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Okay, bring the data. I’m open to learning if I’m misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:08 AM
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I literally just explained how that’s a false dichotomy. I can’t understand it for you, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 01:45 AM
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Yes, and most “regular women” aren’t going for Timothy Olyphant. What’s the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 12:07 AM
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May we see these studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 11:59 PM
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I don’t know about that. Way back when I was a naïve college student I was roped into playing some kind of card game where the winner of the round can impose a dare upon the loser/s. I think the game’s called asshole, or maybe president? Anyway, one of the dares was for me and this other woman to kiss. These men were not original. The other woman was doubtful, and in my festive drunken stupid youth, I reassured her it would be no big deal. Why? See young, drunk, and stupid as needed. I said kiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:56 PM
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Well, a lot of men have sex with their penises. If a guy pays to give you head, a sex act you usually happily participate in, how is that not the same thing? And yes, that is a thing a LOT of male sex workers get paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 08:16 PM
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Honestly I do not claim to know much about her, so I’m just going by what I read. Vincent was described as a libertarian who was critical of postmodernism and multiculturalism.[3] She did not believe that transgender people were the sex they identified as, leading her to be accused of bigotry.[3] In an article for The Village Voice, she wrote: "[Transsexuality] signifies the death of the self, the soul, that good old-fashioned indubitable 'I' so beloved of Descartes, whose great adage 'I think, …
/r/MensRights14/02/23 02:37 AM
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Don’t you think OP deserves a heads-up that she’s anti-trans? It seems relevant.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:23 AM
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You should probably know that she is(was) very anti-trans.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 01:20 AM
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I have no wish for that either. But I do feel compelled to point out that you saying your answer would be objectively correct but I would misinterpret it because my opinions are just wrong and invalid is definitely insulting and combative.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 08:23 PM
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But why? Where would you even get the idea that everyone feels like this, let alone be convinced of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 07:52 PM
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Why do you feel so farm-endangeringly certain about how other people feel? It’s really weird. I’m 52 and about half of my friends and acquaintances around the same age don’t have children. None of them, men or women, have expressed any regret about that, and people tell me their problems A LOT. Most express profound relief.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 05:13 PM
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But the title and much of the post refers to fathers. It seems very misleading. I’m also a bit confused because alimony in childless divorce cases is increasingly uncommon, because most people without children don’t have the same employability repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:40 PM
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“Father” for simplicity and then you specify that you mean a childless marriage? I don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 03:08 PM
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Okay, but so many men here describe their ongoing experiences with toxic and abusive women. And they certainly claim to know what women are all about. Why do these men keep falling for bad relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:09 PM
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Yes, there are far too many men in prison. This is undeniable, and horrifying. And even worse, mostly for nonviolent offenses and drug bullshit. The fact that you think the solution is to have more women incarcerated suggests your alleged concern for male prisoners is disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:35 PM
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*complements
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:22 AM
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I’m trying to figure out if you’re like 100 years old or 12.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:17 AM
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They’re wrong. About how they feel. Everyone. You know this; they just don’t get it. About their own feelings. Sounds plausible. And I said nothing about the friendships being “the same.” I hope you realize that if you have to change the terms to make your argument, you haven’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:57 PM
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You realize that’s NOT accepting it, right? You seriously think everyone in the world feels the same way you do? Are you sure you’re married to that? Because it’s basically indefensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:49 PM
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Maybe that’s how it is for you and that’s fine, but can you accept that some other people feel differently about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:36 PM
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But why put that pointless limitation on friendship? I enjoy my friends for who they are, gender notwithstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 10:20 PM
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I’m talking about your claim that women don’t want to be friends with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:37 PM
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I’d prefer to avoid playing games altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 08:11 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:54 PM
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What virtue am I meant to be signaling, and to whom?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:50 PM
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What are you talking about? Please do not presume to speak for all women with this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 07:39 PM
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On what basis are you “almost positive” what experiences complete strangers have had? ETA: And yes, your comment about hypocrisy and lack of self-awareness may have broken all of the irony processors everywhere. Check with your local provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:38 AM
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I am very curious to know this as well! I’ve gotten a fair sample of viewpoints, as my neighborhood has gotten more and more unaffordable as people have less and less money coming in, so I encounter a lot of homeless people. I honestly don’t know where the line is in terms of the experience increasing their empathy or their bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 05:30 AM
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What are the legitimate ones you seldom “ever” see women bringing up? I am all ears about any “things that can be done to reduce the frequency of mass acts of violence” that you reference and women apparently ignore? As a woman, I absolutely would love to contribute to a decrease in mass acts of violence. Sign me up. So what am I doing wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 05:51 AM
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There are countless businesses in which the connections and experiences the spouse might have through porn would be extremely helpful. Obviously a lot in the entertainment field, but also most sales jobs, real estate, insurance, healthcare, advertising. ETA: I think I didn’t factor in that it’s apparently a small town where everyone knows each other’s business you’re talking about. I do see that would present more complications than like the situation of other people just moving around and being…
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 05:33 AM
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One and only wife? Where are you from?
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 05:20 AM
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Yikes dude. You might want to calm down a bit. I do have some opinions about other things in this thread than your falsehoods, however. So, while it’s not in dispute at all that women initiate the majority of divorces (at least in the US), the motivation aspect is the questionable thing. Most women fare considerably worse financially than men in divorce. You don’t have to take my word for it. I doubt you’d trust my research anyway, so please, I implore you, look into those statistics yourself. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 03:34 AM
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Yes, clearly I grossly misrepresented your statement, “80% of divorces are initiated by women because of the profit motive” by trying to present it as, “80% of divorces are initiated by women for profit.” How disingenuous of me. I mean you. Why is it always the people who make inaccurate claims and lie about it and paint themselves into a corner who then accuse anyone who calls out their bullshit of being “argumentative”? Then say something stupid like “Good day to you” (it’s always that) to try…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:26 AM
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How so? Why couldn’t it benefit him?
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 01:06 AM
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No, that’s perfectly reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 01:03 AM
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Wow, I would consider a man who greatly “cares about how the world views him” to be quite undesirable. I like spines.
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/22 12:26 AM
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No, this is not true. I am not disputing the % of divorces initiated by women. You said “80% of divorces are initiated by women because of the profit motive.” Where am I misquoting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:27 PM
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Right, but it was you who said you “can’t stand it when a girl is putting in a solid 10% effort and wondering where all the good men are,” which elicited a but why??? from me as well. Why is that something that upsets you? So what if they do? I mean, in your scenario the woman is already “punished” for her uppity selectiveness by not finding a good partner, so what more do you want? Does she have to spontaneously combust or something to satisfy your weird, rabid disapproval?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 11:09 PM
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Then why did you say Reddit? I’ve been banned plenty as a woman. Lots of women have. Your statement is literally a lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:57 PM
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Don’t you ever get tired of being (gestures vaguely)…this?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:36 PM
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No, I meant that you said that 80% of divorces are initiated by women for profit. When questioned on it, you referred to their perfectly accurate reading of your false statement as a “misunderstanding.” That is what I’m referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 10:30 PM
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So you mean you just made it up? Cause that’s what I’m getting from your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:53 PM
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You are really, really not making the point you think you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:29 PM
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You could not conceivably sound more insecure. It simply couldn’t be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 07:20 PM
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No, I was saying you wouldn’t/shouldn’t trust that guy. So you’re saying if I do my own research, you already know what I’m going to find out, and it’s that you’re right about everything? Thanks, mister; that’s a real time-saver!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:51 AM
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Oh my lord; read that sentence aloud and hear what you sound like. Would you trust that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:26 AM
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I was wondering that myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 05:12 AM
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I don’t really see how it’s gender-specific for someone to pretend to care about you, then use it against you. It’s hardly an unheard-of scenario that a man would betray another man who trusted him, using his vulnerabilities to attack him. In fact, it’s such a commonly acknowledged idea that’s there’s even a genre of movies devoted to it. IT’S CALLED ALL MOVIES
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 12:09 AM
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That seems reasonable.
/r/MensRights09/11/22 10:53 PM
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I don’t understand what this post is meant to convey.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 10:13 PM
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Okay…Pep? Do you actually think this comment makes sense as a response to what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:52 PM
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Please tell me she broke up with him on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 03:44 PM
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I read this in Steven Seagal’s voice and it was hilarious, so thank you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:40 AM
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You couldn’t possibly expect anyone to take you seriously when you say things like “feminazi.” Are you Rush Limbaugh in 1993?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:19 AM
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I don’t think anyone whose life is going well has ever declared “I am the voice of the forsaken” unironically.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 07:01 AM
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Unlike you, clearly not having a chip on your shoulder. There obviously is a place for emotional men, because you are being quite emotional. I don’t think that’s bad at all; I’m in favor of it. But you pretending that you’re not is pretty bizarre when it’s all right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:45 AM
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To be fair, I haven’t heard of any mass murders committed by the FDS folks. I don’t align with most of the sub’s mentality, but the comparison is absurd. THEY ARE NOT VIEWED AS TERRORISTS BECAUSE THEY DON’T COMMIT TERRORIST ATTACKS.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:38 AM
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You should really dramatically swing your cape when you make statements like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:26 AM
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But the OP didn’t say anything about the compliments being about looks. Unless they did. Is there a comment I missed? Or are you just jumping to a weird assumption?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:18 AM
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Too lippy?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:07 AM
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You didn’t clarify. You denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:05 AM
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Yes, you seem like you’re positively bursting with joie de vivre.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:05 AM
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But you literally said that’s what I thought. You didn’t make a generalized statement or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:02 AM
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I think that’s a you problem, dude, if people debating things with you is so overwhelming. You did very specifically say you were commenting because you enjoy debate. What do you think that entails?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:00 AM
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Sure. You said “You think I excuse having a side woman while I demand fidelity” when I’d never suggested anything of the kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:52 AM
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That is generally what people do when they don’t have a valid response, isn’t it? Even if metaphorically.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:48 AM
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Of course that would be your movie quote. With absolutely no rebuttal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:44 AM
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That does not make sense. Do you know what attrition is?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:40 AM
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You literally said that in your previous message. You told me what I think about an aspect of relationships we hadn’t even discussed. However you want to spin it, that’s what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:39 AM
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But you said that was what I thought. That’s my issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:34 AM
0

