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Yeah, I think a lot of guys would actually enjoy seeing their wife with another woman. Only a very small niche group enjoy seeing their wife with another man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 07:11 AM
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Yep. Men's aversion to female promiscuity is very related to women's aversion to bisexual men imo. Both genders are grossed out thinking about their partner having sex with dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 06:47 AM
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but friends with strangers Being able to maintain friendships and make new ones is an extremely important social skill, yes. It is perfectly reasonable for people to want their partner to be able to do this. would be a modern behavior ( modern 50,000 years ). Yeah so about as long as we've been forming societies. Interesting. I make friends easy? But you just don't want them? Then everything I said is the same. Not wanting any friends is just as unusual as someone who can't make any. You have fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 11:19 AM
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friends are not default to human nature Dude yes they are, what the fuck. We are social creatures. We are literally wired for it. It's physically bad for your health to be lonely. There's so much science and data on it I don't even know where to start. You do have to grow up privileged to make a friend Only in the sense that they're privileged by not being in the very small portion of people who can't make friends. Anything can be considered "privileged" if you judge it relatively like that. Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:51 AM
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if I think the house is a good comparison, because you have middle class people that have houses that are like “man , your a bad character if you don’t have a house “ // don’t understand being poor. Just like you have people who go “not having friends is a red flag “ when they grew up privileged. Its a silly comparison because it's much easier for the average person to make a friend than it is to buy a whole house. You don't have to grow up privileged to make a friend, what are you talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 10:41 AM
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It's not at all like that. It's more like not having a house to live in at all. That's perfectly reasonable to red flag to have. Most well adjusted people have friends, and most well adjusted people have a home to live in, whether they own it or not. Thats not to say the people who don't have these things things are all poorly adjusted or bad people. They could just be unlucky and in a bad spot. But it's still pretty reasonable for somebody to view it as a red flag and not want to deal with it. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 09:03 AM
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I feel it's more common for women to have larger circles but shallower relationships with their friends on average. A lot of tight-knit girls groups split up over drama, or drift apart when they get in relationships. By the time they're well into adulthood they're usually more socially transient. Meeting lots of different people and hanging out in different social groups. But they might not have a particularly strong or loyal friendship with one of any of these people. They might not have anyone…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 07:01 AM
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Being introverted and liking time alone isn't the same as not having any friends though. The former isn't a red flag but the latter is. No one's saying you have to be super social and be talking to or hanging out with your friends all the time. But the vast majority of well adjusted people have mutually held friendships with others. What that friendship consists of varies a lot, but there's at least the mutual feeling of "I like that person, they're my friend". Not having that with other people …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 06:23 AM
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I'm 30, don't know anyone making over 70k, live in one of the most expensive cities in the world. None of my friends struggle with women. Everyone with a girlfriend is with somebody attractive, everyone who doesn't hook's up regularly. I only make 20k, am not particularly tall or hot and have a girlfriend who is moderately attractive by conventional standards. I'm pretty confused by your outlook and social circle. I don't mean this to be rude, but are most of your friends nerdy loser types? The …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 02:59 AM
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I'm 5'11 and has an ex who was only slightly shorter than me, probably around 5'9. I'm only 60kg though, she had at least 25kg on me. I've got never worked out in my life and have shoulder injuries, I'm weaker than probably 85% of full grown men who aren't disabled. She'd been lifting weights for years and assumed because of that and her size advantage that she was stronger. I thought that was hilarious so we play wrestled to test it. I could overpower her easily without even trying. This thread…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:11 PM
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They do. They get brolic as fuck and can fuck up humans in a one on one fight. That's why we just shoot them and eat them, and make their skin into leather. Perfect scenario for everyone. We limit their population so they don't starve, and we get high quality meat and leather. Everyone wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 06:33 PM
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Its not just Arab Australians. It's the whole middle east, most of Africa, most of Asia and then the diaspora in all the western countries. It's the majority. I can' speak for Latin American cultures coz I'm not around them enough. But from what I've heard they are pretty patriarchal too. Western liberal values are the minority. Kangaroos are overpopulated and we need to shoot them to stop them starving to death. It's the most healthy meat and we should eat more of them. It's the most ethical an…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:37 PM
