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Well, it's something of a feature of redpillism to assert all kinds of things as absolute fact without anything to back it up beyond their own perceptions - mainly of people they don't know on the internet - and personal biases...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/20 06:15 AM
0

Most people don't need a paternity test because their children look like them...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 04:59 AM
-1

Pffft. RP, incel, MGTW, it's all on the same spectrum. It's all has the same rotten core.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:14 PM
0

Why are you even here then? Surely you know everything you need to know about the "SMP"? Isn't your time as an "alpha male" more precious? And perhaps Chad is more fun? Perhaps he doesn't believe women should be in actual sex slavery (a common incel theme). Perhaps incels should be looking inwards instead of outwards for the cause of their problems? A revolutionary idea I know...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 12:37 PM
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And this is your typical terp's understanding of what's involved in childrearing... Slow clap. Oh and no one would employ a nanny with o qualifications by the way. It's kind of not at all similar to babysitting.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:16 PM
3

Welcome to PPD, home of the massive and groundless generalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:08 PM
3

But I thought the big problem you guys had was that even "low smv" women were being shagged by Chad, leaving nothing for anyone one else? Get your story straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:05 PM
2

So Netflix again. Why are men so obsessed with women watching TV? I've certainly never heard anyone refer to this as a hobby (although ironically it actually is my other half's hobby. He works in TV, is obsessed with it and collects old TV shows). I dunno what to say other than I've been surrounded all my life by well-read women (as well as men) who do things and make things. That's my experience and it's different to yours. You seem to need to believe women are stupid and only care about shoppi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 09:55 AM
1

The last part of your rant really just confirms all my assumptions about you and what you think of women: make up, shopping, Netflix. It's the same old shit again and again. You don't want to know about women who have hobbies because it doesn't fit your narrative of all women being these airhead bimbo characters with no interests or intellect (who still won't fuck you. How very dare they!). Also I wonder if it ever occurred to you that you may not know everything about all women, and may in fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:04 PM
1

Really? You are a sad little man. Off the top of my head, most craft based hobbies like dressmaking and quilting are majority female. Although it's nice to see a few men there too (because I'm not a gender role obsessed arsehole). But yeah, anything involving needle craft usually. Then there is Cooking and baking, and art and photography. That's probably more equal. Also more women read recreational than men of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 05:37 AM
2

52% of white American women are racists. Massive surprise. Not. Edit: I'm not sure how anyone can claim to not be racist and yet still be OK with having voted for Trump given what he's done since he's been president, but whatever you need to tell yourselves I guess...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 07:36 PM
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The delicious stupidity of men complaining about women having no hobbies on a website which has many, many pages devoted to women's hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 06:39 AM
1

Male disposability is like alpha and beta, and the cock carousel. Basically not a real thing. Historically women were equally disposable as giving birth was extremely dangerous and yet they would do it multiple times, often not out of choice. If women weren't also disposable no one would have let them risk it...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 06:06 AM
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An awful lot of women also don't have casual sex you know...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 07:23 AM
1

You: "How dare women aspire to a career and the same sexual freedoms as men."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 07:22 AM
3

They're basically jealous and bitter but they also desperately need to pretend they're not those things by externalising it and calling any women who's ever posted a selfie to Instagram a whore. It's hilarious and a bit sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 07:18 AM
4

"at least less respect that they feel they themselves deserve" They are the prize. LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 05:33 PM
3

But lots of people don't cheat. Men and women. I've never cheated on a partner and I'm a women. RP is bullshit from start to finish.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/18 06:09 PM
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Men are likewise always looking for something better. People are always looking for something better. It's not just women. How else do you explain men cheating?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/18 08:47 PM
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What I see here is projection. The idea that one is constantly on the lookout for a better option and would cheat or drop their supposed soulmate in a heartbeat if it came along isn't remotely unique to women. Indeed leaving one's wife for the secretary is something of a cliché. No doubt you'd find a way to make that the wife's fault, while remaining blameless yourself cos that's what TRP is all about...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 06:08 PM
1

So... Cheating then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/18 05:38 AM
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What's a soft harem?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:32 PM
2

I don't know any men with harems....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 06:50 PM
2

Welcome to the red pill...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/18 07:04 AM
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I think women do initiate divorce more but he's pulling the money thing out of his ass. What I've read about is that women are more motivated to leave a bad marriage because there is less in it for them, whereas men are quite happy to sit in a bad marriage while they continue getting their home comforts. It seems to be because marriage is still not equitable. Women are expected to provide most of the glue that holds it together. Most of the house work, cooking and childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/18 07:00 AM
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Who are these feminists I keep hearing about but never encounter IRL?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 08:26 PM
8

Oh my God. Am I going to have to get my tiny violin out again?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:58 PM
7

"Feminist doctrine says only men can do wrong." None of you know the first thing about feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/18 07:25 PM
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This is beyond parody.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 07:03 PM
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"Experts"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:14 PM
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This is the stupidest thing I've ever read on here...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 06:00 PM
4

So your definition of a totalitarian society is one in which you aren't free to abuse people?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:42 PM
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You know nothing about the UK (fine, whatever) or about how domestic abuse works (far more worrying). A victim returning to his or her abuser is part of the control. http://rightsofwomen.org.uk/get-information/violence-against-women-and-international-law/coercive-control-and-the-law/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 06:45 PM
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In the UK we have laws against coercive control and stalking. Domestic abuse does not begin when you hit someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:47 AM
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See, the fact that there is this discussion about whether TD is alpha or not means it's basically open to interpretation, based on people's personal biases and basically not a real thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:44 AM
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He is universally loathed in the UK by everyone but the most batshit insane right wingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:38 AM
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Hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 07:32 AM
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Only in your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/18 07:55 PM
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You don't know that. You know nothing about women and their lives. Especially the ones no one wants to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 02:06 PM
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There is an equal number of female incels, it's just that they don't create whiney internet forums or kill people...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 05:14 AM
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One of the conditions in the OP was that the man would be the sole owner the property. That's the bit I would say no to. I don't really care about marriage, but I wouldn't want to be dependant on someone else for shelter (or anything else for that matter). Most of the unmarried couples I know jointly own their properties. Edit: I am agreeing with you. I probably should have said "and" instead of "but".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 09:20 PM
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But they may also own property with that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:51 PM
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Perhaps you should crack open a history book or two? You might learn something...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 05:24 AM
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They were more likely not to be taught to read and write. It's very difficult to make any impact on the world without those skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 04:30 AM
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Birth control pills have known side effects that effect some more than others and in different ways. Every woman is different. You're better off reading the insert than TRP. They tend to get the wrong end of the stick when it comes to science.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/18 07:44 PM
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How many women does a man have to sleep with before he's a slut?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:32 PM
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Dude, you have no idea what women value in men. None.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:32 PM
2

This. I wish I could upvote this comment more than once.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:41 AM
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No it isn't. I've never ever put effort into my appearance for other people's benefit. I do it purely for myself. It's hard to keep up anything up for long if it's to please other people, it's easy to please yourself. There is something self-indulgent and rewarding about taking time out to look after yourself, especially when you have a family. Going to the gym for a few hours, buying nice clothes, having beauty treatments. They all make me feel good and I couldn't really give a toss what other …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 07:39 AM
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The fact that TRP thinks it's doing anything "scientific" is actually one of the things we laugh about the most...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:20 AM
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Nope. We're mainly just ordinary folk and a fair few of us are men, who think laughing at misogyny is the best way to combat it. And some of the stuff on TRP is fucking hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:16 AM
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If by "feminist thought" you mean "normal people horrified by the blatant misogyny of trp" then that's about right...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 06:11 AM
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Don't beat yourself up too much. What you were, above anything else, is very young. We all acted like cabbages sometimes when we were young. But the stuff you're saying here shows how much you've matured and critically examined your thoughts and actions (the best kind of self-improvement IMO). Some of the guys on TRP are in their 30s and 40s and clearly desperately unhappy. Now that's sad.
/r/ExRedPill13/05/18 05:43 PM
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It may surprise you to learn this but not everyone sees the world in the same way. Not everyone divides people into "high value" and "low value". Some people - myself included - find that idea abhorrent. Aside from actual sex addicts, most men, regardless of how good looking they are do not have "harems". They have monogamous relationships and they get married at the same rate as everyone else. People find different things attractive. As much as TRP tries to deny it in order to force people into…
/r/ExRedPill10/05/18 06:16 AM
3

Being cheated on is not a certainty. I've never cheated on anyone and I'm 40 years old. I can't be that unusual? (A few men have cheated on me though...)
/r/ExRedPill03/05/18 12:45 PM
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A lot of the time this spinning plates business is basically cheating. The women clearly don't know about each other and think they're in an exclusive relationship. RP is also full of married men cheating on or wanting to cheat on their wives. Men cheat all the time. Women do not have a monopoly.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/18 07:23 AM
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Because they are obsessed with validation through sex with women.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/18 12:20 PM
1

I don't know that many men I would describe as meek. Or any TBH. That's actually quite rare...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:53 PM
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The most stereotypically "alpha" person I know IRL is a woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:51 PM
1

I want to climb to the top of a mountain with a megaphone and shout "IT'S NOT REAL. NONE OF IT'S REAL!" every time someone cite alpha/beta unquestioningly as fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:47 PM
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It's something they think they can use to hurt women. A weapon.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/18 08:39 AM
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People on this sub quite often...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 09:18 AM
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How early on exactly? In which parts of the world? Or are you confusing real life with Game of Thrones? I've noticed that history is always a bit loose and nebulous for the red pilled, as long as it can be used to back up whatever argument they are currently making...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 11:49 AM
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Back in what day?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 08:17 AM
2

Who would seriously want to be redpill's idea of an alpha? Trawling bars trying to pick up 20 year olds into your sixties and then dying alone because you shunned marriage and children? Winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 08:11 AM
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I think you're right. Especially the bit about not normally getting wet because sex excites them mentally... That makes no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/17 08:02 AM
4

I read your posts. You are fixated on the draft because you think it proves something about feminism. Dispite the fact it isn't happening to to anyone any time soon, including you and despite the fact that the right to vote is about a lot more than being drafted. Honestly, I think you need to let it go. It's a really tired argument at this stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 10:58 PM
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And something you don't have to worry about either. You're going to have to come up with much better arguments for disenfranchising women than the draft afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:42 PM
2

Not this lame shit again. In my country there is no draft, so does that mean I do deserve a vote then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:38 PM
2

It's one of the parts they made up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:36 PM
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There is nothing worse than being propositioned by a stranger. It doesn't matter how attractive they are as you have no way of knowing whether or not they're a psycho. There's no need for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 06:58 AM
3

I never encounter this stuff so how do you explain that? Where I live there are no quotas. I'm a hiring manager in a tech company and we have been trained to spot our unconscious biases and not let them effect hitting decisions. I find that hiring on merit only means we've ended up with a very diverse team, not one made up if 100% white men, amazingly enough. Having said that a lot of the stuff the manosphere complains about is just people attempting level the playing field for women and minorit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 08:29 AM
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That's called confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/17 09:25 PM
2

I don't really have a dog in the holiday fight. If he doesn't plan the trip to his destination we'll end up going to one I pick instead...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 09:24 PM
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Yeah, women are awful. They're control freaks who ruin everything amirite? /s
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 09:20 PM
5

That's exactly what I did do. Nothing will happen. We'll just end up going where I want instead because I can be bothered to do the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 09:16 PM
1

Holy shit! This is excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 09:12 PM
5

