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i would feel more comfortable with it if the guy and i had previously discussed more personal things and if he was also a friend, not just someone i might end up sleeping with. in your position, i might say, "hey, i could totally be reading into this, but i feel like you've been a little distant. are we good?" this reveals that you pay attention to her moods and behavior and are concerned about how you affect her. it could open up the door for deeper conversations, too. as shy people, we need en…
/r/seduction11/08/20 04:44 AM
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i have no way of understanding her personal motivations here, but if it were me, i'd also have given a "sure, maybe" to the zoom call because i'm shy about that kind of thing, then i would've interpreted your distance as a sign that you were losing interest in me. i think bringing up the other guy was a way to gauge how you feel about her. does she have reason to believe you'd be interested in a relationship? do you discuss personal things, or only sext?
/r/seduction11/08/20 03:51 AM
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that show was entertaining because it was so messy, but it also made me uncomfortable. what kind of full-grown adult falls in love with someone they've never seen before? obviously, someone who doesn't know what they want...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 06:38 PM
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has anyone actually asked a man why they use the term "female," especially in a sentence with "man"? i'd like to hear their ridiculous rationalization of it (i.e. attempt to paint it as anything but an othering of women).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:34 PM
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a woman who volunteers herself as tribute to a man is more likely to be abused than a woman who sets boundaries. this is a pretty simple concept. i was not attacking you at all—i was more interested in discussion, but obviously, what i said came across the wrong way. honestly, i intended my original comment in a friendly way. most women in abusive relationships defend their abusers. do you not feel sorry for them? more importantly, you should consider that it is never women's fault that men are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:58 AM
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i'm not attacking you. you said you feel sorry for victims of abuse, which pickmeishas are likely to become. i was pointing out a bit of cognitive dissonance, but i didn't intend to seem aggressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:39 AM
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girls like this are more likely to end up in abusive relationships. we can feel sorry for them without thinking their actions are reasonable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:27 AM
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i also have previously over-plucked brows that won't grow in fully! 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:09 PM
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"film director at his own film studio"... 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:53 AM
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i tried growing my leg hair out for about 6 months, but i guess i shaved it every day for so long that it just won't grow all the way out, meaning it's uncomfortable to let go. that said, a big part of the reason i ever shaved was concern about what people would think of it, which i no longer care about, so i only shave it once every week or two now. i never shave my armpits because my skin there is really sensitive and i think pit hair is kinda cute. i trim pubes when they get super unruly but …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 08:42 AM
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yes! this is part & parcel of compassion, a high-value trait. i will never give myself to someone who has no concern for those in vulnerable positions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:46 AM
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i've known guys like this. in the early stages, they're all about how attractive they find intelligence and so on & so forth, but eventually, they begin finding it threatening and become argumentative and condescending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 12:49 AM
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yep—guy in the comments calling him a simp. 🙄 does anyone else find it basically impossible to believe any man who claims to see things this way? i've never met one who does. unfortunately, i'm extra suspicious of guys who claim to be feminists because in my experience, they just use the title/shallow feminist talking points for woke clout or to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:07 PM
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i'm not sure that's the best rule of thumb. talking to people about my narcissistic ex's behavior (which included being a slob, but that was one of his less offensive traits) is what eventually pushed me to end the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 12:09 AM
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you make a good point about whether or not i'm even ready to date again. i've wanted to be with this guy for years, but it never worked out, so i think i'm putting pressure on myself to be ready whenever he is so i don't miss out. it's a little complicated because he confessed feelings for me while i was still in a relationship, and i had to tell him we could only be friends. even though i would still prefer to rekindle our friendship before entertaining sex or romance, i'm worried it will come …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:33 PM
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i do think there is something to be said for "letting" men treat us poorly. no, it's not our fault—men exploit our kindness, and that's on them—but it will continue happening until we put up boundaries, which is on us. we can't let them in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 12:58 AM
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i think he just used that as an excuse. in reality, he's probably 1. afraid of commitment and/or 2. sick of hiding her stuff from other girls and paranoid that she suspects that's what's going on, hence his accusation in his second text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:59 PM
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i understand why people respond negatively to cynicism, but isn't this cynicism also understandable? i don't understand all the downvotes. many women go all our lives giving men (who seemed decent) chances. of course we're disillusioned and might balk at the idea of a man who is legitimately loving and supportive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 06:37 PM
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