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They're free to leave an hang out with progressive educated guys but a lot of them don't want to do that because they don't like those types of guys. They want the type of men you call misogynist. Again, I don't know you keep bringing this back to me? I know my girlfriends past and don't care. I am not one of the men who care about body count, i don't know why you're hostile to me. All I'm saying is a lot of men do, especially in certain communities. The women who are from or want to date in tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 03:20 AM
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Yeah I'm sure some are lying, to various extents. Most aren't though. They are free to leave that culture behind if they want, alot of them do. They can change social circles, and hang out with more progressive university educated type people. But for the women who stay, its by choice. They have no interest in that lifestyle. They just don't care if a man does it. I was raised straddling both worlds, and have close relationships with women on both sides who trust me because of family and childho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 05:06 PM
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What kind of backwater trailer park are you living in? I don't know anyone, be they male or female, who has a partner like that or makes excuses for someone who is a drug addict/alcoholic/violent criminal I know a lot. Most of my friends are in one of those categories, and have girlfriends who don't partake at all, they just tolerate it. Depending what you mean by drug addict/alcoholic though. Most aren't physically dependent on any one substance but we go on benders/binges a lot. Its not some b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 01:21 PM
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Of course I don't know how many men you've slept with. When did I say I knew? And yeah obviously women can lie and get way with it a lot of the time. The point I was making was that men who have slept around themselves often don't want a committed relationship with woman who they know has slept around. So they can and often do end up settling down with women that havent slept around because of that. I think it hysterical that you don't think that happens a lot. Are you trying to say that all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 12:51 PM
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We got off topic, but what I was initially saying is that it's not an incel revenge fantasy that has no basis in reality. I said before I'm happy in my relationship and don't trip on her past. I'm not a redpill follower or an incel. You can think the attitude is misogynistic, I'm not even arguing against that. But it's a reality for large portion of the world. Even in liberal Western countries there is large groups of diaspora who still have that attitude. They have never even heard of the redpi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 06:59 AM
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You're not bursting my bubble at all, you're proving it. They aren't all criminals obviously. But they are the underclass and they are the majority. That's why you are in more of a bubble than me. I can go to the slums in third world places and be accepted with open arms because I'm childhood friends with people who are from there. No security, no organansiatons backing me. Us working class people have more in common with each other than I do with westerners like you who work in politics and try…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 05:46 PM
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Western Sydney, not Albania. You do live in a bubble if you don't know or hang out with criminals. You live in a privileged bubble where that isn't normal. So much of the world is engulfed in organised crime. I've travelled all over the world too. But I hang out with the underclass in those places, which is the majority. We are both in bubbles, you just think your bubble is the "correct" one. Even though my one is a lot more common universally.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:51 PM
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They might not end up alone but it severely restricts their options. Much more than it restricts the options of men who do the same. Yes it's hypocrisy, but everyone is hypocritical in their own ways. The world is hypocritical. I'm not making moral judgements I'm just stating what I observe in my real life. I have no idea about middle school sex ed or what that refers to. We don't have middle school in Australia and we didnt get any sex ed in my public school.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:42 PM
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I promise you this exists on a large scale. I'm not condoning it, I'm not benefiting from believing its true. I am completely removed from that kind of dynamic. Where are you from, North America I presume? Im from a western country, but the place I live is mostly immigrants and the children of immigrants from more traditional cultures. The men have free reign, they go out, hook up, use and sell drugs and get into organizd crime. The women from these families are kept on a tight leash and dont ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 04:37 PM
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It's "ho" and we're not in middle school sex ed. You don't have to come up with stories to scare people into abstinence. Do you mean coming up with stories as in he's making it up and it's not true? It's totally believable and it's the same from what I've observed. Men sleep around with the "ho's", eventually when they want to settle down they find a womam who hasn't slept around before. The women most often end up single or with a complete loser of a parter, or an abusing/cheating one. Do you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 08:47 AM
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Yeah maybe its a location/cultural thing because I'm from Australia. Here, it is 100% tradesmen. "Tradies get the ladies" is a common phrase here. You will constantly hear women talk about how attracted they are to them. It probably helps that most trades pay very well here, and some pay HEAPS. Women get the security of a man who is doing very well financially, but also get the raw physical attraction of having a man who has a "manly" job, who works with his hands and does physical work. He has …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:06 AM
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But he wanted that in the first place. Why would you try to punish him by giving him what he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 08:06 AM