I'm not complaining. It's just an observation. If I want to go on holiday I'll plan it myself. I just thought it might be nice if the burdon was shared, rather than one person doing all the work. Anyway planning a holiday is hardly "taking charge". It's just doing research and admin.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 11:04 AM
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I can't speak for other women but I've never complained "a man didn't take charge." I do find that getting them to do anything at all can be a struggle. Example: I agreed to arrange our holiday as it was to a place I wanted to go. I did all the research, booked all the flights and hotels and planned the excursions. A while ago he started talking about how he wants to go on holiday to a specific place he likes. I told him to plan it and I'd go along with whatever he suggested. So far he's planned…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 09:34 AM
2

Not if your old and impotent and just need some arm candy to make it look like you've still got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 08:32 AM
2

If I'm not allowed to "strawman" (although I'm fairly sure it isn't because you can go and read people saying exactly these things on TRP day in day out so I am exaggerating nothing), then you're not allowed pull the "no true Scotsman" either. TRP is the people who follow it. If your holy scriptures are so difficult to interpret correctly perhaps they need re-writing...?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 02:32 PM
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Women are emotional, men are rational. This one particularly grinds my gears as red pillers themselves are very bad at critical thinking and seem unaware of their own cognitive biases. The main one being confirmation bias. Also the unquestioning worship of rationality over emotion is just plain dumb. You need both working together to function. We are supposed to believe that women act purely on instinct, like animals, where as men think. We are told women can't be leaders. We are told that thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 11:27 AM
1

The sidebar seems to have become something they use to shut down any conversation about the things they actually say, which do indeed make them sound like sex-obsessed losers. I've read bits of the side bar. It's just a load of badly written pseudoscientific/intellectual bollocks. Much as you'd expect.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 11:06 AM
1

I'm just confused now. Is that supposed to be a good thing or a bad thing? I don't understand what you're arguing for or against...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 08:54 PM
1

Numbers and sources for what exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:02 PM
1

Most of the time they do. That's even what the red pill wants, strictly enforced gender roles where women do all the childcare and don't work. You cannot have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 02:05 PM
1

Can I just say, I love the idea that children should be cheap because they're smaller so must not eat as much. School-age children actually need around the same number of calories as adults, depending on activity level, as they expend a lot of energy growing, amazingly enough. But that's not all! The costs don't stop at childbirth or even food! Children need a place to live, clothes, books, education, medical care and round the clock care/supervision until they're pretty much pubescent. This cos…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 01:51 PM
1

A man and a wan who earn the same amount of money pay the same amount of tax. This all seems to boil down to you wanting women to be penalized for living longer (on average - for individual women there is no.auch guarantee of course) and for having children (and that takes two) and earning less as a result. Presumably you also want children to start paying tax too and stop selfish burdening you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 06:53 AM
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I think the problem here is people assigning blame to this group or that group for this thing or that thing, whereas in reality there is nothing to blame anyone for. Some people pay more tax than others. Some people receive more public money than others. That's kind of how the system is supposed to work. If you're the one paying lots of tax you're the lucky one. The whole argument is facile.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 11:41 PM
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And really it's exercise, not lifting per se, that's helpful. But admit you prefer swimming over lifting on TRP and see how long it is before someone calls you a faggot...
/r/ExRedPill13/11/17 01:40 PM
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It's impossible to have a "debate" where one side persists in being disingenuous. You want women to be confronted with their failings but you refuse to acknowledge that men can fail too. You're actually putting men on a pedestal. Where do you think the well worn trope about dad going out for a pack of smokes and never coming back comes from? It certainly predates feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 01:02 PM
3

All single mothers either chose to have a baby alone or they dump the father. No man ever abandoned his family. Never happens. No sir. Fingers in ears lalalala. This is just one of the things that betrays your anti-women sentiment. You are not interested in helping women "unleash their potential". You are simply interested in finding things to blame them for. I could spend more time picking apart your reply to my comment, but I've just spent all weekend working on the house (I bought with the mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:39 PM
3

So, the manosphere wants women to conform to strict traditional gender roles (therefore not working and paying tax and having to rely on someone else's largesse for their existence) but it also wants them to pay for themselves AND for their children's upkeep? Having and raising children is expensive and that expense falls largely on women, especially with regard to "lost" earnings. The economic system we live within already does enough to discourage family life (not just children, but any kind o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 09:15 AM
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You thought wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 11:41 PM
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People shouldn't be taking their cues about real life from TV or movies. The manosphere has this "Disney lied to us" trope. I mean, really? Animals can't talk in real life so there's that, but come on, it's really no one's fault but your own if you have unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/17 06:59 AM
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Look, society never liked to me. I was brought up to realise life isn't fair and aim not entitled to anything. Especially love. I don't know who it was to you think lied to you, but I suspect deep down you were really just lying to yourself. Red pill is just a way of keeping the lie going. "I'm the alpha." Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:06 PM
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No. Red pill guys absolutely love the red pill. They positively wallow in it. It absolves them of any responsibility for anything if everything - including the (fictional) decline of western civilisation - is the somehow the fault of women. It allows them to believe 50% of the population is intellectually inferior to them and they need to feel superior. It allows that to think it's OK to cheat and be bad in bed because it's about what they want. The women's feelings don't matter. It allows them …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 07:11 PM
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That's a good thing. People should worry about not being seen as a creep. Weinstein's opposite is normal non-rapey human. I see no issues here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/17 06:57 AM
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I suspect feelings of insecurity and inferiority are at the root of RP "thought". It you imagine women are emotionally unintelligent and cognatively impaired compared to men you can make believe you really are a member of the superior sex and thus at least superior to someone...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 07:10 AM
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And there's the misogeny right there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 07:01 AM
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A false dichotomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 07:00 AM
1

Likewise...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 10:39 PM
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Exactly. They want women to be given the benefit of the doubt. That is a very different from believing everything she says.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/17 10:31 PM
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Nope. Women tend to fail more at suicide because they tend to pick methods that are less disfiguring but also less likely to work. Pills rather than blowing their brains out for example. Women are far more conditioned to worry about their looks than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/17 02:12 AM
1

The straw feminist strikes again!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 06:04 PM
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Why don't they just say what they actually mean rather than requiring everyone to interpret their obscure ancient texts?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 05:52 PM
4

It's certainly more susinct than "cheating on my partner with multiple women, who by extension I'm also cheating on." (Also you just linked to a jpg of a man spinning actual plates. Is that the extensive background material?)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 07:46 AM
3

Loading the Language The language of the totalist environment is characterized by the thought-terminating cliché. The most far-reaching and complex of human problems are compressed into brief, highly reductive, definitive-sounding phrases, easily memorized and easily expressed. These become the start and finish of any ideological analysis. In [Chinese Communist] thought reform, for instance, the phrase "bourgeois mentality" is used to encompass and critically dismiss ordinarily troublesome conce…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 08:49 PM
1

you replace them as they fall out of the lineup. Dude, you’re not supposed to drop the actual plates…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 08:47 PM
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One woman is not all women. If we lumped all men together and said they were all the same the red pillers would use that as proof we were all ebil feminazis. Don't fall into the same trap.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/17 08:39 AM
4

Which is also not science...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 10:48 PM
23

Ah. I think I might have pin-pointed your problem...
/r/ExRedPill10/10/17 06:17 PM
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So only 4% of women are "good" or "worth being with"?
/r/ExRedPill10/10/17 09:48 AM
4

"Be yourself" only works if you're not a twat in the first place so it's never gonna work for a "red pilled" guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 07:25 AM
2

Women don't tend to categorise men using an arbitrary numeric scale so...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 06:56 AM
3

You know absolutely nothing about "most" men's relationships or sex lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/17 06:50 AM
3

Being taller than someone else makes you "better"? Are you nine years old or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/17 05:58 AM
1

No they didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/17 06:33 AM
3

Or maybe, just maybe, not everyone is obsessed with sex (as validation)...?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 12:26 PM
2

I work in tech, with lots of male devs and most of them are married or in LTRs. None of them seem particularly "thirsty"...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 08:30 AM
1

And yet I've never seen a job ad that boasts about how many attractive women work at a company...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/17 08:28 AM
1

Actual scientists would confirm your biased, probably partially fictionalized (the human memory being not so hot) annecdotes as facts that can be generalized to society at large? I mean I'm amazed they don't do that already, it would make their jobs easier! /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 08:37 AM
2

There are people who are experts in human psychology who can properly explain the causes and effects of a dysfunctional childhood, who are unbiased (rather than looking for confirmation of their own misogynistic stereotypes), and who have done actual scientific research that can really tell us things about ourselves... and none of these people frequent PPD...amazingly enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 06:13 AM
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Daddy/mommy issues are real. It's becoming more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 10:14 PM
3

Look we can all sit around in the internet pretending to be verysmart and making up bollocks about why people do the things they do but that doesn't make any of it true. This entire sub is an exercise in self-indulgent time wasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 10:12 PM
1

Well you know absolutely nothing about me, which is coincidentally exactly the same amount of evidence you have for whatever junk science you're spouting so, yeah, I guess I must be...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 10:01 PM
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People are stating a lot of things as facts with no evidence to back any of it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 09:53 PM
1

It's not a theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 09:48 PM
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I love this fantasy world you guys live in where there are hoards of young women apparently desperate for some old codger cock haha!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 09:40 PM
1

Evidence?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 09:38 PM
1

Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/17 09:36 PM
0

I love the idea - popular in the manosphere - that up until recently women didn't work... As if the world sprang into being during the 1950s and everyone was middle or upper class.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 05:59 AM
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Biological differences I'm fine with. Extrapolating biological differences that to "men think, women feel" I'm not fine with (and it isn't supported by science). The Red Pill itself is a minefield of cognitive bias and fallacious thinking that rather disproves this "rule".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/17 07:27 AM
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Personally I think there's a biological basis for personality tendencies like men tending to be "thinkers" and women tending to be "feelers" You can think what you like, but you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:56 PM
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I'm a feminist and I do not believe gender is a social construct. My femininity is innate. However I think a lot of the stuff one is expected/forced to do as a consequence of one's gender is very much a social construct. The Idea of a "gender role" is very artificial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:53 PM
2

I am her Chad... So Chad is a relative term? Interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/17 07:37 PM
1

They're like Jehovah Witnesses. If places in the kingdom of heaven are limited to 144,000 why are they always recruiting...?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/17 09:35 PM
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It's an area that people disproportionately fixate on precisely because you can use it to blame women, absolve men and argue that women can't take responsibility shouldn't have rights, regardless of the tiny number of people this issue really effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:06 AM
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You're not sounding any less arrogant there champ. I find the manosphere's disproportionate obsession with the behaviour of drunk girls aggravating. Most women who are raped are raped by their partners or someone else they know, not as the result of getting drunk or dressing "slutty". But victims that are hard to blame tend to be ignored...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 06:40 AM
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Hmmm... TRP and the manosphere expend a lot of energy slut shaming. I don't really see women obsessing over it like they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 12:22 PM
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So women tend to be pragmatic and men tend to stubborn? Even if that were fact, it still doesn't prove women have no intellect and men have no feelings, which is what TRP tries in vain to assert? If anything it disproves it. Being pragmatic is more rational, especially if it keeps you safe or alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 12:19 PM
2

Haha. I'm sorry, but this is actually hilarious!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 12:14 PM
1

You know shit about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/17 12:11 PM
1

The concept of "interbreeding" is part of the construct. You can't interbreed with your own species, you can only breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/17 09:44 PM
1

Perhaps it's an American thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/17 05:46 AM
1

Why does it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 08:09 PM
1

I've never, ever seen anyone make fun of anyone else at the gym...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/17 08:06 PM
1

