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Thank you for sharing this story. Very illuminating.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/23 12:54 PM
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Embrace the IDGAF life. Stop giving a fuck about what anybody thinks of you. If you go into a venue with thoughts in your head like, "I hope these people like me... those guys over there are taller than me... that guy has a manly beard... that girl is cute-- will she like it if I approach her or think I'm a creep since I'm shorter than 6'0?.... etc." Stop all that nonsense. Don't even do the obverse: "I hope I like these people... I hope those manly, tall guys think I'm okay... etc." Stop giving…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/23 05:47 PM
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These "dates" you're taking them on are little more than interviews. These girls need to be emotionally stimulated. "Girls just wanna have fun!" After a few minutes, say, "Fuck this. This is boring. I'm gonna drive out to the old reservoir and go skinny dipping, if you wanna come." Muster together a list of ten things you can do spontaneously that some chick would think was FUN. Look for quirky, interesting things. Or, even stuff like "there's a great band over at the Low Life Lounge. Let's go c…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/23 01:14 PM
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You're shittin' me. God? Really?
/r/TheRedPill27/04/23 08:08 PM
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These men are not idiots! They're not stupid, just unenlightened. They simply do not yet understand that everything involving women is batshit crazy looney-tunes. They think women's minds work the way their minds work, so if you ask a woman a question, you'll get a straight answer that will make sense. In other words, they're not yet red-pilled. They still think if you ask a woman if she's okay, and she says, "Yes, fine!" that means anything but "Yes, fine." Later she'll bitch at him for not see…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/23 12:32 AM
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What's this dude's plan? Complain and talk shit about me at other meetups? Is there anything I can do? Yes, there's something you can do-- you can -not- give a flying fuck what some "dude" says or does. Be only self-referential. Are you saying and doing what you want to say and do? If so, then you're functioning correctly. How people react to you, and whether or not they react to you, is their business not yours. Just be yourself and live your authentic life. Tell your orgy jokes if -you- find t…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/23 06:27 AM
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If you suck dick sometimes, you're gay. Not necessarily. What about alphas who occasionally suck a cousin's dick? They're not gay!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 02:58 PM
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will I continue being considered an alpha? Fuck, yes! An Alpha fucks anybody he wants. He doesn't need permission from any other man. So, go ahead and fuck your male cousin if that is what you choose. You are an Alpha and other Alphas will respect you for doing whatever you like.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/22 02:57 PM
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Your situation has more red flags on it than a Communist Parade. First: "Don't shit where you eat." Do NOT jeopardize your six figure income for a relationship (even if that's just a fuck) with the goddamn boss's daughter. Don't be an idiot, OP!! What if, two months into the relationship, she gets bored and goes to her dad and says, "OP disrespected me, Daddy! He made me take his thingie in my mouth." (Or worse.) Daddy shitcans you. Daddy gives your father grief about it, maybe even fires your d…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 09:34 PM
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what i should have done to get her? Send out messages that you're indifferent to her. If you pursue her, she'll run away. You need her to pursue you, and she'll only do that if she thinks you're not that interested in her. "Really? Why not? I'll show him!" Send her a message like, "Your friend Sally. Is she in a relationship? Just wondering."
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 06:37 PM
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In order to have a real relationship with this girl, she needs to desire you. She needs to get the tingles when you casually touch her arm. If she starts to get comfortable being cozy with you, having fun together and sharing long talks, etc., her feelings for you will move into Friend Zone territory. You'll become the equivalent of the Gay Best Friend, the man she trusts to share her secrets with. Soon she'll be telling you about the hot guy at the gym she's developing a crush on, asking your a…
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 04:07 AM
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Guys who have never been able to get with girls often find the Red Pill out of frustration. They read the sidebar, work out, eat clean, develop good habits, etc., and learn a bit of "game." Then they start pulling bitches, gain self-confidence, and yeah, the Red Pill helps them learn to impress girls and get laid on the regular. Some men do that for a while then realize that there's a lot more to being a man than making good money and fucking hotties. Such material-world endeavors provide superf…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/22 05:45 AM
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stop smoking cigarettes… It’s a deal breaker for most girls What the fuck? What kind of man changes his behavior to suit the likes/dislikes of fucking "girls"??? You don't lift to impress "girls." The only person you need to impress is yourself. That is why you lift, work on yourself, eat clean, become financially powerful, etc. As for "girls" just do whatever the fuck you want to do. Women will seek you out.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/22 02:59 PM
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a textwall It's called an "excerpt from a book", you moron.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 03:01 PM
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"... older women... that ... have maintained peak fertility..." Is there any actual evidence for this claim, OP, that women who have a low n count (1 to 3) actually are more fertile than their slutty counterparts? You say you "...suspect that these women do stay fertile for longer..." but is that suspicion based upon studies you have read, or upon subjective feelings you have when you observe older women who haven't spent their twenties getting their backs blown out?
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 07:03 AM
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No girls a dime. They’re all 5s, 6s, or 7s once you take the makeup away What a truth bomb! Thank you, KagedRageius!
/r/TheRedPill08/09/22 05:32 AM
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You didn't give OP any good advice, AdventurousLog6. You simply criticized the way he handled his business. You warned him that next time, she'd go for the divorce. Then he says if she goes for the divorce... so what? Let her go! He'll replace her. OP sagely points out that you and his other critics here are all acting as if getting a divorce is the worst outcome possible. Why? Out of fear of losing a LTR, apparently. OP doesn't GAF if she leaves or if she stays. A blue-pilled man, raised in the…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 02:29 PM
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I had a friend like that! He's dead now, but Tommy was a legend. He was mid 40's, with a dad bod. He was a house painter, so his clothes were always covered with paint splotches. He was bald, with a ring of black and gray hair around his head, with long hair in the back. (A mullet, for fuck's sake.) He was from New Jersey, uneducated, vulgar. My friends always called Tommy "The Closer." When the bar was getting ready to shut up for the night, Tommy would pick a girl to fuck--and she would leave …
/r/TheRedPill04/09/22 06:59 AM
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OP, this is so important, I'm making a separate comment about it. It's about your father. If he's not gone yet, dude, you have to kick him out of your life. He scolds you, belittles you, criticizes you, gaslights you. The guy's toxic-- and as such, he's not worthy of having you as a son. This is a great example of you starting to use your power. This is something in your life you have control over- - so exercise that power. YOU get to choose to whom you expend the privilege of being in your life…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 06:12 AM
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You worrying about your V-card does you =no good=, OP. There is a red pill strategy called IDGAF---> I Don't Give A Fuck. Some men use it to get laid. They act like they don't give a fuck, which chicks often perceive as supreme confidence. The deeper path is to truly Not Give A Fuck. A man who is actually masterful goes into a situation with women and hi stole goal is to enjoy =each moment= of being himself. If some chick fucks him? Great. If she doesn't? Also great. He doesn't give a flying fuc…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 06:01 AM
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Lots of good advice in this post, OP. Good work, BillnNuuhqija!
/r/TheRedPill03/09/22 05:20 AM
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men, are still scared today of what society will think about them for keeping their options open Why on Earth would anyone give a flying fuck what "society" thinks of him? The only opinion about him that matters at all is his own. "Are you psyched to be you? If not- -fix that. Are you enjoying your passage through time and space? If not-- then fix that. Adjust your attitude. And to start with, unplug from other people's ideas and opinions. Form your own ideas and opinions. Chart your own course …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/22 04:53 AM
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Figure out what their passion is and lean into it. Bullshit. Figure out what =your= passion is and lean =all the way= into it. If you find somebody who seems worthy of it, tell her you'll let her tag along. Or not. You don't give a fuck one way or the other what she does. And choosing bitches because they're a "9" or a "7" or whatever—what even is that? Your sole criteria are on how women look? Look for somebody who might be exciting and fun to be with. "Hey, me and some friends are going skinny…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/22 04:05 AM
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Honest mistake, apparently. When you saw it was a repost, you could've just closed the window and moved on to the next thread.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 12:40 PM
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I, for one, am glad you put it here, OP. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 12:36 PM
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Guy is butt hurt he didnt play the game right at the right time That's not it at all. The guy is butt hurt because he couldn't find any "decent" girls-- all of them were sluts. He wasn't interested in "Yahoo! Ride 'em, cowboy!" sex with hotties. He wanted romantic sex: holding hands, making love in front of the fire on a snowy evening, making future plans about marriage & kids. Now he knows that AWALT so he can't find someone to marry-- knowing any good-looking women he meets have already fucked…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 12:34 PM
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Just interested, 319Skew: when you saw all that text, why did you start reading? Once you started reading it and saw it was a long "journal entry" why did you keep reading to the end? Why didn't you just figure, "hey, this is not for me" and close the window and move on?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/22 12:01 AM
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One horrible thing women do is to connect with a guy they consider a "fixer-upper." Yeah, he's good looking and has a great job, but he's not quite perfect for her yet. He plays video games, so that's gotta go. Spends too much time with his bros, watching sports. Lose that. His wardrobe sucks! Baggy chinos and oxford shirts. Bore - ring! Gotta take him shopping and dress him up the way she likes-- italian suits, etc. Let's see, what's left? Get him to start taking me to brunch? Cut out red meat …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 05:55 AM
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Your ex has a female mind. She may be incapable of honorable behavior. She may not even realize how fucked up it is to keep stringing along her new boyfriend while banging you. But you, sir, are capable of honorable behavior and, yet, you consciously choose to engage in perfidy. You betray the trust of some unknown brother. You have the power to free him from the clutches of a nasty woman, yet you don't —just for the sake of getting some pussy. I can see why you're now black-pilled. People do su…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/22 11:00 PM
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What OP describes here is mania—obsessive mania. Our purpose here is to find and occupy our authentic selves. This romanticizing of the opposite sex has a certain poetic charm, but it's not a mentally healthy path to find oneself on. To obsess over women is to avoid one's self.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/22 09:54 PM
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one last kiss [spits out beverage] —What, now? That should be the title of the romance novel you write about your amorous adventure: One Last Kiss.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/22 09:32 AM
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Here's how this works. If you open a page in TheRedPill and start reading a post here... then find it poorly written, written by a noob, or in any other way beneath your standards... just stop reading. Click the close box. Exit the page. Whining about the behavior of others and trying to get them to change to suit you is what feminists do at a women's march. Men have autonomy and agency, and exercise both to address issues that crop up. See? You learned something valuable here after all!
/r/TheRedPill09/05/22 04:34 PM
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I clicked the link but just got a blank screen on spotify.com. Perhaps I should point out I'm not a spotify user.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 09:27 AM
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Let's say an alpha bro feels like his nose is going to start running, or that he has a sneeze coming on. He goes up to a couple of chicks, says, "Hey, anybody got a tissue?" The blonde hands him one. He says, thanks, and walks the fuck away. Without even trying, he's accomplished a lot with these girls: he's established himself, so they now know him (sort of.) And by walking away, he's let them know he's not thirsty - - and that their sexual attraction has no power over him. Later, he sees the b…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 08:43 AM
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I guess this is one way to go through life. For myself, I prefer to be a man of honor, living a life grounded in truth. Thinking about this, I realize the only time I ever lie is when telling the truth would needlessly hurt someone. Any gains I might get by lying or cheating are not worth having. I'm reminded of that guy who was a mediocre college athlete who now "identifies as a woman" and has become a champion female swimmer. Great. "She" won a big trophy, but at the cost of honor and integrit…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/22 05:35 PM
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Still, that should be enough for you to show you did her work. She should get bounced for plagiarism, since she took personal credit for the work of another. And you could just be straight with the college's ethics department: tell them you did all that work because you thought you were developing a romantic relationship with her but as soon as she got her high grade, she dumped you and blocked you, and has slandered you. Also, I doubt it would even be necessary to take it this far, but I'll bet…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 08:46 PM
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Here's a thought: do you still have all the first drafts of the journals you wrote for her? And copies of the text messages from her (and your responses) which acknowledge that you were writing her papers? You could collate that into a huge document, print it all out, and submit it to her university. She has actively damaged your reputation. You should do the same to her. Stand up for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 05:43 PM
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Why would I even keep a girl around if she’s not fuck yes about me? Guys do that because the chick is so hot. Their desire for that specific woman overpowers them. The secret is to not give a fuck. It's good gamesmanship to project to the woman that you don't give a fuck-- because that may intrigue her. But infinitely more important is it to truly not give a fuck. That's for you. For your peace of mind, and your frame. "Hey, you wanna leave with me? I'm gonna have a good time whether you do or n…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/22 08:54 AM
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"these girls really move fast, judging you only on the first date. As if they know we’ll live happily ever after, only after knowing each other for 3 hours. " They're not checking you out as a long-term partner, OP. You had it right before: it's about sexual attraction. They know within the first few minutes if you're someone they'd want to bang or not. And in your case, it's apparently been "or not." The question is, why? Go down the list: do you have a handsome face? Are you physically fit? (N…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 06:58 PM
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"Counselling" is giving advice. "Therapy" is healing. Most "therapists" these days are actually counselors. "You should quit that job. They don't appreciate what a special person you are!" etc., blowing smoke up your ass. They may be well-intentioned (or not) but it's not therapeutic. Back before psychiatry degenerated into simply writing prescriptions there was a type of therapy where the practitioner simply helped you direct your thoughts: You: My old man never understood me! Therapist: He nev…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 04:57 PM
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Don't see how all this whinging about feminism and about how men are disadvantaged in dating is supposed to make me more masculine or better with women. You are correct. You don't see how that information helps. You apparently want to tailor the Red Pill to just tips and tricks for getting laid. Perhaps you'd be better served by a PUA community, if there is such a thing online. The purpose of those sections that you characterize as men "whinging about feminism" is for readers to understand and a…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/22 04:26 PM
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If you're planning on going to med school, becoming a doctor, then going off into the world to create a cool life for yourself, what the fuck are you doing by playing at being married with this current girl? You shouldn't have girlfriends, i.e., relationships. You should be dating girls for fun with =no= expectations of any commitment whatsoever. I understand it's more comforting to have someone you can cuddle with and watch a movie... but that leads to entanglement. It's one thing if you were j…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/22 08:38 PM
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I think you're onto something, OP. People talk here about "outcome independence" and the IDGAF (I Don't Give A Fuck) attitude, but I often think what they mean is to feign having outcome independence so women won't see you as desperate (like every normal guy.) And the IDGAF vibe is to demonstrate aloofness. So much of the motivation here is all about getting women! Personally, I think the true Red Pill is about becoming one's own authentic self, then living as that self. If you're working at dev…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/22 06:11 AM
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If you start reading a post and find it unhelpful, you can just stop reading and go look at something else. You don't have to get all judge-y about it. Then again, I did get all judge-y about your comment, didn't I?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/22 05:23 PM
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It's a field report. A report about what happened in a real world encounter. Not a spy thriller with a twist ending.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/22 08:23 AM
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will it see the massive damage it has caused and do a U-turn Nobody does that! It's not in human nature to recognize our own errors, take responsibility for them, and correct them. Usually, when we start to see that we were wrong about something, psychological mechanisms within ourselves kick in to protect our egos by blinding us about our wrongness, and we fight any critics all the more vociferously. What got me off this track was learning to write computer software. In the earlier computer lan…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/22 07:42 AM
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He's pretty deep into an IDGAF mindset No, he isn't. He cares about this and that's why he's posting about it. Dude, you are completely wrong! When clarifying his position because of this exchange, OP literally says, "Sex is cool but not exactly what I’m after in life..." That's about as IDGAF about his interactions with women as you can get. ​ You need to pay attention to what people actually write rather than jumping to incorrect conclusions. Uh...