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Then why would you say that she should have just hurt his feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 06:16 PM
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She should’ve just hurt your feelings Obviously. That seems to be the whole point of this post. Don't try to spare feelings, just be honest and direct. Nobody asked her to spare his feelings, that's so much more insulting than just telling him what makes him unattractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 07:01 AM
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It's just the natural but selfish desire to "win", even if it at the expense of others. It's not illogical it's just selfish and ambitious. Think about it like getting rich in our capitalist system. You can get to a point where you can be rich and live a luxurious life without working. There will be many people under you who's interests you aren't taking to heart. The people who work for your company who can't survive on the wage you pay and need a second job. The tenants who rent your property …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:50 AM
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Nah I know what it says. Why would you think I didnt? If a woman feels retroactively used after sex that she enjoyed at the time, it's pretty common that it's because it didn't lead to the guy committing to a monogamous relationship, right? I know they didn't mention rape by deception, but its the extreme end of the same way of thinking. A woman changing her mind about sex that already happened, because of how she feels about it now. The person I replied to mentioned retroactively feeling used, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:50 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about. The person who coined the term was a Marxist. It has no meaning when it's stripped of its Marxist context, not the other way around. Capitalism isn't a scapegoat. It's the root cause. The apps have been bad for dating culture, that part is pretty universally accepted. The reason they have been so bad is because their goal is to make profit, not to help people find a long term partner. That is a direct result of capitalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:51 PM
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Yeah it's extremely popular. My opinion on this is actually unpopular. I'm a Marxist. Most of the dating problems we have are inherent to living in late stage capitalism. The dating apps playing such a big role in how the genders interact with each other on a macro level is evidence of this. This is what happens when we let capitalism dictate our love lives. Women aren't the problem. Men aren't the problem. The economic system we live under is the problem. Alienation stemming from capitalism is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:48 AM
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Thinking I would not be able to carry them, they were stronger, etc. It's hilarious when women think they're stronger than men just because they're taller, fatter or they work out and you don't. Unless they're in the top 1% of strongest women in the world, it's never the case. Even compared to the small, weak men who they make fun of. It's not that bad for them to make fun of the men if they're just comparing them to other men. But the amount of women who are delusional enough to genuinely belie…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 11:38 AM
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Most men don't care how pretty you are, just that you let them provide and have sex with them Fuck off with that "let them provide" traditionalist bullshit. Men want a woman who can provide for herself. We don't want to pay for everything for our partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:39 AM
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Number 2 is so widespread. Women will get angry at a guy for not committing to a monogamous relationship, when he never promised it. Seems so irrational to me. The concept of "rape by deception" is the extreme end of this attitude. You can't go back in time and retroactively make something rape, just because you are now disgusted by the thought of having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:34 AM
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That's a good one, very different from most of what people are saying. Also applies to me. I really don't don't know any of that kinda stuff. I've always been a night person, but not in a "go out clubbing/house parties" kind of way. All I really know is the drug and crime scene. To me the day time is for working (or crime if you're a criminal), resting, and running errands. The night time is for going on Benders With the Boys and fucking random sluts from tinder. Any of the stuff you mentioned j…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:02 AM
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I think the view that there is any distinction between men being attracted to teenagers who have gone through puberty, and men who are attracted to pre-pubescent children is even more unpopular. Despite being the correct one in my opinion. They're both wrong, and I'm not defending either but I do think they're different things. I don't have a problem with "pedophile" becoming the term we use for all of it, and there being another term specifically for men who are attracted to pre-pubescent child…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 07:08 AM
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I had richer & more attractive guys that I could have dated instead That just shows that you view the status of being musically talented more important than the status of looks or money. It is still 100% status though, and you care about status deeply. That's why you had to qualify that a man not being a financial provider is only okay if he is a starving artist. Because the man still brings status, it's just not financial status.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:05 AM
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I'm not fighting what you're into, I'm asking you to think about why. If your boyfriend was the same person, but you personally didn't think he had any musical talent, would you still be into him? That's what I mean about status. It's not just about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:15 AM
