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| -1 | Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in datingSee? That's what I'm talking about! You a real 1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 07:16 PM |
| 10 | What is the longest you have ever been in a committed relationship?36 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in datingIt's not the same thing at all. It's a totally different thing. Because men and women value different things in dating. So the opposite gender embellishes or obfuscates that thing that the other gender makes a judgement upon. Simple stuff really. Surprised you don't know about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 06:58 PM |
| -4 | Guys in "female" occupations should lie about their job if they want to succeed in datingI'll be sure to heed the advice about starting the relationship off with a lie from the gender that shows up to the first date with a full face of makeup wearing Spanx. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/24 04:41 PM |
| 6 | Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for yearsHe can't waste any woman's time without her tacit permission. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 12:54 AM |
| – | Who Opposes No-Fault Divorce?We're calling them administrative assistants now, actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/24 01:21 PM |
| – | If "most men don't want a partner, they want a mom", then most women don't want a partner, they want a dad.Yeah, he's actually totally spot on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 05:20 PM |
| 3 | I genuinely don't know what else to doPrayers go out for your wife, man. I'm very glad you're in a good position to give her the care she needs. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/06/24 03:10 PM |
| -1 | What if men were allowed to choose between a bear and a woman in a forest? Statistics show women more frequently assault men than bears - why hasn’t anyone pointed this out yet? Why does the “man = bad” paradigm fit so well in our society?I think the essence of mens' frustrations with this topic comes down to this: we are civilized now - modern cities towns and villages, where men and women have agency over their own lives. But to get to this point, the land had to be settled. And a significant what "settled" really means is to force dominance over beasts.... Feral felines, canines, lupines, ....and ursines. And through the generations, the burden of that dominance over the land was carried out by men - men going out to slay or p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts?I went up to Toronto a few years ago, right? Finally got to go to the Hockey Hall of Fame. sigh Look, I'm not saying that Wayne Gretzky wasn't a great player. He was great. He had all those goals that he made over 2 decades in the league. He was a great player. No argument. But I'm just saying, I want to know a good argument why I'm not in the Hall of Fame too. Look, I have even more goals than Wayne Gretzky. And I was only in the league for 2 weeks. Why do I have to be on the outs, and frankly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 05:10 PM |
| 31 | Woman leaves good husband for bad boy. Bad boy dumps her to marry other woman. For some reason cats and dogs are not the same as a man/husband80L is about $95k or 85k pounds sterling. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/03/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateDon't worry. I'm picking up what you're laying down... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Men are seen as more creepy doing the same actions as women. Let's debateThere are other things men might reasonably be anxious or even frightened of when meeting and getting intimate with women, and if you think about it for literally a few minutes, they will come to you. Like having a conversation with a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?Nah, you lost me. You set up your argument about trafficking and coercion. In a self-selection system, no one gets trafficked or coerced. Yes they take money, but producers are using their platform. If Reed Hastings isn't a pimp, then neither is Radvinsky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?Yeah all of what you said is true. I want to retract that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?True. I stand corrected. I was thinking moreso of self-produced porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?It's literally women getting rich from it, sooooo..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?Hobbies are easier? Please tell me how men have it easy in victory gardening, knitting, and model train building. This should be good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?Oh great. Cleopatra, Queen Mary, Catherine the Great, Margaret Thatcher, Queen Isabella, and Empress Wu get to slink away hiding their hands yet again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Which gender do you think treats the other gender worse, on average, in modern western society, and why?And marriage. And day to day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 02:48 AM |
| 9 | Apparently women in your "friends circle" really dislike you hitting on themEgregious. That is just...wow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 06:59 PM |
| 1 | HypergamyRegards! And yes, I do completely see your point and I agree. My main thing, as you now know, is just about the egregious overuse and extension of words, because of our need to apply social justice, or egalitarianism, or just the need to extend the power of words to cover unique pet situations. In any case what you say has a lot of merit. And yeah, maybe I should expand my work to include this realm, heck a couple of the authors of the paper I cited were even in my neck of the research woods, so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 04:33 AM |
