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This is the key distinction here. Exchanging money for goods and services isn't romantic, putting thought into gestures which considers the other person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 11:18 AM
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Women are much more likely to reject men they are as 'creepy', which is a broad category. Sex pests immediately get rejected by the women I know because they don't feel safe or valued by them. So yes, they are rejecting selfish players, because sex places women in an inherently vulnerable situation and we want to feel safe with whoever we indulge with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:40 AM
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This! I've slept with three virgin men and they were eager to learn, enthusiastic and appreciative. Extremely attractive for these reasons. They might need a bit of guidance at first, but man are they eager to keep trying
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 01:37 AM
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Using nothing but logic and rationality I agree with you, but you also ignore the fact that women are physiologically driven to love that child as soon as its born. The massive burst of oxytocin is one of natures wonders and it defeats logic any day. She may well have decided to give up the baby for adoption - up until the baby is born and those hormones kick in. There's a reason surrogate run away with the child after all. That living being is in your body for nine months and, if it's a normal …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 06:47 PM
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Wut? Since when does getting married and having g kids mean you can't have a career? Screw that. A career is more important to me than children. I can make a bigger impact on the world that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/17 05:26 PM
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This seems fairly obvious if you look at female orientated pornography. There's a story, usually some fixation on the personality of the individual as well as enough backstory to either engage empathy or adrenaline. An important distinction in depictions of casual sex and something deeper is how anonymous and/or dangerous the individual is - but both are exciting. Hardcore pornography (is it still called that? It's been a while) focuses exclusively on the genitals and as such I've heard it mocke…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 05:17 PM
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I would be, because I'm already the primary provider for myself. Am I hell relying on another person for financial security for the rest of my life. A relationship should be an equal partnership, with both financial and paternal responsibilities split equally. Utopian, but usually achievable. I place much more emphasis on an individual than 'big society' so your point falls moot. I'm not even working to make loads of money, it's the independence I crave. A man's purpose would be whatever that in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 04:57 PM
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What about people who freeze during sexual assault and rape? It's a genuine reaction which some argue is defensive. I only ask since I almost became a victim myself, my soft no's were ignored and then I froze because I was scared. Luckily we were interrupted before it could progress and I immediately made my exit accompanied by a trusted friend. I'm much older and more assertive now but I was vulnerable and inexperienced then. I don't engage in casual sex and this gentleman saw that as a challen…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/17 10:53 PM
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Well I'm a woman so that might be why. I believe in individual freedoms and freedom of speech. In a perfect world everyone should have the right to live their lives in a way that they choose, so long as it doesn't impede any other persons freedom. We don't have a perfect world so that's when things get tricky, and it becomes the traditional argument of egalitarianism vs liberalism and what qualifies as justice. I do not agree that the best way to tackle hate speech is to silence it, instead you …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 11:51 PM
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It's what patriarchy theory relies on. The idea that society is structured around the dominance of men which rewards hyper-masculine behaviour and oppresses any other gender expression. Femininity, especially in men, is seen as a negative attribute which is tied into homophobia and female submission. Whether this dominance is down to biology or socialisation is contested, but all of feminist theory revolves around the relationship between gender and inequality. Equality itself is a fairly abstra…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 11:51 PM
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Feminism isn't one homogenous body, there are feminists who regularly disagree with one another. Modern feminism attempts to reject any biological differences between men and women by arguing that gender is socialised into existence. I can disagree with that assertion and not be considered feminist by those very people. Just like the disparity between the suffragists and the suffragettes, we can have a similar goal whilst believing in completely different methods. I reject the new authoritarian …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:25 PM
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No it's not, it's challenging the oppression of women. Feminists on the whole do not campaign consistently on issues which would remove privilege from women. Take domestic abuse as a case example, more and more men are coming forward stating that their female partner is abusing them but the difference in resources or treatment is ridiculous. Academic feminism offers some explanation (Connell and his theory of hegemonic masculinity comes to mind) but feminism has never been focused on sexism agai…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/17 09:10 PM
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A woman can be called a slut for stealing another woman's partner though, even if they date etc before sleeping together. It is definitely not relegated only to casual sex, and in most cases, the women still have to work for it. Plotting gets tiring you know!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:47 PM
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Has one night stands with people they've met that night. I also believe this behaviour is slutty regardless of gender, since fuck knows what you're screwing and how it could eventually impact you. Indicative of risky behaviour in other areas too. Do it if you want since it's your life, but there's no way I would engage with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/17 04:43 PM
