monsimons Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
52	ChatGPT on gender violence This is truly sickening. Imagine this AI governing societal processes and/or mental health care.	/r/MensRights	29/09/24 12:59 PM
2	How can men learn not to need women? It doesn't matter if another person is looking for same thing, when they put much less effort in it. If they're not putting the effort, then either they need to do the work themselves or they are simply not looking for the same thing. Relationship are the same at core - male provider. Amazing outcome. As I said, relationships have been and are changing. If you don't want to be a provider, then don't put forth that quality and look for women who aren't looking for a provider. Men don't need to li…	/r/MensRights	27/09/24 11:21 AM
4	How can men learn not to need women? Absolutely. A man can, without shame but also with enthusiasm, want a healthy and loving relationship. That's all there is to it.	/r/MensRights	27/09/24 10:50 AM
5	How can men learn not to need women? I've been going through this for the last decade. I don't need a woman. However, after all the inner work I've done, I reached an undeniable conclusion: a healthy, loving relationship with a woman brings me tremendous amounts of joy, stength and happiness. Then I had a second realization as an implication: modern discourse by feminists and Western women is delusional, toxic, destructive, harmful to society, wrong, misguided and so on. It's not that it's clear-cut for everyone, but for most peopl…	/r/MensRights	27/09/24 10:34 AM
3	"Herbivore men": your thoughts Ha! That's interesting. I love meat though... 😁	/r/MensRights	09/09/24 11:45 AM
2	An advice for men in relationships: Do not be vulnerable in-front of females! It’s a trap! This sounds like outmaneuvering the observed by OP behavior and also agrees that it's not categorically true that men should open up with women, which also agrees that, yes, there are women who do what OP says. From the other stuff you're saying here it seems to me that you really haven't had such a bad experience, for which I think you should be grateful and/or feel lucky. Let's be honest here. Many, many men can agree that opening up has led to a woman losing respect/attraction. Maybe not all,…	/r/MensRights	31/08/24 05:28 PM
18	Australia: Female-only spaces in Perth car park are wider than the others: 'This is ridiculous', Drivers quickly reacted by referencing female privilege This is ludicrous 🤣. Btw, I recently started to realize that how modern Western (feminist? is this feminism?) society is thinking and acting regarding these issues is inherently sexist and misandrist. Literal sexism. Weren't we supposed to fight sexism and hate? How blind can you be?	/r/MensRights	22/08/24 01:47 PM
20	Misandry wiki page image This is sickening. Women in Western society are more and more openly misandrist. They are overcompensating hard, (un?)knowingly becoming what they've fought against. Overcompensation from (https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/overcompensation): excessive reaction to a feeling of inferiority, guilt, or inadequacy leading to an exaggerated attempt to overcome the feeling Cambridge (https://dictionary.cambridge.org/dictionary/english/overcompensation) captures it even better: the act of tryin…	/r/MensRights	19/08/24 12:28 PM
2	Guys apparently we are now abusive if we give them a diamond ring on a special day... Well, I don't think she's sexist or anything. I agree. Proposing in such important moments is shifting the focus from her success to an entirely different issue and mindset. It's simply not appropriate. Propose afterwards when she's off that high. Let her have her win, enjoy it and so on. On the other hand, you as a man wouldn't you want to hear her true response when she's not influenced by matters entirely different than your relationship and feelings for each other? At least I know I would.	/r/MensRights	11/08/24 12:54 PM
13	The poor guy :( . The defination of I am okay with settling down I think for women that’s a compliment. That's thing, this is about what it is for the man. ... It's not a compliment. You basically just confirmed that you do not understand indeed.	/r/MensRights	08/08/24 02:29 PM
3	What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of? One of manipulation's core features is that it serves the manipulator to influence you to do/think/behave in a way that serves them AND is not something you want. One of the first steps in breaking free and finding validation is to identify manipulation and call it for what it is, even silently in your own mind/heart. If you have a hunch that you're being manipulated, follow it and investigate it with as much scrutiny as possible. One sign is the feeling of pressure, force to change your mind. O…	/r/MensRights	29/07/24 12:21 PM
2	What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of? It's the worst and most insidious when your own parents or relatives manipulate you, especially covertly like that because it makes you internalize the experiences to such an extent that you learn to accept them and tolerate them, which effectively makes you blind to them. Messing up your head big time for years to come.	/r/MensRights	29/07/24 11:32 AM