When did I say anything about you having a “side woman”? You are literally just making things up now. And you know perfectly well that when you say “getting lippy” you’re trying to pound your chest for the other guys, like, look, I don’t take any backtalk from my woman. If she gets uppity, she’s out the door.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:20 AM
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Your experiences are not an “idea.”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:08 AM
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You made another comment that you deleted, which is what I was replying to. It was a bit incoherent, hence my joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:06 AM
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You know that’s not the comment I replied to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:59 AM
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What idea? I for real don’t know what you’re talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:46 AM
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Okay, that’s fair, but “getting lippy”? What sort of reaction do you expect from that? I don’t feel that you are discussing this in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:42 AM
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Because your experiences are universal?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:35 AM
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Who hasn’t, am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:30 AM
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What?? Also I think it’s insanely gross that you say your lady is your perfect one and how much you adore each other, then say you’d drop her if she got lippy. It would be more disturbing if she actually existed, but it’s still pretty concerning.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:29 AM
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Sure, but you’re making these broad assumptions about women that you don’t even seem to consider might apply to people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:24 AM
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Sure, but in a way that villainizes women specifically. You freely acknowledge that you know many men do the same, so why isn’t it a question of bad human behavior in general?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:11 AM
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No, not at all. I’m arguing against the idea that your experiences are grounds to define how other people should feel or act.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:06 AM
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That’s just what moms do, though. ETA: You should probably spend less time with your mother. Especially if you think her opinion and that of all women is garbage. Also, technically we are still in the ice age.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:00 AM
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But everyone’s harmed by people who behave like that. We’ve all had those experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:46 AM
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Of course not. My point was that no one should. I’m not trying to have you deny anything. Where did you even get that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:43 AM
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But why wouldn’t a man have dealt with a lot of trauma from women as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:25 AM
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I don’t think everyone’s like that but certainly a lot of people are, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:23 AM
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Oh, nice example of being open to discussion. Really, bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:21 AM
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But don’t men over 25 have a lot of baggage too? It seems like an inevitable part of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:19 AM
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It would be, if you actually were open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:09 AM
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But what’s the default now? I sincerely don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:06 AM
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But, reject what, exactly? Shitty partners that screw you over and take advantage of you? Everyone should reject that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:49 AM
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No, I meant what is your purpose in “speaking about it”? What do you mean to accomplish? And to clarify, I don’t mean why are you expressing your opinion, because why shouldn’t you? But your phraseology suggests you’re trying to call something out and I’m not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:35 AM
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To what end?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:01 AM
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But to use the violin example, lots of men see women out of their league and think they should be entitled to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:29 PM
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How is that different for a woman? I seriously don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:13 PM
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WTF?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:35 PM
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The woman of your children? Whoa, getting into some weird territory here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:32 PM
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Or, just spitballing here, maybe it’s because it’s INCREDIBLY FUCKING GROSS.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:27 PM
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By fighting for unions and worker’s rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:35 PM
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Yes. Yes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:26 PM
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But she just gave counter examples? That lots of people use?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 09:22 PM
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What in the hell are you basing that assessment on?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:34 AM
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This man layin down truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:29 AM
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Are you having a stroke?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 06:13 AM
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How would you make up for a partner not getting your youth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 06:16 AM
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I’m beginning to suspect you’re trolling. Okay, got me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:42 AM
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How do they function in the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:40 AM
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So you’re actually describing him not thinking of her as a whole person, but it seems like you missed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:24 AM
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Then why all the resentment over these valueless women choosing to be selective? They’re worthless, so who cares, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:18 AM
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I couldn’t agree more. This is so weird. Like if I decide to have sex with someone, I’m legitimately not worried about how it will be interpreted by a hypothetical future partner who is not someone I’d be interested in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:13 AM
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Have you ever left your home or met any people IRL? It sounds like everything you think is cobbled together from questionable online sources and you’ve accepted a lot of things as “just how it is” based on seemingly no evidence. None of what you’re saying holds up, but it seems like you don’t realize this, and it’s unsettling.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:59 PM
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I thought your point about the statistics was sound, and I appreciated it. I just don’t get the “skilled at saying no” thing. And “women like me”?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:51 PM
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Well, then you’ve chosen your username aptly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:48 PM
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WTF?!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:46 PM
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Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:49 PM
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I mean, I understand what you mean, but are you a big fan of how civilization is functioning currently? Cause I’m not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:41 PM
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Not at all. They should simply stop thinking women are supposed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:38 PM
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But why does having a lot of sex mean a woman is bad at saying no? I’ve had a lot of sex and said no a lot too. I had sex with people I wanted to have sex with, and said no to people I didn’t. What does that have to do with fidelity? I never cheat. I don’t like hurting people but I do like having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 08:29 PM
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“If this assumption I’m making is true, cannot I therefore make this other assumption? Just accept that my initial premise is true, because reasons.”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:39 AM
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I don’t know, something you didn’t just make up maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:36 AM
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What kind of changes do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 09:25 AM
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That’s just so awful. How do the women whose husbands or family haven’t murdered them yet even live with that situation? I know; by having no alternative. But it breaks my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:21 AM
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Okay, so the opinion is that people shouldn’t believe they could be happy single? If they do believe it, and are reasonably happy (can we skip the part where they only think they’re happy but you know better?) why would it be beneficial to anyone for them to decide, no, wait; I’m actually miserable?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 02:02 AM
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Just what they shouldn’t do? Then what? What’s the goal here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:33 AM
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Oh, there’s an answer you don’t have? You’re the one who aggressively argued for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:24 AM
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So what do you think people should do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:21 AM
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And you think this post should open people’s eyes to what? What outcome would you be seeking? ETA: And why is up to you to police the sincerity of other people’s feelings?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:15 AM
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You have replied. By dismissing everything people said.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:10 AM
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Okay, and expressing this will accomplish what? You want to convince people who are happy being single to…not be happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:06 AM
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That’s really childish and simplistic. You are posting a strong statement and arguing it with no recognition of other’s points. Which is certainly your prerogative, but please don’t pretend it’s something it isn’t. I realize I’ll never get a reasoned reply from you, but I do want to ask: Why is it more problematic for people who may or may not want relationships to think they can be happy single than for an aromantic to obsess angrily about how everyone NEEDS romantic relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:03 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:52 AM
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I agree. If you knew anything at all about debate you’d realize that wasn’t my issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:52 AM
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But why are you arguing this? Who cares if some people feel this way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:50 AM
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And you think it’s wrong for them to feel that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:49 AM
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Nothing you are doing could be considered debate under even the most generous interpretation of the term.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:47 AM
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And? Still don’t understand what it is you’re wanting to do with this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:44 AM
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The term you introduced?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:43 AM
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Why do you think they “buy into” it? Couldn’t they just feel the way they feel, or are only you allowed that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:41 AM
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No, I didn’t mean communication skills like that. I meant interacting with the humans as if you recognize they are entitled to opinions you disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:40 AM
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So then what is the purpose of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:37 AM
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It’s certainly true that many people don’t feel fulfilled without a romantic relationship, but plenty do. But what I’m really trying to figure out is, what is the point you’re trying to make?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:36 AM
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Oh, now you prefer those terms? Over the ones you’ve already used?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:31 AM
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Then why isn’t “nearly everyone” agreeing with you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:28 AM
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If you have such a profound understanding of how everyone else feels you’d think you’d have better communication skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:26 AM
1

It is absolutely nothing like that. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:24 AM
1

Wait, you’re equating women not wanting to be with gay men to men not wanting a woman to be sexually experienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 12:22 AM
3

Yes, it is correct that they are talking with different men. Some men are needy or desperate; some are standoffish. Just like absolutely everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:04 AM
1

No offense but, have you ever left your house? Or interacted with people? Because it sounds like most of your opinions are based on something a random douche posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:48 AM
2

If you think that’s the most intense aspect of romance I’m pretty sure you just answered your own question.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:39 AM
1

I’m not the one claiming not to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:36 PM
1

I don’t think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:13 PM
1

Yes, and if they decide together it’s not a unilateral decision. You seem rather set on thinking otherwise and I don’t understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:48 AM
1

Because lots of people make those decisions with their partners. This is a super normal thing that happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:33 AM
1

I can see how to you it would be preposterous for men to ever take responsibility for their actions, when women are actually to blame for all of society’s ills.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:28 AM
1

Oh, yes, they do. I quite agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:22 AM
1

Holy crap, you spent several paragraphs explaining the concept of societal pressure like you’re an encyclopedia entry from the 1950s, then just repeated the same questions you’d asked before. I am no joke very much hoping you’re a bot at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:18 AM
1

This seems like a very specific example, but okay. How do you think it should play out, that you feel would be better for society?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:12 AM
1

You’re welcome. What respects?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:00 AM
2

No, what you’re saying is that the consequences of having sex disproportionately fall on women, and you seem to for some reason think this is not just acceptable, but a reason to vilify women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:56 AM
1

I’d be happy to be mistaken in my assessment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:52 AM
1

What the hell kind of extralegal measures do you think society should use to dictate what is appropriate for individuals? What the fuck, man?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:51 AM
2

I don’t think you’re making the point you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:38 AM
1

You don’t despise and resent women? If not, I am actually sorry to have suggested that. It’s just…you sound like you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:37 AM
2

When two people are having consensual sex they are equally responsible for what they do with their bodies and pregnancy and STI prevention.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:33 AM
1

No, there are no types of single motherhood I find worthy of condemnation. You mention some specific extreme circumstances, but in those I might judge someone for their actions indeed, but not for being a single mother in and of itself. And again, all of your outrage at the idea of so many children being raised by single mothers is your prerogative, I guess, but what do you think is the way to address it? Legislate that all fathers must actively participate in the raising of their children? I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:29 AM
1

Oh, thanks; that cheered me up. Sometimes humor is scarce with such a touchy issue. I’m reminded of The Simpsons episode about shooting Mr. Burns where Marge insists that when she married Homer she took on everything Simpson, including DNA. Lisa’s like, okay Mom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:11 AM
2

Um, he made those choices too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:06 AM
1

But I had set that aside as a comparison and was clearly not arguing in favor of it. So why are you still responding to what someone else said instead of my direct comment to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:04 AM
1

You should perhaps learn to write if you want to be taken seriously. Not that it would really matter, I suppose; your arguments are shit. I’m just saying they could be better expressed shit opinions. Give it some thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:00 AM
2

Wait, at least two of those things she absolutely does not have unilateral control over at all. They mutually decided to have sex, and if pregnancy results that’s not something either of them had control over except to whatever extent they tried to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:51 AM
2

So if women aren’t interested in dating men who despise and resent them, the toilets will stop working? I could maybe live with that as opposed to the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:29 AM
2

So it’s not being abandoned by the other parent that contributes to these issues? It’s all on the parent who stays? How do you justify that viewpoint?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:20 AM
4

I agree. For people in general! It’s a losing game with a lot of headaches you don’t have to sign on for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:12 AM
2

I’ve not heard of them. But that means little. What part of the world are you in currently?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:09 AM
2

Well, for starters, what concert?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:00 AM
2

Yes, that can be so helpful. But I honestly think why you’re not getting more responses is your post is unclear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:56 AM
2

Honestly, it sounds like you’ve been through a lot, sweetie. I’m sorry. But I am confused by what you’re asking. You say you want to embrace a ho phase, then say you’re vexed that women don’t seem interested in relationships? Have I misunderstood?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:52 AM
1

