| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 214 | I'm a psychotherapist. This was the first message he sent me. He wants to use me for emotional labour from the very beginning. The ignorance level in his messages is too much to handle. Shameless. | ROAST-A-SCROTE | monstera-delicious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:17 PM |
| 174 | What YOU do wrong | STRATEGY | monstera-delicious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 03:21 AM |
| 4 | Why men would fake feelings just for a few seconds of pleasure (orgasm)? | monstera-delicious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 01:24 PM | |
| 1 | I've got mixed emotions too. Help me unpack this. | DISCUSSION | monstera-delicious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 11:28 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | Are the Red Pill statistics true when it comes to mens struggles?I'm a woman and I'm happy to be privileged. What woman doesn't like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Can you imagine the outrage we would see from women if the roles were suddenly reversed and they were forced to settle for men way less attractive than them?Most women settle for men less attractive then them | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/08/23 02:34 PM |
| 5 | How does dating survive if more women are so picky?Thsts what they are saying. These requirements are for one night stands. For relationships is different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 12:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: one simple trick to not have a shitty relationshipIt's not that easy for most people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Extreme height is not enough to bring you tinder matches ( on its own )Btw I don't really care about height. I never ask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Extreme height is not enough to bring you tinder matches ( on its own )I mean I'm 5' so 6' is good for me. 6'3 is already a bit tall for me, but I dated guys that height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 05:21 PM |
| 7 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?That ugly men don't fuck. Not true. That women have endless dating opportunities, not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | “Women are NOT a hive mind “, yet in any content where they Interview a group of women, their answers ALWAYS mirror each other’sIt just a technique to appear more agreeable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 05:46 AM |
| 2 | What is something you're "supposed" to be physically attracted to but actually turns you off?Conventional attractive men. I recognize they are attractive, but I'm not attracted to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Extreme height is not enough to bring you tinder matches ( on its own )6'7' is too tall anyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do many women nowadays reject sexual abstinence until marriage?Mhm I would wait for the love of my life, but I don't believe in it, so I would turn you down too. I'm not getting married, so I can't wait until marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in the following hypothetical sci fi scenario?My perfect partner wouldn't be angry I want to take the test. He would be chill. Red flag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?I'd say not the hottest ones, but some of the good looking ones. And some of the ugly ones wanted me more than I did. One of the hottest one chased me for ages and always looks at me in awe when we bump into each other and keeps telling me how beautiful I'm, but I don't like him enough so I just played around with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Will we ever see a point in the near future where trends reverse and OLD gets pushed aside in favor of an "in person" experience?No because meeting people in person it really requires a lot of time and effort and most people have neither of those | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?But that's what's called a blind spot. You need to tell them or they may never see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: Have you ever told a friend why you thought they weren't successful in dating? What happened?Mhm it makes me think. I dated a variety of men of different attractiveness, from very ugly to very hot. What does it mean about my looks? Mhm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 20 | Yeeeeeesh I'm over male therapistsIt's unethical to try change a client's point of view on such matters. I'm a therapist and I would never do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 10:59 PM |
| 2 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?Yeah true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 10:05 PM |
| 7 | What are things you wish us women knew about men?I always compliment men. Especially my close friends and my boyfriends. Last boyfriend I would always tell him how sexy he is etc and other compliments on just personality qualities. He had zero self esteem so probably he didn't believe me, but I think I also helped him actually to gain some. He still treated me like shit lol I think the more I'm nice to men the more they hate me. Weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Dear females, you're not entitled to anythingNo, I was referring to what OP said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/21 10:20 AM |
| 6 | Dear females, you're not entitled to anythingYeah they are more likely to be assaulted by other men. Maybe the solution would be for men to stay home forever, not women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 5 | Dear females, you're not entitled to anythingThe people on here are particularly low on the food chain, to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Girl on the left cooks, cleans, loves and respects you and is loyal...girl on right fucks your brains out daily but can't cook or clean and is a huge cheating risk, who you choosing?Fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:55 PM |
| 5 | Most men here find this average woman attractive and would date her, most women here do not find this average man attractive and would not date himYOU are the nutcase | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 07:39 PM |
| 4 | Girl on the left cooks, cleans, loves and respects you and is loyal...girl on right fucks your brains out daily but can't cook or clean and is a huge cheating risk, who you choosing?Pretty much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 04:35 PM |
| 31 | Girl on the left cooks, cleans, loves and respects you and is loyal...girl on right fucks your brains out daily but can't cook or clean and is a huge cheating risk, who you choosing?If the girl on the left cooks and clean, what do you do for her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 12:18 PM |
| 1 | If no one owes anyone anything then why are single mothers entitled to welfare?The first one was virgin like me, the guy I've recently broken up with was experienced but very insecure. I had to build him up to have more confidence in sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/21 12:12 PM |
| 2 | If no one owes anyone anything then why are single mothers entitled to welfare?It's not true at all. I remember fondly other times, not my first. My first was funny but not something I think of fondly. You can also have novel times with other people. With every new person you have feelings for is a different and new experience. My best times were with my last boyfriend and he definitely wasn't the first lol I'm not sure where you're getting these ideas from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:28 PM |