How about not trying to pigeonhole whole groups of people for a change?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:38 AM
0

The straw feminist is back!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/17 07:26 AM
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Is research into this discouraged? As far as I can tell the more we learn about the human brain the complex it gets. Our entrenched views about gender roles - the red pilled in particular seem stuck in the 19th century - have very little to say about what's actually going on in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/17 09:00 PM
3

That's not what a logical fallacy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 08:25 AM
1

I would prefer it if women didn't indulge the manosphere by using its's terms. It's divorce, not divorce rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/17 11:35 AM
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And of course there isn't the remotest possibility your old boss was embellishing this tale slightly... Annecdotal evidence is of limited value when it's about yourself, let alone when it's second hand. As someone who would never dream of asking even my closest friend what their "N count" was or how much they earned, I'm always fascinated when people claim to know accurate, intimate details of other people's sex lives and financial situation...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/17 07:19 AM
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There is no problem with it. Red pill men who think when they hit 45 they'll be able to pull 18 year olds because "men age like wine" and this will somehow be sweet revenge on the women their own age who won't sleep with them now is pretty hilarious though...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/17 08:06 PM
2

science
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/17 09:48 PM
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Hang on, I thought the point of this whole red pill thing was due to the "fact" (I use the term loosely) that pussy was unbelievably hard to get due to women being too stuck up and entitled...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 08:06 PM
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No it doesn't. The cold hard truth is that society (aka everyone) doesn't give a shit about their desire for sex one way or the other and is also not obliged to do anything about the fact they can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 07:58 PM
1

Why do you need "society" to tell you what to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/17 07:55 PM
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Did men ever protect women in public? I think sexual harassment is less bad now than it's ever been because we are no longer required to tolerate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 09:30 PM
2

You've linked to an anti-islamic site and an article written by a man as proof of what all feminists think. I think I need some links to examples of this "full-throated defense of Islam"...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 06:35 AM
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Yeah. Basically whenever this is pointed out to them they stick their fingers in their ears. Reality is a foreign country for these dudes. Of course if they want - which they often claim to - traditional stay at home wives then they will have to pay for them. There is no getting round that. Pick one. Women aren't red the pill's real enemy, logic is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 05:57 PM
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No, because they generally don't refuse to contribute. It's very easy to refuse to pay for a child that doesn't live with you. Not so much if you're the primary carer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 05:52 PM
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I love the way you guys think you can literally see into the brains of every woman on the planet... Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 06:25 AM
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The idea of the single mother that the manosphere uses as a punching bag is always a single mother by choice because as far as they're concerned men are incapable of doing anything as egregious as abandoning their children. It must always be because the woman wants it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 05:53 AM
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This is an old argument. I don't think anyone gives a shit about porn anymore except with regard to it misleading people about female anatomy and sexuality so they get it wrong in real life. It's also one of the only profession where women earn more money than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 05:27 AM
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That's not token resistance! If you like someone telling them you have a boyfriend is a stupid thing to do because you'd have to backtrack later and you'd look like a flake/liar. It's relatively rare to meet someone you actually like so doing this would be a stupid move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/17 05:04 AM
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Which is of course the worst thing ever...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 06:35 AM
2

Christ alive. Not Brad Pitt again! Leave the poor man alone!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 06:34 AM
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As far as I can tell from reading hundreds of "field reports" anything a woman says to a man that isn't praise or the offer of a blow job is apparently a "shit test"...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 06:32 AM
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Ah yes, because RP teaches us that woman act purely on instinct (a bit like animals) and don't have conscious or rational thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 06:30 AM
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"I have a boyfriend" means "I have a boyfriend" or "Leave me alone". It's really quite simple. What next? "No" means "Yes"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 06:25 AM
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I have never ever heard a single woman complain that large breasts serve no evolutionary purpose, let alone "all the time". These are not the things women worry about, trust me. So many of these debates seem to be based on sweeping and totally groundless generalizations about what all women think or say or do. It's tedious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 07:26 PM
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No. It's intimidating and makes me feel self-conscious. And likewise nor would I shout stuff at strangers. I don't know what makes people think they're entitled to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 05:59 PM
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Quite.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 08:11 PM
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Jesus Christ. An a fuck tonne of cockroaches is an abundance, but it's isn't good. Get it? Replace cockroaches with dates with disappointing men (taking up several hours of your life you'll never get back) if that helps...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 05:46 PM
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Neither do yours. Abundance is neither a positive or a negative thing. It's relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 10:36 AM
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An abundance of shit isn't a good thing. Edit: Actually this is a perfect illustration of why redpill is total clown shoes. Just having "abundance" is enough. Doesn't matter if it's a shitty abundance, doesn't matter if it's at the expense of someone else, destroys your relationship or marriage. The important thing is that you have the illusion of "abundance" and get to feel like a big man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 05:33 AM
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I'm another person who's never heard a feminist shame or criticise a woman for doing traditionally feminine things. I think this belief stems from a fundamental misunderstanding of feminism. Feminism is about everyone having choices and rights. A big part of a woman's life naturally revolves around childcare and homemaking. Feminists are not in opposition to that. Feminists have children and feminists clean their houses! However, I definitely think women should be criticised for actively submitt…
/r/ExRedPill04/07/17 12:32 PM
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Some of us value quality over quantity...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 09:08 PM
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All the short dudes I know are married. Some of them are married to women who are (gasp) taller! Perhaps the rabid heightism is also an American woman thing along with the racism? Or perhaps it's the result of being trapped in an internet echo chamber engaged in the mother of all pity parties... It's a total mystery...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:24 PM
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Well then plenty of tiny women for the tiny men. Dunno what the problem is...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 09:06 PM
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I'm not American so IDK I guess. 5'5" is not 6ft+... But anyway the whole height thing is a red herring. Something immutable you can blame women for. It doesn't change that fact that if tiny men never get laid everyone would be over 6ft and the population of the earth would be a lot smaller... Not everyone is a fussy as the manospherians...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 08:58 PM
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White? Cos we're all racist. Also more than 6ft is very tall. I don't think most women are bothered by height to that extent. Most of us a short relative to men anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 08:15 PM
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Not denying effects of hormones. Denying RP narrative. Totally different thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 10:27 PM
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Hormones mean women have the brains of children... Yeah. I am denying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 09:48 PM
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No, not really. Nearly all the behaviours RP attributes to "female nature" are evident in both sexes equally and a some of it is just plain made up or wildly exaggerated.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/17 05:23 AM
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Ah. Time to check off "Naive realism" on my RP cognitive bias bingo card once again. I wonder if it has occurred to any of you that your perspective is not the only one? Rhetorical question obvs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:59 PM
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Or maybe, just maybe this alpha/beta stuff is a bunch if made up bollocks that doesn't apply in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:31 PM
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RP has invented a thing called female nature in order to justify treating women like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/17 07:30 PM
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No one is stopping men being men. Whining on the internet about how much women suck is the least manly thing I've ever seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 12:23 PM
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Kings. Seriously? So you mean men can't be men until women start pandering to their overblown sense of self-importance and childish need for validation... Men are not broken. Women are not broken. There is nothing stopping (some) men from being men except emotional immaturity and sense the entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 07:32 AM
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Unbelievable.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 06:32 AM
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I see this sentiment so often on here. Perhaps it's an American thing, but where I come from, until you know better, everyone you meet deserves a basic level of respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/17 12:09 AM
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Is exercise (generally, not just lifting) helpful? Yes. Of course. It releases endorphins, it helps you sleep. Exercise is awesome. Is it a panacea for all mental illnesses? Does it negate the need for talking therapy and medication for most people with moderate to severe problems? Almost certainly not. Is developing a pathological hatred of women really bad for your mental health? Probably. (The other "therapeutic" red pill tactic appears to be to call the sufferer a "beta cuck" and/or "faggot"…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 09:10 PM
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Red pill is all about stigmatizing mental health. Apparently if you just lift enough you can cure depression! Their attitude is incredibly unhelpful. Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/17 04:44 AM
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That old strawman feminist would t die. "women were better than men" Literally no one beyond the fringiest uber-feminazi believe that. It is not and never has been a mainstream feminist position. It seems that women having the nerve to stand up for themselves is too much for some to bear even now...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/17 05:58 PM
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Do they? Do you know the relationship history and desires of every single woman on earth? Or do you only imagine you do via the lens of fake TRP field reports?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 06:52 PM
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Well in that case all you need to do is be more aggressive and dominant and lift more weights. Job done. Why all the endless hand wringing and pontificating?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 04:55 PM
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Or maybe high quality women are not interested in RP men using them as "plates" and trying to track their mental cycle and the other weird shit they claim to get up to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:41 AM
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I've been to TRP. They are fair obsessed with cocks over there...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:34 AM
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It's analyzing the imagined mechanisms and behaviors behind sexual attraction in women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:23 AM
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Basically yes. It bears no relationship to what is actually happening in the world, but it makes them feel better and fuels their belief that all women are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 07:51 AM
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The "top 20%" of men (whatever that means) don't have harems. That is a ridiculous fantasy. Like most people they are likely to favour monogamous relationships and eventually get married. They just get the most attractive partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 07:47 AM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 07:10 PM
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Thousands of years ago people had the same implicit biases against women they do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:53 AM
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The confirmation bias is strong in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:29 AM
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Well they're hardly likely to trust people who think they're all "cunts" ...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:24 AM
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It switches depending on the point the TRPer wants to make at that moment. They are very inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:22 AM
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It's a bullshit statistic from a crappy online survey. I wouldn't worry.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 06:10 AM
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Honesty. In as much as is possible for any human. No game players. No cheaters. Sense of humour Humility Intelligence Curiosity
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 09:27 PM
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I don't think BP thinks it doesn't exist. No one (male or female) wants to date a loser. However we are slightly boggled (and amused) by how important it is to you. One one hand it's the female crime of the century and on the other you're telling men to "spin plates" and treat women like sex toys cos there's always something better out there, while being utterly oblivious to the inherent hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 09:17 PM
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No you're not. You're on the internet day after day obsessing about women.
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 06:47 AM
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I'm not a feminist and I've never actually used any of those terms, except in jest. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 07:21 AM
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Do they?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:53 AM
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If we're going to go down that road, what could be more ableist than insisting that women have the minds of children and their intellectual capabilities are undeveloped? RP literally says women are retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:48 AM
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I don't think RP qualifies as a cult, but it certainly has some cult-like aspects. One that is very obvious is the way it loads the language with thought-terminating cliché. This is the use of particular words, phrases and acronyms, the purpose of which is to limit further intellectual examination of ideas. Because AWALT right? This is very cult-like behaviour. Scientology does a similar thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:36 AM
3

And Donald doesn't even lift! Edit: doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:17 AM
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The other guy is neither left or right as he has no ideology beyond seeking approbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:12 AM
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Outside of America the Democrats are considered centre right and the Republicans are considered insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:08 AM
1

What's "supernatural" about being able to spot a creep? They act creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 08:05 AM
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Historically most males fail to find a mate, whilst most females do not. Citation very much needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 09:27 PM
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The "women are wonderful" effect exists purely in the heads of misogynists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 08:21 PM
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God, you people are deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 08:09 PM
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Who do they bully?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 07:46 PM
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Entirely depends on how many hours a week each is working. Also if a woman buys a house presumably her partner would then have to do all the chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 08:32 AM
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And there you have it. Misogyny in all its glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:36 AM
1