/r/TheRedPill06/02/22 04:53 PM
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getting the hot alpha monkey-sex Not every guy has the same motivations as you do. OP on his own has "leveled up" enough to have women pursuing him. He's hooked up with what he describes as "beautiful women" but finds the experience not worth the trouble. He's pretty deep into an IDGAF mindset. That, perhaps, is as valid to him as a horndog poon-hound mindset is valid to you, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/22 11:40 PM
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you're stuck seeking validation from others. The only way to fix this? Gain the validation from yourself. That's basically all you need to know- - all any of us needs to know.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 07:42 PM
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Most of what you said is generic advice, It was good advice, and stuff OP needs to hear, and think about. The fuck is wrong with you?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 07:37 PM
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Yes, I think so. Look up "outcome independence" and IDGAF. Actually, I believe they just expand upon what I said above. The main tools are in what I wrote. Stop giving a shit what anyone other than you thinks! Until you do that, all those people have power over you. Fuck that! Seize your own power. Own your own destiny.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 06:14 PM
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OP, you're being handed a powerful self-development tool on a silver platter here. That tool is the IDGAF mindset. Your reality is, you used to be an irresponsible asshole. Now you're not. YOU know that. And yours is the only opinion that matters. So why do you Give A Fuck (GAF) what some women think and say about you? Why the hell are you giving them the power to affect your feelings? Some here have actually suggested that you go up to these people and tell them that what they say has hurt your…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 03:40 PM
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"Outcome independence" is to be employed here, where you're fully engaged in the moment of the interaction, not fixated on whether it will lead to pussy later. The mindset is IDGAF -- "I Don't Give A Fuck". In other words, "I don't give a fuck whether I leave with her or not. If I do and she fucks me, cool. If not and I leave alone, also cool. I'm okay either way." You're just about enjoying the pleasure of being yourself, riffing with some chick. That takes away the vibe of desperation so many …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/22 08:20 PM
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I know people here are giving you shit about your long story, OP, but - - if nothing less - - I found it very well written. That's actually part of your problem: you romanticized your attraction to this girl, and you even romanticized yourself in the role of the Hapless Victim Who Learned Only Too Late that the girl of his dreams was a superficial phony. But you know what, OP? You're a superficial phony, too. You deserved everything that happened to you. Here's how I know: in your story, you saw…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:14 PM
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Then why does the side bar talk at length about shit tests? ...Because it's a journey, and it takes place in stages. You're saying to this young dude, "Hey, kid-- you're an asshole for not being at the finish line already!" For fuck's sake, guys...
/r/TheRedPill25/12/21 03:56 PM
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Don't listen to this shit, young dude. Just keep improving.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/21 03:53 PM
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Be more succinct yourself, theraymondred. You going on and on about how this noobie is a failure is as weak as puppy piss. We get it. Noobie is a noobie. You're a bad-ass red pill-er.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/21 03:49 PM
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While I think getting a degree can be a very positive thing, and will add to your SMV, if you're all about independence and wealth-building, your "side hustle" will provide a straighter path to wealth. Think about it: unless you have a PhD, how much you make as a psychologist will be entirely dependent upon what the market determines - - and the market is flooded with people who graduated college with the same degree as yours. Your salary will be determined by the institutions that hire you. But…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 05:53 PM
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I have a friends with a MSW degree. She knows women with that same degree who are still living with roommates because a.) the salaries are low, and b.) they're all paying off student debt for the degrees they got. The sane way to pay for college: In many states there are inexpensive junior colleges (community colleges) which offer Associates Degrees, with the proviso that if you graduate with a certain grade level or above, you automatically qualify for one of the state colleges or state univers…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/21 08:51 AM
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you need to be able to stand out from the crowd Why? So that other people will recognize that you're special? That you're awesome? Why on earth would you give a flying fuck what other people think of you?! The only person whose opinion matters is you, yourself. Do you like being you? Great. Are there things about yourself you don't enjoy? Cool. Change them. Or don't change them! There is no ideal you are required to live up to, unless you set it for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/21 09:21 PM
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have the milfs come pick you up lol You know, this isn't a half-bad idea! We know the character arc: chick in her twenties on the cock carousel with AFs, biological clock ticking, married a BB and is a mom at 30, at 37 she's divorced the BB and is back on the town, looking for wild sex. The younger AF don't want her cuz they've got 20 year-olds. Where can OP meet these horny divorcées? That'll give him experience banging bitches and once he's not all freaked about about the process of hooking up…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 06:22 AM
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Yeah, not what I was talking about. Then what are you talking about? The opening premise of your comment is telling somebody they're lucky to be in a situation where he can avoid taking care of his kids. Are you championing a "traditional" father role, where the dad is a somewhat remote figure, always at work, not spending time with his kids because he's too busy, too important, and serves mainly as a figurehead, modeling the strong silent Alpha male? I've got news for you. To help guide a young…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 06:36 PM
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Raising my son was the most rewarding thing I ever did in my life. And the most challenging. Now he's 36, married with a family of his own, and has the highest level government security clearance. I only have an inkling of what he actually does as an engineer, but I know the department he's in helps deter other nations from attacking us. Being a "baby daddy" who has offspring and then allows women to "entertain them" while they grow up as mindless little savages is not something a man does.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 03:55 PM
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Another reply, Anon_Actual_01, would have been: "Yeah, I see what you mean, JamesSkepp. You're right, and I was wrong. Thanks for pointing that stuff out - - I learned something valuable today, and that makes me better able to meet life on its own terms. Thank you."
/r/TheRedPill06/11/21 03:44 PM
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I agree, meerita. These guys who fixate on game are examples of the gyno-centrism mentioned in OPs post. It's all about the women... which hands their power over to said women. If your focus is on yourself, however, that changes everything. Instead of adopting behaviors meant to impress women you focus on impressing yourself, you naturally develop "outcome independence." In other words, when you're chatting up some chick at a bar, you're just out to enjoy the unfolding of the moments. UDGAF if s…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 01:06 PM
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You do you, buddy. Let OP do OP. He found his way, and shared it here. Your experience may differ from his, so why project it onto him? "You do things differently, so you're a sperg." If you're consciously trying to increase your SMV, then you haven't yet learned IDGAF. OP worked on himself - - for himself! He revealed that in the part where he said no one could see that he lifted when he was in street clothes. He had internalized his increase in value. Instead of working it, he just is - - and …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/21 09:35 PM
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expecting a better outcome the next time And that's the exact opposite of "outcome independence." It's quite literally outcome dependence. And it signifies that you are operating deep within the game: "I did x, y, and z, but didn't get laid. Hmm... next time, I'll do w, x and z and see if that produces the desired outcome." To some men, the goal is not to win at the game, but to beat the game altogether. "Why should I give a fuck if I bang this chick later or not? These are just silly little mat…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 05:33 AM
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I don't mean to be offensive, OP, but... you have completely missed the point of the Hero's Journey. Your piece touches only upon its outward and least important aspects: the hero leaves his comfortable world, goes off into the unknown on a quest for "attractive resources", encounters and overcomes obstacles along the way, but is successful and brings those resources back to his original tribe. Okay, but how does he overcome those obstacles? Beset by misfortunes and imposing enemies, meeting the…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 03:12 AM
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The poor bastard is sharing his awakening epiphany. He'd evidently read some red pill philosophy and dismissed it. The girl on the pedestal did everything that the red pill warned she would do ...and now the guy finally sees it. He's butt hurt and pissed. From his pathetic tale, he made every mistake in the book (oneitis, HGAF, monkey branching, etc.) so he's at Step One in the How Not To Be A Cuck lesson book. But at least he recognizes his fuckup and is ready to start learning. \HGAF = He Gave…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 07:29 AM
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Your father did his part better than most fathers out there. Just because OP's dad wasn't as big of a piece of shit as worse fathers is no endorsement of the kind of father he actually was. Why do people here have trouble hearing what OP said? He reported that his father was watching TV and smoking cigarettes, not engaging with his son. Once again, here are OP's words: My dad may have been financially and physically present in the home, but as far as being there and RAISING ME, DISCIPLINING ME, …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 06:19 AM
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Ignore the cues that she’s uncomfortable. Jeez, dude, your reading comprehension is pretty abysmal. Reread the story, m'kay? A.) He takes the chick out on a date. Everything seems cool between them, but she doesn't respond. Hmmm? B.) Takes her on a second date to see if the first one was a fluke. No, it apparently wasn't a fluke. She evidently doesn't dig him. He's, like, "Cool. Whatever!" Instead of just hoping out of there, he writes her a polite message, saying, "I had a fun time with you but…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/21 04:48 AM
1

I'm not going to beat around the bush. What, now?
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:44 AM
1

I see the point you're making about it being kinda stupid to quit a job that pays you so well. The problem is, the job doesn't stimulate you, challenge you. Even your comfortable life is a problem in that there's nothing in it that helps you develop character, find your deeper inner resources, inspire you. That's why you don't have anything interesting to talk about.
/r/seduction15/08/21 03:27 PM
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About you and girls: a lot of guys take girls out on dates, spend money on them, listen to what they want to talk about, buy them dinner, etc., hoping the girls will like them. Cool guys are guys who have fun and do interesting things. Instead of asking a woman on a date, if you say, "Hey, me and some people are going down to the lake at midnight to go skinny-dipping. If you wanna come, be outside in, like, fifteen minutes!" Girls are all about the feels, man! They want fun, excitement, stimulat…
/r/seduction15/08/21 07:08 AM
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I think the whole story is in your original post. That girl you were talking about? She's had a really hard life, a really challenging life - - but she meets those challenges! She works her ass off, but provides for herself, even including owning her own car. She's engaging life, and the stimulation of facing difficulties and solving them has made her develop character. It's character that makes people interesting. You, on the other hand, aren't really living life. You're existing. You have a cu…
/r/seduction15/08/21 06:37 AM
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Why do you think the women are winning? Why on earth would you give a flying fuck about what people with vaginas are doing? Who gives a shit what other people think, say, or do? The only opinion that should matter to you is your own. You're here on this planet to master yourself, my friend. Everything else is vanity.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/21 07:44 AM
1

Thanks for taking the time to share all your insight about Colombia, friend. Very considerate of you.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/21 03:58 AM
1

men are still expect to perform. Produce. Provide. Be accountable. Have ambition. Men require these traits of themselves, not because others expect them.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 09:21 PM
1

bench your mom. "Okay, Mrs. Hammersmith, you missed your last two free throws. Imma bench you for the rest of the game. Get your head in the game! Another performance like today's and imma bounce you off the team!"