| 2 | If no one owes anyone anything then why are single mothers entitled to welfare?Lol how do you know? My first wasn't the most special at all, and the relationships I had after my first partner were not at all what you're describing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:20 PM |
| 2 | If no one owes anyone anything then why are single mothers entitled to welfare?I don't think women are sluts. I used that word because it's possibly what an incel like you think of women who have had sex with more than one man. A young virgin is not giving you the best, trust me. When I was virgin I was way less mature and experienced than I'm now. You want a virgin because you're so insecure you'll constantly compare yourself to her ex partners, and you have a complex of wanting to be the first and only one. Nothing about her being the best version of herself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:15 PM |
| 2 | If no one owes anyone anything then why are single mothers entitled to welfare?You don't seem like a guy who wants commitment with a woman if you think they are all sluts. You're not helping yourself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:08 PM |
| 2 | If no one owes anyone anything then why are single mothers entitled to welfare?Hypergamy is bullshit. You're making it up. If anything is men going sleeping around with nO CoMmItMeNT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 11:06 PM |
| 7 | If no one owes anyone anything then why are single mothers entitled to welfare?Ehm?? First of all sometimes pregnancy just happens even if you don't want to. Second, fathers fuck off and it's not the mom's choice to be single. Or worse the father is abusive so she needs to leave. Third, how about the father simply gives the child what they need and stop being selfish? Piss off, I hope you never have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 08:26 PM |
| 5 | What is everyones opinion on r/vindicta?I take what resonates and that is not too discriminatory. Ignorant people are everywhere, and unfortunately they are in there too. I don't agree with making fun of unconventionally unattractive men because it's just stupid. Also it's double standard. The men all rapists... Well of course it's not true and i don't treat men as if they were, but it is true 90% of men I know tried to.sleep with me so I need to be careful around men and be weary of their intentions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 02:02 AM |
| 7 | What is everyones opinion on r/vindicta?You don't understand FDS. I've learned a lot from them, like how to set my boundaries and understand my worth. It's not just about bitching. I don't need surgery, I need to know how to navigate the dating world without being taken advantage of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the phrase, "Your money is YOUR MONEY. His money is for the family." ?Lol i like FDS, but i also love this comment lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Do women think men are OK with being a safe option or a second thought?I think the Prius has more value. You're thinking about this a bit wrong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/21 09:51 PM |
| 1 | I think a lot of male frustration comes from the lie that women are somehow nicer or kinder than us.They complain about their husbands because they do nothing back. Not because they don't like doing it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Age, body count, and # of kids for women are the equivalent of height, face, and dick size for men in terms of effect on one's dating prospectsBreasts implants are very dangerous. Also let's stop with this myth that big boobs are better. It's not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | I think a lot of male frustration comes from the lie that women are somehow nicer or kinder than us.Of course I'm biased, as I said it's my life experience, not anyone's else. But this is a sub to have discussions on gender roles, so I'm entitled to express my opinion. You, on the other hand, just insulted me. As I said, you are just proving my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 02:26 PM |
| 1 | I think a lot of male frustration comes from the lie that women are somehow nicer or kinder than us.Thank you for calling me dumb while expressing my point of view/my life experiences You proved my point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFair! This means simping on that picture would be illegal anyway, and he's probably more put together now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 10:05 AM |
| 1 | I think a lot of male frustration comes from the lie that women are somehow nicer or kinder than us.I played with boys toys too so I know how they work. And I babysitted kids. Boys are always the most violent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell they are low value people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe's not even that ugly btw. Just bad hair and looks kinda young | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingI think I had the best sex with the smallest penis (both girth and length), but it was a one night stand and on the long run I wouldn't be satisfied. For me it's more about the girth anyway. I don't know in inches but I have to know it's inside and even when I'm wet I need to still feel it. My favourite penises are average anyway, big ones are uncomfortable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingI meant what the other user explained. I could be with a flat earther as long as they accept I don't agree with their view. It's ok to have personal beliefs but it's also important to understand not everyone will agree with you. Open discussions are the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingYes exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 10:20 AM |
| 1 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingNothing. But if you're a self employed artist you'll probably be obsessed with work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 10:20 AM |
| 7 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingInteresting question. Sometimes we are so used to be politically correct that we can't even be honest with ourselves. I'll try to be as honest as possible: •he works in hospitality full-time with no prospect of moving into a new career •he doesn't believe in mental health problems •he's not open minded about spirituality. he doesn't have to believe in something but he has to be open at the idea of spiritual stuff •he's shorter than me or my same height (5'3'') •he's an artist/musician self emplo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 10:55 PM |
| 0 | I think a lot of male frustration comes from the lie that women are somehow nicer or kinder than us.Women ARE more kind and compassionate. Women are more caring in general, women love looking after others. Of course women can also be selfish, but in general I noticed that women do much more for their friends or their partners than men do. Women are socialised to be more caring, think of the kind of toys girls have. Most are dolls to look after and make beautiful, boys typically play with cars and robots to destroy. Women are more emotionally available, women's friendship is based on talking ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Why are pick me girls criticised?For me a pick me is a woman who has no self respect and does anything and everything just to get a man's attention. I was a pick me so I know from experience. It's pathetic and it's not an indicator of good self esteem. A pick me is a doormat to men and no one actually commits to her because as said before, she has no self respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 11:18 PM |