Can we see some examples?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:35 AM
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Haha. Except pretty much the entire rest of the fucking Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:32 AM
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People in most other rich countries. The US seriously lags behind on employment rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:26 AM
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I'm sorry but that list is pretty lame and not at all comparable at all with the actual hatred for women spewed forth by TRP daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:18 AM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:39 PM
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Nope. Still not obliged to talk to people I don't want to, regardless of how desperate they are. That's not my problem. I am of course always polite.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:27 PM
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Never said I turned people down impolitely. Never said I was entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:58 PM
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Now that is entitlement. You are not obliged to talk to strangers because you are in a bar. That's the last thing I usually want to do. I want to socialise with my friends, not get hit on by randos who want to, what's the expression RP is so fond of... "pump n dump" me...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:03 AM
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You got banned for that? Really? It's not that controversial a viewpoint. It may not be entirely correct though. I think class has a great deal to do with it too... A rich white woman will probably be treated very differently from a poor one... And you're Interaction with the police will depend very much on your own behaviour as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:31 PM
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What was the comment that got you banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:11 PM
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I'm going to assume you're joking. By criminalised I do mean "is a criminal offence" not something people do that's mildly annoying (to other men as much as to women).
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 12:19 PM
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I don't think you understand any of this. Go back up and start reading again. It's a hypothetical example of why you can't just asset things as fact with no evidence. It's not about actual abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:59 AM
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The thing is though, in this case, the quaking duck is just as likely to be male as female. Hypergamy is one thing, calling it a female only thing is quite another. There can't be anything more hypergamous than the idea of "spinning plates" surely?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:52 AM
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But there is no evidence that parental abuse produces red pillers. That's the original argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:48 AM
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They may well disagree. Some of them however would conceded that personal anecdotes don't equal evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:35 AM
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Read through all.of that. I still don't know what male behaviour has been criminalized...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 05:19 AM
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Facepalm
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 03:16 PM
3

Of course, it couldn't possibly be more subtle than that in real life...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:32 PM
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Can you please point out where I said men have no issues? I did say that I suspect a lot of these issues (especially to do with mental health) are common to both men and women, but I certainly never said they don't exist. Women don't denigrate men's issues. Men do. On TRP they basically get told to "man up" and that all their problems will be solved if they just lift more weights. Plus the entire manosphere is a giant exercise in blaming other people for stuff. "No one will have sex with me beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:30 PM
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Try going over to TRP and talking about your issues and see how long it takes for someone to call you a faggot. Men don't care an about men's issues (which I suspect are actually "people issues"). Stop blaming women for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:50 AM
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Men are no more logical than women. This is the same cognitive bias that makes everyone think they're a better than average driver. You're over-estimating your abilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:44 AM
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A better question would be why people obsess over female obesity exclusively when the reality in most developed countries tries is that slightly more men than women are overweight and obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:30 AM
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Chad, like every other part of red pill "philosophy" is a thought terminating cliché.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 10:48 PM
4

I can't speak for all women, but personally the penis is the least important thing about a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 10:45 PM
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That's because it's a silly made up dichotomy that doesn't apply to real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 06:57 AM
5

I missed the bit where women accuse other women of having hit the wall... IRL and outside of high school, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 06:48 AM
2