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 09:07 PM
4

However, this is a forum about sexual strategy No, this is TRP, not PUA. A lot of guys find TRP because they don't know how to get laid, but the "sexual strategy" aspect is just one part of TRP. Once someone coming here learns how to stop being a loser, and learns how to get in good shape, take care of himself, and how to present himself to the world in a way that makes him successful with women, the real work begins: he starts to learn what it means to be a man. So, go back and re-read OP's pos…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/21 05:34 AM
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"I thought my mind was like a camera, observing the reality of a situation, in reality it was like a projector." One of the most illuminating things I've ever read. Thank you for that, OP!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/21 06:35 PM
1

your looks matter a lot, I’m not gonna lie. That might not be a lie, but it's wrong information. A lot of guys come to TRP when where they really belong is some PUA site. Their main focus - -to the point of obsession- - is getting laid. Getting girls to value them enough to fuck them. They seek advice on how to look, what to wear, what to say, how to act, what kind of car to drive, etc., all focused on women. You know what that reminds me of? Like, Cosmo, or some other women's magazine. "Get a F…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/21 09:01 PM
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dude goes from drug dealing to bagging bread Yeah, but he's got that sweet third shift time slot, so . . . /s
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 03:54 PM
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I agree. At your age, being "socialized" takes on an outsized proportion. People compare themselves constantly to other people, trying to figure out where they are on the ladder of social hierarchy. It seems of supreme importance that other people think highly of them. In the red pill mindset, there's the acronym IDGAF which stands for "I Don't Give A Fuck." Does that person like me? I don't give a fuck! Do the people in my group respect me? I don't give a fuck! If I approach this girl, will she…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/21 04:49 AM
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You're still attached to outcomes, ISCORED. With you, it's all about what'll get you chicks or - not - get you chicks. When you're talking with a woman, you're thinking, "If I say X will she be attracted to me? Or will she reject me? I want to say the right things, that'll increasingly get her to want me to fuck her." You're attached to the outcome of the conversation: will it get you laid? Or will she walk? That's where IDGAF comes in. What if you Did Not Give A Fuck if she bangs you later or n…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 09:19 PM
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A big part of the "devaluing" process is the Red Pill phenomenon of IDGAF -- I Don't Give A Fuck. If you're in the presence of some woman who's so super hot your desire for her makes you weak, then you've given your power away. With enough progress in your thinking, your reaction to her might become, "Man, this chick is a total smoke-show! I would love to fuck this woman... but I'm not going to let my happiness be contingent upon me banging her later or not. My goal is to enjoy being in my own s…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 05:47 AM
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Some men actually put a lot of thought into everything they do. They come to the Red Pill when they finally realize that what the culture around them had taught them to think was wrong and led them into behavior that was unfulfilling, unsatisfying, not authentic to their true nature. As such, they truly profit from the ways of thinking that they learn here. It starts from unlearning old, bad ideas, then learning strategies for banging bitches. After awhile, some men aren't satisfied just by gett…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 05:34 AM
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Nope. It was a skill she'd learned as a professional. How do I know that? Because I learned it myself, following her example. It's about recognizing reality: if somebody's yelling (or crying, laughing, whatever) that's their thing, not yours. You're not responsible for what's in their head. You're in charge of what's in your own head. A variation on IDGAF develops from this mindset. If you're upset with me, that's your deal, not mine. Therefore, I Don't Give A Fuck if you're mad at me or not. I'…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 06:45 AM
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I would've called it out straight away or walked away ...thus showing that you actually Gave A Fuck about the stupid shit coming out of some dumb bitch's mouth. Enough to cause you to react! Dude, don't get defensive about my pointing this out. Learn from it. If you're affected one way or another by the things people say - -good or bad!- - it means your frame is weak. Your emotions are influencing you too much. Decades ago, I was disagreeing with my therapist about dealing with other people. I s…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/21 07:11 AM
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makeup can mean .... even a natural looking full face. In other words, to look more attractive than you actually look, but as though you weren't wearing makeup. You claim you wear makeup to look like you didn't just wake up and are tired. Just brush your hair, and you won't look like you just got out of bed. As for the "tired" look? That's your face. That's how you actually look. As for wanting to make yourself look "presentable"... what does that matter? Why should it matter how you look when y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 07:05 PM
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Don't talk about Red Pill ideas with other guys unless they've given clear indication they're already down with TRP too, and even then, only in private. Practice the manly art of Shutting The Fuck Up. Your mission is to master yourself, while learning to extract from this world the resources you need and the pleasures you want.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 04:20 PM
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Jeez, you're having a hard time understanding what happened here! Read my words: this is not about you having a preference and verbalizing it. It's about you saying that people with a different preference (swimsuit models) are perverts! That's not you voicing your opinion. It's you demonizing other people! If you'd said, "I don't like swimsuit models. They're scrawny and frail, and that's not sexy to me." Cool. That's your opinion of those women. Instead, you were criticizing the guys who do pre…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/21 06:03 PM
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"it's perfectly okay for you to have your own preferences." You're not doing that! You're judging the other guy's preference, criticizing it for being low-key perverted. The hypocrisy was in you saying in your essay that it's okay to have preferences, then telling guys who like swim-suit models that not only are their preferences actually not okay but they themselves are "low-key pee-doughfiles". You kidding me? Admit you're wrong, learn from it and move on, bro'.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 05:18 PM
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I assert the dudes who are into the swim-suit models are low-key pee-doughfiles Your whole essay leads to the culminating point that "it's perfectly okay for you to have your own preferences" ...and then you go ahead and accuse guys who have a different preference from you of being Jared-from-Subways. That's as hypocritical as you can get. What if I said, "Any guy who likes banging thicc black chicks is a racist white supremacist acting out twisted master/slave fantasies." ? See? Not cool.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 03:52 PM
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the worth of a man is measured by his success with women. OP wasn't interested in the woman as a conquest he could show off to his friends. He was interested in her because he found her attractive. She looked like someone he'd like to strike up a conversation with. Learning how to interact with potential romantic partners is an aspect of the adventure of being alive. Anybody who uses the phrase "socially calibrated" is someone who views life as sets of various procedures put forth and ordained b…
/r/seduction10/02/21 06:05 PM
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The greatest shooter of all time is the friends you make along the way.
/r/seduction10/02/21 05:33 PM
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That's the ticket right there! If you want to 'murder them' it means their opinions have power over you. There's a term for that: bitch. You're still their bitch if you give a rat's ass what they think. Pro tip: don't GAF what anybody thinks about you! The only opinion that matters is your own. Want the other kool guys to like you, to listen to what you say? Then you're their bitch! Fuck that.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/21 08:42 AM
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Trump supporters literally stormed the capitol in an attempt to overturn a democratic election based on a lie it was stolen. Yeah, that's not what happened, at all. Among the Trump supporters, some yahoos who craved the excitement of mayhem committed stupid crimes. That was not a concerted effort to overturn the election. It was not a coup. It was not an insurrection. And the people testifying that day weren't saying, "The election was bogus!" No, they were saying, "We would like a ten-day foren…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/21 10:16 PM
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He lied that the election was stolen in order to whip up morons who believe anything he says, despite his own appointed judges declaring a complete and total lack of evidence of fraud. It's not the place of judges to declare a lack of evidence. That's for juries of citizens to decide. A case goes to trial, evidence is presented, both sides make their arguments and then juries decide what they believe is true. That process has been avoided in this situation. Sixty or seventy cases have been attem…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/21 05:55 PM
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Well, friend, in time you should be able to untangle the Gordian Knot. I wish you every success.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/21 08:52 AM
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With all due respect, OP --and I mean that literally-- I don't think you're getting it. You appear to be adopting TRP principles in the same brick-by-brick manner in which you built up your BP arsenal of nice-guy skills that seemed right to you... but failed you dismally. For me, being exposed to TRP truths was more like a Zen enlightenment-- my "conversion" required no longer that the seconds it took to read the words and understand their meaning. "Holy shit! Really? ...So that's what was happe…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/21 07:34 AM
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I see you're getting a bunch of "Hey, fuck you, OP!" comments. My guess is that these are men who are stuck at the level where getting laid is still of supreme importance. They're fixated on pussy: how can I get some? If I'm getting some, how can I get more? Why did other guys get pussy when I was in high school, but not me? What was I doing wrong? How can I fix that in order start getting as much pussy as those cool guys did back then? Their focus remains on "sexual strategy" and as such, I bel…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 06:14 PM
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Thanks Mona Just for clarity, I'm a guy. "monadyne" is a combination of "monad" (something with but one component) and "dyne" (power.)
/r/TheRedPill29/12/20 07:19 AM
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I've known "smooth operator" type guys, with nice clothes, stylish cars, etc., who got laid a lot-- the kind of dudes who use breath mints. But the guy I knew who slayed pussy was the absolute opposite. He was actually ugly-- I mean, he had an ugly face. Not attractive. To make it worse, he was bald but with long stringy hair hanging down from the sides. He wasn't fat fat, but he was pudgy with kind of a beer gut. He was a house painter, so often had paint spatters on his clothes. And yet, hot c…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 07:46 PM
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What's funny about this is that the "vaccine" doesn't result in immunity-- like a normal vaccine would. So, if you get vaccinated and you go to a bar, you can still get the coronavirus from another "vaccinated" patron then bring it home and infect grandma with it, killing her. There will be a mass sense of relief and a feeling that "We've gotten past the pandemic! Whew!" ...built upon a misunderstanding that the vaccine conveys immunity.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 07:21 PM
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So, the Red Pill is all about sexual strategy? Look at all the stuff men put themselves through to "attract women": lifting, eating a clean diet, buying nice clothes and accessories, becoming successful at a career, etc. All that to make a favorable impression upon... women? That sounds like the kind of shit chicks do. What ever happened to IDGAF? Why should you give a fuck what anybody else thinks of you, male or female? Jeez, guys. Just go about your business. If you want to impress somebody, …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 08:15 AM
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What is a man if not a master manipulator? A man is a creator. He casts his own destiny, creates his own reality. If what you get from life is the result of manipulating others, you're cheating your way to the goal line. If others stand in your way, meet them honorably, and defeat them honorably as well. Win fair and square, or lose-- and learn from the errors you made. The entirety of the process is the life well-lived.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 06:41 AM
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Hey, karnamansplainer, don't pay any attention to these backseat drivers. You knew your own mind, did what you felt you should do. I mean, listen to this nonsense: "Maintaining peace at the cost of your frame and dignity is not worth maintaining." He actually thinks you finally swatting the nose of a human Paris Hilton yappy dog somehow could cost a man his frame and his dignity. This is a guy who actually gives a fuck what others around him think of him. A man just goes about his business.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/20 06:30 AM
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Thank you for venting, OP! Thank you for shedding light on this, bringing attention to it. I, too, have seen posts which have resulted in my saying, what the fuck?!! in disbelief. I understand the desperation some men have that led them to TRP: broken-hearted from a oneitis situation, or frustrated because they're lonely and can't get girls to go out on dates with them, let alone fuck them. PUA offers quick remedies in the short term, while TRP offers deeper, long-term solutions by educating men…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 07:41 PM
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One way to attempt to win an argument is to exaggerate your opponent's position to the point of absurdity... then show how absurd that exaggerated position is. This ploy is used by people who either are unable to understand the opponent's idea, or don't have the ability to refute it on its lack of merit. It's a tactic employed by weak-minded individuals and can be quite successful in swaying the opinions- -of other weak minded individuals.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 07:23 PM
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This is a specious argument. To use your metaphor, don't go to a Maserati dealership if all you want is a Honda. If all you care about is how to "get girls" then go to PUA resources. If you want mastery, use the infinitely deeper and more advanced TRP resources.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 07:17 PM
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OP has a delusion of what this sub is and has always been about. A shift in men's thinking about women began with Pick Up Artistry, but that then evolved into The Red Pill, hence the name: if you "take the red pill," your entire perception of reality changes. It's a philosophical movement. It's also, in its way, a psychological movement in that what's discussed here will tend to heal the damage that living in a social system where the real rules and conditions are hidden or distorted can cause, …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 07:13 PM
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the few you see in real life. There's your answer: real life. The people in your real life are the ones who'll come get you when some asshole T-bones your truck at 2 a.m. And it's not the ones that say, "Ah fuck! I just got into bed, and it's snowing! ...Oh, well...", it's the ones that say, "Hang tight. Be there in twenty. -click!-" Would your Facebook friends be up for a mission like that? ...I didn't think so.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/20 07:29 AM
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share notes on sexual strategy That's exactly what this post does. OP shows how the appeal of Beauty and the Beast to women reveals their subconscious desires which are often in conflict with their own understanding of themselves. He concludes with: "You need to get in touch with your inner beast. Find this masculinity within yourselves and learn to hone in its abilities." This shows that his entire purpose of the revelation was to provide men with an insight which will help them in their sexual…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 08:14 PM
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I am in the top 5-10% in terms of income and net worth. In comparison, an average-looking pale THOT can jump on OnlyFans and immediately earn more money than a top tier male wage earner. There's nothing wrong with that situation-- that's pure capitalism for you, and it sure beats any alternatives. And if you think about it, OP, I'll bet you don't really have a problem with it at all: if you think it's unfair that she makes as much in three hours on OnlyFans as I do working eight hours a day... a…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/20 07:41 AM
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I think as long as you're getting them talking about their passions and joys, that's great. But if they start talking about their problems, or their day, then you run the risk of them turning you into the equivalent of a Gay Best Friend. That's the kiss of death. "There's this girl I work with? Sally? Well, anyway, Sally is all, like, 'can you do my shift?' and I'm, like, 'Sally, I did your shift last week!' and she's, like, 'Puh-leeeeze do my shift?' and I'm, like---" [etc.] If you start hearin…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 07:07 AM
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Find it in the side bar. And don't say "pleaseeee" like a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/20 07:01 AM
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Here's why I'm not worried about you at all, OP: I can tell you're going to be okay. How? Because you've shown you have what it takes: brains and balls. Men fix problems. Men create solutions. The first step toward success is to identify problems, and that's exactly what you've done. You've identified what's wrong in your life, and you're aware enough to figure out what the causes were (shitty childhood, maltreatment, etc.) You've also figured out that you don't want to perpetuate the crappy con…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 06:45 PM
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This is right, OP. While regular talk therapy might well help, it usually takes a long time to produce results. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps in a much more direct way.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 05:44 PM
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If some random guy touched my hip with out my permission I'd freeze up and wouldn't be able to talk AT ALL because I have PTSD! People dancing to loud music is not an appropriate time to be verbal/cerebral. Some guy lightly putting his hand on a woman's hip while dancing is a non-verbal gesture. If she's into it, she'll respond favorably. If she's really into it she'll back up and grind her ass on the dude's lyndon baines. If she's not into it, she'll just sidle away. Bear in mind, this is just …
/r/TheRedPill10/12/20 06:18 AM