You mean by the women giving birth?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:44 AM
3

Honestly, I thought the comparison a bit hyperbolic. But if you don’t think single mothers are subject to ridiculous judgements for the apparently unforgivable crime of having a child and actually caring for them while the other party evades responsibility and doesn’t provide support, you are not being realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:40 AM
1

No. It is not. But I can’t wait until it is! My sister got tons of shit for being a single mom. She’s an extremely responsible person with a steady job (university professor) and in her mid-thirties (at the time) so you wouldn’t think people would have the same issues. I think the issues are bullshit anyway; just to be clear. I was using my sister as an extreme case. Like this woman who has the resources to raise a child (my niece will be 18 in a month and is coming to live with us the summer af…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:26 AM
2

Bears.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:10 AM
2

How are you defining family? If you mean their children, you are way off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:09 AM
6

Are you kidding? Some people like to blame everything on single mothers. They’re like, do you know what percentage of kids raised by single mothers get into trouble or become criminals? I say, good lord, that many people have such awful repercussions from having a parent abandon them? Good thing someone is still bothering to keep them alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:05 AM
1

So then what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:50 AM
3

Damn, you sound so defensive and desperate, and you clearly have no issue with just straight-up lying. But you must temper that criticism with the knowledge that I’m a woman, so presumably I’m being “all or nothing” and blowing things out of proportion. You’re not the overly emotional one here. It’s me for certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:45 AM
1

Because possessiveness suggests the other person is a thing to be possessed, not a fully realized other person. And, frankly, if I felt I had to monitor my partner to prevent them from cheating I would GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:30 AM
4

Yeah, I can’t support that. Like, okay; they’re alive for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:20 AM
11

Toothpick? Really? Does he need to take the Charles Atlas course to avoid bullies kicking sand in his face and stealing his gal? What century are you living in?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:18 AM
2

It usually means he’s aggressive or disrespectful. Not always, though; it can absolutely just mean they don’t connect with this person for just not being compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:10 AM
2

So why are you still arguing this when you so emphatically don’t care?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:02 AM
2

Hostages
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:01 AM
2

They were probably just trying to adjust to your writing level. If anything, it was considerate of your limitations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 04:55 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/x7pwvm/are_old_virgins_unattractive/inen225/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 01:38 PM
2

You just stated you were concerned about other peoples ugliness. You just said it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 05:03 AM
11

When you continue to not have a girlfriend you’ll know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:52 AM
11

How sporting of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:51 AM
3

You think American is a race? Oh, dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:48 AM
1

Because?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:45 AM
1

How do you not get that some men abuse lots of women? The number of victims does not equal the number of offenders. No matter how many times I try to explain that saying women get abused a lot by men does not mean most men are abusers, some people will not accept that. It’s like you don’t want to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:40 AM
1

WHOOSH
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 04:34 AM
1

I would love so much to be able to disagree with you about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:49 AM
1

What a nuanced and totally from an actual human being perspective! Kudos.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:47 AM
1

Oh holy shitty memories; I remember this awful experience from when I was younger. I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. I wish you the best of luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 05:39 AM
4

I was just about to post exactly the same sentiment. I think we all know why.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:02 AM
1

Can you give me an example of a person for whom it does work?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 02:25 AM
12

I don’t think that’s exactly the zinger you intended it to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:10 AM
3

No diggity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:04 AM
-1

You are an amazing listener.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:00 AM
3

There is just…good lord…so much wrong with this comment. I might need to lie down. But just so you know, none of the people I know who died alone ever said anything about it being miserable. I think you’re projecting a bit with that. And in my (extensive) experience, at least 8 out of 10 sexy firefighter CEOs are also gross chronic masturbator potheads. And who’s got time for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:22 AM
5

So that’s why RP guys are so fulfilled and satisfied? Because this works?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 09:36 AM
4

Well, one could hardly logically argue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:57 AM
7

Perhaps I’ve misunderstood the philosophy but it certainly seems adversarial toward and contemptuous of women, often viewing them as sub-human. If you have an explanation of how that fosters connection I am nothing but ears.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:45 AM
5

No, sorry, that was on me. I was confusing his comment with a different one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:39 AM
5

He was specifically saying he’d choose women whose countries were most effected by global warming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:35 AM
5

Right? That’s how I feel when people talk about a robot uprising. I’m down. How could they do worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:30 AM
3

Actionable steps like TRP? What do you mean by that? I am perfectly fine to discuss my views, which are not separatist or anti-man or opposed to heteronormative relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:25 AM
12

What?! Are you daft? My comment about women being exploited was, I would have thought obviously, in response to the comment that if some women don’t like it, there are plenty of women who can like it or die!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 08:04 AM
2

I meant how does it not apply to single men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:56 AM
10

How am I advocating more divide?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 07:53 AM
12

And if the attitude under those circumstances was a comparable “That’s too bad. Good thing I didn’t get involved with her” I’d think that perfectly sensible. But instead it’s like all this rage and contempt for theoretical women who haven’t even rejected them and how hypothetically miserable they’re going to be, and deserve to be, for not wanting what you want them to want. It’s really fucking weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:47 AM
1

I don’t mean I don’t care about the topic. I literally posted it. Asking to discus it. I mean I don’t care about being “replaced.” You’re not the sharpest egg in the barrel, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:29 AM
1

I couldn’t begin to guess. I’m talking about something I see happening; I have no idea where it will go.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:26 AM
2

Import? From where to where? What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:16 AM
25

I’m totally on board with that as well. Why should people knock themself out for something that isn’t what they want and isn’t working for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 06:14 AM
7

Okay. How not?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:38 AM
25

Why the fuck would I care, except for concern about the women being exploited? Checking out is checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:35 AM
14

Why is so much of this based on the theoretical regret these stuck up women will have one day? If they do, they do. However, I’ve never regretted not taking a job or not dating a person that wasn’t right for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:32 AM
1

I’m a little confused because I’m not asking people to change my view, and my opinion isn’t set in stone at all. I very much wanted to hear opinions on this subject. Is there a way I should’ve indicated I was interested in general discussion of an idea as opposed to a dogmatic pronouncement and a “come at me” vibe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:25 AM
1

Yes, exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:09 AM
11

I’m not talking about men being wary of dating women (totally legit), but men having trouble accepting women being wary of dating men (also totally legit).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:08 AM
20

Really? For me and a lot of other women the answer isn’t leveling up, it’s checking out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:03 AM
1

Okay, then. I am for real not shitposting and thought this was a great forum to discuss this idea, but didn’t want to hit people with a screed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:59 AM
1

Low effort, okay. I can see that. I was actually kind of afraid to post here because I never have and made it short to invite other opinions instead of getting on a soapbox. So if I explain my position more thoroughly would that make the post acceptable?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 03:53 AM
2

Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 02:30 AM
5

That happens way more than daily. Are you nuts?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:23 AM
6

Yes, thank you! I find it very puzzling when people hear “women are often raped by men” as, “most men are rapists.” WTF? Two very different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:22 AM
4

It’s funny that everyone who’s actually tried it is telling you it doesn’t work, but somehow YOU know that it’s effective “the overwhelming majority of the time.” How the hell would you know? If it works with you, fine. But I can’t believe you have the gall to tell people who deal with this constantly how wrong they are about their own actual experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:15 AM
3

Yes, of course. That’s entirely obvious. The point is he brought up an accusation no one is making.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 12:03 AM
1

That’s only because you did.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 08:55 PM
1

I have a few thoughts on this, as a woman and formerly prolific dater (since retired) and a friendly person in general. I have no idea if it’s helpful but I’ll give it a shot. Fashion is often a safer subject for a compliment because not only is it not objectifying or overly personal, but it also shows appreciation for their taste, not just their appearance. However, the grosser ways focus on fashion by saying, those jeans look really good on you, or anything breast-adjacent. You seem to have a …
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:46 PM
1

That puzzles me too. It seems like so many people here are obsessed with bad things that could happen to a man. Very few have experienced it; but their second cousin always has. I know it’s anecdotal but I don’t know any women who haven’t been sexually harassed or assaulted, and none of the men I know have ever been brought up on false rape charges.
/r/MensRights08/08/22 12:11 AM
0

Beyond idiocy! And do you believe some of the “statistics” they come up with? Like they claim women are more likely to commit DV? In what universe?
/r/MensRights07/08/22 08:21 PM
1

Yes! It’s insane. The level of debate here is playground. Though I do think men get sexually harassed. Not nearly as much as women, but I’ve definitely seen it. Not so much the street harassment; usually more interpersonal. Like this one friend of mine who is considered very attractive and works as a bartender; I’ve witnessed him get harassed a lot. I’m also fascinated by how my comment about how people here seem to hate women received many hateful responses about how wrong I am about that.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 05:45 PM
0

I hope you’re right.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:56 PM
-16

I appreciate that. What do you mean by “do the same”? Same as I did?
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:44 AM
-31

I absolutely hear you, but why does that make the whole manosphere hate us for being women? I didn’t choose this either, or the discrimination, whether it benefits me or harms me. That’s bullshit either way.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:39 AM
2

I hear you (sort of) but a lot of people don’t consider it even sex if the man doesn’t orgasm. It’s pretty insane.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:18 AM
20

It’s so frustrating how sex and everything else seems to be based on women’s satisfaction and convenience. That’s definitely a thing. I’m sure that could be exasperating, in theory or otherwise.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 03:09 AM
-7

Respond to what, though? Does this come up in your everyday life?
/r/MensRights07/08/22 02:14 AM
7

Oh, I agree with that entirely. I probably misinterpreted the position.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 02:11 AM
-5

How was I trolling? I may have misunderstood the term. What do you think it means?
/r/MensRights07/08/22 02:01 AM
-6

And they degenerate from there.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 12:49 AM
1

Okay, but a lot of that guy’s accomplishments definitely involved his body. This seems like a double standard.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 12:46 AM
1

I’m actually not specifically proud of being a woman. I was just asking the question to understand what the poster thought about that objectively.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 12:41 AM
-2

So insane. Even though I’m older (52) I am still very impressed by how many things from my early working days have changed for the better, but many have not.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 12:28 AM
-20

Witticisms seem equally hard for you.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 12:21 AM
1

What? Your position is so unclear I do not understand.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 12:19 AM
-1

A lot of places do. This is a real thing. Of course they do, why wouldn’t they? It’s their bottom line.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 12:12 AM
-5

Ugh, yes, Dickens. Never a fan.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 11:22 AM
12

That is unquestionably abuse, please don’t doubt that. As to why, you said they stopped when you were 13. Do you know why? How did your interactions with them go after that?
/r/MensRights04/08/22 04:24 AM
-24