I've seen quite a few red pillers refer to Trump as "alpha" which to me just proves how much of a crock of shit the whole alpha/beta thing is. Aside from everything else, he's a flabby old bald man who people constantly ridicule.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 06:19 AM
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It doesn't appear to be "illegal" in either place...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 09:57 PM
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What are you on about? The love parents have for their children is entirely different from the love people have for their partners. To be completely clear: Men do not love women differently to how women love men - that's made up RP crap to paint men as superior and is laughable if you've ever visited that sub ("Bitch objected to me obsessively tracking her menstrual cycle so I had to hard next her" etc). Whereas both men and women love their children in a way that is much closer to unconditional…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:58 PM
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No, you're simply trying to change the meaning of the word. No one uses the word unconditional to refer to something with conditions except men on the RP sub who are trying to justify treating women badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:24 PM
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Parents love their children with almost no conditions. It only becomes weird when people pin that on women alone. Men do not love women unconditionally, as evidenced by the enormous amount of, plating, cheating, nagging and dreading RP claims to be engaged in on a daily basis. And nor should they. No adult should love another unconditionally, that's absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 08:09 PM
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The semantics hamster is strong in this one...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 07:55 PM
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Women have always worked. Do people really think every woman was a stay at home wife until 1970. This is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 07:52 PM
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You know damn well what I'm saying is true because it makes fucking sense. It makes sense to you because it's motivated reasoning. It isn't really born out by the facts You're the one dismissing me to avoid debate. My questions is how can you complain about the way men are treated by society when the red pill treats them badly. I reiterate: The only people I've ever seen disparage men's problems are red pilled guys who call them faggots and claim depression can be fixed with more lifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 12:07 PM
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Not everyone is obsessed with sex. I know right? Mind. Blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 09:40 PM
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Those red pills sure are powerful hallucinogenics...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:33 PM
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You're like a parody of self-pity at this point. It's hilarious. The only people I've ever seen disparage men's problems are red pilled guys who call them faggots and claim depression can be fixed with more lifting. This is all on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:31 PM
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Well I mean, if you've never met one..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:24 PM
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TIL being under 30 was a part of the traditional female gender role... Guess that means I'm free! Woo-hoo! You can stick your traditional gender role up your arse! (I've never demanded men be anything or conform to any type role. I also don't feel entitled to them sexually causing me to get all bent out of shape when it turns out most of them don't want to fuck me. That's where normal people and the red pilled depart company.)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 12:20 PM
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It's like pissing into a hurricane of bad science.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/17 08:56 PM
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I don't know because I have no idea how many people any of my friends have slept with, male or female... I have idea how many women my boyfriend has slept with. I find this obsession absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 07:58 PM
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There aren't enough psychopaths to go round surely?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 08:46 PM
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Being British this is something I've never had to worry about. There are no places I've been at night where I've felt unsafe, and I live in London. That said anyone can get mugged anywhere. It's just relatively unusual so I don't worry about. I don't think women actually do feel more unsafe than men, but women are allowed to articulate their fear were as men are maybe encouraged to pretend they aren't fearful​?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:24 AM
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You think BTW porn is the result of women's demands? I know right? They have no fuckin clue!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 08:55 PM
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Absolutely this. It's about the kindness when no one is watching. That's an incredibly attractive quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 07:35 PM
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All of the divorced couples I know have joint custody. Why don't all men get joint custody by default?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 07:32 PM
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What about men who cheat on their wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/17 06:06 AM
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Bitterness always shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 07:03 AM
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Am also a woman, so this will be instantly dismissed of course, but I find larger than average dicks can feel uncomfortable. Average is fine. The person attached to the penis is really more important and penis size has no bearing on how, good someone is in bed. Orgasm is only achieved by stimulation if the clit, not PIV sex (however enjoyable) regardless of size. For me, of all the sexual things a man can do to a woman including with fingers and tongue, PIV is probably the least stimulating.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 10:04 PM
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Ah, well, you're not fictional. These fictional girls say all kinds of crazy shit right to men's faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:21 PM
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You prove them wrong with more science. It's a brilliant system.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:19 PM
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What about all the women who don't like, or go to clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:18 PM
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Day game AKA being creepy AF.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:12 PM
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Ah, the old "I deserve the hot girl even if I'm not hot..."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 12:58 PM
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Confirmation bias much?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:32 AM
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It's always, always TV, bars and clubs as if that were the sum total.if human life. These a possibly the worst places to form all your ideas about attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:26 AM
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Dude, I am surrounded by men of all shapes and sizes who are successful with women of all shapes and sizes. Real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:24 AM
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And then they start with the "I'm alpha but I have some beta traits."... Yeah, like maybe because in real life it's a spectrum and humans and wolves (observed in captivity) aren't really that comparable? And also, we are really, really bad at judging ourselves fairly. (But I'm a woman who can't logic, so ignore me obvs.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:20 AM
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And that should tell​ you everything you need to know about RP "theories"... If you were to posit "cock carousel" to an actual scientist I'm fairly sure the response would be "so? Who are these women having sex with if not a group of equally promiscuous men?" There is nothing there to study. Meanwhile, there is plenty of science behind why people develop bizarre beliefs in order to force the world into making sense to them...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 09:14 AM
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Actual science done by actual scientists vs the ramblings of a bunch of men who hate women and love confirmation bias...hmmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 10:10 PM
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Get out of here with your facts and real world observations!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 10:05 PM
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What a quaintly old fashioned question.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/17 09:56 PM
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These people know fuck all about women. They come across like they've never even spoken to one, let alone had sex with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/17 09:49 PM
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Cos we're all gold diggers...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 07:50 PM
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Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 07:42 PM
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And apparently the money that women earn isn't a resource either?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 07:33 PM
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It seems that with TRP no one gets to have any fun...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 06:39 PM
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And yet you say you're not a bunch of misogynists... I mean who wouldn't want a man who thinks of you a a walking vagina with no other redeeming features...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 06:37 PM
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It's stupid made up bullshit. People are on a spectrum. And you definitely can't become "alpha" be acting like an asshole and weightlifting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/17 01:34 PM
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How on earth do you square that with the "We aren't meant to be monogamous. Don Draper is my hero" shit you also hear from TRP types. Rhetorical question. You can't. It's all bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 09:29 PM
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"Is it possible for a woman to redeem herself?" Redeem? I'm sorry, is this the 19th century? Is it possible a promiscuous man to become a good husband and father?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 08:43 AM
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You just said feminists are women who are too ugly to get attention from men. That is the oldest sexist trope in the book. It's hundreds of years old. It's sexism 101. I don't understand why people can't just own their prejudice. You came here to be sexist. You deliberately said something sexist. And now you deny you're a sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 08:18 PM
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It's only slander if it's not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 07:23 PM
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Because he's an old fashioned sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 07:14 PM
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And he has terrible taste in music.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 05:01 PM
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🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 11:07 PM
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Most American women have a below average IQ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 08:02 AM
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You saying you've seen it doesn't make it so.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 10:49 PM
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Well that's me told. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 03:49 PM
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Or where a girl is sexual assaulted and lives with it for months before plucking up the courage to report it. The time lapse doesn't make it somehow not rape. Seriously, no they are not. The idea that women are encouraged to falsely report rape is a manosphere fantasy that needs to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 07:57 AM
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It's not a documentary...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 06:29 AM
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Speaking as a feminist I feel a bit sorry for Chad myslef. He gets a lot of shit from RP and never has the opportunity to defend himself, what with being fictional and everything...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 10:52 PM
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First off, we need to establish that there is no such thing as a true or important high school movie...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:46 PM
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"But in Sweden there's less beta bux deadbedroom marriages because women aren't expected to marry if they don't want to, and women make their own money so they don't need a guy to provide for them. " Is this really not the case in the US? This is pretty much how it is in the UK too...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:44 PM
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Dude, you've basically just described the world outside the TRP bubble...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/17 08:41 PM
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Who are these people? I have never, ever described a sexual partner's genitals to anyone! My friends would be horrified, let alone want to discuss it "ad nauseam"...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 10:53 PM
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I love this fantasy "women's world" the manosphere types have dreamed up with all the gossip and brunches. I expect there's also shoe shopping? After twenty freaking years they still think Sex and The City is a documentary! And TIL the women I see in the gym locker room, including me, must be a figment of my imagination...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/17 10:50 PM
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No one promises anyone anything. These are things people tell themselves they are entitled to which is why some people don't seem to have the issues RP men do. Not everyone is an entitled asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 10:12 PM
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See this is one of those unsubstantiated "facts"... The evidence (all of history, everywhere in the world) would suggest otherwise...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/17 09:36 AM
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It's the Internet. This is analogous with jobs. A batista job advertised online can potentially garner thousands of applications. That doesn't mean there's a dire shortage of jobs. It means the barrier to application is extremely low. You just press a button on a website. And you can potentially do that hundreds of times a day at no cost to yourself. Spray n prey. In the olden days you had to answer an ad in a newspaper, or happen to walk past the shop. You may have had to write an application, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 08:09 PM
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And the straw feminist appears in the very first comment...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:33 PM
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"gender roles" not genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:33 PM
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OMG. Lol. Except for all the subreddits that exist for that very purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 01:23 PM
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And a bunch of men whining on the internet doesn't prove anything either... Except that you guys rally like to whine ...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:56 PM
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No they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 08:40 PM
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You didn't read or understand anything I wrote. Typical man. ;-P
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/17 11:06 AM
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You're making a lot of assumptions there (how very red pill of you). I did not imply causation, merely correlation. Indeed, the equality tends to arrive after the prosperity. However, some very wealthy countries are also very unequal. Prosperity doesn't always equal a nice place to live. Equality is good for everyone, including men. The only people holding you up to ridiculous gender stereotypes (alphas, betas yadda yadda and back to a (partially fictionalised) bygone era where you could order w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 05:51 PM
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Did they? Where is it? As far as I can see his approval is sliding...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 12:45 PM
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So the people who actually can answer the question aren't allowed to?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:16 AM
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Look at the countries in the world that are most equal and then the countries that are least equal. Which would you rather live in?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:14 AM
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As a "blue piller" I think we tend to forget that in the digital age there is an infinite amount of space to fill with "newsprint" for advertising clicks. There is no man shortage. There is, however, a woman shortage in some parts of the word due to female infanticide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/17 08:11 AM
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You are still wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 06:22 PM
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I grew up in Britain the 80s and the moment I saw hair appearing there I reached the the razors without question. It was definitely a thing in the 80s.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:29 AM
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Haha. Wrong. It's incredibly rare to see a British woman with hairy pits. We're shamed into removed every follicle just like ever other woman on the western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/17 08:27 AM
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Anything can = anything when you're just making shit up...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 01:45 PM
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Shhh. You'll just confuse them with all this talk of the clit and we'll end up having to draw them a map or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 01:44 PM
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Or apparently good as sex, which seems to be the assumption red pill types make. Which is hilarious as from what I've read they don't exactly have the best grasp of female anatomy...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 01:35 PM
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Satire is a powerful form of commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 10:56 AM
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It's a satire sub where occasionally people make serious posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 10:55 AM
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Getting things done. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/16 05:27 PM
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What are these ideas I don't understand then - if they don't boil dowm to men belittling women which is all they look like to me? I've told you what I think they are. What do you think they are? Tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 11:06 PM
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None of them are in my age range for starters. Oh, and I have a partner who I'm not prepared to cheat on with anyone. So there's that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 12:32 PM
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But I thought TRP loved the notion that women a were always looking for "providers" what with men building everything and making everything and women not being really capable of much needing them for protection? Goalposts all over the place...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 07:56 AM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/16 07:51 AM
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I do read TRP... I read the discussions. The stuff in the sidebar is pseudo-scientific word salad designed to justify the ill-treatment of women. Edit: A quick search yeilded this gem: "Understanding a woman's love" https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4in6nh/understanding_a_womans_love/?ref=search_posts We don't love apparently, we are fickle (presumably because of our child-like brains coupled with our scheming, Machiavellian tendencies lol) only capable of respect. This kind of shit i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 11:10 PM
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Do women want to close the wage gap? I think most of them accept it as the consequence of having to take on the burden of childcare in a world that only rewards the economically active.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 09:13 PM
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Obsolete values like ... children? Seriously, you people talk out of your arses.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 09:09 PM
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Also, they're not oppressed. Seriously, people who have everything, and live in one of the richest countries in the world complaining about how they are oppressed. That is whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 08:57 PM
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Bullshit. If men are better at controlling their emotions why do they get into stupid fights? Road rage incidents etc.? Why do they have higher rates of suicide? I know you really, really want it to be true, but you are not the member of the superior sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 08:46 PM
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So given that I am not going to wallow in the mire that is Tomasi's blog or read the sidebar (I've got shit to do) what is the TRP's actual line on this, if I've misunderstood it so completely. What do they think of women's emotional capacity compared to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 12:46 PM
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No. My original message was that TRPers believe women are incapable of love. Now, this might not be explicitly stated in the hallowed side bar (I'm not going to read it) but it comes across all too clearly in the discussion threads, which I do read. Women are frequently judged to be emotionally inferior in to men. They are either too emotional (while men are rational), or in this case not emotional enough (they are Machiavellian schemers, while men are the true romantics). I've just seen a recen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/16 10:59 AM
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Sidebar. Whatever. It's in all the posts and comments daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 09:48 PM
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So if you agree men don't live women unconditionally either what's the problem? What's even the point f this "theory"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 05:46 PM
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This one? Women are incapable of loving a man the way he needs / wants which is unconditionally. Women only love children unconditionally. (Another way I've seen it put is "Children love puppies, women love children, men love women." Or that men are the "real romantics".) I'm not sure whether they think that means men do love women unconditionally? If they think they do, that's fucking laughable because reading TRP it's nothing but endless conditions women need to meet in order to be deemed suit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 01:54 PM
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I read TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/16 08:02 AM
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Well yes. That's unrequited love. It happens to all of us at least once (contrary to RP's belief that women are incapable of love of course!). It hurts like hell, but then you get over it and move on. But first there is the bit where you drown in misery. But reading TRP and treating women like objects won't help.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 10:53 PM
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There is no such contract. No one is obligated to have sex with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 09:09 PM
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You don't have "oneitis". You're in love FFS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 09:02 PM
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Or men who abandon their children...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/16 08:49 PM
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Stopping whining on the internet about how you can't get laid because all women are shallow bitches is is improving yourself and will undoubtedly make you more attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 01:04 PM
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Sure. But the idea that there is a system... Stop worrying about your made up SMV and go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:32 AM
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I don't literally want to meet him. That's not how celebrity crushes work... It more like when I happen to see him in a movie I think "he's nice" whereas I don't think that about, say, Chris Hemsworth (despite the fact that it has been decreed by the manosphere that I must fancy him, Prad Pitt and some bloke called Channing Tatum (?) who I'm only vaguely aware of, regardless of my actual tastes - which presumably don't real because women are a hivemind). Then I get on with my life... People take…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:31 AM
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Hang on. I thought being a Hollywood star gave a man unlimited options regardless of looks because women were hypergamous sluts who only care about money. I think even Devito managed to have at least one extra marital affair...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:24 AM
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Poor old Chad. I've never met him, but you lot are so horrible to him I almost feel sorry for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 07:21 AM
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I think the point of the OP is that there is no system. People like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:17 PM
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I think the point of the OP is that there is no system. People like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:17 PM
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So Danny Devito hasn't actually been happily married since 1982 then...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:13 PM
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So Danny Devito hasn't actually been happily married since 1982 then...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:13 PM
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I don't know any women who's ideal is Chad as described by incels or red pillers. He sounds like a sex addict. Best avoided. Edit: grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:03 PM
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True. Not only would I not sleep with The Rock - who is about as far from my type as it's possible to be, I wouldn't want to hang out with him either, whereas The Elephant Man - but most accounts - was at least able to hold an intelligent conversation... I also don't find Brad Pitt attractive. I never have. Johnny Depp can do one. He is the worst. He even looks like a greasy PAU. Audible gasps from red pillers. I do have a huge crush on Mark Ruffalo though...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 08:01 PM
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Ah yes, angry sex-obsessed men. The most objective scientists ever... I never said (this is the phrase I find myself using with depressing regularity on this sub BTW) there was no truth at all, but as TRP chooses to deal primarily in extreme caricatures it renders itself unrelatable to most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 09:56 PM
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It's an idea, certainly. But it isn't a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 08:41 PM
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What don't I understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 08:39 PM
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See, that makes me want to start saving clippings of of the cock related stuff I see on TRP and make a PPD post all about it When I'm not too busy on the "cock carousel" of course!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 08:27 PM
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It's always presented as a dichotomy. There is no room for nuance. That's why people find it really hard to relate it to the world around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 08:24 PM
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No. There are differences. But TRP chooses to focus on their fake constructed differences and not the real ones. Good example of not seeing the real differences - and something that fascinates TBP is their near homoerotic obsession with penises. For an actual woman the cock really isn't the most important part of a man's anatomy, but because they are obsessed with vaginas they assume women are equally obsessed with cock. Wrong. (Also you don't get "tingles" in your vagina. There aren't many nerv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 07:55 PM
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See. It always have to be extremes. Chat or Beta. Every good looking man is a Chad and every "Beta" is apparently crap at sex? These personas do not represent real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 07:50 PM
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Share your thoughts by all means, just don't expect to never get called out on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 06:36 PM
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I have never voted or posted in TRP so I have not pushed myself into any male spaces. Challenging someone's ideas is not "policing their thoughts". If you don't want to be challenged don't do your "thinking" in public where everyone can see it...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 02:11 PM
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Like I said, the stuff that does hold the tiniest grain of truth is stuff that both genders do anyway. That's why it's hypocritical nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 08:47 AM
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What strategy? There is no strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 08:41 AM
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It's one of the most satire worthy things I've come across on Reddit. The stuff about sexual strategy is either bollocks or stuff both genders do. Women are not specially evil. When people try to bully other people, make themselves big by making other people small - which is exactly what TRP is about - they deserve a good ribbing. It's kind of sad and hilarious in equal measure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 06:51 AM
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They defend reality vigorously...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 06:46 AM
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So all women are predisposed to being shitty cunts? And you really can't see why people have a problem with that "philosophy"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/16 06:41 AM
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He earns 1 million wanker points for the cringey use of "sitrep" alone. He thinks he's in the A-Team.
/r/askMRP06/12/16 01:35 PM
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I didn't say they didn't. Just that they don't do it all. Also I've never been on Tumblr. This idea that women do not work, and do not contribute, and that the only work that counts is paid work is toxic nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 08:34 AM
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Typically yes. It's a job that cuts across the social strata. My mother came from a working class home (father was a steel worker) and was a nurse. But plenty of middle class women go into nursing too. They're equally unafraid of doing a "dirty" job.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/16 08:28 AM
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Everyone except me. I couldn't give a toss. My partner and I openly discuss our prior relationships. Cos we're adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 06:09 PM
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How are you defining promiscuity? Some guys on here take it to ridiculous extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 06:07 PM
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And also assumes that a stay at home mum does not do work...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 06:03 PM
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And the female working class does fuck all I suppose? I fucking hate this red pill idea that women don't do dirty jobs. Try being a nurse in A&E.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 06:02 PM
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OK. I got as far as "works on a building site". How is that a crap job? Construction pays pretty well where I live. I'd be more than happy to date a bricklayer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/16 05:48 PM
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Not always...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 08:09 AM
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I've argued with RP guys who claim they physically can't cheat. That having sex with people other than your partner isn't cheating... but only if you're a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 11:07 PM
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They hate themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 11:00 PM
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Because they're not as clever...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/16 10:59 PM
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That is absolutely not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 01:37 PM
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Violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 08:29 AM
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Why is it always a dichotomy? I like masculine men. I do not like controlling douchebags who think they're king shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 08:25 AM
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How does meta-review weaken the data in the original studies?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/16 08:22 AM
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Having seen more than I discussion collapse into arguments about this I have come to the conclusion that TRP's numerical scale for ranking female attractiveness is probably a bit flawed... /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/16 08:15 AM
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You need to get out of the echo chamber and get some fresh air, bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 07:49 PM
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Dude, you just proved every point. "Men don't cheat." LMFAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 01:46 PM
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Men and women are different, but they are also very similar in many ways. Spinning plates is an excellent example of male hypergamy. And it's cheating, which TRP says only women do. There is so much hypocrisy in TRP thinking. If a man does it, it's great. If a woman does the exact same thing, it's terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 01:18 PM
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And largely incorrect. I'm certainly not sleeping anyone who could be described as "elderly", regardless of how "alpha" they are. And the last thing I would do is sleep with someone who acted like a sex addict (because that is how I view promiscuous men, not as "studs" but as losers who are too immature to invest in a relationship and who will probably cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 01:13 PM
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This is a great example because the problem with it is that men tend to take away from it the impression that they are inclined to genius (never retardation of course!) while women are inclined to mediocrity. Then that becomes the "fact". People grasp on to anything that helps bolster their sense that they are better than other people. TRP is entirely based on the need to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 08:21 AM
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What the fuck are you talking about? Who's failing? Nobody's failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 10:29 PM
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Yeah, probs. They live on "Cool People Island"...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:03 PM
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I'm a feminist and I don't think that... Women fought for a long time to be free of other people trying to control their sexuality. Whomever a woman chooses to sleep is none of my business, nor yours. What perpetuates toxic masculinity are places like TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 07:55 PM
4