| 2 | HypergamyYou know, I must admit, until I just read the Wikipedia article where you got that definition from, I'd never encountered hypergamy as a term that described that it was ever an act of seeking and achieving a mate of higher sexual capital...and I'm a social scientist myself IRL and I've never experienced that, so thanks for bringing that to my attention. But I remain unconvinced, especially since the relevant literature for them making such a claim seems to be based on this work from 2007, which … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | HypergamyThe word for what men do is hypogamy. Marrying down in social standing or caste. What women try to claim is that because men will wife a hot poor woman, then what they are doing is the same thing as hypergamy. No. Words mean things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 06:17 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy*hypogamy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | A Personal Tale Of A Pussy Pass Denialaaaaiiiieeeeeee! | /r/PussyPassDenied | 15/01/23 04:02 AM |
| 22 | Although I would say "I am a little chunky" although that shouldn't matter anyway.I was out at "I'm an RN." | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/03/22 01:08 PM |
| 4 | Good ol' slap*mouf | /r/PussyPassDenied | 09/01/22 04:44 PM |
| 4 | One of the reasons why men check out from society is because there is growing, unjustified hostility, disrespect and depreciation against men in general.oh hi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/21 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Most dating difficulties are caused by fear and wanting to minimize an imagined or real risk.No, cold calling is asinine. Also asinine is thinking that this is all 100% on men. Women have a role to play here as well. They have to send "choosing signals" to the guy to let him know that if the guy were to ask him out, she wouldn't reject him. That's an important part of this as well, but in the tinder age, women don't really think they have to do that part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Question For The Men: Would you date or marry or even consider a relationship with an FDS woman?I'd rather be maimed. At night. In the zoo. In the yak house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Red pilled men know about hypergamy, so why don't they date down?Who said anything about wives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 06:09 PM |
| 8 | Red pilled men know about hypergamy, so why don't they date down?Many men do just that, when judged from the perspective of what women wrongly perceive to be of value to men. For further evidence, consult the sizeable number of 35-40 year old women attorneys, physicians, and professors dumped for 20-25 year old bartenders, baristas, and TikTok influencers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | If women don’t prefer abusive men, why are they more lenient with them than shy/introverted men?It's in the abstract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 09:39 PM |
| 4 | How do you think a world with significantly more women than men would play out?If we're talking about 60+ yes there are more women* More like 26. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 16 | 45yo single mom smashed the wall hard. This should be a good scarecrow to our lurkersLook, this is in no way amusing, and I'm certainly not trying to gloat. But if you're a lady lurker to this sub please understand. Life for women starts out easy and gets hard through the years. For men, it starts out hard and gets easy. I sincerely want women to be happy. Sincerely. But to do that, y'all got to make smart choices. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 18/09/21 10:06 PM |
| 4 | Pregnant mom is not settling for anything less than greatness."right from the very beginning" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/08/21 12:00 AM |
| 4 | Pregnant mom is not settling for anything less than greatness.Very old slang. "Straight from the rip", became "off the rip" over time, and now "off rip". | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/08/21 05:21 PM |
| -2 | “Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases.Hey. I drank milk a week after it's sell-by date too, but that don't mean that milk should be spending it's time before that date focusing on it's career in finance, especially when sour cream can get the same old job. Did I say that right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 10:37 PM |
| 0 | “Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases.Not all that obvious. Women have trouble having healthy babies in the later years of their fertility, if they can have one at all. Getting a job later is DECIDEDLY less difficult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 5 | “Women should prioritize settling down in their 20s and career in their 30s”: this is bad advice in most cases.Women want to settle down with women. Gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 06:47 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to who pays for dates, many women say that the gender wage gap justifies the expectation that men pay for dates. However, amongst the demographic that is dating (i.e., single people), single women outearn single men. Therefore, by their own logic, women should pay for dates."women have the upper hand in dating" ... for a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/21 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesThat's basically what I said. That's why men pay for the 27 and under. That way, women 35 and up can be brusque and masculine if they want to, but they're doing it on their own goddamned dime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/21 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesHow about this: men pay on dates when the woman is under 27 years old. 27-35 dutch. Over 35, women pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 05:00 PM |