I’ll beware of people who think “master baiters” is funny and clever to use. It’s extremely played out, and profoundly juvenile to begin with. If you’re under, say, fourteen, I rescind this criticism.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 04:14 AM
-7

I thought you said you were already falsely accused. This is a bit confusing.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 04:06 AM
1

I assure you, my tits are extremely calm. I’ve been asked to remove myself from this subreddit, which I kind of get, so this is it for me.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 10:36 PM
2

Yes, you’re right.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 03:53 PM
-12

What? That doesn’t even make sense. All kinds of random posts are suggested to me. This was one of them. I can assure you it’s not personal.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 05:07 AM
1

I like how troll is the same thing as person you don’t agree with. I’m not here in bad faith, though I often disagree. I am trying to understand shit and just be chill.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 05:02 AM
-4

Could you explain that? I’m not sure what you mean.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:57 AM
-5

Are you foaming at the mouth right now? Because I do picture you foaming at the mouth.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:54 AM
-1

How have women not done that? Many women do that.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:48 AM
-21

I think I did. But wow you have some issues. Best of luck, sort of.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:44 AM
1

Absolutely sometimes they did. And?
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:39 AM
-25

Should I not be proud to be a woman?
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:35 AM
-12

Wait, men built giant ships that didn’t work, but you are criticizing women and children for escaping them? Interesting.
/r/MensRights03/08/22 04:33 AM
2

Hmmm. What’s the common denominator?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:39 PM
1

See, that seems like a reasonable position. Yet you care enough to constantly post complaining about it. *hordes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:28 PM
1

Yeah, you seem prone to “assume” an awful lot of things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:19 PM
1

You really haven’t ever had a relationship, have you?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:44 AM
1

Okay, shaky premise and crap evidence, but even if that were true, so what? If you value your partner based on reproductive physical viability and things like that why would you even bother having a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:42 AM
1

So why are you asking about it here?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:23 AM
2

Like in the same way racism has been brought to the forefront more because people feel more comfortable committing egregious racist acts, or murders and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 05:03 AM
1

Okay, what would honest debate entail? I’m absolutely open to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:54 AM
2

You don’t? What is your opinion of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:47 AM
1

For all we know, OP could be the best-looking person in the world. This assumption is just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:46 AM
1

You seem very obsessed with this, posting endlessly. I have no idea why you think someone’s age should dictate what they want in a partner. People want a person who seems compatible. You clearly hate women and seem extremely attracted to men, so why not leave us ladies out of your hatefulness and live your life?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:36 AM
2

True, sort of. It might also mean they have no interest in doing so.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:27 AM
1

I think this is truer and more of a self-own than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:22 AM
1

How??? What are you wanting or expecting?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 04:03 AM
2

Yes, it’s a bit difficult to pin down because it’s a lot of obvious things and a lot of more subtle things. Basically the climate being very aggressive and dismissive toward women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:56 AM
1

It would be the same basic result. Sometimes I just want a hookup too, and I’d prefer to have it with someone who doesn’t villainize me for being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:21 AM
7

What? Aside from the absurdity of thinking your notion of attractiveness is universal and indisputable, what would thinking men are inferior have to do with anything? How does that idea even enter the equation?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:50 PM
2

WHOOOOSH
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:43 PM
1

I was trying to say that and I did. So I’m good.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:42 PM
1

I didn’t accuse you of that. I was saying your argument was shit and very dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:19 PM
2

I think it’s funny that you don’t see the irony in your triumphant: see she was right about me being a creep!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:05 PM
1

That’s circular reasoning, you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:51 PM
1

Especially Benedict.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:47 PM
2

I meant your response to the other commenter. It was completely disingenuous and didn’t even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:10 PM
1

Must be nice!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:06 PM
1

You are completely shameless in your prevarication and equivocation. You’re not even pretending to actually address the points you respond to, you are seriously just making shit up. I guess confirmation that you’re a dimwitted bigoted yokel is another piece of the puzzle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:01 PM
2

This is completely false, and crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:51 PM
0

He changed the comment entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 08:54 AM
1

You definitely didn’t. Just saying something doesn’t make it true. And you are not very coherent.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 06:02 AM
1

Please tell me YOU didn’t accuse ME of using a lot of words.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:39 AM
1

You certainly wouldn’t on this subreddit. It might as well be called WomenAreEvilAndInferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:25 AM
2

Wow. None of that supports your position at all. I cannot even begin to tell you my feelings about how you used the concept of weaponising rape. Do you ever, ever think about what you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:18 AM
9

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 03:05 AM
12

That’s why I said he shouldn’t tell me about it, not that he shouldn’t have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:57 AM
1

Don’t we hear just as many stories about women who are frustrated about putting in all the effort? What of those?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:39 AM
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Because if he’s fascinated with another woman it feels threatening in terms of our relationship. If he watches random people fuck in various scenarios, it doesn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:35 AM
1

And if it is? I hate how some online people have turned “cope” into a bad word. It used to be very positive, and imply strength and resourcefulness.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:29 AM
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I’m not sure why the equivalent wouldn’t be exactly the same. For me, I have no problem with porn but if he’s super infatuated with some specific instagram model he should hide that from me because it WILL make me feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:19 AM
2

I’d argue that it’s a result of women getting raped very often. I’m enthralled by the idea that you think if a woman walking 5 meters in front of you appears anxious in any way, that’s some sort of feminazi judgement on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:07 AM
2

Okay. Cite a source. Although 2 to 4 % is what i heard, so I guess you don’t have to provide a source for something I basically have the same statistics on. That is a very small percentage. Yes, it should be zero, but so should be the percentage of people getting raped. Do you have the remotest idea of how many people have killed themselves over false accusations of rape vs. how many people have killed themselves over the trauma of being raped? I don’t think you will enjoy learning the reality. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:55 AM
1

Who would answer no to that? A man has never made you feel uncomfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:38 AM
2

It’s not paranoia. Please do a survey of the women you know and see what they have to say about their experiences. WARNING: If these are people you love, you will not enjoy what you hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:35 AM
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It may be for some women, but not for most. The majority of women I know have experienced this. It’s not paranoid at all. I wish people would understand that saying “women are raped by men very often” does NOT mean, “most men often rape women.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:32 AM
1

You consider this the norm in heterosexual relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:25 AM
2

Perhaps, but if so, where’s the harm in it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:22 AM
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I think you’re absolutely right. ALL of the women I know have gotten disenchanted with men and NONE of the men I know have gotten disenchanted with women. I know it’s an obvious take—but for a reason—that the political climate has a lot to do with this. I mean in the sense that previously covert hostility toward women has become screechingly overt for a while now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:30 PM
1

Sigh. I know. Want some popcorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:05 PM
1

Your premise is half sane/half insane. The insane part is that women don’t avoid dating and sex out of fear of violence, abuse, and pregnancy. They certainly do. Wouldn’t those circumstances influence your feelings about dating if that was your situation? The sane part is the claim that maybe a lot of women aren’t that interested in dating, or dating men. It’s true; many women aren’t. But so what? It seems like you’re arguing that women are somehow at fault for not buying what you’re selling. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:01 PM
2

You hit the nail on the head, my dear. Quite perspicacious. If the MGTOW would just GTFOW already I’ll bet a lot of us women would be more interested in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:31 PM
1

I would say your experience is atypical, and fictional.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:15 PM
1

I’ve just popped some corn and sat in my favorite chair so I can wait with you for this answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:12 PM
1

No, it’s not necessary. However, you treating your opinions as authoritative pronouncements and everyone else’s as garbage does imply some things. And why are you so hung up on “IMO”? I never mentioned it but you keep bringing it up. I know it’s your opinion. I’m less clear on why you think it’s the only one that matters. And what are you even referring to with your patronizing comment about a “fork” in conversation that I’m apparently too much of a, let me guess, moron, to understand? I get tha…
/r/MensRights17/07/22 07:05 AM
2

I actually meant the discussion that was occurring, which you made about all your weird issues and resentments, which I think if you want to expound upon maybe you should write a manifesto or something? What discussion do you think I’m trying to have? If you look at the comments, you will see that I was not pushing any particular argument, while you are trying to tell everyone how they should interact with others and how they should feel. It’s actually pretty fucking weird you feel the need or t…
/r/MensRights17/07/22 06:43 AM
1

WTF are you even on about? Damn, you like expounding on shit endlessly when it’s clearly self-indulgent and not actually furthering the discussion. And you seem to love calling people morons. I don’t even know what to do with your statement about how you don’t get into it with morons if they’re going to be insulting or some such uncivilized behavior. Yeah, you really showed those morons it’s not cool to insult and dismiss people.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 06:28 AM
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It’s not that, but you faulting others for expressing their opinions and calling them morons is not a good look if you’re trying to present yourself as the reasonable one.
/r/MensRights17/07/22 05:47 AM
2

You presented many of your opinions as facts. Quite aggressively so, in fact. Are you the only one allowed to do that?
/r/MensRights17/07/22 05:38 AM
2

Yeah, and I agree that’s shitty and unproductive. I never really went through a “herstory” phase in the evolution of my feminist beliefs because I thought it stupid and irrelevant. But even so, how is that silliness, even presented in a silly manner, something to hang one’s outrage on?
/r/MensRights29/05/22 01:35 AM
1

Oh, and just a weird specific thing, why is it on the mother and not the father if people circumcise their children? How is that a woman thing?
/r/MensRights29/05/22 01:06 AM
1

I cannot believe how many things you just claimed with absolutely no backup or apparent foundation. My mind is reeling. So as a response should I mention some instances of problematic power relations between men and women in general? I seriously doubt you want me to do that.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 01:02 AM
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Sounds about right.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 09:16 PM
1

Okay, we’re almost there. Who has designed, enforced, and perpetuated these unequal societies? Was it women? Were they in charge?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:38 AM
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What are you basing that on?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:21 AM
2

But this is just a random person being silly. How does it threaten men’s rights?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:12 AM
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But you must have noticed that it does? I think the patriarchy has a lot of overlap with many other ideologies that try to enforce a subservient demographic. In the patriarchy, that includes any men they don’t deem leaders or wealthy enough, not just those of us who have the temerity to be female. They don’t care about the everyday man outside of how much they think they can manipulate them into supporting things that are not in their best interest.
/r/MensRights28/05/22 04:02 AM
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So you think people should be more specific about the behaviors they consider “toxic masculinity”? Quite reasonable in theory but they do, all the time. ALL THE GODDAMN TIME. If you want to hear some harrowing tales look into how specific they get. But don’t, because it’s very upsetting. Bottom line, I have no problem defining what toxic masculinity is or is supposed to be, do you? Can you define what you think it’s irrationally suggesting about men’s actions?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 12:37 AM
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Of course it is, indeed; I’ve no idea why chaps sometimes refute repudiation of the patriarchy. It’s screwing you over, too. But I can’t remotely understand how saying “how society is made by men, for men” is better than using the term “patriarchy.” How is it an improvement, as you see it?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 12:25 AM
1

