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The cope around functional dress or anti-male whatever in this thread paints a good picture of the demographic of the subreddit. These are the same goofy dudes that have always had trouble with women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 03:53 PM
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Sure its area you're in too. When I was in college, I was really into the runway model look, and went after that. Gotten older in the MW, and girls like that just look like boys to me, while "fullness" is super hot. Obviously not obesity, because no guy is into big bellies unless its a fetish, but some weight is feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 07:38 PM
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Because life doesn't work like reddit says t should.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:05 AM
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Ok bro
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:33 PM
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Hes been saying the same crap for like 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:24 PM
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Yeah it sucks if the type you're attracted to you isn't attracted to you back.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:20 PM
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He's lamenting that he can't get a progressive woman, so whats his other option?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 07:32 PM
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Mail order bride?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:16 PM
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Move? Sorry it sucks, but apparently it's a trade that guy chooses to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:07 PM
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The dude admits himself he was a little socialist wuss starting out. He cried all the time about the world being mean and unfair, and that directed a lot of his early academic pursuits. Hes said on a lot of occasions hes pretty feminine. Somewhere along the way he realized his whiny nature wasnt going to do him any good, and that a lot of traditional tropes of masculinity were legit. Undoubtedly a lot of his stuff is seeking to compensate for his weak nature. Regardless of how much he succeeds o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 06:06 PM
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He could totally get a trad wife, but that requires running in trad circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:56 PM
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That's Jordan Petersons big thing. Get off the computer/leave your parents house and grow some teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:53 PM
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Civilization is about moving away from caveman. These kind of women you're talking about are still way too close to ooga booga to be taken seriously. This stuff was a thing in high school, and for a lot of us it was old even back then. That said, being a boss is what you're after. For most women, just being confident in yourself, having self respect, and competence in your field accomplishes the same thing without the black eyes and assault & battery charges. $ is sometimes the scoreboard for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:50 PM
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As a high n count man, I admit I'm a hypocrite for seeing high n count women as less valuable. It's the madonna whore complex. IDK if that is a legitimate viewpoint or not, but I acknowledge its my viewpoint. Slutty girls are gross, and not relationship material, despite the fact I was manslutty myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 04:15 PM
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Literally whatever is the flavor of the month on reddit. Whatever any culture's dominant ideology is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 05:14 PM
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We would have 0 acceptable ideologies if that were the case. Some ideologies are given special treatment where we hypocritically don't judge it by the believers.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:06 PM
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Definition of shallow
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 03:48 AM
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Keep lifting for your mum bro
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:11 PM
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I workout for myself. Besides, shes told me herself she isnt as shallow as you seem to think she is
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 06:10 PM
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i'm taken, getting more muscular does nothing for me and women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:39 PM
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.5% of the male population has to worry about losing attraction from being too muscular whereas like 40% would really benefit from trying to get as built as possible (since its so unlikely any guy will overdo it.)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 07:16 PM
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Non issue anyway because "body builder" is any jacked dude that's spent a few years in the gym and doesn't binge on beer and pizza. 0 enhancement required to get that kind of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 05:33 PM
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Big difference between roidheads and silicone androids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 04:20 PM
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I dunno how many of even the girls in the op were attracted or just wanted to see what it was like
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 12:06 AM
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Yes, more likely it's the girl saw a body builder she could sleep with and jumped at the opportunity. Saw a study that indicated that bodybuilders were the 1 type of dude that a lot of women would go for for ONS. But beyond that, they weren't as big on casual sex, so they wouldn't be slutty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:10 PM
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Never has been traditionally. Maybe there is a move now to make it non exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:09 PM
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50% attractive. Attractive to one head but not the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 11:06 PM
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It takes a lot of hard work to start looking like a guy. But if your bf lifts himself, he'll probably like it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 09:15 PM
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Starts as depression. Or depressed and scared because he doesn't know what to do next so ignores it. But when he gets used to being babied and feels secured in doing nothing, then it turns into full time laziness. Why would he change he has everything he wants now.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 04:36 PM
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Obviously its relative to age and what not. Like 20-30 guys by 21
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 06:05 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 05:16 AM
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Nice guy = pushover afraid of conflict
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:17 AM
