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you are allowed to ltr the girl if she is the right material. It is normal to want to build a life with a good woman. Just do it on your terms.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 11:15 AM
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Relax. Work on your life. Accept the results as they come.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 11:04 AM
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go to an adult shop and tell them the same story. They'll have something for you under the counter.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 11:01 AM
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Well played mate. Next!
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:30 AM
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Sorry, what? follow the drugs?
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:23 AM
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I was thinking more a long the lines that if a chick pulls a guy with a smv which is obviously inferior, she has more leverage for manipulation and beta bucks.
/r/askTRP09/10/16 12:19 AM
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yeah, good call
/r/askTRP04/10/16 02:14 AM
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Shit. This is what I needed to hear. I don't want to believe that she knows it's wrong. Also, I do blame myself for having the insecurity. I'll do the former option. I'm after stability as ridiculous as that is.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 08:51 AM
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About the guys and the break-ups and the awkward encounters afterwards. It wouldn't bother if it was once or twice but I've never expressed that much interest in her past or her ex-boyfriends. I think the implications of these conversations is that she is high value and has the power to reject. This is what is bothers me. Why? it's incorrect. I'm happy to walk away when things become unfixable and out of my frame. And, it's a petty game.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 06:57 AM
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Yeah, that's probably the way to go. I want to be clear with her, though. I'd rather say I don't want to hear about other guys. And, then if she continues then I'm going to withdraw as it is a game to devalue me.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 05:18 AM
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You are too invested in being right on the internet.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:36 PM
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All girls are whores. The guy was challenging him for the girl. He was essentially saying what are you going to do. If he floored the guy, the girl would have transformed from a whore to a unicorn.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:13 AM
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You should have whacked the guy hard. Floored him.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 01:05 AM
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Casual dates are always best. Take her somewhere you've been before, so you're showing her around. As for clothes, go for comfortable, smart and something you've worn before. Chill out. You're a high-value person. You deserve to hang out with girls.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 10:06 PM
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Move on
/r/askTRP27/08/16 09:56 PM
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The logic is nothing is going to happen with this chick. You only delude yourself. The only good way forward is to remove her completely from the realm of possible lays.
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:23 AM
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My solution is burn the bridge. Just send her a text which ends with "I want to lick out your butthole and cum in ur hair, bby"
/r/askTRP19/08/16 05:21 AM
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Don't take tinder seriously. No shit is gonna happen for you.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 09:32 AM
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You know, I have actually been thinking about consistency with sex. This is the first time that I've gotten into a LTR with a woman who WANTS it from me. Last night, I felt that it was time to really pound it to reset the clock and show her I wasn't soft. I knew that she would flag it the next morning as having compromised the next day and that it would have been better on the weekend. But, internally, I had decided I would rather err on the side of a good sex life, than an 100% orderly relation…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:10 AM
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I enjoy the violence because I justify it as a passionate form of aggression. That is, an expression of my LTR's sexuality. However, if I were to justify it differently, such as the violence was a way to make me cower into submission to open me up to abuse proper, I would read it very differently. At this stage, we're exploring kinks.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:03 AM
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Yeah, I guess that's fair. I just have this standard in place where I don't want sex to impact quality of life and study. I'm thinking I'll learn from this and keep this a rare occurrence.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:43 AM
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Okay, yeah, I'm trying to wear that opinion.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 02:41 AM
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My outlook is in agreement with /u/Dexontronox, here. But, I also agree with /u/postreformedpua. This view is more in line with mgtow principles: That the goal is to achieve a satisfactory worldview and lifestyle which isn't reliant on the company of a woman.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:11 AM
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It's hard, hey. But from your anecdotes, I would say just move on. A girl has every right not to respond. Also, calling people out on their bullshit is anti-social. Who made you the perfect judge? Anyway, just let it go. Ultimately, it's women who choose. You can't force her hand with some seductive rekindling.