What do you think would be a better word?
/r/MensRights28/05/22 12:17 AM
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There are countless definitions, from the highly personal to the abstract and academic. Lots of people have defined it, from many different perspectives. You don’t have to take my word for this; perhaps research a little. And even if that was true, how on earth does the circumstance of people not being able to define something mean it’s nonexistent? Do you just hate learning or information of any kind?
/r/MensRights27/05/22 11:29 PM
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The linked article actively contradicts your claims. Did you put the wrong one in there or what?
/r/MensRights04/05/22 08:30 PM
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Yeah, I didn’t notice there was a second page at first and was thinking, well, the tone is rather hysterical and I very much doubt the accuracy of the statistics, but it’s certainly true that the majority of rapes are not successfully prosecuted, so it’s not that crazy to—what’s this, a second page? Um…never mind.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 05:06 PM
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That’s not…I mean…do you think…? PLEASE LEARN ABOUT HOW REPRODUCTION WORKS
/r/MensRights04/05/22 04:59 PM
1

This is just straight up not true.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 04:56 PM
1

I didn’t notice there was a second page at first and was thinking, well, the tone is rather hysterical and I very much doubt the accuracy of the statistics, but it’s certainly true that the majority of rapes are not successfully prosecuted, so it’s not that crazy to—what’s this, a second page? Um…never mind.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 03:46 PM
2

Women are wild animals? Yeah, you seem like a sane person capable of reasonable discussion.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 08:12 PM
1

Because his claim is that women only need men for money. Seems pretty relevant to me. We might not be talking about the same comment, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 07:59 PM
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No, lots of women want that. I think that’s something most people want, and sadly lots of people can’t find. But that’s just like the human condition in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:04 PM
1

What? What are you basing that on?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 04:00 PM
1

But you seem to entirely discount that women have preferences about the men they date that aren’t about money or kissing their ass. Like, a man is not “easily replaceable” if you really like that specific man. Although I guess I can see how this particular situation may not really come up much in your case.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:58 PM
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Because it makes no sense. Woman want love and sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:49 PM
1

What the hell are you talking about? Everyone needs to keep a roof over their head and such. Relationships are a completely different type of need.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 03:47 PM
1

And those all ended badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:18 AM
1

No, that’s common sense. Have you actually experienced a lot of people walking across the street blindfolded?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:13 AM
1

So a general rule as determined by you? How is that a general rule? Don’t treat others in a manner you’d think unacceptable if someone treated you that way. Don’t lie and be all surprised when it blows up in your face. Don’t assume everyone’s experiences are the same as yours. These are general rules. What you’re talking about is just some shit you made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:57 AM
1

You can’t change a general rule? WTF? When did society decide you’re the arbiter of these mysterious rules?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:43 AM
1

So if I say “countless women” I’m being absurd and hyperbolic, but when you say ALL WOMEN you’re not? All certainly sounds like “too many” to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:35 AM
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I’ve seen countless women stay in such circumstances. What you’re saying might apply specifically to some people you know, but suggesting that’s generally the case is laughably inaccurate. And who are these men who stay with their partner “forever” no matter how they change?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:26 AM
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Yes, these situations happen all the time, sadly. But to everyone, not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:15 AM
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No, I definitely don’t know what you mean, and the fact that you assume I do is something you might want to think about in terms of your interactions with people. I do know what you mean about the money/status thing; for certain people (including LOTS of men) that is indeed a big motivation. But throwing general traits in there makes it make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 01:07 AM
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“Changes drastically” could mean anything. Men don’t break up with women because they changed drastically?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:51 AM
1

This…thing you made up shows this point you’re trying to make? Handy! Of course there are users who drop people when they’re no longer useful, gender notwithstanding. However, most breakups I’ve observed and experienced had nothing to do with the dynamic you’re referencing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:45 AM
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How on earth can you qualify or quantify how people in general love? That makes absolutely no sense. Are you omniscient or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:33 AM
0

I think you mean a garage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:29 AM
1

Maybe women don’t love YOU as a person so you assume that’s true across the board. I guess I kinda get why shitty men might erroneously believe women are incapable of love. Like a woman who always has to have her own way might think men are incapable of compromising.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 12:21 AM
1

I think you mean “discreet.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:35 PM
1

What do tattoos have to do with education? Maybe it’s a cultural thing but where I’m from tattoos are extremely common at every educational level. Like I know a lot fewer people who don’t have them (including me) than who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:19 PM
1

I’m not sure I understand the question here.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 06:03 PM
5

Did he now? I guess not everyone can match your level of erudition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:24 AM
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I’m sure she’s low key devastated. I know if I lost my shot with a guy who somehow faults me for some random dude’s actions and doesn’t understand what apostrophes are used for, I’d pretty much never recover.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:21 AM
1

??? I mean, sure; I don’t advocate that either. Did you actually read the post you’re commenting on?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 08:58 AM
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Yeah, I don’t get this at all. Like ugly brokeass boring losers aren’t abusive, too? Sometimes more so, really, because they’re so mad about the shit hand they feel they’ve been dealt in life and need a punching bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:48 AM
1

This guy emotes.
/r/BlackPillScience25/02/22 03:27 AM
2

Yeah, that’s just an incoherent person who does not express themself well.
/r/BlackPillScience25/02/22 03:24 AM
1

This approach of yours is appallingly disingenuous.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen06/02/22 05:23 PM
1

Oh, many ways! But seriously, so many people here talk about women as if they’re not human at all. Like they’re cyborgs programmed to “divorce rape.” Please do not get me started on that. Again, as I mentioned, whose laws are those? But anyone who uses the term rape figuratively…I guess I think they really shouldn’t. I’ve honest to god never heard that from a woman, even the most right wing or insensitive or what-have-you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:07 AM
1

What are you characterizing as soft questions and soft answers? I have absolutely no idea what I could say that would make you see me as a human.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 04:10 AM
1

What? Why on earth would you call me out on shit, in some ways legitimately, if you weren’t open to discussion? I don’t understand what you’re doing at all. I know what I’m doing; trying to understand something that confuses and scares me instead of just writing off fellow humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 12:16 AM
1

I guess I was a bit rude, though I’m not entirely clear on the doubling down part. I am more than ready to apologize for taking a churlish tone, and I agree it was uncalled for. So what about everything else I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:55 PM
1

How not? I’m a firm advocate of men’s rights and I do think they get hosed by the system in many ways. But that guy was just being stupid. “Women before divorce: I don’t need a man” like, what? If she thought she didn’t need a man why would she marry one? I have had the experience, and I realize my experience isn’t universal, that a lot of people aligned with MRA have zero interest in changing the very real problems in the system. They just think it’s a “girls are poopyheads” club and act accord…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 10:03 PM
1

Sure, because the person refused to engage or respond to my points and just kept saying the same things. He was being rather a dunderhead and it was exasperating!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:45 PM
1

It is. I’m actually a pretty sincere person. I get very upset by the “all women are mercenary twats so why think of them as people” mentality and it makes me defensive as fuck. Of course if you look at FDS, yikes! I haven’t really spent time there but I’ve seen some of it and it’s mostly revolting. I guess my defensiveness is like what you or another dude might feel if I was suggesting all guys are like what I see in incel subs or something akin.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:29 PM
1

That makes one of us. I have no clue what I’m doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:21 PM
1

But where’s the fun in that? Better to take your own butter adventure. Thanks for responding politely and helpfully when I came in argumentative.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:10 PM
1

You actually boil the butter? I have a lot to learn. What would you use it in/for? I’m seriously just asking about cooking, not trying to be a combative bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 08:02 PM
1

But if you know how to clarify butter, you’re decidedly one up on me, in terms of cooking skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:54 PM
1

Okay, fair enough. I guess when I reference fine dining it’s more about the places but, yeah, I can see why using chefs people know about as a touchstone clarifies your position.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:44 PM
1

Okay. I guess it just hit a false note with me. No one with any experience of fine dining would say something like that. No dis meant on Ramsay because I actually think he’s awesome. It just didn’t make sense in the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:35 PM
1

This is such a complete fiction. No one would say “Gordon Ramsay shit” about dining out. It doesn’t even make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 07:25 PM
2

Did you seriously just not address a single thing I said and just parrot the same vapid MRA talking points, but somehow even stupider? I have to say, I didn’t think it could be done. Congrats, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 11:10 PM
2

Shaming tactic? You said abolish child support and I questioned that in purely neutral terms and somehow you think that’s me “shaming”? And every woman thinks feels and wants different things, just like anyone else. They are not monolithic. You are being ridiculous. And wanting autonomy and independence is a general human trait, in no way specific to women, and in no way absolves other people of their parental responsibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 10:06 PM
1

You don’t think men should support their children?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 03:40 PM
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That’s horrible. I’m sorry she did that to you. Anyone trying to dismiss that is full of shit.
/r/MensRights23/10/21 10:19 AM
1

Or you could learn and debate in good faith, instead of going in with your mind made up intending to be combative.
/r/MensRights04/10/21 11:48 PM
1

“Facts,” hahaha
/r/MensRights22/09/21 05:35 PM
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“Certainly every woman who’s ever lived with me has had to accept my authority.” I mean, it’s not really them “accepting” it when they’re abducted and imprisoned, but you do you, sweetie!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:12 AM
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Go home Harvey; you’re drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 09:45 AM
1

What women? What is this in response to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:13 AM
1

But who is saying it does matter? It’s unpleasant, certainly, but I don’t think that means anyone’s lending it any credence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 01:06 AM
1

I don’t think women think that at all. I think that’s pretty much the exact opposite of how women feel about strangers’ accusations.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:53 AM
1

Yes, that is what it means. In what way are women “validating that automatically”?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:48 AM
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“Does me blaming you for some random thing that happened in the world count as blame?” Yes, obviously. It’s like, right there in your sentence. It’s not whether it’s true or not that determines what constitutes blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 12:27 AM
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Do not get me started. I had a discussion with this ill-informed and apparently rather malicious person who somehow simultaneously argued that it’s unreasonable for women to go to parties or bars and expect that they won’t be assaulted, and also that it’s wrong for women to consider men they encounter as possible sexual predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:48 AM
2

I’m not entirely sure, as we’ve exchanged a few cross words here, what passage you’re referencing? What did you say, and how did I misrepresent it? I certainly did not say that you claimed that if women go out they deserve to be raped. I don’t quote people on shit they didn’t say. I guess you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:28 AM
2

What words?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:22 AM
1

I’m very curious about this. I may have to check out the program. I’m trying to sort this situation. So he wasn’t at all unattractive; the women presumably weren’t put off by his appearance. Did he have some unpleasant characteristics that one couldn’t pick up on without an in-person interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:21 AM
1