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No way anime shirt guy volunteers since that requires leaving the house
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 03:15 AM
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Insecurity is definitely part of the issue for some. Me included. I've felt immense relief in the past when I had the very juveline realization I could totally take my ladies former beaus in a fight. But the thought of her being slutty is still repulsive. It's a disgust thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:15 AM
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Just part of the pattern. Its not always like this, but often enough it's an obvious trope. There is a link between the gym and political conservatism. TRP is more likely to be conservative than commie. And conservatives typically test high psychologically in "disgust." Slut shaming is a disgust issue, so it's just one or those traits that typically falls in the camp of judgemental pricks. Not caring at all about n count, being poly or in general not minding "sharing," usually gets thrown in wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 02:12 AM
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That Panamanian girl with Borderline got that poor goofy schlum in her grasp tho. Shes crazy, but you know he sorta likes it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 10:00 PM
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Strike up conversation about whatever interesting thing is going on. If they seem interested, ask for their number. Date. No idea if the world still works like that though
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 02:40 AM
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Who cares, this sub is about who men and women are, not who demographic women are. Still a great example of hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:53 PM
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No, guys with money is relative to girls without.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:27 PM
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What? That is the guy I mentioned "Saggy melted candle in a golden candlestick still gonna be more valuable than anything you or I have to offer" I'm talking relativity
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:20 PM
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Net worth gap between some dorky engineer 20 years into his career and a girl from the phillipines growing up on a mud floor is huge, and my original point still stands. These guys are gold to the girls used to alcoholism and pig crap. If you're basing your opinion entirely on eurocentrism that's not my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:16 PM
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The thousands of Western men that marry much younger, prettier, traditional and loyal women from the Philippines, Latin America, etc. You think they're naïve to what they're doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 08:05 PM
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That's about loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:58 PM
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Ok, true, but when you're very well off and you have the choice of anyone, that isn't necessary for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:35 PM
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where did you get that from and why did you post it on my comment? guys with money don't care if you're attracted to their bodies/personalities. you're attracted to something that they got and thats what matters
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:09 PM
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What is your type? Type definitely affects how communication should be done in a relationship. Luckily, ENTJs are incredible at figuring things out, so if he cares enough, he can "learn you" using type as a tool, and that may alleviate some of these issues.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 06:16 PM
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Tone is important here. Vulnerable, sweet tone, not accusatory or aggressive tone. This is unbelievably accurate. I melt the second my wife expresses any vulnerability and immediately switch from "reasoning with" to comfort.
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/22 06:11 PM
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Saggy melted candle in a golden candlestick still gonna be more valuable than anything you or I have to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:01 PM
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Classics appreciate in value through age, but definitely not through use
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:58 PM
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Those are only valuable for collectors of vintage/old cars. And no real collector is gonna want a bunch of other guys riding their car rough and dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:56 PM
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Unlikely these guys are business owners. More likely they work in lending or above proposed corporate environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:39 PM
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Back in the day when I went to strip clubs, bought sex, and did the pump and dump on OLD, I was in much more a frame of mine to cheat. I never did, but i was tempted a lot and if I would have it would have been at that time. I agree that its sample bias. You can vouch for sex work all you want from the womans side, but that doesnt change the fact that the dudes buying see women more as disposable objects than the dudes that dont.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:06 PM
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The only way they'd be stealing from poor people are if they did predatory loans or worked in the cigarette/alchohol industries.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 03:02 PM
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I havent. Pretty fair to say if your husband is frequenting strip clubs you shouldn't be surprised when he follows through.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 02:59 PM
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Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/22 12:13 AM
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Look it up, you'll feel so at home R/femaledatingstrategies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:58 PM
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You forgot your FDS flair
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 11:52 PM
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Not if you change
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 10:30 PM
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Or the circle of people you hang out with are misogynistic hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:36 PM
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Every western culture in the under 30 demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:28 PM
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Not since Plan B
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:24 PM
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Because people change. But the issue is, if you've gone this far in sullying your conscience, you're probably gonna be too calloused to repent in the end anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 06:40 PM
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In the US, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 02:49 PM
