anal thing, to me along with how brutal face fucking is makes me realize that men will go out of their way to find and use any part of the female body for pleasure. It’s like they’re constantly searching for the next body part they can abuse for their pleasure, pass it off as a kink and then act like you’re denying them a right when you say you’re not into it. I just discovered something called a hair job. Yes a hair job. Apparently it’s when you give a hand job but the woman wra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women make excuses for their bfs/husbands/male partners?That’s true, a lot of red flags I’ve notice they ignore and I don’t get it? It’s a red flag, a warning | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women make excuses for their bfs/husbands/male partners?Exactly!! Most of these men know exactly what they’re doing and take advantage yet if it was a woman who was depressed and under stress they’re still expected to act like nothings wrong etc. Reverse the roles and men would never be as accepting and forgiving of their female partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:53 PM |
| 83 | She didn't even have to send him a nude.I miss when love actually meant something and sex actually had value. Casual sex is perfectly fine but it seems this generation has magnified hookup culture and sex to be the only form of intimacy. Everyone has “talking stages” where you basically do everything as bf/gf without even deciding to date like what is that? Getting to know someone first I get but no ones really failing in love anymore. It’s just a bunch of bullshit “non committal” talking stages because when everything (like sex) is s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 6 | If your man looks at other women, he’s willing to cheat on youThank you so much for saying this!! You’re right 100% I needed to hear something self affirming like this to remind myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:25 PM |
| 14 | If your man looks at other women, he’s willing to cheat on you“We live in a world where men literally feel attacked if they can’t treat women as sex objects” EXACTLY!!! I’m yet to meet a man who does not act entitled to a woman especially when it comes to sex. If you look at some of my previous posts I posted in the sex sub saying I wasn’t comfortable with giving blowjobs and 90% of men said it would be a deal breaker as blowjobs are an expected requirement of sex and men need/require its atleast weekly. Furthermore they seemed incredibly offended that I e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:05 PM |
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