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Monogamy will not magically make undesirable men more desirable to women Not sure what the point of bringing monogamy up is
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 07:43 AM
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So the solution is for you to not even look at or think about women Go become an ascetic on hermitage that way you don’t have to bother with women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:20 AM
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That’s not fair Plenty of people who were hugged as children turned out shitty Plenty of people who weren’t hugged as children turned out better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:17 AM
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The weird premise is that men want a large pool of women to be accessible to them for sexual pleasure, but also want a virgin / low-body-count woman available for marriage This boils down to singular men wanting a large amount of women at their disposal…which is ridiculous In order for this fantasy to be feasible for men, there would need to be >~20+ times the amount of women than men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:53 PM
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You’re projecting a ton I’m not “a lot of girls” I’m not the one who thinks he has weak facial structure, pudgy cheeks, or a bulbous nose — so that’s all on you His hair is brown, so it’s not really far off from dark hair Do you want objectivity or do you just want to talk about the women you don’t like hearing the same thing from? Because those are two different things I’m 5’2” so a 5’9” guy is a giant to me, stop reiterating a dimension that does not matter to me as if it’s going to affect my …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:59 AM
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A lot of women enter relationships for security, not sexual attraction…which is unfortunate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:50 AM
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There are plenty of hot guys who aren’t white or over 6’
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:33 AM
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He’s not ugly, though
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:16 AM
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There are plenty of white guys around 6’3” who aren’t conventionally attractive at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:24 PM
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I’m not a golddigger, so not sure why you’re projecting that onto me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:23 PM
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I’m not sure why you’re saying attraction solely depends on height…plenty of tall White guys who aren’t attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:23 PM
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The second one, since they’re both skinny The first one is like obese vs overweight — they’re the same thing but with more degrees Most women like guys who they think won’t physically hurt them (skinny or average guys), I personally like guys (the more muscular kinds) who can protect me from other men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 08:35 PM
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Well…yeah, but you’re attempting to use personal taste to extrapolate general attractiveness…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:51 AM
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I would agree to top 20% Edit: I was saying I would agree that “conventionally attractive” = top 20% of guys in whatever domain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:50 AM
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I mean…I’m a woman and I’m not into skinny guys, so I’m not sure what point you’re trying to make
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:50 AM
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The US draft ended in 73
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:48 AM
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Now you’re just sealioning
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 03:48 AM
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But we still are projecting a version of what we find attractive when we read those kinds of books Guys watching porn are just absorbed in the experience
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:50 PM
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You can’t use an anecdote to explain the general population…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:47 PM
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John Krasinski is conventionally attractive, though…so that’s a bad example
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:33 PM
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Standing rights ≠ wartime draft Completely different things, don’t be obtuse
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:25 AM
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Which means it doesn’t matter until it’s active…otherwise arguing the hypothetical to declare a privilege is absurd
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:02 AM
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I think this post would be more useful if it were predicated with the context of more casual dating situations For those seriously looking for dating, it’s much more difficult simply because a lot of people fall into the feedback cycle of the exciting new matches they can find (Not saying that all men benefit from that, but some do…)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:19 AM
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In which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:12 AM
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Personally, I like VERY muscular men — the kind that other women say “eww, that’s too much!” (For context, I’m a 5’2” 135-140ish Filipina…like 5 of that are implants and I had a BBL to get the Tiktok thot body) I get a lot of side eyes from other women for vocalizing my attractions and guys who are built like that are most often completely surprised that I’m interested
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 06:21 AM
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Sure, but it was heavily discouraged socially, women were not taken as seriously nor did they have as much professional equity, women would often be denied promotions and increased pay on a systemic basis The real answer is that today women can be breadwinners without social impact much more than in decades past Being in the workforce just meant women had more shit to deal with just to not be dependent on relationships with men for finances So many men today fantasize about forcing women to be f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:16 PM
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If the complaint is that women are no longer forced to pick from a small selection of men and now have access to men they really want And that men no longer benefit from the proximity -forced selection — which would be a social pitfall or again…a trap Then yeah…it’s still a method which (largely male-dominated) society used to trap women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 07:14 PM
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At no point did I talk about it being a conscious thought by men, the effect was still the same Can’t believe I have to point that out, but here we are… Or are you saying “It’S oNlY bAd If MeN wErE dOiNg It InTeNtIoNaLlY!”? Because yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:01 PM