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I'm a woman, not an MRA and think it could be the fairest way to address the imbalance between the genders paternal rights. Women can abort even if the father wanted the child with little consequence, and that is her right. In a perfect world, a man who does not want to be a father can relinquish all rights so the woman can make the choice whether to continue with the pregnancy or not. If he made the decision then he's not going to be a good father anyway. I'd have preferred if my own father too…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 06:46 PM
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This. 'Severe' here could be another person's mild. Things like endometriosis and the fusing of the uterine wall to things like the rectum are not fun, yet a lot more common than people think. Some girls win the genetic lottery and some girls loose, but all have purely subjective opinions since they've only experienced their own body.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/17 06:27 PM
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Feminism isn't one homogenous body, there are many variants of feminist ideology. Feminist campaigners, for the most part, focus largely on women's issues. That's because feminism is achieving gender equality by focusing on women. Academic feminists will highlight issues with current policies etc (looking at you Christina Hoff Sommers) but the thing is with academic feminism is that it's grounded in sociology, and since I'm a sociologist I can tell you we don't agree on anything. Feminist campai…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 03:14 PM
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Currently boning a gent that's 5'7 so I think that counts. I'm attracted to people I'm friends with first so looks matter little.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 01:37 AM
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I'd speak to men like I do the majority of my friends. I'm not constantly assessing men for sex and I don't have casual sex. The only major thing that would change is the potential for sexual assault when they start coming on to me and I reject them instantly. That has happened before and means that I lose both a friend and my confidence. Plus no more worrying about the friendzone, except for the increased likelihood that I crush on a guy who has no interest in me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 01:31 AM
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Except the patriarchy is supposed to oppress men too, through hegemonic masculinity and negative gender roles. It's not men themselves that are supposed to be the oppressors, it's the organisation of society. If feminism is making any strides it's supposed to address oppression of both sexes. Whether it actually does this is another debate entirely, but liberal feminists regularly use feminist framework to fight for mens issues. It's just that the radicals shout louder and appear to be growing i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/17 01:24 AM
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I'm a classical liberal. By this I mean the stuff espoused by people like Adam Smith, John Locke (to a degree) and Jefferson. In my own country I'd be considered centre-left, but as I understand it 'liberal' in America translates to 'left-wing'. I'm going to assume that's what you meant. My ideology can be summarised as 'Do whatever the hell you want with your life, as long as you don't harm anyone else in doing so'. I have no loyalty to a political party as I judge them by their actions and how…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 01:24 PM
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It's great to read something on this thread which doesn't immediately paint all women with the same brush. Losing faith reading the comments here painting my whole gender as a bunch of lying psychopaths. Do you think this is partially why there seems to be such polarisation between modern day feminism and red pill/MGTOW ideology?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 08:03 PM
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Physical: Beard/Facial Hair Broad Shoulders (think triangle shape) Big arms Nice Smile 'Geeky' appearance Personality Intelligence Funny Passionate (I've dated two avid gamers and one anime nerd, it's the passion that got me, not the interest itself. All three were also STEM majors whilst I am a sociology/politics student, and I loved listening to them talk about their subject) Good with kids/animals Kind/Charitable Respectful (not just to myself, but good manners in general)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 05:24 PM
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Except there's no service provision for them, at least not government funded. One third sector organisation exists but has no funds to actually run a refuge or day service. The stats are there, but gendered domestic abuse policy doesn't note them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 10:32 PM
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At least within universities women who do not identify as feminists are treated with such disdain that they avoid making their opinions public. This is true in academia as well. Even women who do identify as feminists but don't go along with the SJW discourse are subject to horrendous treatment. Look at Germaine Greer, or Christina Hoff Sommers. Both very well respected in academia but protested against and belittled. Feminism as a movement is easier to distance yourself from, but feminism in ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 05:40 PM
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Again a 'what if' situation, but for those who genuinely didn't know they were pregnant? I agree with your initial claim, but unfortunately I've seen a girl only finding out at 34 weeks. Maybe she was an idiot but it can happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 03:42 PM
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Well I'm a girl and I'm referring to my friends, attempting to add to the conversation. Good to know It's been seen as a humblebrag though.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 03:40 PM
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I certainly hope so! As long as the girl is 'understanding', doesn't cheat and doesn't guilt trip her partner the relationship should stay healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 03:06 PM