What numbers?! You haven’t given anything but your opinions. Which is fine if you’re freely admitting it, but don’t drag numbers into it if you haven’t any.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:05 AM
3

I just did. WTF is not entirely straightforward about what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:59 AM
1

So if you just shit out numbers based on whatever you’re arguing for that day, and it’s somehow wrong for a person to point out, hey, that’s based on literally nothing, they’re the asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:50 AM
1

Okay, let’s look. What are the stats you’re referencing? Also WTF does that have to do with war or abortion?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:34 AM
1

Very much you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:30 AM
2

Ok, let’s. “I don’t think most people are surprised to hear that people are getting sexually harassed/assaulted or raped in places like frat parties or anywhere near public spaces where there’s alcohol.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:15 AM
1

But you’re the one arguing that it’s unrealistic for a woman to go out and expect she won’t be raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:11 AM
2

People don’t have the right to expect law enforcement to enforce the laws? You feelin okay, dude?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 06:05 AM
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I hope I’m misinterpreting your point, but it seems to be, particularly as informed by your comments, that women should have no expectation of safety around men and booze because there’s always gonna be rapists, what are ya gonna do, but how dare a woman feel that men are a potential threat? O…kay, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:59 AM
4

Everyone should have an assurance that won’t happen to them. This is why we have laws. I agree it doesn’t work out that way, but you really think that’s an unreasonable ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:49 AM
0

Okay, but it seems like you’re saying that we can’t do anything about rapists and that going out inherently means putting oneself at risk of being assaulted. Okay, so if we accept that, how in the hell are you saying it’s wrong for women to be wary?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:42 AM
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I know what the word means. I meant in this case. What would this “assurance” people apparently shouldn’t feel they have a tight to look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:31 AM
2

Are you literally just motherfucking saying we as a society can’t do anything about rape so, oh well?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:22 AM
17

You think it’s unreasonable for people to think they should be able to go out in the world without being assaulted? And what kind of assurance do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:17 AM
0

Or it could be shitty people accusing someone traumatized by violent crimes of bringing it on themselves? Or people raping in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:11 AM
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So you think it would constitute the deck being stacked in women’s favor if they were…able to go to parties and bars and not be raped?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 02:05 AM
3

I suppose it would have been if this person wasn’t just making shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:38 AM
1

Wow, you’re not even trying, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:46 PM
0

Why would that mean she wasn’t kind?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:02 PM
1

I’m not, actually. I really do not understand what you mean by saying women don’t marry alphas and then talking about the women alphas marry. Of course all women aren’t trophy wives. But some are, and some of them marry alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:53 PM
1

First of all, it’s gross to pull things out of your ass and make people look at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:01 PM
1

Trophy wives aren’t women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:04 PM
1

Yeah, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:41 PM
1

Very.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:41 PM
1

How does that support the 10% of women claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:19 PM
2

Dude, come on. She said leftist skinheads. She is obviously specifically NOT talking about neo-Nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:12 PM
1

“For men, it’s bald, fat, and short—you cannot be more than one of these.” Behold! The literal moment you introduced the subject of what men should be.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:33 PM
1

But I literally only said that in response to your comment. I was genuinely puzzled as to why you thought not being nice would be a dealbreaker for men but not for women. Again, YOU introduced the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:24 PM
1

Are you serious? No one was talking about what men “should” be until you brought it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:03 PM
2

Why would you want to talk to women who don’t want to speak to you? And I’m not strawmanning anything. You literally said “When asking for a woman’s n-count there is no ‘good’ answer other than zero.” That is not “stating facts.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 10:49 AM
2

But the ones who aren’t around to tell us how dangerous a man (yes, a man, not all men) can be after being rejected make the most compelling statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 09:36 AM
0

That’s not what begging the question means. You appear to be arguing that being considered physically unattractive makes it harder to date. I’m pretty sure this is generally acknowledged to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:44 AM
1

If you’re trying to “gin up” attraction in people who already hate you, that is a profoundly biased sample. TRP take note; I said biased, not based.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 01:05 AM
1

But don’t women get to want men to be nice? For me that’s much more important than height, weight, or hair. I’m not saying I’m not influenced by looks, but it is a lesser concern. I absolutely agree though that everyone should develop relationship and domestic skills. These are such common stressors in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:50 AM
1

I don’t doubt that at all. You’re kind of arguing my point here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:57 PM
1

So the millions of documented DV sexual assault cases are just a collective figment of everyone else’s imagination?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 11:31 PM
1

It’s really not, at all. Consider an abused partner or dependent situation. I think we can all agree that these are circumstances under which it’s particularly easy for sexual violence to occur, but particularly difficult for a victim to report.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:44 PM
1

But..if they don’t report it, how on earth could you possibly know that most women who are raped report? And I’m not arguing about its rarity, but rather asking how allegations that were never investigated could “fall apart when investigated.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:31 PM
1

Well, but you said rape cases are very rare and you’ve only been involved in four. Also, most rapes aren’t reported or investigated, so who but the parties involved could make any reasonable determination?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:15 PM
1

How could you or anyone possibly know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 10:01 PM
2

I asked you about your claim regarding women “conflating awkward date requests into rape.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:52 PM
1

You mean like “legitimate rape” where the woman supposedly can’t get get pregnant? Lol that guy was a trip. But, yeah, I’m sure stranger rape cases are much easier to prosecute, but don’t they make up a comparatively small percentage of rapes overall?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:46 PM
1

No, but I thought you were talking about how difficult it is to prosecute those cases, and as such how daunting it must be to victims. It is inherently a difficult thing to prove given that it usually happens without witnesses. And of course I don’t know if it’s still true that men who try to make rape accusations are often dismissed or ridiculed, I may have been wrongly assuming that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 09:06 PM
1

Oh, okay, I was interpreting that from the other direction, in terms of all the hoops rape victims (gender notwithstanding, though I’d imagine it’s considerably worse for men) have to jump through to attempt to get someone to take them seriously. I suppose it’s no wonder most rapes go unreported.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:56 PM
1

Yes, that was my impression, sadly.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:47 PM
0

Yeah, absolutely. But you’re not putting these statements forth as your views, you are claiming them to be factual. If you want to opt out, super.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:45 PM
1

Um, putting aside the fact that your assertions are batshit crazy, that did not remotely respond to my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:34 PM
1

Are you actually trying to argue that four cases is enough to extrapolate the overall frequency of false accusations? And it seems rather disingenuously presented, given that the vast majority of rapes don’t lead to prosecution or even investigation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 08:18 PM
1

Okay, then please share with us some information about the frequency of false rape allegations. Seriously, I want to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:45 PM
1

Bit of a self-own there, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 07:04 PM
1

You think women accuse men of rape for asking them out awkwardly? Dude, you’re either extremely paranoid or your idea of asking for a date involves rope and duct tape.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:59 PM
2

What do you think “platitude” means, man?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:52 PM
0

All your positions seem to stem from “I know” and “basic truth.” You don’t need to look for a study or back it up with anything because “it’s plainly obvious to see.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:48 PM
1

How are they unclear?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:36 PM
1

So if both sides disagree, what then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:34 PM
1

Where are you getting this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:30 PM
1

Feminism doesn’t take a woman’s agency away. People who have sex with a woman against her will take her agency away. Women don’t need protection “from themselves,” but from those who would sexually assault them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:17 PM
2

Yeah but this just guy just posts everywhere with these laughable sub-penthouse-forum claims about his sexual exploits and all the hot young women continually throwing themselves at him. If he’s trolling, he’s pretty hilarious. If not, pretty sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:04 PM
1

Okay, but what effort are you making or qualities putting forth to make them want to do so?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 05:35 AM
3

Um, it’s literally your definition. You like just defined it. Badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 02:56 PM
2

Yeah, it’s different because Leonardo DiCaprio is only in his 40s. Also, he actually does date hot young women, so there’s another distinction right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:18 PM
1

Wow, this is the second time tonight I’ve been “blocked” by someone for just pointing out the loopholes in their claims. It’s possible they were the same person with two different accounts, I suppose. It doesn’t happen often, generally, so I think maybe something is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:59 AM
1

That wasn’t a word game. I was being slightly disingenuous by hyperbolically suggesting you don’t know what a saying is, but it turned out you don’t (hint: you saying something doesn’t make it a saying) so now I don’t know what to think. But seriously, you’ve already stated you had no experience with the former so what are you basing that on?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:40 AM
3

What gives you that impression? How are women more egocentric?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:25 AM
1

Apparently not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:21 AM
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Why on earth would you ever think that? Why would we love or miss our friends, partners, and family any less than a man would? Do you think we aren’t human or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:09 AM
1

So you literally have no idea what a saying is?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:06 AM
3

What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:55 AM
1

Like, I agree with you about not very much, but this I think is true and relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:44 AM
1

Opinions are not facts. And if some women’s egos are out of control, does it mean that applies to all women? Even your lovely wife with whom you share 4 beautiful kids? That’s rather harsh on her, man. Like, seriously if you’re serious. I don’t suppose you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:30 AM
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Where was my ignorance demonstrated, or even suggested? And I’m surely not the one being thin-skinned here.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:18 AM
1

Isn’t this the plot of a lot of 80s movies?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:14 AM
1

Yikes dude. One of the dumbest, most willfully ignorant comments I’ve ever read. IT LITERALLY ISN’T. But since we’re already here, why the hell do you have that male thirst/female hypergamy is OUR ENEMY thing if you’re all happily married to a woman and shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:09 AM
1

Yikes fuck no. Where is that a saying? And why???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:05 AM
0

Yes, I know. Although it’s not really an alternate slang definition; it’s just the same word applied to a specific circumstance. I’m simply pointing out that your statement “that’s literally where the term simp comes from” is literally not true. I have no idea why you’re swearing over this.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:45 AM
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Why would loneliness, emptiness, and loss affect a woman any less?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:22 AM
1

Dude, I know what you’re talking about. It’s the same word. I think it did, somewhere around the 1970s, get sort of conflated with the word sympathy, and took on a more particular subset of meaning that indicated being taken in by any hard-luck story. It’s not some new coinage. It’s literally the same word with the same meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:16 AM
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No, I know what the term means. It’s just that it’s been around for well over a century, as a short form of simpleton, basically meant to say fool or idiot. It’s often been used to specifically imply someone being a sucker and an easy mark. What you reference is absolutely not “literally where the term simp came from.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:57 AM
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You did not just…holy fuck, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:32 AM
2

That’s…where the term simp came from? WTF?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:30 AM
1

It’s certainly so that men are less likely to say looks shouldn’t matter, unless it’s about how they are perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:12 AM
1

I’m legitimately confused. Would not, in most online dating forums, the other party have usually seen a picture before the communication is even underway?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:08 AM
2

