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| 2 | What are some interesting games that we can play with a new girl?I like the one where you do an action, and then she has to do what you did and something else on top of it. Then you copy those two actions and add another one and you keep going. Tennis is also fun | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Getting back on my bike is actually Killing Approach Anxiety for meThat's awesome dude congrats on getting back into biking. I was really into skateboarding a while ago, but I think I was having the same fears you were. You convinced me to go give it a try tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Do comparisons mean anything? HelpTbh I haven't counted my total approaches. I probably have talked to 100 women through both cold and warm approaches. However, I recently started my own goal to get 100 rejections so thats why I gave you the advice. Basically how I'm doing it is anytime I see a girl I wanna talk to I just go talk to her and purposely try to be average. Not lame or cool, just average. My goal is to get rejected, but if she's interested then I'll go from there. This way when I get rejected I feel like I accomplish… | /r/seduction | 22/02/18 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Do comparisons mean anything? HelpAll I'm hearing is that you haven't been rejected by 100 women yet. So it's all good bro. If you talk to 100 women and you still haven't had one success then maybe you can complain. | /r/seduction | 21/02/18 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Do comparisons mean anything? HelpOf course there are dude. Here's a little challenge for you: Go approach 100 women and try to get rejected by all of them. I guarantee it's almost impossible. | /r/seduction | 20/02/18 07:38 AM |
| 5 | Girl I'm into asked if I like a mutual friend. What do I say?I feel like all of your options are just gonna result in the same reaction (in the girl's head). So just pick whatever you want lol. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 04:21 AM |
| 2 | What do your guys' Instagrams look like?It's dope as fuck | /r/seduction | 20/11/17 06:30 AM |
| 1 | Any savvy Snapchat users out there?Lmao it's snapchat for fucks sake girls don't take that shit seriously. | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 11:44 AM |
| 3 | REJECTION THERAPY. It fucking works. 5 years of approach anxiety and rejection therapy is the only thing that has made a difference.I had the same feeling as you but I got over it by looking at it like this: Imagine that you are walking down the street either alone or with your friends and some random guy comes up to you and gives you a million dollars. Maybe he interrupted what you were doing or made things awkward in the process but damn it was worth it. You are the million dollars. | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Developing a personaWell yeah if you are born with a certain personality no girls will ever like you because they are all the same. If all you care about is attracting the hottest girls around then a persona can help. The easiest way to develop a persona is to act overly stereotypical for whatever persona you are going for. It's the whole 'fake it til you make it' thing. After you get how the persona acts, you can tone it down and use the best parts of what you learned to have a fully developed persona. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 11:09 AM |
| 3 | Developing a personaThe best persona is acting like yourself. | /r/seduction | 29/10/17 09:42 AM |
| 5 | The approaching women with "Hi I just thought you were cute" isn't working for me in clubs"...what's a better opener?It's the club. The one place where it literally doesn't matter at all what you say. The only thing that matters is energy. | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | I really cant stand shit tests, what should I do?If you can't stand shit tests then don't bother with girls who do them. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 10:14 AM |
| 3 | Should I double text?Double text, triple text, who the fuck cares? But only do it if you have something new to say. Just act like the old text never happened and start a new conversation. If she doesn't reply then whatever. It's not like everyone wants to talk to everyone else all the fucking time. | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 10:12 AM |
| 5 | What are some things you should keep to yourself early on in dating?If you want a girl you can "metal the fuck out with" then you shouldn't avoid talking about that. Any women you weird out is just another one you know isn't gonna work out. | /r/seduction | 16/09/17 03:35 AM |
| 2 | A little frustration, and the popular gym topicWhat I would do is come up with some bullshit way to get a conversation going like asking for the time or asking her to help you read some tiny text or something. From there you can just be like "I've seen you around a lot, what's your name?". Yes I would do this at the gym whenever really just make sure that she's done with a set or whatever. | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 01:33 PM |
| -5 | My first failure in a long timeyeah sorry you are never gonna get laid again | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 06:38 AM |
| 2 | How do you build fun into your life when you're hustling for improvement every day?Have a rule like "saturdays are for the boys" | /r/seduction | 28/08/17 12:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with having braces in college?Make loud slurping noises when you suck the food that gets stuck in them out. | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 11:02 AM |
| 1 | I'm (16M) not sure how attraction works?Think about how you would feel if some guy you sort of know at your school started talking to you. The answer here, at least for me, is that I wouldn't really feel that awkward about it. As long as they appear to have a reason for talking to you. The keyword here is appear. An example for you: I go up to these girls that I sort of know and I ask them if they have seen the Emoji movie. (stupid opener right?). We all have a little laugh about how dumb the movie is and from there you can take the c… | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Any tips for music festivals?Bring gum. Everyone becomes your friend and you have instant social proofing. | /r/seduction | 12/08/17 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Acceptance of yourself will be your most powerful asset in attracting women. I went from having no friends, to receiving the greatest compliment I've ever gotten in my life.Everyone has flaws, fixable and unfixable. And nobody is perfect. Even if someone is, they didn't start that way. Look at the olympic runners that have to go up against Usain Bolt. They may not be the best but they are still really good. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Seduction in USA Vs. AsiaIn my experience it's the same except you can't escalate physically as fast. But Chinese girls are usually either really polite or completely blow you off from the start. They also give really clear signs when they want you to talk to them. | /r/seduction | 11/07/17 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Met girl at party, what next?I can't see why not. Go for it | /r/seduction | 08/07/17 11:53 AM |