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Your example is an extreme. If those are the guys you try to date, I guess that's what you're into. But by not fat bellies, most men mean they dont like American obesity. We dont find it attractive when you look 9 months pregnant just walking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:43 PM
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They want not fat bellies, as if women can control that. Wait
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 08:33 PM
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You can't diet your way to an hourglass waist but that's not what most men are asking for. We just dont like American levels of fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:32 PM
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As I've gotten older, fuller, child rearing body my partner has is attractive to me. I'm now kind of put off by the super frail girls I went for in college. But a big, out of proportion belly is never going to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:32 PM
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I, a man, whine internally about going to the gym all the time. The question is, ok it sucks but are you going to push through it anyway? And the answer is often, "no" lol. But on the bell curve of women's attraction to gym bodies, my partner is about as far to the point of "my head is so in the clouds it doesn't matter to me in the slightest" as you can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:28 PM
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No it's not. Minority boys in impoverished areas oftentimes resort to dealing drugs, petty crimes, gangs, and sometimes bigger crimes, and ya abusing their partners too. We can yell at these minority young men to stop being trash human beings. That has been the conservative/republican approach. Be tough on crime. Minority boys do crime, throw the book at them. And leave it at that. Or you can hold those individuals accountable, while also putting more attention into the underlying issues like la…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 05:06 PM
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All problems solved if we aborted both
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 11:05 AM
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Where did I say that? I think its pointless telling murderers not to murder. It's already illegal under the penalty of death, what good is my scolding going to do? I think for men that will kill their partners, it is too late. Sucks for them. If you want to date and have sex with a potential murderer and try to tell him that he should respect women, I cant stop you. But that's definitely not something I would recommend for my daughter. I'd rather focus on raising my hypothetical sons and let the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:26 AM
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Both FDS and incels hold to some traditional gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:57 AM
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It's called the death penalty. You support the death penalty, dont you?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:19 AM
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Nope. But I'm conservative, and so are they (in the same hypocritical, psycho way incels are conservative.) They speak some common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:18 AM
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How about both. We have the death penalty for a reason. You are pro death penalty, ya? Educate your sisters. Femaledatingstrategies sucks, but at least they educate women on what abuse looks like at the onset so these women can get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:17 AM
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"Stop raping women!" Is that better? Have the bad men stopped now?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 03:15 AM
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As the son of a wife beater, trust me I know. All the more reason to vet men before you have their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:50 AM
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Yep. I'm 100% for support to get women out of abusive relationships so that isnt modeled for their sons. Break the cycle. But the woman has got to decide to leave that relationship, or better yet not get into it in the first place. Still her choice, we can't mandate cops to come in and make her break up. Men should also leave their abusive partners, for sure, and stay away from crazy. Evil stepmother is a trope for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:20 AM
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Responsibility lies first and foremost with the individual. That's why we execute him and not his mother. I agree that men are to blame, but any guy gonna murder his lady is too far gone. Put him down. But as I posted elsewhere, adulthood is too late. You gotta raise your boys not to suck. Statistically, sucky boys come from single parent homes more often than they dont, and custody goes to mothers far more often than it doesnt. Single moms are raising sucky men. That's a really sad reality. Ton…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 12:10 AM
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No. The murderous men are most at fault. That's why the court system puts them to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:42 PM
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Of course we're trustworthy and good, how else do explain the pleasant facial ratios?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:14 PM
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Being sexy goes a long way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:13 PM
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Being physically attractive, nice, and sexually giving goes a long way for men. We'll put up with a lot for that. Idk why
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 11:06 PM
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If you have a daughter, I sincerely hope you teach her to avoid dangerous men and not leave her to figure it out on her own while you type stuff on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:46 PM
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If you have issues telling the differences between a narcissistic and violent man, and a good guy, I'd recommend checking out femaledatingstrategies. They might be way overboard, but they care alot about protecting women from abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:44 PM
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Either you cant read or you're entirely bad faith, but I never said that. I said you shouldn't sleep with dangerous men. No one should.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:37 PM
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Might be good to check out Femaledatingstrategies. They might be nuts, but they are huge on helping women stay away from abusive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:32 PM
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Might be good to check out Femaledatingstrategies. They might be nuts, but they are huge on helping women stay away from abuse men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:29 PM
