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| 283 | When you're too busy trying to be the "cool girl", you end up being a pickme and walked all over. Honestly, I wish I could shake some sense into pickmes but they're not ready until they are. | PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAME | moredollals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:42 AM |
| 235 | Women are only beautiful when they dont know it 🤔 | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | moredollals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:53 AM |
| 80 | Best things you did while nun mode? | SELF IMPROVEMENT | moredollals | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/20 07:30 AM |
| 32 | What a great reminder. Also how to HVM | MOOD FOR LIFE | moredollals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:54 AM |
| 21 | Book recommendations | SELF IMPROVEMENT | moredollals | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 08:33 PM |
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| 19 | Leave 👏 those 👏 girls 👏 alone 👏Me at 17 sleeping with a 27 year old. I'm 27 now, and boy 17 year olds look and act like kids. I'm fully aware I'm still young and act like a kid compared to my elder peers. But it's weird to think you thought you were cool because all these older guys were interested in you. No, they were just predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:55 AM |
| 9 | 100% agreedYes, they want you intelligent but not intelligent enough to question them/god forbid you know more about something than them. And usually it's the guys who say "I love that you're a smart/clever/intelligent woman." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:39 AM |
| 6 | When you're too busy trying to be the "cool girl", you end up being a pickme and walked all over. Honestly, I wish I could shake some sense into pickmes but they're not ready until they are.Let me clarify that that isnt my comment underneath, it came up on my feed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:54 AM |
| 114 | When you're too busy trying to be the "cool girl", you end up being a pickme and walked all over. Honestly, I wish I could shake some sense into pickmes but they're not ready until they are.I feel like women have been conditioned to believe that if they let men do x,y, and z then they wont do a,b, and c and its preferable or something. What it actually does is make men more comfortable with doing a,b, and c because you allow x,y, and z. I agree, it is really sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:52 AM |
| 4 | The implication that being alone is worse than settling for bare minimum enrages me more than anything.For sure. Like sir, I'm sorry if the prospect of your own company for the rest of your life terrifies you. Maybe you ought to go to therapy and find out why that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:05 AM |
| 6 | The implication that being alone is worse than settling for bare minimum enrages me more than anything.Absolutely nothing. I'm more offended that he implied I'm acting like a princess because gasp I would want a proper wedding, not just signing some registry papers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:58 AM |
| 13 | The implication that being alone is worse than settling for bare minimum enrages me more than anything.This is an older male friend. He is in his 50s and twice divorced. We were talking about a friend of mine who just signed papers as their wedding after being with her LVM for 7 years. I'm going out to dumplings and bao buns with a guy I see, and he is astounded by the fact I'm not impressed and pickmeisha all over this guy because he regularly takes me out. Like no. It is a privilege to take me out and if he wouldnt, the next one would. I said to said twice divorced friend, that it's not like me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 12:33 AM |
| 8 | Reason #103848 why you should never reproduce with NVM or LVM. She is literally giving birth, yet he's making it all about himself and accusing her of "embarrassing him" for screaming in pain. Seems like the type of guy who would shake a baby because he can't handle the crying.No 👏 more 👏 NVM 👏 men 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 12:08 AM |
| 21 | Reason #103848 why you should never reproduce with NVM or LVM. She is literally giving birth, yet he's making it all about himself and accusing her of "embarrassing him" for screaming in pain. Seems like the type of guy who would shake a baby because he can't handle the crying.Preach 👏 men, on a rolling average, are so weak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 07:23 PM |
| 95 | Reason #103848 why you should never reproduce with NVM or LVM. She is literally giving birth, yet he's making it all about himself and accusing her of "embarrassing him" for screaming in pain. Seems like the type of guy who would shake a baby because he can't handle the crying.My ex walked out of the room every contraction I had. When I hit him up about it afterwards he said "you dont know how hard it is for me to watch you be in pain.". Okay, nevermind me being in pain, I'm so sorry it was "hard" for you to watch it. I'm so embarrassed about what I've allowed but so thankful that I can now see men really do be doing the absolute least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 06:54 PM |
| 5 | An “issue with male humor” = issue with women being degraded and objectified lmfaoAn ex fling of mine got real offended I made jokes when he shaved his beard and couldnt get it up. He had also made prior 'jokes' about he was surprised my thighs didnt chaff. That flagrant hypocrisy was the start of my bettering myself/cutting off people who just plain dont respect me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Ms. MidwestThat could be true, I believe she also was a womens sermon person (I'm not religious, I can't remember the correct term) so unsure whether that has an influence as well. I believe she has experience to talking in a way to try persuade people of her points, and this strategizing might come into play here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/20 07:56 PM |
| 15 | Ms. MidwestPeople need to remember she is a communications major. She scripts her videos and presents them in a way to appeal, I believe. Which is why it can come across fake. I do like her content but I also do see this as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/20 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Yes!!! What goals are you working towards and are proud of? Let me know below!So far this year, I've quit smoking, lost 56lb, switched to an unprocessed foods diet, got my full licence, got my forklift operators certificate and a couple of other qualifications. Most importantly my self esteem and self respect is improving more and more :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 12:58 AM |