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I dunno man, my own confirmation bias is strong but in my peer group that certainly seems to be the norm. The men are usually fairly stressed for whatever reason but handle it less well than the women who are similarly stressed. Thus dead bedrooms, at least from the girls perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 03:04 PM
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There aren't any arguments I can think of, and as such I've been a supporter of this for a number of years. One question though: What if the female doesn't tell the father that she is pregnant until it is too late? I've seen several cases where the father hasn't known about the existence of his child until it's either been born or the woman is late into her third trimester.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/16 03:00 PM
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Me personally, treating me like a piece of meat. I don't do casual and I only sleep with men I've had a friendship with first, so harassing me sexually makes me anxious and panic. I have no distinctive physical type, but I like intelligence and stereotypically nerdy interests. Dated engineering and physics undergrads, as well as an eccentric weeabo. It's not that I share those interests - it's the passion that attracts me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 05:23 PM
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2 and 3 represents the key differences between the concept of equality. Number two represents equality of opportunity, where people who struggle to access the same level of privilege are given a wee boost to help achieve that. In the real world, this would resemble something like free tuition for students coming from poor backgrounds. Number three would represent equality of outcome, where people with privileges are brought down to compete at the same level as the least privileged. Egalitarianis…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/16 03:54 PM
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I'm diagnosed and a INFJ. Perhaps it's because I'm a girl, I'm definitely spergy and logic based, I just feel too much apparently! TBH I work as an advocate so I fit that crappy description perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 10:30 AM
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INFJ, and even though I don't really believe in the Myers Briggs stuff, my reality is very close to that personality type. I work as an advocate and campaigner for survivors of domestic abuse and disability rights. I recently spent the last six months trying to raise awareness of other forms of domestic abuse (FtM or Parent to child) that don't fit neatly into the current set of laws. I work within the Scottish Parliament and I'm up against hardcore feminists that refuse to acknowledge male vict…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 10:27 AM
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Real lesbians never have long nails, one of the variables that seems pretty conclusive in my gaydar!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/16 06:01 AM
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Suppose I'm purple, 23 and a student. Don't do casual sex, but the men I've had a FwB scenario with have eventually turned into a boyfriend. My shortest relationship so far has been two years. Sleeping with my roommate atm and although it sounds like the situation from hell, we've been together for two years and care for each other immensely. For me, my general rule is always be friends first. Complete strangers turn me off completely. It's only as I get to know someone that an interest can blos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 10:36 PM
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Nor all rape fantasies are equal. Some come from a need to be 'ravished', others from a more BDSM point of view. The latter want to be humiliated and used.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/16 07:27 PM
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I'm not associated with any Pill. According to Red Pill, women like me don't exist, so I don't even attempt to challenge many of the posts that irk me because I know I'm speaking to a brick wall. Mentally I'm more masculine than feminine, and always have been. I'm a tomboy, love Science Fiction and Video Games with a taste for heavy metal. I'm heteroflexible in my tastes but I don't think I could date a woman. I don't have casual sex and I'm proud of that fact. According to RP I'm some crazy Ho …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/16 09:50 PM
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All my friends are male, so I don't get stigmatised by my female peers, simply because I don't have many. This hasn't come without its issues though, since I get on well with the stereotypical socially awkward 'geek'. They see my tits and want to move things further, making me uncomfortable. I don't do casual or ONS and was heavily abused as a child so I freeze up, stutter and struggle to reject them nicely, so avoid them instead. Really wish I could change that. It's rearing its ugly head again…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 10:13 PM
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The same logic could be applied banning lesbians from female toilets. Obviously being surrounded by naked women would drive them to such a manic state of arousal that they inevitably have to be uncomfortable (/s). A pre-op individual simply wants to be treated like the gender they identify as. Notice that it's also only pre-op MtF individuals that seem to be getting attacked here, FtM individuals are getting ignored as always. MtF Using the concern that a couple of dudes might put on a dress to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 02:28 PM
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Guess I better grow a penis. I have one female friend. I hate cliques and the general bitchiness of groups of women. My mother is the same. I'm also not promiscuous and my closest friends are all male. Neither I or them would risk the friendship we have by throwing sex and relationships into the equation. According to TRP my only attributes are my fertility and looks, I have a sneaky suspicion I'm infertile and I'd say I'm above average but nowhere near model level. Apparently women like me don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 09:14 PM
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I would if I wasn't incredibly socially awkward. I never have casual sex, so I don't try to hook up with anyone I'm not firm friends with first. My current partner spent six months getting to know me before I found him attractive, until then he was just good company. I show affection through acts instead of words, in his case it was sharing my cooking (we were both students). I'm all one for gender equality but joke that I act more like a housewife than anything else. I'll maybe giggle more at j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/16 10:38 AM