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I can only guess its something to do with your personality. I don't say that to be insulting but it's really the only answer I can come up with. Some people just aren't very likeable. I'm broke, live with my mother, don't drive, not tall, not particularly facially attractive, not particularly good at anything, don't have any plans to improve or change myself or my situation in any way. I don't struggle with dating or attracting women. When I hear about men complaining how hard it is, all I can r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:12 AM
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The important part is that I really do not want or need someone else’s money I don't think that's as important as this He can be my pretty artistic/musical trophy. Why does he then have to then be your artistic, musical trophy? Can't he be your trophy by just being a nice guy who takes care of things around the house for you? If you're okay paying for everything, why does he need to make up for it by being super talented? Why can't he just be a good guy who has passions and interests but doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:00 AM
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But not everything can be objectively judged by skill level. And whether or not something is "half-assed" is also completely subjective. A guy can be into so many things, be passionate about so many things without being a starving artist. What makes the starving artist okay to you, but not the guy who's hobbies and passions aren't something that it's skill level can be objectively judged? Why is a really talented piano player okay, but not the guy who's passions are gardening, reading literature…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:43 AM
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Why do they have to do it beyond "hobby level" then? and what makes something "hobby level" to you? Why do they have to "do something and be good at it for real"? Somebody can be passionate about something and good at it, but it's not something that brings in any money. Or it could possibly bring in money, but they just choose not to. That is a hobby. Why is that not good enough for you, if you are really okay with paying for everything 100%?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:30 AM
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Women I date pay for things for me all the time. I'm an average guy in most ways except income. I'm much below average income and I'm not above average in any other ways that make up for it. Women have no problem making more money and paying for more things in the relationship, in my experience. When I hear guys have this attitude about women, I can't help but think that their must be something wrong with their personality if the only women they encounter expect them to pay for everything. If a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:17 AM
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Whether or not something is a hobby doesn't dictate the quality of the thing though. Amateur musicians don't hurt your ears, bad ones do. Somebody can be very good at music but just aren't looking to profit from it in any way. Are you trying to say that it's not the money itself that you want from them, but you want them to be good enough at something that they could make money off of it if they chose to? I'm finding it hard to understand your position. Just because somebody isn't earning any mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 07:05 AM
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It's used on humans way more than its used on horses
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:56 AM
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Yep, great strategy. Out of curiosity, did you always intuitively understand how to enchant them well or did it come with age and experience? I feel like a lot of women really seem to struggle to understand what attracts a man beyond looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 08:13 AM
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I saw the perfect example of that just this weekend. A girl who my friend has been casually seeing called him completely fucked up (sounded like she'd been drinking on xans) having a meltdown saying she was about to get kicked out of a cab in the middle of nowhere and trying to get him to drop everything and come pick her up. He had never seen her like that before and was patient, talked to her for 20mins saying he was in the middle of something and she had to sort it out herself. After he final…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:55 AM
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100% agree. When I hear women complain about this, I cant help but wonder how blatantly dishonest the men are actually being, and how much of it is just them lacking female game. There are really dishonest men who play the long game, tell absolute bold face lies and keep up appearances plausibly for long periods of time before ghosting. I don't think this happens nearly as much as men just meeting and dating women, having sex with them in the process then eventually deciding they're not going to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:52 AM
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Drugs have multiple uses man. They also give it to babies because its pretty much impossible to overdose on. Just because you can use it for horses doesn't mean its so crazy for a human to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:13 AM
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Why? The fact that Thailand has problems with child sex abuse and sex tourism doesn't discredit his point in the slightest. It was a cheap shot about something completely unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:11 PM
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It wasn't a valid criticism though. They just pointed out that the country they're in has problems with child sex abuse. It didn't invalidate what he was saying at all. It was a cheap shot about something completely unrelated to try to discredit his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 03:09 PM
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The big thing you posted about the child sex trade in Thailand is 100% true, but not really relevant to the discussion. Just because there is a big child sex industry in a country doesn't mean the opinions of all the people living in that country are invalid. The vast majority of foreigners in Thailand aren't fucking kids. Even the vast majority of sex tourists and sexpats aren't fucking kids. So bringing that up to counter OPs observation doesn't really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:59 PM
