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Hard agree. When in doubt, don’t put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:51 AM
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I am in the real world doofus. And women like me won’t date broke, losers like you. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:36 PM
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I’m just telling you the truth. Looks don’t last for most men and start fading by late 30’s. Yes, late 30’s. I’m a 37F and I don’t find most men in their late 30’s attractive. I find myself dating men 2-5 years younger than me. This may be your experience if you’re in your 20’s, but I assure you it won’t last. Women care about finances. Your looks will start to fade and then money will be more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 02:08 AM
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I’m from Cali but I’ve also lived in other states. Nevada, Georgia, now tennessee. The SAME rule applies. My ex was a pain management physician making over $400k in Georgia. He wasn’t ‘conventionally attractive’ as a dork in college either btw. That changed in his early 30’s. Having money helped more than you realize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:51 AM
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$80k is a shit salary especially if you’re like me and from California. You could be the hottest man , but if that’s what you made over 30 years old, I’d have no interest long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:39 AM
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Do you think if you’re super hot that a woman would date you (marriage in mind ) if you only make $80k ? They might sleep with you, but they will never take you seriously for anything long term. Ask me how I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:34 AM
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I’m a woman. You’re wrong. The difference between $80k-$400k is HUGE. So huge, that I wouldn’t even considering dating a guy making less than $200k. Men age too. Your looks at 40 won’t mean shit to younger women unless you have lots of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:32 AM
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Height is absolutely NOT the most ‘important ‘ factor but it is a deciding factor when weighing other things about the man . F37 and I’d take a good looking man at 5’10” with a good job over a guy that is good looking, bad job, and 6’3”. It’s ONE of the factors, but isn’t the #1 top factor. Once a guy is below 5’9” (for me), he becomes a non-option. It would take something major for me to consider him an option.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:45 PM
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Nothing you’ve said makes any sense. GTFO incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:04 AM
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You’re pretty dense. I only date attractive/successful men. The men that wouldn’t leave me alone were the highly attractive/successful ones. Because they couldn’t or didn’t get what they wanted. The attractive/successful ones I pursued or gave them what they wanted , eventually lose interest. The ‘tactic ‘ does work. No one wants something easy. Do you? If you do, you’re lazy and not worth having . Edit to add: no one said these men didn’t have ‘options’. Of course they did. But guess what, so d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:28 AM
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No … I’m not afraid of rejection.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:23 AM
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Stalker. Doesn’t matter if I’m single or not. I’m a former model and have lived in several major cities within a highly competitive dating market. I’ve also been asked for marriage: TWICE. I’m telling you, as a woman that HAS actually asked men out that it has never led to anything good. I’ve seen it happen with other women as well. Men who want something badly, won’t hesitate to go after a woman. The indifferent ones ? You think going after them is a good idea ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 01:17 AM
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You’re wrong. I’ve dated highly successful and attractive men. Everyone wants what they CAN’T have. Fact of life. The most attractive men attract A LOT of women. They don’t want what they CAN have. They want what they CAN’’T. It’s boring to them. I’m a woman, ask me how I know! Try not giving them what you know they’re after and they’ll never go away. If you do, they’ll go away even quicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:43 PM
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Nah … this is bad advice. I’m a woman and I stopped asking men out a long time ago. Why? Men will date anything even slightly above average just because it was ‘easy’. These are not the men that really love you or that a woman should really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:38 PM
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Does it really though ? Plenty of women had a glow up and have gone through the SAME thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:27 PM
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You can’t be serious with that crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:16 AM
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Well… the fact that you’re white is a huge factor. They idolize ‘whiteness’. Not China, but my good guy friend is white/Jewish and his wife’s ‘dream’ was to marry a white man. She is from the Philippines and her skin is much darker.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:53 AM
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I’m from the Bay Area and I just want to note there are ZERO 6’4” AND ‘jacked’ ‘Chad’s’ in AI. It’s part of the reason I moved. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:45 AM
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They do because they expect a man with their SAME level of education or higher. This narrows their pool massively. Read the book Datenomics … it discusses this. https://www.amazon.com/Date-onomics-Dating-Became-Lopsided-Numbers-ebook/dp/B00U0OBRT4/ref=nodl_?dplnkId=af9b422b-17d9-437c-ac4e-ef45c967167a
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:42 AM
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You’re woman. So am I. In my experience, from what I’ve read and heard … it seems the more educated a woman is the LESS a man can control her. So while we may find it ‘attractive’ , men don’t necessarily.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:40 AM
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Do Chinese men not want women with a PhD because of looks, their personality, are they more difficult ? I would assume they are less physically attractive but also more difficult to deal with (since they’re intelligent ) .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:37 AM
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Foreigners as in ‘white male ‘ ?? If so, that’s also a big factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:36 AM
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While I agree with you to a certain extent, factually women who have degrees want men with the same level or higher degree than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:32 AM
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You’re acting like being ‘childless and unmarried’ is some sort of curse or threat to women. Lol. As that saying goes: don’t threaten us with a good time!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:15 AM
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I actually prefer somewhat ‘metrosexual’ men. Well groomed and nicely put together is hot. It’s those that overdo it that are a problem. They tend to be narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:32 PM
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I work in aesthetics. Men CAN change their appearance but the bar is much lower for men. I’ve known men with nose jobs, chin implants, jaw implant/jaw filler (this can drastically upgrade a man’s appearance IMO). One a lot of men skip over is teeth. Huge impact on the way you look and are perceived. Hair transplants? Very common and absolutely make a man look younger. There are body implants too, like the mtv real life ‘I’ve got calves!’ guy. You can change your height by 3-5” with leg surgery w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:45 AM
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This is true , but in the West WOMEN are the majority caretakers for their elderly parents. Most of the time men opt out. They also leave their wives if they get sick/cancer. These are both actual facts , I’m not pulling it out of my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:39 AM
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Can’t you just make a telegram FDS for this group?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/23 02:14 AM
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If you don’t want to go on a date with a woman (and have to pay), DONT ASK HER OUT. How hard is that tightwad ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 09:51 PM
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No one manipulated a guy if HE asked the woman out. You’re not a victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:55 AM
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Why wound there be pressure for sex ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:54 AM
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Bahahaha those are NOT ‘dad bods’ 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 02:31 AM
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This is incredibly false. The women who have dads who loved them and gave them validation are more likely to seek healthy relationships and not tolerate abuse from men. Women who did not grow up with loving fathers or absent fathers face the issue you’re speaking of.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 06:07 AM
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Absolutely SHOCKING right ?!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:46 AM
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THE GOODWILL ON DISCOUNT DAYS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/22 01:07 AM
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The testosterone made her think more men were attractive ?? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:38 AM
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Are we talking about Theron ? Sadly, I met her once at a party (I lived in West Hollywood for 7 years ) and she was SO unfriendly ! I was sad cuz she was one of my favorite actresses and I’m not a star struck person at all. :/ great actress though .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:24 AM
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Where the hell is ‘act like a porn actress (but be a virgin) ‘ on the men’s wants ?! 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:08 AM
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Correction: he WON’T be able to make ‘lasting changes’ with someone else. He’ll just be able to fool her longer like he did you in the beginning for however long it takes for her to catch on or for him to slip up (6 months, 1-2 years) then the same cycle will repeat until he’s too old and ugly to get any anymore and perhaps he will stick with the same women who puts up with it cuz he has few or no options at that point .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:50 PM
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Guess what ? I’ve dated many Chads. The last chad I dated was the most beautiful one I think I’ve ever seen and fun in bed but not very ‘giving’ if you know what I mean. He was still fun though because he was athletic and had the face of a Giorgio Armani model and body of a Greek god. However, Chad was inconsistent and very selfish . It was clear he lied and cheated on his women and went from woman to woman so our fun was short lived. Chad later started dating this younger and manly looking (yes…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 06:56 PM
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Ha hahaha yea right ! ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/20 02:47 PM
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I get that you’re 21 and slightly retarded despite having daddy’s money but please don’t take google as gospel. The DSM has no differentiation between ‘sociopath’ and ‘psychopath’ although there are nuances one can see and that can possibly be observed if you have met one (I have met several) . My ex was a diagnosed physician that had NPD for example. Now go back to bragging about money you haven’t earned and the women you cheat on. You’re a loser. I can’t wait for some Russian ho to take HALF o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 06:41 PM