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Sure, observe macro trends-- both social and economic-- so you can maintain your awareness of the reality in which you find yourself. But as for giving a fuck about any of it? Why should it matter to you what other people are thinking or doing? Figure out what you want to accomplish, then accomplish it on your own. You don't need the approval, support, or permission of anybody other than yourself. But that applies to others-- you don't need to approve of, support, or give permission to others...…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/20 08:02 AM
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If you're talking about self-respect, I'm totally with you. However, if you're talking about garnering the respect of others... why give a fuck what other people think--- about you or any other topic? That's none of your business anyway. People have the right to think whatever the hell they want to think. Why should that matter to you? "Well, I want that person's respect because.... [it's a chick I want to bang, a boss I want to impress favorably, it's a car dealer who I want to convince he can'…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 07:44 AM
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Nobody is stopping free speech and censorship only exists when the government does it. A business can determine what they allow and won't allow according to their own needs. Somebody is stopping free speech -- and censorship exists -- when a moderator removes a comment because she doesn't agree with the politics it reflects. Because of the First Amendment such things are only protected against by law when the government attempts them, but free speech can be stopped, and censorship can exist, on …
/r/TheRedPill19/11/20 02:51 PM
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"women are shit", "whores", etc., is an understandable phase for someone to go through when they first realize that the creatures they had been taught to believe were special princesses aren't that at all. Learning something monumental doesn't occur in one quantum bump. "Aah! I just read a couple of posts in the sidebar. So, 'all women are like that', eh? 'Alpha fux and beta bux"? Who woulda guessed! Okay... got it!" This woman-hating phase is something some men -- not just "kids" but grown men,…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/20 04:03 PM
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muricanwerewolf1 is right: if the source of your feeling good is outside yourself, i.e., from this girl, or from people's approval/validation of you, then you're missing the point of TRP. You need to learn to feel good just being yourself. And the only approval that matters is if you approve of/accept/validate yourself. The confidence you gain from being yourself will attract others to you. And if it doesn't? Who gives a fuck?! The only opinion that counts is your own. The start of this journey …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:31 PM
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I disagree. Strongly. Double talk? Power talk? Sounds like you're trying to manipulate outcomes. There's no other reason to indulge in such deceptive wordplay. Be a man of honor and integrity. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Whether others respond favorably or unfavorably is irrelevant. The only person whose opinion matters is you.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 06:27 AM
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If you commit an error --or even not an error, a deliberate act-- that damages another person or their property, own that shit and apologize. "Apologizing is a mild form of self hatred and a manifestation of low self esteem." Are you kidding me? If it's sincere, it's the exact opposite! It shows you're man enough to own up to your mistakes, that you take full responsibility for your actions-- however they turn out, good or bad. If you're put on the spot and your response is "...a mistake may hav…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/20 06:21 AM
1

The real random strangers online are the friends you make along the way.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 02:16 PM
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Let me get this straight: you're saying OP should have fucked this psycho?? What ever happened to Don't stick your dick in crazy? Why should OP expose himself to potential danger, just for some pussy?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/20 09:27 PM
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I don't believe it's a question of "mistreating" women, as that suggests malevolence on the part of men. Generally speaking, women are motivated by sensations/feelings/emotions. A man who provides opportunities that spark such feelings creates attraction. Even negative emotions are still, after all, emotions and as such, are stimulating and, therefore, enticing. A woman may be perceptive enough to realize that so-called bad boys are bad choices, and that there are men who are kind, attentive, ap…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 05:04 AM
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What makes a male-bonding friendship gay? Sharing weaknesses. Sharing fears. And validating such mind-states. What makes it not gay? Bonding with other men in overcoming weaknesses and fears. Sure, men can function together as "teams" ---if it's an aggregation of individuals, manhood isn't compromised. If a team becomes a collective, managed by consensus... then go pick out a comfy tampon because you're a woman. Many years ago, I was in a men's support group. All the men in the group, myself inc…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 04:42 AM
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The handful of men who are rp aware isn't enough to change the tide that's running now. Bitches are in command these days in ways they never were, and that's being supported by The Culture and The Mainstream Narrative. Look at any modern drama or action show: the lead is portrayed as a competent, kick-ass woman. Men are subordinate to her. Look at "families" as defined by modern culture: very often it's a mom as the breadwinner -and- the nurturer. Men are superfluous. Grown-ass men are off screw…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 04:08 AM
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"eMotion is energy in motion. And like all energy, if directed at the right target, it becomes incredibly useful. If energy is properly and proctively put to use, peace and abundance will be the results." While what you said about energy being directed toward certain targets may be somewhat true, the initial premise, that emotion is somehow "energy in motion" is, perhaps, a clever use of words... but makes no sense. Emotions are feelings. Some emotions such as fear and rage may seem to trigger a…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/20 09:32 PM
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Socrates (a wise old man) is talking to his friend (Hippothales) Specifically, they're talking about a young boy named Lysis.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/20 05:51 PM
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Not like my therapist, Sandra. Twenty years ago in therapy, best lesson I ever learned. I was bitching. “I’m sick of hearing these people say ‘You are responsible for your feelings and emotions.’ That’s bullshit. If somebody’s yelling in your face that’s going to affect how you feel!!” Sandra looked at me with a kind of sad smile and said, “Jack, someone could be yelling in ~my~ face and it wouldn’t affect how I feel.” I knew in that instant she was absolutely right. I could visualize a client s…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/20 11:03 AM
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It’s not your fault though, it’s mine for reacting Based. Somebody who gets it.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 10:55 PM
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Raise them with a father in the house.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 10:45 PM
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Nobody’s gonna take me to court for something I didn’t do. What?! Are you delusional, bro'? There are a million stories of men falsely accused of rape going to prison. "Yeah, but that can't happen to me because I'm a bad ass!!" Keep tellin' yourself that, pal.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 07:12 PM
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I'm not sure why, but a lot of guys here assume that your situation is exactly the same as their situation, then criticize you for not doing what they do. Whatever. It's like the mind game, "What Number Am I Thinking Of?" Q: What number am I thinking of? A: 322 ? Q: Nope! What number am I thinking of? A: 77 ? Q: Sorry, not that! What number am I thinking of? A: 4199 ? Q: No. ...In other words, no answer you ever supply will be right. The only way to win the game is to stop playing it.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 07:08 PM
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I think it's projecting to imagine that this gal was already scouting out another dude. From OP's report, it seems clear that this woman has some mental issues around sex. Religious upbringing? Weird shit at home growing up? Who knows... But she's at war in her own head over it, part of her wanting sex, another part feeling horrible about sex. AWALT but not all women are identically krazy.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 06:59 PM
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OP, I don't think your brothers here at TRP are recognizing the danger that women of today pose. She now has the power to rewrite the reality of the past by claiming that you raped her, when in fact she was consenting all along. And she'll be believed by cops, peers, society- -meaning you'll be disbelieved. Look what happened to you: she initiated phone sex, was really into it. She goaded you along, and you followed (not wanting to reject her.) Then, after the lust of the moment was satisfied, h…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 06:46 PM
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Good on ya, lad! I wish you every success with your examination.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/20 06:19 PM
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She might actually have something scheduled at that time, in which case you'll be dropping her needlessly. But you do need to find out if she's willing to meet with you. Also, if you make it for a definite time, it'll come off as you trying to set up a locked-in date which could look needy. Maybe try this: "Hey, we should hang out! I'm free any afternoon from Wednesday to Friday. You want to get coffee or something?" It's chill, loose, and you don't sound needy. And because the times are vague, …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 06:09 AM
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When I was a young guy in my 20's, I was crashing at a hippie house with a bunch of other people. There was an amazing woman there named Ramona. She had red hair and freckles, and bright blue eyes that seemed to sparkle. She was absolutely beautiful, funny, smart, never created or engaged in any drama. And she was cool as hell. Her father was a scientist and she had grown up on a remote island in the South Pacific. She was capable of anything- -fixing a pickup truck, cooking a meal for fifteen p…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 05:56 AM
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"Vulnerable" means "capable of being physically or emotionally wounded." (Mirriam Webster.) Is that what you're saying? Or do you mean something different? Maybe you just mean being open about sharing your true feelings, rather than concealing or masking them?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/20 10:15 PM
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OP isn't reacting to your post point-for-point, Dis95405, refuting what you said. He's just addressing the concept of vulnerability from a different angle than you expressed. Why don't you share with us what you mean about the "rewards" of being vulnerable?
/r/TheRedPill06/09/20 10:13 PM
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"Point 1: Never expect others to do for you, what you have for them. " Good call, CapitalRecognition. This is such a great lesson to learn. At the heart of it is the concept of a "contract." Let's say you call your buddy and say, "Hey, man, I have to move out of my apartment at the end of the month. I'll help you stack that cord of firewood you bought if you'll help me move on the 27th." If he agrees then you two have a verbal contract of an exchange of services, and it's a clear transaction. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/20 10:07 PM
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"you sound like a pussy" Really. You're the kind of guy who likes a freak show with five of your buddies in a gang bang. Okay, cool. Other guys are interested in less bizarre ways to enjoy women. That doesn't make them a pussy, or you an alpha male. I suggest you learn to show some respect for your brothers, friend.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 05:47 AM
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That's because you haven't yet had a horrifying experience with a psycho bitch. The sex would have been amazing... but the ultimate price would not have been worth it. If you can't learn this lesson from the combined wisdom of the sidebar, you'll just have to learn it from experience. Painful experience.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 05:41 AM
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The aphorism "Don't stick your dick in crazy" was arrived at by the experiences of those men who did stick their dick in crazy and lived to regret it. They have shared their wisdom here and it is wise to follow it when the situation suggests that it's relevant. Another bit of wisdom here is the IDGAF attitude. That means not getting so bent out of shape because some pussy is in the offing that you ignore the red flags you've been seeing. "I don't give a fuck about getting laid or not getting lai…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/20 05:31 AM
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Good on ya, percypepperoni! Financially independent at your age??? You're winning at Life! ...by being smart.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 04:21 AM
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I'd say, hold off for a bit, Balderdash79. Get your money together. Got anything you don't need? Sell it on eBay to convert it to cash. At some point in the next month or two, there may well be a housing crisis and that's when you'll find "motivated sellers" who are willing to get rid of their boats. After the 2008 crisis, I remember reading about how the Coast Guard in South Florida was having a problem with -all the abandoned boats- people had just walked away from, clogging up the Intracoasta…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 04:20 AM
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Hey, OP. Just something for you to think about: When the 2008 housing crash happened, I thought, "Oh, man- -the price of used sailboats is gonna go through the roof as people removed from their homes recognize the value of living cheaply on a sailboat while waiting for the economy to rebound." Wow, was I ever wrong. Amazing boats from the 80's and 90's were still going for nothing - - $5,000, $8,000... prices like that for boats that cost literally over ten times that when new. Unlike cars, whic…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 06:29 AM
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Are you saying, "Have you fucked more than 10 women?" or, "Have there been ten women that you have fucked over?" Clarity, please.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 08:55 PM
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It's not that it's "easy!" But the point is, it's not the mystery you think it is. "WHY am I a virgin?" You'll find the answers in the sidebar. You've been making errors based upon bad information. You've been conditioned to believe that women are a certain way when, in fact, they're the opposite from that. You need to learn the realities of what women are all about, how they operate, etc., and that information is in the sidebar. Also, you'll need to learn some equally enlightening stuff about y…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/18 06:17 PM
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What do you need mods for? If you don't like hearing political opinions being voiced here, why haven't you simply closed the window? I.e., stopped reading it? I'm not being rhetorical, here. I'm asking seriously: why didn't you just close the window and go look at something different?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 05:51 PM
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Thank you for your clarity and insights, and for the efficiency of your explanations. Perhaps one of the reason that Western culture was so successful was because of the repressive social order that held sway until the Sexual Revolution brought about by the arrival of The Pill. While a woman's chastity was zealously guarded by her father, her brothers and uncles and all the rest of her clan, ---and the dire admonitions of The Church--- she was unwittingly kept in blissful ignorance about how goo…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/18 06:06 AM
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changing my life because of this post; everything i needed to hear Saying thank you doesn't mean someone gets it, but saying changing my life because of this post absolutely does.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:59 PM
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Good info, changing my life because of this post; everything i needed to hear. Positivecrystal wrote that, below. For whatever reason, this post articulated the idea in a way that really got through to him. If the OP hadn't written the article, that wouldn't have happened. a_crapybara wrote: What a timely post, I was just thinking about this and how I want to have less fear guiding my decisions. Thank you. There are other responses like that. Maybe these men don't learn in the same way or at the…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 02:37 PM
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Another way of expressing what underlies outcome independence is IDGAF. The I Don't Give A Fuck attitude. Let's say you approach a woman at a bar. You start talking with her. She's obviously somebody you'd want to fuck-- you wouldn't be talking to her if she weren't. But if you have embodied the IDGAF attitude, it's because you realize that if after talking with you she wants to bang you, that'd be great... but your life, your happiness, your image of yourself-- everything that is of real value …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 06:18 AM
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In future, InconspicuousWand, if you start reading a post and it's something so familiar to you that you don't need to read it again, just close the window and move on. It obviously wasn't for you. There are some people who may benefit from the post, even if it has been stated before, here or in the sidebar. Perhaps the post is a new perspective, or is articulated in a way that actually reaches a given reader. ​ A guy goes to the doctor. Patient: "Doctor, it hurts when I raise my arm over my hea…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 05:53 AM
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I'm sorry to hear you're struggling, brother. Let's try to get some perspective: if this place gets banned, there will still be a website to go to, so all is not lost. Also --even if it were lost-- you already have what you truly need, which is the information about your situation. Keep going over the material in the sidebar. That will straighten out your thinking (if not your emotions) about why you are where you are and how yo can sanely move beyond that into a more mentally healthful mindset,…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 04:10 PM
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I disagree. These bullet points are important for understanding how to get women, but to me, TRP is not about that, it's about becoming a man, becoming your authentic self. The behaviors you learn while overcoming your initial blue pill programming and adopting red pill traits (such as improving SMV and strengthening frame) may lead there, but they are not the deepest essence of the Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 06:35 PM
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Your problem, Masakan001, is that you're rational. Your emotions may tend toward metrosexual liberal ideals and, if they were your guiding force, you'd probably be a compassionate lefty of some description. It appears, however, that your intellect, your rational mind, is in command and it steers you clear of the weak-ass traps that the liberals are caught in. I'm in a similar boat: my wife and all the people in her social set (and therefore the ones I have to deal with at parties and get-togethe…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/18 02:54 AM