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That's ridiculous. We have an entire legal system telling men not to murder. We have the death penalty. How much more clear can you get than "we will put you down like a dog if you do this." Telling men is too late. Raise your kids better. Stop popping out kids in broken homes in the first place so your boys can have an example of a man that treats women with respect. So your daughters know what a good man looks like and wont flock to the dudes that are gonna beat them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:26 PM
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I do. Mothers, stop coddling and enabling your violent sons. Ladies, stop giving men with anger issues your attention. There.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:11 PM
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Remember when that kid went to that island to tell the incredibly hostile natives about Jesus, and go figure, died for it? Nobody blames the natives for exercising castle doctrine. They victim blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 10:08 PM
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Best method to escape dangerous men is to not sleep with them in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:58 PM
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Stop breeding with overly angry and violent men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 09:56 PM
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Has FDS actually contributed something useful to the relationship debates??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 04:50 PM
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Ya and the rapist is just giving hugs too huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:50 AM
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No, wrapping your arms around someone is a physical action. A hug is a physical expression of endearment. A wrestler with his arms around another wrestler isnt hugging him. A man kidnapping a child, restraining her with his arms, isn't hugging her. Because a hug is a social construct.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 02:42 AM
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A hug is only a social construct too so what
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 01:48 AM
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A lot of people that want more than hugs
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 12:51 AM
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Stop using data to judge potential romantic partners. Use your personal experiences to judge them instead like normal people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:57 PM
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Anyone using statistics to find a partner is already an outlier from any norm, because normal people dont do that. Reddit is not the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 09:56 PM
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The societies growing most dont have the best track records of women's rights
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 07:31 AM
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If your familiar with MBTI or Jungian cognitive functions, it's just Extraverted Sensing. Se. Sex, hierarchy, force, physicalness, in the now, aesthetic. Se can be pretty and Se can dominate you. Most alpha bros have strong Se. Most artsy sex symbols like musicians have strong Se. Just has 2 flavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:54 PM
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Sexual starving artist dudes get plenty of attention with 0 fame and 0 real earning potential though. I think alpha bros see seductive Don Juans as competition rather than one of their own, despite both being a flavor of chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:51 PM
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Well leaning right is pretty masculine, so that works.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:49 PM
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If masculine is whatever excels at getting itself inserted into females, kpop and romantic sex idol is very masculine. Hard cold manly men, or soft fiery sexy men. Assured extremes. Confidence and competence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:44 PM
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They're artsy Chads. Don Juans. Romantic. Sex idols. Like Johnny Depp. Big difference between kpop and when MCR and hot topic emo was a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:41 PM
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Bro are you serious? Do you know how many dead beat musicians are sought after and desired? 0 effective status, still hot. I was the sexy, broke art guy in my late teens, early twenties. I got a ton of attention despite my 0 real status and 0 earning potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:39 PM
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Why isn't buff lady porn way more popular than it is then? Buff F-M porn where they look like dudes, but insertion point is still there, is barely searched. Instead, typical shapes are sought after. Hips even or bigger than shoulder, busts larger or more proportionate, and bigger butts. Personally, muscle definition, muscle size, wide shoulders, angular jaws, hariness, short hair, and vascularity are huge turn offs for me. If my lady ever loses too much of her squish for firmness, I'm afraid I'd…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 05:35 PM
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Do you mean to reply to my comment? No, none of this is productive. What generalization are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:09 PM
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Because you keep arguing back?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:00 PM
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And I think you've got nothing of value to contribute to the conversation if all you have is the lazy objection of "nOt AlL WoMeN"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:57 PM
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No. By this logic, the OP understands that there are exceptions. You don't seem to understand that pointing that out is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 03:32 PM
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Pointless comment, though. Obviously it's not true all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 07:09 PM
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Should be both. Nobody should be with someone they aren't attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/21 03:45 PM
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Very sorry for your experiences. Are there any men that have really come to terms with their partners past? I have to reiterate what the other poster said that for men, it seems there is just a point where the girl's history is too much. I don't know why entirely. It was that way with my wife and I. We were both in pretty bad spots when we met (Tinder hookup,) but in that first bit of time together she did what you may have done and told me way too much. I didn't think anything of it at the time…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 04:11 AM
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I dont buy it. I think those are men that had dominant potential but never grew up. What I think OP is talking about is a naturally submissive man.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 03:37 PM
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Has anyone ever changed from submissive to dominant? I dealt with a lot of insecurities that have largely been dealt with now that I'm in my 30s. But the confidence just came from age and living life.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/21 04:47 AM
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