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You’re still a pig and you insulted me first. And you have serious anger issues. Who hurt you ? Was it mommy ?? I’m sorry your fee fees are so hurt. Get therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 04:20 AM
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I think they have apps for discretion if that’s what you’re looking for . Honesty is usually the best policy most of the time .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:54 AM
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Yea well lying leads to ‘success’ of getting laid if you want to call it that but it also leads to a lot of really pissed off and even crazy women. Think ‘fatal attraction’ . Yes, that crap actually happens. It also makes women jaded and angry and your reputation absolutely WILL proceed you because women all talk. Ive spoken to women in other states! Social media makes it all possible ! Lol! The truth usually surfaces. Being dishonest makes you a slime ball and it’s taking advantage of something…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:45 AM
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My mom and stepdad are still married . They love each other. She signed a prenup because she wasn’t marrying him for money. My mom wasn’t from money at all. She’s a genuine and kind , giving , loving person. She would never take half of anything from step dad . She’s been Divorced previously and she didn’t take half then , she just needed out of a bad relationship. She was offended at the prenup cuz it implied that his father didn’t trust her character (my mom is very beautiful and voluptuous) s…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:06 AM
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Of course it is .... but most men actually aren’t up front about their intentions and most women want a ‘relationship ‘ and are usually led on. This doesn’t just happen with Chads. Source: former model that has dated plenty of chads and regular dudes . 🙋🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 03:00 AM
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This isn’t about Chad. Get over your gay chad obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:59 AM
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I think there’s less chance of divorce ‘with money’ and studies do show this but not because both people actually have wealth but because they HAVE wealth (meaning ONE person does and its enough for the family to enjoy a nice life ) . Having money is a major thing not to fight in a marriage which is usually the number one cause of divorce in middle class marriages. This still doesn’t mean that you couldn’t be happy together or love each other if only ONE person had money . What you’re saying is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:56 AM
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I just don’t think it’s great to stereotype and put everyone into a box this way. Some of the kindest people I’ve ever met have the least. OP may find the rich girl that is wealthy as him equally is not as willing to love him as he may wish to be loved . If that is not a matter he cares about then fine but he will likely have a tough time finding a rich girl that is attractive and ever willing to put him before herself .
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:12 AM
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Suffering from opiate addiction are we ??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 02:09 AM
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How would you feel as a female when every guy is always trying to get in your pants on the FIRST DATE ? Probably like that’s ALL he wanted from you ?? Yea? Because that’s how women feel every time a guy does it. You internalizing someone being impressed by a nice home simply because they didn’t grow up in one is a projection of your own insecurity of the belief that no one can love you for YOU. That once they see your house they can only love you for your money. This may be true in some cases, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/20 01:42 AM
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Yea these losers just want to get you in your BIKINI! I had some clown try to invite me to his pool for drinks once as a first date (and he made some comment about seeing my figure ) . I of course turned him down and said that wasn’t a date. Women need to tolerating this crap. They do the same for ‘hikes’ ( aka he wants to see you sweating without makeup in tight leggings 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️, AND not have to pay for a date ) .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:25 PM
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I’m kind of like this too... i don’t deal with large social anything (it’s exhausting AF ) and I don’t work and haven’t for several years (not sure how you’re getting away with 12 but I’m jealous ! ) . I don’t think females need lots of social interaction to be happy . I find groups of females to be awful although every once in a while it can be ‘okay’. Once in a while and by that I mean once or twice a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 09:06 PM
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It’s not because ‘you’ve managed to get a woman to marry you ‘ ... it’s because it’s assumed you’re loyal, not commitmaphobic , likely not broke , probably better dressed and groomed , perhaps helpful to your significant other in person , or even in pictures going on ‘trips ‘ and ‘vacations’ together which looks romantic to other women and makes them very envious of that lifestyle . Since many men don’t treat their women well or appreciate them when a women sees another woman have this it automa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/20 07:31 AM
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I’m starting to think we need to create a peace ✌🏻loving ‘female gardening ‘ sub as a STEALTH alternative backup (we should all join) for when they inevitably try to take our sub down. 🤔🤫 Mods heads up!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:05 PM
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I can agree with that .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:35 AM
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Yea this actually is exactly how narcissists view women. ‘Appliance ‘ and ‘supply’ are terms synonymous within the narcissist community . It’s seems most men have narcissism ingrained in their makeup diagnosed or not .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 03:43 AM
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I see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:52 AM
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I think so too but it’s not entirely clear .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:09 AM
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What do you mean by this : ‘More weight than intended ‘ ?? Literal weight or losing her husband ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:51 AM
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I don’t know ... maybe you should ask billionaire Jeffrey Epstein that question 🙄🤔. Rape is about CONTROL. It’s not about having ‘pick ‘ or options.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 09:30 PM
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That’s ISN’T what ‘intimate ‘ actually means. Intimacy is sharing equally between each other. 🙄 Sick how men think a women ‘giving more of herself ‘ is more ‘intimate’ .
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 10:23 PM
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Really beautiful art. This is an amazing way to validate yourself and have self love. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 12:02 AM
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My question is , what do YOU for a living ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 12:20 PM
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Gosh I WISH THIS WOULD HAPPEN!!! It would be a literal dating revolution. I truly think if women could just band together and stop using it all together it could bring about MASSIVE change in male behavior. Think about it ladies. ‘Courting’ and actually approaching to ‘ask you on a date ‘ would be forced to reoccur. Spinning plates would be much a bit more challenging. We can pray, but we can also do our part in making this a reality ! 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:51 PM
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Yea this is the answer. The friend was ‘hot’ and the other guy was not. Plain and simple. She wanted hot guy to be hot AND all the things she asked for/said she wanted. The only thing us women lie about is how much hotness actually matters ! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:51 PM
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Omg it’s SO true ! The ‘rare’ attractive ones literally every single one is looking for ‘casual’ , NSA, FWB. The rare instance when they aren’t, they’re single with full custody of TWO kids, 5’7” , or working as a ‘personal trainer’ at 37. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️ Oh, and how can I forget the business travelers and pilots ‘in town for the weekend’. 🤮 Men say women want only the Chads, well I got news: Yea we are physically attracted to them but as soon as I hear/see what they’re looking for through words or behav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:28 AM
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I wasn’t trying to actually be rude . I just said if that’s your line of thinking you shouldn’t be in this sub. I misread . But to say I shouldn’t be in this sub if I can’t read is kind of rude . I just thought you were a troll in the sub or something. Anyway, sorry girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:53 AM
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I misread. But you don’t have to be rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:50 AM
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I never said ‘it makes a man stay’ only that it’s rarely in the benefit to put out early. Nothing will make a man stay if a man does not want to be kept (whether it’s you or another woman. If he’s not ready he’s not ready) . If you think ‘putting out early’ to ‘discover a man’s truly colors’ is a good way to vet you probably do not belong in the sub and I feel your thinking is severely flawed. You are basically acting like red pill men that say delaying is some sort of ‘game’ and a man will just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:41 AM
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Gahhh I’m in my 30s now but I wish in my 20s I didn’t feel ‘so pressured ‘ into ‘being accepted ‘ by men. Nearly EVERY time I’ve slept with a man too quickly in a moment of passion, they soon lose interest . It’s not because I don’t have much to offer, it’s more because men are wired to hunt and like most people to want what they CAN’T have. I wish women would stop believing the lies. Having casual sex does NOT benefit women ! It hinders us all! Men are not to be believed about this. The only on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:30 PM
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HE’S disgusting. Likely doesn’t own a mirror !
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:55 PM
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I’m sorry but OLD is literally a dead end for all women. Women need to band together and boycott this crap. It’s made men even lazier than they were before and offers women no benefit while only adding to male entitlement and the expectation of ‘free prostitutes’ further de incentivizing commitment from men while giving them a tool to easily cheat and get away with it .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:42 PM
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What I want to know is... why the hell is she even dating a guy that lives across from his ex ?!!! 🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:52 AM
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I read his book about a year ago and I suggest everyone read it . It’s all true . I’m also from Silicon Valley and live here now (I’ve also lived in Los Angeles , Las Vegas and Atlanta ) . Yes, there are a ton more ‘educated ‘ men and more men in general in Silicon Valley but the men are very physically unattractive and cost of living is outrageous . Aside from lack of ambitious/college educated men being a problem women are facing today , the other issue is social media and dating apps = men’s …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:16 AM
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Obviously that is going to depend on personal preferences but for many women a big part of that means monogamy . A man who is only sleeping with you so you’re not wondering where you stand exactly in terms of your ‘relationship’ . It sets a base expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:54 AM
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If you’re not committed you shouldn’t expect sex right away. That doesn’t equate to a DB.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:51 AM