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You get enough of an idea to know whether or not you want to see them again. If you don't, you keep it moving. If you do, you keep hooking up, allowing you to vet them further. Do you think there's no chit chat when people hook up? What kind of weird shit is that? You have the same amount of opportunity to get to know them as you would any other way. Men don't need or want to withhold sex while we are vetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:39 PM
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I only work 20hrs a week in a low paying job so literally every woman I've dated has been dating down in income, including the western ones. But yeah that being said, in my personal experience the Asian ones have been more insistent about going halves on things or paying for me. The only ones that have accepted me paying for things at all have been Western ones, even if it was just a meal or some alcohol here and there. I know that goes against the common narrative. I'm not going to try to say i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:09 PM
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You get a rough idea of their personality during the hookup, it's a quick vetting process.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:53 PM
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No, I agree with you. I don't think that the majority of Asian or Thai women find white features more attractive. But a sizeable amount do, and that amount is enough for a white guy to choose from and have better luck with than he would have with Western women. I also agree with you that especially for Thai's, a lot of the women who like westerners or white guys aren't considered as attractive in Thailand. My current girlfriend is Thai, and while she is considered very attractive here she is wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:53 AM
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Maybe, I'm not sure if it's as much to do with that as it is that people are more impressed by average people when they happen to fit with what they are into physically. And a lot of Asian women have a white guy fetish. A lot of white girls have a black guy fetish, and they will be more impressed by an average black guy than they will with a guy of another race. Or more impressed by him than a black girl would be by the same average black guy. When you cross language and culture lines, people ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 07:30 AM
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I really believe it's more a result of the fetishization of White features by Asian women than it is vice versa. I'm not a passport bro in that I've never gotten into a relationship with a woman I met overseas, but I've been in a few with women from Asia who were new to my country, plus countless hookups from the same demographic. The standards are lower in the sense that without the shared language and cultural background, they seem to be more pragmatic when choosing their partners, rather than…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:16 AM
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Yeah a lot of the time it does come from naivety/immaturity/stupidity whatever you wana call it. They don't know if he wants something serious, and they don't know if they do either. They're just willing to hook up with him and find out in time. They're not in panic mode because he's an "alpha", they're just insecure young women who are willing to hook up with a guy as soon as he wants in the hope that it might turn into a relationship. As long as he shows interest and hasn't shot himself in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:42 AM
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Yeah for sure. I think a lot of young impressionable women get sucked in to thinking it's cool and feminist to be a "bad bitch" and treat sex like men do. A lot of them end up feeling hurt, empty and full of regret. Some are built for it, and good for them. Who am I to judge? A lot aren't though. They like the idea in theory, because it pisses them off that there is a double standard when it comes to promiscuity. So they try to rebel against the double standard. A lot of them end up realizing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:55 AM
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Pretty sure OP is a man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:35 AM
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Yeah I agree one night stands are the minority. Though I personally still think that even when women have one night stands, a lot of the time it comes from them wanting a relationship rather than specifically wanting a one night stand. They meet a guy they find attractive or charming, and hook up with him hoping it will turn into something more. A lot of the time something about him puts her off fairly soon after and she no longer wants anything with him. But the initial thought is "this guy see…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 08:25 AM
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In my experience most women want monogamous relationships and prefer to have sex with somebody they have an emotional connection with. But in the process of looking for that, they end up having sex with men who don't really want that with them. Sometimes it's because the man is manipulative and lied about his intentions, but more often the guy just showed interest and the woman accepted his advances, hoping it would lead to a relationship. As they get older and have been burned from these types …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:27 AM
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Yeah with that okcupid study, I've seen so many people use it to try to make the point that some races are just more objectively attractive, more objectively feminine or masculine. I interpret it more that physical attraction is massively influenced by cultural factors and stereotypes. That study seemed crazy to me when I compared it to my personal experience. I grew up in a really multicultural city, but where black people where a small majority and Asians were about 40% of the population. In m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 12:11 PM