/r/askTRP20/07/16 07:27 AM
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Yep, I had a girl recently who had this delusion. She was good during the beginning, did a lot of things for the first time. HOWEVER, once we started sleeping with each other on a regular basis, she began to go on about this time being the last time and about how it can't go on. But, yeah, she obviously wanted it. Was very easy to persuade her again and again. She would show up at my apartment unannounced, just wanting to get some (NB: guys, do not allow this sort of behaviour. You control who c…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 07:08 AM
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Hmmm, I feel more normal and spontaneous on the amps but I do have down times where I don't take it.
/r/askTRP29/01/16 12:20 AM
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I can sympathise with this problem. I would say you should try just get on with school work and bulking at the gym. There's no sure way to have it easy at school. Best to chill out and enjoy your chance at education. Two pieces of advice. First, draw hard boundaries on bad behaviour without being whiny. If someone consciously burns a bridge, bomb it and, after the dust has settled, offer terms for joint reconstruction, that's if you want. Example to your rude classmates: Interupt them and say 'a…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 11:41 AM
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I don't think you really think this but I'm wondering. Do you classify any two sentence justification of one's position as being full of it? I get the idea but I disagree. Life has caveats.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:31 AM
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Yep, I think I come off as normal irl but on forums I get a bit gratuitous and describe things with all details. I don't mind women. I think they are men with a womb and estrogen. So, looking after number one and maximising chances for happiness. Like men, most are simple and difficult to get on with. Edit: A word
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:26 AM
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I tried nofap and cold showers for good periods. I don't how good these methods are for me. But, yeah, busy the mind. Good advice.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:22 AM
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I agree. I am a member of a gym and was actually in the ring every week for a period last year before I had rhinoplasty. Thinking it is a bad idea to enter the ring but am keen to something similar. A friend has talked up karate. Though, it doesn't have the same level of contact as boxing. Would you say that's an issue?
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:20 AM
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Hmm, I do meditate. Have previously thought it was about refining the control of thought patterns. I have tried body scans with a psychologist. He said it was about attributing emotional pain to a part of your body. Haven't considered it as a way to be 'in the body'. Thanks for the tip.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 10:16 AM
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Okay, will do.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 03:18 AM
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Yep, I agree.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 02:19 AM
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As for language, I don't think it is there is a universal rhetoric that makes a man. You mean to say, assert yourself through the way one structures language.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:44 AM
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Okay, will look into the book. I'm not a man of high-calibre but I am clever and doggedly persistent when faced with a problem. I will find my own way to overcome this issue. You might be a faggot. I imagine you conceive this a man-to-man shit-test. My response is yeah, maybe, but don't use bitch tactics in a male space. I don't think it is knee-jerk. I stand by the response and think you articulated poorly. I was interested in the idea, nonetheless. Hence, I followed it up with the second respo…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:37 AM
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But seriously, I'm afraid I will never find out whether I am or not because I am brimming with conflicting ideologies and anxieties! I fear I'll never have an original impulse, just socially constructed ones. Certainly, I have no problem with the concept of homosexuality but it just doesn't make sense to me in anatomical terms. Lifting and practicing game is a cure for the anxiety. By becoming strong, one can put fear aside. As for what ideology I choose to walk under, whether it be gay, straigh…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 01:19 AM
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Yeah, maybe. You might be uneducated and insecure about it.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 12:59 AM
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Yeah, I initially used to get high, as I thought that was the remedial affects of the drug — something controllable to look forward to. But I noticed the tolerance issue. Now, I take the smallest dose possible, like a coffee in the morning, not expecting it to cure things by itself but as a small crutch.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 12:58 AM
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I am the contrary, the only time I feel content is when I don't want the woman and can throw her away at any moment. When I have had affection for the girl, I've been under the thumb and unable to express myself. And, I feel hyper sexual myself but feel unable to express it naturally. I don't think that I am as yet prepared to control frame in even a casual relationship with a woman. Need to get the basic things (finance, education, appearance, inter-personal skills) in control before I can trus…
/r/askTRP28/01/16 12:54 AM
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Yup, I'm going to counselling and take dexedrine. I have done tests. I score highly in all categories. Haven't done a spectrum test, though. No, I think the red pill is great for me. Strength training, reading the side bar and taking the advice of taking a cold calling job have all been excellent attachments to my life.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 12:50 AM
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My Mum tells me my Dad is on the spectrum. I think she is being manipulative here; I don't see it. Perhaps he is and it is my genes. One thing is for sure, I have developed tremendous anxiety when I encounter untried, or slightly risky things.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 12:38 AM
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Ha, yes, sort of. I have been diagnosed with generalised anxiety. I have tried to convince the doctor that I have adhd but he insists that I have adhd symptoms via the anxiety. I think my problems run deeper but I have developed a compensatory mode of being so I come off normal on first impression. Hence, I'm difficult to diagnose.