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yep .... I'm a fucking idiot. TRANSLATION: Yes, I'm a human being. TRP is great strategy for negotiating interpersonal dynamics, but it can't address the phenomenon of "love." Being in love, falling in love... these are transcendent psychological states that don't conform to TRP behaviors. I'm not saying they're beneficial, or even healthy! It's far, far better to be free of emotional intimacy, especially with creatures as dangerous as females and only view them as cum receptacles. But the psych…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 11:07 PM
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I hear you saying that, OP, and I hear you talking about what a thot / ho Misty is. But tell me straight: were you actually in love with her? It sounded to me like you really treasured the time you spent with her-- if wifey weren't in the picture, would you want to spend all your time with Misty? In other words, would you want to be married to her? (Leave aside whether she'd be faithful or not; I'm asking about how you feel/felt.) Was it truly just cowardice that kept you from running off with M…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 10:48 PM
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Funny-- I had the same thought! But not as a "romance novel" in the sense that it would be structured according to the genre formula, but as a novelized version of the exact story OP told in the post, just fictionalized and expanded upon. I was pretty gripped while reading it, as it seems a lot of guys here were. I think a wide audience could relate to it, and women readers would love an insight into Misty and her cock carousel behaviors. OP can't write it, though, sadly. If he did and was truly…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 10:38 PM
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This is a complex tale of a man who, against his best intentions, fell in love with somebody. Deeply in love. Throughout it all he remained faithful to his wife and mother of his kid, but doing so was an unholy mix of honor and cowardice. He obviously loved, above everything else, spending time with Misty, just being with her, being emotionally intimate with her. And the poor bastard had to reconcile that with what an emotionally damaged whore she --his goddess-- was. Maybe there's nothing in hi…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 09:20 PM
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"very obviously" ??? Why would a young man write this? No, it's some guy telling others of his experience, mainly how after getting divorced at age 48 he's still able to pull bitches of all types. As in, "Don't give up, lads! Even if you only find yourself later in life, you can still fuck women you meet." Also, this account isn't, "Hi, I'm Thor Thundercock! Listen to how I'm a bad-ass and fuck 9/10s all night long!" He's sharing a fairly realistic account of his conquests.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 09:05 PM
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The ones who don’t take it always come back saying I was right. But when they don’t take it. I have a problem with getting pretty brutal/aggressive with them This is another "attachment to outcome" just a different form than what happens if you approach a chick in a bar and she doesn't respond the way you hoped she would. The proper mindset with the gal in the bar is IDGAF ...and I believe it's the proper mindset here, too. Your responsibility and your degree of what you have any control over en…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/18 08:25 PM
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(your instinct to be part of a male tribe) Bypassing your instinct to become subsumed into a tribe is, in fact, a good thing. Allowing yourself to become positioned within the tribe's various dominance hierarchies is contrary to your own best interests. The tribe -by its very definition of what it is- does not (indeed, cannot) care about individuals. It needs to shoehorn people into roles, and doesn't give a shit if you feel you're unsuited for the roles to which you have been assigned. That's w…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/18 05:39 PM
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Boiled down to essences, your situation is: you chose to get married young, and chose to have kids. Doing so had its inevitable toll on your wife's body. Much of your attraction to women is to physical components, and hers got blown out as a result of you having sex with her and sex doing what sex was designed to do, i.e., procreate. (I mean, it's not like she was in a car accident and that made her tits saggy.) Also, she became bitchy. Unappreciative of you, and prone to complain. Instead of fi…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 09:52 PM
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I'm saying that even a consciousness as toxic as What's-his-name's can occasionally come up with something of actual merit.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 09:29 PM
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She's not going to hit the gym if she suspects it! She's gonna hit the divorce lawyer. What woman would hear of her spouse's infidelity and think, "Oh, this must be my fault! I'll have to take responsibility and do something proactive to fix what I have caused"?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 07:18 PM
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But, I can almost say with certainty, if he did all of those things I just mentioned and became that best version of himself on all his layers, she would worship him night and day in this life and the next. WTF?? Where are you getting this stuff? You're saying that women's flaky, moody behavior is a direct result of what men fail to do, and that if men were more feminine in how they felt and expressed their emotions, women's bullshit would stop? And look at what, according to you, a man has to a…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 06:40 PM
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Where does the term "bitch" come from? It's a female dog after it has had puppies. OP has reported about the deterioration of his wife's physical attributes and what a turn-off they are. True. But to me, the main element of his report is that she turned into a nasty, hateful bitch. What if that hadn't happened? I'll bet if she had remained a loving partner to him, fun to be with, supportive of him, he never would've written this post. He'd have recognized the saggy tits, etc., but I'll bet his p…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 06:22 PM
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Jeez, MRP50! Yeah, ours was a similar situation. When you see your dog totally willing to give her life --and not just to "give" it but to die in horrific violence-- to protect her human family, well, you get a glimpse of what depths unconditional love can reach. And yes, it sure is humbling. In our event, just when the Bullmastiff was coming in for the kill, my son, eleven years old at the time, saw what was happening and threw his body over our dog to protect -her.- The Bullmastiff lunged, too…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 04:40 PM
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Yes, there is a better way! I've seen guys do it. It looks like you tie a simplistic overhand knot... and then there's some twist of the wrist and suddenly it's a bowline. I've never learned how to do it, so I still go, "The rabbit comes up out of the hole... etc." every time.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 03:51 PM
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All of the people here crying about how OP gave up a cute chick he could've banged, you're giving this woman way more value than she merits. Have you not learned the lesson of IDGAF? The OP did not G a F. So he didn't bang this bitch? Who gives a fuck! He got the opportunity to do a favor for a friend... now that is something of actual value. Notice that the OP went to the bar and scammed some free drinks. He's clearly operating out of "detached amusement." He's out in the world, having fun in t…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 05:58 AM
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Even a broken clock is right twice a day.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 05:06 AM
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It'd be awesome if you were right about this, TRP Vanguard, because dogs being incapable of giving unconditional love would fit the ideological narrative. Some of them, trained as working dogs, may not develop deeper bonds with people or other creatures, and may function based upon conditions, i.e., if you feed me, I'll keep herding these sheep the way you like. Dogs who have been given love, however, can experience very deep love for others. Our thirty-five pound Border Collie pitted herself ag…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 05:04 AM
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Sorry! I didn't mean to write such a long narrative there.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 04:47 AM
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I had a kind of shitty father. He was a brilliant man-- a successful inventor, businessman, played cello, sculpted and painted, spoke seven languages, self-taught, etc.-- but a crappy, unsupportive father. He was a narcissist and didn't like the attention to be on anybody but himself. That was hurtful to me as a kid, and when I was developing into a man. At one point in my twenties, I had a revelation: "Whoa! I get it now-- nothing I do will ever get approval from my dad. The game is, I keep try…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/18 04:46 AM
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at the end of the day if I want to do something, I’ll do it, regardless if someone tells me to ‘grow a pair’. Actually, my point was about doing things you don't want to do ...but hey, you do you, OP.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 03:50 AM
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There is a psychological phenomenon called PCD, or "Post Coital Depression" / "Post Coital Dysphoria" where, immediately after orgasm in a sexual encounter, a person's mood plummets. "Dysphoria" is the opposite of "euphoria" which suggest what Post Coital Dysphoria must feel like. The cause of PCD is not definitively known. It may arise out of someone's personal feelings about their experience, or, considering how the act of sex involves dramatic hormonal changes and perhaps changes in the neuro…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 02:50 AM
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You'd be wrong. Happiness most certainly is a choice. First, what is happiness? Literally, it's nothing other than thinking happy thoughts. When you are in command of your own mind, you may choose to think happy thoughts... or sad thoughts, depressing thoughts, worrisome thoughts, evil thoughts, fearful thoughts, angry thoughts, vengeful thoughts, scientific thoughts, religious thoughts, transcendent thoughts, et cetera. None of those other modalities foster a feeling of happiness, however. Only…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/18 04:33 PM
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I love how a lot of the commenters here assume that being Red Pill would confer utterly certain knowledge upon us. If the MMA fighter coming home from banging hotties had been Red Pill trained, he would've anticipated that his bartender girlfriend would attack him that night. Or, he would've known not to even be with a woman that crazy, 'cuz ya don't stick yer dick into crazy. Well, what if she hadn't been that crazy until that particular night? What if she'd just seemed like a normal girl with …
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 11:21 PM
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you call it "you did it" ? Seriously? Thats it? Did you read the "backstory," Dawnguards? This isn't just any dude going up to a chick and talking to her. This is a guy with severe social anxiety successfully making his very first attempt at approaching a female! So, for an Alpha stud like you, Dawnguards, maybe this would be a miserable failure, but not everybody is where you are. And not everybody started from the same place as you. The OP was raised --and held captive in-- a toxic environment…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 11:16 PM
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The OP is getting a lot of criticism here. I don't think people here understand what this field report is all about. It's not just some guy getting over Approach Anxiety to go talk to a girl. It's about some guy with absolutely no social skills, who's been kept in a social vacuum his entire life doing it. His experience is vastly different than basically everyone else here. His reason for sharing isn't some humblebrag bullshit, it's to give encouragement to guys with fewer disadvantages than he …
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 07:39 PM
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"up until a certain point in life" you're right, we are the product of our environment and surrounding influencers. What I believe OP is saying is that this moment is that certain point. Whatever our antecedents, good or bad, we now take full responsibility for ourselves and everything that happens to us. Some guys will seem to be luckier than others in that they'll have been given a better father experience in their childhood, but manhood can only be achieved through forging power from pain. Th…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/18 03:31 PM
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Right near the end she says, "I am not going to be someone out of convenience for you. I am not a toy you can pick up and put down as you see fit." And yet the whole first part is, "You're to be a convenience to me. We may make plans together, but if my kid needs me, you're out. If some random woman needs to talk to me because of an abusive boyfriend, you're out. If I suddenly want to be alone that day, you're out. If my family wants me at that time, you're out. ...In other words, I can pick you…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 06:28 PM
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Item #1 on your list actually trumps everything else on the list: don't give a fuck whether other people like or dislike you, whether they think you're talking too much or have solid frame... or anything! Don't give a fuck! Ironically, projecting the fact that you couldn't care less how people react/respond to how you present yourself causes them to perceive you as acting with supreme certainty. So, it works on the mind-game level. Far more important, though, is to learn to *truly* not give a fu…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 05:28 PM
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Women, men too old to hunt and children make up the pack you're describing, where consensus and cooperation are germane. The hunters are off hunting. If the tribe gets threatened, the hunters return to defend it, and they don't arrive at their bellicose decisions by talking amongst themselves. You're here in The Red Pill. This is where you put aside your old beta belief systems and learn to be a self-sufficient, powerful individual. If you want to remain in the realm of collectives where men and…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/18 11:22 PM
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So, find your social support network, and connect with those people. It pays off real dividends. All successful people know this rule. And when life gets tough, dont isolate yourself ! Excuse me, but this is what women do. This is emotional networking. I validate myself. As long as I'm cool with what I think/do/believe/whatever, then I'm good. When I catch myself in a delusion, or an irrational belief then I work my way out of it. This happens regularly, by the way - - life in a matrix of bullsh…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 04:27 AM
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This should go without saying but any time somebody makes an appeal to some greater good or cultural norm that isn't directly addressing your strategy or goals, you should proceed cautiously and ask yourself, who am I serving with this advice? All of this seems to suggest that the only acceptable strategy or goals TRP supports are those which accrue social power, prestige or pussy. To some of us, there is far more to being a man that the successful pursuit of such terrestrial rewards. For one th…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 05:32 AM
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Peterson dosent even understand what post modernism is . Perhaps that is correct in a strictly academic sense. However, Jordan Petersen uses his Post Modernism/Neo Marxism explanation to illuminate to those who are unaware of it the dangerous state of current intellectual ideology on college campuses, and thus, in the minds of the indoctrinated students those campuses are spewing out. Worrying about the accuracy of whether the important Post Modernist manifestos were written as a cause of the sh…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 05:12 AM
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Please keep in mind that you're just one birth control slip-up away from having your exit strategy -whatever it is- yanked away from you.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 04:54 AM
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And yet this creature is your "fiancé"? You're going to sign up for a lifetime with her? Care to explain to your brothers here just what your thinking is with this plan???
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 06:55 AM
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The bridge you're designing doesn't care how hard you worked on the project, or the personal hurdles you overcame. It only cares if the physics of the loads and stresses are adequately dealt with... so the bridge won't collapse. Grading on a curve may be appropriate in entirely subjective academic fields, like Lesbian Dance Theory, or even Comparative Literature, but not in STEM fields.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/18 06:51 AM
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Why don't you share your story with us, brother? How does your BPD manifest itself? How did you ever realize you had the condition?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 04:26 PM
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What's your point? That some men aren't "normal, balanced and functional" when they get involved romantically? That some men make mistakes? Most of us aren't aware of how BPD people behave, so we are incapable of recognizing the symptoms when we see them. That ignorance is exploited by a victimizer when crafting her attacks.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 04:17 PM
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One problem with the tradcon/religious notion is that people find wisdom not within the Bible but within what they imagine the Bible is saying; in other words, projecting their own notions onto the Bible, then believing their projections. Just as an example, what supposedly sets Christianity apart from other ancient holy texts and spiritual leaders is the miracle of The Resurrection. The proof that Jesus was the Son of God is that He, alone, in contradistinction of other holy men, died and was r…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/18 04:08 AM
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Well, what's your current situation? Are you still technically in this relationship? Are you married? What action are you planning to take?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/18 08:51 PM
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Notice that this whole interaction occurred with texts. What the fuck! Is a text really the way a man should ever interact with anybody? Think about it: when she's getting a text from you, she has an imagine in her mind of what you look like, then she's reading words on a phone. How can you have any impact upon her like that? How could you establish dominance in a freakin text message? If she's with you in person, however, she can see you, hear the timbre of your voice, smell the mixture of swea…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 05:32 AM
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He's not "teaching a lesson." He's doing the exact opposite: showing what not to do. He's saying, "I did this dumb thing that is NOT Red Pill, and look what a shit show it was. Don't do this!" Also, this information isn't for seasoned RP guys but for newbies who are still learning the principles and getting to see the results of a failure of implementing those principles is educational.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 05:06 AM
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Why bother blocking her? That in itself sends a message to her that he gives enough of a fuck about her to block her. Better to use her occasional contacts as a way to exercise and develop his IDGAF skills.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/18 05:03 AM
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Hey, it got this guy off the bench. He used it to jump start his career of banging bitches. Good for him!