3	What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of? 1) is painful just thinking about. They covertly manipulate and act innocent when other people are around because 99% of the time the collective immediately, subconsciously thinks she's in the right and defend her. Despicable.	/r/MensRights	29/07/24 11:11 AM
3	What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of? DARVO Just looked that up. Insane! I've experienced this countless times... I always knew it was manipulative but now I have a name for it. Thank you!	/r/MensRights	29/07/24 11:08 AM
7	What are some examples of feminine manipulation that you know of? My feelings for her had grown cold and I decided to tell her I'm done. She cried (bawling, tremors) in my lap that if I leave her now, she's going to kill herself, she had nothing else to do because she couldn't handle what was happening in her life emotionally at that time. I stayed out of fear because she'd done other radical and, admittedly less, scary thungs before. I didn't stay because my feelings towards her changed. After that she started behaving like normal, as if nothing happened. I t…	/r/MensRights	29/07/24 10:59 AM
1	Sex is a need for men and that's okay Yes. True. Please refer to my other reply. Maybe tomorrow I'll edit my comments but I'm afraid that it will make a mess. Maybe in another discussion, more cleanly.	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 09:11 PM
1	Sex is a need for men and that's okay What's my bias? A serious question, what is it? Yes, men can also love conditionally, their most frequent and major condition is fulfilling sex. When I said that women loved materialistically, etc. I didn't mean it in a categorically negative way. Also "loving for who they are" is certainly conditional and transactional. It's not unconditional love. If the person changes, does the other keep loving them? Your comment made me realize a few things though, that I do admit I need to think through fu…	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 09:09 PM
1	Sex is a need for men and that's okay You can certainly view it that way, stop there and that's okay. I've noticed patterns and tendencies and I'm curious to explore them. Maybe everyone wants to be loved unconditionally somewhere deep inside of them but I've noticed that women don't put that much value on being loved unconditionally whereas men do. Maybe that's not true so I'll keep looking. I doubt it will ever be decided but who knows. I do think/believe firmly that men, and those women who do, must stop looking for unconditional…	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 07:34 PM
4	Sex is a need for men and that's okay Again, this may be true, but it does not exclude observations that a certain sex tends to be in one direction or another. It is unequivocally accepted and known that men are valued for what they can do and provide for society. It may be based on that that many wish to be loved unconditonally.	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 06:37 PM
17	Sex is a need for men and that's okay This is simply noting the exceptions and stating that the rule is not true... classic 101 reddit logic. Both can be true. All relationships are transactional at their core. Love has nothing to do with it. That 'love' you speak of is also transactional: you make me feel a certain way that I love, it's an emotional feeling that is based on desirable conditions provided by the other person. In fact, true unconditional love is almost impossible because it is something you do regardless of who the ot…	/r/MensRights	26/07/24 05:56 PM
4	The Unpopular Truth About Gender Equality - The Tin Men \| #42 Naive or not, I've always thought, ever since I heard/learned about feminism that it was precisely trying to even the keel so to speak into egalitarianism. Just purely logically/conceptually understood. And it seemed fair (nod) (nod). It really did.	/r/MensRights	07/07/24 04:09 PM
2	Just want yall to know that some of us see you. Value is determined by those who demand. If men are valued for what they produce, who's doing that? I'm not saying "obviously women" but there are basically two groups, to put it broadly, who value men - society as a whole AND women (from the perspective of relationships). Just to expand the above a bit and give a better perspective of what I mean. If a woman wants a family and wants to raise good, socially and emotionally attuned children who contribute to society and lead fulfilling lives, she…	/r/MensRights	06/04/24 11:03 AM
1	Just want yall to know that some of us see you. Men and women can live in harmony with each other. Being different helps that because it allows us to bring together both our strengths and weaknesses in a complimentary manner. Accepting and honoring our differences mutually is the road to that not denying them.	/r/MensRights	06/04/24 10:35 AM