/r/askTRP28/01/16 12:35 AM
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Yep, it was a compromise. I felt like I bitched it. I was shocked/bemused. I was thinking earlier maybe I should have A&A'd it. Like "Yeah, mate, we are having a good time!" Match his aggressive tone with an everyday mark, send it back and keep walking. But, really, he was just a blip in my night. And the only reason I would send it back is if I felt it was necessary to demonstrate my masculinity for my own self-esteem and to win my friend's respect. May have been worthwhile to do so, oh well.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 03:56 AM
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Conflict is a difficult, messy matter. By definition, it's troubling. Sounds like you're taking all the right steps. I'm doing similar things. Was training as a boxer last year. Will be taking up karate when I can afford the tuition. You do need to be prepared to drop a cunt, even in this pc age.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 02:31 AM
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Yeah, it is unlikely that RP ideas are going to be okay with a university trained woman (or men, for that matter). If you having doubts, maybe act on them. However, don't expect that a male counsellor will be more keen to have the dialogue your after. Your counsellor can deal with this ball of guilt you talk about, though. As the rp stickie advises, talk about rp ideas but drop the jargon irl.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 02:15 AM
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Well, it was intimidating. Out of nowhere, this guy stood over my friend and I. I had no plans to deal with this guy and just continued on to where we were going. My friend tried to some witty retort, but was shutdown, called a fag, inane shit. He entered this guy's frame. I figure pass it off. If he escalates, then enjoy the sadistic pleasure of downing a fuckwit. Dude knew I was at least 85% his size and wasn't going to take the chance that I may have training. So yes, I was intimidated but my…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 01:44 AM
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A pansy fuck would have submitted to his ridiculous frame. My frame was that the dude was a fuckwit and shouldn't be responded to. I smiled and walked on. If he followed it up, I would allow him to take the first swing and then I'd jab him in the neck and let him choke his way to the hospital. My frame over his, over yours. Get rekt little internet bitch.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 01:18 AM
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Also, I don't know about this one-on-one activity stuff for a first date. It's pretty confronting, difficult to make casual. I am ten years your junior, though. Dating might be more to the point when you're 30+.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 10:49 AM
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Yeah, by the sound of your FR, you did well. As good as I did on my last one. But your report doesn't really exude confidence and I can imagine that the girl may have felt the awkwardness a bit. By all means, hit her up for a second go but, in my experience, you are only going to go places if the chick is 10/10 into you. And, more to the point, you don't sound too crazy about this chick, so let it pass. If you go for a second, no texts! No fucking way. Phone call. You'll need to remind her why s…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 10:44 AM
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Dude, sounds good. I would say drop her. You kooked the date. She doesn't sound that keen and you'll have to bust your balls in a really ugly way to get into the dominant position. Keep playing the field and improving. Don't waste energy on dating when you need to be working on yourself. You don't owe this chick anything and the relationship you guys could have at this stage would be all pain for you.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:56 AM
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Huge alpha dude the other night staunched me and a friend as we were walking passed him. He leers out from his friend group and says in the most obnoxious tone, "you guys look like your having a great time!". I just smile. I got nothing. Can't fuck with that kind of aggressive self-confidence.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:45 AM
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I agree this dogma does exist and we ought to confide in good men as they have a similar experience and, as such, have the capacity to empathise.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:33 AM
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Okay, thanks. I agree with you. I struggle to conceive of how to achieve intimacy without being emotionally close (in my mind, being emotionally close partly means disclosing weaknesses). However, I do see that woman want to be emotionally close without the man showing any sign of weakness. This is difficult and indeed requires the growing up that you mention. It either requires that you be disingenuous or be legitimately without weakness. Obviously, we must strive for the latter.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:30 AM
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I agree this is a problem I face. My mother wasn't attuned to my needs as a child and I seek women to be my mother as consequence. Or, maybe my mother nurtured me sufficiently and I enjoy forgoing responsibility for my emotional state. I'm wanting to move on. I'm wondering if a successful man seeks out emotional support from other places or, in general, is stable enough to forgo it. I think the successful man finds it with fellow men and family members, in literature and in the arts and in his w…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:21 AM
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You're too hardline rp to be able to realise this is a forum to discuss intermediary problems faced by people in their transition to manhood. Best you go to trp and beat your chest over there.