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My gut instinct would be simply that wider acceptance has made it less of a taboo to explore sexuality. This and a very gradual separation of masculinity and feminity as static concepts is allowing more people to explore their sexuality, as they're not intrinsically tied into their gender identity anymore. I'm a classical liberal in the sense that I don't care what you're doing as long as it doesn't harm others, and since I don't see an LGBT identity as harmful, I'm pretty supportive. I don't be…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/16 01:36 AM
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No. Perhaps it was due to my screwed up childhood, but I have major commitment issues when it comes to the long term. It's not that I don't want to commit, but the idea of divorce etc terrifies me. I'd only get married if it was necessary, and even then I'm aware of other options which give the same legal protection. My dream is to have a successful career and be financially independent. I don't dream too big, it's not like I want a huge house with a big red sports car. I just want to be content…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/16 07:28 PM
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It really depends on what sphere you're discussing. In BDSM, at least in the communities I've participated in, Dommes are chased like mad by men who are sexually submissive. That doesn't mean they are submissive in everyday life, or even that they're sexually submissive 100% of the time. Fetishes do not reflect the personality of the person who has them, regardless what the tired old stereotypes will tell you. There definitely seems to be less Dommes than submissive men at these events - but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/16 04:56 PM
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Strange then that the industries still exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 11:03 PM
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No, you're reading into my argument what you want to hear. I said looks are not as important as personality in the long run - looks fade, a persons mannerisms tend to stick. Women - heck people - want to date someone with a personality which works well with them, plus other attributes. In a ONS the goal is purely sex, you'd like someone nice to look at whilst you're fucking them. A LTR will have a large impact on your life and habits, there's a bigger risk involved so you're more careful about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 06:10 PM
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Girdle, male makeup, trouser stuffing, plastic surgery, hair Tattoos/implants etc. Plus the unisex ways of improving appearance, fake tan, moisturiser, hair dye, tattoos, exercise and diet. Good job responding to my points though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 11:40 AM
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To counter this, do you ascribe to the view that a woman who is not conventionally attractive/doesn't give a damn about her own appearance will echo that sentiment? What about girls who don't like traditionally feminine makeup or clothes, or women that are blind? Looks on either gender give an instantaneous estimate of a person's health and mentality. Anybody who states that looks mean nothing to them is either lying or damaged, because first impressions mean a lot. The fact that it's socially a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/16 10:06 AM
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Strangely enough, I actually feel like it's other older women who dictate what my body and/or life choices should be. I intend to work hard in my career because I recognise it's going to be incredibly difficult to get established (social sciences FTW) yet I am constantly chastised for refusing to entertain the prospect of marriage or children. Only my best friend doesn't push me either way, my female family, colleagues and acquaintances are all desperate to see a ring on my finger or a bump in m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 04:04 PM
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And your source for this 95% assertion?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 03:54 PM
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If non-verbal consent was recognised in law and/or in education, then sexual assault would become even harder to effectively and truthfully prosecute. How does one recognise non-verbal consent? What if the victim says no but the attacker states they read non-verbal consent? It's an 'us vs them' scenario all over again and doesn't solve either problem. On the other hand, a person crying rape could claim although they said yes their body language screamed no, and it should have seemed obvious that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/16 03:48 PM
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As a retort to that, what 'nerds' are famous enough in popular culture that an average person could pick them out? Apart from the 'olololol I'm wearing glasses with plain lenses I'm such a #Nerd' types, or the ones who glorify programmes such as big bang theory, I wouldn't be able to list anyone of the top of my head. All my LTR have been with what I collectively refer to as geeks, namely gamers into fantasy or sci-fi with a love of Metal, usually in a STEM career and very intelligent. I'm not r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:55 PM
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Oh god, it's so cheesy it hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:46 PM
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Condom with all new partners, bareback when in a committed LTR with regular STI testing (3-6 months on average) and birth control as standard. It's just common sense in my opinion. Roll on Bill Gates with his research into better condoms, I hate the feeling and I have a latex allergy so my condoms are expensive as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:44 PM
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It's not hard to learn how to understand non-verbal communication. I'm an aspie who picked it up after my parents took the time to sit down and point them out in films etc, which allowed me to look for them in real life situations. Sex is filled with non-verbal cues, and once you can recognise them, the stress of sex with a new partner becomes easier to deal with. Someone keeps taking your hand and placing it somewhere? Chances are they like that. Avoiding eye contact and/or tensing up? You're d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 12:35 PM
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