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Most women prefer quality so...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:42 AM
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You don’t think women have the same if not more options ? We hold out just fine. It’s about quality over quantity. If there’s no commitment from a ‘guy with many options ‘ there is no point . He will just drop you for the next girl anyway . Where is the logic ?! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:38 AM
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Same page ? You mean desperate to get laid on the first date ? Yea that’s not too many quality women, sorry to inform you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:36 AM
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lol true .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:11 AM
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Well hey as long as you’re not trying to pick up 20 year olds that’s cool
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:01 AM
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Yea most men over estimate their attractiveness by A LOT. I’m 30 and I find most men late 30s extremely underwhelming . It’s frightening how quickly the deterioration occurs. Balding and receding hairlines is shockingly common and many aren’t in shape . Early 40s omg 😮 i can’t even.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:39 AM
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Yea until you’re balding with moobs then good luck without $$$
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:32 AM
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You sound like you have A LOT of baggage. I feel bad for both those women. 4 kids ? Whew! Hard pass. The women that DIDN’T sleep with sure as hell lucked out !
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:27 AM
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Condoms dude .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:25 AM
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Since most women don’t orgasm from sex and most men are pretty selfish in bed, Id have to disagree with you. Most women get very little out of sex which is one of the main reasons women want sex LESS than men. We simply get less enjoyment out of it with more risks. There is nothing wrong with wanting to secure commitment in return for the risk and what is technically and unequal ‘exchange’ . Quit trying to equate it to prostitution troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:25 AM
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If a man cannot officially commit to a woman it implies he is only using her for sex so a woman withholding sex is only fair since SHE takes on majority of physical risk for doing so (pregnancy).!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:05 PM
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Yea, if men can’t ‘make a commitment’ that relationship sure as hell PASSED HIM BY. Let him go get another poor lass pregnant . Not me !
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:04 PM
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If you were a woman , you’d KNOW that EVERY guy that gets sex early on usually (nearly always) moves on very very quickly. Of course there are always these outliers (‘we had sex on the first date and we’ve been together 5 years ‘ 🤢🙄) but that is absolutely NOT the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:03 PM
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It’s not a ‘game’ . It’s meant to weed out losers only looking for casual sex and not long term relationships. Good thing for women like me is , IT WORKS! If a man is SO impatient he can’t hold out for a few months he’s clearly not that interested in YOU.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:01 PM
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I see you’re continuing with your drivel again. We are GLAD they move on. Good riddance!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:19 PM
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A hooker ? Hardly. Exploiting a piece of plastic is hardly the same as exploiting a human female body that can’t stand to get you off of her . Give me a break . 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:01 PM
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You are right . Don’t believe these fools. It’s not low libido. I simply wait it out for a man that I have true chemistry with and a strong physical attraction to who ALSO wants a relationship. The majority of men may have the first two things but only want casual so I opt out. In that case, I’d rather not deal with the heartache and I’ve got a vibrator. 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:00 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:51 PM
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Yea most women don’t want FWB. I’m a woman so, I would know.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:50 PM
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I guess you would know since you must get shots often ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:15 AM
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You make A LOT of super ignorant comments just FYI. Open your mind a little about the opposite sex. I have literally taken birth control once briefly in my life. I don’t take it because it has seriously harmful effects of the female body, causes weight gain (like 10lbs on many women) , changes your hormones which causes you to be attracted to men you otherwise wouldn’t be, and worst of all can cause all sorts of uterus/ovary problems which can be very painful for women or lead to infertility (ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:14 AM
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No. Just no. This is highly suspicious. I once went to a man’s house to stay and he had WOMEN’S shaving cream IN HIS SHOWER (and men’s cream) . Later found out he was seeing TWO OTHER WOMEN AT THE SAME TIME. DUMP HIS ASS!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:51 AM
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Mine is everything you listed AND I find the majority of men considered ‘attractive ‘ with stable careers (as good or better than mine) to be disloyal , cheating scumbags or simply looking for ‘casual relationships’ even up into their early 40s. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️ I refuse to ‘lower my standards’ for a partner so I guess it’s just me and my dogs. This idea that men are ‘out of your league ‘ is ridiculous. Men simply stick it in anything so it appears this type of man has ‘unlimited options’. Women at the sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 12:40 AM
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Good for her ! Women please keep doing this !!! Rise UP!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:28 PM
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A man that can be ‘taken’ is not a catch for any woman, it’s a player. This is not a high value male either . A man that is a ‘catch ‘ makes a choice to respect a woman’s boundaries , gets to know her , is willing to make a commitment and won’t bypass someone simply because she won’t put out for another that will. That’s a low value male mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:52 AM
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There is no loss of ‘catch ‘ here. Lol. Let the ‘competition’ have it. Once he’s done with the competition he’ll be on to the next . All the more reason to withhold.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:40 AM
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Hey I’ve been there ... no more old dudes for you though ! Please spare yourself ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 09:23 PM
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I’m sitting here still trying to get over how a 32 year old even managed to kiss a 50 year old Scrote. 🤢 Like sis is gonna have major c-ptsd. Someone recommended some good therapists in her area ! In the future love , please don’t date that old. You give these men sense of entitlement to youth and false expectation that they can dump women their own age and date younger. Just don’t do it. Stay within 5 years of your age range. (Not downing you btw, congrats on getting out! We all had pickmeisha …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:57 PM
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Porn stars cuz it’s their job I guess 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:58 AM
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I struggle with this as well. It’s SO difficult to find 2-3 ‘backups ‘ when the quality is low out there... so so low ... 😑😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:17 AM
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They bleach everything down there too (to make it pinker/lighter ), wax, laser, etc you name it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:02 AM
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Chads are among them ... they aren’t ALL of them. Why are you all obsessed with chads ?? No I sleep with no one these days. The quality out there is that subpar. I will never ‘force’ myself to settle for something I’m not attracted to. I’d rather stay single and get a dog. Most women I know who are single feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:19 PM
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I lived in LA near hollywood ... sorry to disappoint you but models and even famous actors occasionally went to the gym I frequented . Try Charlie hunnam for example ) and there were plenty of other very attractive people there . I’ve dated some men in famous movies and commercials. It’s quite common in LA and I’m far from the only one. Yea , let me post a picture so you can sit here and tell me I’m ugly instead of eating your words . Beautiful people can’t possible exist on reddit or have probl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:40 PM
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Hmmm hate math... lol. I don’t know if it would result in a ‘curve’ but I think it would be very difficult to rate them from 1-10 . It would be like ‘8’ , then ‘4’ , ‘4’ , ‘4’ , ‘4’, ‘4’, ‘4’, ‘3’, ‘5’, ‘2’, ‘4’, ‘6’.. My point is there wouldn’t be much variation ... women are likely to see them as good looking or luke warm so the numbers are not going to be spread out from 1-10 evenly . Sorry I hope that helps 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:44 PM
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It can happen but I’m really brave for a girl. Most of my female friends won’t do it. I stopped doing it myself because I realized men don’t take you seriously if you do and you can’t tell if they’re actually ‘seriously ‘ into you. It’s kind a lose/lose for women .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:36 PM
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I don’t like math questions , are you asking if I think Beauty has a similar standard that doesn’t often deviate ??
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:28 PM
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I have never met a single man in my life that was actually realistic about what he truly looks like. Especially the ones that weren’t hot (usually the hot men tried to play it off like they were ‘average’ knowing damn well they weren’t) . Since WOMEN’S tastes are usually the metric by which you’d likely prefer to go by (I assume) then it doesn’t matter if YOU consider women’s standards unrealistic or not. They’re the only standard that matters. 🤷🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️ Most men are simply below average lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:25 PM
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Thanks 🤪
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:14 PM
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In general not age ... but actually people do in fact shrink as they age . Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 03:11 PM
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:)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:39 AM
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Rumor has it , it’s very no strings attachy ? Where did you hear that ? People are hideous in the Bay Area. The men are ugly and the women aren’t much better. I left for 3 other cities and Am only visiting for a while since my family lives here. I cannot fathom living here long term. Men outnumber women here by 115-120 for every 100 women. Frankly, it’s a sellers market because there are less women. But for the highly attractive men, it’s a buyers market. However , there’s literally like 2 attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:35 AM
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Most men I think look their best around 35 (i probably wouldn’t have thought that at 22 yrs old though , women’s tastes change ). Fully mature at that point. Yea I only date white men usually . I dated a half white half Indian guy once . He was very exotic looking but a totally stuck up jerk. I don’t dislike these men or anything I just find myself what I find myself attracted to and it’s very difficult to change that 🤷🏻‍♀️.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:55 AM