Wow. You've got issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 07:43 PM
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His SMV (these fucking acronyms are lame BTW) is so low he can only have long term relationships? How terrible for him... Some of you have utterly fucked up ideas about relationships and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 07:37 PM
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There is no point trying to reason with these people. They've made their minds up. It doesn't matter how hard we work, how much money we earn (or how attracted a lot of us are to our nerdy boys - that idea seams to cause them extreme cognitive dissonance for some reason) we'll only ever be lazy gold-diggers as far as they're concerned...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 07:34 PM
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Well I only have about 20 years experience in adulting under my belt, so yeah, what do I know... Perhaps there still are cool kids. I wouldn't know. The thing is, it all ceases to be important. Relationships (not just sexual ones) are important. Work is important. Learning stuff is important. Arbitrary pecking orders based on what you look like, not so much. Being a grown up great.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 05:32 PM
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Why is tha not great? Women should only do what you want them to do and not what they want to do? The main problem seems to be that women prefer to have sex with men who are not you...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 02:05 PM
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Women like sex. Oh the horror! (For the record I have never tried my sexual history into an academic thesis. So no, all women do not do this.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 11:02 AM
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Charming.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:52 AM
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All women do this? Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 08:57 AM
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Have you ever visited an Intel sub and seen the stuff they say about women? They are not normal men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 10:30 AM
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There are no cool kids. The adult world is completely different from school. People care about what you do, not who you are. It's quite liberating. One of the problems TRP has is that they are largely trying to negotiate the adult world while stuck in school/college mind set...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/16 10:14 AM
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God you terps are twisters! This has nothing to do with either person's sexual history. It has to do with who they are sleeping with NOW while while are sleeping with each other. I have been perfectly clear about that. And of course I would expect equal transparency from both parties. If your "plates" don't know they're plates, that's cheating. I guess the difference between TRP and normal people is that the rest of us absolutely do feel we owe other people - even strangers - a degree of respect…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/16 07:08 PM
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You're deliberately not listening to what I'm saying. It. Has. Nothing. To. Do. With. Commitment. It has everything to do with being able to make an informed choice about whether to risk getting the clap (or worse) and knowing exactly what you're getting into from the get go. Non-exclusive is fine IF you're totally upfront and both agree to it. Pretending you're not fucking other people when you are is not fine. I do however realise your hit rate is likely to go down if you say "I should tell yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 08:48 PM
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Your sex life is very much the business of someone you are having sex with. Unbelievable selfishness.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 07:03 AM
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Its not about commitment and exclusivity. Of course no one expects that at the start. But if you deliberately hide the fact you are sleeping with other people from someone e else you are sleeping with you are giving them the appearance of exclusivity which is dishonest and you are taking away their ability to choose whether they are OK with that and the higher likelihood of getting an infection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/16 06:59 AM
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Call me old fashioned, but I think disclosing that "by the way I'm going to be sleeping with multiple other people while I'm sleeping with you," is actually a basic fucking requirement. Not least because at then the woman can make an informed decision about whether or not to risk the STIs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:37 PM
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Whatever. I'm sick of this shit. Human relationships cannot be reduced to mechanical transactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 01:37 PM
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Yeah, all those "plates" know they aren't exclusive...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 01:31 PM
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Where can I read this exactly? On the other hand I know precisely where I can read that women over 30 are hags, cheating is OK if you call them "plates" and women have the brains of children...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:25 AM
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I've been cheated on by a long term male partner. How can you tell me that isn't cruel or damaging? (I'm way ahead if you BTW. I already know your going to tell me it will have been my fault he cheated, so don't bother.) TRP and MGTOW constantly belittle and dehumanise women. Luckily I'm not bitter, and most men are not arseholes. I read TRP and MGTOW for a laugh because these men are the biggest bunch of entitled babies ever and thankfully in a very small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:23 AM
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That's exactly how these men talk though. Any women over 30 is a "post-wall hag". How else are we meant to interpret that? You can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:15 AM
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I don't recognise any men I know in real life TRP and MGTOW. I don't recognise any of their "theories", or "biotroofs" in action in the real world either. In short, don't worry about it, it's all bollocks. Most men are lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/16 07:12 AM
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I try really hard not to be sarcastic, but it's really hard with so much immaturity on display. A lot of the people who post in these discussions - and are presumably adults - literally sound like children whining because they can't have everything they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 11:20 PM
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I think it's none of our business.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 07:03 PM
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The world is not divided into attractive and unattractive. It's a spectrum, and most people have both attractive and unattractive features - both physically and personality-wise. People who aren't (by your standards) attractive fall in love with each other and fuck each other all the time. People compromise all the time. If that were not the case the human race would have died out a long time ago. Although I think it might be a good thing for the gene pool in general if the TRPs and incels do ke…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/16 06:10 PM
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Niceguys are simply men who are trying to "bat above their average" as we say in the UK and - as is inevitable - failing. People mainly form relationships with people of a similar level of physical attractiveness and intelligence. Always have, always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/16 07:32 PM
1

I'd argue that shaving off my pubes does not make me.look good...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 08:54 PM
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Ah well, you see I have no interest in getting any benefit out of my sexuality at all. Sounds rather too time-consuming TBH!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 08:03 PM
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Have you ever tried to shave a pussy? Not quick. Tedious as hell especially when you add legs as well. I've got better things to do frankly!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 08:01 PM
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Well here are some non-vague factoids for you. I had one sexual partner at university. I'd had one prior to that. By the time I was 25 I'd slept with a total of three people. Edit: Also I was being vague because I didn't really want to go into detail because it actually doesn't matter how many men I've slept with. I slept with 3. I could have slept with 30. It wouldn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 07:59 PM
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This entire discussion is ridiculous because TBP does not care how many people someone has slept with because we don't slut shame.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 06:32 PM
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That isn't fashion either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 06:21 PM
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Ironically enough, this entire discussion seems to be full of people seeing only the things they want to see...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 06:21 PM
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When I was in university nearly all my friends were in long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 06:07 PM
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I think you'll find that what BP "loves to say" is that everyone is different... And has different experiences. Personally I don't recognise the women TRP talks about in myself at all. I had barely any sex before the age of 30, and now I'm supposedly post-wall and hideous I have a very healthy monogamous sex life. Because I'm a real person and not a TRP fantasy slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 06:05 PM
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"Quick" total body shave. Whatever Trevor.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 12:39 PM
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"They are obilvious to the fact that the vast majority of women receive such treatment everyday, from men and women alike." It's all such bollocks. The vast majority of us (women) receive zero compliments on a daily basis, and when we do it's usually in relation to something we've done (for work, cooking, making something etc.) rather than simply what we are (the bits that supposedly make us "fuckable"). These people have constructed a fantasy world in which they get to act like massive man-babi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 12:38 PM
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"These men receive no niceness themselves." Hang on, I need to get my tiny violin out for this one...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/16 09:39 AM
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You don't get to call me shallow. You know nothing about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 10:46 PM
1

Wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 08:00 PM
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I find it interesting that you've conflated insecure with "dumb" and confidence with "smart". Something TBP has never asserted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 04:54 PM
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Like a dog with a bone...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 04:11 PM
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Racism. Nice. Edit: Ironically Bundy's surviving victim thought it was OK to get into the car with him precisely because he was young, white and handsome... He didn't seem threatening at all... Edit: spelling and grammar
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 10:49 AM
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Well in the UK women are advertised at not to do that. There was a whole ad campaign about not getting into minicabs alone. Which receieved a lot of criticism because it appeared to be saying that " "We've told you now. Whatever happens to you will be your fault." And sometimes you need to take a cab alone, what are you supposed to do? Wait for a male relative to drive you?... Let's not got there. I was listening to an interview with one of Ted Bundy's surviving victims and she didn't report wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/16 07:46 AM
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They are mainly just horrible people who will either grow out of it because they're really too young be complaining about being "incel" and they'll meet someone eventually and/or learn that all men are not in fact entitled to a 16 year old virgin supermodel, or they'll just stay horrible. You can't fix horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/16 06:52 PM
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Sorry. I totally misread your post. I was tired. The fact remains though, that every dictionary definition if feminism talks about equality. Choosing to be a stay at home mum or dad is perfectly acceptable to all but the most extreme feminists. (I don't even know who these extreme feminists are. I hear about them all the time, but, unlike the manosphere I have yet to stumble upon any in real life.) Being forced into that role because you have few other options, and even the law makes it difficul…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 07:32 AM
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What about all the shirt guys who are married or have girlfriends? Most of the shorter guys in my office have partners. Did I imagine that? My own boyfriend is barely taller than me. He actually added a few inches to his height on his dating profile, presumably for the same reason everyone here is obsessed with it? I just thought that was funny. I liked him and his height was never an issue. Height is the least of it to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 06:19 AM
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Out in the real world there are plenty if older, pudgy men who are more than happy to have sex with the older pudgy women regardless of their cup size, so don't worry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/16 06:09 AM
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So you're saying that in order to be a housewife you have to subjugate yourself to your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 10:20 PM
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Firstly you have no idea how old I am, which is in my 40s. Secondly there is a world of difference between being a housewife in an equal partnership and a housewife following a husband's "headship". Subjugating yourself is at odds with equality and implies that being a housewife is indeed a lesser role.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 05:37 PM
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Feminism supports choice and not being constrained by old-fashioned, human invented gender roles. It is not an ideology that "disrespects" one lifestyle choice over another. I'm a feminist. I love the idea of being a stay at home mum. I have zero disrespect for women who choose to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 01:22 PM
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I don't see how an American woman can work and have children. They get practically no maternity leave. The situation in the UK isn't perfect - childcare is way too expensive, but there is more support here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 01:18 PM
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I've never met a single individual person who expressed any disrespect towards housewives. Many women switch from working to staying at home and back again throughout their careers so experience both sides. However, the economic system we (in the west) have to operate in has no time for those who do not generate money, so housewives, carers and the sick or severely disabled, basically have to exist on someone else's charity. We need to sort out our priorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/16 01:08 PM
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I take issue with the idea that being very emotional is a feminine trait. Being (generally) better at communicating emotion does not mean we have more of them, that they are stronger or that they play a larger part in our decision making processes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 06:21 PM
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Quite right. It's actually the fact that it's not true that makes it not true. No one is literally good for nothing but showing off unless they're in a catatonic state.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/16 05:56 PM
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It's equally likely to be the reverse (more red pill projection). 80% of men are trying to sleep with the top 20% of women and failing. Result: angry internet echo chambers...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:42 PM
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Masculinity can exist without misogyny. That's the right kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:32 PM
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Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:24 PM
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I hope you also kicked him in the nuts...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:20 PM
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I think the idea that a human being is "good for showing off, and little else" might be the offensive bit. Humans have feelings...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 07:20 PM
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Like anything on TRP if there is a grain of truth in it (I.e., the one about women having the minds of children is obviously bollocks) it will likely be something that both genders do. I mean logically-speaking a woman cannot ride the mythical "cock carousel" if there are no cocks to ride... Those cocks belong to men who are doing the exact same thing... (They talk about cock a lot more than women do though.)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/16 05:59 PM
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I am a woman who has never, ever faked an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 03:26 PM
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What are we supposed to do about that? Cull ourselves a few years early to even things up? Ridiculous argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 03:23 PM
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Wait, I thought women were supposed to be incapable of love...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 07:20 AM
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In my socioeconomic class guys (including the gays) are almost all married or with partners... They're the least likely to be promiscuous. TRP seems to be stuck in this immature college/high school mindset where your status relies on getting laid as much as possible (unless you're a girl, which makes no logical sense because if you're going to be a promiscuous man surely you need a steady supply of equally promiscuous women, so why discourage them with slut shaming?)... and I'd argue that even c…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/16 12:07 PM
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I never connected promiscuity with success in men... I mean the most promiscuous men I can think of are the trailer trash baby daddy types who literally have nothing else to do. Hardly successful or valuable... Any idiot can have lots of sex... I guess it's really all about perception...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 08:46 PM
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But why doesn't it work the other way round. The actions of promiscuous men don't have consequences...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 07:13 PM
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I doubt you want an honest answer, but here goes: It's probably similar in many ways to the male sex drive, only less intense. Hormones can affect it. I tend to feel less horny in the weeks before my period, but more so during it and just after. Sometimes I'm just horny for no reason. Especially in the morning. My partner makes me horny and I'm 100% sure he's not an "alpha". I get very horny if I'm hungover. I think that's to do with a spike in testosterone. Words turn me on more than pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 05:37 PM
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Serious debate needs to be backed up with facts. None of this stuff ever is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 11:54 AM
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It's bollocks because it's neither how hunger works, or how the female sex drive works...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/16 11:52 AM
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I dunno. Sometimes I wake up horny and have a wank? No "alphas" in the room. I don't even know what an alpha male is. The RP version sounds like the kind of douchey twunt I'd crawl over broken glass to avoid...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 09:11 PM
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I dunno. Sometimes I wake up horny and have a wank? No "alphas" in the room. I don't even know what an alpha male is. The RP version sounds like the kind of douchey twunt I'd crawl over broken glass to avoid...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 09:11 PM
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Er... What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:20 PM
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"Women have no sex drive unless they're in the presence of some made up category of men" is a laughable proposition. Don't be surprised when people take the piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:19 PM
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No, that's like "I'm not hungry until I see plate of foie gras," which is obviously bollocks. Terps are fucking terrible at metaphor.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 07:17 PM
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Plenty of the men up there don't deserve it... And yet there they are...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/16 06:58 PM
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So the only place you can meet women is bars and clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/16 08:46 AM
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Brown hair, shoulder length, no glasses. From a distance you can't even tell I'm a feminist...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/16 09:03 PM
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A hobo on the street and a Nobel laureate both deserve the same respect? Er, yes, actually. They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/16 07:09 PM
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Respectfully, that's bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 04:49 PM
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That wasn't my point...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 04:44 PM
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Another reminder that when RP say "women" they're only ever referring only to a very specific sub-set, namely, the young (implicit in the mention of "daddy's money") and beautiful. The rest may as well not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/16 12:37 PM
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It's self-evidently a poor strategy. Never said otherwise. Sadly it seems to be human nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/16 08:20 AM
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I see you're joining us from the middle ages...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 09:52 PM
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I know RP likes to see the male of the species as paragons of virtue and any inference to the contrary will like as not set their hamsters scampering, but the sad reality is that men have been abandoning their children since time immemorial without giving two shits about it. Too much like hard work amirite? My mother (still married to my dad FYI) was in social work and would see women who vainly thought having yet another baby was a way to keep hold of a man, when usually it was their cue to jum…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/16 08:14 PM
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Maybe, just maybe, this "alpha/beta" thing is a total fiction, and real life is much more complex and nuanced...?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/16 10:35 PM
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So this friend* of a friend* - the pharmacist - is interested about how she is in bed? A tad unprofessional? *fictional
/r/MGTOW02/09/16 08:17 PM
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Sounds like someone is trying to get out of doing the dishes...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/16 04:39 PM
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Most people think they are "nice". They aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/16 11:25 PM
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Then why do I never see couples who are that mismatched in the looks department? This is one of RPs favourite tropes, but there is no evidence for it in the real world. It seems to be a way of projecting male attitudes (obsession with physical appearance) onto women in order to make everything their fault. In reality everyone cares about looks and no one wants an unattractive partner but everyone knows what their level is. Except dudes who can't get dates because they always go for women out of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/16 10:38 AM
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Pretty much none in the western world. For the first time in history. It's a fantastic time to be alive, but it's spawned MRA and TRP and other groups who desperately wish it weren't so and require a safe space to whine about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:43 AM
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Speaking as a foreigner continually boggled by TRP's nonsense, Americans do seem obsessed with outward appearance to a ridiculous degree. I now see why there are no US TV shows with ordinary looking people one them. Ironic really, considering it's the fattest country on earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/16 07:36 AM
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Well, I certainly can't speak for all women, but I don't. Sure I've seen porn, and I have nothing against it, but do I choose to watch it with any regularity? No. It doesn't really do it for me, and that isn't because I don't like sex, it's more like: "He/she's nowhere near her clitoris. Why is she making that God awful noise? And actually that looks a bit painful." Also, we don't all like big dicks. Sorry to shatter that RP illusion. If porn were made for women the men would be more physically …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 08:23 PM
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Advocating cheating (fine for men, not for women of course) for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 07:45 PM
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What about men who fuck women over? TRP advocates being a man who fucks women over. Is it a fuck them over before they fuck you over type thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 06:00 PM
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My point is that women are visual, but not in exactly the same way as men. While it's arguable that most men would love to receive unsolicited vagina pics from all and sundry (although we'll never know for sure as it's never going to happen haha), the same cannot be universally said of women, and yet men continue to do it, and get annoyed when the reaction isn't favourable... Also, the big dicks in porn... Yeah, those aren't for the women. Some women may watch porn, but that isn't the audience i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 12:30 PM
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Porn isn't unsolicited - you choose to watch it - or happing to you in real life. The size of the penises in question is immaterial. Really.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 05:39 AM
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If they almost always get a man "above them" then they aren't by definition, above them... Anyway, you rarely see couples who are that mismatched in looks so I don't know why this myth persists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 08:51 PM
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But it is. If you're choosing a life partner personality is the most important thing. Handsome is good, but honestly, for me, looks-wise if the guy is vaguely in my league, clean, can dress himself and isn't hugely overweight, I'm happy. I know I'm not the best looking woman out there, and I know what my type is. I don't throw myself at men who are out of my league. But the thing I won't settle for is a man who is unintelligent, humourless, bigoted or boring. My standards personality-wise are ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 08:06 PM
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Well, they are and they aren't... They do not, on the whole, take kindly to receiving unsolicited dick pics for instance.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 07:53 PM
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I'm afraid you're going to need to explain, in detail, how focusing on "violent, horrific rape" would end up being be "racist"...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 04:58 PM
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Well, that's certainly what RP seems to believe...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/16 04:56 PM
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You're confusing theory and hypothesis. By the time you get to having a theory you'd better have some evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/16 07:22 AM
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Ah, the feminist conspiracy...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 07:43 PM
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There is no rational response. Hence, The Blue Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 07:39 PM
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"The lack of evidence does not disprove the theory." LMFAO.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 05:48 PM
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I see no science has been forthcoming yet. Colour me surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 08:12 AM
0

I was being sarcastic...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 05:30 AM
2

Someone's a little jealous...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 08:02 PM
0

So, how long have you been a management guru?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 07:38 PM
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In the first place, I'd question the validity of having a dichotomy between thinking and feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:34 PM
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I'd love to read the scientific studies that prove women have the minds of children...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:25 PM
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I don't know how people can make make it any more clear. The advice, such as it is, is don't be a misogynistic dickhead. It's doesn't matter if you're getting laid if you're doing it by being horrible to people. BP is not there to help you get laid, as far as they are concerned that's not a problem. No one's helping me get laid either, but I don't expect them too. That's just bizaare. The problem is the attitude to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 12:19 PM
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This is like arguing with creationists who won't have it that you don't worship Charles Darwin like a God. BP is not the other other side of the RP coin. It's just calling out the bullshit. It's not supposed to be offering advice. There is no advice to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 08:03 AM
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You probably can learn to be better at it, but you can bet your boots no management training session ever leads with "Your team members are basically idiots with the minds of children and you can and should try to game them into doing what you want. Also, fire everyone over 35." Which is the gist of TRP "philosophy". Also while you can learn skills, you cannot learn a new personality. And a lot of what you learn about management comes from doing it, and failing, and doing it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 07:56 AM
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There is no need for an "alternative". People just need to stop being dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 07:15 AM
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Nope, but I do know my MB personality type will probably change every time I take the test because like TRP it's all based on pseudoscience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/16 07:25 PM
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Yes. TRPers want one rule for them and another for women. That's their entire "philosophy" in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/16 09:12 PM
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This is why I always used to insist on going Dutch on dates with people I didn't know very well, prevents any nonsense about paying for food and drinks entitling someone to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 11:41 AM
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OMG fetch my TRP bingo card, I think I've got a full house! Actually, it's occured to me after I wrote my last post that there are situations where the 80/20 rule may apply - although it's probably more like the "top" 20% percent of both genders fucking each other, and no one else fucking anyone - and that's like school or (at a push) college. It just really doesn't happen out in the grown up world... Perhaps a lot of TRP haven't ever really grown out of that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 11:35 AM
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What "magical" way? Let me guess... Wide-eyed and child-like..
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 07:24 AM
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That's not what I observe in my peers. I see women of all ages who have bags of enthusiasm, drive and passion all around me every day. You know shit about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 07:23 AM
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Solution for what?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 06:23 AM
2

Which is why only 20% of the population ever get married... Oh.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/16 06:13 AM
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I don't even uderstand the concept of a "low value man". What does that mean? Are there no correspondingly my low value women for them to tup? What am I missing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 08:52 PM
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Lol. At 39 I have plenty of enthusiasm for lots of things, just not for bullshit. (And before you all start, am in happy relationship dispite being disgusting looking post-wall hag.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:38 AM
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I keep hearing this, but when I was a college everyone went out with people their own age. I didn't even really know any people outside of my own age group in a social sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:31 AM
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Seriously go and look up the word theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:28 AM
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That is the most scientifically illiterate thing I've read on here. A scientific theory - like evolution - must be falsifiable to be called a theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:27 AM
1