| 0 | How do you balance waking up early, and going out at night?Force yourself to stay up for 72 hours. After that 24 hours will be easy. | /r/seduction | 02/07/17 09:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Third night out in Hampden Kiss CloseYou kinda fucked yourself by leaving yourself with only two people to talk to in an entire bar. Steve shouldn't have even bothered you because he would only be talking to a few of your friends at a time, leaving you open to talk to others. Then you could come back and still do what you did (which was awesome by the way). But this way you wouldn't have to be upset. All in all sounds like a great night and you made the moves so good job. | /r/seduction | 25/06/17 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Able to get first date but not secondGuys that get second dates don't worry about getting second dates. | /r/seduction | 22/06/17 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Picking up in a small town, where everyone knows each otherJust be really friendly each time you get rejected and nothing will matter. You might naturally become that guy that everyone knows. | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Help getting girls/lit in japanLol in Asia I challenge you to find a club that ID's you | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Having very few friends as an insecurity of mine, i need some advice. (With bonus question)It's probably you're insecurity of having no friends that makes these girls think you have no friends | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | is it always going to be like this?Do you have any female friends? You could bring one of them to an event and they can get you into whatever girl circle you want. | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 12:31 AM |
| 4 | What to DM a random gorgeous girl on instagram?Send 69 tongue and water splash emojis. | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 12:15 AM |
| 2 | F.O.R.D. is a method that helps to know someone better, but is there a method that helps to have fun with a person?One thing that's fun and easy to do is make up your own little "tells" that will let you know whats up with someone. Example: You can decide that anyone with a red umbrella must LOVE pepperoni pizza. Now when you go out and see someone with a red umbrella you can go up and say something like "I love your umbrella, I'm guessing you like pepperoni pizza?" Seems pretty dumb with umbrellas and pizza, but you can replace these tells with incredible specific ones. For instance, one of mine is when I s… | /r/seduction | 31/05/17 12:09 PM |
| 3 | F.O.R.D. is a method that helps to know someone better, but is there a method that helps to have fun with a person?How bout you have fun talking about college, classes, and professors? | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 05:30 PM |
| 8 | Is it common to be told to "Fuck off" in a clubLook for people that look like they are having a lot of fun and talk to them. Those types of people will be much more willing to have a conversation and will be more fun to talk to in general. This is why I rarely approach someone who is alone because they are probably alone for a reason. | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Been dating a girl off and on for a while. How do I get her to start initiating more.Well it could be one of those situations where she's down for whatever so whenever she asks its 50/50 and when you ask its 100%. | /r/seduction | 07/05/17 06:03 PM |
| 0 | An epiphany I just hadYes dude keep going. This is what real confidence looks like. | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 11:51 AM |
| 2 | How to Snapchat a girl you don't know very well?Snapchat is practically a game not a social media platform. Nobody cares if you snap them and if they do then I would seriously reconsider wanting to get to know them. | /r/seduction | 23/04/17 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Where do I look in selfies?What the fuck | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Variance in seduction when it comes to Chinese girls?I think some of the differences are they value you being polite slightly more, but its also really easy to make them laugh. Also I don't think approaching is very common in China so if you do it you will instantly be more impressive. (or creep them out lol) It really depends though and every girl is different, so whatever you do normally would probably work on them too. | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 08:18 AM |
| 5 | I don't fucking get it.Possible Problems: You aren't being physical enough (depending on the setting) You aren't giving off the vibe that you are attracted to the people you talk to You text too much You worry too much about the results and it shows | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Why to date a girl?The only reason to date a girl is this: You want to. From what I'm reading, you don't want to. For help with these types of problems you could go try r/relationships or something. Also, you seem to equate not being with her to being alone, when thats not the case at all. Go meet some new people and enjoy your life. If it works out with her then it does and if it doesn't oh well. | /r/seduction | 11/04/17 11:03 AM |
| 1 | How to stop hesitatingGotta get into the social mood. Talk to everybody you see, old and young, boys and girls, etc. Just get talking about anything and you will get rid of that approach anxiety really fast. It usually takes me three or so random people to be confident enough to approach anyone. | /r/seduction | 10/04/17 11:59 AM |
| 23 | How to get invited to things.I don't know if you can, but a good way to get invited to parties is to have your own party. | /r/seduction | 24/03/17 04:54 AM |
| 4 | What type of snaps do you usually send to girls you just met to spark conversation?Dude yes. So many people on here seem to think that you can't make fun of yourself in any way. I feel that makes you come across as extremely uptight. | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Need advice about moving to a new area.Going somewhere that you don't know anyone is so fun. Just talk to everyone you see and be nice and confident, eventually everyone will wanna be your friend. This really depends on the size of the area though. In my experience, big cities are harder, but more people to meet. As for telling girls that you are new, I think it can work really well if you frame it correctly, cause it gives you something to talk about. | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Need advice about moving to a new area.Going somewhere that you don't know anyone is so fun. Just talk to everyone you see and be nice and confident, eventually everyone will wanna be your friend. This really depends on the size of the area though. In my experience, big cities are harder, but more people to meet. As for telling girls that you are new, I think it can work really well if you frame it correctly, cause it gives you something to talk about. | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 10:53 AM |
| 7 | How can I start causal conversations?Just talk to her. Ask her how her weekend was, how her days going, etc. Then whatever she says I would just try to keep asking questions. The truth is it doesn't matter what you say (sort of). As long as you are confident in yourself it will not be awkward. After you have had a couple of conversations just talk to her more. It may not seem this way but everyone is looking for friends in high school. Good luck bro | /r/seduction | 15/02/17 12:12 PM |
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