I love how this post almost gets but then super misses the fact that women are judged for not being attracted to someone because they are not not good-looking, whereas it’s not even questioned—indeed, it’s pretty much expected—that men would reject women for being unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:59 AM
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Okay, well, that puts it a bit more in perspective. One major issue with your post is that you’re conflating two different circumstances. Where we encounter women saying this is mostly online, such as in response to a NiceGuy post, wherein they usually don’t even know what the dude looks like anyway, but can reasonably suppose their off-putting manner is an important factor in their lack of romantic success. It’s not really a thing that a woman says that when rejecting a man personally. Like if …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:45 AM
1

Are you like five years old?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:19 AM
1

What does that even mean? Do you really automatically discount and ignore any point of view that doesn’t confirm your narrative, no matter how reasonable it might be otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/21 09:45 AM
1

Are you sure you’re responding to the right comment? Cause you fabricated a whole slew of stuff I didn’t say and don’t think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 07:53 PM
1

I’m not talking about voter suppression at all. Where did you even get that? I was talking about the government being disproportionately run by men. And your second point is just an absolute hot mess. So you’re saying trying to pawn things off on others is inherently sexist because it theoretically could have a sexist motivation? That’s like saying unlawful termination is inherently sexist because in some cases it may be gender-based. And who’s trying to throw what away? You are not making sense…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 01:27 AM
1

Having the vote does not mean being equally represented. That’s absurdly naive. And while I’ll agree trying to pawn off responsibilities is bad, please explain what’s inherently sexist about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 04:35 PM
2

What the hell are you even trying to talk about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:35 AM
2

I’m legit curious, what has been your experience of “entitled feminists”? What was your interaction with them and how did their entitlement manifest itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:15 AM
1

Um, you do realize it’s much easier to draw things than actually stage them, right? But my main point, I admit I’ve gotten sidetracked, is that the scenarios with actors are not any more “real” than any other work of fiction, however it may be presented.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 10:09 AM
1

Hell yeah! It’s encouraging that our current president is very pro union. Sorry, mine. I have no idea where you’re from and what your government is about. I’m in USA and Biden is working out not so bad! I didn’t even know he was a longtime union supporter and advocate when I voted for him but it sure makes me extra glad I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:37 AM
2

And live action sitcoms do not also present characters and scenarios that are just as dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 09:18 AM
1

Mindless adherence to prejudices good, other perspectives bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:49 AM
1

Okay; then let me look at it closely. What information are you referring to, because I searched and couldn’t find anything to substantiate your claims. So give me a heads up where to find this.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:37 AM
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They are not proven in the slightest. Rephrasing your groundless assertions doesn’t make them any more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:30 AM
2

Um, please point me to the time in history that men were not pimping women out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 08:25 AM
1

It’s not background noise. It’s foreground reality. Very much in ones face. Currently, and going on for an exhaustingly long time. I don’t expect you to understand but could you be a little more open minded?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:22 AM
1

All the women? They all do this?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:15 AM
4

“Getting derailed semantics.” Assuming words mean what they literally mean and were chosen by the person to express what they wanted to express. They meant hypergamy and you absolutely know it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 07:05 AM
3

Oh, the vast preponderance. Such as? Something that’s not just you spouting baseless generalizations. Please explain to me how this is supported.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:55 AM
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The ad was literally showing what they should strive for. That was the entire point of the ad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:51 AM
4

So fictional shows that feature live actors are “real” but the same subject matter when portrayed through animation is not? Im afraid I have some heartbreaking news for you about live-action material.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:44 AM
4

What on earth are you basing your statements on?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:37 AM
6

Geez, who’s making, perpetuating, and enforcing these laws that are so unfair to men? Oh, men are? But blaming women in general and feminists in particular?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:23 AM
5

Absolutely no one is trying to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/21 06:12 AM
1

Well, I mean, obviously this dude is an extremist hate-filled crackpot who doesn’t have two brain cells to rub together but I don’t feel that way about men in general. I like men. What I don’t like is the current sociopolitical setup. I’m in the US, for reference.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/21 05:58 PM
1

Yeah, that’s not my jam. I find that offensive too, frankly.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/21 04:41 PM
1

I am sincerely curious, you are dissatisfied with the situation as it is, and for gods sake who could blame you. But what do you think would actually work well?
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/21 07:11 AM
1

I hear you, and I appreciate it, but how does this person reconcile the circumstance that their position is completely illogical and rather offensive to boot.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/21 06:51 AM
1

Wait so you, as a man, believe that if someone MURDERS you it’s half your fault?! I was trying to have a reasonable discussion and keep an open mind but that is so batshit crazy I’m going to have to peace out here.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 10:06 PM
1

For the record, I did attempt to slog through the video but it was so poorly done and unlistenable that I freely concede I did not make it all the way through.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 05:01 PM
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I quite agree, actually. I think her point is invalid. And a couple of examples do not mean something is true across the board.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 04:45 PM
10

She specified “accusations.”
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 04:43 PM
1

That’s adorable.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 04:37 PM
1

I think you seriously underestimate the amount of violence against women that actually occurs. Granted, the majority is in the home, so the business of “not leaving their homes” doesn’t really work. It’s not that we think men are the root of all evil, it’s that there are dangers we have to be aware of. I’m not sure why the onus is on us to stop being wary of things that happen every day, and not on the perpetrators of violence (the specific perpetrators, mind you, I’m not saying ALL MEN) to, you…
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 04:36 PM
0

Did you seriously just “I know you are but what am I” me? Damn, I wasn’t exactly expecting a sophisticated level of discourse or anything, but this is ridiculous.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 04:26 PM
1

Yes, that was my point as well, about knowing ones worth being an end not a means. And how did I remotely suggest that the patriarchy is “a sentient being that is omnipresent commanding you”? I don’t think that. Now you’re just making shit up.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 03:58 AM
1

When did I say they were two random statements? I don’t think they are at all. I do not know what you think you’re responding to.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 03:52 AM
1

Um, yes, we did in fact cover this ground...when you already responded to my comment that you’re now for some reason responding to again? Did you have a rage stroke?
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 03:49 AM
0

Well, clearly I stand very much corrected.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 02:38 AM
1

How?
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 01:02 AM
0

Well, I guess I generally find blanket statements or over generalizations questionable by definition. Is that what you mean? I wasn’t particularly offended either, I was just struck by how disingenuous and poorly-constructed your argument seemed to be.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 12:56 AM
1

Again, I think we’re talking at cross-purposes. I’m talking primarily about school dress codes, as that is where that stupid concept generally comes up, i.e., the boys can’t concentrate if they see a glimpse of shoulder. I’m honestly sorry if that wasn’t clear. And I agree, for adult work clothing the standards are basically gender-equivalent. For school dress codes, however, the difference is huge, and that’s the excuse they give. I’m sorry if it seemed like I was suggesting something else.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 12:32 AM
0

Sure, man. The hypocrisy between two statements you personally wrote, which are somehow supposed to represent the feelings of all the bitches collectively? You’re not very good at this, are you?
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 12:15 AM
0

I didn’t say anything about the video. I was responding to the comments, yours and others’. Did I mention the video? I didn’t exactly say your tone negated anything SPECIFICALLY just that you’re coming off kind of hateful and irrational. I’m sure you don’t care, but I’m just pointing out that calling people morons and retards is not good for your credibility. And again, that’s your prerogative, but it’s ridiculous of you to pretend you’re debating in good faith.
/r/AntiFeminists11/05/21 12:10 AM
1

I don’t either. I think we may actually be in agreement here. I’m saying yes, it’s bullshit people keep trying to use to rationalize dress codes.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 11:59 PM
1

Um...ouch, I guess?
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 11:56 PM
0

I didn’t suggest it was about me; I was addressing the tendency to blame men’s societal problems on feminism when we are not the ones in charge. You seem pretty unhinged and childish and lacking in self-control. And the idea of YOU calling ME stupid beggars credulity.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 11:55 PM
1

I think the problem here may be with your reading comprehension. The poster IS saying that a person should know their own worth, yes, for the same reason you state. The problem arises when people try to get in the way of that.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 11:47 PM
0

You sound sane and unbiased.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 11:41 PM
0

The state? The state that is overwhelmingly run by men? Look, I have no problem with men addressing the ways they get hosed, but why the hell are you blaming women? Y’all the vast majority of the ones making the laws and handing down the verdicts you think are so unfair.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 11:39 PM
0

Amen
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 11:31 PM
1

Actually no, I think they’re referring to that being a perennial excuse for dress codes for girls. It comes up a lot and that is generally the terminology used.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 11:29 PM
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A woman is just as liable for child support as a man. But I imagine you don’t want to look too closely at why most child support is paid by men to women because it kind of blows up your entire point.
/r/AntiFeminists10/05/21 11:18 PM
0

Has it occurred to no one that it may well have been done that way on purpose because of the order in which people were going to see it? It looks like they are by a road and depending on the direction the drivers were going, it might read correctly that way and be confusing the other way.
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/21 06:37 PM
1

Yes, I know. That’s why I selected that particular one.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 08:16 PM
1

I didn’t say that; I said men committing rape (including, by the way, toward other men) is not uncommon. An important distinction. And if you’d like to see a statistic, try this on for size https://www.rainn.org/statistics/criminal-justice-system
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 05:47 PM
1

You can’t be serious with that suggestion, can you? The idea that you think a woman could go up to a stranger and ask him if any of his friends rape people in the first place is insane, but then adding the assumption that he will answer honestly? You are almost unfathomably out of touch with reality. And, no, I don’t think all or even most men are rapists, but it’s hardly uncommon, and how in the world you equate women wanting to look out for their safety with people being racist is beyond the c…
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 05:24 PM
1

I’m not ignoring them, I’m questioning them, but you ARE ignoring every point or question I pose. And you know it.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 04:53 PM
-2

Are you kidding me? That post is insane bullshit and the “statistics” have nothing to do with what we were debating. You really think that “rape culture” only exists in that society encourages women to rape men?! Please be trolling.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 04:49 PM
-2

What statistics?
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 04:22 PM
-1

Where are you getting the idea that no man knows a guy who’s raped someone? Most guys I know do.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 04:18 PM
-2

They do. This person saying it doesn’t make it true.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 07:25 AM
-7

Yeah, straw man positions nobody actually has are a bit hard to relate to, aren’t they?
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 07:15 AM
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First of all, I don’t know any feminists who aren’t extremely concerned about the situation of women everywhere, especially those extreme examples. Just because you don’t know how to stop it doesn’t mean you don’t care. Second, about maybe 25% of the women I know, feminists and otherwise, have NOT been sexually assaulted. But sure, rape culture is a frivolous, made-up thing. Also, just to clarify, rape culture IS also why these women are being sold.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/21 07:10 AM
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Yeah, no, having large breasts does not mean you are unhealthy, and having small ones does not mean you are not ready for procreation. I beg of you, do even the tiniest bit of research before you go spouting this kind of ignorance. I get that you have your opinions, but wouldn’t it be cool to throw a few facts in there, just to mix it up a little?
/r/AntiFeminists03/05/21 03:25 PM
1