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I’m currently in Silicon Valley ... it’s pretty awful here. By far one of the worst possible places to find a decent looking mate for men AND women. But I find across the board late 30s seem to be like this no matter what city/state I’m in. Your comment about ‘the wall’ regarding seeking men between ages 32-36 has nothing to do with a wall. It simply has to do with the fact that men aren’t ready to settle down at that age (more common the west coast less common in the south) . Even if I was 25 t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:50 AM
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I’ve lived in LA, Las Vegas, and Atlanta. LA is by far the best for good looking losers but still over 38 male and ‘the wall’ becomes very apparent in men too. You guys are not immune.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:38 AM
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Oh yea cavill used to look VERY nerdy but not hideous. He is much hotter now obviously. Chris Pratt was like that also. From kinda gross to kinda hot. It happens . And yea there’s A LOT of Asian women in the Bay . I could say as a woman you’d also have to love Asian and Indian men here too , to love this place ... but I know that’s not exactly common as most Asian women here are trying to snag a white dude and most Indian people stick within their own culture. It makes dating as a Caucasian woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:24 AM
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It’s not a wall dunce ... there’s literally NO lack of men who want to date women in their 30s. You men delude yourselves with this fantasy. Men just don’t want to get married or have long term relationships (between 28-35 or so) and that is what most women want until they realize by 38-42 all their buddies are married having kids and they don’t have boys to party with anymore and young girls they are ogling give them cringe looks when they try to gawk at them . Please. If you could see how awfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:18 AM
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Lots and lots of attractive men do this as well. I see it often. Hot men are usually lazy AF . They like to be the center of attention and a very attractive gf is usually high maintenance. The most beautiful men I have seen and dated have always ended up with extremely average looking women. The league thing has nothing to do with it . I find it funny. One of the finest man I ever met dates fairly ugly women. He could literally have anyone he is so smoking hot. But nope, prefers plain Jane would…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:49 AM
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What do you mean ‘only dating him for the sake of it being him ‘ ?? I’m confused by what that means sorry. Yes I would be perfectly fine with dating a well to do man in his thirties ( early 40s) who doesn’t want kids and perhaps doesn’t want to get married but it would be nice eventually I guess (it’s not like a major rush or priority to me just a sign of true love and commitment) . I don’t want kids btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:43 AM
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Well if you like Asian women the Bay Area would be fun for a man . I’m a white Eastern European looking woman and I like those Henry Cavill types. 😋 I don’t like the attitudes here either, it’s worse in LA though although the people are much better looking although far less intelligent . 😏
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:39 AM
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No because I’m absolutely not using those men for anything. It wouldn’t make sense for them to feel ‘used’ . I’m not using anyone for sex or money. What exactly can they possibly feel used for ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:01 AM
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Oh you’re right about the Bay Area .... I’m born and raised here but I also lived in West Hollywood for 7 years (people are much much better looking in LA overall ) , I’ve lived in Las Vegas (people who live there are better looking too but I don’t like the lifestyle there ) , and I have lived in Georgia (it’s still better than the Bay Area lol!!! ). I have no hope for meeting anyone here to be honest. I can literally go months without seeing a single attractive man or woman. This place just doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:56 AM
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I definitely am not missing out on a dude who prefers porn to ‘chasing women’ . Porn degrades women and good riddance , I don’t want someone addicted to that crap anyway . I know most men watch it . But if you’d rather do that that learn to approach ? Please go ahead . No woman is crying over that loss . I don’t approach shy, introverted men . I have approached desirable, attractive men (I don’t do it anymore though btw) . Shy men are not hard to come by or difficult to obtain. I live in Silicon…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:24 AM
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Also, to simply answer you ques, younger women don’t quite know what they really want yet . When I was in my twenties I was diff than now so I wasn’t always dating men for marriage . In my early 30s now , I absolutely ONLY date men I would consider marriage material . I only date men I would have a type of long term relationship with period . I access this based on many things. It’s an instant turn off for me if I don’t see long term potential and NO I won’t even sleep with a guy that is a Chad.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:10 AM
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Lol. No. If you saw the types of guys that literally have the audacity to approach women on the regular (literally SO far out of their league it’s insulting they would even think they had a chance ! These men are playing a numbers game hitting on anything and everything to get one ‘bite’, it’s far from going to be quality just because ‘he pursues her’ it’s simply that these men have NOTHING TO LOSE and everything to gain) . Sure it would be easier but it would definitely not be worth it . Not un…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 06:06 AM
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Oh man ... lost cause here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:48 AM
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You clearly don’t understand women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:47 AM
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No dear , just because he’s a 9 or 10 does not mean SHE is not ALSO a 9 or 10. You are very mistaken with this belief. Edit : Are you meaning 9 out of 10 times he’s out of her league ? It’s possible but not all the time no. Hot women also want to date hot men. I’m one of them , I would know . Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:18 AM
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They rate them below average because they ARE. It’s sad but true . Most men simply do not groom or take care of themselves the way women are brought up from childhood to do. I also think men have looser physical requirements (meaning more flexible on types ) than women. There are specific physical attributes most women like in men such as height for example. Truerateme also has some pretty great examples of rating women and men of equal looksmatch that are actually NOT equal looks match. Most of…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 05:17 AM
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Is it possible that perhaps you think you’re more attractive than you actually are though ? I don’t mean this offensively but it seems many men rate themselves higher than how women would rate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:30 AM
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This is not a looksmatch issue most of the time. I’m a model and considered attractive by most societal standards. If I am compelled to ‘approach’ a man it is because he is usually ALSO quite attractive (but sometimes I might not bother if he appears ‘into himself’). I rarely get turned down for a date/number exchange, but most of these men are not looking for serious relationships ultimately and no man turns down an opportunity for sex with an average or even great looking woman, especially if …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:27 AM
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Yea this man sounds like he has NPD or traits of it at least . I dated a man who was diagnosed with it and they are often attractive and highly intelligent (mine was a spine doctor). They are drawn to professions where they get ‘admiration’ (professors included). Regardless, I agree the best relationships are with people of only 2-3 years age diff (studies show this ). More than 4-5 and you’re pushing it. 10 is really really pushing it ladies . I’ve seen my mom be with men 10-14 years older than…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:21 PM
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Bahahahaha!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:01 PM
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I think she means she sends a pic of herself after he sends a pic of himself. Therefor , if you see a lot of selfies , shirtless photos, or dick pics in your man’s phone he is sending them to OTHER women .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:50 PM
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Yea, this is basically how all the scrotes feel about FDS. Sorry not sorry f*ckers. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:17 PM
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Oh, they DON’T WANT to pay my dear friend , they just have no other option with ‘those women’ . Men will do as little as required that they believe they can get away with . It’s up to us to not tolerate that behavior . If all women turned down cheap dates , you better believe suddenly we’d all be going on ‘nice dates’ again .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:47 AM
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Oh man, ain’t this THE TRUTH!!! 👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 04:14 AM
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I feel like this is how the majority of men behave now .... I rarely date ever or sleep with anyone (intentionally) because of this at this point. I just won’t tolerate it anymore. Not even worth my make-up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:40 PM
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The AUDACITY. Wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:56 AM
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Great post. This is actually the SAME reason why studies show women would rather work with/for men (despite sexual harassment) than for women. The thinking is, that there is only room for ONE FEMALE in a ‘manager role’ and other women ‘moving up’ threaten their position of power that they worked so hard for. I have unfortunately, experienced working for female and male managers and the studies hold true to my own experience. While I experienced sexual harassment and misogyny with male managers w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:46 PM
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THIS is the reason I’ll only see female Gynos. Men. Nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 07:17 AM
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So true. Several men have told me this. And it’s usually the only thing they didn’t lie about !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:42 AM
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Yea I commented to ‘STOP SLEEPING WITH MEN ON THe 3RD DAMN DATE’ (Same or similar post) and got massively downvoted and nasty comments. So I just deleted it. Clearly ALL scrotes trying to continue the status quo. Continue to educate your fellow women ladies !!! And yea, you gotta private message because they literally BAN you for mentioning FDS. It’s so wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:18 PM
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I dated a physician and he said he wouldn’t date other female physicians (with a sound of disgust in his voice ) because they were too alpha and not feminine. While I understand a physician needs to be assertive and what he was trying to say I also understand what he meant: I CANT PULL ANYTHING OVER ON THIS ONE. Later I found out the physician I was dating is a diagnosed narcissist (no joke). He’s obsessed with power and control. Of course he would not want to date someone with EQUAL POWER. Also…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:43 PM