| 3 | What's the most egregious behavior you've tolerated before finding FDS?I've been through a lot. Physically abusive relationships, cheating etc. The last guy I was seeing made me feel really insecure, and it was always me stimulating conversation etc. Basically he treated me like I didnt matter. Would make jokes like hes surprised that "my thighs dont rub" when I go for walks, told me I was basically a charity case. I'm ashamed of how much shit I put up with. At the start of the year, I quit smoking, have lost 55lb so far, read a lot of self improvement books. The f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:46 PM |
| 49 | I realized that “forgiving” my boyfriend of his past wrongs has enabled him into think I will always stay. I feel weak and I’m not sure how to move forward with this feelingRecently went through this. Unfortunately for me it meant breaking up with the guy I was seeing, and sticking to it. The only way to have boundaries is to practice them, even when it makes you uncomfortable and/or upset. If you blur your own boundaries it means people wont take any issue at blurring them either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Best things you did while nun mode?Awesome! Thank you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/20 09:50 PM |
| 5 | Best things you did while nun mode?Thank you! That's a great option. I've gone from a super red/dyed Auburn which I had for 10 years, to now close to my natural brunette. I've got super long hair (about 3 feet) and I'd love to be able to do some elaborate hairstyles on myself | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/20 09:49 PM |
| 5 | Best things you did while nun mode?Admittedly I'm fairly overweight (hence the lost 20lb, with about another 60 to go), so my fitness is not enough that I can run at the moment, but I do think integrating exercise is definitely important. We are currently in quarantine so going for a walk/jog in my local area is the best I'm able to do, or I'm thinking dance/yoga videos at home from youtube | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/20 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Best things you did while nun mode?Thank you. I'm currently working on knitting (have been able to do scarves and beanies so far), and being able to expand on that into other crafts is definitely going to be helpful, thanks! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/20 04:10 PM |
| 5 | Best things you did while nun mode?Hey, I'm pretty good with make up, but theres always room for improvement! And I'm so with you on the reading thing. I am loving learning how to improve myself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/20 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Best things you did while nun mode?I'll add that to my list. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/20 09:23 AM |
| 4 | Is it possible to change your mannerisms/body movements?If you become aware of bad posture, adjust it. Stand tall (imagine a piece of string on the top of your head). Walk quieter when you notice clomping etc | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/20 05:20 AM |
| 11 | Is it possible to change your mannerisms/body movements?Anything is possible through awareness, and practice/adjustment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/20 02:07 AM |
| – | Own Your StuffI will own up to the fact, that for a lack of better word, I was an asshole to the guy I'm dating. He shaved his beard. I made joking comments about preferring his beard which actually hurt his feelings and made him feel unattractive. We have a very jokey type relationship and I wasnt aware that I was being a jerk, and didnt think he needed the reassurance that I still found him attractive. That is ALL on me. I have apologised profusely, and told him that it is just facial hair and I DO find him… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/20 08:36 PM |
| 7 | Feminine Hobbies?I personally enjoy cooking and baking, I have been baking my own bread and making my own butter for the last 2 months. I have also picked up knitting, I do my own nails and because I've got almost 3 feet of hair I'm practicing at becoming competent at different styles. I also enjoy reading, board games, and crosswords ☺️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/20 07:18 PM |
| 23 | Curious to hear people’s strategies in responding to pushy/ forward attempts at sexual escalation?To be honest, I disagree with this. I dont think men paying for dates is transactional for sex (and I always offer to pay!). Good men wont use/think "I paid for dinner so you should have sex with me." It comes down to the man, not the dinner date. I think men have become accustomed to hook up culture and when that is challenged the non-masculine resort to having tantrums to try and get their way, like a child. And like a child, you have to be firm with your boundaries. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/20 01:27 AM |
| 5 | Fascinating WomanhoodI've started reading it. I value the info for appreciating a man for what he is. The comments on homosexuality and religion not so much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/20 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Great feminine YouTube channel - Cynthia LAgreed. I find it hard to be convinced of something if the reasoning is religious - more power to those that are, and I wish I had something which could guide me so well, but I find it hard to relate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/20 05:26 AM |
| – | Homemaking: Tips, Tricks & QuestionsStart small. Choose one thing to do at a time, dont focus on the whole thing as it will feel overwhelming. Once you've done one small thing, you will feel accomplished to move onto the next task. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/20 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Book recommendationsThanks everyone for your suggestions! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 11:42 PM |
| 2 | How to dress feminine when you have a masculine figure.Thank you for this! I totally get what she meant in her article about the romantic type. I have a JJ bust and it can be so hard to look feminine/alluring without looking hypersexual. At the same time, loose baggy clothing looks horrible on me whereas it looks all cute on others! Thank you | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/19 04:36 AM |
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