I'm no scientist, but that thing about blond hair sounds like crap. What I suspect might be true is that blond hair is simply genetically related to pale skin and Nordic types were selected for less and less melanin in their skins as they live in places that are likely to be darker than others and having less melanin makes it easier to absorb vitamin D from the sun?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/16 05:18 AM
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Except that the vast majority of us (women) have never read (or in my case even heard of) either of those books...
/r/ExRedPill05/08/16 10:52 PM
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Seriously, some people need to look up what a strawman argument is and then have a word with themselves. You can go on TRP any day of the week and find people advocating adultery/cheating and manipulating/gaming women into sex (in those totes real field reports). It's all there, as bold as brass. You don't have to make it up!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/16 10:50 PM
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TRP promotes game playing, lying and endless internet whining. If that's masculinity, you can keep itm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/16 09:52 PM
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Well no. What TRP is actually doing is starting with the conclusion - women are awful so treating them awfully is AOK - and then cherry-picking (or even fabricating) anecdotes that prove it, or simply talking in general terms about how awful they are without even bothering to back it up with any facts. One day women are master manipulators with no emotions - they can't feel pain, they can't love etc. - and the next they are irrational creatures driven entirely by their feels. TRP just makes up w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:47 PM
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While you're away you might want to look up the definition of a "strawman argument"...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 06:26 PM
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When did I attack your character? I'm just responding to your fact-free instance that women are less able to love than men, and more cruel. Your opinion is not much of an argument. NB that women initiate divorce more often than men means nothing outside of knowing the reasons why. I'm loathe to bring up a personal anecdote because as we know it's not the same thing as data, but when discovered by partner was cheating on me and ended our relationship immediately, which surprised him as he had see…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:42 PM
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If you need to keep telling yourself women are horrible to make yourself feel better, then go for it mate, but I've yet to see any compelling evidence that either gender has the monopoly on ability to love, and I've also seen men do some absolutely shitty things to women so I'm pretty sure they aren't all saints, but then I'm not a member of an anti-women cult...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:26 PM
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It's a fairly well documented phenomenon that men are much more likely to divorce a wife who becomes chronically or terminally ill than vice versa. Google it. Obviously you'll never see that fact gracing TRP threads any time soon as it conflicts with their existing narrative that women are the fickle, shallow, callous sex, and brings into question the behaviours and attitudes of men in general. As always, you can make up any old shit you want, it don't change the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/16 12:05 PM
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Or simply get bored...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 09:04 PM
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I did. Physical appearance and behaviours can change based on all kinds of things, innate and external. If your love is based on nothing more then it's fickle and insubstantial. If that's how you define "pure" that's fine, but it's not love that will endure. To argue that men who actually categorise women's "hotness" using a ten point scale are the ones who's love is "pure" while women are all somehow degenerate by comparison is laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 05:36 PM
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Of course not, but no one is realistically up for sex all the time, but similarly once you get into duty fucking, it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 05:27 PM
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So much nope. I am not having sex if I'm not into it. Ever. And my partner would hate that anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 12:44 PM
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Men love women for who they are. For the sake of this thread I will define "who you are" as your physical body and the behaviours that body exhibits due to neurons firing in your brain constantly. "Pure" but completely superficial and liable to change at a moments notice? Like a guy having a midlife crisis and dumping his wife for a younger model, or leaving a wife who becomes chronically ill and needs constant care? "Pure", but it's also entirely selfish and inhumane. Perhaps that's the way you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 12:40 PM
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That's the dumbest thing I ever read.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/16 05:34 AM
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Being sex-positive does not mean you deny the emotional aspect of sex or throw your personal safety out of the window. If a man approached me in a grocery store and asked for sex I'd simply leave my shopping and the store immediately to get the fuck away from him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 12:15 PM
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I didn't realise I was consenting to sexual harassment every time I go out for a few beers...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 12:07 PM
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Well she's right. Am not asexual, I love it, but TRP style sex - hair pulling, jackhammering - does absolutely nothing for me. Clitoral stimulation is required.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/16 07:54 AM
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Citation needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 08:36 PM
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When did I say they should off themselves. I didnt. this is part of that childish hyperbole. They should realise - like the rest of us do - that they aren't important or special and they aren't entitled to anything. Life is unfair sometimes. Deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/16 05:28 AM
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I don't. Lots of women don't. Not everyone wants that kind of attention. It makes me very uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:35 PM
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Or they're virgins because they hate women and can't interact with them? Who knows? Who cares?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:28 PM
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Look, I agree. I was a just pointing out the no so subtle subtext there... They go on and on about men having to be attractive in order to get laid, but at the same time they feel entitled to hot girls, and deride woman who are less attractive or over 30. It's TRP shtick. blatant hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 08:03 PM
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Thirty is probably too old for clubbing. However it's not too old for lots of other things and it's definitely not too old to find love. All you would be by now is jaded had you have a series of failed relationships behind you. Be thankful. Don't dismiss women your own age either. They aren't a homogenous group. Be open minded.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 07:44 PM
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Well, I wouldn't advise joining an anti-women internet hate group as a sensible solution for starters... It's ridiculous behaviour regardless of age, but my point was that it's particularly ridiculous when you've only just begun to adult. It's perfectly normal to be a 20 year old virgin. No one is having as much sex as you think they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 07:30 PM
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When the objectification is taking place in the wrong context - at work etc, and / or is coming from a stranger. My first interactions with my partner were completely non-sexual even though we met on a dating site. We talked about our hobbies and interests. We didn't get sexual at all until the third date. Now I love being sexually objectified by him becuase I also feel safe with him. He says outrageously dirty things to meet when we're in bed, but back then if his opening line had been in any w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 07:13 PM
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I think his point is that it isn't fair?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 07:04 PM
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A lot of the time they do share the same experiences. The main experience of being young and wondering if you'll ever find true love or get laid. People who are 20 and describing themselves as "incel" are being ridiculous, basically, and need to grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/16 12:09 PM
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I think it's fine for you to be a misogynist, as long as your irrational predjudices don't effect me or anyone else. You can believe whatever crazy shit you like, won't make it true!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/16 06:16 PM
3

Do none of the women in RP world have jobs of their own?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 08:25 PM
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Luckily for all the single mums and women who've slept with more than one person or are (the horror) over 30 there are plenty of men who've never heard of TRP and don't need to rely on a cult to tell them what to do... Hurrah!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 08:18 PM
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RP solution: Alpha Widows and the Cock Carousel. Tell men that once a woman has sex with an alpha, she can never give herself fully to a man again. Every time a woman has sex with a new man, RP solution: Alpha Widows and the Cock Carousel. Tell men that once a woman has sex with an alpha, she can never give herself fully to a man again. Every time a woman has sex with a new man, her ability to bond with you decreases by some amount. Thus RP men feel justified in seeking a younger, virginal women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/16 12:44 PM
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How? The "alpha men" won't know who else she's messaging.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/16 06:20 PM
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It's one of those things you really only appreciate when you're older. Your opinions about it change throughout your life. Generally being alone when you're old sucks. Married older people are healthier and happier. It's as much about companionship as sex, but TRP is only concerned with getting sex. They don't like or respect women so the concept of real companionship is alien. I'd also hate the idea of living without a pet either. People like company.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/16 08:49 AM
2

RP absolutely relies on young girls being naive and doing stupid things no mature woman would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/16 07:48 PM
1

Bleber seems like fairly typical masculine teenage boy to me... Just prettier than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 10:53 PM
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Teenage girls are attracted to teenage boys rather than middle aged men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/16 05:26 AM
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Intelligence isn't fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/16 07:20 PM
1

How do you know all the subscribers to r/niceguys are "feminists"? How does being able to demonstrate emotion (and empathy) make someone "weak"? Aside from that, it's really the difference between emotional maturity and immaturity. r/niceguys features men who basically haven't learned not to act like children. It's all about entitlement without effort. Women as objects. Any display of emotion usually resembles a toddler chucking his toys out if the playpen...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/16 07:29 AM
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By "feminists" they mean anyone who stumbles across their hate-filled rants and promotion of paedophilia and says "Steady on chaps, this is a bit much."...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/16 07:28 AM
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12.8% is low but it isn't "practically none". And this doesn't take into account all the other professions - like medicine - with a strong science-basis that are full of women. I work in tech and about a quarter of our devs are women. The head of the database team is a women. And none of this proves anything about women not being as "logical" as men. STEM professions are not the only ones that require a high degree of logic. It's hard to think of any job that doesn't. That women can be described…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/16 01:03 PM
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How else am I expected to interpret "no women in stem" when clearly there are? Even "fewer women in stem" would have been better (although it still wouldn't provide proof of anything). Anyway, I asked for the science, and received none. It appears the STEM is not strong here...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 08:14 PM
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Zero women? An excellent example if the accuracy of the average terp stat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/16 07:26 AM
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The clue is in the phrase "observable trends".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 06:00 AM
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Show me the science that proves men are more logical than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/16 05:43 AM
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Personality is immutable. Game is artifice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/16 05:40 PM
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That it isn't about looks, it's about having a toxic personality...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 08:25 PM
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If you actually watch what women do and observe who they have sex with... Mate, I suggest you find yourself another hobby...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 08:23 PM
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But what about all those "field reports" about "plates" and "HB9s"? You mean to tell me they aren't really true? Ka-boom! Mind blown.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 08:21 PM
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If only better than average looking men were successful with women, no one less than average looking would be in a relationship or married etc., and yet they are. All over the world average to ugly people are hooking up with each right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/16 12:55 PM
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The love thing interests me. If women are supposedly incapable of unconditional love (show me the scientific research that proves that one!) that presupposes that men are, yet all their relationships with women, as described on TRP seem based on all kinds of conditions and rules. In the RP world Women Exist to be gamed, not loved. Isn't that slightly hypocritical?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/16 07:40 AM
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"Women are incapable of love." "Women have the minds of children." "Women lack agency." "Women are totally ruled by their emotions. Men are completely rational." Said no scientists ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/16 08:08 PM
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Have you considered the possibility that human society isn't actually divided up into alphas and betas etc. as TRP (groundlessly) claim and our social hierarchy is in fact much more nuanced and complex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 06:57 AM
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I'm sorry, but what are feminists supposed to do to stop it? Surely it's up to the individual teachers not to be so bloody stupid and not to abuse their position, or the children in their care?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/16 06:47 AM
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I know my relative attractiveness. I know 'Chad" isn't going to want to fuck me. Not only that, I don't want to fuck him either. We have nothing in common. I like men who read books and have ideas and a sense of humour and who enjoy it when I enjoy sex as opposed to treating it like a competition... I DGAF if he has a six pack (my other half is obsessed with going bald. I don't care! I love him anyway because he's him!). Chad might be undeniably attractive, by the very narrow definition of (Amer…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 06:03 PM
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Oh sure. There will always be a lot of compromises in order to make even the strongest relationship work. However, compromise is not something found in the RP toolkit...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 05:49 PM
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Except that "handsome" is an entirely subjective, relative term. Not everyone finds the same thing attractive. Most of us are not objectively beautiful or handsome, but we are to our other halves. RP has a very rigid standard of beauty that most people wouldn't recognise.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 12:31 PM
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Why does everything on here have to be all or nothing? Why is it such a stretch to imagine that far from being just one, you have potentially hundreds of soulmates out there in the world, but the ones you actually meet at the right points in your life is the one you end up with? You might have several good relationships in your life, you might haven none, but most people have at least one. I certainly don't believe in the kind of romantic love portrayed in movies (and being angry that real life …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 12:21 PM
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OK. So if <10% of rape accusations being proven false makes this a "common" occurrence then surely by the same measure the other 90% odd of reported rapes that did happen make rape a societal problem of absolutely epic proportions?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/16 06:57 PM
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