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I feel for you sister. I can’t imagine dealing with lawyer scrotes but I did work in medical device and it is made dominated and pretty awful. I was treated like dirt, excluded from everything, sexually harassed, paid far $25k LESS (I eventually spoke up about it and was laid off for it), and constantly spoken down to or given evasive answers to my questions by men at the company (not just one company either ). Needless to say, I left medical device and i don’t miss it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:34 PM
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Oh and since HVM are pretty rare I find (at least the physically attractive ones are ) it’s going to be hard to find men that are attracted to ‘intelligence ‘ since LVM are RIFE with men attracted to women they can control who are easily manipulated/less intelligent .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 08:50 AM
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I saw you post this in the dating Sub I think but I was afraid to comment there since scrotes always attack reality. Men typically don’t like women smarter THAN THEM. Their egos and fees fees are fragile. I’m above average intelligence , and I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen men (highly educated men ) date down because they like to be the ones in control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 08:47 AM
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It’s absurd how often I see this on men’s profiles above 38-42 ... I’m not even mid 30s yet and I won’t go over 42 (they look too old). Too be honest, 40 is even pushing it in the looks department 😳😑. Then they write all the things I listed and I’m appalled ! Highly likely I will end up alone with my lovely German Shepherds. It’s not worth settling !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 07:37 AM
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The biggest ones that get me: What I’m looking for: ‘don’t know yet’ ( TF ?! You’re 38!!! 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️) What I’m looking for: ‘casual relationship’ (WTF?! You’re 39 !!!!) ‘Wants kids some day’ (TF?! You’re 41 !!!! Your sperm is OLD!!! 😳🤮🙄🤦🏻‍♀️) ‘Has kids and doesn’t want more’ (Baby mama drama no thanks. Oh, and you’re balding! ) No employment listed (on purpose) No height listed (well obviously because you’re below 6’ and you’re insecurity is showing loser) ‘Let’s grab a drink’ , ‘let’s go hiking’ (G…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 05:22 AM
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It’s low value in my opinion. ‘Awww but you let OTHER guys do it and now I HAVE TO COMMIT. WAAAAAAHHHH!!! It’s not fair! I was really just hoping for friends with benefits ‘ Pshhhh ‘nice guys finish last’. My f*cking ass. Twat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:39 AM
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Bahahahaha ain’t that the truth !!! ‘But my gf gained weight and I’m not attracted to her anymore. Wahhhhh!!!! ‘ This pic reminds me of my mom. Poor thing . 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 07:21 PM
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This HAS to be a joke !!! He’s hideous !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:39 PM
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Can confirm. Dated diagnosed narc. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 07:09 PM
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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 06:03 PM
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Agree. I find letting them have the last word is much better than having it yourself. Why ? Because they come back around eventually to check up on you and they have to eat their words! That and when you don’t respond they get upset expecting you to act crazy and when you don’t they question if they made the right decision.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:08 AM
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Good post. This is NARCOLOGY 101.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:58 AM
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Bahahaha ‘male friends do not exist’ ! 👌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:53 AM
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I like the new you! Way to go girl !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 02:34 AM
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This !!! 🙌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:58 PM
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This does NOT surprise me in the least. Men are LAZY AF and THATS the ONLY reason they don’t cheat. If it’s easy though (he’s good looking with money ) you can bet he will !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:10 AM
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This is smart. All women need to do this. Rampant non-committal men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:19 AM
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Oh it’s true. I’m born and raised here but lived in West Hollywood and Vegas as well as Atlanta. All three places had far better looking people than the Bay Area. It isn’t just the way they dress here either .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/20 05:18 AM
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Having children creates ‘dependence’. No matter what , even a woman with a career will be somewhat ‘dependent ‘ on others for help if she has children . And this my friends , is why I won’t ever have children ! That doesn’t even include ya destruction of the female body I’ve seen among my peers. No thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:58 PM
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SO TRUE. I know one exception of this with my first bf who I’ve known for 17 years (stayed friends) . He vowed never to do the cheating his father did after years of watching his mother in tears. He’s really the only man I’ve ever met that wasn’t like his father though . I have found every other man I dated IS exactly like their father .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:37 PM
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I.e Narcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:34 AM
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The men in the bay area are also terrible looking. The worst I’ve seen , and I’ve lived in three different states.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:45 AM
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I’m not sure... less men would make most women desperate and men would be able to have many lovers and women would be forced to share partners. In order for men to go back to courting and leveling up there actually needs to be LESS women. The effects of having less babies is documented in Asia where males have to literally go above and beyond to procure a wife to marry (this is because they aborted/put female babies in dumpsters) in preference for male babies. This has clearly had unintended con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:45 AM
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Same. Me too. Live in California and it’s a nightmare out here . Commitmaphobic men galore and they all use traffic and cost of living as an excuse for bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:29 AM
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Baggage can be those things but most of those things deal able. Kids are a deal breaker for many I know including myself. Kids = baggage, Ex-wife = baggage, Child support payments = baggage . Losing half of everything you own after divorce and having to start over = baggage .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:23 AM
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I’m in my 30s and don’t have baggage so no, we don’t all have it . Also, kids are around FOR LIFE , ‘old enough ‘ doesn’t mean much .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:16 AM
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‘That’s not how threesomes work ‘ —— 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:10 AM
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Being with a man that isn’t generous or financially stable is literally like having a SECOND JOB. There is no point to have a man like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:54 AM
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This ! Except the fact, they likely have baggage/kids at that point .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:43 AM
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Yea I agree , most of these people divorce eventually and now you have an entire new cohort of LVM , ‘divorced dads’ .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 01:40 AM
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It’s aversion to paying for a $20 salad and not being able to get in your pants afterwards. Drinks cost MORE but they test you out to see if they are able to get your loosened up to take advantage of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:47 AM
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Gawd ... the third date ?! I know you’ve learned now , but good lord women need to STOP doing this ! This is why they treat us like easy, useable trash and don’t commit. Makes me sick. Don’t let them use you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:42 AM
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It’s the MAIN reason they want young women. They’re naive and don’t ask questions and laugh at dumb shit. It’s not like we all hit a wall at 30, we just get WOKE and sometimes jaded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:30 AM
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This is extremely all too common these days . It’s either ‘drinks’ or ‘coffee’ . I mean WHY get dressed up at all for this ?! I see how coffee is a way to see if there is an attraction and you can escape if need be , but you can’t weed out if he’s cheap that way either. It’s a predicament because half the time I don’t want to sit through dinner with them either. :/ That really just leaves lunch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:27 AM
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Are you serious ? You think I chose to date ones without solid prospects ? Don’t know where you live but in LA the majority of people are better looking than average but are usually juggling multiple dead end jobs. I lived there 7 years. I was also born in Silicon Valley and reside there currently. The tech industry has very unfortunate looking people in general and dating in the Bay Area is extremely dismal. You found a model who turned into a software engineer ?? Great but definitely UNCOMMON!…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:15 AM
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Yea? Tell that to all the models, actors, and personal trainers I’ve dated in LA over the years. People in business professions possibly, NOT the ones who don’t have professional jobs which tend to be most common with highly attractive men. My personal exp.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:31 PM
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While I see that is also possible, most highly attractive men don’t commit at all and juggle girls. I’ve dated many over the years and they’re a pain in the ass. I haven’t dated unattractive men so I can’t vouch for that. I do find most attractive men to be selfish in many ways, narcissistic, romantically lazy , and tight with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:36 AM
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Me too !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:41 AM
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I would say also 9 times out of 10 men also say I’m searching for ‘don’t know yet ‘ (uhhh why are you on here if you don’t know what you’re looking for ?! ) and then they also say ‘wants kids someday ‘ . SMFH 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:33 AM
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This assertion is correct . Why ? Because women value loyalty and inherently know that physically attractive men tend to stray, have more female options/including women pursuing them, and usually are not high income earners or ‘givers’ (in every meaning of the word). As a woman, I have found most very attractive men do not have the best financially stable careers and are not motivated. Eventually their looks will dwindle and they’ll just be broke !
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:53 AM
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Depends on what type of doc. Plastic , neuro, cardio etc The are ‘prestigious ‘ professions and some of these types have glamorous lives. Former medical rep here . You can excuse average looks with doctor status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:46 AM
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Pshhh no. Even ‘doctor’ is status and they don’t usually have trump like money .
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:41 AM
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Sadly, this is extremely common. :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:37 PM
2

