monotopoaya Archive

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1	Express yourself Coffee shops, meetup groups, political campaigns, dancing classes, the train...anywhere where people are.	/r/seduction	28/01/20 04:05 AM
1	100 approaches in a month - making progress and having fun Sometimes, given that I tend to be a fairly conversant and extroverted person, I'll lead off the conversation or give people more to work with. Like the story behind my phone charger, for example. "Was out w some friends this weekend at this cool bar but haven't seen my charger since." Being expressive and selling your story is a big seller in attraction, I feel.	/r/seduction	28/01/20 12:33 AM
11	Express yourself My interactions with women have improved immensely since I started going to bars/clubs not just to pick up women. I'm fairly extroverted as it is so I'm in it to make friends and connections. If a connection is made with a cute girl I want to go home with/go on a date with, that's just an added bonus. Otherwise, I met cool people who might turn into good friends or acquaintances. Hell, just making instant friends w people improves social cred dramatically to women. For me, expanding social circl…	/r/seduction	24/01/20 05:54 PM
5	Where to have sex when living with both parents and not having a car? Sometimes, it's a matter of playing the "Lettttt's go to your place!" Presently, I live on my own but it's not my favorite roommate situation so I prefer to gun for going back to their places instead. If you play it right, many women won't have a big issue w you going to their place. It does take a little more finesse. Usually just a matter of flipping the script a little. For example, if a girl seems to be digging the fact that you're an artist and you had your own place, you might say, "What a…	/r/seduction	16/01/20 06:14 PM
2	How do I enjoy myself while clubbing? Yes! There's this one bollywood/bhangra DJ that performs at a couple of venues around town where I live and I almost always go because i love the music and the vibe. Kind of a similar reason why I love going to music shows. You instantly have a reason you're there. Going for a DJ specifically gives you an edge in a club setting because a lot of people there aren't necessarily going to be there for the DJ. You can almost play host. When you chat up women and tell them you're there to see the DJ, …	/r/seduction	06/01/20 06:37 PM
1	How do I enjoy myself while clubbing? Went in a middle of the dance floor. Closed my eyes. CLEARED all my head of any thoughts (meditation could help). Focused on my ears. Found the repeating beat. And start to move my finger when I heard the beat, then arm and then whole body. I was dancing, and actually enjoying it, for the first time in my life. This feeling so good. Now I know why girls like so much to do that. It’s like a drug. This. I heard some advice a while back where someone compared walking into a party, club etc to being…	/r/seduction	06/01/20 06:29 PM
1	What are the best songs to have sex to? Both albums by Glass Animals are my go to albums for sexy times. Very sensual.	/r/seduction	24/12/19 08:32 PM
4	Solo partying in a city I've never been to before? I would actually recommend getting a private room at a hostel, if you can. When I moved to the city I now live in, I stayed in hostels for a few weeks as I figured out a permanent solution. I met so many cool people in my bunk room and in the cafe area. They were like an in built crew to hit the town with. I probably even had a shot with a few of the women there, if I had wanted to go for it. If you don't go the hostel route, get the ball rolling by going out for coffee/brunch and talk to EVERYO…	/r/seduction	11/12/19 12:07 AM