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 06:41 AM
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The quotations says true value.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 02:54 PM
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as Islamic nations modernize What Islamic nations modernize? Perhaps some of the more powerful elite embrace modern trends that would provide economic benefits, but that's hardly true of the populace. It has been reported that there were are books translated into Spanish in one year than have been translated into Arabic in the past one thousand years. The citizens of Islamic nations tend not only to be uninterested in science but reject it outright as being from the province of infidel Westerner…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 06:21 AM
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By the way, I never stated that JP was an "Alpha male." What I said was, in effect, that he has exhibited some rather Alpha behavior: he rose to a position of eminence in his chosen field, and then when he got some traction on YouTube, he carpe'd the diem as effectively as anyone ever has. These are evidence of power and mastery, and should be recognized and respected as such. Granted, JP doesn't exhibit the totality of attributes we associate with Alpha males here, but then again, this is not t…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 11:44 PM
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To be clear, TRP isn't about helping others, it's about helping men become men in a certain very specific way. That's a different arena from striving to help humanity overcome their weakness and fear in order to combat the suffering and chaos life can dish out. And by the way, why start with some homo bullshit, like because I point out certain things about Jordan Peterson, that makes me a fag for him? That's a juvenile way to refute someone's arguments. Just put your points out there: if they re…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 10:53 PM
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When have people on the current left ever cleaved toward "solid ideas that anyone can benefit from?" The left's position is that "solid ideas" (including science, etc.) are implements the patriarchy uses to oppress marginalized people. That's the tenet of the PostModern & neo-Marxism ideology. That's why, instead of debating, i.e., hammering out different ideas in the forge of the rational exchange of ideas, is something they don't do. They just drown out opposition with chanting slogans, and no…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 10:39 PM
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The OP reports that she's an awful person and I'm sure he's right. Then again, there's a certain amount of a rational response by her: if dad's never there for her, what was she supposed to do, sit around reading magazines all day and watch TV all night? She understandably wanted more out of life than what he provided her. Reverse the roles: if a man married some woman who was never around, even on weekends, and never provided him with sex, wouldn't it make sense for him to find sexual fulfillme…
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 05:13 AM
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I doubt they needed much trash talk from mom-- Dad not being there in their lives was enough for them to judge him to be a piece of shit as a father... and they'd have been right.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 05:08 AM
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i don't have much resources to change drastically. Bullshit! The two most important changes take zero resources: mindset and attitude. "I'm not here to please other people. I'm here to please myself." That changes everything. "I don't give a fuck if the woman I'm talking to responds or doesn't respond, fucks me or doesn't fuck me. I'm here to enjoy being myself in this and every subsequent moment." The shifted mindset results in a different attitude, which people react to.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 04:01 PM
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1.) No evidence from Egyptian sources that Jews were ever in Egypt. 2.) Roman census never required people to return to the town of their birth. That would have resulted in economic upheaval. "Roman censuses counted just the head of household IN their household- they were for tax purposes, so they cared where you lived, not where you came from." "Matthew states that Jesus was born under the reign of Herod the Great, who died in 4BCE. Luke claims it was during the census of Israel conducted when …
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 03:40 PM
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(paraphrasing from memory here) "biological race differences are negligible, Except that's exactly not what he said. He's gone on record about the influence race has on IQ.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:57 PM
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He's a Harvard-trained college professor. He's an intellectual who crafts his words carefully, and is informed in what he says by his lifetime of studying all the relevant scientific information that pertains to it. Jordan Peterson's erudite statements are a feature, not a bug. I haven't read it, but his new book, "12 Rules for Living" is probably written in a more readable, more easily understood style.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 02:54 PM
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Jordan is man focused on his mission And what is his mission? To help other people. Perhaps he doesn't better embody the Alpha male as defined here in The Red Pill arena because helping others is not the classic Alpha mission which is to help only one person, i.e., oneself, and Not Give A Fuck about anybody else. Given that Peterson's raison d'être is quite different from someone whose goal is to maximize his own circumstances, he has gone about fulfilling his mission with intelligence, self-dis…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 08:10 PM
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raising kids is for women and cucks Anybody with a dick can impregnate a female and produce an offspring. It takes a true man to be a father and actually raise a child. One reason for the devastation we see in our various societies is due to the lack of fathers living in homes to raise their children. Look at the African American culture where above 72% of children are born out of wedlock. "Who dat? He my baby-daddy!" It takes a great deal of personal resources to stick around in a marriage (esp…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 07:58 PM
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Peterson has put hundreds of hours of videos of his amazing lectures online so that people can, for free, perhaps benefit from his insights. And they have so benefitted, in the millions. In addition to teaching, Jordan Peterson was a practicing clinical psychologist for many, many years, working with clients to help them overcome their fears, weaknesses and prejudices. And then you come along and have the balls to judge him as someone who "can't do"??? Who do you think has had a more positive, m…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 05:11 PM
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lacks the true nature of an Alpha male So, Jordan Peterson makes some angry comments about "compelled speech" in some videos, then engages leftists in a few protests about pronouns... and sees that his ideas have traction among people who are desperate for a change in the socio-political landscape. Within eighteen months he translated that into worldwide fame and influence. He's made millions, evidently, though his motivation appears not to be wealth for its own sake but, as he has stated, to he…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 05:04 PM
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and C) because all of biology compelled her to have a kid.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:28 PM
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It's "poon" which is short for the jive term "poon tang" meaning "pussy." It's believed that "poon tang" derives from the French word, "poutaine" i.e., "whore."
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 03:57 PM
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The fact that fear is a factor indicates that somebody Gives A Fuck whether she responds positively or negatively, because she's a Special Unicorn of a girl, unique among women. That's the error here. If you approach someone believing that the sun shines out of her ass, she'll detect right away that worshipful attitude and confer upon you instant Beta status. She needs to recognize that you are superior to her in order to respect you properly.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 03:46 PM
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I disagree. I believe the moral of the story is Who Gives A Fuck if you ever asked her out or not. Who Gives A Fuck if she said, "Okay!" or "Not interested!" Who Gives A Fuck if you had sex with her or not. She is of no consequence. You are the person who matters.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 07:14 AM
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I don't know if the PUA books address this skill but if you're anxious upon approaching women then you need to learn IDGAF. "Hey, will this chick go for me or will she reject me? ...Hmmm... Actually, I Don't Give A Fuck what she does! All that matters is what I do, how i think, how I feel. The purpose of my life is to make me feel fulfilled and stimulated, not her! I don't give a fuck about her." This is often learned as a "fake it til you make it" kinda deal. You act like you don't give a fuck,…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 09:29 PM
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If the goals of TRP were identical with those of PUA, then this post would be right on the money. It's basically saying, "Stop reading the crap posts here, go lift, eat right, and then go out and talk to bitches until you're steadily banging. There you go!" It's my understanding that TRP goes far beyond that. Infinitely far beyond that. Lifting, eating clean, learning to overcome the challenges of successfully bedding women are all first steps, mere components of a grander system wherein men lea…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 08:44 PM
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I thought your reaction of "Okay." was perfect. Just enough to acknowledge that you heard her statement. Also casual, so that it sounds like you don't give a fuck that she's not going to be putting out.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 03:18 PM
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"Oftentimes, when a woman says, “We’re not going to have sex,” she’s only saying it because she’s been considering having sex with you. The emotional part of her brain wants a good plowing, but the logical part of her brain is telling her that she shouldn’t have sex with a guy she just met. " I think an additional reason for saying it is because she wants to find out if someone will value spending time with her as a person, not just a fuckable body. By not just nexting her upon hearing that she'…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 06:29 AM
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Actually, if I'm not mistaken, whether damaged or not, all women behave in a similar fashion.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 04:28 PM
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Start with the "different mental illnesses." Address them. Look into Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. (Do *not* consider psych drugs!) TRP can help with social phobia. If you learn how to operate without regard for outcomes, you'll develop an IDGAF (I Don't Give A Fuck) attitude. In other words, in a social situation you won't give a fuck whether people react to you favorably or not. Your concern is *yourself*, i.e., amusing yourself. Therefore, nothing for phobia to threaten you with.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 02:22 PM
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What do you think people that are religious should do? Your asking this question reveals the essential problem of religion. It's not merely the beliefs that the religion's sacred texts imposes on someone, but the demands that the religious community places on its members. Such communities are tribal in nature, and require that everyone in the tribe suppress their own individual needs/goals/desires in deference to what the tribe itself wants. If you do what the tribe dictates you get rewarded by …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 05:25 AM
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"I have a different experience than all of you guys, so therefore you're wrong and this must be 'bs' and 'retarded.'" Hopefully, by the time you graduate med school, you'll have learned to stop projecting your own reality onto others and to listen to what they're saying. That's especially important in medicine. By the way, what do you call the absolute dumbest guy in the graduating class at a medical school? "Doctor."
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:31 AM
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this Then how did you see this post, if you cancelled your internet?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 04:16 AM
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Others here have suggested that the OP didn't need to say anything, and I disagree. Having said what she said, if the OP had merely said nothing, the woman would then be free to interpret his silence to be whatever she projected. "Gotcha! I guess *that* shut you down!" Or... "He's so embarrassed he can't even think of anything to say. Gotcha!" By quickly and succinctly verbalizing he IDGAF response, he leaves no doubt in her mind that he's in absolute command of himself and the situation. The pr…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 04:45 AM
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This is the era of #metoo ---why are you contemplating trying to date girls at the office? You could lose your job... or worse. Hit on girls at some other office!
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 07:22 PM
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I, too, have read the kind of posts you describe as a "parody of TRP" including the humblebragging as well as the out-and-out-bragging types, so I know what you're saying. I guess I just didn't find this post to be one of those. OP maintained to the end how some of his so-called flaws never changed. I did note that the post was almost too-well composed, too-well constructed, too-well verbalized for your average Field Report. He writes like a writer. That said, I didn't disbelieve what he reporte…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 12:14 AM
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What changed absolutely everything was the advent of effective birth control in the mid '60's. Before that, women simply couldn't fuck multitudes of guys. The risk of getting pregnant and becoming an unwed mother was too great. The same bullshit mind games between men and women were always there, but without birth control, women had no agency. You didn't see the behavior of today, where women go crazy in their twenties, then look for a baby daddy when the biological clock goes off at age thirty,…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 11:17 PM
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So, anybody who doesn't have a certain shape of chin and jawline *can't* attract hot women??? You believe in the model for masculinity to such a degree that any claims to the contrary must be "bullshit"?? What about baby-faced rock stars? They don't just pull HB8's and 9's, they pull tens, for fuck's sake! International supermodels! The ideas here are guides, not Gospel. The attributes being discussed are components that may add up to how certain males establish dominance. But the one thing that…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 10:47 PM
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Some people: short, bald, big unsymmetrical faces will never make it to the point of smashing even 5's. You're confusing a template of reality with reality itself. According to Red Pill "best practices" that would be true. But reality is more nuanced, more bizarre, than what can be put into a philosophical manifest. I have a friend who's maybe 5'1" whose girlfriend is a former Victoria's Secret model from the Ukraine. I had a friend (now deceased) who had one withered leg as a result of childhoo…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 10:41 PM
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You're mad a the OP for not writing the piece you wanted to hear. You wanted to hear the slightly expanded version of your tl;dr stuff. Well, he was telling something more than just that. He reported not just his experiences in transitioning from beta to alpha, but more importantly, the psychological effect being an alpha had on him. Men here who are totally satisfied with spinning plates and indulging in pump-and-dumps perhaps aren't able to understand the reaction OP had. For him, to learn the…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:49 PM
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xD I work in finance in NYC And you had the nerve to call a sales guy "scummy"? There is nobody scummier than a person who works in finance in New York City.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 02:41 PM
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if you try to be at the same time a Priest and a Chief you end up being either a weak chief...or a corrupted priest.... Well, by your example there, you've shown that there *can be* shades of gray between 100% chiefly and 100% priestly men. Thus, it is *not* necessarily Either/Or. Secondly, you're discussing men in socially apex positions, i.e., men who either want to rule a group of people, or to hold such a group in their thrall as their spiritual leader. This RP article was not about such men…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 08:35 PM
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Your contention, fbelisario, that a man cannot be an embodiment of both the chief and the priest is frankly ridiculous. "The violent power that the Chief wields is held in check by the numinous power of the Priest..." is a great description of what happens within a sagacious man when he becomes angry. Rather than blowing up and lashing out at someone, his priest-aspect counsels -and commands- him to hold his force in abeyance. While a man can have these two archetype aspects in his consciousness…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 06:42 PM
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This is a "social media" site in the same way that a university classroom is a tiki bar. In other words... not at all. People come here to learn and to share and to teach. The OP isn't here virtue signaling: he's sharing his experience so others can benefit.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 06:11 AM
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Read everything on the side bar! If you lift so your body is attractive and impose discipline on yourself to develop your sense of your own strength of character, you can learn to project confidence in being who you are. That confidence is something that women respond to. Your defeated attitude is working against you. If you project being a fun guy and offer fun opportunities to women, they'll view you in an entirely different light.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:21 PM
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Dude, we need a comprehensive story about what you do and how you do it. Your kung fu is massive.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/18 05:57 AM
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Most people do care about being socially ostracized because our ape brains are evolved to seek to be part of a group. The "most people" you are referring to here are called "betas." Alphas Don't Give A Fuck, not because they have lots of friends, but because they don't give a fuck whether they have any friends or not. "I feel so alone! Nobody understands me!" ....said no alpha male ever.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 02:00 PM
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was a legal researcher/preparer until all the firm's clients were robbed blind on a "go ahead call the police" basis (California legal system rearing its ugly head again.) We need to hear this story!
