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Your last little quip was great. Get that bread baby 👏🏽👌🏽
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/26 04:45 PM
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You’re so welcome! My advice is to get the kids started in therapy before you initiate the divorce and/or put it into the parenting plan that neither parent can deny/refuse consent for the children to receive certain medical care (I.e. therapy and vaccines). In other words… the custody agreement should state that both parents have a right to be informed and consulted when the other parent intends to put a child in therapy (with a referral from the child’s pediatrician). But they cannot prevent/d…
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/26 09:25 PM
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Try getting your ex to agree to some family systems therapy sessions (which include both parents and the kids and some sessions with everyone individually). You’d be surprised how well professionals who specialize in family dynamics see through the BS and call it out. In the very least, I again encourage you to get the kiddos in therapy… it sounds like your youngest is really struggling with the transition. It will give them a safe space to workout their emotions and the kids will eventually bri…
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/26 04:24 PM
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Woman here, but I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Im a mom who has a healthy coparenting relationship with kiddos Dad. I’ve seen the way my daughter thrives having equal time with her father and having two parents who respect/support her relationship with each other. All that to say, I’m a huge advocate for father’s rights and I’d love to share some advice (and also recommend you post your story in r/Familylaw with the state you live in). It doesn’t sound like you’ve submitted a legal pare…
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/26 03:43 PM
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I’m a woman, but I agree that this behavior is so gross. Reddit has become so toxic when it comes to the whole “women should support other women no matter what!” mindset… regardless of how immoral, unethical, or flat out wrong they are. Men are attacked for literally everything, and God forbid a woman makes a logical/non-aggressive comment in support of or in agreement with (GASP) a man! (THE HORROR). Then she too will get CRUCIFIED and labeled as a “pick me” suffering from “internalized misogyn…
/r/Divorce_Men17/07/26 05:30 PM
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If she’s gonna have the kids 70% of the time let her stay in the house… for the kids. It’s their home. Making them spend the majority of their of time in an apartment seems cruel on top of the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men15/06/26 04:58 AM
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🎯💯👏🏽
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 08:12 PM
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Just wanted to day, this is such solid advice. Well done sir 🤙🏽 Also congrats on finding a nice lady who treats you well. The suitcase quip was wholesome as hell and made me LOL. 😬
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 08:11 PM
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I know I’m a lady, but just wanted to say this is solid advice.. especially about the kiddos. No one has to stay in a relationship and be miserable, but OP saying he only wants less than 25% of overnights with his kiddos is concerning. And it’s a decision I think he’d come to regret deeply. Kids need their Dads. So so much. My parents separated when I was 9. I love my mom, no one can replace her… but my dad is my ROCK, my North Star, the calm beneath the storm of life. Im a 34 yo physician and m…
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/26 10:34 PM
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As a woman who has dated divorced men, this is solid advice. A woman’s number one concern in dating a recently divorced man is that he isn’t over his ex and or/hasn’t fully healed from the relationship. The opposite of love isn’t hate, it’s indifference! Do not talk negatively about your ex (OR too positively lol). Be as neutral and brief as possible. If the date presses for more details, focus on what you’ve learned about yourself and relationships in general (what you want/need, how you’ve gro…
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/26 09:42 PM
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I love this for you lol. 3 days a week is barely below 50/50 and if you’re paying her a ridiculous amount of child support it’s more than fair.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/26 06:07 PM
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This comment is 🔥🔥🔥👏 Men and women love to blame their ex partners and point out all things THEY need to work out (which they probably do). But the blame game in itself is also a way for them to avoid accountability as well. It ALWAYS takes two to tango. I agree with what you said wholeheartedly.. emotionally immature behavior doesn’t just happen in a vacuum. It was always there, yet you chose to marry and have children with that person. It’s important to reflect on where your partner went wrong…
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 04:46 PM
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“Douche canoe” is an absolutely fantastic turn of phrase. Thank you for sharing 😂
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/26 09:46 PM
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Just to add.. when you really think about alimony in your circumstances THE LEGAL FIGHT IS NOT WORTH IT ON HER END (or yours) Even if she gets any alimony..• and as I stated above, it’s not going to be much. Lawyer fees for a high conflict divorce will cost you both WAYY more money. Try to approach her about this and focus on the importance of you BOTH being reasonable and focused on the longterm financial and emotional welfare of your child! More math to show her if you want… Her BEST CASE SCEN…
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/26 09:17 PM
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If you go for 50/50 custody (which I’m 99% sure you’ll get in CA) you will probably pay some child support but mot much since the difference in your income isn’t that crazy. CA has a straightforward child support assessment tool on the gov website! My friend had a similar income difference as you and your ex and with 50/50 custody he pays her $200 a month for one child. (But he pays for kiddos health insurance/health expenses). Alimony is not automatic and far less likely to be granted in a marr…
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/26 09:06 PM
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If it causes you distress, not inviting her is beyond reasonable. The birthday party YOU throw is about YOU wanting to celebrate your child. If her being there is going to negatively impact your state of mind, that will take away from your ability to be present for your kid and that’s reason enough. You don’t owe her anything. She’s suffering the consequences of her own mistakes. That being said, my ex cheated on me.. but we have always hosted one birthday party and still do things together a fe…
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/26 07:41 PM
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Im a woman and I 100% agree with this. It started out with good intentions (protecting other women from predators) but now it’s soooo TOXIC, overwhelmingly petty and inaccurate. The only reason I occasionally go on the site now is to back up men I know are decent humans. If it makes yall feel better, I’ve seen MANY other women do this as well. It’s crazy the way I get attacked sometimes for just stating “I’ve known this man for 5 years and have never known him to be anything other than honest, k…
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/26 07:21 PM
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This is such a fair question and the previous comments are correct. Theres no way to “show” you have emotional intelligence on your profile without specifically stating it… which I don’t really recommend. My only suggestion would be to make it clear YOU value traits indicative of emotional maturity in a partner via one of your prompts. Like “green flags I look for are” growth mindset, empathy, open mindedness, humility, good listener, deep conversations, good communication/conflict resolution sk…
/r/seduction23/12/25 10:29 AM
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Do you have any idea about how they split the rest of their finances? For instance, does she contribute more towards utilities, vacations, groceries, etc. Does she take on a greater share of the domestic labor?? laundry, meal planning, cooking, cleaning, scheduling repairs, taking work off in case anything comes up, paying for decorations/furnishings? Is she the one to plan and execute vacations, outings, their social calendar, etc? If they plan on having kids.. I think most people can acknowled…
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 04:04 PM
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