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| 9 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?Oh hell no 😭 I’m so sorry that happened to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:42 AM |
| 26 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?I had requested flowers for Valentine’s Day. We went out for brunch (always had to pay separately 🤡 every time...) and we got into a fight over my request because I had the nerve to ask for something on Valentine’s Day? On the walk back he angrily said we could stop in the grocery store for flowers. By this time I didn’t want them. He told me I didn’t deserve them any way. We used to fight constantly about how often he played video games. He moved into my apartment and NEVER helped clean. There … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:36 AM |
| 26 | Imperfection vs. Red FlagsThis list is perfect 👌🏼 I’d say this is a basic outline. I bet many men would think this is outrageous 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 09:47 PM |
| 0 | A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerabilityYeah? Several other commenters here have admitted to doing it. Why is it out of the realm of possibility? If this guy actually did it on purpose then why did he leave immediately? what was the purpose of walking into her apartment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 1 | A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerabilityIm definitely not condoning the cops behavior, but to insist it was not an accident is silly. We all make mistakes. My apartment building looks the same on every floor - carpet, layout, colors, all the same. Wouldn’t surprise me if someone walked into the wrong apartment if the door was unlocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:53 AM |
| 2 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.So you think that women who fall in love with average looking men secretly wish they could be with someone better looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.Where are you coming up with this statistic? Men need to realize that women do not fall in love the same way men do. I’ve noticed that if a man isn’t initially attracted to a woman then it will never happen, whereas women can and do develop feelings for men they may not be attracted to in the beginning. Men should be glad this is the case. If you’re an average joe you can definitely get women to fall for you. It will take TIME and EFFORT but that’s how it should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 3 | The most important thing for a man in a relationship is to know that it isn't transactional. If a man believes the woman sees the relationship as transactional, he'll treat it as transactional too and do as little as possible to get laid.Because attraction for women isn’t always purely based on looks. Over time I’ve grown increasingly attracted to men I’ve dated in the past, even though they weren’t conventionally attractive. I’ve also dated hot guys who I became less attracted to as time went on strictly over who they were as a person. We all get old and wrinkly. No one is perfect. I’m going to choose the financially stable, intelligent, kind, average looking guy over the broke guy with abs 100% of the time. Because I realize r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?🤷🏼♀️ women can sense desperation and/or self pity. It’s hard for me to feel sorry for you. Women have a hard time being too tall, too fat, ugly, etc. do you think attractive men date unattractive women or something? Most people date others with similar looks so if you’re striking out with beautiful women try going for less attractive ones. Or don’t date at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Does your attractiveness-level dictate your self-worth? Or at the very least, is being "sexually desired" a main factor in dictating your happiness?If I met a man who I was physically attracted to, but had your outlook on life, I’d immediately be turned off. I’ve dated conventionally unattractive men who were hilarious, intelligent, and fun to be around and never once did I wish they had washboard abs... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.Hmm, I’m trying to say that being self conscious about crying is more of a turn off than crying without any shame. Put that in your tool kit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 05:36 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I did not subconsciously lose any attraction to him lol. If anything my attraction grew. Women don’t want to date someone with the emotional intelligence of a rock. If a man doesn’t ever cry that’s a red flag. If he can show empathy for others it likely means he’s kind and caring - both traits women want in a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I’d say both. Our sexual relationship ebbs and flows (we’ve been together 4 years), and also depends on my menstrual cycle. I would argue that during times of emotional vulnerability it has made me feel closer to him, and in turn feel more open to sex. I guess I don’t know what you’re trying to get at with that question. Relationships aren’t based on any one component. I have never just wanted sex from a man, nor have I ever just wanted a provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 04:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.But why do you care if you’re constantly arousing women? That in itself is a turn off. Being confident in yourself and your emotional state is much more appealing than wondering whether you’re able to attract women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 01:02 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men need to embrace “toxic masculinity” if they wish to be successful in life.I’ve seen my boyfriend cry 2-3 times. The first time was watching the documentary Gleason and we were only about 3-4 months into our relationship. It didn’t drive me away. It was actually refreshing to see a man give a damn about someone’s suffering. There’s a lot of assuming on this thread - that women suddenly lose interest after seeing a man cry. It was probably something else. Or, if it wasn’t, I’d say he dodged a bullet. Why would you want to date a woman who would flee at the sight of cryi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/21 12:56 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Why successful married men cheat-The male dual dating strategyYou didn’t mention once in your comment what you were bringing to the relationship in order for your girlfriend to WANT to have sex with you. From what I see with friends it’s because their SOs stop trying. There’s no romance, flirting, date nights....it’s all routine. And more than likely he stops doing even the bare minimum. I asked several of my male coworkers what they were planning for Valentine’s Day this year and every single one said nothing. I’m going to assume they all do nothing all y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/21 01:12 PM |
| 99 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.This sub gives me life. Even though I’m in a relationship I’ll never look at men the same way again 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:21 PM |
| 17 | My commitment ring to myself. I promise to give myself everything I need, deserve, desire, and then some ✨ And a reminder that any man who puts a new ring on this finger first has to treat me even better than I treat me. It’s opal (my birthstone) with rose gold and white topaz! I bought it myself.It’s beautiful! Can I ask where you got it? I’d like to buy myself some nice jewelry but I’m hesitant to spend too much on something I might lose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Is there any fds subs that showcase the physical aspect of leveling up?I was just on it for 10 minutes and started questioning my looks....that sub is toxic af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 12:44 AM |
| 7 | Is this a joke??? 1,500+ likes (and counting!) on this comment that’s only a few hours hold. Every. Single. Comment. is praising her 😭Lol these comments are gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:00 PM |
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