Okay, the idea that a woman’s breasts being “too big” or “too flat” is somehow an indicator of her health is completely false and ridiculous.
/r/AntiFeminists03/05/21 03:11 PM
1

When’s the last time you’ve seen that? I never have. I read part of an article that vaguely referenced that hypothetical idea a few years ago.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/21 11:14 AM
1

I’m afraid not. But everyone wins that way.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/21 11:11 AM
0

The prevailing cultural double standard is still very much the other way around. This is a silly reaction to it but don’t fool yourself as to the actual status quo.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/21 02:14 AM
0

When did she say it was men’s fault?
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/21 01:40 AM
1

The ignorance...it burns.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/21 01:38 AM
1

No, I understand what it’s about. I don’t understand how your comment addresses what I said at all; it just seems like hateful lashing out. I guess for you that is what this sub is about.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/21 01:15 AM
1

Just a heads up, did you know jokes are supposed to be funny?
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/21 01:05 AM
1

Very funny for you to be accusing him of being an incel. He’s like the least incelish person on here. And people who accuse others of white-knighting don’t seem to realize it reflects far more poorly on themselves than the other party.
/r/AntiFeminists02/05/21 01:03 AM
1

How, though? It’s just some obnoxious chick saying stupid shit. It’s got nothing to do with feminism, toxic or otherwise.
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/21 11:13 PM
1

I completely agree, this is obnoxious. Horribly so. But no one is threatening to rape or murder anyone. Whole thing strikes me as childish in the extreme.
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/21 01:50 PM
1

What on earth does this have to do with feminism?
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/21 01:21 PM
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I think we’re going to need a bit more context than, this guy said so. Also, sexual harassment and rape are not the same thing.
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/21 02:21 AM
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It actually really hasn’t. I cannot understand why you feel so persecuted.
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/21 02:05 AM
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No problem. My comment does seem odd given the edit, which I suppose was the intent as opposed to, say, actually answering it.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/21 11:27 PM
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I’m just going on his opinions about rape. The edit was added after my comment.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/21 11:09 PM
0

Wait, you think sexism is a disease, but also that “you really need to keep your eyes out when you’re dealing with a woman”? You wanna think that through and get back to us?
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/21 10:54 PM
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So if some guy raped you you would think he just “made a mistake” and shouldn’t be punished too harshly?
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/21 10:39 PM
-1

According to...this random comic specifically whining about women? Or the half-literate who posted it?
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/21 10:56 PM
1

I think your statement might make people’s heads explode, but not for the reasons you think.
/r/AntiFeminists30/03/21 09:49 PM
0

Wow, so you not only agree but are voluntarily providing a demonstration. I call that right sporting, old chap.
/r/AntiFeminists30/03/21 01:01 AM
-1

Sorry, I just looked at some of your comments to attempt to understand the mindset and I now see you are quite possibly the stupidest person in the world so I won’t challenge you further.
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/21 01:39 AM
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Kill them? For having opinions you disagree with? Well, that sure sounds sane. So mysterious why women fear for their safety.
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/21 01:27 AM
1

I would also very much like to know what rights of men have been reduced by feminism, and what are the lies you reference? Please specify.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 09:47 PM
1

Your argument is literally what feminism is about.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 02:48 PM
1

You are arguing for feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 02:43 PM
1

Obviously you’re resentful of feminism, but why? What has the ideology done to earn your anger?
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 01:08 PM
1

How does you having an opinion make other opinions or even facts a lie?
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 12:59 PM
1

Like, those sources didn’t even put feminism in a bad light at all. Of course it was advocating for rights for women, but... Are you next going to say MLK was persecuting the white man?
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 12:55 PM
1

How so?
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 12:45 PM
0

What are you talking about? Feminism isn’t about bringing men down, it’s about bringing women up. I live in a country that’s literally never had a female leader. You may not, but excuse me, that’s fucked up. To live your whole life in a place that somehow believes you’re unfit to govern because of your gender; doesn’t matter a whit who and what you are beyond that. It’s frustrating.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 12:11 PM
1

Those creepy bitches are certainly not what I’d call feminists. They’re predatory assholes, like any others, gender notwithstanding, who don’t give a shit about equality or human rights.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 11:57 AM
0

I’m puzzled as to why some guys say, I’d never date a feminist, like the feminists are going to be disappointed. Guess what? They don’t want to date you either. Seems like a win-win.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/21 05:19 AM
1

No thanks; I’ll leave the borderline intelligence to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:47 PM
1

Okay, um...what?! What Jesus? What bullshit? What information?! In short, what the ever-loving fuck are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 07:42 PM
1

I didn’t intend to suggest I meant to feign concern. I was merely disagreeing with your points and disparaging your writing skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 06:24 PM
1

Oh my lord; this is your source? Well, he does identify as a scholar, a term that also applies to literal kindergarten pupils.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:46 PM
1

You have some messed-up issues with women, and interactions with the humans in general, but can we address your writing first? It’s not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:24 PM
1

Nice backpedaling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:18 PM
2

Wait, you think that men are not primarily attracted to the most attractive women? How does that work?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:16 PM
1

Well they’re definitely not writing your jokes. I think that one predates actual sandwiches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:12 PM
1

Um, what? Source? I’m not even offended; just baffled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:09 PM
1

I guess we can add the actual meaning of the term “concern trolling” to the extensive list of things you really don’t comprehend.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:33 PM
3

Although you, I’m sorry, your wife who super totally exists, makes an excellent point that rebellious young women do not engage in drug use or risky behavior. So accurate it blows my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 05:07 AM
1

So your “wife,” yeah sure, said acting out sexually is a normal thing for women and girls to do, but you dismiss her as unreliable and trashy for her understanding perspective? I would be concerned for her, but come on. You don’t even describe a fictional woman believably.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 04:56 AM
2

Oh, good god, step back from this precipice before it’s too late. There are hundreds upon thousands of women who write to, try to get with, and marry felons. It is much more common for a woman to pursue a male felon. The bottom line is, some people like monsters. That’s their issue. Please don’t let it be yours if you can help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 07:46 PM
1

Like how you think a girl should be a young teenager, virginal, pretty, and submissive? You know, deep things about her character that aren’t shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:25 AM
1

What’s UMC? And I’m listening, my dear. I’ve had quite relatable experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 04:16 AM
2

Well, as the saying goes, I can explain it to you, but I can’t understand it for you. Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 12:06 AM
2

No, I keep answering it and what you mean is, I don’t have a good response to that so I’ll pretend you’re the one who won’t converse.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:55 PM
1

Well, maybe you do. Some people actually like to have some exciting lighthearted fun with someone they find attractive but aren’t interested in pursuing anything with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:47 PM
1

I did. She didn’t say that. I think what you are getting at is just any man wanting a woman isn’t enough, as opposed to a particular man she desires. It feels disturbingly like what you’re saying is women only care about their own feelings because they won’t have sex with me just because I want them to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:45 PM
1

WTF are you talking about?! If you are attracted to a man and want him to feel the same, his lustful feeling toward you will absolutely be a turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:36 PM
1

The same logic absolutely does not apply. If someone wants to have sex with you because they are attracted, it is very different than if it’s just a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:33 PM
1

That women only care about their emotions and not their partner’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:30 PM
1

They JUST explained EXACTLY why.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:19 PM
1

Because, at least for me, the idea of someone having sex with me who doesn’t want to is actively repulsive. Like it would make me feel really gross. But a one night stand can be great. It doesn’t at all have to be serious to be fun, but we do both have to want to be doing it for me to enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:17 PM
1

What are you basing this view on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/21 11:13 PM
1

That does sound like a pretty shit situation. But forget hair; most of my boyfriends have been bald and most ladies are very down with it. But, yeah, it does kinda seem like you never got a chance. Sorry I was so antagonistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:55 AM
1

Oh, please, child, you have plenty to look forward to! Do you know how many people would give anything to have your youth and opportunity? Why waste it because romance has been frustrating so far? We’ve all had heartache and lived to tell the tale. If you feel more comfortable with women that’s a good place to start, my dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:44 AM
1

You just said that women just judged you for not being rich. Now you say the opposite. And what in the hell does it mean to say “a significant more number of women historically reproduced compared to men”? What on earth does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:30 AM
1

You do,I hope, understand that most of the people having children in this world are not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:18 AM
1

To an extent, I agree. Rich people certainly had more pick of partners but how can you suggest the average guy did not reproduce? If so everyone would be the rich guys’ children. We all know that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:12 AM
1

Wait, so sex is contingent on money? This is a disturbing new development.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 07:05 AM
1

What are you basing that on? That’s inaccurate, statistically. Why do you believe it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 06:00 AM
1

That’s such a strange thing to say when women share the same status as POC in the US: second class citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:36 AM
1

Okay, I have no idea how men not having sex for a year is the same thing as being virgins. Did I miss something? Also, what points do you mean? Men having sex has lessened? Okay, I’ve no reason to dispute that, but what point are you trying to make? It’s easier for women to get laid than for men? No one’s disputing that. Men don’t get pregnant. Racism affects attraction? Fair, I guess for a lot of people it does. I was projecting because I dig POC and whites without any particular distinction ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 05:16 AM
1

Yes, there are. Your point being?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 04:59 AM
1

How is that a rough proxy for virginity? And if your contention is that guys in general are having less sex, then how is it somehow because of your particular circumstances that you’re not? You can’t have it both ways, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:37 AM
1

I think those brides exist because there are a lot of desperately impoverished women there who want very much to come here. Also, what the hell do Asian women have to do with “white worship”?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 02:33 AM
1

Oh my god enough with that stupid chart you post everywhere. It doesn’t seem to prove what you think it does. So it shows that about a third of men and a quarter of women haven’t had sex in the past year. And?! Breaking news, not everybody is getting laid all the time. Shocking revelation. And perhaps where you are at it is culturally different, but where I am the idea of “caste” or white people somehow being inherently more desirable isn’t really a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:56 AM
1

It’s certainly so that some men are very good at hiding their misogyny, especially, as you point out, sociopaths. But that’s literally the deal with sociopaths; they are convincing manipulators. Perhaps your disgust with women is more obvious. And in my circles most of us are pretty broke and about half non white, and it doesn’t keep us from socializing and dating. Don’t get me wrong, I’m in the US and I absolutely agree that racism and classism are enormous problems here, obviously, but it’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:34 AM
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If you think women can’t pick up on your misogynistic vibes you are the delusional one. You don’t have to say it; I daresay you emanate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/21 01:02 AM
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I’ve seen you commenting all over the place that “modern women are disgusting.” You really expect a woman to want to get with someone who dismisses them and everyone of their gender as disgusting?!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:49 PM
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