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That's interesting, in my experience it's much more like the how the person you replied to described. I think it's also a cultural/location thing though. From what I gather it seems like it's much more common/expected for people to go into higher education in the US. It also seems like blue collar jobs are more looked down upon. I'm in Australia and most women here either prefer blue collar men, or just see nothing wrong with it. Women with degrees and white collar jobs in relationships with blu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 09:28 AM
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...Aren't usually doing that either. You're just being blatantly biphobic. Bisexual people aren't any more likely to cheat than anybody else. And what's with putting bisexual in quotes like that? Are you seriously trying to imply men can't be bisexual and they're all just closeted gays? And when there was social stigma for white women to be attracted to black men, they did lie about it and hide it. So I have no idea what point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 12:25 PM
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Losing attraction to somebody who you were previously attracted, specifically because you found out they can be attracted to somebody of the same sex is a sign you are homophobic. Think about it this way, if a man was interested in you but then he found out that you have been attracted to black men before. He then decides he isn't interested in you anymore. He says he isn't racist and he has nothing against black people. He just doesn't want to be with a woman who is able to find them attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 10:10 AM
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I don't know about that. Not the stats, those are true I'm not disputing that. I just don't think that's the reason why. Women who are put off by male bisexuality wouldn't suddenly be okay with it if the guy got tested and came back clean. Even if it was only in the past and he didn't want to keep hooking up with other men while he was with her, just the thought that he has been with another man is usually enough to stop her attraction to him. Especially if he was the one getting fucked. The men…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:42 AM
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I think you're probably right in most cases, but there is a very sizeable minority who I think you're wrong about. I see it in my personal life all the time. Nearly all my friends are male sluts. Some ended up with party girls who had similar pasts, most didn't. Most only got into a LTR once they found a girl who wasn't and never had been about that life. That was the main driving force to LTR them rather than just pump and dump, or keep in the harem like they usually do for other girls. A lot o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 12:52 PM
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Sorry if this is a stupid question you get all the time, but are you worried your body won't produce enough testosterone naturally if you're already getting it from juice? Like if you stop, will your t levels become abnormally low? Is that part of the reasoning to do it in cycles, so your body doesn't get used to the juice for long enough for it to have negative consequences? I know nothing about steroids, sorry if this is just basic 101 shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 09:08 AM
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Ive said many times I respect your and everyone else's boundaries. I'm not trying to convince you to give bi men, or any other men a go. It's like free speech. Everyone is entitled to freely voice their opinion. But you can and will be judged on the things you say. Back to the example from my last post that you didn't acknowledge, would you really hear that preference from somebody and still think "I dont know their reasoning so it might not be racist". Somebody having the requirement that their…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:46 AM
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Yeah, I agree most of what you're saying. If someone is turned off by something then you need to accept it regardless of their reasons. I get what you're saying by it doesn't matter what it says about them because they aren't interested and you aren't going to change it. I still think you can make judgements on their overall character by looking at what their preferences are though. For the race example, I wasn't comparing to having a preference what race your partner is. I was comparing it to h…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:18 AM
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I agree with you that nobody has to date or fuck anyone they don't want to, and everybody is allowed their preferences. I do think it's a bi/homophobic preferences though and it does reflect on their chacter and world view. Put it this way, if somebodies preference was that it was an ultimate deal breaker and attraction killer if their partner had been with somebody of a different race before, would you really accept that they aren't racist and hold nothing against race mixing? They say they don…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:08 AM
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They would be giving up actually having sex with women? You don't seem to understand that bi men want to have sex with women just as much as straight men do. Just because they can have sex with men doesn't mean they're okay with only having sex with men. They will still not be getting their needs met and be sexually frustrated. Being bi means they want both. And it's easier to get both if you're closeted. Back to my original point, it's much easier to find men who are okay with you being closete…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 02:22 AM
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Only if he's more on the gay side of the spectrum, and only if he's in social circles where there aren't social repercussions for it. I think for most guys it would be much simpler to just present as straight and fuck men on the low. That way you get all your needs met rather than just half of them. If they're bi then means they still want to fuck women, they don't want to give that up. Especially if they're closer to the straight side.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:04 AM
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Yeah it's the reason bi men are so often closeted. By being out, a very large percentage of women will immediately discount them. Being closeted won't make it that much harder to find men willing to hook up with them. It's just not in their interests to be out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:01 AM
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