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 06:31 AM
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Is there anything to back up the theory that some forms of 'consumptive entertainment' are positive and some are negative? Yes, there is something to back that up: your own mind's mindful, honest reflections. Does playing video games into the night when you should be sleeping truly fulfill you? nurture you? Does it increase your experience as a person and your understanding of yourself and the world you inhabit, or is it merely stimulating and entertaining? When you jerk off to porn stars, does …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 11:01 PM
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Why is this guy being downvoted? He's just offering routes to the information for us to examine it and draw our own conclusions, if we choose to.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 03:44 PM
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Women were not allowed to be doctors, scientists, engineers just a generation ago There were female doctors, scientists and engineers a generation ago and beyond. There just weren't very many of them. Why not? Because -having other priorities- not that many women chose to strive toward such careers as goals. There was no secret tribunal of men rubbing their hands together and preventing women from applying to STEM colleges, i.e., "not allowing" them to do so. Let's be factually accurate here.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 03:28 PM
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It's not about being judged. In fact, women profess to like having men show their "sensitive side." The problem is the dynamic: you getting sympathy from her turns her into A Mommy and you into A Little Boy. She may even enjoy nurturing you on an emotional level while you're hurting. BUT it dries up her pussy. She loses any sexual attraction she may have had toward you. Think about it: it would feel perverse for Mommy to have sexual feelings for a Little Boy. She needs to see you as a Strong Man…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:58 AM
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Having a ripped body is but one factor. What else attracts women? Humor, for one thing. Money-- as a measure of success. Showing supreme self-confidence. Having a swaggering style. Having the IDGAF attitude, where you imply that you don't give a shit whether a woman likes you or not. (Independence from outcomes.) And FUN. If you're someone doing fun things, having fun in the moment, not being serious... women are attracted to that because they want to have fun, too. There's a lot you can do to i…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 06:40 AM
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There is no way you would look anywhere near what you do without the amount of drugs you put into your body. Jeez, what an asshole you are, notonlyplace. Can't you read? This guy's been doing it all: working out for 1.5 hours per day, six days a week, gave up carbs and sugar, now fasts for 16 hours per day. He pointedly does ~not~ fap or sit around playing video games or piss his time away anymore. He cycles, does yoga, etc., etc., etc. ...And here you are proclaiming that his gains are all due …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/18 09:09 PM
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Making your intentions clear in communication would be extremely useful if all parties are rational operators. In a business meeting or other professional setting, that would be important no matter what genders present. But in romantic circumstances with women, their mindsets will be more emotional than rational. If you come out and say directly what your intentions are, that removes the "romance" from the dynamic. TRP exists because women are different from men, think and operate differently.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:18 PM
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LCF isn't a made up acronym. LCF = Legal Cohabiting Female The honorable thing to do would be to apologize.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 03:32 PM
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I think SaladThunder was just making a point: it's better to be with a not-that-hot-looking chick who's sane than a smoking-hot chick who's crazy.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 04:22 PM
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What's not red pill about this post and all the discussion is... all these people Giving A Fuck about what women are like and how they operate and what they react to favorably so you can be with them and fuck them and whatever. Why are women so important to you people? Who gives a shit what they think/want/do? I should think the primary goal of the red pill man is to discover his authentic self, then operate authentically in the world.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:42 AM
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How about a link, or some way to find that article, that woman, or her website?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 07:21 AM
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That means you can't copy TunedToPerfection's idea exactly. So, use it as inspiration to come up with an alternative that works for you. "Hmmm, that won't work because I don't have my own place and am broke as fuck. What ~can~ I do, given my situation?" Start with the three envelopes --which is brilliant, by the way, because it adds an element of mystery and surprise. Put three free activities in the envelopes. She opens one... "Hey, cool! 'Moonlit walk along the beach' (or whatever)" The invent…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/18 04:56 PM
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I hope you choose to move beyond your current business ventures and devote your time and energy to writing and speaking for one simple reason: your efforts will have a far more profound effect upon the life of the world. Many people could do your liquor and gaming promo work (even if not as well as you do it) but no one other than you can produce Rollo Tomassi material, written or spoken. Your words are truly inspirational, and have changed many people for the better. I wrote a book about a cert…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 05:22 AM
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Make sure you add something I left out: in the list of reasons why we're here on this planet, in addition to having fun and doing interesting things should also be: discover your authentic self and become a man.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 10:27 PM
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You're still emotionally invested in others, i.e., what they're doing, what you're doing compared to what or how they're doing. As long as you Give A Fuck about others, you're in a state of codependency with aspects of them. What truly feels good is to love yourself, to feel completely content in your own skin, to meet your challenges --and your responsibilities-- head on, to be master of your own emotions so that what others think or say about you, or what they do, has not the slightest authori…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 04:50 PM
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One of the links on the page is for an article called "How to get out cum stains" If that's one of your major concerns and you click on that link, you might just be a slut.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 04:33 PM
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There's a key element missing in you, friend. The IDGAF mindset. You obviously do give a fuck: you're depending upon the reaction of others to how you present yourself in the world. As long as you do that, they'll see what you see, i.e., your perceived shortcomings. The point about having money is not because you have money to spend on impressing others, it's to show you have enough masculine power to wrest money out of the world's clutch. In other words, you have the power to become successful.…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 05:18 AM
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External rewards are inherently unsatisfying. It is your relationship with yourself that will prove the most fulfilling and enriching.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 06:34 AM
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I think the martial arts thing is a good idea. I think it will help you internalize some valuable insights. Please see my comment above about IDGAF. It appears you're placing a lot of emphasis on what others think of you. Who gives a shit about that! It's what you think of you that matters. What can you do that would impress you you magnificent bastard!
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 06:28 AM
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It appears you are looking for validation outside yourself, brother. You want women to "be" a certain way, and they're not. They're the way they actually are. Same is true of your so-called friends. TRP has teachings on how to deal with this sort of stuff, and one avenue upon which to approach it is IDGAF. At this point, you still give a fuck what women say and do, what your friends say and do. While that is happening, you have given them the power to influence your emotions - -and it's doing pr…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/18 06:20 AM
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It's a successful Machiavellian strategy, Pookie. It allows them to feel like they "won" and were in control. If they think you won, they won't stop coming after you. They're saying, "What a pussy that guy was!" You're saying, "WHEW! Dodged a bullet!"
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 06:31 AM
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Anorexia (and self harm) usually have their roots in sexual abuse "Usually"? Is there any science to back that claim up?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 06:24 AM
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"No woman is going to tell anybody that she is a lesbian if she is straight or even bi." You obviously have a rather limited experience of women, dude.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 07:45 PM
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I agree, too. A genuine bad-ass doesn't think, "Hey, this cut-off jean jacket makes me look like a bad-ass!" He's thinking stuff like, "Where the fuck is Leroy? Prick owes me money! I'm gonna kick his ass!" Hemingway seemed a bit needy about people thinking he was a "man's man." Well, whatever. His books, at least, show masculinity in full expression.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 06:07 AM
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Just FYI, in that era, many male children were, in the first years of their lives, dressed as girls and their hair was allowed to grow long (and be trussed up in ribbons and bows.) This was done because there was a prevalent fear (whether real or imagined) that Gypsies would steal male children, boys being more valued than girls. I've seen photos of my own father around age three with long, flowing curls, wearing a dress.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 05:45 AM
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"A reimagined bibliography [sic] on hemingway isnt some evil plot to emasculate society as a whole." Yes, you're correct. But that's not what the OP posited. He, essentially, said that this reimagined biography of Hemingway is a symptom of the evil plot to emasculate society. Other examples of such symptoms of the plot abound.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 05:38 AM
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Amen! Not only masculinity, but truth itself thrives under criticism. Any weaknesses will be revealed through criticism... IF it is found to be valid. If it isn't, then it's strengthened.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 05:34 AM
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Perception is only reality if you fall prey to the perception and don't examine the real reality. There are psychological experiments where a group of students is asked a 2+2 type question. Everybody except the test subject are shills. When the other people answer "5" then very often, the test subject, though knowing the answer is 4 will answer 5 themselves. We need to guard against this tendency in ourselves toward conformity to the collective! We need to foster and nurture the strength of our …
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 05:31 AM
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Let those who believe the propaganda believe it -- or not believe it. Who gives a fuck? Choose your own direction and get going. Whether the wind is in your face or at your back shouldn't matter.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 05:23 AM
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...and turn it into an unhibited island!
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:52 PM
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If women were rational creatures, master3786, you'd be right to imagine that. But they aren't. They're responding to deep urges that have been encoded in her genes that tell her to gain the greatest possible advantage. Look at the current divorce rate, while bearing in mind that 85% of the divorces are implemented by women. At first, the marriage satisfies them, and they love how their husband provides for her and the kids. But hubby being a provider isn't sexy! She wants a better provider--who …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 11:43 PM
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You should underestimate it! Underestimate any supposed "flaws" you think you have. Develop instead your strengths. You think a short guy that drives a Lambo is going to be lacking girlfriends?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 10:55 PM
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I don't give a fuck if somebody better educated than I wants to have a discussion or not. I do what I want to do in this life. Why let someone have that much power over you? Treating women like they have brains is great if you want to have a discussion with a woman. That can be a lot of fun. But if they want to sucker me into an argument or debate? Sorry, sister. Not gonna happen--- unless I do it just for fun, to fuck with them.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 10:05 PM
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people that are actively or passively bad for you People are only "bad for you" if you allow them to affect your psyche in any way. It's incumbent upon us to develop the mental strength to choose what we allow to enter our emotional/mental field. If I'm in the presence of someone spewing toxic statements and ideas, it's my responsibility to keep them from having any influence upon me. If I find myself becoming influenced, I recognize that that is on me to fix that. I'm the only one I will allow …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 10:01 PM
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If you Get The Fuck Out, that means that you're reacting to them and they're in command of what you do. If you don't want to argue with them, you can simply state, "I see that you'd like to argue your position with me but I refuse. For me to argue my position would imply that I want to change what's in your mind so that it matches what I think or believe... but that would be disrespectful of me. You're a free individual, free to think whatever you like. It's not my place to interfere with that i…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 08:43 PM
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Once again, fuck this! Neither avoid nor seek out toxic people. Simply maintain command of yourself in their presence. No matter what they say, don't allow yourself the indulgence of letting their statements affect you. To avoid them is the same phenomenon as snowflakes in a university classroom having to leave if they hear certain words or phrases. Just don't be triggered! Master your emotions.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 07:48 PM
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Avoid such people? Are you serious? To avoid someone means they have power over you, power that you yourself have ceded to them. In this instance, you allowed yourself to get sucked into a black hole argument with an illogical psycho. Dude, that's on you, not her. It's your responsibility to manage your reality and not permit such arguments to foul your personal atmosphere. So, how do you stop such a fracas from developing? If someone says something provocative and you respond by saying, "Well, …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 07:41 PM
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First, some tips: if you want your wife to look at you the way she looks at men with higher value... then increase your value! Change yourself. Lift. Eat better food. Be more disciplined. Stop talking about your goddamn feelings, your hopes and fears or whatever. Start having more fun - with or without her. Start being more fun to be with. In fact, if you started to behave as though you were getting ready to dump her to go get a younger, fitter, more fun-loving gal that would certainly cause a r…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:31 PM
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Just as a point of reference to EdAnt's statement. I'm a 69 year old guy. When I was 12 years old, living in a suburban town in New Jersey, I walked downtown to the sporting goods store, plunked the twenty dollars I'd saved up onto the counter, and bought a single-shot shotgun. I then took my proud possession and walked home with it. No one looked at me twice as I walked up the main street of the town, or past the homes in the residential section on the way to my house. No cop stopped me. It was…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 06:00 AM
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And Barvazon didn't mean "breed" in the literal sense. He meant the strategy would create more losers, as guys would pose as losers to get the freebie blow-jay.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 05:42 AM
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I see what bearlakeburton is talking about when he says: "What is something you know to be true but no one else thinks is true. That is your path to success." If you know something to be true when no one else does, that is the equivalent to "insider knowledge." You can then make an action based upon your knowledge, i.e., an investment of some type. When other people finally realize the truth of what you knew, the value will soar and your investment will pay off. An example of this would be the i…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/18 07:02 AM
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There's a dynamic here that you don't get it, kylebenjaminturner. Yes, women seek sensual and emotional validation. If you don't give them that validation, they pursue you, trying to get it from you. As you remain elusive, they up their game to get you to validate them. This is manipulative, of course... but it works on them. Attractive women are used to having men offer them emotional validation--- men try to be agreeable, hoping that that will cause the women to view them as being caring and u…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 06:50 AM
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Why is it so shameful to say that one wants to improve himself in order to appear more attractive to the opposite gender? I'm saying that if you improve yourself to be more attractive to the opposite gender, then you're overvaluing the other gender's opinion of you. What's more important is your opinion of you! Are you an honorable man? Are you someone that others can count on? Do you have the strength of your convictions? Do you know that you're capable of meeting difficult challenges as they a…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 04:56 PM
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Game is also crucial. . . . Tommy probably had excellent game or maybe he’s just over-exaggerating with his count. This is what I'm trying to tell you: game is not crucial! Tommy had no game. Tommy just being Tommy was what seduced women. And there was no "count" from Tommy because he didn't give enough of a fuck about banging chicks to brag about it. It was just natural to him to do. The only way he'd talk about it was... he'd say something like, "Hey, remember those two redheads I was talking …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 04:15 PM
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Why would you cede control of the birth control to a woman? All it takes is one "Whoopsie! I took the wrong pill!" to change the course of the rest of your life. The financial aspect is the least important part of it. One of the reason why our gender is so fucked up these days is because men aren't around to raise their sons. So, you either stay in the picture... or contribute to the problem.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 05:26 AM
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I'm sure you've read enough by now, seducter. What makes pussies wet isn't a guy with a lot of stuff in his head, but a man of action. So, take action. Go start talking with women in bars and other social settings. Don't necessarily try to pick them up, but just get into the habit of talking with women for fun. YOUR fun. If you get shot down... so what? That's how you cultivate an "I don't give a flying fuck" attitude. Whether they reject you or go home with you... it's all the same. You are the…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/18 01:02 AM
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You're defining "wimpy" as lacking muscle-mass. What the word means is "cowardly, feeble." "Slumped over" refers to showing a lack of confidence and strength of character. Omega-dawg93 isn't talking about physical traits, he's talking about what a man projects.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:51 PM
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This is an old trick: you mischaracterize what someone has said, then successfully argue against that rather than the real comment. The original post said, "If she's sexually attracted to you, she'll see you as taller, broader and funnier..." You've changed that into "...not because she's delusional and now thinks you're tall..." He didn't say it makes women think you're tall. He's telling you women will perceive you as taller than you actually are. It's about women's subjective perceptions, and…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:44 PM
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I see someone downvoted my earlier comment below. The so-called "real red pill" is not about men fooling themselves about what women want, and how 90% of women will "settle for" someone who is less than an ideal male specimen. The real red pill is about learning how to be a man and learning how to be your own man. And the purpose of that noble endeavor is not to get into women's panties, for fuck's sake. It's to become the best you you can be, and live a life that's worthy of your best self. The…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 11:30 PM
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Amen! I think a lot of guys come here for TRP when what they really want is PUA. For them, getting chicks is The Holy Grail - - not understanding that that as a goal is, in itself, beta as fuck! They just are way too far away from understanding that attracting women is the natural consequence of being a man in absolute command of himself and his life. The true goal is mastery of oneself.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 05:01 PM
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You're saying that a_nus is lying. Is he lying? Does he not have " friends that don't lift, are skinny fat, and have oddly shaped faces, who lay girls left and right because they're easy going and quite charismatic"? It's not wise to become a slave to an idea. "Attraction is based on physical attributes first, then you play with her mental to close" is accurate, but not absolute! A_nus even cites an example of a guy he knows who's physically attractive but doesn't score. And conversely, one of m…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 04:18 PM
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OP's piece isn't about hypergamy. He's addressing a different issue. He's not offering "the best way to attract women." That's not what this thread is about.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 03:09 PM
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When you phrase it like this: "just be confident bruh" that makes having confidence look absurd. It turns out, confidence is more important that good looks when it comes to attracting women. Why? Think about it. First of all, what is that confidence? It's what gets projected when a man believes, based upon his experience of himself and the world, that he has all the tools and skills he needs to master his social/cultural environment and meet any challenges that should arise. So, when a woman is …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 07:08 AM
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You're right, Tsunnami, though I'm not sure many others will be able to see that. An Alpha creates his own reality, and references only himself. While they appear from the outside to be the same thing, there's a world of difference between cultivating "emotional blunting" and the act of suffering in silence. In both cases, the man appears to be unmoved by a situation or event, but in the one, the emotions are stifled, repressed. To suffer in silence, however, is to feel pain or loss or whatever,…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 05:58 PM
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Perhaps WIT = Wife In Training???