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That’s not true, women were heavily forced to settle — especially circa 1950s and prior when women were discouraged from having their own jobs It has always been systemic control over women Dating apps simply allowed women to date who they actually want to
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:53 PM
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It’s pretty accurate in summation of the OP: “So instead of only having 10ish guys to pick from, women now have hundreds/thousands to pick from” On top of the talk about a power dynamic This quite literally equates to “we no longer can exert this power dynamic to force women into a smaller selection of men purely for the benefit of men who would otherwise are not what women want to go for” “Trap” is quite the apt sentiment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:40 PM
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I mean…that still benefits the top percentage of men, so it’s not just women with an edge Otherwise, this post is: “men who are a solid meh in quality can no longer trap a selection of women into having to choose from them…this sucks that we can’t be the only abysmal options women are stuck with”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 09:08 PM
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Hmm…that helps then, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 12:40 AM
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Everyone wants attention from people they are attracted to For women, that’s not going to be from 80+% of men starting from the time they’re like…12 years old and up For men, a ton seem so desperate to be found sexually desirable — particularly without doing anything to make themselves desirable The majority of women are innately sexually desirable for existing Men want this same desirability, but fail to accept that it’s not how anything works for the majority of men A lot of frustration from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:09 PM
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West Elm Caleb isn’t like…really attractive, though Like maybe a 7-8
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:16 AM
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An absurdly high amount of men think that having a penis is enough to make me uncontrollably orgasm It’s always interesting how men will make comments about how attractive they find my features — and will go into great detail about what they like about them — but not even think about if I find them attractive back
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 06:53 AM
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Big yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:49 AM
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This is why I let my audience / men rate me and don’t advertise myself as anything 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 08:38 PM
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It’s not outright fear but more like distrust / caution I’m about a foot shorter and 100 lbs lighter than most guys I interact with, so my safety is always a huge priority
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 02:40 PM
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“Looks don’t matter” ≠ “Looks aren’t the most important thing” The latter is often said, the former…never have experienced anyone say it ever
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 08:05 PM
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Sure, but there are reasonable limits For example, I don’t see posts on 2x talking about enslaving men But plenty of incel spaces where women should be slaves So…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 02:46 AM
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2x is NOT a debate sub, it’s a support sub It’s not going to be a selection of women happy with men, largely due to the nature of the sub itself That said, I do agree with a sizeable amount of posts, but not always all
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:30 AM
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A picnic is a WAY better date than an extravagant, expensive date Picnics require planning and he has to set everything up himself and can’t rely on anyone else An expensive date at a fancy restaurant boils down to throwing money at people who do all the work and him sitting back Plus an expensive first date just SCREAMS “I can buy you” which is a major red flag that usually devolves into him thinking I owe him my body for spending money on me — I would insist on splitting the bill You’re really…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 06:27 AM
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I’m taken now, but when I was single, I would just brush off any attempts to flirt with me if it was a random stranger I bumped into during my day — just basic politeness and treating them as if they weren’t being flirty Some guys get super mad that I don’t “take the hint”, but my personal safety is more important than making random men like me — and I’m not really receptive to chit-chat as I go about my day…doesn’t matter if I find you attractive or not If I was at a bar / club or something whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:22 PM
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Women can be creeps, too It’s just that most aren’t due to several reasons such as personal safety, social awareness, lower social risk-taking compared to men, lower social dominance compared to men, fear of rejection, judgement from other women, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:43 AM
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Big dicks are a hard pass for a lot of women Most women don’t even reach orgasm and too many men think having a big dick is going to guarantee her one I could do this for most of your points, but it really boils down to men thinking women are a monolith and also commonly ignoring what women want when we are direct and getting mad that we have standards & individual preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 04:32 PM
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I agree to some level I think it boils down to many people wanting to not appear shallow, but physical attraction plays into it a lot Women especially are taught this when they realize that men quite often don’t listen or outright reject their opinions — yes, some have really high expectations, but the downside of being socialized as a woman is the belief that we’re all treasures who deserve the best (hint: not all of us do) — yet all the same, it’s only guys who are willing to overlook that hyp…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:40 PM
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I was giving a single example because the emphasis was on complexity, not cut-and-dry exclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:26 PM
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He was attractive, sure…but that’s just men being men I’m taken and not interested in flirting with men for my own ego or whatever…too many people to keep track of
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:59 PM
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Probably a more interesting measurement to discuss There’s going to be more dynamic and trade-off if that was the conversation Things like “she’s hot, but I’m willing to tolerate a certain amount of body count”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 08:59 PM
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This post is superfluous and unnecessary “For any woman with abundance options, there is no benefit to choosing a less attractive man” Is an equally uninteresting conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:13 PM