No we are not . It’s just that red pill definition and woman’s definition differ . Sorry choose to believe what you want .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 10:04 PM
7

Maybe that’s how it works with red pillers but as a woman , a highly attractive male (that often is getting sex) is often NOT ‘high value ‘ . As my best friend always said ‘some men are for exercise ‘. If a man is good looking and has other bad qualities as well as an insufficient career, that is not high value . Rep pill assumes just because a man lays ALL the women he must be ‘high value ‘. This is simply not how women judge whether a man is high value .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 09:26 PM
3

You must not be in the Usa. Anyway, the men should be more careful as it’s their fault for leaving single mothers to fend for themselves thus putting a strain on the government . If you truly value your ‘singlehood’ put on a condom on so your won’t be at the mercy of a woman trying to get pregnant on purpose OR have any accidents .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:44 AM
3

It’s done with a lawyer and a paternity test. If you have half a brain , you can get it done.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:24 AM
2

‘Child Support When You're Not Married The obligation to support a child is not conditioned by marriage. If you are a parent, you have a responsibility to financially support your offspring. Your parental responsibilities can be legally determined either through your acknowledgment that you are a parent, by the fact that you had welcomed the child into your home as your own, or as established by a paternity test.’ ‘State laws vary somewhat on the definition of a parent, so if there is some doubt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:09 AM
3

You don’t need marriage for child support in many states. You can simply file with the state and get his wages garnished .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:05 AM
2

Doubtful. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 11:15 PM
5

You’re gross and negligent and probably pretty broke if you’re avoiding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 11:13 PM
3

Wages can be garnished , it’s not optional really .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 11:12 PM
3

That’s okay . Keep on thinking that and we will gladly sue you for monthly child support for 18 years !!! That’s what you get for not protecting yourself! 😎
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 11:11 PM
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I don’t know why you got downvoted for this. Although I don’t expect any type of crazy surgery , I don’t think men fully understand what happens to a woman’s body and the amount of debt that cannot be repaid or split equally for that . Many women get left, cheated on etc during and after childbirth. It’s not ever ‘equal ‘ even if a man is doing all the above. In my opinion , if you’re birthing children you should have to pay and do a whole lot less for your sacrifice .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:58 PM
24

Needs to be taught in school on sexual education class.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:06 PM
13

Thank you for this ! I feel like putting this on my Bumble account. The TRUTH NEEDS SPREADING !!! Men should be educated about this in sex Ed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:00 PM
6

Even if I wasn’t matching with the top 10% of men (Which I DO and yes it’s LESS Likely to go anywhere because they’re also matching with ALL types of women since their primary objective is to get laid and not deal with any higher maintenance HVW qualities so they usually hook up with less attractive women who are easy ) IF less attractive men were offered to me MORE , I would simply cease to match with anyone and remain single. You just can’t negotiate attraction. I’ve been swiping left for two …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 08:17 PM
9

Oh please send it to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 09:24 PM
4

These really are men with less opportunity not necessarily men women would find attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:30 PM
2

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:56 AM
17

Oh and yea, it kills me EVERY time I see a 40 (and even 42 +) say ‘wants kids some day ‘ . Like TF ?! No one wants that old ass sperm dude !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:45 AM
17

They’re delusional and more and more women are going to opt to be single than deal with them or settle. The majority of men I see over 37 are aging horribly too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 11:43 AM
16

Bahahaha ‘gut and baldness fiesta’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:20 AM
19

Always! Every guy I come across in the 30-40 yr old range that is above a 7 in looks (but not as fine as some men I’ve dated that are 9/10s ) they’re literally STILL only want ‘something casual’. 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄 Like good god , are there THAT many desperate women clamoring for 7s?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:17 AM
3

I’m a woman and I’ll admit nice arms are an eye-catcher. Perhaps so is a good looking tattoo. You may be an exception, but for the majority of men without super nice arms a well tailored suit can do wonders !
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:24 PM
2

Maybe you have NiCE arms ? Lol. But nicely dress men are like female porn. Maybe it’s not as nice , fitted , stylish as you think ?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:11 PM
10

This !!! Men dress so awful whenever I see a great dressed man it’s an automatic head turner .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:51 PM
2

An approaching 38-40 ‘yr old grocery bagger’ won’t get anything unless they’re desperate .
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:45 PM
2

It doesn’t in the USA.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:43 PM
2

No it does not . Women settle for someone in between . Broke hot dudes don’t get the time of my day !
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:43 PM
1

Funny, YOU’RE the one that responded to MY comment which was in response to another user. And you’re pretty desperate to prove men have ‘great sperm’ until 45. Could you possibly be an old dude still putting off kids ?! More than likely. Buh-bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:48 AM
0

Desperate for what ? I’m happily childfree by choice :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:43 AM
0

So do you. Grasping at straws to prove men have good juice until 45! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:42 AM
2

And you’d be incorrect . Keep digging though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:39 AM
1

Oh and yet again...💁🏻‍♀️ ‘For example, a study of nearly 400,000 men and women born in Israel in the 1980s found that among fathers older than 40, the risk of having a child with autism increased nearly sixfold. Other studies found that the risks of childhood leukemia, breast and prostate cancers were elevated among offspring of older fathers.’ Cited: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/2019/03/25/well/family/the-risks-to-babies-of-older-fathers.amp.html
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:26 AM
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And again... ‘The second study, done by French researchers, seemed to partly answer the logical next question: What effect does this actually have on egg fertilization? In about 300 attempts at in vitro fertilization using donor eggs, they found a fertilization rate of about 60% in men less than 39 years old, with the rate falling to about 51% in those older than 39.’ Cited : https://www.webmd.com/men/news/20001103/older-men-lack-sperm-quantity-quality
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:24 AM
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You ARE. https://www.yourfertility.org.au/everyone/age Age and sperm ‘Men younger than 40 have a better chance of fathering a child than those older than 40. The quality of the sperm men produce seems to decline as they get older. Most men make millions of new sperm every day, but men older than 40 have fewer healthy sperm than younger men. The amount of semen (the fluid that contains sperm) and sperm motility (ability to move towards an egg) decrease continually between the ages of 20 and 80.’
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:22 AM
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45 is NOT definitive for ‘everyone’. Keep dreaming about holding on until 45. 🙄🤣 Read the article: ‘While the medical profession has no clearly accepted definition of when advanced paternal age begins -- it ranges from 35 to 45 -- infants born to fathers over 45 have risen 10 percent in the United States over the past 40 years, likely due to assisted reproductive technology.’ It also says ‘men plan on delaying fatherhood, they should consider banking sperm before their 35th -- or at least by the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:19 AM
1