| 7 | What if women pursued average and below average men for sex the way men do for women?Stupid people neither. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 13 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.Everyone (almost) has a easy life in the westetn society compared to thirld world countries, not only young women. It's not true young women make more money than men and it's not true young women don't need affection. Young women don't have an easier time with dating. They just get more attention, but it's often negative attention or doesn't lead to anything serious. Your arguments don't make much sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | The best thing a guy can have going for him to get a particular girl is to be her physical typeNo. I think physical is important even in your 30s for example, but not as much as they make it to be on here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 03:42 PM |
| 3 | The best thing a guy can have going for him to get a particular girl is to be her physical typeI'm starting to think all the people who post in here are 15 years olds because there's no way adults actually believe this stuff. There's a point in your life where physical appearance just does not matter as much. Having a specific type is a childish thing, or it's weird at least when you're older. You can have a preference, but you won't rule out a partner because they are not your "preference". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/21 12:21 AM |
| 2 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.Why not? If he talks about stuff I'm interested in, has the kind of charm/intelligence I like, I would. My ex is what would normally be considered ugly, but he's the one who turned me on the most. And I fucked very hot guys and I was dry af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 10:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.I'm not attracted to hot people. If I see a "hot" guy I don't get aroused, but if I talk to an intelligent person (even if "ugly") I'll get wet. Case closed. People can be attracted merely from intelligence. I'm one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 06:42 PM |
| 1 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.You're generalising. You're view is based on your personal experience. Your experience is not universal, but it's yours so I don't care to challenge it. You're talking from experience so that can't be challenged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 06:39 PM |
| 3 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.I'm a woman and I would get hot if I read a good thesis. You're generalising based on...not sure what. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 06:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.I'm a woman and I'm definitely turned on by intelligence. Like it literally makes me horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W]Do believe average looking women get a lot of attention?I'm average and I get hit on all the time. I'm wondering if you're below average or maybe there's something about your body language or personality that pushes people away | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantageLol you're insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantageWho stops you from having friendships? What are you talking about? Also most jobs are lead by men. Women have advantage only in some environments, and mostly if attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 09:53 AM |
| 4 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantageWhen I have empathy towards men they abuse me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 09:51 AM |
| 1 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantageEhm men don't need to pay for sex either? Just stop being pervs and you won't be desperate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 09:42 AM |
| 0 | Women tend to downplay their dating advantageIt's the oh privilege we have and it is still in function of man. It's not a privilege just for us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 09:38 AM |
| -13 | What YOU do wrongAbout the clothing I think I didn't explain myself well. You can dress with summer clothes without necessarily looking like you're doing it "too much". I suppose what I meant was to be classy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 11:18 AM |
| 3 | A man who is into casual sex and hookups won't give a damn about your sexual health. Stay away from community dick.I'm slightly confused when people talk about casual sex this way. I understand the risks, but these risks exist only if you don't wear a condom. Is it common not to wear condoms when doing casual sex? Sorry I'm genuinely curious! I don't really have casual sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:51 PM |
| 10 | Evidence A: Don’t spare these fools any sympathy or play Bob the Builder and take chances on a cheater! They will always throw it back in your face. These men will use you as a stepping stone whilst broke & promise you the world only to cheat on you with younger women when they hit bigWe should tell her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Evidence A: Don’t spare these fools any sympathy or play Bob the Builder and take chances on a cheater! They will always throw it back in your face. These men will use you as a stepping stone whilst broke & promise you the world only to cheat on you with younger women when they hit bigThe title was enough. You can do better than someone who cheats 7 times (at least) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 2 | If men had more self respect, dating wouldn’t be so skewed in women’s favorDating is not really skewed in women's favor. Women get constantly used and abused by men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a lot of women just aren’t physically attracted to most of their partners?Women have less sex drive when in a relationship when the partner treats them like shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/21 03:18 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Even if women date nice guys, they still find bad boys attractiveI know many ugly guys who have sex. My ex would be typically considered ugly and he slept with me who I think I am a bit above average. You don't get pussy for some other reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 09:23 PM |
| – | Why men would fake feelings just for a few seconds of pleasure (orgasm)?These humans are not people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Why men would fake feelings just for a few seconds of pleasure (orgasm)?What do you mean? That's not a rant? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/21 01:42 PM |
| 8 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.I'm tired of people using mental health problems as an excuse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 10:32 PM |
| 1 | META: Is anyone else feeling extremely stressed being in the "neutral" space that is the purple-pill on the red-pill and blue-pill spectrum?Are you capable of forming your own opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Men would make the exact same decisions they shame women forI'm an attractive woman and i have not many options. The fact that women have loads of options is a myth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 11:33 PM |
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