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 04:10 PM
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Much of today's blue pill mindset can be recognized as the male reaction to the massive incursions of feminism into the culture. Feminism (for better or ill) in the 1970's was all about equality between the genders, but has morphed into the nightmare it is today because of the influence of PostModern Neomarxist thinkers. Where the original Marxist struggle was between economic classes, i.e., the capitalists and the workers, Neomarxism shifted the focus from wealth as power to social grouping. Th…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 04:00 PM
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It seems that many "red pill" advocates are trying to be hard asses to the extreme, and I would say extremism in anything is dangerous and unhealthy. > Evidently, you would, in fact, say that. Some antonyms of extremism used in the context: apathy, doubt, indifference, disinterest, unenthusiasm. To forge one's self into the best self we can be absolutely requires elements of extremism in every area in which we endeavor. That's what giving 110% is--- an extreme effort. The rewards for such effort…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 06:32 AM
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Asking a friend for help is different that whining to that friend about why his help is needed. "I've had such a horrible week!" "Oh, you poor baby! What happened?" "Well...." Get out the tampons.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 12:30 AM
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Asking a friend to help you with Western Union is productive. Whining to them about your bad luck and what a shitty week you had is just weak. You chose not to Suffer In Silence. It appears the you don't understand the purpose of learning to suffer in silence. Your "occasional venting" robs you of the opportunity of talking with your Strongest Self in your thoughts. "Jeez, what a fucked week this has been! But... well, I got through it. And it could've been worse. Hell, what doesn't kill you mak…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 12:27 AM
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If your sense of self and the tides of your emotions rise and fall based upon the whims of others' perceptions of you (especially women's perceptions of you) and their reactions to you, then you're a codependent. That's a weak and vulnerable place for a man to be in! Why give such power to others? Seize it for yourself!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 07:04 PM
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If your whole body is shaking with sexual frustration it means you're feeling desperate to get laid--- and chicks will pick up on that sense of need you're projecting and get turned off by it. They respond to the exact opposite: a guy sending out a signal that says, "I don't need you in the slightest you silly little bitch! What part of 'I don't give a fuck' do you fail to understand?" In their perverse way, THAT makes them desire you. And they respond to self-mastery. Embracing the red pill phi…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 06:56 PM
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You're right about how the only opinion of yourself that matters is your own, and that learning to love yourself is of the highest importance. Upvote for that, brother! About the "good clean shave" psych studies have shown that chicks respond most not to clean-shaven faces or bearded faces but that stupid scruffy look, where you don't shave for like five or six days. They love beards because they're manly, and they love clean shaves because it signals that the guy has self-discipline and good pe…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 06:43 PM
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Here's the rub: 'every young woman (who will listen and has interest in practical advice)' What young woman is going to listen? What young woman is going to have a rational mind strong and sober enough to make a sane long-term life plan and then follow it? The evidence suggests that young women in their twenties are singing "Girls just wanna have fu-un!", going out and banging Good Time Charlies, the high-value Bad Boys that they're attracted to. Good Guys don't make their pussies wet. Later, wh…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 06:25 AM
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Regarding the mirror: you know who pays attention to how attractive your face is? Gay dudes. Chicks respond to confidence. If you're confident but your face isn't all that attractive, they perceive you as being "rugged." If you have an IDGAF attitude and don't pay much attention to them, they ~feel~ like you must be good-looking to be so nonchalant, and react like you are attractive. These are biological responses--- deep down, she needs a confident man because the source of genuine confidence i…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 12:37 AM
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You're confused about something. This topic isn't about "abundance." It's about the "abundance mentality." The first is a rational accounting of what there actually is. The second is a ~mindset.~ It's a way of retraining the mind, at first, to see the glass as half full rather than half empty. Then it's about seeing the half-full glass as full, and operating as if that's the case. When that has become thoroughly internalized... you'll find the glass fills itself, without any apparent effort on y…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:18 PM
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Undoubtedly. But that wasn't the point.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 07:50 AM
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I can point out a culture where women don't necessarily want to get married: inner city America. The out-of-wedlock birthrate is above 70%. In this demographic, the Welfare State takes the place of provider. Just having a baby grants a source of revenue from the state, so a husband isn't required--- or perhaps even wanted. Statistics show that this isn't a racial phenomenon but a cultural one.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 07:51 PM
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Your points are valid regarding the primacy of knowledge derived from replicable experimentation and observation, and also how the mere agreement by credentialed persons in a journal do not necessarily denote Truth with a capital T. However, why the ad hominem jibe at OP? He never made any claims at exceptional intelligence other than by providing, unwittingly perhaps, examples of it. He thinks and writes within the constraints of academic scholarship, and thus asks for citations to show that op…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 11:09 PM
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I don't think this was an act of actual hypergamy. If the chick had tried to hook up with OP on the sly, that would be evidence of a desire to "trade up" for a better model. The fact that she was doing it with the BF present reveals that she was creating some serious mind-fuck-ery. "Hey, let's create some absolute chaos... and just see what shakes out! Woo hoo!"
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 01:38 PM
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It would be a grave error to "take him back as a friend." The guy's already shown that he's unworthy and capable of betrayal. Why nurse such a viper at one's breast? Better to be quit of him and to forge new friendships with actual men.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 01:26 PM
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You should send that bitch a bouquet of flowers. She's done you an immense favor: she's shown you that this guy you believed was your lifelong friend turns out to be an untrustworthy little bitch, incapable of living with truth, incapable of loyalty. A man needs stalwart, dependable allies to go through life with. Thank heaven this conniving, mind-gaming bitch has shown your ex-BFF's true colors. Far better it happen over some bullshit than if you and he were in a situation where your life depen…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 01:22 PM
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When you were a less productive person, maybe chicks just viewed you as more of a Bad Boy, more of a Playa. That's the type they're attracted to for fun, i.e., entertainment sex. Maybe now you appear to be too serious an individual for irresponsible playtime activities. They might start viewing you as a Provider now, someone they can marry, get babies from, have economic and emotional stability from... until they get bored later, divorce you, and live on alimony and child support while they go b…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 12:06 AM
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Bear in mind that the post started out by trashing the entire Red Pill community, saying it's "alpha and beta word vomit, the tiny dick swinging competitions, and the delusions of grandeur that appear in almost every comment section of this sub". Then it gives the advice that amounts to "Here's how to win a race: start near the finish line." Not helpful.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:43 PM
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This was not an attempt to provide a recap. Bear in mind that it started with "to sift through the alpha and beta word vomit, the tiny dick swinging competitions, and the delusions of grandeur that appear in almost every comment section of this sub." He's trashing the people here, saying essentially "You don't need all this Red Pill nonsense, just be like me."
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 05:46 PM
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This is you telling people a bunch of stuff. Dictating it to them. This is like saying, "Hey, you wanna be a great artist? Okay, here's what you do. Get a huge block of marble and some chisels... then make a statue that looks like David. That's what I did and look at me, look how awesome I am. You, too, can be awesome like me." Consider what you've said from the perspective of someone reading it: what could they possibly have gotten out of it that would be helpful to them? You're not presenting …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 05:44 AM
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If that's the case, then what's the difference between TRP and PUA? If there is none, then there's no purpose served by calling PUA by the epithet The Red Pill. By the way, I'm not saying I'm right about any of this. I'm just sharing my observations.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 12:08 AM
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You just have to frame the narrative differently. If any of your peers say, "So, I hear that What's-her-name dumped you..." <snicker! snicker!> just smile and say, "Yeah, she did. Best thing that ever happened to me. I really dodged a bullet there! Whew!" And when asked to explain, just say, "Nah, she's not worth talking about. So, what's new with ~you?~" How you present yourself in regards to what happened CHANGES what happened. That is within your power. You're smart, talented, sociable--- sei…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:47 PM
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As an aside, i.e., this has nothing to do with TRP directly, but you may wish to seek out videos by a Canadian woman named Karen Straughan. Google "karen straughan youtube" and you'll be presented with an array of them. She does a great job of deconstructing the nonsense of toxic feminism from the viewpoint of a thinking, rational, principled female. Long before I discovered TRP I stumbled upon Karen Straughan's videos. I had swallowed the blue pill my entire adult life and thoroughly believed i…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:38 PM
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If your main purpose is "sexual power and options" with women, then that's another form of Putting Women On A Pedestal, making them some defining, all-important goal. Fuck that. Women should never be more than secondary to the goal of finding, reclaiming, then embodying your authentic self. Women just aren't that important.
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:27 PM
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My understanding is that The Red Pill (TRP) evolved from the Pick Up Artist (PUA) movement. PUA is all about sexual strategy. After observing what was successful in PUA, i.e., becoming confident, bettering oneself by working out, improved diet, proper grooming and clothes, getting a stable job, men realized that success with women was a direct result of self-improvement. The "red pill" aspect evidently was that waking up to the bullshit characterization of men in modern post-feminist culture was…
/r/askTRP14/04/17 07:20 PM
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It's tough at the beginning because it's all so new, and a 180-degree switch from what we were led to believe was the proper way to deal with women. Once you make the intellectual leap, however ---once you take the red pill--- it becomes easier and easier. Why? Because life will finally make sense! When you shed the fantasy and embrace the reality, all of reality will support how you now think. You'll be seeing things as they really are and responding in kind. You've made a good start, flamethro…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 11:48 PM
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Guess who else isn't an alpha?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 12:25 PM
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When training yourself to be able to sustain direct eye contact, here's a trick: focus your gaze at the bridge of the person's nose. To them, it appears that you're looking into their eyes.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 11:18 PM
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Hey there. Not a TRP response but a quick "Helpful Handy Hint." I, too, have a deviated septum and used to have chronic sinusitis every winter. Heating would dry out the air, drying out the sinuses. I got sick of taking antibiotics and having them screw up my gut, so I bought a vaporizer (not the "cool mist" type, but the "warm steam" type.) I put it next to my bed, and put hydrogen peroxide in the medicine cup thing. When it started to produce steam, I'd lean into the thing and breathe in the s…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 08:21 AM
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I had an argument with a therapist once. I had said I didn't believe in this New Age nonsense of how we're all responsible for our own feelings. "That's bullshit!" I said. "If somebody's yelling in your face it's going to affect how you feel!" Looking straight into my eyes, she said, "Somebody could be yelling in ~my~ face and it wouldn't affect how I feel." In that instant, I knew she was telling me the absolute truth. I surmised that if that happened, she'd be thinking, "Wow, this man is reall…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 09:08 AM
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I think I see the problem here, and it may be merely semantic. The OP uses the word "morality" where others here might be thinking the word "integrity." The imposition of some external group's morality really would violate a man's autonomy. That's the equivalent of, for example, Christians and Jews who don't fuck their neighbor's wife because their social code restricts it: if the guy gets caught, his social group will shun him, and even worse, his Sky Father will torture him for it throughout e…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 07:44 AM
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With respect, rigbed, I think you've been drinking the Kool Aid. The cunts who have been empowered by Trump are still cunts, dancing to the tune of their self-interests. Believing that by belonging to a group --even a group who appears on the surface to reflect your own values-- is still collectivism. A man's true power and authority come from himself, not from some group he belongs to. The group will ~always~ betray the individual if the individual's will diverges from the group will. The most …
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 06:42 AM
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