10	Question about men crying I've noticed that women who are okay with their men crying already have made their minds about their men on some deeper level, i.e. they have a deeper connection. But until they've reached that level crying is a huge test for the attraction/motivation of the woman.	/r/MensRights	19/03/24 10:04 PM
3	Do women have a wall for men but they are too embarrassed to admit it? if younger is more attractive Herein lies your confusion and misunderstanding, trying to group everything in the vague term of "attractive" for everyone. Ask first what do older women find atractive. Is it always and only young male bodies?	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 05:53 PM
1	Do women have a wall for men but they are too embarrassed to admit it? Truth sometimes is super simple. We tend to not accept it and complicate it instead believing some elaborate, made-up version of it. Spot on. EDIT: Saved with the intention to use it as a reference if suitable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/03/24 05:50 PM
6	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations or is it that men are suffering for NOT having standards? I don't understand what you mean by this. I didn't say that. Wasn't the point precisely that men have standards and women shame them for them whereas women praise and support themselves for having high standards? In any case I think that it's only natural to resolve this in the way feminism and the sexual liberation wants it: equality and freedom. Meaning if women can have standards for their attraction level then so can men and neither s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 08:24 PM
12	Women preferring to stay single because they don't feel attracted to average men says a lot about their unrealistic expectations Lots of people missing your point when it's clear. "Women have beauty standards. -> It's their choice. Empowerment! Yay!" "Men have beauty standards. -> It's porn. You're a mysoginist. Patriarchal opressor, you! /shakefistinyourface Hypocritical to the fullest. Lack of self-awareness. Delusions. Unfortunately many will suffer because of that and I'm afraid posting on reddit wouldn't change it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/24 06:57 PM
4	Red Pill is the way and it is brutal for a very good reason. I had ejected everybody who doesn't add value to my life. I didn't know that was RedPill. I've been doing this for years now and I started when I realized it naturally after bad experiences and relationships. People clump too many generally useful life advice in RedPill and this inevitably makes it look "bad" and the people following it "jaded/cynical/bad/mysoginist/etc." I don't care about that but it definitely is wrong. It's a solid advice and it is applicable to everyone, man or woman. I'd s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 03:35 PM
2	If you can’t get a relationship from your social group then it’s an indication you’re not attractive enough and something is wrong with you To me, based on contemplation and personal experience, the problem is not comparing to others in itself but why you do it. More precisely, too often we want to be like others. That's why we compare to them. It easily becomes addicting because it perpetuates our own (false) beliefs and many of us are addicted to the negative ferlings they bring us. Now, on the other hand, and this is true for me personally, comapring to others out of curiosity or "in the name of science", non-judgementally is act…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/20 07:20 PM
1	Q4Men: what do you believe the idiomatic phrase "settle down" means> This is it. I thought of commenting the same after checking both definitons. And also the reason someone can be confused about the usage and meaning is exactly that. Or should I say this is most often the case, i.e. women saying settling down when they mean both. Men do and say it too but less frequently due their competitive nature/winning mentality. In any case your comment sums up the whole thread quite succintly in my opinion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/12/20 03:21 PM
1	The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past" It's not. Large number of partners may also be indicative of an underlying personality or psychological issue, for which past does matter. The comparison is merited in terms of those categories.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/07/20 09:59 PM
9	Don't listen to women when it comes to dating, all they do is virtual signal. This literally happened to me recently. She talked about how important spirituality was, and having an emotional connection and most importantly security, being essentially very similar to the man, i.e. "you and I are alike" aka she wants as much similarities as possible. Yet she's not physically attracted to me. I may check 98% of the boxes. She simply doesn't find me attractive physically. So, they don't lie. They simply don't tell the whole truth. First is the physical attraction, even if it'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/19 05:46 PM