| 24 | Woman (33) with a history of dating toxic abusive assholes now complains about getting rejected by good/nice guysRight there with you. Met my wife soon as we both turned 18. Now at 50, I can remember our young years, and we have enough shared experiences that I have no problem at all getting it up for her plump, cute ass now. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/06/21 09:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismOh no. Now that is untrue. Most high-powered career women are blithely unaware how quick a man (THEIR man) would dump them for a homeless 19-year old if he could. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “Being an emotional tampon” is inherent to true friendship.Not primarily, no. I'm showing similar situations with two genders and illustrating how either would perceive it, based upon what they ultimately value. When women want to dump all of their problems on a man without physical intimacy, men feel cheap. When men want to expend their sexual energy on women but don't want to spend any time with them, women feel cheap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 12:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV: “Being an emotional tampon” is inherent to true friendship.When women say, "it's okay to get a man to spend all his time with me, but give sex to another man" they mean it earnestly. They don't see the problem with that mindset at all. But when women hear that a man will be happy to give them sex, but that man wants to spend his time with another woman, taking her to movies and restaurants and stuff, they suddenly see the issue in sharp relief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 5 | Oh look, another post-wall carousel rider who can’t get a good man to marry her.You know it. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/05/21 03:41 PM |
| 40 | Oh look, another post-wall carousel rider who can’t get a good man to marry her."I'M A PHD!" | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/05/21 02:47 PM |
| 10 | Gentlemen, she's a single mom interested in someone helping pay her bills and doesn't have time for games. Step right up and get this one before someone else does!She's out of touch. Soon, she'll be out of time. She'll be out of her head, when there's no bailouts around. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 14/04/21 05:53 PM |
| 9 | “LVM with money” AKA - Not spending any on her.Kevin Samuels FTMFW | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 30/03/21 10:20 PM |
| 11 | "Body positivity" excludes overweight guys in favor of normalizing BBW fetishism"It's opportunism. Not dodging accountability." Por que no los dos? These two possibilities are by no means polarities, and using them that way results in a false dichotomy. Heck, Included in the "reward" you speak of could be a tendency for a man not to hold a woman accountable (me in my 20s). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 05:18 PM |
| 2 | There is no separate casual sex and relationship market.We bringing back ladder theory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/21 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Do you look like a combination Jesus/Viking? Then you can get this ambitious lady if you have enough time to go through the laundry list of requirements. She offers plenty of opportunities to spend your money.Hell not only was Jesus non-white, we now know some things about the Vikings.... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 08/02/21 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Women are attracted to the same traits at 30 as they were at 18. But they're TURNED OFF BY a whole host of traits at 30 which were neutral at 18.That makes so much sense and is so parsimonious, the truth is self obvious. Great observation. My wife, herself grew up kinda rough and rural, met me as we were both turning 18. I didn't have much to offer her but a nice smile, a good attitude, and a very large backup of semen. We stuck together and we're both very happy with things here as we're about to turn 50. My wife's sister got married (preggo) at 30, but it was to a (fellow) high powered professional...she was in it to win it at that poi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/20 12:07 AM |
| 7 | Definitely a lawsuitThat was pretty hot, really. | /r/PussyPass | 01/08/20 11:36 PM |
| -5 | Marine catches his girlfriend messaging guys on Tinder, including a coworker who lives down the hall. This Devildog certainly ISN'T "Unsuccessfully Coping With The Natural Beauty of Infidelity" when he kicks her out of his life and publicly shames her.Aww. He doesn't know... | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 10/05/20 11:47 PM |
| 10 | Woman from FDS tries to criticize this sub as if she's high value, turns out she's a single mom, a carousel rider, she's picky AF, and she never mentions she found a high-value man who committed to her, which is why she's still thereTraveling dogs whine. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/04/20 04:23 PM |
| 12 | 32 year old divorced single mom with 3 kids says if you are not spectacular she doesn't have time for your shit, and you need to text her "good morning" every single day.Oof. That's not the kind of snarkiness that comes from self-absorbtion. That's the kind of snarkiness that comes from seeing how things actually are in your 30s and realizing you wasted your youth. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/03/20 09:21 PM |
| 2 | University graduate roastie and future WAATGM can’t understand why her gaping vagina is a depreciating asset."Also, Moe Hardy? Holy crap that's a deep hockey reference." LOL so deep I made this theoretical goalie's name up. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/03/20 09:05 PM |
| 31 | University graduate roastie and future WAATGM can’t understand why her gaping vagina is a depreciating asset."Wayne Gretzky has the most goals in the history of the NHL, it's obvious to any rational person that he should be in the Hall of Fame. But damn, it just seems HYPOCRITICAL that we don't put Moe Hardy, the goalie who has let in the most goals also in the Hall of Fame. I mean, they both have the record in goals." | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/03/20 07:24 PM |
| 11 | How to land a great guy *updated for 2020No. No you hate that. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/02/20 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Time to settle.... lucky us!Holy shit, that should be canon. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 23/02/20 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Didn't work like she thoughtNo, penises are baby milk vending machines. Tits are milk vending machines primarily used by babies. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 19/02/20 04:02 AM |
| 4 | Why are good men not interested in me?... Einstein? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/02/20 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Pay my bills because I’m lazy and stupidOh, I heard of this. This is one of those "seeking derangement" scenarios. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/12/19 05:03 AM |
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