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:12 AM
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What do you look for in a sexual partner aside from nurturing, aka intimacy? I can vaguely envisage different types of sexual unions based on physical attraction alone or dominating someone (eroticised attachment to power), or a purely pragmatic union where you get sexual needs and social needs met. But so far, my sexual relationships have always had moments of nurturing. I think the overall message from the replies in this thread are correct. I need to approach relationships with women differen…
/r/askTRP01/12/15 12:08 AM
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My Mum never nurtured me. She was very rp. Always on about what it is to be man, what the male role is respective of the woman role. Basically man works to afford women freedom to raise children and to live a rich intellectual life. I agree seeking nurturing all the time is a sign of weakness. I am weak though. I want to be strong. Imo, nurturing is necessary for an individual to grow strong. Perhaps I'm using loaded terminology. I don't mean crying on someone's shoulder. I mean conceding weakne…
/r/askTRP30/11/15 11:53 PM
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haha, nice. I agree, how you esteem yourself counts for a lot.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:46 AM
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Well, I have dwelt on it a lot! Yeah, I'm happy with how I going through this problem. Acknowledging it, talking about it, not being too hasty. Thanks for the offer. I'll keep it in mind as I'm reading.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:41 AM
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That is good advice, thanks. However, I don't think I am bisexual. I think I have envisaged this problem. It's a game for me to cope with myself. It is an attractive dilemma to want to be straight and, by all intent and purposes, live as such but have gay tendencies. It absolves me from any responsibility to approach. I think I'm stuck in this game and I need to break it up. Hitting the gym, forming routine and developing a meditational practice is the next step. If these problems still persist …
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:38 AM
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Yeah, I've been wondering how much of an influence my recent watching of HoC has had on these feelings. Good spotting.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:25 AM
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You're right. I'm have this thing where I confuse the ending of certain words. In this case, Heteronormativity has two 't's after 'ma'. For some reason, that fact causes me misspell the noun form, heteronormative. I don't if the dash is necessary.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:24 AM
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I think if I were to occupy the same socioeconomic position as I do now in ancient times, I would be a slave and close to the end of my life! I don't know if you're joking about the street fights, but I could never bring myself to provoke uncontrollable pain unto myself. In the passed I have sparred in a gym. Street fights, though similar, I just couldn't do. I would get destroyed. I get your sentiment, though. Be aware of the master ideologies at play in the west and be more physical/primal and…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 02:14 AM
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Sex troubles me and distracts me a lot. What I'm trying to say is that woman aren't an end or a goal but I use sex to get things. It's a means to power/social status and nurturing. I think most guys view sex as being in a different category from power and nurturing. Sex seems like recreation or a sport for others. If I had good status and the capacity to form intimacy without sex, it would likely be a different thing to me and, maybe, I would not feel the requirement of sex at all. Japan sounds …
/r/askTRP07/11/15 01:23 PM
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I get big rushes of happiness when I approach a girl. It's like "Yes, this is what it's all about!" Most of my friends are people who approached me and I reciprocated. These relationships are not very valuable to me. I'm playing to their frame. Recently, I tried to make it with someone I respected. It filled me with such enthusiasm to be the one authoring a friendship. It bothers me that nothing really happened, that I can't just talk to her straight up and that older guys have more access to he…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 01:10 PM