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I don’t approach men, but I will say that I have a boyfriend Last week, I went to a nearby gym alone because we are staying overnight at a hotel in another area while he works and simultaneously looking at places The personal training coach approached me after my workout as I was leaving and gave me his business card and said I could have a free session and “maybe get to know [him]” I told him I was flattered and have a boyfriend already and he said he would be there if I changed my mind My boyf…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:56 PM
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Do I let men know what? That I’m taken? I assume they know when they spot my boyfriend walking behind me I don’t flirt with random men, nor do I care about their attention…I don’t have a social media presence and I truly do only dress for my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:49 PM
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I’m taken I don’t mind men being attracted to me — I’m pointing out how poorly men tend to react to it The disparity between “I find that person attractive” and “I will now act as off-putting as possible” is the focus of my critique For example, #2 is just as bad as approaching someone and telling them that they’re fat…no one asked and it’s overall rude to do out of nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:43 PM
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Warm approaches are fine Cold approaches are a complete gamble I’m usually a foot shorter and 100 lbs lighter than most guys and cold approaches are SO TERRIFYING for me, personally I’m pretty sure that is not an uncommon opinion for women — especially ones who men will find more attractive r/whenwomenrefuse is real AF
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:25 AM
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So take from this what you will: I’m a 5’2” 135ish lb Filipina woman with a baby face, high pitched voice, 36DDD implants, and a BBL — guys constantly approach me with their business cards or get into accidents from staring or get really excited to interact with me as long as my mean-looking boyfriend isn’t around 1 gets really, REALLY annoying — I would say that it’s easier for me to deal with this if I’m in a good mood / the fewer I’ve had of these within some undefined time period (maybe a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:04 PM
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If your intention is to just have sex, don’t be shocked when people don’t want to have sex with you…just because you want it doesn’t mean they do If it leads to sex, that would be a bonus, but you’re viewing sex as the end goal…which is…not sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:59 PM
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I feel like 1 is said by other men more than by women 2 there are specific spaces for socializing, like bars or singles mixers…most women at the grocery store are looking for food, not conversation…et cetera — just because you want to talk doesn’t mean the other person wants to talk…no one owes you a conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 03:55 PM
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A group of people self-reporting is more a measure of conformity than proof of anything The real implication of the study is that conservative women are more responsive to moral objections This has no real correlation between who is more or less likely to actually cheat, just who’s more likely to respond in what way The anecdote is extremely relevant because the idea that “people report how they behave” is a horrible assumption to make
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:04 PM
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No Literally nothing about a penis is sexually attractive to me — it’s a purely neutral thing If a guy is my type, then yes, I want his peen in my mouth, but like 99% of guys are not my thing Since you asked
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:31 PM
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Women do say it and men get mad 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:20 AM
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It’s kind of weird to try and blanket everyone under the same umbrella Not all of us give attractive men a pass, so it’s weird to use all-or-nothing logic when it’s not universally applicable Men can be creepy Women can exaggerate a guy’s behavior as creepy Assholes are sometimes forgiven by people who are attracted to them There is no magic formula If I’m sexually attracted to a guy and I don’t find him creepy or a total prick, I’ll show up in lingerie ready to fuck If I’m sexually attracted to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:07 AM
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It took way too long to find a sane answer like yours all the way down here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:04 AM
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Plenty of guys do not take no for an answer Like I’m not changing my mind guys, chill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:02 AM
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Mathematical terminology representing a measured count
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:01 AM
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I could be wearing a bag over my head and the most unflattering outfit ever and men will still think I’m just dying to put random penises in my mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:50 AM
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Men chase women off of dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:48 PM
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The bar is so fucking low don’t be a creep talking about sex right away don’t send me your dick Most guys do one of these in their first message and it’s exhausting how most guys can’t even clear it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:40 PM
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Women have access to more quantity, sure, but the quality of those interactions is shit I can only handle enough creeps in one sitting before I just don’t even bother coming back
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:32 PM
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I constantly get death threats for not being interested in men What are you on?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 10:31 PM
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Women are horny a lot, I don’t think men take into account how off-putting they can be when rejected by women It’s also riskier for women — not saying “all men are a death trap” but the physical disparity and aggression means hooking up is a gamble to a level that is higher than men’s risk (everyone has a nonzero chance, since anyone can be a psycho / killer, but it’s harder for women to be given that men are more likely to be able overpower a woman) I DO think that many women settle for men the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:13 AM
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Yeah...it’s more upsetting at how willfully ignorant you choose to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/19 02:20 AM
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Well, part of the logic could be that objectifying someone is more of a no-no if it’s someone you care about, versus someone you have no familiarity with. It’s not perfect, but there’s a level of subjectivity that we don’t know about, since we’re not getting the husband’s reasoning.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/19 05:11 AM
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