No ... it starts decline much sooner than that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 05:15 AM
1

This ! Most 20s-30s women will NOT want you unless you’re in great shape, not aging badly, and Have $$$. Good luck ! Speaking as a woman here that finds nearly all men 40 and over extremely ‘old looking ‘.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:38 PM
2

And in old men sperm too dude. 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:36 PM
0

While this is definitely true, why do you think that is ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:31 PM
0

So do men ! Grandpa sperm ups the chances of abnormalities as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:29 PM
12

There has been these put so many male cheaters complain they often get taken down or sued.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 10:00 AM
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Definitely worse !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:10 AM
7

Yep. No woman wants a lazy, entitled. Broke Chad. He just gets sex... until he doesn’t around 40-45.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:49 AM
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Im surrounded by it too, and frankly, the only chads I see are dating sub-par low maintenance women because they’re lazy and Stacy won’t bother with him because she’s over that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:46 AM
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Yea , you see it A LOT with even guys in their 40s too. Like seriously, no one wants your grandpa sperm or the numerous stds you’ve acquired ALL those ‘single years ‘ . 🤮🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:54 PM
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I can’t tell you how many men I see over 42 saying ‘wants kids someday ‘ on their profile. I’m early 30s and coming across them thinking: that ship sailed a long time ago for your old ass!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:30 AM
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Yep. They want a nurse with a purse !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:28 AM
2

Pleasure ?! You need read more interviews from Actual actresses that got started in porn because they were desperate for money to survive and had drug problems as well. It is certainly not something these women go into for ‘pleasure ‘ . 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 07:03 AM
1

The chads I’ve dated at 10/10 in looks. Yes, the Instagram types. Ripped, tall, chiseled, tan, blue/green eyes Henry Cavil types. Several of these chads have them gone on to date very average women. They never last, because well, nothing with chads ever do but still, it’s quite common. As far as their character? If you talk to enough of them you’ll soon realize when you’re extremely good looking you have little incentive to work On your ‘personality’ .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:35 PM
2

Shoot if I had a dime for every time a 35-40 year old man was still hesitant to get married id be rich! Start asking the women you know .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:31 PM
1

That’s why you don’t date women in their 20s!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:29 PM
4

Men in their 20s are certainly not in a rush to get married. Born and raised in California and am female, never seen it. Perhaps is more rural areas of the country but not in cities.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:17 AM
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Actually , I’ve seen plenty of chads date extremely average women. Why? I assume very low maintenance. Chads are usually selfish and don’t exert effort required for a mutually beneficial relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 10:13 AM
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Nope ! Maybe in Kansas !
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:57 AM
3

True but a man with abs is useless if he’s broke! Attraction killer.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:53 AM
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But is he physically attractive (by conventional standards) ?!?! Never met an amazing looking man that would do all those things. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 07:51 AM
1

As long as it needs to be ‘satisfied ‘ women will continue to have power over sexual dynamics with men. It’s not so much emotional as it is simply a sex drive /sexual need man have that needs to be ‘scratched’. Women do not have this, and what we do have it’s bearable to be without.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:14 PM
1

I’m very serious. I’ve had several grown men actually admit it. And they weren’t even attractive!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:12 PM
0

In my experience MOST men are looking for casual sex, not loving relationships. The only ones saying that are men who have trouble attracting women at all (average or not attractive) . And most men would choose to not be monogamous if that was a social norm and the majority of women would allow it. Because men have a much higher sex drive that consistently needs to be satisfied , they only settle for less attractive women to satisfy that drive. Most women don’t simply have a sex drive that needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:43 PM
1

Of course people look at other attractive people (just like men do ) but smart women usually settle for a beta because they get tired of Chad problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:38 PM
20

Sounds like the narcissist I know . You’re not wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:24 AM
1

Exactly this !
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:59 AM
1

We wise up eventually. A woman in her 20s will do this , but late 20s- early 30s most girls who want something serious will avoid a Chad. They’re nice to look at, but they’re truly a pain in the ass. Only leads to heartache.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:52 AM
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Men say they want the nice, good girls too. But they don’t. Betas DO eventually get the relationships because most smart women get tired of the lying and disloyalty of Chads. It gets old. (I’m an attractive woman who has dated plenty of Chads and I can attest they’re not worth the hassle, are selfish, and usually not financially stable)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:49 AM
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You’re right , but we’re also not incredibly attracted to ‘average ‘ or ugly men either . Being assertive if you’re one of the above still won’t get you laid . 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:46 AM
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Orgasms are pretty rare with casual anything so you’re not really missing out BUT by engaging in FWB behavior you are only reinforcing ‘easy sex ‘ without commitment from men which only objectifies us ALL further. ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:25 AM
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Gross. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 10:20 AM
11

Make several and hedge your bets girl !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:21 AM
12

Majority of men have become LVM due to cultural norm changes and the advent of internet porn/tinder aka sex on demand. Men simply have no incentive to try anymore and being unmarried no longer reflects poorly on a man when it SHOULD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 08:19 AM
16

Narcissist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:23 AM
6

More like 6 months !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:05 AM
9

Yea most narcissists can keep the facade going for about 6 months. A year in and you’ll finally start to really fight and realize you were duped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:05 AM
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Fat face ... all men over 40 ! 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 10:51 PM
8

Pathetic !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:21 AM
4

Yea I’ve had a guy do the same. He’s ‘fishing’ to see if you’re open/available/unhappy in your relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:20 AM
3

Same!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:50 AM
1

It shouldn’t be. If he left her that way, he’ll leave YOU too!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 05:49 AM
1

You’re hilarious and insecure. Thanks for the laughs ! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:23 PM
2

Male dominated jackasses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:19 PM
2

Same. Everything you listed I won’t date either. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 10:30 AM
1

Well I don’t know about that but definitely should encourage less for both sexes. Most men would have trouble abiding this unless perhaps, they were Mormon and even Mormons mess up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 10:00 AM
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Ummm how exactly does this relate ? Women I know don’t encourage women to be more promiscuous and I certainly don’t condone that notion either. Smart women know what kind of ‘expectations’ promiscuity leads to with the male gender (entitlement to easy sex). It is not something women want to endorse. Women shame other women for being promiscuous and often label them ‘sluts’ or ‘homewreckers’. They don’t castigate them for not conforming. Wherever would you get that idea ? The only women I can thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:37 AM
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No one said anything about making Chads wait three months. Chads are for exercise and not much more! ;) 20 year olds are certainly not hotter that confident ‘women’ but they are dumb enough to make some stupid mistakes with losers like yourself because they’re insecure . Have fun with that, they won’t be looking at you past 35 (and I’m being generous here unless you have money or are a Chad which you’re likely NOT! 🤣)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 09:06 AM
1

I’m practically celibate myself. It’s just not been worth it. Rarely ever is. Good for you. ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:40 AM
3

No 6 or 10 would touch you so keep wet dreaming loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:27 AM
3

Suuuure, because you know my sexual history that’s right. You think you’re going to meet women that have been with like 2 guys ? Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:26 AM
6

Their toxic attitudes and entitlements are the reason for a 3 month minimum wait , let alone have sex with them at all !
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:24 AM
3

Like me? Sorry to inform you, but I don’t use tinder. You might want to stop bragging about all the 3s and 4s you pull though .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:23 AM
5