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Yes, sex has elements which I like. I like someone selecting me, I like holding someone else's body, vaginas are interesting and pleasuring someone is nice. Though, the whole thrusting in and out, regardless of how you switch it up, is a bit boring. I feel that I don't really get it though, at least not like others. People around me talk about sex so naturally and they vividly describe fantasies, of which it seems they alone possess. I don't feel articulate in that area. I usually say that I lik…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 01:01 PM
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I'm assume you're talking about getting out there and meeting women. Yes, I agree completely. There is a problem I need to work out though. I'm skeptical of women and afraid of their (passive-)aggression and the possibility of being stigmatised or used. The result of this is I only ever approach half-heartedly. The thought in my head is "What is it that I'm going after right now? If this works, what am I getting myself into?" and "Rejection might be better because anything more has been proven t…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 06:50 AM
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Yes, planning to join Anytime Fitness in december; once my assignments are done. My country is not hostile to the lgbt community, it's just considered radical/juvenile. I find the conversation around it annoying and I often agree with lgbt critics. For game, I've been reading Strauss and TRP mainly, and some sidebar. I've internalised some of the ideas, mainly around frame, AWALT and independence, and have had some success. For the next step, I need to get a wing or wing myself and go out with t…
/r/askTRP07/11/15 05:27 AM
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Why is this message relayed so often here? Men and women are entitled to follow their own interests. Everyone cheats.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 06:58 AM
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Don't care either way about a dude becoming a chick. But I applaud the kid's response. Sick cunt. Shameless.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 11:03 AM
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Similar boat but my mother is religious, emotionally unhinged and a control freak. Fuck, a bad mother is devastating. It's hard to deal with when you finally man up. A complex issue. Recently, I told her I will only see her for lunch or the like. I won't go on holidays with the family or go to other family events as she controls how everyone feels and what is permissable. I can't stand her but, nevertheless, it's an important relationship to maintain as she and I are the power-brokers of the fam…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 10:55 AM
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How can one be happy when society is constructed to either alienate or patronize? I see your ideas clearly but I don't see the world as worth taking even if it is ready for such. I think one should exclude most of the world, only cooperating where necessary, and enthusiastically pursue pure interests. With that said, I'm glad there is someone here who is skeptical of the need to be socialize oneself to be 'alpha'.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 08:07 AM
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I think that validation and acceptance are important to one's wellbeing. I disagree with the idea that we shouldn't care where the validation comes from. An idiot's high praise should be deemed an insult; likewise praise from someone who has manipulative tendencies should be seen with great skepticism. It is an interesting and conflicted idea but we should strive for the ideal of being our own masters whilst recognising that happiness is often found in the company of others. Also, we strive for …
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:42 PM
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I like the idea of "improving yourself and not seeking validation from anyone but yourself" but a lot of self-improvement comes from adjusting oneself to their environment and getting the opinions from others. External validation is an important stage of self-improvement and is not, by any means, wholly negative. So yeah, we should seek to improve ourselves and have our own thing going on but realise we are moderately social creatures and that input from our peers, from mentors and detractors, i…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:41 AM
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Nah, saying "Man Up" and its variants (in your case Southwell, "stop playing the victim…) isn't right. Aussiehank and others are presenting an idea for discussion and you are trying to intimidate him because of your narrow ideas about masculinity. Also, "Man up" is a ridiculous phrase. It incites one toward ideals which members of either gender can attain (strength, independence, assertiveness etc.).
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:04 AM
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