‘Chads’ have so much attention they can’t keep it in one hole . It’s not because they’ve assumed you have a high n-count ! They would do the same to the Virgin Mary as to the girl that slept with the whole football team. Dated several ‘Chads’ ... low n-count. They’re all the same. Good looking, entitled, losers .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:17 AM
5

You must pay to sleep with prostitutes since you’re SO familiar with ‘thousand cock stares’ . Good luck with that HIV.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:14 AM
1

No one would want you anyway .
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:12 AM
2

Same! High five !
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 05:12 AM
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I know! Imagine if she had cancer or something. Men leave women when they can’t use us to their satisfaction. It’s sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:38 AM
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Yea. It’s in the dating over 30 reddit . The comments are audacious: ‘yea I’m so glad I divorced in my early 30s , so much good selection out there , no point in getting married young’ 🙄🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:37 AM
20

Totally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 04:35 AM
29

Me too. Poor thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:58 AM
27

Yep. Should be posted in ‘am I the asshole ‘ ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:57 AM
47

‘Pornsick Paul’ 🤣🤣🤣. My ex’s name AND his problems !! Are you me ?!!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:57 AM
35

Oh I have a guy I know and he not only wanted me to do anal he wanted me to peg him too !!! 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:54 AM
6

They like the idea of ‘crazy women’ so they can feel validated that they’re important and at the same time ‘victims’. Bpd women are a perfect match for them to abuse. I have bpd traits myself. My ex was a diagnosed narcissist physician. I thought he was for a long time because most narc behavior is quite similar . I had to contact his ex to find out he was diagnosed in college (he’s now 36) ! I could go on for hours about the intentional drama stirring shit he would do on a regular basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:57 PM
7

I dated a man diagnosed with clinical Narcissistic personality disorder who is a doctor/medic volunteer for a mega church and was very respected by fellow church members. He’d been active there for several years and all volunteers knew who he was. Many women wanted to date him since he was an attractive doc. No one there knows of his sex addiction, testosterone (among other things) drug use , cheating, lying, manipulating, triangulating of women , sleeping with prostitutes , how badly he speaks …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:55 AM
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He went to my gym at LA fitness on hollywood blvd for a while. Scrawny ass dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:46 AM
4

Divorce is far too common these days. My moms ex husband has been married twice in the past 10 years and he had two marriages before that (4 total) . They won’t last most likely. Dating older men ? Be glad you didn’t date anyone more than 5-7 years older than you. Men age badly, die younger, and he would have had too much power/control over you if he was 10 years + older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:12 AM
5

This! Seen it happen !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:05 AM
17

Narcissistic men love unstable women they can manipulate , torture, and control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:47 AM
12

This and they want to feel SUPERIOR (control but to a higher degree).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:46 AM
2

Google ‘the avocado theory’ . Men are avocados. They get ‘ripe’ for marriage and immediately settle for whatever’s in their vicinity at the time. Men really just need their basic needs met: Fucking and feeding. Sadly, after seeing what they’re willing to date instead it’s almost repulsive I cannot stand to look at them the same way knowing they truly have such low standards. I feel for what you wrote. It has happened to me also, and the girls are always a downgrade in some way. I’ve seen the sam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:44 AM
11

Male ‘models’ pretty much ARE ‘garden rocks’. I’ve had plenty in the past and now I don’t bother. Lazy , entitled, and BROKE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:35 AM
2

🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:32 PM
1

Unlikely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 06:20 PM
1

We ARE seeing this !
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 11:30 AM
2

Funny how this isn’t a popular opinion but as a woman I can attest to this 100% being true about women. It appears many men can’t handle the thought of being ‘settled for ‘. Women do this for many reasons but the main reasons are financial security and loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 10:46 AM
0

You sound like you have Narcissistic personality disorder. Classic symptoms you have listed. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 09:04 AM
2

And THIS is why FDS exists. 💁🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 11:00 PM
32

A narcissist will withhold sex for power, that’s who.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:38 AM
8

Yea of course they are, FAR too much experience ! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:07 AM
1

While some of this is true (being a man etc) , please do not delude yourself —— Looks DO matter . A lot . So does an ambitious career, being at 5’10” or taller, being at least somewhat athletic (no dad bods) , and lastly , if you’re starting to bald fix it ASAP before all hair is gone. Plenty of great hair transplant docs can help before it’s too late. Your ‘amazing manly personality ‘ is not going to secure you the kind of 8-10 types of women you are mostly likely seeking !
/r/seduction25/01/20 10:13 AM
17

I would have simply gone to the bathroom, called an Uber and waited in the stall in until they showed up and LEFT without saying goodbye. The waitress would have likely brought the separate checks by then and you can simply bail. There is no excuse for this behavior if they asked you out on a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 05:54 AM
2

I believe Colorado was on the list. Montana as well. I’ll have to check back in the book to see... the book says go west... but I’m in the West and I find even though there is more men in certain areas , the selection of men overall are very physically unattractive (minus LA & San Diego).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:59 PM
2

Im actually from Silicon Valley and went to school in San Jose. While there are more men with much better jobs than women, the cost of living here is the highest in the county (because of tech jobs) . What no body mentions in the book I mentioned or in general about San Jose is this: ‘the odds are good, but goods are ODD’ . The types of men here are ones women wouldn’t look twice at, even ones with money! As a woman living here (I’ve also lived in other cities in the country) I personally wouldn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 07:57 PM
5

Read the book called ‘date-onomics’ . It will help you understand why this is happening. Where you live is a huge factor. If you are living in a place with a higher ratio of females to males dating is practically impossible because men have better odds, women mate poach, men cheat , and many refuse to even commit. This includes places like: LA, NY, Miami, even Atlanta. I have lived in two of these cities and I can attest to the validity women outnumber men and dating is difficult. I’m a 34 year …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:49 AM
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That’s your decision (which is fine by me). I prefer my pool not to be so small or to be judged .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 06:05 AM
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I respect your opinion but I don’t agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:12 AM
6

Most women are hesitant to say ‘no i don’t want kids’ because of societal expectations and how they will be viewed by others. Men usually aren’t feeling that pressure as much as most of them want kids at some point anyway which in my opinion, is a far easier decision for them since they’re not giving actual birth or expected to do the lionshare of child rearing. Men are simply looking forward to their Kodak moments. 😏 If i was doing what you’re doing I’m going to get men saying they want kids ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:10 AM
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Try dating men and ask them ‘if they ever want kids’ . See how many say YES. You’d be shocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:54 AM
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Not saying your method isn’t valid but it’s just not a great way to start dating someone . They’ll either pretend not to care cuz they want to get laid or they won’t take you out again to see if you’re worth getting go know (even if they don’t want kids for years). Many men find out their wife can’t have children and they don’t usually leave them for it. If finding childfree men were easy I wouldn’t have to do this but I DO always ask them in the beginning if they eventually want them and 9/10 t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:53 AM
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And your dating pool shrinks to practically nothing. No thanks !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:41 AM
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I understand your point but there is an extremely small percentage of men that DON’T want kids. Most of these men are over 40, and there’s those that already have kids which is why they don’t want more. In fact , I find most men who have kids don’t actually want more (you can see this a lot on OLD in their profile) . That would be great if I wanted a man with an ex-wife and a brats of his own . Nope. Don’t want that kind of baggage either. I think it’s possible if I just leave that out, they may…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:39 AM
5

It’s totally TIMING for men (THEY have to be at the point in their lives where they’ve hit a wall , all their friends are married , he has no ‘single’ friends anymore, he realizes girls aren’t looking at him the same as they did in the past, family pressure cuz he’s damn near 40 ! Etc... ). Men are avocados ! See ‘the avocado theory’ . I’m so so tired of women saying ‘oh but he’ll know when he meets the right woman ‘ as if ALL the other women were just not a good enough fit the past 20 years of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:28 AM
6

‘Waaaaaaaahhh!’ 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:49 AM
39

Best book on this is called ‘Date-onomics’ . Women are higher enrollment than men in college and it has heavily contributed to high value women unable to find high value men. :(. Many studies in the book to back up the claims including information on infidelity and lower rate of marriage/higher divorce in areas where women outnumber men (all women are fighting for the few HVMs) .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:12 AM
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